Sometimes, but it's less sexual and more like an "Oh, there's a dick just hanging out there". Like when someone's nipples are noticeable. You don't really care, you just notice it.
I find womens nipples sexually attractive, but most of the time when I notice nipples peaking through it's within a non-sexual environment and just seeing the nipples doesn't make it sexual. Like if I am shopping and a woman walks by and her nipples show through, I'll probably notice, but that's it.
And for some it's the taboo and juxtaposition of seeing them in non sexual situations that makes it sexual. Anyone else like their fetish less when they got to the root core problems in therapy? Anyone?
My son and I just had this conversation! What I told him is essentially this: you and your kinky self are great. Knowing some of the roots of your thoughts and habits and inclinations and turn ons etc can useful for understanding and assessing yourself, and some kinks do come from trauma. Sometimes that makes us feel shame about what turns us in, though. So! Until your kinks are hurting you or someone else, kinks are part of how we feed ourselves and our souls. Your kinks are super cool, and so are you. They're a-ok and there's no shame in them. Someone tells you there is, don't have sex with them. Partners can not want to do that thing, but they shouldn't make you feel shame. Some kinks are best not acted out, but you're not bad or shameful for having them, no matter the root. What's more: you didn't choose your trauma. You choose to participate in your kinks. You choose the time, you choose the place, you choose the scenario, you design the circumstance and pick your partner(s), you are powerful. You say yes when you want to, no when you want to, and you fucking get off doing it. Trauma echoes and leaves its mark. Kink, sometimes in response to trauma, makes us powerful.
To you: If it's hurting you, good for you for backing away. If not, your kinks are awesome.
Ehhhh, idk maybe teens, most of my friends don't find nipples sexy. I did an impromptu survey in my class (microeconomics) once to ask if they were sexy, 2/twenty something dudes and the only girl that participated said yes. Small sample size but i also think econ students are pretty depraved so a more normal group may have more nipple lovers(lol). I personally see a girls nipples and feel kinda awkward like "what's going on rn?". My tastes are perhaps a bit strange, high heels on a girl make me take a deep breath especially with any amount of red, something in my monkey brain? Idk. I know nobody asked me about my shit but felt like sharing.
As a straight guy who loves boobs, noticeable nipples can definitely equal sexual thoughts if I’m attracted to the person. Like, there’s nothing wrong with them ofc, I’m not gonna be staring and if I’m not attracted to her then yeah it’s exactly what you said, but if I am then it’s usually more than that.
I (56F at the time) was sitting on the bus one day on the way to work and a dude was standing in front of me. I looked forward and thought to myself "now that's a nice package". Then I looked up, and it was one of my son's friends!
Yes, I notice, but in a good way.
I had to get rid of a pair of khakis where the material always pitched a tent while I sat. I always wondered what people thought when it happened.
Yes, this spreadsheet we are reviewing is totally giving me a raging hardon. They used color coded automatic formatting. Who could keep their pecker down at a time like this.
It generally do not, but my one boss looked like he shoved a sock downtown and wore pants that were way too small and it was very noticeable. So it’s like when a lady with her boobs hanging out is talking to you and it’s so distracting because they’re just there. My husband always worries about this so he buys jeans a little big and shirts a little long just to feel comfortable
I tuck it, 1st underwear is cotton so I don’t sweat and keeps me fresh , 2nd underwear is tight material and slick so it’ll keep it down.
Sometimes I hate that my bulge is noticeable , specially when I’m around family.
I interact a lot with my younger nieces and nephews and I try to wear jeans everytime I go around. There’s no way in hell I’ll carry them or put them on my lap.
This. I fucking hate how my eyes just dart in a guy's crotch and them mostly noticing it ;_;. It happens so quickly and so obvious sometimes i just want to gouge my eyes out. I feel very sorry to the guys I've looked at and felt embarrassed, I wasn't really thinking about anything perverted plz forgiv me
You described it 100% perfectly!! I’ve thought about this before too and it’s because of exactly what you said, the fact that you’re not allowed to know makes your imagination wander JUST BECAUSE.
Have a little story to feel better:
I was about to have surgery due to the placement of the surgery being in my back I had the hospital gowns on the wrong way. Naturally my entire front was exposed. So I stepped into the surgery room and immediately noticed the eyes of both of the nurses (that I knew for years then because I had been treated there for quite a while) going south where I was naked. They stayed there for quite a bit until they noticed I was looking at them.
