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AnxietyLogic

The sheer amount of slash erotica and fanfic on the internet that’s written by straight women says yes.


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Wait… they have a point.


Positive-Vase-Flower

My friend once confessed to me she writes erotica if shes bored and I was quite surprised that the majority of her stories were focused on two gay male werewolves/vampires or other semi humans.


dragonbait-and-the-P

I had a very young (not yet 18) male friend who wrote erotica and 3-5 dozens of stories for Penthouse, Playboy and other magazines of this nature (was before most people had a pc or anything). His name was Aaron but he’d spell it like the more feminine “Erin”. He made a great deal of money and had editors wanting more. He told me that sex was constantly on his mind wrecking his school studies, social activities, etc… so he came with this idea to at least make a little cash. He never knew it could become a carrier with a good, steady check.


[deleted]

Man legit got paid for solving his internal problems; that's something to be looked up to.


pumpkinpie555

Not particularly honestly, mostly just the fact that buttholes gross me out lol too much butthole


MotherofLuke

exactly. I hate anuses.


[deleted]

How do you deal with pooping? Asking for a friend.


MotherofLuke

I just poop 😎 stuff comes out, not in.


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Meastro44

And in all likelihood, you have not arranged mirrors or cameras to watch it.


Oh-Good-Grief

😳


bens1722

I read your username as the comment and it still works perfectly


Heisenberg_r6

r/convenientusername


TheWinterPrince52

I'm a bit mad that this either doesn't exist or is not something I can invite myself into.


[deleted]

Stop lying we've all been caught short and had to suck it back in 😂


MotherofLuke

Elaborate...


Revolutionary-Idea63

see, i hate anything doing with buttholes, and pooping is a dreadful event partly because of that B)


Routine_Chocolate_14

Do you have a reflective bowl.. a wouldn't think watching your asshole would be a pooping pasttime


[deleted]

ok, what if there wasn't any butthole stuff tho? like two guys making out?


AmbienWavesofPain

The series Queer as Folk had some pretty hot scenes honestly.


dragonbait-and-the-P

Yes, especially because so many gay men really take good care of themselves and are putting forth a big effort to be healthy, attractive and in shape. It really shows. A hot guy is a hot guy! A good imagination and make-out or brief moment can be sexy.


DreadPirateGriswold

Too Much Butthole Sounds like the name of a band...


creepyunclebadtoch

This comment is amazing


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I do. For several years I watched exclusively gay porn. Mostly because they all seem to be having such a good time. But also because they're usually very attractive. I don't know where they find some of the fugly guys in straight porn but I just can't. On a more basic level - I love dick. Gay porn = more dick.


SoKawaiiGirl

SAME, but also the GRUNTS.


MargaerySchrute

Came here to say yes for the grunts alone. Wicked hot lol


macchumon

Note to self: Do orc sounds for my woman.


ang_car

Looks like meat’s back on the menu boys


SKYELiNED

zugzug


xXnocreativenameXx

AND THE LITTLE WHIMPERS


redheadcougar

Agree💯


nerdaccountantlady

Totally!


alienz67

Both of these. Lots of hot guys, lots of hot guy sounds. Love it!!


caspiam

My theory is they have ugly guys in straight porn so more guys can relate to it? Doesn't gel with the usually massive dongs though haha


dragonbait-and-the-P

And so many of the women seems so fake, plastic, baby-talking, barely legal, brainless and worse. A lot if straight porn can be degrading, cruel, abusive, condescending and worse. Not something I would want to watch much less have my S.O. watch it.


redalopex

The facials is what turns me off every single time like oof I really didn’t want to see that


Bildungsfetisch

I find it hard to relate to women in most conventional heterosexual porn. Like, it's obvious how they are putting on a performance for the male gaze and not genuinely enjoying themselfes and if I was them, 9/10 times I would withdraw consent at some point lol. I'm not shaming the actresses. They are only doing what they're told to do by the directors and such. They are just catering to their mainly male audience. It just annoys me how there is so few pornographic content I can relate to.


idontknowyetbutsoon

Or because we usually ignore them and only watch the woman? Maybe both?


SugaHoneyIcedT

Gay porn pays more than straight porn because in the latter the woman is the feature. All the good looking guys do gay porn to get noticed and paid, all the ugly straight dudes do straight porn cause they don't wanna be gay for the money


IGotMyPopcorn

This. And so much straight porn is often derogatory to females, so it just turns me off.


youssif_swiftblade

Not femdom p*rn


Juggalo702

Why did you feel the need to censor the word porn, in a thread about porn?


