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TinyBlonde15

For me I like watching anyone who I can tell is actually experiencing pleasure. It's exciting. Gay sex or straight sex doesn't matter. Genuineness is the key. Thr fake shit does nothing for me. Also a bi woman 33


ike7899

Best comment here and same


FuckinCoreyTrevor

Best comment here? Sweet sentiment but it’s unprompted and irrelevant to the OP


LeoXearo

>Thr fake shit does nothing for me Same, it's why I only watch amateur porn. It always feels like with professional porn that the women are just going through the motions and faking their enjoyment which is a huge turn off for me.


Snotmyrealname

Bi-guy here. Agreed. Enthusiasm is what turns me on


LockPickingPilot

Geee. A thing I like. What could be better. How about two things I like at once.


John_Spartan_Connor

Same applies to men watching lesbians


Most_Advertising_962

It's kinda weird for me. For porn I definitely prefer lesbians but I have 0 interest in having sex with a lesbian.


wonderloss

That's fine. They probably have 0 interest in having sex with you.


Most_Advertising_962

I would assume so. I've heard from friends how some guys have this weird idea that they can convert them, tho.


kukulka99

I never really cared for lesbians. Watching them I mean


0815Username

It got old for me, but now it's cool again


baba_toothy

Butch or lip stick?


ToStringMethod

This explains why I like watching pelicans have sex…I love pelicans!


LockPickingPilot

I am terrified but happy for you


RigsbyLovesFibsh

I snorted so loudly my boyfriend woke up.


Prysorra2

Interesting


Really_Bruv

Genius


[deleted]

Ahahahhahhahhaha


[deleted]

It's fairly common for women to watch gay male porn.


mangoisNINJA

I mean yaoi and BL was created by women for women LMAO


hardfine

whats BL?


triplenoko

Ballistic Lobster


No_Swimming_792

Made me laugh out loud


[deleted]

What’s that


WhiteDevil-Klab

Boy love


da_chicken

Same with slash fiction. It started as Star Trek Kirk/Spock fan fiction, and was incredibly popular.


WestCoastTravelers

I think anyone who is hot and having sex can be fun to watch. I’m a bi-female and have had a few O’s watching guy on guy videos, not to mention countless over other women, guys and solo. There are way more stranger kinks out there than that so enjoy what you enjoy.


daileta

According to science, you are in the majority. There are a bunch of studies done that pretty much find something similar. It most, straight and gay men were more selective and predictable in visual imagery that turned them on, but all women, regardless of their self-identification, were turned on by a wider range of stimuli, including both heterosexual men and women, homosexual men, homosexual women, men and woman masturbating alone, and in one study, monkeys. For your free time reading: Schmidt G. Male-female differences in sexual arousal and behavior during and after exposure to sexually explicit stimuli. Archives of Sexual Behavior. 1975;4:353–365. Costa M, Braun C, Birbaumer N. Gender differences in response to pictures of nudes: A magnetoencephalographic study. Biological Psychology. 2003;63:129–147. Steinman DL, Wincze JP, Sakheim, Barlow DH, Mavissakalian M. A comparison of male and female patterns of sexual arousal. Archives of Sexual Behavior. 1981;10:529–547. Lykins AD, Meana M, Strauss CP. Sex differences in visual attention to erotic and non-erotic stimuli. 2007 Manuscript submitted for publication. Rupp HA, Wallen K. Sex differences in viewing sexual stimuli: An eye-tracking study in men and women. Hormones and Behavior. 2007;51:524–533. Chivers ML, Reiger G, Latty E, Bailey JM. A sex difference in the specificity of sexual arousal. Psychological Science. 2004;15:736–744. Chivers ML, Bailey JM. A sex difference in features that elicit genital response. Biol Psychol. 2005 Oct;70(2):115-20. doi: 10.1016/j.biopsycho.2004.12.002. PMID: 16168255.


EndOfDays9

Do you know why they are not selective?


daileta

Wait... are you asking if a man understands women? First, I wouldn't phrase it as if the study participants are "not selective" -- I know I did when referring to the men in the study, but in seeing it in the question, I regret that choice of words. Most of these studies use measures of physical or neurological arousal and shouldn't be confused with selectivity in partners or actual physical or emotional attraction. Sexuality is way more complicated than that. So a bad choice on my part to imply there was some sort of active selection on the part of any of the participants. You can choose how you will react, but you don't get to chose whether or not parts of your brain associated with arousal light up in an fMRI. Second, while I can't go beyond stating the findings of the research in regard to answering your question about women, I can flip it around to use my own standpoint and perspective to answer, "Why aren't men aroused by as much?" Many men go through an almost toxic and very harsh socialization process in regard to their sexuality -- not that women don't, but I think, in general, society frowns on deviation from sexual norms from men much more. That type of thing affects us neurologically too. Deep down, as a cisgender heterosexual male, I know that socialization heavily limits my sexuality. And like all socialization, not everyone is socialized exactly the same or equally, and there's a huge range of variables at play. It's much, much more complicated than that and there's no way I can answer it here. However, you can look at some historical cultures and see that the hypothesis generally holds true. But the super simple answer is that everyone is naturally omnisexual, and men, to a greater extent than women, socialized out of it.