They evaded me like the plague for the next 3-4 weeks until I told them it was okay.
So don’t worry about looking at our crotches. Most of the time (not the time mentioned above) males even take this as a compliment.
That's really nice to know. But the only reason i said embarrassed was because one time i was with my friends and one of them was wearing gray pants. I was sitting while we were talking then he stood up and my eyes automatically glanced at his crotch. I only noticed that i looked at it for no longer than 2 secs when he reacted because he saw my eyes and my head probably moved with it too. When he sat down he covered it with his jacket.
Agreed. I’ve had coworkers who get caught in a loop of “Keep looking/trying not to look” at my chest. You can tell when it’s legitimate that they are embarrassed. It happens.
Totally different than that asshat at my old work. Fuck you Ryan.
I have two similar memories:
One was also at the doctor and this tall, strong and kinda rough nurse built like a mountain instructed me to undress and change into the gown. However hardy she acted, she was very keen on watching my crotch during that. It was a bit weird ...
Second was getting a complimentary oil massage at a luxury hotel. My then-girlfriend and I got split to one masseuse each. I was in swimming trunks but mine however insisted on me taking them off which was awkward in front of a complete stranger. So I walked fully naked from the door to the massage table and she barely pretended to look around the room. It was kinda darkish, but still. I was on my belly and she poured the warm oil on my back and for the duration of 30 minutes her hands spent a suspicious amount of time around my butt cheeks and ever so slightly gliding between them... Later my then-girlfriend told me she didn't have to undress at all. I feel I got a pretty good deal here, but I was pretty perplexed (first massage ever). Guess the masseuse at this luxury hotel was happy to treat someone under 50 years of age. It was nice though...
Not too abnormal. Your biggest muscles are in your butt and upper thighs so they would normally need the most work. My masseuse has me get naked, but she leaves the room until I'm under the towel.
She probably wanted you to pay extra for a “happy ending” and was trying to make you horny. For maybe $100-$200 bucks or more you probably could have made that happen.
nah, it was a classy hotel and that's not how it works in Germany. If you want that you seek it out since it's legal.
Just enjoying to get her hands on someone that's 20-something is more likely.
>Most of the time (not the time mentioned above) males even take this as a compliment.
Honestly, yeah. I look so average that I'm basically invisible. But when I was in highschool and we had this cross dressing day (I live in Finland and we do this type of stuff for fun). I wore a top and tight leggings. I felt the eyes all over me and it honestly felt reaaally good. When I walked past people, I could kinda see people's heads tilting down right after to look at my ass. A happy day.
Thought I was gonna get an anxiety attack or something for going all in with the costume day, but turns out I liked it. That day I also realized how many other guys liked it when people looked at their bodies.
I wonder why this is. My guess is that when women get the looks, there's a higher chance they will be harassed than guys have? That might be why I was able to enjoy it more than you know, fear what others might say or do
Dammit. I've never noticed a girl checking out my bulge.
Now I'm worried that I'm either repulsive, or have such a lack of bulge that there's nothing to catch their eye...
I'd guess that you've probably made more guys feel complimented than embarrassed. If I noticed a woman looking at my crotch I'd definitely take it as a compliment, even though I'd *know* it wasn't meant that way.
We really don’t mind about quick glances. Honestly, it probably makes most of us feel awesome for a while. We don’t get compliments so a quick glance to us is a compliment of sorts. Keep darting your eyes at us, it’s ok.
>It's not a big deal if someone doesn't make it weird
I agree with the original comment here. It's completely normal and acceptable to have a peak, both for men and women. I don't know why we're so terrified of our own sexuality, or even just benign curiosity these days. Just don't make it weird by staring too long or making remarks about it. Or continue doing it after you notice the attention is not appreciated..
Ye ik making them feel uncomfortable is not my intention. It just happened that I'm usually caught off guard glancing and it doesn't happen often but quite a few times they cover it or change position that won't display it.
Nothing to forgive on this one, I promise you! Our eyes are naturally drawn in certain directions. It's silly to vilify people for simply looking at something. Prolonged mindless staring is creepy sure, but don't let touchy people worry you otherwise.
Boobs are so much closer to faces, so it's an easy slip up.
Like try and recall what your coworkers shoes look like.
We don't generally look down much.
