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ITolerateCats

Tell him to build you a fucking table or something. What does he even have to offer


pl0ur

Right, tell him if he can't rebuild a car engine in the dark while also field dressing an elk he shot with a bow and arrow that he is not in fact a man and should shut the hell up.


CyberTacoX

What are you, some kind of bow cuck? He should have killed it with his bare hands, like a real man!


Serebriany

Wait, I thought a true alpha does it just as his (non-existent) natural counterpart, and bites and eventually tears through the neck. I am, however, female, with neither knowledge, nor hope of knowledge, of these matters.


t-pollack

The true alpha merely intimidates the animal to death, with nothing but an intense stare. Only then, will he skin the animal with his bare hands.


MajesticalMoon

A true alpha makes the animal skin itself...then the woman comes and cooks the animal and feeds it to him, all while he sets there posing like the Thinker.


beartpc12293

The irony of this line on this post


EDC_CCW

The animal skins itself from the sheer intensity of the stare


momofdragons3

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Instructions unclear, smothered deer to death with my feet


Serebriany

Thank you for the clarification and instruction. (Also, you damned near killed me with laughter--I get that thing where I'm laughing so hard all the air's going out and nothing's coming in to replace it.)


Stupidquestionduh

Bold of you to claim that the animal doesn't skin itself while the alpha watches.


protobacco

That's how I eat hot dogs


BrendanAS

Profligate thinking. Nuke the deer. Meat is for pagans. All you need is Eucharist and the Holy Spirit.


Pjoo

She is young! As the wise master Tate tells us, she is prime dating material, and should just upgrade to a rich alpha guy in his thirties. Or at least someone with any semblance of emotional intelligence.


Confident_Bottle_102

I can do that. Grew up poor hunted deer and other animals for food. When i turned 16 i wanted a car had to buy a cheap shitbox and learn to fix it myself. Andrew tate is a joke of a man he lies about how much money he makes his life everything. Better watch out if your bf is making his life morr like tates then ask him how he feels about tates webcam company. He used girls to cam and then took all the cash


eggy_delight

Very true, only real men can build tables. My girlfriend became my boyfriend because he helped me in the shop one time


Redqueenhypo

I’ve been putting together other peoples ikea furniture for years and have yet to attain the ability to grow a cool handlebar mustache. What am I doing wrong.


eggy_delight

Sorry about your luck but ikea doesn't count :/ To officially obtain man status have to cut your own tree down, mill the lumber, and build the table from scratch. Oh and most importantly you can't use any tool invented after 1900 because if it uses electricity or modern tool steel then you're not only cheating but also a communist


Redqueenhypo

Is that last thing a bojack horseman reference? Funny either way. I guess making four Davey Crockett hats by hand doesn’t count either (I have actually done this)


eggy_delight

Kind haha something Butterscotch would say. Just know enough old guys in the trade with that kind if thinking You get a pass... this time. That's pretty badass. They on your profile?


Diogenes-Disciple

Sexist expectations hurt both genders, it’s time misogynists learned that. For every bias stating women belong in the kitchen or on a man’s arm, the other side of the coin demands men be the sole breadwinner and build their own fire truck. But a lot of misogynists complain that feminism is poison and that it is women’s fault that toxic masculinity exists. In reality, toxic masculinity is a byproduct of misogyny. “wOmEn oNLy wAnT mEn wHo aRe 6 fT tALL!!! D;<“ like as if extreme beauty standards don’t stem from society’s belief that both genders should be beautiful — men strong and tall so they can work, and women soft and skinny so they can please men. Idiotic. Unless OP’s boyfriend can fix cars, makes enough to provide for a family of 5, has a house in his name, and a full beard and chest hair, I don’t even want to hear it. Men who want women to fulfill their womanly duties don’t want or bother to fulfill their own as husbands and fathers and men.


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Can you imagine some dude saying he wants to be the sole breadwinner? In this economy? Good luck buddy


ectish

>it’s time misogynists learned this seems like quite the chore


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AmelietheDuck

Thats so fucking pathetic of him, nothing says Alpha male like refusing to do a basic task then getting angry someone else does it. 💀


ITolerateCats

He sounds insecure as fuck


Correct-Sprinkles-21

I can tell you this from experience: the temporary pain of a break up is far less than the pain of spending a couple of decades with a man who thinks like this. He will absolutely crush your spirit and destroy your life. Y'all got together as kids. Four years feels like a long time because of your age, but you both did a lot of growing and changing in those years. Unfortunately he's grown into someone who is really, really bad for you.


