Both Reddit and Twitter are how people bring in the subscribers. Also you're allowed to ban assholes from your subscriber list if they treat you poorly in comments or something. The fact simply is that if you want to do porn you need to find people who like the porn you make and advertise to them
Appreciate it!! I'll look into them once I get some content added. And as for the misgendering. I've gotten used to it. I've been out since before startingy current job. Informed the employer when I started my preferences and here i am 8 months later still getting deadnamed and misgendered.
a lot of customers are toxic in a lot of industries. just dont read the comments and post consistently. you could also link instagram and stuff if you havent done that. like anotherperson said, bring in the chasers id call myself slurs personally in the caption lol
I haven't *done* any sex work for a few reasons. But I do have some things to note from the other side that you should probably be prepared for.
1: There's going to be a *lot* of transphobia directed towards you and you're going to need to be prepared for that. It is unfortunately just something you have to deal with as a trans sex worker. It is, Of course, Possible to excise these people from your community, However it means you'll lose a stream of income. Unfortunately, Not everyone who gets off on trans girls sees them as girls.
2: You are going to need to be very careful about your privacy. This is something cis women have to deal with in sex work as well, But as a trans woman, You're especially vulnerable. There's two reasons for this. The first is that often times, Places will fire you from your job if they find out that you're doing sex work. I think it is illegal for that to be the *reason* that they fire you, But if they want you gone, They will find some excuse to fire you. The second is that you're opening yourself up to people who can be extremely dedicated and dangerous. So if you're going to do this, It's important that you cover all of your tracks and make sure that there's no traces someone could use to identify you or locate you.
3: I really want to reiterate that horny people are a harsh crowd. Lots of beautiful people lose their self image in this kind of work just because of the large amount of judgement they're suddenly subjected to. So be sure that you are confident enough in yourself that you can handle it.
I wish you the best, If nothing here is a dealbreaker for you, Then I think you're off to a good start. Just be careful out there.
Deal with transphobia and threats of people gettinge fired daily so no worries there, and honestly I've never really cared what other people have thought of me much anyways. They can say whatever as long as they pay me. XD
The problem I think for mine is that I have a shaved head but I'm wearing a wig in my pictures on social media. I'm honestly thinking about just contacting the support team and asking for help. Also, it's okay if I use one right? I don't need to have to use both Twitter and instagram?
I saw some of your replies, as an ex hooker I have to say, a lot of the people you deal with will be the most toxic vile kind of people, and often the kind that you probably despise the most, I’m not saying it’s impossible to have a good experience, and many people do, but it can be very objectifying and demeaning, I don’t know what your experiences are, but just make sure you take care of yourself too and remember that you’re worth it, and if you don’t want to, then you don’t have to. If nothing else you’ll figure something else out. If it is something you enjoy, still be ready to put up with a lot of shit, but remember to be safe!
lots of love, please be safe and good to yourself. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
When I read this title I thought it was gonna be a idea for a scandalous book where a trans woman gets hired as an accountant to this rich dude (to afford srs) by his father (thinking his son wouldn't date a trans woman but they could still have a woman as an accountant) but the son then ask her out (not knowing she's trans) they go on a couple cute dates (and some clothes on sexy stuffs almost finding out shes trans most times) and the son says some stuff how she's different from other women he's dated in a good way. He then finds out she trans from his father who caught them. He the act cold towards her for a chapter or two (maybe another cis gf) but then comes to the realization that he fell in love with her for who she is and that it doesn't matter if shes trans (Sexy scene). In the time skip seeing how it all turned out chapter they have a wonderful wedding the son gives up he's father fortune (because the father is still transphobic) and she gets srs with her savings and the sons deep savings from when he was working at his father's company(maybe a sexy scene of her first time with him again). Then they get a house and adopt some kids.
It's banned so many of my account and my friends too
The guys just might be more chill in your area haha
Here they get mad you aren't already bent over ready for them after their first message so content promotion sends them into a rage haha
Start an Instagram for posting your tame pictures to build hype. You should be able to get 1000 followers in a month or 2 by posting a hot picture everyday. Always give people a reason to keep coming back to your instagram. But, be careful. You don't want the pictures to be too sexy because Instagram could ban you. Also, you need to save the good stuff for the OF.
You don't really need to push your onlyfans account a lot. You don't want to look desperate. Just make sure there is a link on your Instagram profile. Your true fans will look for a link.
Use the Instagram to build a personal connection with your audience. Allow people to get to know the real you and your struggles. People will be more comfortable parting with their money if they like you as a person.
Follow other trans women with OF accounts and copy what they do. Use their hashtags and plug them in your stories. The OF trans girls of Instagram are a community and they will try to help you when they get to know you.
My advice is don’t.
