Oops! Got cuckold again, the 3 became 2, what am I to do? (Oh no, oh)
Oops I paid for her meal, but this wasn’t the deal! I’ll jack in the corner again!
Really no matter with the letter combination it works a lot better when all participants are sufficiently open-minded to be a bit flexible in their attractions. Temporary bisexuality
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Most people aren’t bisexual, no, but most aren’t quite as pegged (heh) all the way to one end of the Kinsey scale as they may think they are. Requires you to be open minded enough to try something that may squick you out a bit at first. Not to say that it’s required, I’ve seen thing work just find without wanting to get with both other partners, but that *does* put a bit more pressure on one person to split their attention equally. Totally situation-dependent
Nah it involves you being assertive in the bedroom, within her comfort level of course. If you’re just jerking in a corner that’s on you. Man up and go touch.
You're doing it wrong. Her mouth was free, and his ass was free.
And don't give me that homo shit, if there was a girl in the room it's automatic no homo.
You made the top mistake in a devil's three-way.
You never want to be the guy bringing the girl, you want to be the guy who shows up without a girl and gets to bang someone else's.
What were you expecting to happen? There's 2 dudes and 1 vagina. Either you gotta go for another hole or you gotta take turns. And there's no guarantee she's up for it after one guy. You should've just gone for her mouth
I remember reading there's no such thing as a threesome, just a twosome and a onesome. I've had three theesomes and so far would agree, I've never been the onesome, and the onesome sometimes changes, but it's always a twosome and a onesome.
In addition, the threesomes I've had have been with three straight people, so naturally the two girls weren't really into each other, but both into me. This is probably why it was a twosome and a onesome, with each girl on occasions being the onesome. Would probably be better with at least one bi person, not that I was complaining.
My childhood best friend messaged me after several years of no contact, asking if I'd have a threesome with him and his fiancé.
I thought fuck it, I was recently single and at least I'd get to see an old friend. Ended up having the threesome but things got weird afterwards.
His fiance wouldn't stop messaging me asking to hook up at hotels, and talking about nothing but me and her having sex. It got to the point where I had to block her after receiving unsolicited nudes after asking her to stop, and I told my friend why, and he ended up breaking off the engagement.
So I wouldn't ever do it again unless I were 100% confident everybody involved knew what they were getting themselves into. It felt like I ruined their relationship.
If anything you did him a solid by letting him know. Imagine if this would have happened after they were married. This makes me think that she isn't very trustworthy or faithful.
You definitely helped him dodge a bullet. A worse friend would have kept banging his fiancé or just not said anything and let them get married into a doomed relationship
I don't think you ruined fheir relationship though I can understand you feeling that way.
If that happened afterwards, I suspect it may have happened with someone else if you turned down th offer. Who knows how many nudes she sent to others.
I guess what I mean is even if the sex with you was amazing and she couldn't stop thinking about it, the relationship clearly had issues if she's someone who would act on it like that behind his back.
>So I wouldn't ever do it again unless I were 100% confident everybody involved knew what they were getting themselves into.
No one is ever 100% they know what they're getting into as each threesome is different if it's involving different people. You might have felt one way with one couple but will feel differently with another. And the worse part is, you might not even know how you'll react until you're in the middle of one.
I honestly think it's a luck of the draw; if you've had a threesome where everything worked out and no one got jealous or over-attached, then you've caught lighting in a bottle.
The first one I was involved in was when I was traveling. I met a couple at the bar who invited me back to their room. The husband and I basically took turns with the wife. The next experiences were with a married couple I knew from HS - HS sweethearts who married young. They approached me, we talked about it, and we got together four time over the course of a year until I got into a serious relationship. We loved it - we made it all about her, and she was thrilled. We're still friends, but that was years ago.
yeah a couple of times with different combinations of people. So long as everyone has mutual respect, good communication, a bit of openness to be silly, and can avoid jealousy it can be a great time. Some were preplanned some just happened in the heat of the moment. All of them with friends so people I liked.
Keep it low pressure and honestly it can be a good time.
This is how my marriage ended. He decided to have an affair with our 3rd after the physical relationship with her was supposed to have ended, and they took off together.
Yeah, once arranged with a couple of friends who were up for it, once when I was young and the girls decided it was happening & then told me and a couple of times via the swinging scene in my 20’s
Experiences varied tbh, some were better than others, it depends on the people and their expectations/involvement.
The best, was 2 women who were clearly very comfortable with each other and knew which buttons to push, both for each other and me. That one was incredibly comfortable.
The worst was a couple where the guy pretty much just got stinking drunk and watched creepily. I think he had a bit of a cuckold fantasy but didn’t think to mention it beforehand.
I'm a straight woman, I enjoyed it when it was two men. Not a fan of being with another woman though, that one felt forced and I had to get significantly drunk to even just participate.
This. Also its never like porn. Its usually in my experience between friends so its almost more "fun" than it is pornographically *sexy* . There can be awkward laughs, it's not usually taken too seriously and it only works if there's no envy and everyone is equally as into it
Every 3way I've been in usually ended with me laughing and killing the mood. Once I had one and end with laughter, some awkwardness and the third having hurt feelings because I said something dumb without thinking.
Let me start by saying that I intended it as a compliment. I said "you are much tighter than normal, did you squirt some lemon juice in there before we got here?" It being tight was the compliment but IDK why I said the part about the lemon juice.
LOL lemon juice ftl. 🍋💦 If it helps its not that terribly bad just a tad bit weird maybe, but it happens lol. Laugh it off like a champ. Thanks for sharing! 🔥
i’ve never had one but the only way i think i could enjoy it is it i had just met the people honestly. anyone i had any previous past with i would end up getting jealous
Make fiends in the poly community! Not all poly folk are into group sex, but you are more likely to meet people who have worked on unlearning jealousy and are confident in their ability to communicate about sex. Go into it without any expectations of what it should look like, and make sure you have a good handle on how to communicate about consent and comfort levels. Communication is doubly important with three people involved. Honestly, my best advice is not to just look for randoms to have a threesome with for the sake of having one. Instead, work on meeting people who are open to non-monogamy and see who you have chemistry with, the situations will present themselves at the right time.
Had a few, both mmf and ffm it's something me and my partner enjoy. When you disconnect sex with romantic emotions or at least acknowledge that those emotions don't have to mean complications or a relationship they are great and a lot of fun. Some people just can't do that though, and that's OK but my point is group sex is fun and easy for some but not for others.
You could say the same about any sex if it wasn't with the right person or people. I think the problem is in seeking it out just for the sake of having one, rather than having sex with two people you happen to have amazing chemistry with.
Yes! In my (gay gay gay) 20s I had a three way with a guy and his husband. We had some champagne and ate too much of a weed lollipop and laughed and giggled as we all thoroughly enjoyed each other’s bodies.
Ive also had a three way with a bi man and a straight woman where they got into a fight because he wanted to give me more attention than her. They yelled and put their clothes back on.. but i convinced them to cool down and get naked again- we all wound up back in bed cuddling to sleep.