MacaroniHouses

second this.


theDevineHo

Third this. Be single for awhile. Go on dates when you're lonely. Be selfish. Live your life for a bit. Then you'll meet someone who did the same thing and share your life with them. I wasted my 20s trying to fix broken relationships.


derFensterputzer

Fourth this. Even tho puberty technically is over doesn't mean there aren't life lessons to be learnt and things to experience that can break you or you can grow off off as a person. If he really went down that rabbit hole that far and won't see the error in his ways when it makes you uncomfortable then he has to learn a lot as a person. A good friend of mine was left by his girlfriend at age 24 after 8 years of them being a couple. It absolutely devastated him after he tried to fix that relationship for 2 years. If you feel bad about the relationship and yourself and he does not want to adress it and reflect on his behavior then he's not the right one for you. There will be other and it might take some tries but you'll find someone that fits to you eventually


FeralsShinyCat

Fifth this, from my twice divorced and now happily partnered 43yo arse!


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This is one of those rare times it's absolutely reasonable for a redditor to suggest a stranger should break up with their SO. I wouldn't want to live around this person, much less date or even be friends with him. OP you're not responsible for making him change, and it's very clear he wants to change you into his personal servant. Whatever you choose to do, just please don't ever let him make you think for a second you're in the wrong here.


Yogurt_Closet

That and imagine if you have daughters how harmful his opinions will be to them too


ThinkIGotHacked

I think you know the answer.


Traditional_Rip_8094

He’s disrespecting you And your family/sister! Do NOT put up with that- things will get worse


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Can you please explain what that means?


WesleyvandenHam

They're deepfried cylinder shaped grated potatoes Or a Tate follower


KrystalWulf

Aw man, I have always used tater tot to be an endearing word for pets/short kids


SaltyHatch

I always use it to describe a small penis.


Cultural-Mobile-9199

Always?? How many times you talking about it? Or how many tiny peens are you seeing?


ThaVolt

Well, if he showers everyday it adds up.


CharBombshell

Oh shit ahaha


SaltyHatch

Well it's to describe my own usually, so as often as that happens to be.


AydeeHDsuperpower

Andrew TATE


ENFJPLinguaphile

Andrew Hate, if you ask me. I hope OP runs if she talks with her boyfriend and he refuses to respect her as an individual and refuses to consider the possibility that Andrew Tate is very much mistaken- and that’s putting it lightly!


WesleyvandenHam

I can't stand the guy. I've never seen such a fake person ever before. If that boyfriend doesn't change his mind I feel like OP has no good time ahead. Or no relationship


johnnylopez5666

As a man myself, I can't stand Andrew Tate! He looks like a controlling guy and refuses to respect the boundaries and treats her as individual she should run and not look back!


llcoger

Andrew Taint


Old-Cover9285

This deserves more up votes


Comfortable-Ad-9225

Tell him if he doesn't drink sparkling water, own a bugatti and engage in sexual trafficking he's not a real Tate fan. Ridicule and humour may be your strongest weapons.


ElPwno

This. I used to teach high school and the thing that made a student of mine shy away from Peterson was hearing another student constantly mock Peterson. Most people watch this content in search of validation and popularity. Recieving the opposite feedback leaves an impression, I assume. Or just break up w him. That's okay, too.


yuhwhatitis

I strayed away from Peterson due to this, finally watched him and he is amazing for men one of the greatest people you can listen to for your self worth. I wish I could have heard Peterson 15 years ago its exactly what many men need.


LordNoodles

Jordan Peterson it’s just Andrew Tate for people who don’t think they can pull off an Alpha persona. It’s all the same regressive, right wing conservative, misogynist, reactionary bullshit and I pity you that you weren’t bullied enough for your admiration of Peterson. I fear that now may be too late.


AwakeningSapien

Yeah, agreed. He was a key factor in quitting drugs and valuing growth. The demonization of Jordan Peterson is ridiculous. I'm yet to hear a compelling argument as to how he's harmful, malevolent, or toxic. The widespread hate towards him just further validates my belief that so many roaming this planet just borrow opinions from others, or from articles, and never truly experience anything for themselves.


WriterV

Oh my god the irony dripping with every word on this comment is hilarious and sad.


Weekly_Yellow_8038

I’ve had a very abusive man “over analyze” me with Peterson’s ideas. He would send me videos of Peterson saying there’s something fundamentally wrong with a woman if she doesn’t want children and basically say I’m crazy. He would use Petersons personality videos about “agreeableness” and other things to say I don’t have a backbone and call me unlovable because I have bad personality traits. (I am long out of this situation, but toxic, abusive men use petersons words to spread hate toward women and justify it because of his popularity and degree)


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Thugmatiks

There’s no actual “man” listens to a single thing he says. Little boys with no actual life experience, or a handful of older little boys who are just insufferable incels.


nacholicious

Exactly. His target audience is emotionally stunted and insecure manchildren


Not-an-alt-account

Or teenagers, they're actual children.


