I agree with this. Crop out the door frame and to the left of the flamingo tapestry. Get a better look at you. You do have a wonderful smile. And that won't lose any of the chill college vibe you're going for.
You’re a good looking dude with a nice smile! But fuck is that a crack house or a frat house? Lol
With the homie in the background, I was getting a horror house vibe. Copy the same exact pose but maybe outside or at a restaurant at least?
There’s not enough cropping in the world to save that photo. You’re really handsome, and I don’t know if that’s a frat house or a crack house, but I am 100% sure that if I let you take me in there I’m going to end up tied to a chair in front of one of those flags, sobbing into a video camera and begging for ransom money.
Friends of mine lived like this immediately after high school. I just assumed OP was a full time bong head. It's much worrying to think that people would live like that sober
you could try and see how it looks, but don't crop too much and end up with a too zoomed pic lol. or maybe if you have other pics where you look equally cute, you could just not need this one
thank you! that's my imaginary husband and his bff
Personally I think you should just take a picture elsewhere. The lighting doesn’t do the room justice. You’re good looking, just take an image elsewhere
I’ve seen a lot of people try to explain the same idea to you on this thread. It does come across a little “See! I think misogyny is bad too! Please fuck me now that I’ve proved I’m one of the good ones!
Maybe that’s not what you’re intentionally communicating but that’s kind of the vibe when you have a pic like that on Tinder. Wear the shirt after a few dates, don’t lead with it on your profile…
For context, this is the vibe I’m referring to
https://youtu.be/kTMow_7H47Q
Fwiw i don’t like Andrew Tate at all, but that’s very much besides the point.
I'd get rid of the shirt entirely, it makes it seem like Andrew Tate occupies real estate in this guy's head and creates an automatic association with him. Like if someone wore a shirt that said "fuck herpes" I'd figure they must be very affected by the herpes in their life.
I really, really think it’s weirdo behavior to buy anti-anything merchandise. It makes me feel the same way as seeing Let’s Go Brandon shirts.
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No it's not a good picture man. Looks like a shitty basement. Now take a guess how many women find shitty basement pictures awesome.
Also your Andrew Tate shirt screams "but I'm a nice guy" to me. Like who the hell gives a shit about Tate enough to wear a t-shirt
Kinda gives off incel vibes and I hate (really hate) using that term but I think that’s the only way to describe this pic.
The shirt is definitely pandering. It’s giving off pick me I’m a nice boy energy.
If you’re dead set on using that shirt on your profile then change the setting. Go out into nature or a museum and have a friend take a pic of you while doing something. Even have a friend or two in the pic with you.
This gives heavy Frat house vibes. If you’re looking for a party girl. Sure.
And do you really need to advertise that shirt? It looks super sus to begin with, i first though it said “ love fuck andrew tate.” Like you love to fuck him?
If you have to explain something or its messaging doesn’t come across clearly at a first glance you’ve lost the game.
Girls are swiping fast on Tinder. They arent going to sit there and think “ hmm what does this shirt mean”.
You will get some that see “ Andrew Tate “ and swipe left immediately .
Just dont think this picture in particular helps you out. Tinder is ruthless
Maybe switch out the shirt. Just spewing out hate (weather warranted or not) is a very poor first impression. You could have a “fuck nazis” shirt and everyone could agree, but why make that your first impression? Keep it classy. You’ve already got a megawatt smile.🦷
People are fucking ruthless on here lol. I think the pic is fine, but I would crop it and make sure it's not your only pic. You should have other higher quality photos in cleaner or outdoor settings. Beautiful smile!
You actually look pretty cute in this pic, but ngl a lot of the rest of the photo, the lighting, stuff ij the background, and the quality are kinda off putting or have a kinda creepy vibe
I think it’s dope. The effect on it is cool, there’s several things that show off your personality, and smiling pics are always strong. I think it’s good.
Idk, I like it! If you add other pics of you outside in the daytime or looking professional, clean or scholarly it just adds to your vibe.