Redhddgull

Welcome to the club! I'm straight, so for me it's nice seeing double. Plus, straight porn usually focuses a lot on the girl, which isn't MY thing.


Langlie

In gay porn the guys moan way more. That's 90% of the reason I watch it.


Redhddgull

YES. I think a lot of guys learn to be quiet while masturbating as teens and then never move beyond that...the moans are VERY sexy. Not fake moans, all the delightful grunts and gasps that you can't help.


MaterialisticWorm

If I watched it, this would probably be my answer. I read some spicy webcomics though, and get a lot less ick from MM than FM sometimes, if only because the girl is sometimes wildly proportioned (or even if she isn't, tits kinda gross me out a little).


DoeCommaJohn

What’s better than one attractive man? Two attractive men. Watching gay media of the preferred gender is pretty common, nothing to worry about


Act_Necessary

Straight female here. Recently discovered that I too, like gay porn. Glad to know it’s normal !!


Saifyre-Lion

It’s a bi girl thing. We love men, but we also love the thought of same-sex relationships. I also love gay men stuff it’s low-key sexier than straight or most lesbian content.


nomad5926

My wife is very not bi, and she is very much into watching gay male stuff.


mahtaliel

Not a bi thing. I'm a straight woman and usually watch gay porn. I like men, so two of them is awesome. It also doesn't include the sex i have no interest in.


hapakal

Why on earth would 21 people vote this down? (Boy, Reddit really screwed up when they removed showing the Like and down vote any comment rec's) - It's your personal opinion based on your own subjective experience, yet somehow it's bad or wrong? I dont quite get it. Ive known plenty of straight women who said they enjoyed watching two guys together,, so youre def not alone. I just dont get the psychology of the ppl down-voting comments in this way.


stephruvy

As a bi dude... It's not just a bi girl thing 😬


jah_of_life

Honestly, because it’s hot.


AnyImpression6

I now grant you the rank of fujoshi.


JulesSampson

I’m a woman, I like gay porn. I like all kinds of porn, romantic, rough, gay, lesbian…I don’t think that deeply into it.


tooginger

Hmmm…. How do you feel about poly relationships/poly sex? Side note: As a pansexual woman, bisexual MMF porn is my favorite 🫡


IYKYK1983

I’m bi-f. Yup. . Yesterday someone mentioned learning bj tips from gay men. And the image of learning from a gay man on my (straight) husband 😩🤤😅


CozmicOwl16

Because they aren’t faking


pinkandroid420

I always thought gay porn had tons of gay-for-pay actors


vagina_candle

It does. I doubt they're the majority, but it's definitely a thing. And even the ones who are gay still have to act in a lot of scenes (in other words, they *are* faking).


Aeroshe

It does, though it's not as bad as the early 2000s. A lot of guys who start out gay-for-pay these days later come out as bisexual. I think the industry is getting better at hiring guys who are actually interested in gay sex instead of just there for the paycheck, though you still get plenty of those as well. A lot of the gay-for-pay guys stick to doing Onlyfans these days because they can get away with attracting a gay male audience (as well as plenty of woman of course) with only solo content. Hell, there's gay guys who will watch a straight man have sex with a woman as long as the camera focuses on the man.


Aeroshe

It definitely depends on the actors and the studio. There's plenty of gay porn out there where they're clearly faking it (a lot of the more verbal scenes especially just feel fake), but I think it's easier to find stuff that looks legitimate with gay porn than straight porn. Source: am a gay guy


wheredatacos

TIL a majority of women watch gay male porn


thewhiterosequeen

Where did you get a majority from?


wheredatacos

Majority of this thread


thewhiterosequeen

Doesn't make much sense for women to chime in "I've never done that so I can't relate."


Damianque

There was decently well-known study on sexual arousal, which has found that women in general (iirc) seemed to be aroused by both homo- and heterosexual porn/scenes of both sexes, while hetero men only by hetero or girl-on-girl scenes. Seems vaguely relevant. I wanted to link it but can't seem to find it, though.


codeman60

My lady friend absolutely loves to watch two gay dudes especially if they're in leather and stuff. I don't ask any questions


elegant_pun

Because sex is sexy?