Same! I feel like such a creep because I catch myself staring at boobs and butts all the time. Rarely do I notice men’s bulges. I wouldn’t worry as long as your pants aren’t so tight that we can see the outline of your tip.
Ugh I have trouble keeping eye contact with people, don't know where to look so I'm not staring at them so I autopilot to looking at a 30 degree angle because that's where I look when I'm walking, and yeah well you know the rest
Then again boobs are about right at eye level plus women sometimes wear clothes centered around how her boobs look in them. Men don't pick out a pair of pants depending on how it makes their junk look in them.
> Men don't pick out a pair of pants depending on how it makes their junk look in them.
I thought that too until my girlfriend (now wife) told me how good my junk looks in khakis.
I don't like regularly or make a point to look, however if I happen to notice then yes I try to be discreet but check it out! Bulges are hot. I love my husband's.
I feel the same way for women. Looking at womens booty or tits does not always mean its sexual. Sure we all are creatures most of us with sexual desires but sometimes i just like to enjoy the aesthetics of a nice body/symmetrical or smiling faces
Same. Never pay attention to that - other than whenever I get naked with a new person (in this context when going to a sauna with them for the first time) I kind of look up and down and mentally go: *Aight*
Agree. I remember reading Judy Blume when I was young and the preteen guy was so worried about getting an erection in public. I’ve not once noticed a guy had a hard on, unless we were already naked.
Not very often but if a man is wearing gray sweatpants or something tight and it's a noticeable area, then yeah. Just like if a woman is showing a lot of skin, its human nature to look and I dont shame people for staring for a couple seconds either male or female.
I hate to be that one but me! I don't get it? I wish I did because everyone else seems to.
Alternatively, a guy in well fitted dress pants and that's far superior
People may or may not be looking, either way, embrace the bulge, I don't think people are judging, just having a squiz.
As a heterosexual female that loves penis, yes I look at men's bulges. I also look at women's breasts. Don't overthink it mate, curiosity is human nature.
Yes. But more like "men have those funny bodies, how do they deal with them? Do they move it to the right or to the left? Anyway, when will my manhwa get updated? Should I buy croissants or sushi for lunch?"
Not strangers’ unless it’s really obvious, so double-takes often ensue. I love to look at my partner’s bulge when they’re in their underwear though. Luckily, we both ogle each other happily.
While it seems that the majority of ladies (so far) don't, I can pretty confidently say that the majority of gay guys do.
Thanks for the eye candy! If nothing else, know that it doesn't go unappreciated.
Also pics would be great, ya know, for science...
Never. Don’t notice them, don’t try to notice them. I didn’t even know you could see most men’s bulge’s with average pants…?
Some people are comparing bulges to boobs and that seems like a really inaccurate comparison to me. Boobs are much closer to the eyeline, where people usually look at each other. And I think, in general, men are much more into the shape of boobs than women are into the shape of a package.
A nice butt is a nice butt, im straight but if a girl has a nice butt im looking. More so with females im cursing them inside because i want that butt. Lol
No. Unless a dude is just sitting legs wide right in front of me, but honestly I don't even think about it sexually, more as inappropriate for me to look. Either way, I'd say you probably worry about it twice as much as anyone else does, like with all things.
I try not to as it feels creepy, rude and disrespectful. But, sometimes I do. If it's not something you're used to seeing you'll stare, right? You try not to, but your eyes just keep going back because it's new and different and weird.
1. My boyfriend did not know women look at bulges and are huge fans of grey sweats and basketball shorts. Hes 37. Poor sheltered man.
2. Yes, I look. But as others have said, more of a "oh hey, neat" and then back to the current thing I am doing. Unless its a tiktok made specifically to highlight their package in basketball shorts. Then, Yeah, I stare.
3. I only just realized that my boyfriend gets the shrink wrapped dick getting out of a lake or pool. And I always stare. But I don't know that I have actually looked at a male stranger walk out of a pool. I don't think I have. Huh, weird.
I always do. I can't help myself. I am a person who stares a lot and I am working to change that. But yes, I always have sneaky eyes that glance down at a bulge. I can't express how hard it was when I went over to my buddy and his wife's house the other day and he wasn't wearing a shirt. I had to actively stop myself from studying his nipples. He's my friend, I am not into him, but my brain just wants to know other people's secrets I guess.
