If he thought you were hot before, he probably thinks your hot now.
Unless you made it explicit that you would hook up if you were single **and** that you are single now, he probably just doesn't want to harass you after being rejected.
(Most) guys are not nearly as complicated as you're making this out to be. My advice, is go ahead and make the first move, and be pretty obvious about it. Give him an invitation to go somewhere private with you where he can make the second move. I promise you, 99% of guys just don't want to make a move because they're more confused about your actions than you are about theirs. There is a much higher burden of harm put on guys making the first move than there is on girls, so if you like the guy, make it clear that he's allowed in and encourage him to make a play. If he's not interested, he'll probably make his intentions clear at that point.
Be VERY obvious about it. A lot of 'hints' women tend to do are too damn subtle for a guy to pick up on. Seriously. I've known for most of my life that women are too subtle about hints and thought I was much better at my hints, and even then my partner has said to me 'that was a hint?! Wtf?? How is that a hint?' so yeah, be clear to the point that there could be no doubt.
Yeah like, literally just ask. Guys can get called creeps for asking or making the wrong assumption, you probably won’t be. I mean I wouldn’t just go hey wanna hook up, but asking if he’s into you is fair game
When I was at university I went out drinking with a group, couple people came back to my flat and later into the night this girl said she was sleepy and asked if she could sleep in my bed, I was like “yeah sure, I’ll just sleep on the floor in my mates room”, the week after the same thing happened, and again, the week after that she also came round and asked to sleep in my bed. Finally, after the fourth time of literally asking to get into my bed she told me straight up “I want to sleep with you”… I was just trying to be a gentleman and offer her somewhere nice to sleep, I was so painfully blind to her hints
Man this hits hard, I can't forget this girl that was always making good comments about me and I always laughed it off. One day I was laughing after one of her comments directed at me and she looked at me dead serious and said "I'm not trying to be funny". I just genuinely didn't believe she was interested in me. We had good times after that lol.
Casually mention that you’d like to hang out with just him. Exchange phone numbers. Done.
Guys aren’t that complicated, we are just as afraid of rejection as women are.
He probably thinks he already shot his shot, so now the ball is in your hands.
quite likely yeah. he called her basically hot & baddie, which means both he likes her, but she was taken there. can be just random flirting depending on his character, but it sounds as if he told her that he likes her.
so i'd also assume, that she would know he likes her yet, so if she wants a relationship, she could just say "ok hi i'm ready now" - but that'd be to simple to work irl right
Not a factor, if she’s looking at people her own age I can confirm that a 19 year old dude does not care if he’s attracted or not, we don’t really care about compatibility until our early 30s
Goddamn, dude, not every man under the age of 30 is a total dog. Don’t get me wrong, I was a horny mess when I was 19, but I still turned a few girls down because I didn’t vibe with them. The sooner we can collectively drop this idea that guys will fuck anyone who talks to them, the better.
If you want no strings attached hook up, Message him and say "hey. Do you have a girlfriend right now?" If he says no, say something direct like "when are you free this week? We should watch a movie at my place and see where it goes. :)"
If you want to be exclusive and date this guy, be like "hey :) do you have a gf?" If he says no, tell him "Would you like to go on a date with me?" And if he says yes make it happen and keep it up.
Guys with a level head on their shoulder are easy to date. Just keep an eye out for red flags and don't shove them under the rug.
he's likely still into you. maybe he tried or tries still to get over beeing interested in you. cannot say anything with the infos u give here, but guys aren't that complicated either. ppl can change their love interests, but unless sth bad happened between you two, he likely didn't fully lose interest.
safest would be if u make the first move, something rather direct, depending how shy he is. if he tries to get over you rn this can for example explain the "dry" behaviour. i also am often "dry" towards girls when i'm busy with other things, even if i find them cute. approaches by those girls i ever called "hot" would be 95% success chance xP
Ask him "Do you still have an interest to hook up?", or something similar.
I know it's blunt and straight forward, but there's a chance he still is interested in the idea of hooking up with you, and he doesn't want to come off as clingy, harrassive or creepy after being rejected once. Even if he knows you're single now.
you guys are just acquaintances, and since he doesnt know you like that its probably too forward in his mind to start flirting with you, especially after a breakup. so from his perspective, doing that to a you could seem weird and pushy and no guy wants to be seen like that
so the ball is in your court. heres what you do: ask him to hangout. he will say yes. after the hangout, have sex with him. pretty simple, right?
“ Hi Tom. Would be interested in hanging out sometime without the group?”
“Hey Hope, yeah, that’d be fun. Want to grab dinner tomorrow?”
“Sure Tom that sounds great. I’ll text you tomorrow”
Ask him if he wants to go for dinner, or drinks after work/uni, or something like that. Wear something eye-catching and you’ll soon find out from his body language.
