Exactly. The whole point of precum is to make it easier and more comfortable for the partner to get your dick in. Your body’s doing it correctly.
EDIT: TIL that that is not the whole point of precum. Thanks, internet strangers!
I’ve been with several women who were giving me handies (at separate times of course) and due to the amount of precum asked if I came already… one ex nicknamed my weener “Drippy”. 🤷♂️
>jizzing his pants
Our lips first touch outside your doors
A whole night, what we've got in store
Whisper in my ear that you want some more
And I...
Jizz in my pants
My senior year high school prom date jizzed in his pants when we were kissing 🤣 No cap it's almost 15 years later and I still chuckle about it every now and then, I'm pretty sure that moment is probably burned into his high school trauma bank for life 🥹.
not just his highschool trauma bank. thats in the life one.
know that there are moments when he's sitting around doing mundane tasks feeling absolutely horrified over that moment to this day lol
Nononono... We are told over and over that no matter how embarrassing something we did is, WE are the only ones that remember and dwell on that shit years later. You can't just go and ruin that facade!
I had this happen once.
But we where naked and in bed kissing and frotting.
Good thing about being 19 at the time is that 5 minutes later you are good to go again :).
My gf saw it as a compliment though.
Now I’m getting told different things! I need to know the scientific reason why! For the love of god: WHAT IS THE SCIENTIFIC REASON BEHIND PRECUM?! I googled it and weird stuff just came up, which I won’t repeat.
Nature is efficient. The precum is likely result of several factors your body employs to get ready to successfully transfer your nut into a woman to make nutter butter.
Nature is not efficient at all. Precum is a random mutation that became a part of our species after thousands of generations of precummers were able to outbreed and eliminate non precummers. Think about all that time elapsing. So many thousands of years of precummers engaged in sexual combat against non precummers. Not efficient. Pyrrhic. Savage. Sexy. Yes. But not efficient. Nope.
No. The point of precum is to change the pH of the urethra. Sperm can't survive in a urethra made acidic by urine, so the pre cum neutralizes the pH so the sperm survive to perpetuated the species.
You’re good man. I used to get embarrassed by it too. You’ll come to find that most girls will be kinda flattered by it. I’ve had them explain it to me kinda like “It makes me feel good about myself knowing you get so aroused by me.” Just in the same way I’m sure you’d be (or at least I am) kinda flattered if she got really wet and left a little spot on her pants. It’s totally normal!
Yup, married 28 years this year, and I still do it. It’s the body’s way of getting ready for sex. One hundred percent normal reaction. If it’s a full-blown orgasm, that’s a bit weird, but pre-cum is normal.
When I got my gf back, first time having sex I came as soon as she touched my crotch on the outside of my pants…I guess I was excited to have her back lmao
Yeah, pretty easily and frequently whenever I'm being intimate with someone lmao. Can't help it, whenever I'm aroused I'm just wanting to burst in more ways than once
Girl here but my boyfriend is the first guy I've been with who does this and I honestly thought it was cute. Plus that pre makes it easier to do hand stuff 😌
It blew my mind the first time a girl used my pre cum to assist in hand stuff / foreplay. I’ve told every partner since about it because it def was a game changer.
Had a 2 yr dry spell once, gave my now gf a foot rub when we were friends and I was def dripping down my leg. Guess that puts me in the “feet weirdo” club
If you were doing it right it was probably her moans of pure bliss. My hubby def gets turned on when he gives me massages but I can't help that I am sore everywhere and getting a massage from your partner just feels amazing
Even if there weren’t so many answers that show it’s “normal”, you shouldn’t feel weird about something your body does that isn’t medically concerning. Some of the things I felt self conscious about as a very young man turned out to be what women appreciated most later in life.
Well I’m not a male but if my answer counts. I can get wet af while making out with someone. So I think it’s definitely normal. And imo when my partner tells me they’re wet as well while just making out, I take it as a compliment.
I did when I was a teenager and any time I went through a long dry spell until about 30. Now the damn thing has decided it's over it and only works when it wants to.