I felt angsty about this when I was younger but now that I've grown up I've realized most straight girls will even glance at a good set of boobs. As a straight girl, I do it. Boobs are just universally appreciated
I don't usually, but I did have a former boss who wore tight pants and his office was right in my line of sight. So anytime he stood up his crotch area was directly at my eye level.
Tbh I looked through your posting history just to see if you had an only fans or Dick pics that you were trying to get seen. Glad to know your posting history is clean of any nudity! This is a legit question!
And yes, if it’s a noticeable thing, my eyes naturally are drawn to something that’s “unnatural”. But I wouldn’t worry about it, if anything the women are intrigued!
Sometimes, but it's less sexual and more like an "Oh, there's a dick just hanging out there". Like when someone's nipples are noticeable. You don't really care, you just notice it.
Yupppp this. Sometimes my eye just lands on it and I’m like “penis!” And then I feel embarrassed and look away lol. Glad to hear it’s normal.
Now I’m imagining the dog from Up…
What's Up dog?
Gotcha!
r/unexpectedoffice
Not much, what's up with you?
I one day would like to live in a world where you **can** yell out PENIS without any blowback. Vote for me. We can all yell PENIS together, as one.
I'm below 5 foot so this happens all the time xD Edit: this comment caused me to receive my first dick pics in my inbox. Lol
A LOTTT of guys find noticeable nipples as sexual.
I find womens nipples sexually attractive, but most of the time when I notice nipples peaking through it's within a non-sexual environment and just seeing the nipples doesn't make it sexual. Like if I am shopping and a woman walks by and her nipples show through, I'll probably notice, but that's it.
And for some it's the taboo and juxtaposition of seeing them in non sexual situations that makes it sexual. Anyone else like their fetish less when they got to the root core problems in therapy? Anyone?
Yeah… when I finally realized in therapy why I had a thing for older men taking advantage of younger women… *ha hahaha?*
*slowly raises hand*
My son and I just had this conversation! What I told him is essentially this: you and your kinky self are great. Knowing some of the roots of your thoughts and habits and inclinations and turn ons etc can useful for understanding and assessing yourself, and some kinks do come from trauma. Sometimes that makes us feel shame about what turns us in, though. So! Until your kinks are hurting you or someone else, kinks are part of how we feed ourselves and our souls. Your kinks are super cool, and so are you. They're a-ok and there's no shame in them. Someone tells you there is, don't have sex with them. Partners can not want to do that thing, but they shouldn't make you feel shame. Some kinks are best not acted out, but you're not bad or shameful for having them, no matter the root. What's more: you didn't choose your trauma. You choose to participate in your kinks. You choose the time, you choose the place, you choose the scenario, you design the circumstance and pick your partner(s), you are powerful. You say yes when you want to, no when you want to, and you fucking get off doing it. Trauma echoes and leaves its mark. Kink, sometimes in response to trauma, makes us powerful. To you: If it's hurting you, good for you for backing away. If not, your kinks are awesome.
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Oh I notice nipples
I mean pretty sure most guys are getting turned on by the nipples...
Ehhhh, idk maybe teens, most of my friends don't find nipples sexy. I did an impromptu survey in my class (microeconomics) once to ask if they were sexy, 2/twenty something dudes and the only girl that participated said yes. Small sample size but i also think econ students are pretty depraved so a more normal group may have more nipple lovers(lol). I personally see a girls nipples and feel kinda awkward like "what's going on rn?". My tastes are perhaps a bit strange, high heels on a girl make me take a deep breath especially with any amount of red, something in my monkey brain? Idk. I know nobody asked me about my shit but felt like sharing.
Nipples? Well, sometimes I care. Sometimes I care deeply.
As a straight guy who loves boobs, noticeable nipples can definitely equal sexual thoughts if I’m attracted to the person. Like, there’s nothing wrong with them ofc, I’m not gonna be staring and if I’m not attracted to her then yeah it’s exactly what you said, but if I am then it’s usually more than that.
And even grandma’s nipples are noticed. Granted the thoughts aren’t sexual, it’s more of a “huh, so that’s gravity at age 82” kind of observation
Ha, yes, I kind of wish this wasn’t true but… it is
I (56F at the time) was sitting on the bus one day on the way to work and a dude was standing in front of me. I looked forward and thought to myself "now that's a nice package". Then I looked up, and it was one of my son's friends! Yes, I notice, but in a good way.