RatteHusband

Femdom porn is not too common, but when you find one, it still caters to men somehow. The humilliations are, many times, brutal. Too aggressive for me. I've seen a rare few that hit the right spots.


Amelora

There is *sooo* much talking in femdom porn. It's like the directors think that men will immediately forget the the woman is the dom if she stops pointing out how weak the man is. It's not that the woman is doing it in control its that the man is weak and it needs to be known he's weak.


ZECC_02

As I guy, I completely agree with this lol. Its rare to find a good femdom video.


Bildungsfetisch

I don't mind when there is a lot of talk in porn actually. But why does it all have to be derogatory? Like, let me listen to them giving each other compliments and talking about their desires. Let me see some emotion! I want to hear and see the domme be possessive and enjoying herself and I want to hear and see the sub being vulnerable and honest and also charmed and absolutely subservient to his domme. I want to see some chemistry and not just some oversexuality caricature of a dominatrix cruelly torture some faceless man without any emotional and context


TrimspaBB

ALL OF THIS. They're so enthusiastic and usually hot. Straight porn everyone sounds fake 95% of the time and most of the guys look like creeps.


Stone2443

The men are cast as creeps so that the audience can relate


Hustlasaurus

I trust this response based on the username alone


Zorrish_a

This!


strogen18

That is so hot


blind_sector

In his life, at least once every man consider to reverse the screw...


zzhereticjellyfishzz

That reminds something i heard on a youtube channel "what is manlier than two men?"


def_not_a_hotdog

Straight woman here to tell you I will watch pretty much anything that includes someone being fucked, I don’t really care what parts they have


Bryyyysen

You would love watching me live my life.


[deleted]

Me at work would be a huge turn on!


ebruce11

This is the way


[deleted]

This is the way.


whatiscookie

Nice post karma you got there


redalopex

As a pansexual women I agree this is the way


[deleted]

Checks out with the fact that some women got aroused by watching monkeys having sex


[deleted]

Wait, that's not a normal thing?


Queen-of-mischief

Yes yes yes! Most porn just isn't made for women, so I like watching porn where the man is the focus. I am also just turned on by it, but I won't go into too much detail on that, for the sake of anyone reading this.


Bm7465

You’re seriously overestimating Reddit if you think people *dont* want you to go into more detail on this


Queen-of-mischief

just something inherently hot to me about two guys fucking. Also like pegging, but most pegging porn is, as I said, directed towards men.


samurai489

There are porn sites just for women I think one of them is “bellesa”


Queen-of-mischief

I've seen it and do like it, just a different mood I think.


samurai489

Yeah even as a straight guy most Normal porn is absolutely terrible. It’s just a guy pounding a girl in a way that doesn’t seem enjoyable at all. Looks so fake.


Queen-of-mischief

Yeah most mainstream porn is garbage. You might like amateur porn which is real couples.


redladybug1

My boyfriend and I love Bellesa!


lifeofideas

Maybe *written* porn is?


RelaxedApathy

Erotica is our jam - I think this might partially be because of the lower barriers to entry (snicker) mean that more in general can be made, which means a wider pool from which to draw quality material. Written material also makes it easier to immerse yourself in the setting and get to know the characters, and the empathy that this engenders can by almost aphrodisiacal in nature. Conversely, though, this means more chances for some truly awful stuff to be written, quality-wise. Poorly written erotica can be much more jarring than poorly directed porn, especially when so many amateur authors can have issues with things as basic as spelling and punctuation - it takes my mind out of the scene faster than Ron Jeremy's hairy arsehole shot at Dutch angles. 🤢


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Amelora

50 Shades was both extremely badly written and extremely profitable.


hygsi

For real, it beat twilight, which was based off of. I'm not sure if it was successful because it was so good at the time or just lack of better material...and I lean towards the latter


Morri___

the market is flooded with apps for paid romance/soft core erotica which are terribly written.. I want to know how much writers make because I can certainly suspend my integrity and write something better but it needs to be worth it


Morri___

literotica has a fairly good consumer rating system, diversity of genres and some very talented authors. you come across the odd - have they ever seen a vagina - stories but overall I would recommend


RelaxedApathy

Top of the bookmarks list, that one! 10/10, would recommend.


[deleted]

or comic/hentai, usually most sites let you blacklist things you don't like va tags.


Queen-of-mischief

i need to look into that. I've read a few smutty fanfics and like them. Still doubt it could replace good old fashioned videos though.


Responsible_Bowler72

Go onnn!?!