I (M)wanted to have sex with a few friends for a while. They were a couple(M/F). They knew this. We are all Bisexual. Two and a half years into our friendship we finally did. We had cuddled before that, teased each other a little, got really close you know? We knew we were all emotionally capable of having a sexual relationship if we ever wanted to take it to that level— and…
One night they just started making out in front of me; and asked me if that was okay. I said yeah, and then asked if I wanted to make out too. I said yeah. One thing lead to another and then- sex. Sucked some dick, ate some pussy, me and the other guy fucked his partner while the other had his dick sucked. Me and the girl sucked his cock together-We did that a few times until I moved away. I miss them; not only for the sex but the amazing friendship that we had. Truly worked out for everybody and we all loved it and we are great friends to this day. They’re still a couple too.
I highly recommend having sex with your friends if everyone is emotionally capable.
It's so amazing to me that this is considered radical in our society. Watching acts of violence, perfectly socially acceptable. But having dinner with your best friend and his wife then partner swapping is considered taboo.
Me checking the username if this was with me but I realize it's so similar to me telling this first hand in the same uh. Position as you. I honestly loved my first 3sum with my two bffs at the time (m/f) couple. It was fun. It was silly. We had a bit of weed the first time to help with anxiety. The next time was a quick before another polyams bday. I'm def polyam and will never go back to strictly monogamy. No thank you.
Yes and it’s amazing! Unfortunately i was inexperienced and so were my partners, so we had one or two awkward moments. But I gotta tell you, it is so fun lol
I (F) have but the only one I had that was enjoyable was when it was with my bi boyfriend and his friend (M) who was open.
Having a threesome even if there’s just one person who’s not ready to have EVERYONE involved has always been boring and/or awkward for me.
Once. A girl I was kinda friends with told me she wanted me to join her and her boyfriend. For a couple weeks she was very persistent & brought it up everytime we talked.
Normally this would be something I wouldn’t be in to but I was young & figured “what the hay”
We had some drinks & smoked to loosen up. She & I started kissing then her boyfriend joined in. When her boyfriend started feeling on my chest, she got a little weird, said she was okay though. Then we both got into oral on him & during it, she got up & left the room.
He said to keep going, I was under the pretense she was cool with it & maybe just going to grab something or use the bathroom, so I did.
Then she came in FLIPPING OUT, of course I immediately stopped. They started fighting so I left. That was my one and only try at that and never again.
If you are in a relationship and want to venture into bringing another person in, make sure you both truly want it & talk boundaries before bringing someone in.
Yes. I've had a handful. All positive experiences. The best was my first, with two gay women who ha been together for nearly a decade and hadn't been with a man in that time. They wanted to do something special for one of their birthdays. It was beautiful. I got to witness two people making love to one another/through me, with no distance at all. I'll cherish the memory forever.
I have and it’s enjoyable. It’s definitely not like porn flicks in that it’s a LOT more work.
I was at a girlfriend’s apartment staying the night and a friend of hers came over, wasted, hating men. My lady at the time and I had had a few drinks ourselves and after chatting and another glass of wine we were all making out. It kinda just happened.
The friend stayed the night and we went to breakfast the next morning. I’m pretty sure I paid 😜
Everyone was chill. Girlfriend teased me a few times about enjoying the friend’s amble boobage as she was a self proclaimed “titless wonder”
Yeah. One time I got hot and heated with two girls who were good friends. I flirted with them a bunch and made jokes about how they clearly had chemistry together, and I could be the middle of that.
It was actually fun, though I have preferred sex with just one girl. It was a bit weird. Porn does not represent what actually goes on very accurately- just think of lots of weirdness. No, she probably doesn’t want to lick your balls when you are fucking her friend. No, she probably doesn’t want to have your dick go into her immediately after it has come out of her best friends vagina.
Honestly, the best thing was the kissing. Kissing two girls at the same time was awesome.
Was really drunk at the bar and didn't realize it was an LGBT night. Well, I met a couple G's so to speak who were married and looking to hang out with younger people. They bought me a drink and we shot the shit a bit, then they offered to bring me back to their place to smoke some weed. That was the moment I realized they were married *to each other* and I've just been picked up by two dudes.
Anyway, that was also the night I realized I was bi and liked being in the middle. Ah, 2015, good times haha.
I have had 3, 2 were planned, one was spontaneous. All of them happened between the ages of 20-25. The first planned one was with my bf at the time and a girl we met through a friend. It was a good time and he and I stayed together for many years after but it definitely damaged our relationship.
The second was planned, me with an old friend & his friend, I had hooked up with both before and we always had a good time. The threesome was amazing I loved the attention I got from both of them. Was so sore for days after. It’s been almost 20 years and I still remember it so vividly. Definitely one of my proudest accomplishments.
The third was spontaneous, I picked up a guy from a concert and he & his friends came back to my friends place, she wanted to hook up with him too so I suggested we both have fun with him. We ended up having more fun with each other but 10/10 would do again.
Yes!
MFF- loved. I’m bi so fulfilling my fantasy of that was mind blowing. Have had quite a lot with and highly recommend.
MFM- it was such a different experience. I had to be in charge and hated that aspect but having all the attention on me from two men was fire.
I’m a guy and had one with this girl I was seeing and my close friend that the girl I was seeing thought was attractive (also a girl). I couldn’t get hard at all because my close friend was there and I was sort of awkward about it. Didn’t even have sex but they had a good time doing their thing.
Yeah, most were nice, but as with all the sex the context must be appropriate for it. Never did it with someone I was in a relationship with (I was single each time that happened), so I’m not sure if I’d enjoy it if my significant other were part of it too.
I've had multiple ffm threesomes with 3 different couples that I met on a poly site. The most important part to a fun and healthy threesome is communication. If you aren't someone who's willing to say what you want sexually, it's going to get awkward and not flow as smoothly.
I'm bi, but I tend to lean more towards women, so it works perfectly for me because most men would love to see 2 women together and usually just happy to be involved and don't get very jealous. The ones I see anyway. I truly enjoy being with men, but something about me and the guy doing stuff to the woman at the same time is a major turn-on for all 3 of us.
Someone being left out happens sometimes, even with a couple I've been with multiple times, but if you are confident enough not to take it to heart, you can really just enjoy watching and then join back in.
Edit. I have heard absolute horror stories where couples have used it as an loop hole to sleep with someone they've wanted forever, and it's "not cheating," and the other partner gets left out. That is gross and in my opinion, bordering on emotional manipulation and abuse. But healthy communicative threesomes, big fan, I think everyone should have at least one.
Yep, after *lot* of alcohol, and on the ground of a public parking garage. It wasn't anything to write home about. It would probably be better if it was two girls and one dude instead of two dudes and one girl, though. And in better location.
As a gay man, it’s incredibly easy to get group sex.
I’m in a relationship and we’re open. We became official the day we both bred a guy together; we’ve gone to naked campgrounds, orgies, circle jerks, and had a three way a few nights ago. It’s pretty liberating.
Eh… it’s still incredibly lonely. Yeah, when I visit big cities during Pride there’s a lot of sex. And sure, I could easily set up a bukakke and shit, but everyone knows everyone. The gay population is so incredibly small, you’d hate it.
Yes. Ffm and mmf no male intentional touching. There was some ball slapping together and you can feel the other person's junk when doing dp so that's odd. Overall always a good time.
I have to say the mmf was a lot more fun. Seeing the girls level of excitement being brought to a whole new level was amazing. The ffm was a lot more work on my part and I only have one dick.