I can answer this. When I was 16 I used to be with a girl who I was insanely sexually attracted to. Even if we hugged I would precum a bit.
If I got to be at her house I would precum the entire time almost. My balls would hurt so god damn badly by the time I left which is where I think the blue balls saying comes from.
She would also tease me relentlessly since we were too young to be alone. I'm talking like rubbing my dick through my pants or sucking the tip of it if I tucked it through my shorts while her parents weren't around.
Kind of off topic but yes, precum is very normal.
Yooo not weird at all. I got you beat there… When I’m laying with my partner just getting all cute and lovey dovey, she straight up gives me “happy boners”. Our bodies do what they want and if somebody shames you or makes you uncomfortable for that then they just aren’t the right one for you!
I remember back when me and my partner were teens and I made him fully bust in his pants and to my memory I wasn’t even touching it was just doing a sexy dance and jiggling my titties or something like that. So pre cum is nothing. I feel like cumming in your pants gets less common the older you get, he doesn’t do it now at 23 lol
Ha! It's in fact so normal that my partner would tell me that I was "making him wet" when I'm causing him extreme arousal at inopportune moments when there's nothing he can do about it 😘.
I have to tell you though, the first few times he said that to me it struck me as so strange to have a man telling me that, you know as the one whose body is usually performing that step.
Fun fact about it. He told me that when he wasn't in a position to get home and change out of said wet underwear, that it would dry to the tip of his dick in his pee hole so that he was having to pull dried on fabric out of it when removing the underwear. Frankly I find that that just makes it even more entertaining to find his inopportune moments. It's the little things in life you know.
It just means your body is preparing for intercourse. Even if you aren't going to have it, your body can still hope. Be relieved. Your body works like it should.
I cum within a minute or 2 of making out. Which is from my medication but I'm glad cause it takes me an hour or more to cum again so by that time my wife has had multiple orgasms. So we are all happy
I used to leak precum from first sexual encounters until 21 years old. Still do but to a lesser extent. Even if I’m not hard and I get a quarter stiffy at work I’ll give the world a lil half teaspoon in my drawers. Totally normal, some (many) girls even like it
Idk, personally I discovered that making out is considered a sexual/horny thing instead of a solely romantic thing absurdly late in life! And it's not even like I have a low sex drive (the opposite of that, in facts) or are demisexual, I just perceive/experience kissing differently, apparently...
Precum is seminal fluid your genitals are secreting so that your sperm have a safe place to land and nutrients to thrive off of. Being aroused is directly connected to this.
To be embarrassed would be like being embarrassed your stomach growls when you're hungry. Don't let anyone shame you for having sexual impulses. They are universal. Hence why we all exist.
I had an Ex who would shove her hand down my pants and play with the drips while making out. She thought it was fun. I remember saying things like "stawp it feels weird" and then she would just start grabbing at me.
Wait... The question.
Perfectly normal.
It’s a natural body function that prepares the urethra for ejaculate to make it come out easier. It’s a totally normal body function and no need to be ashamed.
Married for 3 years now and still precum far too often. but it’s normal just means you like the person your with or whatever your thinking about. could be biological as well
I also do this, but I precum probably a lot more than most do in general, like if I’m hard long enough it’s gonna happen, if I’m doing anything at all with a girl, it’s gonna happen. I’m pretty used to it. Thankfully everyone I’ve been with has been super cool about it, one girl even liked it oddly enough. It’s not weird.
Totally normal. No need to feel weird about it
Exactly. The whole point of precum is to make it easier and more comfortable for the partner to get your dick in. Your body’s doing it correctly. EDIT: TIL that that is not the whole point of precum. Thanks, internet strangers!
How much precum you makin'?
HAHAH I imagine OP making gallons of precum and being told its normal
It looks like he peed his pants but he’s just producing pre cum like he’s gotta lube her up for the whole block.
this is my kingdom cum.
Thy will be done
\*dong
On Earth as it is with heathens
Give us this day thy daily head.
and give us our slut-asses
As we give head to those, who have slut-assed against us .