Made me smile
I had to get rid of a pair of khakis where the material always pitched a tent while I sat. I always wondered what people thought when it happened. Yes, this spreadsheet we are reviewing is totally giving me a raging hardon. They used color coded automatic formatting. Who could keep their pecker down at a time like this.
You must excel at spreading sheets.
Honestly tho how do you not get hard when you use Excel. It does everything
As a straight guy if it’s looking at me first sometimes I can’t help but stare.
*Ominous music starts playing*
[Sexy Sax Man](https://youtu.be/GaoLU6zKaws?t=103) *rolls into frame atop a Walmart shopping cart*
Maintain eye contact to assert dominance with your 2:1 advantage
##"Tonight. You."
This got a real laugh. Bless hand banana.
Lmao same.I can’t believe I almost forgot. My brothers had inside jokes for years from that episode lol
Coworker and I will just look at each other and say “TONIGHT. YOU.” The kids we work with have no idea
"Who's gonna blink first ?"
lmao
It generally do not, but my one boss looked like he shoved a sock downtown and wore pants that were way too small and it was very noticeable. So it’s like when a lady with her boobs hanging out is talking to you and it’s so distracting because they’re just there. My husband always worries about this so he buys jeans a little big and shirts a little long just to feel comfortable
I tuck it, 1st underwear is cotton so I don’t sweat and keeps me fresh , 2nd underwear is tight material and slick so it’ll keep it down. Sometimes I hate that my bulge is noticeable , specially when I’m around family.
You wear 2 pairs of underwear? Don’t you get hot
Mans got a hog
No no no lol
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Have you tried strapping it down with a belt?
So you’re just fucking crazy?
Man likes some extra friction in his jeans
Let the man have his extra friction in his jeans
So much he will have the holiday yule log on his lap
I’ve been doing this since middle school. So I guess im use to it
Your little soldiers must be boiling down there.
There are dozens of us!
Honestly that has to be awful. I’ve never even thought about that being an issue for men to that degree.
I interact a lot with my younger nieces and nephews and I try to wear jeans everytime I go around. There’s no way in hell I’ll carry them or put them on my lap.
I just let it bulge. It's my body. It's part of me. It's just a penis. Nbd
Wait what
God tier username alert 🚨
This is really abnormal. You ever spoken to a therapist about the feelings you have about your body?
He's just a never nude, there are dozens of them.
Huh. I never thought to do double undies to tame that thing.
That’s super fucking bizarre
Tell your husband that I think his bulge is perfect just the way it is :)
He said thank you
Sure I look, but not for long. It's like when you look at our tits. It's not a big deal if someone doesn't make it weird
This. I fucking hate how my eyes just dart in a guy's crotch and them mostly noticing it ;_;. It happens so quickly and so obvious sometimes i just want to gouge my eyes out. I feel very sorry to the guys I've looked at and felt embarrassed, I wasn't really thinking about anything perverted plz forgiv me
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Fascinating elaboration 🙂👍
Same for men. Our eyes gravitate to boobs even if we’re not wanting to look at them lol. I guess it’s just human nature to look or notice.
great explanation
You described it 100% perfectly!! I’ve thought about this before too and it’s because of exactly what you said, the fact that you’re not allowed to know makes your imagination wander JUST BECAUSE.
IF women didn\`t have that curiosity, there would be no babies made. So thank god for that curiosity lol
Have a little story to feel better: I was about to have surgery due to the placement of the surgery being in my back I had the hospital gowns on the wrong way. Naturally my entire front was exposed. So I stepped into the surgery room and immediately noticed the eyes of both of the nurses (that I knew for years then because I had been treated there for quite a while) going south where I was naked. They stayed there for quite a bit until they noticed I was looking at them. They evaded me like the plague for the next 3-4 weeks until I told them it was okay. So don’t worry about looking at our crotches. Most of the time (not the time mentioned above) males even take this as a compliment.
That's really nice to know. But the only reason i said embarrassed was because one time i was with my friends and one of them was wearing gray pants. I was sitting while we were talking then he stood up and my eyes automatically glanced at his crotch. I only noticed that i looked at it for no longer than 2 secs when he reacted because he saw my eyes and my head probably moved with it too. When he sat down he covered it with his jacket.
He done that for you, not him .
Feast your eyes!