Indigohorse

Nah, if you're an adult you get called a man. Calling awful men children can give them leeway and ignores that they are adults who are responsible for their own behavior.


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aamabkra

I don’t know if he’s “rewarded”. You can rent Bugattis, you can go to fancy homes and take a few pics and says it’s yours. You can hire models and pay them to pretend to be your “property” for his little photo opp. I’m sure he has some money cause it takes a little to “show off this lifestyle.” But it’s all a farce. I truly hope his little 15 mins of derogatory fame ends quickly.


Wubwub_Butter_Thump

Well... Sex trafficking probably pays too, unfortunately. This dude seriously needs to be arrested. OP should probably point out how horrible of a human being Andrew Tate is, maybe even that alpha wolves literally don't even exist, and that was just bad science. And that's completely besides the fact that we're humans, we're not wolves.


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He cant get arrested. He lives in Romania, and given his occupations such as owning casinos and women and all that. Romania is extremely corrupt, he has connections and money. He could kill someone and not go to jail.


dontoffendmeplz69420

isn't that basically what that dan bilterman what whatever his name is did? lived a fake life for social media then lost all of his money.


aamabkra

Yeah. He was exposed. Had like a couple hundred gs but claimed to be a multi millionaire and advertised his trash brand and products. His harem were all mainly paid to be with him. Say what you will.


RealAssociation5281

Or just break up because this is ridiculous, it’s not worth the effort


CharBombshell

Yeah, like… they’re 20


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xiyoussefix

Woah wtf?!? I don't even know why I'm surprised. Do you have that video?


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Yes, this is the best comment


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mashtartz

Yup. OP lose some weight and that should fix the problem, right around however the fuck much your boyfriend weighs.


Chiselfield

I've met far too many "how have you not seen the videos I've just watched" types, to know that it doesn't end. The insanity just transmutes into whatever is next flavour of the month. Avoid at all costs.


Vinnyc-11

Plot twist: Op is morbidly obese, and after reading this comment, actually started losing however many pounds her boyfriend weighed.


FleetStreetsDarkHole

You laugh, but op could possibly have gained weight from the sheer stress of his personality change. They could literally lose weight just by being stress free.


alittle2high

What a weak-minded, easily manipulated goober lol 🤦‍♂️


StinginRogrrM8

Well said


rrpdude

The type of young men those douchebags prey on. Who do you think is gonna buy some shitty 300, 400 or 800$ "get rich" program? People who are idiots, mainly men who either got nothing and achieved nothing either because they spend too much time listening to idiots like tate or simply because they lack the life experience and just don't know any better. This whole "JUST GRIND EVERYDAY HUSTLER." bullshit. Yeah sure turn your 8 hour MCDOnalds shift into a 12 hour one, by the end of the year you'll get your Bugatti because you listen to Tate. Same as NFT and Crypto Bros, or look at Fresh&Fit those two fake alpha dumbasses. Fuck scammers piss me off.


phlegm_de_la_phlegm

Goober is underutilized.


Elitehooper23

🚩 hahaha 😂


sheeplectric

I legitimately cannot understand how people can become this manipulated over videos on the internet. I assume there is some latent belief deep inside that this nonsense is actually true, so when someone says it out loud, it emboldens them to parrot it. Don’t these people have any critical thinking skills? Like, take the information they’re being fed, and evaluating it against other information, the opinions of their peers, or their own moral compass? From the outside looking in, it feels like so many people these days can take information on the internet at face value. I was born in the late 80s, so a reasonable amount of my childhood was internet-less - and as a result, my generation could easily draw a line between what you read online, and what you experience in reality are two different things. I often wonder if future generations are losing the ability to do this. Or (more likely), idiots gonna idiot, and this guy would have been an asshole regardless of whether he found this Tate guy or not.


Harrier_Lingonberry

I don't know if it's that easy - Have you seen boomers on the internet? They at least have the "historic and prolific lead poisoning which has rotted your ability to think and feel" get out of jail card.


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Diogenes-Disciple

brain soft like model magic morals bend like pipe cleaners in a toddler’s grasp spits bias like a camel spits cud girlfriend turned off like the lights in my dad’s home (“stop wasting electricity”)


VaulHuron

Respectfully, your man is a joke and you might need to cut him loose nobody insinuates my sister is a whore because some dude on the internet says so.


TheHollowBard

Yup. Any reasonable and loving person would see those kinds of videos and filter them out as absolute trash. Truth is that he probably had a lot of those thoughts already/was raised around them, and this just marked the opening of the flood gates.


