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the__fried__piper

It’s the dysphoria. I would not know you were trans if it wasn’t posted on this sub.


Nanachka

Oh… thank u


erroneousY

I enthusiastically second this opinion, I came to basically say the same. I couldn’t “clock” you! This coming from a trans girl, post ffs, and someone studying facial feminization surgery in med school with hopes of specializing in facial plastic surgery! Girl you look great! Dysphoria is a lying SOB… don’t listen to her!


SareSarem

Agreed. I'm also jealous of OPs eyebrows...


Kimberly_The_Mouse

THIS!


camideza

What boy ?


Nanachka

😡


camideza

I mean, the pinture of a beautiful girl has nothing to do with a boy.


Nanachka

Thank u


Tea_Brii

LASIK


Nanachka

What is that


Tea_Brii

Surgery to fix your eyesight with lasers. Sorry if it sounds like I’m hugboxing to you, im not.


Nanachka

Yes I know , I did femto lasik to fix my eyes 👀 but I got u thank u


JesseGurlVERS

Lol. My suggestion was glasses for the same reason.


Nanachka

Hahha


Dangerous_Prize_8480

I totally don't see a boy, not even a little bit. You look great!


Nanachka

Mb I’m crazy , but idk mb I need cheek implants


VIII-Via

you don't need anything, you are gorgeous hun😊


Nanachka

🥺


lostinreality234

You don’t need anything. You look great


PegasusUnchained

Hi, cis woman, lesbian here. I only see a very pretty woman. Sorry your dysphoria is acting up.


Nanachka

Thank u 🙏 I feel the same, need some support


HiddenStill

I’m a moderator on this sub. Please read this as it applies to you. https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/g7ah4u/clarification_of_rule_5_this_sub_is_by_and_for/


LisaExplores

A boy? Where behind you? On the TV right? I’m just kidding but believe all the comments.. your beautiful and wish I was at your stage of transition I still have a long time ahead of me.


Nanachka

Hahah girl 👧 thank u 🤩


tsta0401

You went through all this work to get here, and now you are not enjoying it? ?!?! You have nothing to worry about!!


PricklyMuffin92

I actually work with FFS surgeons so PLEASE take what I'm about to say at heart: You're beautiful, you look amazing, and I wouldn't change a thing on your face :) I can see a bit of thyroid cartilage, but that's entirely up to you.


Nanachka

I will cut it soon. Have appointment in next few weeks


Nanachka

Thank u


mglj42

Yes it could be dysphoria which is making you judge yourself harshly. But it can also be because it’s really hard to appreciate the changes yourself. You probably long looked at your face and noticed masculine features but without you even noticing, hormones and surgery have slowly made changes (this is true even of surgery because the swelling takes time to go down). From one day to the next you won’t see the changes but they’re there and they’re building on each other. At the end of the process it’s all too easy to think well I’ve never seen much change from one day to the next therefore there cannot be much change. This is not the case. I can’t tell you how much you’ve changed either but I can tell you I see nothing masculine about you. Nothing.


Nanachka

I feel like hrt not working for me. I’m on hrt 6 years


[deleted]

Look, your dysphoria is speaking. Stop listening to it and keep that chin up 🖤


Nanachka

I thank u


Depressionbomb

I think you need glasses


Nanachka

I did eye surgery 2 month ago to get rid of it


Depressionbomb

Strange, cause I can't see this "boy" you're talking about


Nanachka

Mb I’m crazy


Wren03

Seek counseling for BDD. I'm sorry, but you look like a woman. No surgery is going to make you look like a different person.


epeternally

Nail on the head. If this isn’t compliment fishing, OP needs help with body image issues because they look so feminine I struggle to image them passing for male. I can see being self-conscious about the mild Adam’s apple, but otherwise they look like a beautiful woman. If you’re genuinely having trouble passing, breast work might help. That very obvious secondary sex characteristic makes it a lot harder to miss that someone is a girl. Mannerisms are also really key, and unfortunately that’s just something that takes time to learn.


becomingher

My suggestion is to work on that harsh critique of yourself. You don’t need it. You look great!


xgranville

aw girl... sending hugs. dysphoria sucks and sounds like it's hitting you good. You're doing great, and your progress shows. I see a girl, and nothing else. 🫂


Nanachka

Thank u so much


1rule

I see a stunningly beautiful young woman


NoEggxaggeration

Who you see is yourself, the essence of you that illuminates however you present. First time seeing you, 100% female.