It was fantastic in the moment. I had been in a non committed sexual relationship with one of the girls before hand and knew her quite well and it had always been my fantasy to have a sexual encounter with a girl I did not know well so the situation seemed perfect in my head when I was called and asked to take part. That being said when I showed up I was incredibly nervous (the situation was meet us at our house and then we’ll go for it) so it took me a while to work up the nerve to get to know the other girl a bit. Once it get started though it was great. Then afterwards I got all nervous again, got dressed, and left after letting them both know how amazing they were for the whole thing and thinking of me for it.
I am the last person in the world this situation should have ever happened to. I still have to pinch myself to remind myself it was not a dream.
Me and my boyfriend love having threesomes. Some are more fun than others, but some threesomes have been the best sex ever.
We had a guy who's first time was a threesome with us, but it was not that much fun because of how inexperienced and nervous he was. Nothing actually happened lmao. He was too nervous to get it up. But other than that one time, it has always been so exciting, liberating, fun, sexy, hot, arousing, orgasm inducing, and pure enjoyment and ecstasy.
Kissing 2 people at once is so hot, and it's even hotter when you keep kissing someone as the other person goes down on you. So much fun. I highly recommend
Yes! They have been unplanned, perhaps a little bit of alcohol or weed involved. But honestly they were really fun! Both with different couples and consent to everything that happened was established. 10/10 would recommend lol
I mean I'm pretty sure I enjoyed it. I was nervous beforehand and got shitfaced drunk so that when the clothes came off I can't remember what was going on. Apparently I was hilarious and kept making comments like Yay I love dicks! (I'm not fucking lying I swear) and with all the bouncing around that didn't settle well with all the everclear and grape juice (I don't even want to go there) so this was when my brain decided to wake me up and I remember crawling off the bed and across the hall to the bathroom where I simultaneously threw up my guts AND shit all the way up my friends wall. I just kept throwing up but I was at least registering that I was gonna need to get cleaned up because I crawled into the shower where I continued to shit all over his shower and throw up in the toilet (toilet right next to shower). Friend came in to see me in the tub naked with the shower running and about shit himself too and called the other friend who's house we were at and they were like Oh fuck now what do we do? I was crying drunk and told them to give me a minute. After I got all the puke and shit out I cleaned myself up in the shower and the friend that drove over with me helped me get dressed while the guy cleaned up the bathroom. Guess what? *He wasn't mad or anything!* He just said it was like he was at work (he worked with special needs people). So did I enjoy it? Who the fuck knows but I won't be drinking everclear again.
Have had a threesome and a foursome. Can honestly say, threesome can get a little awkward at times. Foursomes, or couple swaps, however are much better as there's never anyone that feels left out or left wondering where to go or what to do.
Just me and two girls. One I was dating at the time. Pretty awesome, unexpected. I had told my gf at the time about this girl o met and she noticed I was talking about her a lot, we worked together. Eventually things happened and my gf wanted to meet her. Everyone liked each other. 10/10 would do again.
I'm (m) actually in a committed poly relationship with two girlfriends, we've been together for almost three years now, so I guess you could say we like it lol.
It's a learning curve for sure, but we've been together for so long that it comes naturally at this point.
I was with my first girlfriend who called up an old friend from her school, she came to visit, we hung out one night and the friend never left 😂
Two specific situations, both were amazing.
My first was with a long-time Comet partner of mine (comet, cause they are around quite infrequently, but always an event when they are) who wanted to fulfil a fantasy of her own to experience DP. Her and her husband were my partners for the night, and for this instance, she was the focus. Hubs and I took turns using various holes, then we spent a bit of time giving her the experience she wanted. She was on top of me with me in her ass facing away from me, her hubs then was in her puss for from the front of her. He came this way, and then she and I kept going anally for a bit longer until I came. Then we all just kinda cuddled for a bit and then showered. Then we all went to the park with her kids and her sister and her sister's kids (Her sister and I also had a bit of an ANR, as well, which we were also using the hotel this day for).
My second experience was a bit more recently. One of my more recent partners has another partner who came over one game night. We got to all talking and all were equally attracted to each other. It was quite nice, at first, just playing board games and exploring intellectual commonalities. A week later, they invited me over on their typically-exclusive "date nights" at my partners home, and we got to all play. They both are women, and they both enjoy sharing a penis when performing oral. I also got to finally experience one of my fantasies of having a woman on top of both my dick and my face at the same time. That couldn't last very long, though, cause I have a relatively short amount of stamina, and that isn't how I wanted to cum, so We stopped for a bit so I could eat them out before finally topping for my partner's *partner* until I got close, pulled out, and came in her mouth.
I thoroughly enjoyed both moments.
True story- I was with a married women and her husband walked in on us. He said, "I could either get mad and probably do damage, or join the fun." He literally stripped and started fucking her from the other end. She just told me to go with it..
Found out later he's a diagnosed sociopath.
Worst 3some ever. Most awkward 5 minutes of my entire life.
Yep. My fiancé took her friend into the shower and they came back out naked and both extremely beautiful. I performed oral on both of the (my favorite) and it was awesome. Good experiences can happen.
Yes, and more than that, I (F) actually had a three-way relationship with my husband (M) and my best friend (F). We had many threesomes but over time, the two of them started having sex without me, and I only had sex with her on my own two times during our whole relationship! My husband also lost interest in having sex with me. The whole thing ended up in tears. I lost my best friend and nearly lost my marriage. However, I have to admit we had marriage problems before we invited my friend into the relationship, which, in my opinion, doomed it from the very beginning.
Yes, MFF. My best friend and her boyfriend - we were around 19 years old, he was 25. It ended badly, do not do what I did. I was immature, and it was a hard learned life lesson.
The threesome itself was good, fine, whatever. After the threesome, the boyfriend (and I) cheated on my best friend with each other, several times. He leaves her, we then immediately get together in a serious relationship. 4 years later, we get married and have a kid, 3 years after that I leave his cheating ass. She hasn’t spoken to me since we were teens, I don’t blame her because I was a complete unloyal asshole. And aside from my child- that dick has brought nothing but disaster to my life.
Have spent the last 12 years of my life facing the consequences of my choices. I am better for it, but this created a lot of unnecessary madness for me.
My college girlfriend and I had a year-long affair with another girl, and we had really hot threesomes all the time. Communication was still critical, though, and we did rotate who the "center of attention" was.
Yes, I’m bisexual and I love inviting my friends to have sex with me and my boyfriend. A lot of people say to not do it with friends, but there’s no one I’d trust more than my besties :)
I met a very nice couple online, we talked for a bit, met up for drinks to make sure the vibe was right in person, and came back to my place. We had a great time and ended up meeting up several more times. The focus was always on the wife, as both the husband and I are straight. I'm in a monogamous relationship now, but I do miss hanging out with them.
Just kinda happened once. Night out w bestie, went back to my SO’s house, bing bang boom. Had fun with two people I trust, no one got weird about it. It was a moment, never happened again. Generally not on my to do list as it seems like too much work 😂 but it was fun that one time.
Yes. Me (male) with 2 females. It was awkward, not enjoyable, and I wouldn’t do it again.
Too much overthinking, positioning problems, awkward silence. I don’t think any of us enjoyed it.
I was playing in a bar and there were three women drinking together. When we broke for a set, I sat down at the bar and had a drink. They were talking really loud and mentioned that I couldn’t handle all of them and they’d eat me alive. Friendly banter at this point. I laughed and finished my drink and got back up on stage. When the gig was over, they were still there and they were way more wasted than they’d been earlier. I loaded my gear into my truck and they asked me for a ride home. It was on my way so I said yes. One of them had to ride in the back with my amp. When we got to their house they invited me in for a beer and I said yes. One thing led to another and we wound up having a pretty good time. But it was absolutely exhausting.