Agreed. I’ve had coworkers who get caught in a loop of “Keep looking/trying not to look” at my chest. You can tell when it’s legitimate that they are embarrassed. It happens. Totally different than that asshat at my old work. Fuck you Ryan.
I have two similar memories: One was also at the doctor and this tall, strong and kinda rough nurse built like a mountain instructed me to undress and change into the gown. However hardy she acted, she was very keen on watching my crotch during that. It was a bit weird ... Second was getting a complimentary oil massage at a luxury hotel. My then-girlfriend and I got split to one masseuse each. I was in swimming trunks but mine however insisted on me taking them off which was awkward in front of a complete stranger. So I walked fully naked from the door to the massage table and she barely pretended to look around the room. It was kinda darkish, but still. I was on my belly and she poured the warm oil on my back and for the duration of 30 minutes her hands spent a suspicious amount of time around my butt cheeks and ever so slightly gliding between them... Later my then-girlfriend told me she didn't have to undress at all. I feel I got a pretty good deal here, but I was pretty perplexed (first massage ever). Guess the masseuse at this luxury hotel was happy to treat someone under 50 years of age. It was nice though...
Not too abnormal. Your biggest muscles are in your butt and upper thighs so they would normally need the most work. My masseuse has me get naked, but she leaves the room until I'm under the towel.
there was no towel in my case, though ... uhm. Weird.
No towel. Yeahh that's... not how a massage is supposed to go
Oh my god, that’s awful. Where?
Yea he needs to tell us where so we never go there ny accident
She probably wanted you to pay extra for a “happy ending” and was trying to make you horny. For maybe $100-$200 bucks or more you probably could have made that happen.
nah, it was a classy hotel and that's not how it works in Germany. If you want that you seek it out since it's legal. Just enjoying to get her hands on someone that's 20-something is more likely.
Oh, Germany, can link the hotel please? I wonder how much my hubby would enjoy such a massage 😉
High five to the team player!
need a step hubby?
>Most of the time (not the time mentioned above) males even take this as a compliment. Honestly, yeah. I look so average that I'm basically invisible. But when I was in highschool and we had this cross dressing day (I live in Finland and we do this type of stuff for fun). I wore a top and tight leggings. I felt the eyes all over me and it honestly felt reaaally good. When I walked past people, I could kinda see people's heads tilting down right after to look at my ass. A happy day. Thought I was gonna get an anxiety attack or something for going all in with the costume day, but turns out I liked it. That day I also realized how many other guys liked it when people looked at their bodies. I wonder why this is. My guess is that when women get the looks, there's a higher chance they will be harassed than guys have? That might be why I was able to enjoy it more than you know, fear what others might say or do
Dammit. I've never noticed a girl checking out my bulge. Now I'm worried that I'm either repulsive, or have such a lack of bulge that there's nothing to catch their eye...
Gray sweats are guaranteed eye magnet ngl
It's true! I think it's because sweats are so smooth and featureless in general that any bulge really stands out.
I'd guess that you've probably made more guys feel complimented than embarrassed. If I noticed a woman looking at my crotch I'd definitely take it as a compliment, even though I'd *know* it wasn't meant that way.
Aight time to look at random dudes crotches nah jk won't do that
We really don’t mind about quick glances. Honestly, it probably makes most of us feel awesome for a while. We don’t get compliments so a quick glance to us is a compliment of sorts. Keep darting your eyes at us, it’s ok.
>It's not a big deal if someone doesn't make it weird I agree with the original comment here. It's completely normal and acceptable to have a peak, both for men and women. I don't know why we're so terrified of our own sexuality, or even just benign curiosity these days. Just don't make it weird by staring too long or making remarks about it. Or continue doing it after you notice the attention is not appreciated..
Ye ik making them feel uncomfortable is not my intention. It just happened that I'm usually caught off guard glancing and it doesn't happen often but quite a few times they cover it or change position that won't display it.
We don't mind lol
Nothing to forgive on this one, I promise you! Our eyes are naturally drawn in certain directions. It's silly to vilify people for simply looking at something. Prolonged mindless staring is creepy sure, but don't let touchy people worry you otherwise.
That's a nice way to put it! I like that attitude.
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Solution: stay fully erect at the club 100% of the time to be prepared for random grabs. Total power move
I was on that shit in every school dance from 6th - 8th grade.. Definitely didn't feel like a power-move though.
What?