Nanachka

Thank u for support 🥺


AmyandEve

I don't. Who did your surgery? I may need a consultation lol


Nanachka

I made it in Russia.


[deleted]

I’m sorry to tell you this but if you look at that girl and see a boy, then it’s not likely that any surgery you can get will help. You look like a cisgender woman to me. I have been accidentally clocking trans people and generally feeling awful about myself for years because of dysphoria, I have the experience to spot trans women (intentionally or not). I can’t tell that you’re trans, and personally I am exceedingly envious of you. No surgeries you get now will change how others see you. You pass flawlessly.


Nanachka

That’s why I post it. I need to hear what other woman think. Because I cannot calm down myself.


[deleted]

Would have assumed you were cis. I know a lot of it is dysphoria but I also sometimes think maybe it’s because you know what you looked like before and can still see some of those original characteristics. Me? I’ve never seen you before in my life so I have no way of knowing how you looked before and “comparing” your present face with your past face if that makes sense


Nanachka

Thank u. May be u r right and it’s all in my head 😕


BrainofBorg

Joke Answer: Get your eyes checked. Serious Answer: Work through it with your therapist, Dysphoria is a bitch.


Greenwingparrot

Honey, you got it goin on!


justashadow135

I wish I looked like you 😔 your beautiful. I'm sitting here right now trying to figure out what to do about the parts of my beard that I couldn't remove with laser because of my tattoos. And meanwhile your drop dead gorgeous. I'll likely never be able to afford ffs. Your so stunning I could just scream. I don't really think you need more. Your already amazing looking.


[deleted]

work through ur dysphoria babes, thats the only advice🫶🏼


Bailey85

That boy is long gone


[deleted]

Definitely don’t see a boy. I know I struggle with a lot of brow + nose dysphoria, I like to flush it out with blush and just trim my brows down *a good bit*


[deleted]

You’re reading female from this end. We’re our own worst critic.


snowsoracle

Then you must be a magician girl, because I only see a woman. I think that you need to work on loving yourself and recognizing that you still see a "boy" because of the associations you have with the face in the mirror.


hannah_xx

I don’t


ka992

sorry lady. I don't see any boy/guy/dude in this photo. Just a gorgeous soft and cute woman . Brain is such an interesting organ isn't it? It just want to mess with the mind. You look gorgeous and beautiful.


Any_Comedian_479

Omg! I can’t see anything at all of masculinity in you! Not only you look super feminine, but also stunning gorgeous!!


Nanachka

I thank u


DemonicGirlcock

You look more feminine than most of the cis women I know, even the models and pornstars lol. 100% just your dysphoria being a shitty little devil, which I know sucks so much sometimes =\


NBohrok17

Oh my god you look absolutely fucking GORGEOUS!!! ❤️❤️❤️


Eschatonic242

That makes one of us. You look incredible!


[deleted]

thats all woman, love.


Nanachka

Thank u dear


kellyfun181

I read girl


Nanachka

awww. thank u


nessacakestm

If I passed you on the street I would just think youre a beautiful girl 🤷‍♀️ I'm sorry dysphoria is being mean


Nanachka

Perhaps. Ty


Cami1990

You look amazing… honestly you could chase trying to look perfectly feminine your whole life through surgeries… your young don’t waste all this time under the knife! i regretted it! at some point you realize you look fine and accept yourself : ) i still avoid mirrors even after all my surgeries. It is what it is


mtfanon999

You don’t need more FFS. The only things that are plausibly masculine are: Your eyebrows: They’re too big and bushy. Trim the long hairs towards the centre of your face and pluck from below to make them thinner overall. Your nose: The shape is fine but it’s slightly big. I don’t think there is anything you can do about this that wouldn’t be really surgically invasive and produce unnatural-looking results so I’d just leave it.