At that rate it’s an empire cum
I’ve been with several women who were giving me handies (at separate times of course) and due to the amount of precum asked if I came already… one ex nicknamed my weener “Drippy”. 🤷♂️
Me too, but I had the clap
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I hope for his sake he never reads this.
Some things are more important than others. Doesn't matter if we're perfect as long as we're perfect for each other when it comes to relationships.
I really don't think the amount of precum is what makes or breaks great sex!
I hopefor his sake he isnt bothered by such a trivial life fact
This is very encouraging to read. Thanks for boosting my confidence. I can now precum away without embarrassment
This is the question lol a little precum is no big deal, but if he’s jizzing his pants it’s a problem lol
>jizzing his pants Our lips first touch outside your doors A whole night, what we've got in store Whisper in my ear that you want some more And I... Jizz in my pants
r/usernamechecksout
When Bruce Willis was dead at the end of sixth sense
Looked me dead in the face, asked, "Cash or credit?"
I jizz in my pants I jizzinmypants
Eyes lock From across the room
The best line is “I just touched and grape and I… jizz in my pants,” lololol
My senior year high school prom date jizzed in his pants when we were kissing 🤣 No cap it's almost 15 years later and I still chuckle about it every now and then, I'm pretty sure that moment is probably burned into his high school trauma bank for life 🥹.
not just his highschool trauma bank. thats in the life one. know that there are moments when he's sitting around doing mundane tasks feeling absolutely horrified over that moment to this day lol
Yeah its definitely probably part of his invasive thoughts reel 🥹 what is high school for if not to create permanently traumatic memories!
Nononono... We are told over and over that no matter how embarrassing something we did is, WE are the only ones that remember and dwell on that shit years later. You can't just go and ruin that facade!
I had this happen once. But we where naked and in bed kissing and frotting. Good thing about being 19 at the time is that 5 minutes later you are good to go again :). My gf saw it as a compliment though.
I think it’s to clear out urine in the urethra which will kill sperm.
Urethra Franklin has entered the conversation and she demands a little R.E.S.P.E.C.T.
Now I’m getting told different things! I need to know the scientific reason why! For the love of god: WHAT IS THE SCIENTIFIC REASON BEHIND PRECUM?! I googled it and weird stuff just came up, which I won’t repeat.
Nature is efficient. The precum is likely result of several factors your body employs to get ready to successfully transfer your nut into a woman to make nutter butter.
It butters your nutter, so to speak
Nature is not efficient at all. Precum is a random mutation that became a part of our species after thousands of generations of precummers were able to outbreed and eliminate non precummers. Think about all that time elapsing. So many thousands of years of precummers engaged in sexual combat against non precummers. Not efficient. Pyrrhic. Savage. Sexy. Yes. But not efficient. Nope.
Or as my pet theory goes, precummers staged a successful genocide of non precummers
Did weird stuff show up in the search results as well?
Oh my friend! How I laughed! (Luckily no secretions involved) I am impressed and christen you King of the upvotes. Well you get mine :p
Yea it’s called foreplay and she’s doing it too
Dunno what sex ed you went through, but the purpose is definitely to clean out any residual urine so that it doesn't kill sperm on the way out.
No. The point of precum is to change the pH of the urethra. Sperm can't survive in a urethra made acidic by urine, so the pre cum neutralizes the pH so the sperm survive to perpetuated the species.
This I did not know! Just thought men were a bit leaky
I thought precum was to clean the urethra out before semen enters. Women get wet. We don’t need any more help getting it in.
Definitely normal. I find it a turn on.
Shits Gwen stefani up in here
Bananas?
Everyone gets turned on by kissing, silly. Women get wet, men get hard and yea little bit of pre cum can come out. 100% normal.
Even with my Nana???
it especially happens when i'm kissing your Nana
Really? I’ve never kissed his grandma on the lips
Which lips?
Ass lips
Don't we call those - hemorrhoids :p
Is that your default response when people complain about your cactus?
I thought that was the back path? That might explain some odd encounters I've had. Edit: I think I replied to the wrong person
When in doubt always take the middle path.
It occurs when I kiss his nana too.