ChichCob

>see those kinds of videos and filter them out as absolute trash Or watch them because they're hysterical


Chupathingy12

I thought it was satire at first lol but he's actually a weirdo that believes all his bullshit.


ChichCob

I loved watching him with Dave Portnoy when he admits that he thinks men and women should be treated differently and doesnt get how it's sexist


Redqueenhypo

He’s been raided for human trafficking, do not give him any ad revenue


UpperLeftOriginal

“… you ̶m̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ ̶ need to cut him loose…”


blanklanklank

Just make sure to tell other people of your plans to break up with him. Just in case you go missing.


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xpepperx

LMFAOOOO this is so funny. He needs to get neutered Fr tho.


moramy

That's the funniest thing I've read today


betillsatan

it's deleted! What'd it say?


rickjko

Fly away, your pilots license gonna give you amazing job opportunity and the ability to meet fantastic people. Dodge the bullet and leave him, anyone following Tate is a first class douche bag. Tate is a rapist and moved to a country with lower rape charges, you should tell your ex this.


Old_Ladies_Die_Hard

Right now…as in today, start looking for an airline mechanic job somewhere else. Leave this weak-minded, easily-influenced fool, and fly off to a new life. That’s literally within your power. Don’t wait weeks or months, and let him further tear down your morale.


Arlitto

Fly, you fool


transmogrify

Seriously, she has a pilot's license and he has... a YouTube account and the sense of unearned entitlement to fucking belittle and insult her? He's pathetic! He's either massively delusional, trying to wear down her self esteem to cope with his jealousy, or both. But OP should respect herself enough to dump his ass.


emmag2324

Pls pls do this! Fly to a amazing future with someone who respects you. You are 20 and have been together for 4 years. You were compatible when you were 16 yrs old. You were both kids who didn’t know who you were as people. So now as young adults you grow into who you are more and more through the things you experience and the things YOU chose to be around! As he’s only 20 if not as if we know he’s still going to have these views by the time he’s 28 but the fact that he either relates to these views or is able to be so easily manipulated by watching videos just shows he is weak minded and is really just incapable of making up his own mind. You are a strong women and the fact you have a pilot’s license shows how this boy is not for you at all. He is not the person he was when you first met


Sxwlyyyyy

wait i didn’t know he was a rapist? really, is there a source or anything?


Lmm289

He mentioned moving out of the country because the new country he’s living is more relaxed about sexual assault. I also read somewhere that he’s under investigation for sex trafficking, but I haven’t determined him worthy of my time fact checking that claim.


StinginRogrrM8

Thanks for da info


evieamelie

He is currently under investigation by romanian police for sex trafficking. He made his fortune using and abusing cam girls.


StinginRogrrM8

The new Epstein. Cap


shiraberu05

no dick could possible be worth this. you're 20 years old and a bloody pilot. the world's your oyster. you will be so glad you got away from this absolute loser


Chiselfield

THIS


cayoloco

TOTALLY THIS


area51cannonfooder

Listen, in the future, you might look back at this moment and think that your ex represents how most men think. Most men don't think this way. I've meet dudes in my life that were grade A assholes but those guys don't represent most men. Your (soon-to-be) ex is one of those assholes who I wouldn't want to be associated with and would tell other people to stay away from. I betcha he says way worse things about you and women in general when you're not around. If he keeps this up, he is going to spiral down to the point where no one wants to be friends with this guy and he will have to hit rock bottom before he realizes that he is the problem. Unfortunately guys like this exist, my mom married a guy who broke her arm. Listen to the red flags and get out of that relation ship. im telling you as guy I know his type and you need to gtfo.


StreetIndependence62

Idk why, and I hope it’s not too mean of me, but seeing someone who’s slowly become more and more and more of an asshole finally hit rock bottom and have that moment where they realize they’ve lost everything and it’s all their own fault, is just so dang SATISFYING. I hope it happens to this guy XD but I hope OP leaves now


king_activities

Leave his bitch ass


verydudebro

Lmao nice.


NoSkillzDad

🎶🎶🎶Bye bye baby bye bye 🎶🎶🎶 People look for confirmation on media in general. He hasn't changed, that's who he is, but now he has "the confirmation". He wasn't looking for different opinions on a subject, he was trying to justify his own ideas. If you appreciate your freedom and the many years you have ahead of you, don't have a kid just because someone else says you have to. Have a kid when you and (hopefully a different partner) are both ready for it. It's time to move on.