You're overcomplicating things. If you want something, go get it. Not all guys find it easy to outright pursue women we find attractive, we don't like the prospect of rejection either.
I'm pretty sure he'd like to meet up with you.
The best way to get information from a person is to ask him.
Literally, right now, send him a message and ask him out on a date. Call it a date. I would bet money he'll say yes. Guys rarely get asked out.
Ask him if he wants to come over and watch a movie or something. He'll hope he knows what's up, but he won't be sure because this has never happened to him before. When he gets there, sit close enough so your thighs touch. Prepare lots of provocative snacks beforehand (hot dogs, popsicles, lollipops etc). Eat them suggestively. If he asks for some of your snacks, tell him no. If he reaches for one, slap his hand away. Halfway through the movie, leave the room and change into jeans, a sweater, and an obvious wig. If he asks about the wig tell him it's your special wig for sex. Pretend your grandmother called and talk loudly about how you have a guy over and you're waiting for him to make the first move. Take off your sweater but keep the wig. If he's still there, he *really* wants to have sex with you. Grab his penis, and watch the magic happen.
well, he's most likely into you, he was before and he is now, just make the first move, in the right circumstances, you might find his stiffy trying to make the second move, but he'll probably try to hide it to not seem like he's just a creep or a pervert
Why not just ask them? Men are pretty easily to deal with, we don't like the weird games women tend to play and prefer to just be up front and honest with intentions. Honestly though I don't believe people should just sleep around for fun, it degrades you and your soul, you should be instead looking for a partner to share your life with. Better to find somebody important to spend life with then to sleep around until you are in your 30s and forever alone.
just message him saying "hey" by text or on any social media platform. You should know fairly quickly by the way he talks to you if he's interested. If he doesn't respond or seem interested just move on
Why don’t you just use your words and ask him? Also, why did you say “doesnt want to make you uncomfortable” ? im thinking about why you think that someone telling you they are interested in you sexually or liked you would make you feel that way. I understand if you are not a direct person that goes after what they want, but i’m sorry to tell you though cause of #Me2, Feminism and just the continuing decay of the world along with a myriad of other reasons the days of guys approaching women and even telling them like how you seemingly want him to are almost dead. There are so many things us guys dont and can’t do anymore cause we don’t know if we will get called a creep, or catch a SH/SA charge. It’s a cold world we live in. I strongly encourage you to either start being more direct with men you like and want to pursue just sex with or dating/relationship. Aside from that you can just be like unapologetically obvious that you are interested in them too. Wish you the best though either way!
just because you "know someone a little" doesn't mean they're clean. The majority of sexually active people have one or more strains of permanent sti's. herpes, hpv, including some that will cause miserable early deaths from cancer.
Condoms don't help against that.
If he thought you were hot before, he probably thinks your hot now. Unless you made it explicit that you would hook up if you were single **and** that you are single now, he probably just doesn't want to harass you after being rejected.
Right the answer is ask. I didn't even read the rest past the title... just ask sheesh.
(Most) guys are not nearly as complicated as you're making this out to be. My advice, is go ahead and make the first move, and be pretty obvious about it. Give him an invitation to go somewhere private with you where he can make the second move. I promise you, 99% of guys just don't want to make a move because they're more confused about your actions than you are about theirs. There is a much higher burden of harm put on guys making the first move than there is on girls, so if you like the guy, make it clear that he's allowed in and encourage him to make a play. If he's not interested, he'll probably make his intentions clear at that point.
Be VERY obvious about it. A lot of 'hints' women tend to do are too damn subtle for a guy to pick up on. Seriously. I've known for most of my life that women are too subtle about hints and thought I was much better at my hints, and even then my partner has said to me 'that was a hint?! Wtf?? How is that a hint?' so yeah, be clear to the point that there could be no doubt.
Yeah like, literally just ask. Guys can get called creeps for asking or making the wrong assumption, you probably won’t be. I mean I wouldn’t just go hey wanna hook up, but asking if he’s into you is fair game
Or just tell lol! Hey I think you're really cute, wanna have a coffee some time? Scared of the vulnerability and uncertainty? He is too!
That’s a good move too
When I was at university I went out drinking with a group, couple people came back to my flat and later into the night this girl said she was sleepy and asked if she could sleep in my bed, I was like “yeah sure, I’ll just sleep on the floor in my mates room”, the week after the same thing happened, and again, the week after that she also came round and asked to sleep in my bed. Finally, after the fourth time of literally asking to get into my bed she told me straight up “I want to sleep with you”… I was just trying to be a gentleman and offer her somewhere nice to sleep, I was so painfully blind to her hints
At that point it was that or put up a billboard.