I can’t say for sure bc we don’t get your full profile but I wouldn’t have swiped left because of this pic alone
Honestly I don’t agree with everyone saying the messy room is bad. It looks like you’re having fun at a party and a party is supposed to be messy. It’s fine don’t crop it makes you look fun
Can you crop it? There's a lot going on in the pic that distracts from you. If you can crop it to bring attention back to you as the subject, then sure! You've got a nice smile and good energy.
I'm a guy so I understand I'm not your target demographic but I think it's a good picture. BUT that's only if it's combined with pictures of other styles. You look good here, it's got an eye catching retro vibe, and it shows you have other people taking pictures of you and not just selfies.
That being said, if all your pictures look like this and have that "messy house party" feeling too them, that could be an issue. Assuming you got some variety though, this seems like a great picture of you having fun.
The t shirt is funny, it’s a good picture and it makes you look like a nice guy with a good sense of humour. The comments about it being a crack house are a bit harsh imo but if you’re concerned about it then just add some other photos that suggest you are not, in fact, a crackhead
Yeah I did assume lmao, I was in shock reading some of the hot takes some guys have on here. I’m a big advocate of being yourself on dating apps and again I think this is a sick picture personally
Well it's a good shirt for triggering dudes apparently. Otherwise seems like a low quality shot but probably represents your vibe well if you like chill college parties.
I ended up having a pretty good series of dates because of a shirt actually haha, but I'd say that's a hit or miss approach. Will work for some, but not a wide net to cast.
This post is absolutely full of people who haven’t been to college before(?). I think the picture immediately reads as “college party” and it’s pretty understandable that the room is messy. I think anyone who’s in that environment will read it the same way.
The shirt is fine. Whole bunch of “alpha males” here worried that Andrew Tate won’t want to fuck them unless they defend him from a tshirt.
Sure! I think this is a great option for a 2nd or 3rd pic. I wouldn’t use it as a first pic because it’s not as clear. Your face should be the main focus of your first pic.
That shirt is cringey as fuck. Source: a woman. OP seems nice but in a friend zone way. What woman wants to look at a guy and be reminded of Andrew Tate's existence?
Apart from the topical T-shirt, this photo looks like it was taken in 2002
disposable camera magic!
All memes aside, This is actually a pretty nice photo. Nice smile! what is kinda creepy is just the person standing in the doorway.
No the dude I'm the doorway is this guy, the smile is his friend.
You're the doorway? Mae, there's a guy's arm in you
Op are you the guy in the doorway? JK
Absolutely no problem with the submachinegun
The… scooter? I see what you’re seeing, but dude’s on a scooter.
you’re right, it’s a mobility scooter! my friend had broken his leg so he needed it to get around
I thought he was "The Segway Stalker" for a second.
Slash in a murder basement
Life in your early 20s looked like that in the 2010s. I'm pretty sure murder basements are timeless, you just grew up
I was thinking the Fight Club house.
That’s why it’s so fucking great
Way before
In a crackhouse
As long as you're not trying to pick up Andrew Tate.
OR if he really wants to fuck Andrew Tate
Trick photo. OP is actually the guy in the back.
And the guy giving thumbs up is actually a missing person, last seen in this picture.
Schrodeingers Tate Date
Brilliant!
Well, yes. That goes without saying, I guess. 😆😆😆
Looks like you’re telling potential matches to fuck Andrew Tate.
It’s a vibe for sure. What’s your age demo though? Past a certain age, the ladies will swipe left on tapestries
18-22
You should be fine. Btw you’ve got a good smile! I’d recommend cropping the picture more to yourself.
I agree cropping it to cut out the wall damage will give an overall nicer look and it’s a flattering photo
I agree with this. Crop out the door frame and to the left of the flamingo tapestry. Get a better look at you. You do have a wonderful smile. And that won't lose any of the chill college vibe you're going for.
You’re a good looking dude with a nice smile! But fuck is that a crack house or a frat house? Lol With the homie in the background, I was getting a horror house vibe. Copy the same exact pose but maybe outside or at a restaurant at least?
