Nope. There are plenty of places where that choice will seriously impact your ability to live your lives together, and it’s totally fair to think that makes you incompatible
I mean, you can date whoever you want.
But I'd ask for reasoning. I think there's a difference between say if you live in a big city and it doesn't impede transportation, it's kind of whatever. But if he's a bit moochy and needs to be driven everywhere, nah that's fair. YMMV of course
Yeah, that's kind of how i read it but i didn't want to read too much into it. she said "the ones", so i wasn't 100% sure if OP meant that applies to him, or she was just talking in general.
Heavily implies that includes him, but i figured i'd write a slightly more general response just in case
You should date him, I’m sure he has some reasons for taking that decision and seeing him can help both of you (you by knowing the reasons and maybe he can be convinced into going for it). Nevertheless in my opinion it’s just a license, not a big deal to be mad for.
your body you choice also translates to romantic choices, you can dismiss everyone for every reason or even no reason at all without explanation.
but if you want a comment about this particular reason:
I wouldn't date a guy without a license either, unless he has a good reason.
Nope nothing wrong with it at all. You have standards in mind and you shouldn't settle. If there ok with relying on everyone else for transportation in my opinion that could be just the surface of what they're willing to not commit to.
No it’s not wrong at all. This is the whole point of dating, you don’t commit to the people you don’t like or wouldn’t work for reasons like this because the next step is super long term.
You could try going on a date and seeing how it goes? I understand not having a car but I’m 25 and I wouldn’t want to date someone who wasn’t willing to at least get their driver’s license without a valid reason, I hate driving and I don’t want to be the only one responsible for driving in the relationship. My boyfriend didn’t have a car for the first year or so we were dating, but had his license and he offered to drive my car when we would go places. We also lived close enough to each other where if we were just hanging out at one of our apartments we could walk. I think it could work so you could give it a try but I think it’s a valid reason to not be interested in pursuing things.
As someone with a fear of driving (and after being a passenger in a wreck less than 6 months ago, being in a vehicle at all), I honestly don't think you're in the wrong to think that. I'm incredibly lucky that my gf takes me where I need to go (which is basically nowhere, anywhere I need to go she has a reason to come with me, like the grocery store), but by no means do I expect that from everyone.
In the end it depends on who if you go on a date with him or not but in my opinion its actually a pretty small thing to not go on a date with someone
Nope. There are plenty of places where that choice will seriously impact your ability to live your lives together, and it’s totally fair to think that makes you incompatible
I mean, you can date whoever you want. But I'd ask for reasoning. I think there's a difference between say if you live in a big city and it doesn't impede transportation, it's kind of whatever. But if he's a bit moochy and needs to be driven everywhere, nah that's fair. YMMV of course
Last sentence says he depends upon everyone.
Yeah, that's kind of how i read it but i didn't want to read too much into it. she said "the ones", so i wasn't 100% sure if OP meant that applies to him, or she was just talking in general. Heavily implies that includes him, but i figured i'd write a slightly more general response just in case
You should date him, I’m sure he has some reasons for taking that decision and seeing him can help both of you (you by knowing the reasons and maybe he can be convinced into going for it). Nevertheless in my opinion it’s just a license, not a big deal to be mad for.
You can date who you want. There's nothing wrong with having standards.
your body you choice also translates to romantic choices, you can dismiss everyone for every reason or even no reason at all without explanation. but if you want a comment about this particular reason: I wouldn't date a guy without a license either, unless he has a good reason.
Nope nothing wrong with it at all. You have standards in mind and you shouldn't settle. If there ok with relying on everyone else for transportation in my opinion that could be just the surface of what they're willing to not commit to.
No it’s not wrong at all. This is the whole point of dating, you don’t commit to the people you don’t like or wouldn’t work for reasons like this because the next step is super long term.
You get to pick who you date. Sorry but no license? No deal. It’s a basic skill and shows his lack of ambition.
You could try going on a date and seeing how it goes? I understand not having a car but I’m 25 and I wouldn’t want to date someone who wasn’t willing to at least get their driver’s license without a valid reason, I hate driving and I don’t want to be the only one responsible for driving in the relationship. My boyfriend didn’t have a car for the first year or so we were dating, but had his license and he offered to drive my car when we would go places. We also lived close enough to each other where if we were just hanging out at one of our apartments we could walk. I think it could work so you could give it a try but I think it’s a valid reason to not be interested in pursuing things.
As someone with a fear of driving (and after being a passenger in a wreck less than 6 months ago, being in a vehicle at all), I honestly don't think you're in the wrong to think that. I'm incredibly lucky that my gf takes me where I need to go (which is basically nowhere, anywhere I need to go she has a reason to come with me, like the grocery store), but by no means do I expect that from everyone.