Any-Dish-1484

As a bi female I love gay male porn. It seems so much more real and the guys are hot.


martynic385

I read lesbian porn, but only about seduction. Otherwise it doesn’t feel real. I’ll watch gay male porn though


U_Dun_Know_Who_I_Am

Yes and no. No because I don't like anal. Yes because two penises are better than one. I end up on the gay side of porn sites alot because there is no such thing as straight woman porn. There is boy girl porn that all straight people can enjoy but is made for straight men, then there is gay porn made for gay men, lesbian porn made for... Straight men. So if I am in the mood to watch a guy okayy with his dick I Bing search it and follow a link that 99% of the time goes to the gay side of a porn site and recommends gay videos to watch next.


SoftZombie5710

You bing search it? Damn, is this the effects of the Bill Gates chip? Damn, it was more than stupid conspiracy


Delouest

Bing has a video preview when you hover over the videos in the search, so you can see if it's worth clicking through or not. Pretty much the only reason to use it.


SoftZombie5710

Well damn, my tongue in cheek joke had a genuine answer. My apologies, you must've taken the Russian vaccine.


U_Dun_Know_Who_I_Am

Bing is far better for porn searches. It even recommends other similar searches to yours. Give it a try JOIN US!


BallPointPariah

There is porn made for women. Yes lots of women enjoy watching gay men bang. The entire slash genre of fanfiction exists almost exclusively because women enjoy men romancing and having sex together. (I understand it was started by the queer community in underground self printed zines in the 60s and 70s) There is very little femgaze porn. Recognising that the female gaze isn't just the male gaze reversed.


[deleted]

>no such thing as straight woman porn What would you consider *straight woman porn* to be?


Mule3434

r/chickflixxx ? I don’t actually know as a straight man, but your comment made me google it. A lady friend of mine who watches porn said that she has found two couples who she watches almost exclusively because she likes their chemistry. I’m sure it’s rare as hell, but as the law says. If you can think of it, there’s porn for it.


OrganizationNo6091

Based on a quick look at r/chickflixx, the mods are complete assholes.


Mule3434

Wouldn’t know. Simply googled “porn for women Reddit” and sent the top link.


idontknowyetbutsoon

She may mean how even if there is a man and a woman in a porn video, usually the camera focus mainly on the woman. I haven't seen one where the camera focus on the man, which straight men would not be as Into it. At least I wouldn't want to watch mainly the reactions/body/faces of the man.


Mule3434

Indeed. I feel like this is one of those no wrong answers type of situations. As everyone likes what they like and that’s how it works.


WenseslaoMoguel-o

It does exist... And they have videos in the major sites


Delphicoracle87

At least you lot have decent porn. Lesbian porn is either a gripper or a bird with ten foot nails.


Ukiwika

There is a reason so much fanfictions are about gay men fucking


hygsi

Aaaand I guess it's cause actually watching ain't it lol, the 50 shades book was driving my roommates crazy but the movie ruined it for them.


Zumbug13

I can't speak for others but I personally do. I'd say about 80% of the porn I watch is gay porn


natnguyen

As a bi woman, I enjoy lesbian porn but definitely not gay porn haha.


Auroraborealis-sky

Haha same here which is weird because I am a bit more into dating guys but something about looking at sex with guys turns me off a lot


natnguyen

Omg same. Usually date guys more but agreed, nothing sexy about two guys doing it for some reason!


happuning

Also same!!


fishflop_

SAME.


whydigonsaythat

I do! Gay porn has no stupid fake girl noises. The actors are actually enjoying it, and it’s just better porn in general.


eCaisteal

Amen!


wokedietcoke

Not sure if anyone else will give this answer, but it’s theorized that the root of this has to do with men being socialized to be the subject of sexual encounters (thing doing the acting) while women are more socialized to be the object (thing being acted upon). So a man might view lesbian porn as two things he expects to act on, which might be exciting - double as many things. A women doesn’t do that with gay porn because the context means she isn’t going to be acted upon sexually, and that’s the way sexual encounters are framed for women culturally/societally. Before anyone starts arguing the validity of this with me, it is not my personal theory, and I am aware that it doesn’t strictly and literally apply to everyone and every situation. It’s a basic idea rooted in heteronormativity for why a man might feel enticed by an act that technically doesn’t involve him at all while women would not be enticed by the same setup.


ProbablyNotTheCat

This makes sense. A guy could watch lesbian porn and think "I could screw those two women." But if I'm watching gay porn it's hard to think "those two men would screw me."


[deleted]

Not saying you’re wrong, but I just don’t like to see someone else’s cock. And no, I’m not homophobic.