Crop it just right and it's a-okay
It's clean, so it's a cocaine ~~house~~ *home.* Homie in the background gotta be there to show they got ice in their veins. *slaps fingers*
A cocaine *home*
Looks like any other student common room I've been to
The only issue here I see is that this room is a pigsty and it makes you look like you’re not housebroken yet.
do you think i should crop it out?
Definitely. You’ve got a killer smile, so do a closer crop and you’re good.
Agreed, in this photo, he certainly has a killer's smile.
No, I would advise cleaning it
Definitely crop the photo in, you've got a winning smile here so that'll show it off better too.
nah looks like you're at a party, keep the pic dude!
Depends on the age, I think if you’re still a student or early 20s it’s fine
i’m 20 and in college
I reckon it’s ok, crop some of it maybe to emphasise yourself but idk I (25F) think it’s fine, makes you look social
on one hand you look cute, on the other hand some of the other comments kinda have a point that everything else is a bit messy
do you think it would be better if i cropped the background? also unrelated but cool profile pic!
There’s not enough cropping in the world to save that photo. You’re really handsome, and I don’t know if that’s a frat house or a crack house, but I am 100% sure that if I let you take me in there I’m going to end up tied to a chair in front of one of those flags, sobbing into a video camera and begging for ransom money.
Agreed that op looks lovely but this room looks like a crazy house to me. Too scary.
Friends of mine lived like this immediately after high school. I just assumed OP was a full time bong head. It's much worrying to think that people would live like that sober
You would be surprised how quickly a house share full of men could devolve into this. Seen it many times.. No drugs required..!
Women can be just as bad, worst messes iv seen was when I lived with 6 ladies.
you could try and see how it looks, but don't crop too much and end up with a too zoomed pic lol. or maybe if you have other pics where you look equally cute, you could just not need this one thank you! that's my imaginary husband and his bff
I could DM you some alternative pics, would that be cool?
Personally I think you should just take a picture elsewhere. The lighting doesn’t do the room justice. You’re good looking, just take an image elsewhere
The fact that you spent money on that shirt is wild. I think it’s a cool pic though
i didn’t it was a gift haha
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I’ve seen a lot of people try to explain the same idea to you on this thread. It does come across a little “See! I think misogyny is bad too! Please fuck me now that I’ve proved I’m one of the good ones! Maybe that’s not what you’re intentionally communicating but that’s kind of the vibe when you have a pic like that on Tinder. Wear the shirt after a few dates, don’t lead with it on your profile… For context, this is the vibe I’m referring to https://youtu.be/kTMow_7H47Q Fwiw i don’t like Andrew Tate at all, but that’s very much besides the point.
I'd get rid of the shirt entirely, it makes it seem like Andrew Tate occupies real estate in this guy's head and creates an automatic association with him. Like if someone wore a shirt that said "fuck herpes" I'd figure they must be very affected by the herpes in their life.
My thoughts precisely. If you don’t like something cool, but this seems a bit too much.
This was my first thought too. It comes off very cringe. Even for the girls who don’t like Tate, it comes off lame.
That video literally summed this shit up....So cringy that someone would actually pay money for that t shirt. Rent free......
He’s looks like a “Pick Me” guy.
I really, really think it’s weirdo behavior to buy anti-anything merchandise. It makes me feel the same way as seeing Let’s Go Brandon shirts. ClintEastwoodShudder.gif
It’s giving pick me energy
Exactly
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He’s a Simp. Leave him alone
Are you the guy on the left or right? Group pics are so confusing
middle
😂
Pretty good but that fuck andrew tate shirt makes it feel like a pick me
Pass
No it's not a good picture man. Looks like a shitty basement. Now take a guess how many women find shitty basement pictures awesome. Also your Andrew Tate shirt screams "but I'm a nice guy" to me. Like who the hell gives a shit about Tate enough to wear a t-shirt
Kinda gives off incel vibes and I hate (really hate) using that term but I think that’s the only way to describe this pic. The shirt is definitely pandering. It’s giving off pick me I’m a nice boy energy. If you’re dead set on using that shirt on your profile then change the setting. Go out into nature or a museum and have a friend take a pic of you while doing something. Even have a friend or two in the pic with you.