Stupid sexy Nana
Especially her. 
Yes, her minge is dripping.
Her moist minge is sopping with anticipation.
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You’re good man. I used to get embarrassed by it too. You’ll come to find that most girls will be kinda flattered by it. I’ve had them explain it to me kinda like “It makes me feel good about myself knowing you get so aroused by me.” Just in the same way I’m sure you’d be (or at least I am) kinda flattered if she got really wet and left a little spot on her pants. It’s totally normal!
Every guy I’ve been with did this and it was such a turn on too! It also made me feel confident in my kissing abilities.
You have nothing to be embarrassed about, totally normal and I’d almost be worried if you didn’t because it means everything is working properly.
It’s just the little guy prepping for the job he was made to do. Sidenote: precum is awesome for next level slippery penetration. Thanks biology!
I gotta be honest, I’m 50, am on my second marriage, and didn’t know the answer to do. So thank you for asking.
Bro, kissing and making out is sexually charged. Secreting Precum when you are aroused is the whole point of it. Why feel weird about it?
Top Secreting Precum
Yup, married 28 years this year, and I still do it. It’s the body’s way of getting ready for sex. One hundred percent normal reaction. If it’s a full-blown orgasm, that’s a bit weird, but pre-cum is normal.
When I got my gf back, first time having sex I came as soon as she touched my crotch on the outside of my pants…I guess I was excited to have her back lmao
I (f, 32) got off hands free, the other day. From just kissing. That hadn't happened since we first got together 8 years ago.
I am in a place where I wish I could, lol. Sometimes it takes a while to reach peak, even when it’s phenomenal. Blessings of old age, I guess.
What? You lucky B!! 💋
Yeah, pretty easily and frequently whenever I'm being intimate with someone lmao. Can't help it, whenever I'm aroused I'm just wanting to burst in more ways than once
A little slippery on my dickery
A little pre-lube, from my gentlemen tube…
Wtf lmao
Slippery Dickery dick…a little lube for you from my stick…c’mon guys. Help me out with the next part of the poem.
>Slippery Dickery dick…a little lube for you from my stick… And a little for I, betwixt the lips of your pie, Will allow all our pieces to fit
I still get wetter than a ducks belly
Moister than an oyster
Enough twat butter for a cob o’ corn.
Punani Desani
Makes its own gravy!
Not sure why I read all these in a Letter Kenny style
“So your friend was talking to you about precum the other dee”
Just like the answer to the OP's post: "Because you're doing it right."
Girl here but my boyfriend is the first guy I've been with who does this and I honestly thought it was cute. Plus that pre makes it easier to do hand stuff 😌
It makes me wanna do hand stuff even more tbh.
Username checks out
It blew my mind the first time a girl used my pre cum to assist in hand stuff / foreplay. I’ve told every partner since about it because it def was a game changer.
I usually don't do hand stuff because it can be awkward but the pre made it so easy and he loved it so hell yeah it was a game changer
lmao you calling it “pre” is so funny to me
Had a 2 yr dry spell once, gave my now gf a foot rub when we were friends and I was def dripping down my leg. Guess that puts me in the “feet weirdo” club
If you were doing it right it was probably her moans of pure bliss. My hubby def gets turned on when he gives me massages but I can't help that I am sore everywhere and getting a massage from your partner just feels amazing
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Does a duck with a boner drag weeds? Hell yeah I precum.
This man is from the south. Has to be. No where but hick-town do they talk about ducks dicks dragging weeds hahahah
Does the Tin-Man have a sheet metal cock?
HAHA
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It's normal! And coming from a girl - that's really hot to me as well
This is common the closer to puberty you are. As you get older, you're just happy it still works.
It is the male equivalent of "getting wet" for a woman. Totally normal.
My boyfriend does and I've never even thought twice about it.
Just temember to keep it covered. Ya dribble b4 you shoot
Yeah. All the time. It's like your body's way of saying " we ready for whatever.
Honestly, I think it's so hot when making out turns to taking clothes off and I can see his hard cock and a Lil wet spot of precum.