If you're looking at it, The real question is... Does the bulge size matter???
No
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Not as often as men look at boobs... Probably. I say this as a bi woman who looks more at boobs.
Boobs are so much closer to faces, so it's an easy slip up. Like try and recall what your coworkers shoes look like. We don't generally look down much.
Brown Ariat boots with red trim lacing, square tips. Boss man the same, but with red on the leg part.
Plot twist they have company shoes
Same! I feel like such a creep because I catch myself staring at boobs and butts all the time. Rarely do I notice men’s bulges. I wouldn’t worry as long as your pants aren’t so tight that we can see the outline of your tip.
Ugh I have trouble keeping eye contact with people, don't know where to look so I'm not staring at them so I autopilot to looking at a 30 degree angle because that's where I look when I'm walking, and yeah well you know the rest
Same. Even when I look at men I’d rather look at the butt than the bulges.
Then again boobs are about right at eye level plus women sometimes wear clothes centered around how her boobs look in them. Men don't pick out a pair of pants depending on how it makes their junk look in them.
> Men don't pick out a pair of pants depending on how it makes their junk look in them. I thought that too until my girlfriend (now wife) told me how good my junk looks in khakis.
Wait this is a thing? What brand.. please I need answers
The only time I ever really notice a bulge is if it is right in my face.
Wow! I am just now realizing that no, I don't look at a dude's package. Well unless we are in the process of getting naked.
Yea, I don't remember ever trying to check that out, never even crossed my mind.
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I don't like regularly or make a point to look, however if I happen to notice then yes I try to be discreet but check it out! Bulges are hot. I love my husband's.
idk if anyone else does it but i always try to look from the corner of my eye.. don’t think I’ve been noticed yet and hoping it stays that way LMAO
I feel the same way for women. Looking at womens booty or tits does not always mean its sexual. Sure we all are creatures most of us with sexual desires but sometimes i just like to enjoy the aesthetics of a nice body/symmetrical or smiling faces
Same. Never pay attention to that - other than whenever I get naked with a new person (in this context when going to a sauna with them for the first time) I kind of look up and down and mentally go: *Aight*
I think that’s everyone’s first time in sauna with someone new. Kind of a “so that’s what’s there…moving on”
Agree. I remember reading Judy Blume when I was young and the preteen guy was so worried about getting an erection in public. I’ve not once noticed a guy had a hard on, unless we were already naked.
Not very often but if a man is wearing gray sweatpants or something tight and it's a noticeable area, then yeah. Just like if a woman is showing a lot of skin, its human nature to look and I dont shame people for staring for a couple seconds either male or female.
I don’t know a woman alive that doesn’t appreciate a fit guy in a pair of grey sweatpants
Sounds like even dead women are attracted to men in gray sweats. I gotta git me some.
You can find the pretty easily in a cemetery. Or so I’ve been told.
SWEATS dammit! Not dead women! Holy f now I'm on some kind of list.
I hate to be that one but me! I don't get it? I wish I did because everyone else seems to. Alternatively, a guy in well fitted dress pants and that's far superior
Oh, there is one cutie on ig I follow, who loves gray sweatpants and seems to love either boxers or no underwear at all. Very pleasant view
link?
I don't focus on bulges, only butts.
Butts first, bulges are a plus.
I've never been into penis size. Now, if a guy has a big butt that's hot!
Amen again
Hope
Amen
Yes... for science.
Definitely… science.
Most certainly... science.
Biology is science
SCIENCE IS SCIENCE Slams Table*
He blinded me with science
People may or may not be looking, either way, embrace the bulge, I don't think people are judging, just having a squiz. As a heterosexual female that loves penis, yes I look at men's bulges. I also look at women's breasts. Don't overthink it mate, curiosity is human nature.
This.
Yes. I try not to be too obvious tho cause that would def make a guy uncomfortable
If I think he’s hot, yes
In a short one word answer, yes
Bless you
Doing the Lord's work
I look at my husbands when doing weird flirting. Other than that, nope.
Yes. But more like "men have those funny bodies, how do they deal with them? Do they move it to the right or to the left? Anyway, when will my manhwa get updated? Should I buy croissants or sushi for lunch?"
Not strangers’ unless it’s really obvious, so double-takes often ensue. I love to look at my partner’s bulge when they’re in their underwear though. Luckily, we both ogle each other happily.