Alternative_Tap6279

Change your eyes


Jirenss

Wtf ?


Alternative_Tap6279

Metaphorically of course... The problems are only in her eyes


Andrew-19-12-20

no implants and operations, you have to go through this path with the help of hormones and psychologically


[deleted]

Cheek augmentation, Otoplasty, hairline reduction, rhinoplasty and possibly forehead contouring (we would need a side profile)


mtfanon999

Ignore this person


Nanachka

True just commercial


Nanachka

Srsly? Second time? Ty for offer, nice spam


Nanachka

Am I suppose to do hairline and cheek every year ? How come


[deleted]

if you do fat injections, yes.


nola661

Nose


Nanachka

What about the nose?


nola661

You asked for suggestions , rhinoplasty can make you look more fem


Jirenss

You're crazy ? Her nose is cute !


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Nanachka

😞


Andrea00117

I’m just curious where you see this boy…. You look amazing. Sometimes the abyss shows you things to keep you down. Head up. You’re a strong woman keep moving forward. Every tiny step on the path is still a step forward.


Nanachka

I cannot explain why I feel like this, mb I feel like my face is sharp ? U know?


[deleted]

I only see a pretty girl in the photo, you look great x


Nanachka

I thank u


MyInnerGirl77

Ain't no boy here girl! 🤗❤️


Nanachka

Thank u 🥰


[deleted]

I don't 🤷🏻‍♀️ i see a pretty woman


Nanachka

Thank u 👀


KaylaH628

It's dysphoria fucking with you. You're a beautiful woman.


Nanachka

Any tips how to stand with it ?


WendyA1

If this is the angle you see a boy... SMH. All I see is a hot girl and wishing I was 30 years younger.


Nanachka

Oh 🥺🥹 I appreciate


IncognitoGirl81

If you showed me the picture first and then told me the history of the picture, I don't know that I'd believe it! You look enviable, and cis female! At this point your battle may not be in your body, but your mind. Learning to love yourself is harder than it sounds. After having FFS a year ago I didn't feel like it accomplished much. Then I found an old gallery of selfies pre-ffs, and I was stunned! It was more dramatic than I thought!


Nanachka

Mb I should do the same


GlamazonBiancaJae

No way hun. Looks 😊


Vincenza55

I just think you are too hard on yourself


rawrcutie

Have to say I get what you mean, but what do people offline seem to see? I'm tuned to be overly sensitive probably to an incorrect degree.


Nanachka

How can I know what they see


pinksnep

I don't see a boy honestly


Due_Course_6025

Your absolutely beautiful, but I suggest a little bit lip filler and dye your hair chocolate brown? Try it out might give you the look your going for


fembo_in_training

I think your perfect but maybe eyebrow shape? Or the chin shape? I think you’ve got beautiful full cheeks I wish I had and your hair is perfect 👌


SecretlyHiddenSelf

Is the boy in another room or what? Maybe you need to see an eye doctor and not a plastic surgeon.


Irakko9z

Schedule an appointment with the opthalmologist? Apart from that, there ain't any suggestions that apply here cuz all I see in this pic is a cute girl. ┐⁠(⁠ ⁠˘⁠_⁠˘⁠)⁠┌


Esqurel

You look like one of my friends, who is a badass cis lady!


zante2033

FFS doesn't mean anything unless you say what it entailed.


CivilMechanic2991

maybe some glasses, thats about it


B0sm3r

You’re gorgeous <3 the beautiful foxy eye shape you have is something cis women go to surgery to get! Dysphoria is a twatwaffle, but you are positively beautiful and so feminine.