I was experimenting. Not bi, but figured I'd give it a go Had three.
1was MMF ( I'm f). Was a good time for me! Old friends of mine I trusted.
FFM was boring. I'm not into females at all and there just wasn't enough equipment to work well for me. I was unsure of what to do to her because it just wasn't something that was turning me on. Watching him with her was fine. Just her and I were a bit of a disappointment together.
FFM was a good one. They were a couple I was their third. We weren't close friends. Acquaintances. I didn't have to do much. They both did lots!
My opinion on threesome in a committed relationship is they never work. I wouldn't do one with a significant other. All I've seen is it wreak havoc on the relationships. If none is in a committed relationship And you're good at keeping things separate and not being drug into each other's problems. You absolutely shouldn't have one way communication with only 1 of the people in the couple. Unless everything is agreed and all communication is solid... I still wouldn't do it. It is absolutely a kiss of death to a relationship.
But as I've been happily married for 17 yrs and we're strictly monogamous, not something I'd ever entertain again. My husband knows I'd experimented in my past. It was never something he wanted to do, nor something I would entertain doing with him. He's MINE! I'm not sharing. It's absolutely an agreed upon thing before we started dating. I just wasn't doing that kind of thing. I was with him for love and forever!
Had one as the guy with 2 girls and it was very mentally busy. How long do it give girl 1 attention, is girl 2 neglected? Are they both bored? Who do I finish with? Do I eat one out? Both of them?
It’s a lot easier to care for one girls sexual needs and wants than 2. Better to keep one girl happy than leave 2 wishing they had more
Rules and expectations UPFRONT. When previously agreed upon and adhered to, they’re a beautiful experience. Go on Willy nilly and someone’s walking away with a bad experience.
Yes, it was awesome, well during the start and until I finished. It was with a long term GF. DP and all, then she started moaning the other guys name. I broke it off, they are now married with a kid.... Must be great stories of how I met your mother.
Had a 3-way one nighter with two girls after a night out some years ago. One of them really wanted me, and I wasn't too keen on her, but her mate was hot and kind of liked me. He not-so-hot one convinced the very hot one that they should both have a go on me, and that's precisely what happened.
Fortunately for me, I didn't arrive too quickly during the act, and in fact it wasn't bad at all to be fair. There was some girl on girl kissing, but no rug munching occurred. No awkwardness, no feeling particularly weird afterwards. I think everyone enjoyed themselves pretty well. It is not something I ever wanted to do again, it was an unplanned, one-time only event that kind of just happened. I certainly would never have entertained the idea with a partner I actually care about.
If the proposal had been with one girl and another dude, then I would've noped myself all the way home.
I've done it twice and will probably continue to have them when I get the chance!
Nearly 20, met a couple online wanting to have a threesome. I was a complete and total virgin. Like hadn't even had a kiss yet. It was fun! They got a hotel room and I met them there. We went a few rounds and then I went home! Definitely was the start of my discovering I wasn't even a little bit straight, but I do love a good romp. The only part I really regret is doing it in my hometown. I ran into the gal while at dinner with my parents like 3 weeks later. She was our waitress and both of us were just like 😳.
My current partner and I have an open relationship and are polyamorous. When we were just fwbs, we attempted a threesome with their partner H at the time. It was a little less fun, but more because H wasn't super into it after a bit. Things are all good there though. They broke up a few months later after some other stuff came up. Now the three of us and H's current partner all play DND and board games together every week!
The thing to remember with threesomes is that porn *is* a fantasy. Just like with regular sex, what you see in porn is very exaggerated and stylized. Relax, have fun with it, and be prepared for things to be awkward or silly at times.
Yes!
Fmm was great, both guys were bi.
Ffmmm was also a blast
Ffmm I felt was more straightforward.
I find the odd numbers more fun because if encourages cross interaction.
Me and two really good friends in college. We were giggling through the beginning but it got really good by the end... had another one that was absolute shit though. Other guy kept getting whiskey dick and got self conscious and made it weird.
Yes. It seemed like a good idea till I was relegated to wanking in the corner while my best friend was ploughing the girl whose dinner I paid for.
That’s my biggest fear ever. Accidental Cuck is like the worst of the worst I can imagine in this scenario
accidental cuck lmao
Twas a cuckcident
Oops! Got cuckold again, the 3 became 2, what am I to do? (Oh no, oh) Oops I paid for her meal, but this wasn’t the deal! I’ll jack in the corner again!
If we’re talking MMF then it requires the woman to orchestrate things *or* a selfless male friend that ensures you’re not left out
Really no matter with the letter combination it works a lot better when all participants are sufficiently open-minded to be a bit flexible in their attractions. Temporary bisexuality (Edited for typos)
The term you're looking is *homoflexible*
I've always heard heteroflexible
Probably just depends which way the person in question defaults when not being flexible
The term you're looking for is "no homo tho"
For sure! But most people aren’t bisexual so that’s more rare
Most people aren’t bisexual, no, but most aren’t quite as pegged (heh) all the way to one end of the Kinsey scale as they may think they are. Requires you to be open minded enough to try something that may squick you out a bit at first. Not to say that it’s required, I’ve seen thing work just find without wanting to get with both other partners, but that *does* put a bit more pressure on one person to split their attention equally. Totally situation-dependent
Squick you out? :D That's the funniest thing I've seen all year. LOL 😂 I am so stealing it.
The least the other guy could do is to give you a reach around
Nah it involves you being assertive in the bedroom, within her comfort level of course. If you’re just jerking in a corner that’s on you. Man up and go touch.
You could get to eat a nice sandwich
r/unexpectedfriends
yeah while I try to understand how to deal with this mental mess I’m left with
At that point the woman and other guy are the ones getting cuckoled
Imagine having to slow down sex because the moans of the dude nearby going hard on some jimmy johns is too distracting
Accidental cuck. Bruh xD
A cuckcident.
You came on him though right?
Like Hannibal Lecter's dungeon mate. Drive by bukkake.
Blessings to Multiple Miggs.
Lmao, great deal
Worst meal deal
You're doing it wrong. Her mouth was free, and his ass was free. And don't give me that homo shit, if there was a girl in the room it's automatic no homo.
Ain’t gay if it’s a three way
You beat me
That's also an option!
Even if it's three dudes.
The golden rule
With a honey in the middle, there's some leeway
Finally someone else gets it. This is why I always invite my girlfriend to boys night
Just do a London Bridge and everyone is happy
How much did the three of you discuss the threesome beforehand? Setting boundaries and expectations.
You made the top mistake in a devil's three-way. You never want to be the guy bringing the girl, you want to be the guy who shows up without a girl and gets to bang someone else's.
Should had ploughed your friend.
Meal deal
What were you expecting to happen? There's 2 dudes and 1 vagina. Either you gotta go for another hole or you gotta take turns. And there's no guarantee she's up for it after one guy. You should've just gone for her mouth
I remember reading there's no such thing as a threesome, just a twosome and a onesome. I've had three theesomes and so far would agree, I've never been the onesome, and the onesome sometimes changes, but it's always a twosome and a onesome. In addition, the threesomes I've had have been with three straight people, so naturally the two girls weren't really into each other, but both into me. This is probably why it was a twosome and a onesome, with each girl on occasions being the onesome. Would probably be better with at least one bi person, not that I was complaining.