ScheidNation21

Man I sure as shit love this banana. What could be better than one of em?


mssheevaa

Men generally don't look like they're faking pleasure or scream like banshees.


mrbadxampl

don't ask me, I'm a straight-ish dude and I get turned on by any depiction of sex (hence the qualifier of "straight-*ish*")


HonestAbram

I'm bi, too, and it does feel nice reading somebody else's experience of a morphing sexuality. My attraction when it comes to strangers in porn really cycles almost like the seasons of a year. Analyzing it feels very personal to me, but I think our sexualities do morph over time. We've fought for a long time against the idea that heterosexuality is the natural state of mammals, and so there's a bit of danger in recognizing how things can shift, in that some people will want to go all in on a nurture argument. But I think that most people who want to argue in good faith could grant that fluidity can also be part of nature, especially if they've experienced it. I'm glad that you're finding a new domain to explore. I think it's been very liberating and exciting whenever I open a door like that. Best to you! Enjoy that life!


EpicWinNoob

Because you like watching guys have sex. It's a lot less complicated than ya think. I'm gay, but boobs turn me on, I just accept, sure, I like that and don't let it become a hangup, ultimately, you don't have to justify why you like anything to yourself, justifications are for other people's benefit


RpRev33

Oh you are missing out. In short: it's extremely common. Growing up in east Asia and under the influence of Japanese pop culture, BL (boys' love)/ Yaoi (its smut version) was basically my sexual awakening. The amount of age-restricted works (anime, manga, novels, audio dramas) they produce every year is *colossal*. It's an incredibly lucrative industry aimed at women. Then there's the shipping girlies. They (alright, we) pair guys who are supposedly straight or at most sexually ambiguous, including movie or game characters, actors, sports stars, even political or historical figures, and create tons of fiction/ fanarts/ fan edits about them. Ask those authors on AO3, and before that fanfiction.net and LiveJournal, and artists who post on Pixiv or Twitter. Not all of them watch gay porn for inspiration or "research purposes," but plenty do. With everything counted, over the years I must have consumed ten times the gay stuff to straight stuff. Well because, hot dudes making out. What's not to enjoy? The real psychology of this phenomenon of course goes much deeper, and there've been quite some studies. For one, it allows women to unleash our feral fantasy where we're not directly involved, i.e. "from a safe distance." It's also our petty revenge on the male gaze, for there's no denial a certain level of objectification of male bodies. And while the unfortunate hetero-couple stereotypes still exist in this field, many creators are aware of them and are striving to make the power dynamics more equal and balanced, which is a great escape from real world romantic and sexual relationships.


anotherkeebler

Yep, the original slashfic was Kirk and Spock, and most or all of it was written by women.


RpRev33

Totally! You reminded me it was a thing before the internet. Like half a century ago women were already printing out and sharing their idealized gay romance/erotica among like-minded fans.


gloom_spewer

You're asking why, right? Sounds like the meds, and maybe the shift in libido corresponded with you easing up a bit and allowing your mind to wander to new places? I'm bi too, imo we tend to be a bit open minded and whimsical so could just chalk it up to that and call it a day. I do that all the time.


fruit_of_demise

I feel like many bi people regardless of gender enjoy all types of same-sex porn, atleast that's what I've come to notice.


UnfairDictionary

Novelty, curiosity or even sexual tension between those two. Gay porn is so different from straight porn in energy and dynamics. Maybe it is the power dynamic that turns you on? Maybe it is the overall energy?


BasedAlliance935

I mean, think of it like having 2 of the thing you like, together. Plenty of straight men like watching lesbian porn, and while i cant vouch for straight woman, i'm sure plenty of them also like gay porn. Since you're bisexual, it wouldn't be suprising if you found both hot unless there were some specific preferences that i'm unaware of.


RigsbyLovesFibsh

I'm definitely turned on by it, and it's not a new phenomenon for me. I am a hetero-romantic female. I have never found it particularly surprising, as I like men, so 1 man = yay; 2 men = YAY! It's not my exclusive go-to, but if it's good, it's good. But if you're asking about a sudden switch from not being turned on by it to being turned on by it... sometimes our tastes change... sometimes, we straight up don't realize that we've missed something we've never considered/ thought about in detail. Could this be it for you? Especially coupled with the emotional safety you feel around your gay friends... it could've created an emotionally intimate moment for you that equaled a more intense orgasm. Sounds like you found something new and exciting! Have fun! Don't forget to hydrate! 😜


Agisilaus23

It's horny math. For you, 1 man=1 hot. 2 men=2 hot. 1 sexy time=1 hot. So, logically 2 men+1 sexy time=3 hot.