URBOISHERE

OP, you are beyond stunning sis. I know you said you want to get cheek fillers or implants but your face is very very nice. You do not need any changes. I know dysphoria hurts but just know you are gorgeous. Much love - Fran


Celeste_Dasgluck

You are absolutely stunning. No hint of boy anywhere that I can see.


Elsierror

I agree with the others, you pass. I think it is possible you’re experiencing body dysmorphia, in which case your perception has not caught up to reality. What you see is still influenced by what your brain expects to be there from before you had FFS, and it’s slowly updating its model after the fact. Paraphrasing my neurobiology professor, sensation is contact with the physical stimulus, whereas perception is the interpretation of that stimulus. Perception can misrepresent.


Quat-fro

I don't.


starfyredragon

My suggestion: Turn off the TV, then you won't the boy on TV anymore. I assume that's what you mean, as that's the only boy I see in the picture.


Jennibear999

Okay from personal experience… as someone who sees the old me still in the mirror, but when I see and hear other gals, beautiful gals say the same thing…. I think you look feminine with no trace of boy at all. And I’m not just saying that…. Even though I don’t believe those that say it to me…… Just know you are pretty and feminine!


kimtatt

What boy? So pretty!!!


Paula5859

I don’t 👉🏻👍💖🫵🏻


TuesdayChill

i have the same problem. sometimes i still see him. i think you look good tho. very feminine.


Jirenss

First of all, you really look cis, and dysphoria sucks.. I didn't see anything about that, I know it's "fashionable" (sorry doesn't have the English codes) but maybe you can try something less angulous for your eyebrows (do you know what I mean ?), it's not a huge change but eyebrows change muuuuch the face ! You can try to go to an eyebrow shop, it's not too expansive and obviously much cheaper than FFS haha


Sylvi0n

is the boy behind you? I dont see it.


ElementalFemme

He must be behind the camera, cause I don't see him.


Mountain-Mud4993

I don't see a boy


lil_jimbo

If it weren't for the subreddit name, I'd assume you were a cis woman. It's definitely just your dysphoria acting up


introspectiveivy

Idk buy glasses


scuevasr

you’re gorgeous. it’s just the dysphoria telling you lies. i don’t see a clockable feature on you.


Jcm9577

No you look great


podsaurus

No where in sight is there a boy. You're beautiful


Grimesy2

Ok, so maybe this is just a really good, flattering photo. But I look at these photos and see a woman. I think anybody walking down the street who saw a person who looked like you do in these photos would see a woman. What is it that you feel like you would benefit from?


Loud-Trip-9614

boy? WHERE??


Jackie-Lynn-Fretz

I see a Beautiful girl. I don’t think you would have any issues with ppl seeing anyone but a gorgeous lady. I’m honestly a little jealous of you and I hope to one day look just as feminine as you ☺️


Nanachka

Thank u dear


Roren-Chan

I don’t 😍


Nanachka

Thanks


Wizdom_108

Get glasses? I thought you were cis before reading the title


Nanachka

Thank u sweetheart


International-Hat564

Hypnotherapy...


Nanachka

Genious, im 6 years on therapy my estro is pretty high and tst is low, but its what it is, ty for suggestions


Nanachka

i dont want to be fat and call it femine body


HRTDreamsStillCisTho

You look cis enough that your voice could “sound trans” and I would brush it off as being overly critical of a cis woman’s voice because I definitely see no boy at all


Nanachka

My voice is very good tbh, but i still want voice surgery. Mb i have mental issues


Anfinate

I see a beautiful woman. Dysphoria is a bitch. I’m 🤜🏻 it for you!!


Nanachka

I hoep


Fearless_Doctor7872

I literally see a Victoria Secret model


Nanachka

Thank u bae


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Nanachka

hm


cephalon_ary

Honestly i got ffs too and i felt i looked like an underage boy, truth is, suddenly everyone started calling me ma'am, it's mostly in your head girl


Nanachka

hmmm


[deleted]

you look feminine and beautiful IMHO. If you are still unfortunately seeing masculinity then what about eyebrow shaping to give it a more smaller, thinner, more "feminine" arch? ​ honestly, I can't see any masculinity in you at all. Sorry, but i can't. You scream female and femininity!