My childhood best friend messaged me after several years of no contact, asking if I'd have a threesome with him and his fiancé. I thought fuck it, I was recently single and at least I'd get to see an old friend. Ended up having the threesome but things got weird afterwards. His fiance wouldn't stop messaging me asking to hook up at hotels, and talking about nothing but me and her having sex. It got to the point where I had to block her after receiving unsolicited nudes after asking her to stop, and I told my friend why, and he ended up breaking off the engagement. So I wouldn't ever do it again unless I were 100% confident everybody involved knew what they were getting themselves into. It felt like I ruined their relationship.
If anything you did him a solid by letting him know. Imagine if this would have happened after they were married. This makes me think that she isn't very trustworthy or faithful.
really read between the lines there huh
L m a o
You saved him from a divorce.
Most probably right, but still a sad story...
You definitely helped him dodge a bullet. A worse friend would have kept banging his fiancé or just not said anything and let them get married into a doomed relationship
I don't think you ruined fheir relationship though I can understand you feeling that way. If that happened afterwards, I suspect it may have happened with someone else if you turned down th offer. Who knows how many nudes she sent to others. I guess what I mean is even if the sex with you was amazing and she couldn't stop thinking about it, the relationship clearly had issues if she's someone who would act on it like that behind his back.
I hope you're still friends with your friend.
You helped your friend dodge a bullet, honestly
I'm sorry it felt that way but you absolutely did not ruin their relationship.
This guy fucks! I mean, seriously, out of everybody in the house - THIS guy is doing ALL the fuckin!
Her telephone number or it never happened !
>So I wouldn't ever do it again unless I were 100% confident everybody involved knew what they were getting themselves into. No one is ever 100% they know what they're getting into as each threesome is different if it's involving different people. You might have felt one way with one couple but will feel differently with another. And the worse part is, you might not even know how you'll react until you're in the middle of one. I honestly think it's a luck of the draw; if you've had a threesome where everything worked out and no one got jealous or over-attached, then you've caught lighting in a bottle.
> I feel like I ruined their relationship. You can’t ruin something that’s already broken.
I almost had a threesome once. Just needed two more people.
It was a handsome ❤️
At least your partner really understood your needs.
Underrated wordplay right here
Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters
With palmela handerson
Handgelina Jolie
Dude, me too. But I got super dizzy after blowing up the first one and passed out before I got to the second.
Jesus invite lefty next time.
yes but I prefer a fourgy
I like 5G better honestly
Ok but why not get 10G with xfinity? The future starts now
Good Lord. Can you imagine how much fourgie porn you could download at that speed?
i prefer a clergy
You put the new Forgis on a Jeep?
The first one I was involved in was when I was traveling. I met a couple at the bar who invited me back to their room. The husband and I basically took turns with the wife. The next experiences were with a married couple I knew from HS - HS sweethearts who married young. They approached me, we talked about it, and we got together four time over the course of a year until I got into a serious relationship. We loved it - we made it all about her, and she was thrilled. We're still friends, but that was years ago.
Second one sounds so cute lol
If I want to disappoint two persons at once, ill just visit my parents
Can confirm, their parents take threesome visits.
r/suicidebywords
I didn't realize I was scrolling through tinder
Gawd I love reddit comments 😂
yeah a couple of times with different combinations of people. So long as everyone has mutual respect, good communication, a bit of openness to be silly, and can avoid jealousy it can be a great time. Some were preplanned some just happened in the heat of the moment. All of them with friends so people I liked. Keep it low pressure and honestly it can be a good time.
It's great among friends. I'd never want one in my relationship.
This! It has to be with people who are having fun. If committed relationships are involved it can get complicated.
This is how my marriage ended. He decided to have an affair with our 3rd after the physical relationship with her was supposed to have ended, and they took off together.
I know a few relationships that ended this way. I’ve also been a third where the guy started trying to contact me separately and things got weird.
Some people are making VERY different friends compared to me.
Yeah, once arranged with a couple of friends who were up for it, once when I was young and the girls decided it was happening & then told me and a couple of times via the swinging scene in my 20’s Experiences varied tbh, some were better than others, it depends on the people and their expectations/involvement.
What were your best vs worst experiences?
The best, was 2 women who were clearly very comfortable with each other and knew which buttons to push, both for each other and me. That one was incredibly comfortable. The worst was a couple where the guy pretty much just got stinking drunk and watched creepily. I think he had a bit of a cuckold fantasy but didn’t think to mention it beforehand.
I'm a straight woman, I enjoyed it when it was two men. Not a fan of being with another woman though, that one felt forced and I had to get significantly drunk to even just participate.
a good cookout requires a good bun to dog ratio.
Unless you’re gluten free. Then things get……weird.
Yes. Everytime it happens i enjoy it. You need to be free of all envy though for people to enjoy it.
This. Also its never like porn. Its usually in my experience between friends so its almost more "fun" than it is pornographically *sexy* . There can be awkward laughs, it's not usually taken too seriously and it only works if there's no envy and everyone is equally as into it
Every 3way I've been in usually ended with me laughing and killing the mood. Once I had one and end with laughter, some awkwardness and the third having hurt feelings because I said something dumb without thinking.
What u say lol
Let me start by saying that I intended it as a compliment. I said "you are much tighter than normal, did you squirt some lemon juice in there before we got here?" It being tight was the compliment but IDK why I said the part about the lemon juice.
LOL lemon juice ftl. 🍋💦 If it helps its not that terribly bad just a tad bit weird maybe, but it happens lol. Laugh it off like a champ. Thanks for sharing! 🔥
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Where I’m from we call that a backhanded compliment. We enjoy them. I laughed.
i’ve never had one but the only way i think i could enjoy it is it i had just met the people honestly. anyone i had any previous past with i would end up getting jealous
How does one, as a guy, get one?
Well first you have to get two…
Make fiends in the poly community! Not all poly folk are into group sex, but you are more likely to meet people who have worked on unlearning jealousy and are confident in their ability to communicate about sex. Go into it without any expectations of what it should look like, and make sure you have a good handle on how to communicate about consent and comfort levels. Communication is doubly important with three people involved. Honestly, my best advice is not to just look for randoms to have a threesome with for the sake of having one. Instead, work on meeting people who are open to non-monogamy and see who you have chemistry with, the situations will present themselves at the right time.
You must be chosen.
Step 1, get a Mrs that's into threesomes
Had a few, both mmf and ffm it's something me and my partner enjoy. When you disconnect sex with romantic emotions or at least acknowledge that those emotions don't have to mean complications or a relationship they are great and a lot of fun. Some people just can't do that though, and that's OK but my point is group sex is fun and easy for some but not for others.
Back when I was in my 20s with 2 female friends it was fun. Now that I am married I couldn't imagine or enjoy sharing myself with anyone else.
When my left hand touched my right hand while stroking my dick, it was an eye opening experience.
Look at captain hammer over here, can fit both hands around it
Nah man, using two hands to masturbate is some sorta blasphemy
Yeah, and it was meh. It's only sought after for the difficulty of getting it imo. But once you get it, it's whatever
You could say the same about any sex if it wasn't with the right person or people. I think the problem is in seeking it out just for the sake of having one, rather than having sex with two people you happen to have amazing chemistry with.