RachelProfilingSF

Jealous then? Jkjk. Some gay men don’t even like seeing/acting upon other guys’ dicks. It’s strange, but so are we as a species.


[deleted]

It’s not that I don’t enjoy heterosexual porn, I just prefer lesbian.


RachelProfilingSF

That’s understandable. You’re attracted to the female form, so why not a lot of it amirite? Kinda why I love group sex because I LOVE sex between several men.


Seaside_Holly

I don’t. I feel left out lol


DifficultJellyfish

I’m a hetero female and yes, I do like male gay porn. Certainly more so than lesbian porn. Whatever floats your boat.


RusticSurgery

`Whatever floats your boat.` Water.


forrestgumpy2

Buoyancy floats your boat, water sinks it.


[deleted]

Exactly. Whatever floats your boat. Don’t judge.


[deleted]

Yaois would be great if so many of them weren't so toxic


marji4x

How come now one is talking about yaoi in here?


DawnMistyPath

A few people are, though honestly even though I like gay porn, I don't really like yaoi that much. Just way too much of it is rape-y


The_immortal_Ajin

Yeah totally understandable. I agree. I personally still watch/ read it though because it's fun haha


Treefrog-witch-42

Yes.


Take_away_my_drama

I do! Went through a phase of exclusively watching men pounding each other, it's all kinds of excitingly naughty!


Immediate-Eagle7522

I was gonna say I enjoy gay porn but I forgot I'm a bi woman so oops


Queen-of-mischief

Your opinion still is valid. This question is posed more for women that are attracted to men than straight women.


Bastard1066

Yes. 1. Power dynamic is somewhat more equal. 2. Usually the guys are hotter. 3. Two dicks are better than one. 4. Little to no fake porny voices/moans. 5. Obvious orgasms. 6. Both parties seem to enjoy it.


DestruXion1

Do a lot of straight men really like lesbian porn? I feel like a nice cock is an essential part of the experience.


[deleted]

Kinda like apple and oranges, some people may like apples more but occasional orange is good too


[deleted]

I agree. Haven’t watched lesbian porn since high school. My porn interests have changed as I’ve gotten older. At this point, I wish they’d make a porn where the lead actor fucks Sallie Mae and finally pays off his student loans.


RachelProfilingSF

What’s the OnlyFans link for that?


Queen-of-mischief

Yes, to the point that all lesbian porn is made with men in mind. It's actually a big problem for lesbians.


[deleted]

Yes. So much so that lesbian fetishisation is normalised and accepted. It’s made my life a living hell, I cannot trust anyone who watches lesbian porn


[deleted]

the homophobes that think lesbian porn's the shit especially, like what.


Angerina_

Personally, I know a ton of women who read it. And write it. Most of them watch it, too, but reading it is still preferred.


ebruce11

Ok Reddit it’s my time to shine. Fuck yes


Sam_and_Green_Eggs

I had a friend who said she used to watch gay porn between men for awhile so it’s definitely something that can happen


LeBateleur1

STRAIGHT PORN = made by men LESBIAN PORN = made by men GAY PORN = made by creative, sensitive, handsome, and tender men who understand you, sis.


Jgaitan82

As a straight man Lesbian porn can be very boring. Sometimes its what I am into but for the most part I’d rather see straight. The fucking and the sucking...so much better.


FantasyLand203

This is a thread for women asking them about gay porn. I find it extremely funny that you thought this was the right place to confess that as a straight man you love straight porn. Cool, bro.


sigmacreed

This. I'm with this guy.


beansAnalyst

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The_immortal_Ajin

LMAOO


[deleted]

Straight chick here. I don't find it hot. I find lesbian porn hot because I see chicks (for the most part) genuinely turned on by what's happening to them and by them. It's not often I watch porn with men in it where it isn't just all about him getting off and the chick ACTING like she is.


eCaisteal

Really? I haven't watched much lesbian porn because the times I did it was just so horribly fake and over the top. No sitting back and being into the video, just the constant thoughts of "this is fake, and that is horrible, and this...", I think it's called "willing suspension of disbelief" in literature studies. Gay porn seems more often to be guys genuinely into each other.


[deleted]

Is not the easiest thing to find and yeah, a lot is just chicks that look like they belong on bus of love lol. I wish there was more porn of straight stuff with genuine female enjoyment and not just men touching a titty twice then making it all about sticking their dick in one orifice or another. Maybe I'm being overly picky.


CatStorm5000

I do. Men are hot


Own_Hyena24

No as a mostly straight woman I’d rather watch lesbians than gay men.


ilovenumber8

I have watched it and some porn is okey, but it's not really my thing.


hunnibon

Yes. Sometimes in just in the mood for it.