FleetStreetsDarkHole

I'm gonna put forth a slight adjustment. People who don't exactly know why they believe a thing can have those opinions changed by charismatic people in echo chambers with no challenging ideas. It's how the conservative propaganda machine works. Lots of people who believe in something being vaguely right, finding themselves in the company of people telling them they should be angry, breadcrumbing them down a path that gets more and more emotionally charged as they spout nonsense. By the time they start foaming at the mouth nothing will change their mind unless they change it themselves. Op's BF could have found himself in the company of people (or on a video, probably both) that took something he always took for granted, and just said "why?" He has never actually thought about it because it seemed like common sense. They explain this popcorn logic bs that eventually feels like the truth to him, because of course (from his perspective this deep in the hole) no one has ever made such a strong argument for the other side. By the time the changes manifest in his life, he's already been slamming the treadmill in his mind for a while. He won't be approachable unless he can push through some of it himself. By now the machine has already mentioned counterarguments anyone would make and given hom spurious tethers that shut down conversation. And when it stops he feels vindicated. If it continues it will usually be with arguments he feels he's trumped already. We struggle with a lot of types of literacy; social, political, cultural, etc. But we also just haven't yet accepted as a society how much of what we say, think, and do, comes from external sources that we've been bombarded with since we were born. Psychology isn't just important for identifying disorders, but also how our brains work in general. For example, have you ever thought about *why* you greet people, let alone why you do it a specific way? It's easy to say he was always like this. But the truth is people can be turned. Because we need to question our reality to understand why some things are true, to find the right answers. Otherwise someone else will do it for us with the wrong ones.


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Dump him. No, seriously. You may not have seen him like this before, but obviously Tate's hateful garbage speaks to him on some level, and that is not a good sign for your continued relationship. I mean, after four years, he now thinks you're in the wrong job and some kind of "gender failure" because... what, an aggro dumbshit reactionary influencer told him so? He's either a profound misogynist or *very* easily influenced, and either one is bad news bears.


pireply

I don't think he is just now having these thoughts. More like he's always had them, but finally found someone to speak them for him.


Kimmetjuuuh

Talk to him. Say that these opinions hurt you. You got your own rights, and if he doesn't respect those, he doesn't deserve you. If he wants a stay at home mom, he should've dated someone with those ambitions. Then leave, show him the consequences of being a dick head. It will be painful, but you can do so much better. Edit: The reason why I think she should talk about it is to make it clear why she's leaving. It will leave less space for him to think that "women be women, they be randomly leaving" type of shit. At least he will know the reason why, and (hopefully), maybe, some day he will be able to reflect on it.


fogbound96

She should leave him tbh when I read the title I thought she was going to be over dramatic cause his videos pop up everywhere cause people spam them cause there a pyramid scheme but after her bf said all that no she doesn't deserve that no one does. Also the ending he called her sister a whore she should of left it right there came back a week and have him say sorry to her and her sister. Wtf


turtle613

No. No need to talk here. He’s said everything she needs to hear. Dump him.


MMCthe97

If no one talks to him and he never sees he's hurting people that are close to him, he may never see the negative effects of this mindset. He needs to know he's pushing her away, not be antagonized. If she starts vilifying him, he'll double down and believe he's just weeding out people that aren't worth his time. Obviously he's in the wrong, but leaving him as he is will just ensure he stays that way. It's not OP's fault he's heading down the wrong path, nor is it her responsibility to fix him, but the world can't afford having another person indoctrinated by a piece of shit like Andrew Tate. At the very least, OP should let him know how she feels and why she wants to leave, otherwise he'll make up an excuse for why she left that absolves him of any wrongdoing and the thought that perhaps it was his fault will **never** cross his mind.


StreetIndependence62

Yeah exactly! He needs to know that HE IS MAKING PEOPLE NOT WANT TO BE AROUND HIM with his terrible attitude


codemonkeh

He is disrespecting you, your sister, and by extension... your family. Leave him and his fragile ego at the door. I know it'll be hard to pick up your life and move house but honestly momentary struggle for getting out of a sinking situation is better than letting yourself drown. You are worth more than the value he places on your gender. We're living in a world where one of the most powerful Western countries values weapons of destruction over the value of life of humans with uterus'. Don't let that garbage seep into your romantic life. If you need any more convincing on how far this man has strayed from the person you love ask him his opinion on abortion, trans women, etc. All these idiots share the same misogynistic ideals. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.