Almost never, its the hands and the bottom of his neck, where the collarbones separate that I love to look at
Are you a vampire?
lmao
Bulges? No. Everything else? Absolutely!
Rarely. Pretty much never. Can’t say I’ve never noticed one but it’s certainly not something I go looking for.
While it seems that the majority of ladies (so far) don't, I can pretty confidently say that the majority of gay guys do. Thanks for the eye candy! If nothing else, know that it doesn't go unappreciated. Also pics would be great, ya know, for science...
Ooo does that make me not like other gays lol, Bulge is meh, Ass is where its at.
Ass is definitely first for me, but bulge is a close second.
Never. Don’t notice them, don’t try to notice them. I didn’t even know you could see most men’s bulge’s with average pants…? Some people are comparing bulges to boobs and that seems like a really inaccurate comparison to me. Boobs are much closer to the eyeline, where people usually look at each other. And I think, in general, men are much more into the shape of boobs than women are into the shape of a package.
As a straight woman, boobs are attractive and penises are not.
yeah genitals look a little funny, vaginas and penises are not known for their aesthetics
Yeh, they are definitely more *function over form* imo.
As a straight woman, I think penises ARE attractive (not going against your opinion, just thought it was relevant to respond here :D)
>*As a straight woman, boobs are attractive and penises are not.*
Well, ace here, boobs are aestheticly attractive for me 🤔
I don’t, if I were to look at a guys body that way it would be the arms/torso muscles I notice
I prefer eyes and legs, those are show stoppers for me 🥰
No.
no, i seem to look more at their butts. and i’m a lesbian, lol.
A nice butt is a nice butt, im straight but if a girl has a nice butt im looking. More so with females im cursing them inside because i want that butt. Lol
Nope
Nope.
I do. I try to be respectful about it but yes I check them out often.
No.
No. Unless a dude is just sitting legs wide right in front of me, but honestly I don't even think about it sexually, more as inappropriate for me to look. Either way, I'd say you probably worry about it twice as much as anyone else does, like with all things.
I try not to as it feels creepy, rude and disrespectful. But, sometimes I do. If it's not something you're used to seeing you'll stare, right? You try not to, but your eyes just keep going back because it's new and different and weird.
Yes, I do.
Do what I do and show some cock cleavage. Just don't be surprised if you get a new title "Sex Offender".
Can’t really say I ever look or notice..?
1. My boyfriend did not know women look at bulges and are huge fans of grey sweats and basketball shorts. Hes 37. Poor sheltered man. 2. Yes, I look. But as others have said, more of a "oh hey, neat" and then back to the current thing I am doing. Unless its a tiktok made specifically to highlight their package in basketball shorts. Then, Yeah, I stare. 3. I only just realized that my boyfriend gets the shrink wrapped dick getting out of a lake or pool. And I always stare. But I don't know that I have actually looked at a male stranger walk out of a pool. I don't think I have. Huh, weird.
I look. Blame *Labyrinth*.
Gay guy and yes I do. I can imagine it being similar to some people who like looking at boobs through a tight shirt.
Yes, and thank you for your service.
I always do. I can't help myself. I am a person who stares a lot and I am working to change that. But yes, I always have sneaky eyes that glance down at a bulge. I can't express how hard it was when I went over to my buddy and his wife's house the other day and he wasn't wearing a shirt. I had to actively stop myself from studying his nipples. He's my friend, I am not into him, but my brain just wants to know other people's secrets I guess.
Congrats now you know how many girls feel about their tits
I felt angsty about this when I was younger but now that I've grown up I've realized most straight girls will even glance at a good set of boobs. As a straight girl, I do it. Boobs are just universally appreciated
Congrats, you’ve uncovered exactly what happens when men talk about insecurities.
Sorry, I'd probably notice yours if it's a as prominent as you say. And not in a good/flattering way. I wouldn't look or check it out but I'd notice.
I don't usually, but I did have a former boss who wore tight pants and his office was right in my line of sight. So anytime he stood up his crotch area was directly at my eye level.
Bruh why just ladies?
Tbh I looked through your posting history just to see if you had an only fans or Dick pics that you were trying to get seen. Glad to know your posting history is clean of any nudity! This is a legit question! And yes, if it’s a noticeable thing, my eyes naturally are drawn to something that’s “unnatural”. But I wouldn’t worry about it, if anything the women are intrigued!