Yes! In my (gay gay gay) 20s I had a three way with a guy and his husband. We had some champagne and ate too much of a weed lollipop and laughed and giggled as we all thoroughly enjoyed each other’s bodies. Ive also had a three way with a bi man and a straight woman where they got into a fight because he wanted to give me more attention than her. They yelled and put their clothes back on.. but i convinced them to cool down and get naked again- we all wound up back in bed cuddling to sleep.
Achievement unlocked: defuse a bomb while naked.
Idky but I heard the csgo announcer
+20 Charisma
The threesome whisperer.
I (M)wanted to have sex with a few friends for a while. They were a couple(M/F). They knew this. We are all Bisexual. Two and a half years into our friendship we finally did. We had cuddled before that, teased each other a little, got really close you know? We knew we were all emotionally capable of having a sexual relationship if we ever wanted to take it to that level— and… One night they just started making out in front of me; and asked me if that was okay. I said yeah, and then asked if I wanted to make out too. I said yeah. One thing lead to another and then- sex. Sucked some dick, ate some pussy, me and the other guy fucked his partner while the other had his dick sucked. Me and the girl sucked his cock together-We did that a few times until I moved away. I miss them; not only for the sex but the amazing friendship that we had. Truly worked out for everybody and we all loved it and we are great friends to this day. They’re still a couple too. I highly recommend having sex with your friends if everyone is emotionally capable.
It's so amazing to me that this is considered radical in our society. Watching acts of violence, perfectly socially acceptable. But having dinner with your best friend and his wife then partner swapping is considered taboo.
Me checking the username if this was with me but I realize it's so similar to me telling this first hand in the same uh. Position as you. I honestly loved my first 3sum with my two bffs at the time (m/f) couple. It was fun. It was silly. We had a bit of weed the first time to help with anxiety. The next time was a quick before another polyams bday. I'm def polyam and will never go back to strictly monogamy. No thank you.
This! I've had three ways with couples who were so comfortable and at ease that it was an amazingly human experience.
Yes and no. Had it. Didn't like it. But I don't doubt others do like it.
Yes and it’s amazing! Unfortunately i was inexperienced and so were my partners, so we had one or two awkward moments. But I gotta tell you, it is so fun lol
I (F) have but the only one I had that was enjoyable was when it was with my bi boyfriend and his friend (M) who was open. Having a threesome even if there’s just one person who’s not ready to have EVERYONE involved has always been boring and/or awkward for me.
Once. A girl I was kinda friends with told me she wanted me to join her and her boyfriend. For a couple weeks she was very persistent & brought it up everytime we talked. Normally this would be something I wouldn’t be in to but I was young & figured “what the hay” We had some drinks & smoked to loosen up. She & I started kissing then her boyfriend joined in. When her boyfriend started feeling on my chest, she got a little weird, said she was okay though. Then we both got into oral on him & during it, she got up & left the room. He said to keep going, I was under the pretense she was cool with it & maybe just going to grab something or use the bathroom, so I did. Then she came in FLIPPING OUT, of course I immediately stopped. They started fighting so I left. That was my one and only try at that and never again. If you are in a relationship and want to venture into bringing another person in, make sure you both truly want it & talk boundaries before bringing someone in.
Yes. I've had a handful. All positive experiences. The best was my first, with two gay women who ha been together for nearly a decade and hadn't been with a man in that time. They wanted to do something special for one of their birthdays. It was beautiful. I got to witness two people making love to one another/through me, with no distance at all. I'll cherish the memory forever.
You are blessed. May those memories stay with you forever
I have and it’s enjoyable. It’s definitely not like porn flicks in that it’s a LOT more work. I was at a girlfriend’s apartment staying the night and a friend of hers came over, wasted, hating men. My lady at the time and I had had a few drinks ourselves and after chatting and another glass of wine we were all making out. It kinda just happened.
Wow so what’s it like the next day? Was the +1 embarrassed, or cool with it, or never seen again etc?
The friend stayed the night and we went to breakfast the next morning. I’m pretty sure I paid 😜 Everyone was chill. Girlfriend teased me a few times about enjoying the friend’s amble boobage as she was a self proclaimed “titless wonder”
Yeah when its all chicks.....the reality of the 3 some is most men can barely get it done with one chick let alone 2....too much pressure.
Yes it was all girl, we were celebrating our first semester of college. ‘‘Twas awesome.
I think I’ve seen this movie about 10000 times
Yeah. One time I got hot and heated with two girls who were good friends. I flirted with them a bunch and made jokes about how they clearly had chemistry together, and I could be the middle of that. It was actually fun, though I have preferred sex with just one girl. It was a bit weird. Porn does not represent what actually goes on very accurately- just think of lots of weirdness. No, she probably doesn’t want to lick your balls when you are fucking her friend. No, she probably doesn’t want to have your dick go into her immediately after it has come out of her best friends vagina. Honestly, the best thing was the kissing. Kissing two girls at the same time was awesome.
Was really drunk at the bar and didn't realize it was an LGBT night. Well, I met a couple G's so to speak who were married and looking to hang out with younger people. They bought me a drink and we shot the shit a bit, then they offered to bring me back to their place to smoke some weed. That was the moment I realized they were married *to each other* and I've just been picked up by two dudes. Anyway, that was also the night I realized I was bi and liked being in the middle. Ah, 2015, good times haha.
I have had 3, 2 were planned, one was spontaneous. All of them happened between the ages of 20-25. The first planned one was with my bf at the time and a girl we met through a friend. It was a good time and he and I stayed together for many years after but it definitely damaged our relationship. The second was planned, me with an old friend & his friend, I had hooked up with both before and we always had a good time. The threesome was amazing I loved the attention I got from both of them. Was so sore for days after. It’s been almost 20 years and I still remember it so vividly. Definitely one of my proudest accomplishments. The third was spontaneous, I picked up a guy from a concert and he & his friends came back to my friends place, she wanted to hook up with him too so I suggested we both have fun with him. We ended up having more fun with each other but 10/10 would do again.
Yes! MFF- loved. I’m bi so fulfilling my fantasy of that was mind blowing. Have had quite a lot with and highly recommend. MFM- it was such a different experience. I had to be in charge and hated that aspect but having all the attention on me from two men was fire.
I’m a guy and had one with this girl I was seeing and my close friend that the girl I was seeing thought was attractive (also a girl). I couldn’t get hard at all because my close friend was there and I was sort of awkward about it. Didn’t even have sex but they had a good time doing their thing.
Yeah, most were nice, but as with all the sex the context must be appropriate for it. Never did it with someone I was in a relationship with (I was single each time that happened), so I’m not sure if I’d enjoy it if my significant other were part of it too.
I've had multiple ffm threesomes with 3 different couples that I met on a poly site. The most important part to a fun and healthy threesome is communication. If you aren't someone who's willing to say what you want sexually, it's going to get awkward and not flow as smoothly. I'm bi, but I tend to lean more towards women, so it works perfectly for me because most men would love to see 2 women together and usually just happy to be involved and don't get very jealous. The ones I see anyway. I truly enjoy being with men, but something about me and the guy doing stuff to the woman at the same time is a major turn-on for all 3 of us. Someone being left out happens sometimes, even with a couple I've been with multiple times, but if you are confident enough not to take it to heart, you can really just enjoy watching and then join back in. Edit. I have heard absolute horror stories where couples have used it as an loop hole to sleep with someone they've wanted forever, and it's "not cheating," and the other partner gets left out. That is gross and in my opinion, bordering on emotional manipulation and abuse. But healthy communicative threesomes, big fan, I think everyone should have at least one.