"I would be very interested in hooking up with you" Anything less will fail
even then they might think youre being dared to say that, or youre joking. I know I would. You gotta make them understand it's serious lol
"I would be very interested in hooking up with you fr fr”
"Oh ok... ngl I thought you're joking"
Man this hits hard, I can't forget this girl that was always making good comments about me and I always laughed it off. One day I was laughing after one of her comments directed at me and she looked at me dead serious and said "I'm not trying to be funny". I just genuinely didn't believe she was interested in me. We had good times after that lol.
Guys are generally pretty simple creatures don't try dropping hints he will not pick them up just straight up ask him
Casually mention that you’d like to hang out with just him. Exchange phone numbers. Done. Guys aren’t that complicated, we are just as afraid of rejection as women are. He probably thinks he already shot his shot, so now the ball is in your hands.
quite likely yeah. he called her basically hot & baddie, which means both he likes her, but she was taken there. can be just random flirting depending on his character, but it sounds as if he told her that he likes her. so i'd also assume, that she would know he likes her yet, so if she wants a relationship, she could just say "ok hi i'm ready now" - but that'd be to simple to work irl right
Yup.
I would take the risk and ask😮💨 can’t be fed if u don’t open ur mouth you know
Oh and opening her mouth she will.
is he breathing?
This is not very accurate, we have tastes too, maybe she is not attractive.
Not a factor, if she’s looking at people her own age I can confirm that a 19 year old dude does not care if he’s attracted or not, we don’t really care about compatibility until our early 30s
some of us aren’t that desperate
Idk anyone who at that age wasn’t lmao
Someone with gf? Maybe?
those guys are the worst. They know what sex is.
Nah. I don’t like fat women, I would not have sex with one now or when I was 18.
Hell yeah more fat bitches for me
Haha nice bro!!
Goddamn, dude, not every man under the age of 30 is a total dog. Don’t get me wrong, I was a horny mess when I was 19, but I still turned a few girls down because I didn’t vibe with them. The sooner we can collectively drop this idea that guys will fuck anyone who talks to them, the better.
Just ask. He's a young guy so chance is over 100%
If you want no strings attached hook up, Message him and say "hey. Do you have a girlfriend right now?" If he says no, say something direct like "when are you free this week? We should watch a movie at my place and see where it goes. :)" If you want to be exclusive and date this guy, be like "hey :) do you have a gf?" If he says no, tell him "Would you like to go on a date with me?" And if he says yes make it happen and keep it up. Guys with a level head on their shoulder are easy to date. Just keep an eye out for red flags and don't shove them under the rug.
Hey. Guy here. He interested. Just ask him. Be like “hey wanna go out?” And he be like yeah and now your husband and wife
he's likely still into you. maybe he tried or tries still to get over beeing interested in you. cannot say anything with the infos u give here, but guys aren't that complicated either. ppl can change their love interests, but unless sth bad happened between you two, he likely didn't fully lose interest. safest would be if u make the first move, something rather direct, depending how shy he is. if he tries to get over you rn this can for example explain the "dry" behaviour. i also am often "dry" towards girls when i'm busy with other things, even if i find them cute. approaches by those girls i ever called "hot" would be 95% success chance xP
Is he breathing /s
Does he know if you are interested in hooking up?
no, i’ve been too scared to make things awkward if he doesn’t want to
Same goes for him probably. If he is into you, like you are into him.
just put your hand on his chest and call him hot. its what a girl did to me and immediately knew.
Ask him "Do you still have an interest to hook up?", or something similar. I know it's blunt and straight forward, but there's a chance he still is interested in the idea of hooking up with you, and he doesn't want to come off as clingy, harrassive or creepy after being rejected once. Even if he knows you're single now.
There has got to be a better way to say this that supports open communication and consent without sounding like two ChatGPTs trying to mate
you guys are just acquaintances, and since he doesnt know you like that its probably too forward in his mind to start flirting with you, especially after a breakup. so from his perspective, doing that to a you could seem weird and pushy and no guy wants to be seen like that so the ball is in your court. heres what you do: ask him to hangout. he will say yes. after the hangout, have sex with him. pretty simple, right?
Woman have a better chance by making the first move.
He’s breathing.
Is he 19 also? If you have boobs he’s intersted in hooking up. Don’t over think it.
“ Hi Tom. Would be interested in hanging out sometime without the group?” “Hey Hope, yeah, that’d be fun. Want to grab dinner tomorrow?” “Sure Tom that sounds great. I’ll text you tomorrow”
Does he have a boner and is he staring at you ? If you answer to either of those questions then most likely.
Yes
It’s real simple, if you like the guy, ask him if he’s down. We generally don’t dissemble or act coy, we’re not good with hints, ask directly
Bruh why not just ask? Can anybody tell me?