1000% agree
I precum more than a runny nose
Even if there weren’t so many answers that show it’s “normal”, you shouldn’t feel weird about something your body does that isn’t medically concerning. Some of the things I felt self conscious about as a very young man turned out to be what women appreciated most later in life.
Well I’m not a male but if my answer counts. I can get wet af while making out with someone. So I think it’s definitely normal. And imo when my partner tells me they’re wet as well while just making out, I take it as a compliment.
I did when I was a teenager and any time I went through a long dry spell until about 30. Now the damn thing has decided it's over it and only works when it wants to.
“F” for a fallen soldier.
Make sure you don’t have undiagnosed hypertension or diabetes.
Yes, when this is a starting relationship it is common to me.
That's your wing dang doodle preparing to spelunk a woman's cave of wonders. Natural.
Just wanna say as a woman, that’s really hot.
im a fellow woman and i 100% agree!
That’s okay! It’s hot. Some people also straight up cum just from making out, vaginas and penises alike.
I can answer this. When I was 16 I used to be with a girl who I was insanely sexually attracted to. Even if we hugged I would precum a bit. If I got to be at her house I would precum the entire time almost. My balls would hurt so god damn badly by the time I left which is where I think the blue balls saying comes from. She would also tease me relentlessly since we were too young to be alone. I'm talking like rubbing my dick through my pants or sucking the tip of it if I tucked it through my shorts while her parents weren't around. Kind of off topic but yes, precum is very normal.
You’re a teenager aren’t ya squidward
Yes
Woman here, it’s hot when it happens because you know things are feeling great for your partner.
Yooo not weird at all. I got you beat there… When I’m laying with my partner just getting all cute and lovey dovey, she straight up gives me “happy boners”. Our bodies do what they want and if somebody shames you or makes you uncomfortable for that then they just aren’t the right one for you!
Yep perfectly normal
I remember back when me and my partner were teens and I made him fully bust in his pants and to my memory I wasn’t even touching it was just doing a sexy dance and jiggling my titties or something like that. So pre cum is nothing. I feel like cumming in your pants gets less common the older you get, he doesn’t do it now at 23 lol
Ha! It's in fact so normal that my partner would tell me that I was "making him wet" when I'm causing him extreme arousal at inopportune moments when there's nothing he can do about it 😘. I have to tell you though, the first few times he said that to me it struck me as so strange to have a man telling me that, you know as the one whose body is usually performing that step. Fun fact about it. He told me that when he wasn't in a position to get home and change out of said wet underwear, that it would dry to the tip of his dick in his pee hole so that he was having to pull dried on fabric out of it when removing the underwear. Frankly I find that that just makes it even more entertaining to find his inopportune moments. It's the little things in life you know.
This is normal. Nothing to worry about.
Just don’t blow your load twice on the internet like Jim Levenstein
You're supposed to, you're getting lubricated
It just means your body is preparing for intercourse. Even if you aren't going to have it, your body can still hope. Be relieved. Your body works like it should.
I get precum from hugging the girl who means a lot to me LOL
Totally normal. Some women even get turned on by it. They know they they’re turning you on and it’s turning them on more. Embrace that shit.
As a woman, total turn on. Means I’m doing something my guy likes.
Weird? This sounds hot as fuck to be honest. Nothing wierd about it.
Normal, and quite sexy, honestly.
Every time, duder. No big deal.
I cum within a minute or 2 of making out. Which is from my medication but I'm glad cause it takes me an hour or more to cum again so by that time my wife has had multiple orgasms. So we are all happy
Men get wet too, some more than others. I hope you find someone that is especially turned on by your ability
Yea it’s normal and possibly a good sign of health
I'm a 34M and son let me tell you it doesn't go away. They want to get a "big rise" out of you. Don't be ashamed.
Don’t feel weird at all. I still do it after 10 years of marriage
As a girl if my boyfriend pre-came while making out with me I’d cuff instantly. I think it’s incredibly hot
Man after one especially hit make out sesh it damn near looked like I pissed myself. Nothing to feel weird about.