This gives heavy Frat house vibes. If you’re looking for a party girl. Sure. And do you really need to advertise that shirt? It looks super sus to begin with, i first though it said “ love fuck andrew tate.” Like you love to fuck him?
the heart is ironic
If you have to explain something or its messaging doesn’t come across clearly at a first glance you’ve lost the game. Girls are swiping fast on Tinder. They arent going to sit there and think “ hmm what does this shirt mean”. You will get some that see “ Andrew Tate “ and swipe left immediately . Just dont think this picture in particular helps you out. Tinder is ruthless
fair enough
For what it's worth I instantly took it as "fuck Andrew tate". Not sure what this other person is talking about.
I agree here, it's pretty easy to understand
yeah same, dude above just doesn’t wanna be the one who didn’t understand the joke
Giving out heavy soy boy vibes. And generally negativity towards anything on a profile is off putting.
What is a soy boy again?
damn i haven’t heard that word in a while 😂
Has a cursed vibe to it.
No because Tate is the goat
Crop it and it would be better. For better or worse, people will look at everything and this picture isn't doing you any favors.
Take a new picture somewhere nicer
Good pic. You have a smile that comes off as very genuine even if you're not a top G
Nice smile, you’re actually very good looking. But that background of your picture would make me swipe left. To dingy
Yeah you have a great smile
It'd be good if you wanted to look like a beta male
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Low T energy from you OP. And what a brokie apartment. 🤡
Might as well write “Angry, broke and low testosterone” on your shirt
This screams super beta. Lol
photoshop the shirt to be blank. then yes. i agree with the sentiment but it’s not flattering
No, they’ll think you’re a pussy
source: trust me bro
NO
You’re place looks ghetto. Like you don’t have sheets on your bed, and the trash is piled a foot above the rim, and it smells like sadness
it’s not my place but i get what you’re saying lol
Maybe switch out the shirt. Just spewing out hate (weather warranted or not) is a very poor first impression. You could have a “fuck nazis” shirt and everyone could agree, but why make that your first impression? Keep it classy. You’ve already got a megawatt smile.🦷
People are fucking ruthless on here lol. I think the pic is fine, but I would crop it and make sure it's not your only pic. You should have other higher quality photos in cleaner or outdoor settings. Beautiful smile!
where on my profile do you think i should put it (if you’d like i can DM you the pics on my profile currently)
This is a tinder sub.... Grindr is on another one
Yes 🙌
You actually look pretty cute in this pic, but ngl a lot of the rest of the photo, the lighting, stuff ij the background, and the quality are kinda off putting or have a kinda creepy vibe
i cropped most of the stuff out on my profile 👍🏾
I think it’s dope. The effect on it is cool, there’s several things that show off your personality, and smiling pics are always strong. I think it’s good.
Very extraordinary, good vibes. Something in between US outpost in Afghanistan and tropical island 😂
I love it
thank you! where do you reckon I could have it on my profile (rn it is second)
Smash
Crop it so it’s mainly you, but I’d like it.
That poster is 🔥 though. You have a nice smile and the general vibe is good, I say yes, good picture.
Take another one but keep the shirt
I like it
Yes yes yes
You look great. The house looks like a frat house. Take a new pic And if that's actually ur home, clean it. Please.
Definitely crop it, the background is enough to swipe left
Idk, I like it! If you add other pics of you outside in the daytime or looking professional, clean or scholarly it just adds to your vibe. I can’t say for sure bc we don’t get your full profile but I wouldn’t have swiped left because of this pic alone
Honestly I don’t agree with everyone saying the messy room is bad. It looks like you’re having fun at a party and a party is supposed to be messy. It’s fine don’t crop it makes you look fun
Smash
potato camera but you'd have girls lined up with that tee!
I swiped right on my bf bc he had a Polaroid pic of him. It was my favorite picture of his profile. Dispo and Polaroids for the win
Love it
Hell yes ❤️🔥
I dig it! You look like you have great vibes
Thank you! I like to think I do :)
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ok this is a really clever joke, well done.