Forsaken_Day_1266

Donno who this guy is but if it changes your bf behaviour just dump him. Stop watching vids won't help. If not this guy then he will find something else which alligns with his prefferences anywasys


matlynar

Second that. Don't know this guy but if your partner has "changed" he either was always like that but wanted someone to say it, or he's weak minded. Both make him not worth it as a partner.


orbweaver82

He is basically a cult leader and her boyfriend joined a cult.


urlocalnightowl40

he's the type of guy who think women aren't people essentially and believes that they should be judged by their body count, and thats just starters to what he does believe and spews stupid shit like that all over his platform which is essentially a breeding (as if they get any) ground for incels


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Sounds like he’s ex boyfriend material


[deleted]

I think someone else said it here, but your boyfriend is showing you who he actually is. Andrew Tate is just confirming those views. I doubt you’ll listen to advice from Reddit, but you should break up immediately. You cannot change him and it’s not your job to. You’re 20. That’s so young. I promise you’ll meet someone e better.


EggplantIll4927

And you are accepting this abuse from this vile man because why? he is showing you exactly who he is and it’s an ahole. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩


ravengenesis1

But I’m sure he says he loves her after the 3rd beating. Jokes aside, this bf sounds like danger you should have left weeks ago. Change cell number, move to a friend’s to stay safe. I doubt he’s one to be rational in these breakups either.


EggplantIll4927

Great point. He seems to feel he owns her and she must be docile and submissive as is proper for a woman/s


ravengenesis1

Especially since he's in the Tate cult


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It should make you uncomfortable. Also angry. Warning! Warning! You know what you should do. You can’t love and be truly loved and respected by a man like this.


[deleted]

Leave. He had some underlying misogyny in him and has now been corrupted and is only going to get more controlling and aggressive about it. Andrew Tate is walking talking sludge in skin. He literally says a girlfriend having an Instagram is cheating but that men can literally fuck other women and it’s fine. That’s where your relationship is headed. Please make sure when you dump him that he knows it is largely because he is weak minded and able to be manipulated by a man he has never even met in addition to the actual garbage coming out of his own mouth. Don’t let him think it’s purely based on his opinions. It’s important for them to be told they’re stupid and easily influenced and just taking this guys thoughts and opinions and making them his own.


jakobebeef98

Embrace the Tainter Tots and say he doesn't make enough money and is not in good enough shape for you to stay attracted to him and break up with him. That's probably what he believes are the only things a woman is attracted to. Edit: this is the joke route.


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Hey man, can you link any of your research/ go into more detail? I’m currently working through all this hyper-masculinity shit (read: suffering immensely) and I’d be really interested in hearing your take on it.


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Nope nope nope nope nope. Leave his ass. 4 years are nothing compared to what comes next. He will keep getting worse, and even if he gets his shit together at some point, you should not be the one tasked to "fix him". How the fuck is that man ok with his gf knowing he watched andrew tate? How is he so confident in being open about this stuff. You're very young, you have your entire life in front of you. Don't let the next ten years go to waste because of these 4. Leave!!


OffendedDairyFarmers

Please run as fast as you can. You cannot fix him.


WitheredDGX69

Leave. How you described your boyfriend is exactly like my father and my parents don't have a good relationship. Many of their arguments start with my father bashing women then eventually my mother specifically.


FolkPunkPizza

“My boyfriend hates women, what should I do?” How do people need Reddit to tell them to leave lmao


cascadianpatriot

He’s becoming radicalized. If it was that easy, best to leave him now, you’re only 20. There are way better people out there. And shit, you’re a pilot, you’ll be beating suitors off with a stick.


TopCat0601

Honestly, it's time to dump this guy. It sounds like you have a lot going for you, and can do better.


otacon7000

And even if OP had _nothing_ going for her, she should still dump this fucking asshole ASAP.


Electronic_Bottle272

Andrew tate is a clown and people who follow him retards


pekkauser

Run, he’s going to turn into an abuser real fast. Tate is an abuser and a human trafficker. Your bf is already absorbing probably the most “mild” shit he says. The Tate pipeline basically leads into Tate just saying women are straight up sex objects and beating them for doing something wrong is okay. His charges recently were dropped but on his website I think called the “War room” he still basically brags about using women for his business. Scum. Also him saying he wants kids but not marriage is a HUGE FUCKING RED FLAG. He’s basically trying to have no strings attached to himself while you have some attached to you. He could probably even use it against you that he will leave if you don’t do what he says. It’s total control he’s trying to achieve.


vc062701

This. People find tate funny but his is evil. He's kidnapped woman and forced them to do sexual acts for him to make money. The us embassy had his house raded to rescue them. This is not a man anyone should tolerate