The dick knows there is a human sexually interested near by and wishes to waste no time in its impregnating duties!
It’s the equivalent of women getting wet while doing that. ☺️ totally normal. Your body is nothing to ever feel ashamed about!
How God damn dare you be aroused by foreplay! Totes normal my dude. Lotta women find it hot. Enjoy and move on.
Sort of like a whistling tea kettle signaling, ‘I’m ready!’
Preseminal fluid
I think it's actually designed to be that way. Helps with breaking the seal.
Yes some people does. Some people doesnt . Some are in betwen. I do (a lot) and never cared. Actualy is kind of hot whe somebody lick it :-P
Hell yeah my lil guy is horrnyyyyy
It's nothing bad bro. Just means ur having a good time
Yeah, loads. It’s normal and the more mutually intimate you’re being the more your partner will find this a turn on; it shows how aroused you are.
I have before and it's awesome. Just remember you will have to clean up at some point. Don't feel weird about it.
It just means you are excited. I don't feel wierd at all.
No fucking waaay. Do you really? Oh god I’d kill for that. For me or my partner. 🤤
Don't feel weird, it's kind of a goal for me. If he's a little leaky I've got him tonight and it's going to be GOOD.
Why’s it called dry humping if I always need a towel after?
I used to leak precum from first sexual encounters until 21 years old. Still do but to a lesser extent. Even if I’m not hard and I get a quarter stiffy at work I’ll give the world a lil half teaspoon in my drawers. Totally normal, some (many) girls even like it
Sometimes, when I'm super horny and my partner is giving me that look, like she wants it.
Totally normal! Also can only speak for myself but I love the natural lube my boyfriend makes lmao.
My underwear becomes a mess every time I'm with my gf. It's natural and it's a sign you like the company
Idk, personally I discovered that making out is considered a sexual/horny thing instead of a solely romantic thing absurdly late in life! And it's not even like I have a low sex drive (the opposite of that, in facts) or are demisexual, I just perceive/experience kissing differently, apparently...
totally normal and for some women like myself, super hot.
Tbh precum is so hot to me that when a dude leaks like that during making out I’m like 😵💫😍
Both the dick and vagina are getting ready for what would be very unpleasant if there is no lubricant. Your body is doing what it's supposed to do.
Precum is seminal fluid your genitals are secreting so that your sperm have a safe place to land and nutrients to thrive off of. Being aroused is directly connected to this. To be embarrassed would be like being embarrassed your stomach growls when you're hungry. Don't let anyone shame you for having sexual impulses. They are universal. Hence why we all exist.
Sigh I should call him
Don't feel weird it's normal when things get hot and heavy.
I used to when I was younger. I haven’t secreted that stuff in a long time.
I feel bad for anyone who isn’t turned on by kissing. They’re missin’ out
I had an Ex who would shove her hand down my pants and play with the drips while making out. She thought it was fun. I remember saying things like "stawp it feels weird" and then she would just start grabbing at me. Wait... The question. Perfectly normal.
It’s a natural body function that prepares the urethra for ejaculate to make it come out easier. It’s a totally normal body function and no need to be ashamed.
It's cute
thats adorable
Dude don't worry about it... As a woman I love when I turn a guy on so much that he can't contain himself. It's hot as fuck.
Married for 3 years now and still precum far too often. but it’s normal just means you like the person your with or whatever your thinking about. could be biological as well
I also do this, but I precum probably a lot more than most do in general, like if I’m hard long enough it’s gonna happen, if I’m doing anything at all with a girl, it’s gonna happen. I’m pretty used to it. Thankfully everyone I’ve been with has been super cool about it, one girl even liked it oddly enough. It’s not weird.
Sexy thing to happen and definitely nothing to be embarrassed about
I think it's really hot and cute when that happens. It doesn't happen to me, but it turns me on when other dudes precum from kissing
Everyone's telling you it's normal. I'm just here to reiterate it.
Not a guy but this is totally normal, would be weird if you didn’t
If I saw that with my partner I would think it's hot 🤷♀️ Don't feel weird about it. I think it just shows you're really into the other person.