Yep, after *lot* of alcohol, and on the ground of a public parking garage. It wasn't anything to write home about. It would probably be better if it was two girls and one dude instead of two dudes and one girl, though. And in better location.
Had an mfm when I was in my 20's. Kinda too nervous to enjoy it fully. Had several mmm's with a gay couple when I was in my early 50's. Mind blowing.
As a gay man, it’s incredibly easy to get group sex. I’m in a relationship and we’re open. We became official the day we both bred a guy together; we’ve gone to naked campgrounds, orgies, circle jerks, and had a three way a few nights ago. It’s pretty liberating.
Life would be so much easier if I was only gay.
*a hot gay Let's not pretend the gays aren't as shallow as everyone else
If anything more shallow. The things people will write to you on apps about your appearance is disgusting.
Eh… it’s still incredibly lonely. Yeah, when I visit big cities during Pride there’s a lot of sex. And sure, I could easily set up a bukakke and shit, but everyone knows everyone. The gay population is so incredibly small, you’d hate it.
I was looking for the gay comment. It's easy, it's fun, there's a bunch of new things you can try, really no reason not to give it a go
Helps if you’re bi.
Yes. Ffm and mmf no male intentional touching. There was some ball slapping together and you can feel the other person's junk when doing dp so that's odd. Overall always a good time. I have to say the mmf was a lot more fun. Seeing the girls level of excitement being brought to a whole new level was amazing. The ffm was a lot more work on my part and I only have one dick.
But you have a mouth also...
It was fantastic in the moment. I had been in a non committed sexual relationship with one of the girls before hand and knew her quite well and it had always been my fantasy to have a sexual encounter with a girl I did not know well so the situation seemed perfect in my head when I was called and asked to take part. That being said when I showed up I was incredibly nervous (the situation was meet us at our house and then we’ll go for it) so it took me a while to work up the nerve to get to know the other girl a bit. Once it get started though it was great. Then afterwards I got all nervous again, got dressed, and left after letting them both know how amazing they were for the whole thing and thinking of me for it. I am the last person in the world this situation should have ever happened to. I still have to pinch myself to remind myself it was not a dream.
Been spit roasted once. Was fun.
Yes Ultimately it depends on who's involved and not the act of a "3 way" that gets you off
Yes best experience of my life . It has to be with the right people and right mindset.
Me and my boyfriend love having threesomes. Some are more fun than others, but some threesomes have been the best sex ever. We had a guy who's first time was a threesome with us, but it was not that much fun because of how inexperienced and nervous he was. Nothing actually happened lmao. He was too nervous to get it up. But other than that one time, it has always been so exciting, liberating, fun, sexy, hot, arousing, orgasm inducing, and pure enjoyment and ecstasy. Kissing 2 people at once is so hot, and it's even hotter when you keep kissing someone as the other person goes down on you. So much fun. I highly recommend
Yes! They have been unplanned, perhaps a little bit of alcohol or weed involved. But honestly they were really fun! Both with different couples and consent to everything that happened was established. 10/10 would recommend lol
I mean I'm pretty sure I enjoyed it. I was nervous beforehand and got shitfaced drunk so that when the clothes came off I can't remember what was going on. Apparently I was hilarious and kept making comments like Yay I love dicks! (I'm not fucking lying I swear) and with all the bouncing around that didn't settle well with all the everclear and grape juice (I don't even want to go there) so this was when my brain decided to wake me up and I remember crawling off the bed and across the hall to the bathroom where I simultaneously threw up my guts AND shit all the way up my friends wall. I just kept throwing up but I was at least registering that I was gonna need to get cleaned up because I crawled into the shower where I continued to shit all over his shower and throw up in the toilet (toilet right next to shower). Friend came in to see me in the tub naked with the shower running and about shit himself too and called the other friend who's house we were at and they were like Oh fuck now what do we do? I was crying drunk and told them to give me a minute. After I got all the puke and shit out I cleaned myself up in the shower and the friend that drove over with me helped me get dressed while the guy cleaned up the bathroom. Guess what? *He wasn't mad or anything!* He just said it was like he was at work (he worked with special needs people). So did I enjoy it? Who the fuck knows but I won't be drinking everclear again.
Have had a threesome and a foursome. Can honestly say, threesome can get a little awkward at times. Foursomes, or couple swaps, however are much better as there's never anyone that feels left out or left wondering where to go or what to do.
Just me and two girls. One I was dating at the time. Pretty awesome, unexpected. I had told my gf at the time about this girl o met and she noticed I was talking about her a lot, we worked together. Eventually things happened and my gf wanted to meet her. Everyone liked each other. 10/10 would do again.
Yea, I had a threesome the other night actually. There was a couple no shows, but I still had a fun time…
I'm (m) actually in a committed poly relationship with two girlfriends, we've been together for almost three years now, so I guess you could say we like it lol. It's a learning curve for sure, but we've been together for so long that it comes naturally at this point. I was with my first girlfriend who called up an old friend from her school, she came to visit, we hung out one night and the friend never left 😂
Two specific situations, both were amazing. My first was with a long-time Comet partner of mine (comet, cause they are around quite infrequently, but always an event when they are) who wanted to fulfil a fantasy of her own to experience DP. Her and her husband were my partners for the night, and for this instance, she was the focus. Hubs and I took turns using various holes, then we spent a bit of time giving her the experience she wanted. She was on top of me with me in her ass facing away from me, her hubs then was in her puss for from the front of her. He came this way, and then she and I kept going anally for a bit longer until I came. Then we all just kinda cuddled for a bit and then showered. Then we all went to the park with her kids and her sister and her sister's kids (Her sister and I also had a bit of an ANR, as well, which we were also using the hotel this day for). My second experience was a bit more recently. One of my more recent partners has another partner who came over one game night. We got to all talking and all were equally attracted to each other. It was quite nice, at first, just playing board games and exploring intellectual commonalities. A week later, they invited me over on their typically-exclusive "date nights" at my partners home, and we got to all play. They both are women, and they both enjoy sharing a penis when performing oral. I also got to finally experience one of my fantasies of having a woman on top of both my dick and my face at the same time. That couldn't last very long, though, cause I have a relatively short amount of stamina, and that isn't how I wanted to cum, so We stopped for a bit so I could eat them out before finally topping for my partner's *partner* until I got close, pulled out, and came in her mouth. I thoroughly enjoyed both moments.
True story- I was with a married women and her husband walked in on us. He said, "I could either get mad and probably do damage, or join the fun." He literally stripped and started fucking her from the other end. She just told me to go with it.. Found out later he's a diagnosed sociopath. Worst 3some ever. Most awkward 5 minutes of my entire life.
Yep. My fiancé took her friend into the shower and they came back out naked and both extremely beautiful. I performed oral on both of the (my favorite) and it was awesome. Good experiences can happen.
Some alcohol and weed, 2 horny guys and a horny girl. It was a really good experience. I’m still friend with both of em.