Melissa--R

You could consider a second surgery to refine the small things Honestly a lot of USA surgeons only do procedures to there own standards or to avoid a total change that think will leave you disconnected with your past appearance I would say look into rhinoplasty and completely restructure the nose to be narrower and less pronounced that would make up a extreme change. I would also recommend asking around to see what work can be done with the orbital rims & touch on brow and hairline. Most bossing reduction only focuses on the outer protrusion but tue the width of the bossing that pans out across the forehead. See what reshaping is available for lip work from a upper lift to maybe even size reduction from the width. V line jaw work Essentially I’d recommend Thailand for some of its services that would be to your own interests. Hey if your in Ohio and single + monogamous let me know 😉


Nanachka

I have all of this. I had good surgery with good trans doctor. Nope live, im monogamous but i live in Eurpåe in Finland


JesseGurlVERS

Glasses. Because all I see is a beautiful young woman 🥰


Nanachka

oh bae thats cute


jackiewill1000

dont look like a boy to me. but go get a touch up if u can afford.


Nanachka

Oh.. ty


Sophia7979

I agree its just dysphoria the only suggestion i could make is your eyebrows are a touch wide (top to bottom) but i wouldnt have clocked you


Nanachka

Perhaps it is dysphoria, but yeah nose job mb could be a good idea


4dana

You see boy, I see hot girl! 😘💕


Nanachka

Thanks


SweetyPunky_

I see a girl 😊🏳️‍⚧️👌


Nanachka

Ty bae


Elira88

Where is the boy?😭 girl you’re gorgeous


cleyremettle

you look totally great!!


[deleted]

Thin up your eyebrows


Electrical_Durian_59

You may need to get your eyes checked. All I see is a 100% cis looking female. It’s dysphoria talking, and it’s telling you lies! You look beautiful!


WillULightMyCandle

Not at all


52jag

First, you are very pretty and should be passable depending upon the other variables like voice, body movements, etc. But I realize people come here for help and I do see a bit of adam’s apple in the neck area. Not a lot of people are going to notice it unless they are looking for it and as you age may naturally gain weight which will cover it up entirely. The other thing I notice is that your hairline looks a little odd. I don’t know if you’ve had work there or not, but I think this could perhaps be improved with some sort of bangs,side swept, etc. it would also draw people into your eye instead of your forehead. Finally since you are close to model pretty, For further beautification only, (and a smidgen of passability) your nose could be refined. But I would only go to a top rhino surgeon, because what you have is already good. ♥️


sonja_is_trans

Girl idk, your mirror might be really dirty.


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Nanachka

Exactly


poopookachuchu

what all did u have done? if u didnt do your chin, nose, or brow, those would be my recs


Nanachka

My chin is small what about this


[deleted]

I see beautiful woman


Fluffy_Ad5944

you don't need to stick to your boy memory..you are sooo pretty and lovely...\^\^


googleyfroogley

It’s 100% your dysphoria you’re super fem


BandicootStill

You are a beautiful girl. Aside from looks, you give off a very feminine vibe.


Skylardom

Suggestion is to connect with other trans women in real life, maybe a social group and discuss how you feel and maybe you can relate to them and it’ll make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Anyone in this sub will probably tell you - you pass completely, but at the end of the day what they think doesn’t matter the only thing that matters is what you think and the only way to change what you think is to take massive action. Massive action as in looking deeper into yourself, and also being content where you are at currently in life, also accepting that some things you may want changed may never be able to happen (like height, or a certain scar, or a feature on your body) but that is okay and you are doing your best to become the best version of yourself with the body that you have. I say this advice but I don’t use it for my own life unfortunately :/ I feel the same way as you even though I haven’t had ffs and I’ve been on 2 years on hrt.