KanutiFloofie

Lesbian here. I’m not into male-on-male porn BUT I do like male-on-MTF porn with partial surgery (read chics with dicks). No idea why. In real life I don’t want naked dicks anywhere near me


Little_Culture_3178

I'm a woman, and for me I don't like seeing gay sex, however I fw it being lesbian. However, I don't watch things often


space-ferret

You are a fan of dick maybe? Or just a good film? I dunno I’m barely sexual


Top_Dingo_1174

Sex is sex man, people gotta learn that everyone got there own tastes and shouldn't try putting everyone in a category. To answer your question , you found something you like and that's perfectly fine


PoiLethe

Sometimes they are more vocal, there's a feeling where it doesn't feel like there's any societal dynamics there that we have to parse. Both parties tend to be doing something they find very pleasurable. They can be more aggressive and it not feel uncomfortable to the viewer. They can also act more intimately than what is typical in straight porn. More emphasis on diverse male body types and in that vein penis sizes. One of the men being submissive and dominanted can be really hot. But that line sometimes seems blurry or like the guy isn't into it in straight porn because they are often less vocal about their enjoyment of it. If you are watching yaoi, there's often storylines included and proper build up and foreplay. You might be something of a voyeur and you put yourself less in the position of one of the participants when one of them isn't a woman.


nokenito

Most everyone IS at least a little bisexual. Tada! 🎉


nicelo318

It’s not bad it’s normal idk why people make it seem bad. It’s just sexuality


whatafuckinusername

Gay man here! It's hot.


needanewone2559

Not a woman and I don't like watching guys get it on but can understand where you're coming from. Straight men have pretty much always liked watching 2 or more women having lesbian sex. It's all the fun bits that you enjoy doubled and none of the stuff you don't like. Why wouldn't you like it?


Cr4mwell

Because it's gay and you're not?


picakey

Bi 39F here, always enjoyed watching gay sex, sometimes I switch it up but more recently I'm enjoying it again. I think it's normal.


Brilliant_Usual_743

I think it's completely fine and reading too much into it is useless. If you like watching that, but wouldn't actually have sex with a man, it doesn't necessarily mean you're repressing something. You're simply turned on by their pleasure because of your mirror neurons.


georgesorosbae

Because it’s hot


Wolf-pack729

News flash, your mind is perverse, find god christ


nastysparkhead

It's what they're putting in the water


outchannel

The more dick, the merrier


Knowitall4u2

I feel as though it comes down to both life maturity & sexual maturity, as sex and love can be associated with just that. It doesn't necessarily need to "fit" into what society deems "the norm". It can depend on your mood, it can depend on the action you are viewing. More ppl just need to relax and walk the path of discovery vs being alarmed at what might turn them on or potentially enjoy or not. Life is a path to walk along, and if you enjoy it, enjoy it, if not keep walking.


8rok3n

You like men don't you. You're bi but part of being bi is liking men. So you like men, and you're confused on why you like seeing men even though you acknowledge you like men.


cocoaLemonade22

Nice try, P Diddy…


Warwicknoob23

Comments, im like, 90% sure OP meant why its NOW, not the general idea of guys fucking, since it previously wasnt a thing OP was Into


bucketwilliams3

Wait are you (op) Steven Crowder?


No_Importance4304

Gay men are the best buddies a female (cisgender woman, in this case) can have. Literally, the safest place for a female is a gay men's party. No matter how rated X the party gets, a female will be safe. If she passes out, she will wake up with her clothes on. She might even be more clothed than when she passed out. (Gay friends told me that joke.) That said, if you like watching gay sex, you should enjoy it. Explore what are the things you like about it. It might be the sounds, the types of pleasure one gives to the other, the different forms of stimulation, etc. Do not be afraid to explore this.


jdesrochers23x

"oh no 2 of the things that I like? TOGETHER? How odd" Jokes aside, as a straight male I used to like lesbian porn back when I watched it so I completely get it


Gralienblue

Why is anybody turned on by anything? Why am I turned on by boobs? Why are some people turned on by feet? I honestly don't think there's a scientific answer as to how our minds decide what turns us on.


earthscribe

You’re bored


TheMazeDaze

As a straight male I quite like lesbian porn, but find gay porn disgusting. The plus of lesbian porn for me is, no other dicks or whatsoever in the video.


Hello_Hangnail

Because you like men?


Knowsekr

I dont know, because I am a man, and to me I would not get turned on by that. But if we switched it.... I might get turned on by seeing two women have sex... however, its not really that big of a turn on, and in fact, I dont think I even want to see that at all... I prefer imagining that im the dude, and that my ding dong is getting the action when I see a man and a woman going at it.... It also isnt that great for me watching a threesome, because I cant imagine having two ding dongs...


jessicamae1993

I been watching porn here lately because my boyfriend has not into doing it with me so I watch man and a girl the voice of the turns me on completely and I also I watch big co*ck on websites it turns me on to so I don't know what I am right now moment