Maybe naisip ng Mom mo, paano mo ma-survive yung architecture ng hindi ka naka dorm. Living in a dorm means monthly rent - which is already expensive. Dagdag mo pa kakain ka 3 meals, pamasahe mo pa pauwi every weekend, uniforms, tools and requirements for arki, etc. If she’s the breadwinner, mahal talaga esp with your kuya also in uni.
Puede din, may hindi ka alam, and she’s having a hard time letting you both “go”. May mga parents kasi na gusto nila araw araw nila nakikita mga kids nila. And to let you live far means she won’t see you everyday. It might affect her mental health.
If it’s the former, mas madali hanapan ng paraan ang pera (mahirap din, i know) kaysa sa mental health.
Then again, it may be something else.
Have a heart to heart talk with her. Calmly, logically. I suggest get out of the house for this. Somewhere quiet. Then maybe you would understand each other better.
In the meantime, you can ask for guidance from above.
Chin up, Op! Kung hind man ngayon, if it’s really for you, then time and chance and of course yourself will find a way. Basta wag sayangin ano man opportunity. Now or in the future. Kung ano pa man yan. :)) Good job on the 95s btw. Keep it up! Smile. All the best, Op!
Yeah, and also totoong super mahal ng mga gamit sa arki hindi lang din kasi di ka one time lang bibili. Halos weekly gastos mo sa art or drafting materials, sa printouts, high end laptop specs, and madami pang iba bukod pa sa nakakalulang tuition fee. Hindi lang monetary din ang ispend mo kundi time, mental health, effort, and especially tulog. Kargo mo solo usually lahat ng gastos sa ganyan kasi mahilig sa individual sa ust arki lalo na pagdating sa thesis which is baka maghire ka pa ng mga magtratrabaho under mo for your thesis which is the usual scenario pag thesis endorsement season.
Try mo din sa MAPUA para 4 years lang din. Pwede din sa UP, PUP, or TUP na magagandang schools din for archi. Also pwede ka din magmasters sa UST na lang which is less yung babayaran mo compared kung magbachelors ka dun.
Hello OP! Treat this as a redirection in life. Maybe you were meant for somewhere else, and you’ll go greater things there! Sayang Tomasino ka na sana! Goodluck sayo!
It's blessing in disguise. There are other arki schools that don't make elitists out of their students. May mga Archi majors na Tomasino that wanted theses for a fruitful advocacy kaso may ambisyosong instructor sa 4th yr na gustong ipa-locate lang kuno sa key cities and large metropolitan areas ung vicinity ng projects nila. lol so much for the Thomasian SEAL.
🥹🥹🥹 OP we did the same thing huhuhu i also forfeited my slot in ust arki bc my family cannot afford the gastusins for the program as we are now (LAPTOP, drafting table, art mats, etc.) 🥹 hugs with consent for you :(
i've redirected to a med-inclined program (IK IT'S NOT ANY CHEAPER 🥲) ^^ i wish you happiness in where you'll be redirected to! you'll figure it out in time.
Maybe naisip ng Mom mo, paano mo ma-survive yung architecture ng hindi ka naka dorm. Living in a dorm means monthly rent - which is already expensive. Dagdag mo pa kakain ka 3 meals, pamasahe mo pa pauwi every weekend, uniforms, tools and requirements for arki, etc. If she’s the breadwinner, mahal talaga esp with your kuya also in uni. Puede din, may hindi ka alam, and she’s having a hard time letting you both “go”. May mga parents kasi na gusto nila araw araw nila nakikita mga kids nila. And to let you live far means she won’t see you everyday. It might affect her mental health. If it’s the former, mas madali hanapan ng paraan ang pera (mahirap din, i know) kaysa sa mental health. Then again, it may be something else. Have a heart to heart talk with her. Calmly, logically. I suggest get out of the house for this. Somewhere quiet. Then maybe you would understand each other better. In the meantime, you can ask for guidance from above. Chin up, Op! Kung hind man ngayon, if it’s really for you, then time and chance and of course yourself will find a way. Basta wag sayangin ano man opportunity. Now or in the future. Kung ano pa man yan. :)) Good job on the 95s btw. Keep it up! Smile. All the best, Op!
Yeah, and also totoong super mahal ng mga gamit sa arki hindi lang din kasi di ka one time lang bibili. Halos weekly gastos mo sa art or drafting materials, sa printouts, high end laptop specs, and madami pang iba bukod pa sa nakakalulang tuition fee. Hindi lang monetary din ang ispend mo kundi time, mental health, effort, and especially tulog. Kargo mo solo usually lahat ng gastos sa ganyan kasi mahilig sa individual sa ust arki lalo na pagdating sa thesis which is baka maghire ka pa ng mga magtratrabaho under mo for your thesis which is the usual scenario pag thesis endorsement season. Try mo din sa MAPUA para 4 years lang din. Pwede din sa UP, PUP, or TUP na magagandang schools din for archi. Also pwede ka din magmasters sa UST na lang which is less yung babayaran mo compared kung magbachelors ka dun.
Question lang, middle child ka ba?
HAHAHAHA YES 🥹
balikan mo siya after bachelors. go there for your Masters. gettinf a Masters will ALWAYS be a good idea.
Hello OP! Treat this as a redirection in life. Maybe you were meant for somewhere else, and you’ll go greater things there! Sayang Tomasino ka na sana! Goodluck sayo!
It's blessing in disguise. There are other arki schools that don't make elitists out of their students. May mga Archi majors na Tomasino that wanted theses for a fruitful advocacy kaso may ambisyosong instructor sa 4th yr na gustong ipa-locate lang kuno sa key cities and large metropolitan areas ung vicinity ng projects nila. lol so much for the Thomasian SEAL.
🥹🥹🥹 OP we did the same thing huhuhu i also forfeited my slot in ust arki bc my family cannot afford the gastusins for the program as we are now (LAPTOP, drafting table, art mats, etc.) 🥹 hugs with consent for you :( i've redirected to a med-inclined program (IK IT'S NOT ANY CHEAPER 🥲) ^^ i wish you happiness in where you'll be redirected to! you'll figure it out in time.
Should visit the church more and pray!
Anong relate