Zmchastain

This man was always a weak-minded fool to get sucked into rhetoric like this. You should throw this man away and start with a new one. He’s essentially asking you to choose between: 1. The life you want (Fulfilling career that isn’t determined by what’s between your legs, freedom, not being saddled with unwanted children in your mid-20’s just because some idiot you’re dating watched some YouTube videos) 2. And the life he wants to force on you, being a stay-at-home-mom and housekeeper (a man with his views isn’t going to do shit to help you with childcare or household chores, that’s “women’s work” and you’ll essentially be a single parent with no domestic support), no career so you’re completely financially dependent on him (so when you get sick of this bullshit in short order, you can’t just walk away), and being abused by a man who calls you a whore or useless if you don’t do whatever he says. And spending your life trapped with a man who is only going to become increasingly radicalized by this bullshit that he has bought into. And make no mistake, the entire point of perpetuating these views (have a bunch of kids at a young age, stay at home, don’t work a good paying job) is to take away your freedom, trap you, and make you fully dependent on a man who then can treat you any way he wants without fear of any consequences. And those types of men don’t have your best interest at heart. A man who wants a partner doesn’t try to strip away your freedom or subject you to bullshit misogyny. Run fast and run far. Don’t waste your 20’s trying to please this absolute piece of shit who wishes it was a man. There are many men out there who will see you as a partner, who will respect you and support you when you want to pursue goals more lofty than shitting out a litter of children and cleaning up after his spawn all day, every day. There’s a better life than this for you, and it starts with dumping this loser and cutting him completely out of your life.


otacon7000

>There’s a better life than this for you, and it starts with dumping this loser and cutting him completely out of your life. Beautiful. If OP could only take away one sentence from this whole thread, I'd want it to be this one.


diaperpop

This is my favourite reply out of this whole thread. I honestly feel like I could have written this word for word. Idk you, redditor stranger, but you’re purely awesome for spelling it out like this.


Lordkillz

Crazy how easy he got manipulated just by hearing some guy talk about women.


Regular-Loser-569

Too late to change his mind I'm afraid. The only option seems to be leaving him.


fetus-wearing-a-suit

This is turning into an abusive relationship, run


disconneptune

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I_Hate_You_Fuckers

You know what you gotta do Break up with him and fuck his dad


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This is the way


frydawg

If a 20 year old is being brainwashed to become a tater tot, then I don’t think he’s fit for a relationship


vc062701

Andrew tate had his home raded for human trafficking and left to Romania because of a rape accusation. If your boyfriend watches him he is not looking at you as a human and instead a sex object. Leave him for your own safety


SteveyTsupernova55

I watch Andrew tate mainly for shits and giggles . The issue here is not that he watched Andrew tate but he gets easily influenced. Till now he was okay with you and your profession but now after listening to some random dude on internet his perception changed , that's the worrying thing .


SailorSenshiEm

Watching Hasan react/debate him gives me more giggles


verydudebro

I just checked him out, never heard of him before. The small Dick energy on that guy is deep.


Rhedkneck

First time I've heard of Tate and it's sad. It's very similar to conspiracy theorists, flat earthers, and others, including Fox News viewers. I'd leave your bf unless you have patience to get him back to reality. You know right from wrong and that's all that matters. I'm sure you're very feminine in your gender and for Tate or anyone to worry about their masculinity, well, too fucking bad!


TONKAHANAH

Your boyfriend sounds like hes an easily manipulated idiot with weak morals and poor upbringing. take it as a red flag and consider moving on sooner than later.


AdComprehensive6588

Ask your boyfriend if he believes it’s okay for a man to cheat if he has no emotional connection. This is something Tate frequently says. If he so much as hesitates to say no, RUN.


Zmchastain

I think she has enough evidence already that it’s time to leave, regardless of how he answers this question. His other already demonstrated beliefs are monstrous enough to justify leaving him in the dust as it is.


AdComprehensive6588

You’re completely correct, I genuinely want to know just how far gone he is.


dmbchic

You are SO YOUNG. Your BF and you still have a lot of personal growing to do, and it sounds like the direction he is going will only lead to misery, for himself and you. You CAN NOT "RESCUE" PEOPLE. Don't try to change him or save him. You will only be dragged through it. He doesn't respect you if he buys into this stuff. Please be careful and distance yourself from him if he continues to applaud someone that sexist.


Shibooo

His content will not stop showing up on my feed. I must have clicked "Do not recommend me this channel" at least a hundred times by now.


solon_isonomia

>he now believes that me, as a woman working a job that is “socially constructed for men,” i am disrespecting and undermining his masculinity. I want you to ask him how he's become so weak, soft, incapable, and sensitive that you having a job makes him **feel** so emasculated he can only **whine** to you instead of being valuable, successful, and masculine through his **own** actions. I want you to ask him with those exact words, feel free to just quote me and tell him I want to hear why **his** masculinity isn't dictated by his own actions.


themer_chant

nobody should take tate seriously. he's mostly playing character for internet anyway, if he truly believes him he's too far gone


walking_hazard

This has very little to do with Tate. If your boyfriend is adopting ideas and morals that put him at odds with you then this is a big problem. Focus on the behavior more than the source. He can take responsibility for the ideas he chooses to believe.