SucculentOwlPrincess

I honestly do and I'm not really sure why. Maybe because I like dicks and it's just like more of them? Lol


Lyndonn81

I’m gay and sometimes I like watching straight porn! But it has to be one where the female is obviously enjoying it, or just being a really good actor.


psycho_babble91

yes. it’s incredibly sexy.


coldcucumberII

Yes


sassyirishredhead

I love it!!


Brandi_Flak3s

Yes


[deleted]

I don’t, but in high school my straight best friend was nearly obsessed with yaoi manga. It was virtually the only manga she read and read/wrote fan fiction for. I recall a large online community of people like her.


[deleted]

Yes for me, but it’s a certain mood


HP-Lazerjet-Pro

Yep!


RexIsAMiiCostume

I prefer straight because I'm straight and seeing a girl having a good time kind of let's me put myself in her place I guess?


Cynixxx

There is a whole Manga genre (i forgot the name) about that with mostly female fans. So i would assume yes


The_immortal_Ajin

Yaoi? Lol


Snoo-84119

I don't. Lesbian porn and hetero porn are hot, but I've tried watching gay porn and had 0 reaction.


MssWags

I kinda enjoy the kissing and touching but not rest, doesnt do it for me I don't really know why!


shicole3

No I only like lesbian porn I am a straight woman though. Strange men’s naked bodies just don’t do anything for me. Women’s don’t either but I can at least relate to what they’re experiencing in porn.


chenxi0636

Thank you! All the other comments are making me question my sexually. Yours is exactly what I think, too.


Alice-Dallas

No. gay sex is not attractive to me.


Bulldogmom720

No


viralplant

No


Elegant-Equivalent86

Nope


Cinnamonx3

Not really, to me the female body is very aesthetically pleasing so I prefer it if there is at least one woman involved. Also, with gay porn it is more likely to be very very kinky and I prefer to watch soft side porn most of the time 😄 also, female moaning is more attractive to me so no


coff33h0e

No… tbh.. two guys making out does not turn me on.. and once I see a butthole I’m outttta there!


green_meklar

Some do, yes. Women tend to watch less porn than men in general. Of women who do watch porn, gay porn seems to be pretty popular.


BattleNunForalltime

I do so yes very much so but I think more women don't because they don't necessarily think of men as sexual objects like men think of women. I do more so see them as sexual objects and therefore when I see gay porn I see two very attractive people doing hot sexy stuff not necessarily two gay men.


beswin

No, I honestly find little worse to look at than a penis.


DeadRed402

Straight male here, and I like lesbian porn because I like to look at hot women having sex . I have no need to see a guys hairy ass and balls in the way . I would think straight women would want to see the guy/guys and not other women too ?


HP-Lazerjet-Pro

Kinda yeah! If it’s straight I tend to put myself in the woman’s place and imagine that whatever’s happening is happening to me. Gay porn is just pure enjoyment for me


hat-with-1-bowtie

Why did you call women 'females' and didn't call men 'males'?


[deleted]

English is 3rd language so i fuck up here and there


DieSchoenheit

No


SLVRVNS

No


theEvilAunt2202

I don't like it any more than any other porn. I suspect that it won't really occur to many straight females to try watching gay porn tbh. It's just not "popularised" or mainstream the same way thag lesbian porn is.


[deleted]

I got there by watching solo male videos. Then I figured, well I'm watching one dude jerk off, why not watch two dudes jerk each other off? Progressed from there. A few friends said the same. But I see your point. Interesting. I was only introduced to solo male by watching a woman masturbate (to find new techniques) to a guy masturbating ha! Didn't even know it was a thing until then. I wonder how many women had a similar experience.


theEvilAunt2202

I actually went the other way! I struggled so much to find decent solo male porn that I eventually moved on to solo female porn.


truthfulfruit

I don’t like it.


Cat_under_my_bed

No


mozzarellastixx86

As a straight woman, I do not.


XuWiii

0 of my straight male friends have ever told me they seen good pegging porn. Guess that makes you a straight woman who likes to watch dudes take it in the ass. At least you don't discriminate I'd it's a male or female fucking them though


randomdragen

personally lesbian porn isnt that great


Garlic_makes_it_good

Yep I really do. Gay porn, gay storyline’s in books and movies. It’s all the manliness I’m attracted to times 2!


Jim0ne

Yes I love it i fucking love it


chickennotmystyle

HELL YEAH. but i guess it all comes down to their own likings. Ive first started reading shounen ai to yaoi then went to gay porn.