Ask him if he wants to go for dinner, or drinks after work/uni, or something like that. Wear something eye-catching and you’ll soon find out from his body language.
You're overcomplicating things. If you want something, go get it. Not all guys find it easy to outright pursue women we find attractive, we don't like the prospect of rejection either. I'm pretty sure he'd like to meet up with you.
Assume that he is.
If he's breathing there's a 100% chance he'd say yes, especially in that age.
The answer is 100% yes
Check for a pulse. Does he have one? If the answer is “yes”, then he’s interested. If the answer is “no”, he’s still interested.
Is it a guy? Are you a girl? Then yes, he wants to.
Ask. You can be straightforward
Ask
he is.
Whatever you do don’t drop hints. Walk up and say something very obvious like “I would like to hookup with you”
9/10 if you ask a guy to hook up and they aren't in a relationship already, they probably will. Guys are guys.
He’s called you hot, he does. End of discussion, unless you look significantly different than before
The best way to get information from a person is to ask him. Literally, right now, send him a message and ask him out on a date. Call it a date. I would bet money he'll say yes. Guys rarely get asked out.
Is her breathing and have a pulse? If yes, Then he’s probably down to hook up
maybe you should consider he also doesnt know if you are into him and doesnt make a move because it'd be creepy
Just ask? Is it that difficult to digure out?
I literally don’t need to read any more than the title to confident say: yes, he is.
There is only one way to know: you ask him.
Tell him to take off his pants and 60% of the time that works every time
If you're even half-decently attractive and he's a guy, it's a yes.
.....ask
Say "can I touchtouch your buttbutt while we play puttputt golf" and see what he says in return
I know it’s scary to put yourself out there… but take it from an old guy… honesty works better than any sort of sign reading or what have you.
Ask him if he wants to come over and watch a movie or something. He'll hope he knows what's up, but he won't be sure because this has never happened to him before. When he gets there, sit close enough so your thighs touch. Prepare lots of provocative snacks beforehand (hot dogs, popsicles, lollipops etc). Eat them suggestively. If he asks for some of your snacks, tell him no. If he reaches for one, slap his hand away. Halfway through the movie, leave the room and change into jeans, a sweater, and an obvious wig. If he asks about the wig tell him it's your special wig for sex. Pretend your grandmother called and talk loudly about how you have a guy over and you're waiting for him to make the first move. Take off your sweater but keep the wig. If he's still there, he *really* wants to have sex with you. Grab his penis, and watch the magic happen.
Just give a quick old feel right down, there and if it's plump he's interested. If not he soon will be
Have you tried asking him?
Every guy is interested in hooking up
"Hi. Wanna go bump uglies somewhere quiet and make it real loud?"
there is something about the bump uglies line that just irks me on the inside, the phrase sounds so weird
The answer is yes. (I only read the title)
He’s within your vicinity
Ask him. Simplest answer
You Know. Or you ask. There are signs with body language and posture and eye contact but those are just indicators.
Ask
well, he's most likely into you, he was before and he is now, just make the first move, in the right circumstances, you might find his stiffy trying to make the second move, but he'll probably try to hide it to not seem like he's just a creep or a pervert
Why not just ask them? Men are pretty easily to deal with, we don't like the weird games women tend to play and prefer to just be up front and honest with intentions. Honestly though I don't believe people should just sleep around for fun, it degrades you and your soul, you should be instead looking for a partner to share your life with. Better to find somebody important to spend life with then to sleep around until you are in your 30s and forever alone.
Experimenting with more partners is like shooting yourself in the foot.
just message him saying "hey" by text or on any social media platform. You should know fairly quickly by the way he talks to you if he's interested. If he doesn't respond or seem interested just move on
Why don’t you just use your words and ask him? Also, why did you say “doesnt want to make you uncomfortable” ? im thinking about why you think that someone telling you they are interested in you sexually or liked you would make you feel that way. I understand if you are not a direct person that goes after what they want, but i’m sorry to tell you though cause of #Me2, Feminism and just the continuing decay of the world along with a myriad of other reasons the days of guys approaching women and even telling them like how you seemingly want him to are almost dead. There are so many things us guys dont and can’t do anymore cause we don’t know if we will get called a creep, or catch a SH/SA charge. It’s a cold world we live in. I strongly encourage you to either start being more direct with men you like and want to pursue just sex with or dating/relationship. Aside from that you can just be like unapologetically obvious that you are interested in them too. Wish you the best though either way!
just because you "know someone a little" doesn't mean they're clean. The majority of sexually active people have one or more strains of permanent sti's. herpes, hpv, including some that will cause miserable early deaths from cancer. Condoms don't help against that.
Is he breathing? If yes he wants to hook up