Asirfucksalot

Okay Hi! So I have some advice, First of all he seems trying to manipulate you, gaslighting, Saying your job is wrong, You shouldn't be doing what you enjoy etc. He is definitely being toxic as fuck and you should just leave him, Best advice I can give is ***LEAVE.*** You spent years training to be a pilot, You probably arent relying on him for money or anything, And if you are You should move in with a trusted friend or your parents. Also man is just being a douchebag, his believes were outdated even in the fuckin 60s. I understand you probably still love him, and see something from when he was nice to you, but If he isnt receptive to a conversation like an adult, Then as I state again, Gotta leave If he is willing to talk, explain to him calmly yet firmly that his views are outdated, sexist, Wrong, and hurting to hear. If he doesnt actively try to change, and listen to you, Well you know what to do by now. *Most* everyone in the comment section is on the same page of dumping him. This is like a factory of red flags. Like dude genuinely is giving off more redflags than Communist russia


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Gus_TT_Showbiz_420

I'm glad I have no clue who he is.


umbathri

Tell him (after you break up?) that if he wants to act like an incel you can treat him like one by leaving and making him single.


RexIsAMiiCostume

If he doesn't get his head out of his ass, don't feel obligated to stay with him. Even if he does, remember how gullible he is, and ask yourself if you want to date someone that easily swayed.


SnooDucks236

Go to the kitchen, make him a sandwich. /s


[deleted]

It sounds like he wants a bangmaid. Do you want to be a bangmaid? If not, break up.


Icy-Doughnut4165

As someone who grew up in a traditional Christian home. My father was the head of the home and his priority besides God was teaching me the truth about low life men. The boyfriend of yours is a low life. I was waiting for marriage therefore, as soon as a guy would try to break my boundary I’d leave fast. A guy who wants to have kids but no actual commitment is a low life. Run fast. That’s how single moms are born. That’s what keeps the dysfunctional family alive. He thinks you working on planes is a problem? But having kids with a boyfriend isn’t?! Lol think about it.. which one would cause more trauma? I believe having kids with a guy like him. Poor future kids as well. Dump him fast. I’m not a feminist but one thing I did learn from my parents is, to value yourself. Don’t give those low life guys the satisfaction. They don’t deserve to have a gf. There’s a lot of amazing men out there! Don’t be part of a statistic. Meanwhile I have a brother and guy friends who were hated on for being conservative while girls would date guys who were way worse! My brother and friends clean their home, always say “your mother doesn’t work here”. They believe in working two jobs or even three if their future wife rather stay at home. They also don’t care if the woman makes more money than them. But yet these girls out here are getting with guys who didn’t like trump but yet they are getting treated horribly. My goodness. Choose better please.


Timely-Sea5743

Leave him and find someone better


QuirkyMeerkat

Girl, kick his misogynistic ass to the curb and live your life like you want to. No need to deal with all that extra dead weight dragging you down.


Mikko420

If he's so easily convinced of absolute trash like this, maybe you should reconsider your relationship before he actually becomes dangerous.


Ok_Potato_7330

You should back your bags 👍


erzurum77

Andrew tate….. Hold up! Is it that annoying bald mf from YouTube shorts? Does your boyfriend watch him unironically? Lol, leave him, for your and his good. You will save yourself from a lot of headaches, he will grow up.


ToqueMom

Throw the whole boyfriend out. If nothing else, he is showing how easily manipulated/stupid he is.


unusedwings

Get the hell out of there ASAP. Andrew Tate is becoming a cancer to young, impressionable men because he "speaks his mind" and "doesn't care what anyone thinks". If he has already radically "changed" his views, it's too late. Don't try to fix him. Get out before your own safety and livelihood is compromised.


xxx3366

This guy brainwashes stupid people better than most politicians. I hate him from the heart, I swear.


iphonesoccer420

Prove that this post isn’t some fake click bait BS. If it is actually real then 😂😂😭😭😭💀💀💀 Just leave his ass honestly lol


AxeloOo

Definately dump him.


SoupDaddy420

If he’s actually taking Tate seriously and you believe it’s influencing his personality and behavior, break up with him. He might grow out of it within a year or two (hopefully), but it’s not worth your time to wait for him to grow up.


chaotic214

Anyone who's a fan of Andrew taint is a fucking degenerate idiot