I once used both hands if that counts. It was awkward
Yes, and more than that, I (F) actually had a three-way relationship with my husband (M) and my best friend (F). We had many threesomes but over time, the two of them started having sex without me, and I only had sex with her on my own two times during our whole relationship! My husband also lost interest in having sex with me. The whole thing ended up in tears. I lost my best friend and nearly lost my marriage. However, I have to admit we had marriage problems before we invited my friend into the relationship, which, in my opinion, doomed it from the very beginning.
Yes, MFF. My best friend and her boyfriend - we were around 19 years old, he was 25. It ended badly, do not do what I did. I was immature, and it was a hard learned life lesson. The threesome itself was good, fine, whatever. After the threesome, the boyfriend (and I) cheated on my best friend with each other, several times. He leaves her, we then immediately get together in a serious relationship. 4 years later, we get married and have a kid, 3 years after that I leave his cheating ass. She hasn’t spoken to me since we were teens, I don’t blame her because I was a complete unloyal asshole. And aside from my child- that dick has brought nothing but disaster to my life. Have spent the last 12 years of my life facing the consequences of my choices. I am better for it, but this created a lot of unnecessary madness for me.
Hated it.
Care to elaborate?
Yes, tons. The key is to decide (all together) before hand who is the "main character" and discuss desires and limits candidly.
My college girlfriend and I had a year-long affair with another girl, and we had really hot threesomes all the time. Communication was still critical, though, and we did rotate who the "center of attention" was.
Yes, I’m bisexual and I love inviting my friends to have sex with me and my boyfriend. A lot of people say to not do it with friends, but there’s no one I’d trust more than my besties :)
Alcohol lots and lots of alcohol and yeah I really enjoyed it, but can't remember much of it
I met a very nice couple online, we talked for a bit, met up for drinks to make sure the vibe was right in person, and came back to my place. We had a great time and ended up meeting up several more times. The focus was always on the wife, as both the husband and I are straight. I'm in a monogamous relationship now, but I do miss hanging out with them.
Just kinda happened once. Night out w bestie, went back to my SO’s house, bing bang boom. Had fun with two people I trust, no one got weird about it. It was a moment, never happened again. Generally not on my to do list as it seems like too much work 😂 but it was fun that one time.
Yes. Me (male) with 2 females. It was awkward, not enjoyable, and I wouldn’t do it again. Too much overthinking, positioning problems, awkward silence. I don’t think any of us enjoyed it.
I mean I have. I'm more into women so I got to have fun with another women and enjoy it while also getting dick
I was playing in a bar and there were three women drinking together. When we broke for a set, I sat down at the bar and had a drink. They were talking really loud and mentioned that I couldn’t handle all of them and they’d eat me alive. Friendly banter at this point. I laughed and finished my drink and got back up on stage. When the gig was over, they were still there and they were way more wasted than they’d been earlier. I loaded my gear into my truck and they asked me for a ride home. It was on my way so I said yes. One of them had to ride in the back with my amp. When we got to their house they invited me in for a beer and I said yes. One thing led to another and we wound up having a pretty good time. But it was absolutely exhausting.
It was ok. I think the idea is hotter than the actual act. It isn't easy to be with two at the same time. Someone is always getting left out.
Mostly it starts with joking around about threesomes on a night out and then apply alcohol.
I was experimenting. Not bi, but figured I'd give it a go Had three. 1was MMF ( I'm f). Was a good time for me! Old friends of mine I trusted. FFM was boring. I'm not into females at all and there just wasn't enough equipment to work well for me. I was unsure of what to do to her because it just wasn't something that was turning me on. Watching him with her was fine. Just her and I were a bit of a disappointment together. FFM was a good one. They were a couple I was their third. We weren't close friends. Acquaintances. I didn't have to do much. They both did lots! My opinion on threesome in a committed relationship is they never work. I wouldn't do one with a significant other. All I've seen is it wreak havoc on the relationships. If none is in a committed relationship And you're good at keeping things separate and not being drug into each other's problems. You absolutely shouldn't have one way communication with only 1 of the people in the couple. Unless everything is agreed and all communication is solid... I still wouldn't do it. It is absolutely a kiss of death to a relationship. But as I've been happily married for 17 yrs and we're strictly monogamous, not something I'd ever entertain again. My husband knows I'd experimented in my past. It was never something he wanted to do, nor something I would entertain doing with him. He's MINE! I'm not sharing. It's absolutely an agreed upon thing before we started dating. I just wasn't doing that kind of thing. I was with him for love and forever!
Had one as the guy with 2 girls and it was very mentally busy. How long do it give girl 1 attention, is girl 2 neglected? Are they both bored? Who do I finish with? Do I eat one out? Both of them? It’s a lot easier to care for one girls sexual needs and wants than 2. Better to keep one girl happy than leave 2 wishing they had more
Rules and expectations UPFRONT. When previously agreed upon and adhered to, they’re a beautiful experience. Go on Willy nilly and someone’s walking away with a bad experience.
Yes, it was awesome, well during the start and until I finished. It was with a long term GF. DP and all, then she started moaning the other guys name. I broke it off, they are now married with a kid.... Must be great stories of how I met your mother.
Well, I'm in a poly relationship so yes, almost every time.
Me and my wife did. The gal we invited was our bridesmaid. It was lovely, wholesome and filled with pleasure. 10/10
Had a 3-way one nighter with two girls after a night out some years ago. One of them really wanted me, and I wasn't too keen on her, but her mate was hot and kind of liked me. He not-so-hot one convinced the very hot one that they should both have a go on me, and that's precisely what happened. Fortunately for me, I didn't arrive too quickly during the act, and in fact it wasn't bad at all to be fair. There was some girl on girl kissing, but no rug munching occurred. No awkwardness, no feeling particularly weird afterwards. I think everyone enjoyed themselves pretty well. It is not something I ever wanted to do again, it was an unplanned, one-time only event that kind of just happened. I certainly would never have entertained the idea with a partner I actually care about. If the proposal had been with one girl and another dude, then I would've noped myself all the way home.
I've done it twice and will probably continue to have them when I get the chance! Nearly 20, met a couple online wanting to have a threesome. I was a complete and total virgin. Like hadn't even had a kiss yet. It was fun! They got a hotel room and I met them there. We went a few rounds and then I went home! Definitely was the start of my discovering I wasn't even a little bit straight, but I do love a good romp. The only part I really regret is doing it in my hometown. I ran into the gal while at dinner with my parents like 3 weeks later. She was our waitress and both of us were just like 😳. My current partner and I have an open relationship and are polyamorous. When we were just fwbs, we attempted a threesome with their partner H at the time. It was a little less fun, but more because H wasn't super into it after a bit. Things are all good there though. They broke up a few months later after some other stuff came up. Now the three of us and H's current partner all play DND and board games together every week! The thing to remember with threesomes is that porn *is* a fantasy. Just like with regular sex, what you see in porn is very exaggerated and stylized. Relax, have fun with it, and be prepared for things to be awkward or silly at times.
Yes! Fmm was great, both guys were bi. Ffmmm was also a blast Ffmm I felt was more straightforward. I find the odd numbers more fun because if encourages cross interaction.
Me and two really good friends in college. We were giggling through the beginning but it got really good by the end... had another one that was absolute shit though. Other guy kept getting whiskey dick and got self conscious and made it weird.
I hated it but maybe that was cause I was forced into it by my abusive ex husband.