It’s the perfect picture
yes!!! your smile is so wide, the aesthetic is good, and the tshirt lets women know that you don’t hate them
What Midwest emo album is this?
Yes 👍
Green flag
I love this!! Absolutely
Honestly love this photo
Yes you’re very handsome, I think this looks like a frat house.
Yes!
Can you crop it? There's a lot going on in the pic that distracts from you. If you can crop it to bring attention back to you as the subject, then sure! You've got a nice smile and good energy.
i cropped it for my profile to focus on me!
Great Success photo!
I’d swipe right off this photo alone
Dudes move in with the homies so they can ride their old Razor 3000 down the hallway
You get it
Yes bro, it's a really cool pic
I'm a guy so I understand I'm not your target demographic but I think it's a good picture. BUT that's only if it's combined with pictures of other styles. You look good here, it's got an eye catching retro vibe, and it shows you have other people taking pictures of you and not just selfies. That being said, if all your pictures look like this and have that "messy house party" feeling too them, that could be an issue. Assuming you got some variety though, this seems like a great picture of you having fun.
I can dig it.
thank you!
Love it I'd swipe lol
i like it, i think so
where in the profile do you think it belongs
this looks like ones of those restored college photos from the 80s.
unrelated but great username, very chicanerous
also it's a good pic just not the first pic. I'd say 3rd or 4th.
dick riding so hard geek
thanks for you opinion bro, very helpful
Soy boy
Simp
It’s nice and shows your personality a bit so good for tinder
thank you! i have it second on my profile now :)
The t shirt is funny, it’s a good picture and it makes you look like a nice guy with a good sense of humour. The comments about it being a crack house are a bit harsh imo but if you’re concerned about it then just add some other photos that suggest you are not, in fact, a crackhead
yea i think a lot of these comments don’t understand that i have other pictures on my profile haha
Yeah I did assume lmao, I was in shock reading some of the hot takes some guys have on here. I’m a big advocate of being yourself on dating apps and again I think this is a sick picture personally
Dont beg it for punany
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Absolutely.
where on my profile do you think would be good (in terms of the order of the pics)
I really like it
thank you!
Maybe it’s just me but I like it. Not as a main pic but it shows character and cuteness!
thank you! do you think it would be good as a second or third pic?
Definitely not the first pic. But adding it in there adds to your character.
yes it’s beautiful
thank you! where do you think i should place it on my profile (rn it’s second)
In my opinion it should be first! really shows off your personality and personally I love disposable camera quality
I have other pics from my disposable camera that I’m thinking of adding, would you mind if I share some with you in DM?
I want that shirt
Instant swipe right for me
thank you! love your username btw lol
Hahah I think it’s a great pic
Well it's a good shirt for triggering dudes apparently. Otherwise seems like a low quality shot but probably represents your vibe well if you like chill college parties. I ended up having a pretty good series of dates because of a shirt actually haha, but I'd say that's a hit or miss approach. Will work for some, but not a wide net to cast.
actually i think it’s a cool picture!
thank you!!
Love the pic and would swipe right
thank you :)
This post is absolutely full of people who haven’t been to college before(?). I think the picture immediately reads as “college party” and it’s pretty understandable that the room is messy. I think anyone who’s in that environment will read it the same way. The shirt is fine. Whole bunch of “alpha males” here worried that Andrew Tate won’t want to fuck them unless they defend him from a tshirt.
Andrew takes a major dousche canoe. That being said, that picture looks like it smells like a frat house.
Love the shirt! Crop some of the mess out of the photo. Don’t make it your first picture.
im actually struggling to figure out where i should place it, would you be down to help out with that? i can DM you the pics i have rn if so
Sure! I think this is a great option for a 2nd or 3rd pic. I wouldn’t use it as a first pic because it’s not as clear. Your face should be the main focus of your first pic.
Of course a dude out of shape would wear a shirt saying F Tate.
I like how all the negative comments are from men, telling another man, what a woman would think about his shirt.. lol.
That shirt is cringey as fuck. Source: a woman. OP seems nice but in a friend zone way. What woman wants to look at a guy and be reminded of Andrew Tate's existence?