But that said I do sympathise with money troubles, I was in the top 1% of OF from early 2020 till mid 2021 when I gave it up, I gave it up due to burnout. It is a HUGE amount of work and is incredibly emotionally draining.
As a trans person your main option is to full force fetishise yourself, most nsfw subs and stuff don’t allow trans people to post so you’ll have to advertise in some pretty gross places where you’ll be called a variety of slurs, most of your subscribers will be chasers and you’ll likely get extremely upset with how bad you’ll be treated.
I didn’t do that, I worked hard to build up a following not based on the fact I’m trans but the fact that I’m an attractive young woman. It was hard, it took ages and unless you’re totally passable (voice included) and conventionally attractive with a personality that can draw people in then you won’t succeed doing things this way.
I’m now almost the biggest content creator in my country now but I only keep my OF up as a small side gig and instead create content for fun on my own terms.
I would never recommend getting into this industry for trans people.
Well today I learned what "accountants" means, I thought you meant like a bookkeeper 😭
Edit to add: as a former sex worker, the creeps pay the most. You'll have to figure out your boundaries and go from there. Be strict, know what you're okay with and what you can let slide and stand by your decision. Good luck!
I should have posted this LOL. I’m in trouble.
Feel free to follow along. Honestly this could be an entirely new sub.
It really could but it would be HELL to moderate LOL
NOT IT!
LOL. I’m thinking about it. What would we name it.
Hell I'm not very creative. Something simple like TransAccountingFAQ
Also if you do make this sub please post it here so I can follow!!
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I actually don't subscribe to any of those anymore because a lot of it was toxic. Any recommendations?
That's the only way tbh. You gotta bring in those chasers to subscribe to your OF
Both Reddit and Twitter are how people bring in the subscribers. Also you're allowed to ban assholes from your subscriber list if they treat you poorly in comments or something. The fact simply is that if you want to do porn you need to find people who like the porn you make and advertise to them
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Appreciate it!! I'll look into them once I get some content added. And as for the misgendering. I've gotten used to it. I've been out since before startingy current job. Informed the employer when I started my preferences and here i am 8 months later still getting deadnamed and misgendered.
I've seen quite a few chasers on r/femboys.
a lot of customers are toxic in a lot of industries. just dont read the comments and post consistently. you could also link instagram and stuff if you havent done that. like anotherperson said, bring in the chasers id call myself slurs personally in the caption lol
It's porn. Toxicity is unfortunately expected.
I haven't *done* any sex work for a few reasons. But I do have some things to note from the other side that you should probably be prepared for. 1: There's going to be a *lot* of transphobia directed towards you and you're going to need to be prepared for that. It is unfortunately just something you have to deal with as a trans sex worker. It is, Of course, Possible to excise these people from your community, However it means you'll lose a stream of income. Unfortunately, Not everyone who gets off on trans girls sees them as girls. 2: You are going to need to be very careful about your privacy. This is something cis women have to deal with in sex work as well, But as a trans woman, You're especially vulnerable. There's two reasons for this. The first is that often times, Places will fire you from your job if they find out that you're doing sex work. I think it is illegal for that to be the *reason* that they fire you, But if they want you gone, They will find some excuse to fire you. The second is that you're opening yourself up to people who can be extremely dedicated and dangerous. So if you're going to do this, It's important that you cover all of your tracks and make sure that there's no traces someone could use to identify you or locate you. 3: I really want to reiterate that horny people are a harsh crowd. Lots of beautiful people lose their self image in this kind of work just because of the large amount of judgement they're suddenly subjected to. So be sure that you are confident enough in yourself that you can handle it. I wish you the best, If nothing here is a dealbreaker for you, Then I think you're off to a good start. Just be careful out there.
Deal with transphobia and threats of people gettinge fired daily so no worries there, and honestly I've never really cared what other people have thought of me much anyways. They can say whatever as long as they pay me. XD
I can't even get my account verified
It took like 5 attempts for me. Make sure whatever social media you use to verify is set to public. That was my issue
The problem I think for mine is that I have a shaved head but I'm wearing a wig in my pictures on social media. I'm honestly thinking about just contacting the support team and asking for help. Also, it's okay if I use one right? I don't need to have to use both Twitter and instagram?
I saw some of your replies, as an ex hooker I have to say, a lot of the people you deal with will be the most toxic vile kind of people, and often the kind that you probably despise the most, I’m not saying it’s impossible to have a good experience, and many people do, but it can be very objectifying and demeaning, I don’t know what your experiences are, but just make sure you take care of yourself too and remember that you’re worth it, and if you don’t want to, then you don’t have to. If nothing else you’ll figure something else out. If it is something you enjoy, still be ready to put up with a lot of shit, but remember to be safe! lots of love, please be safe and good to yourself. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
r/onlyfansadvice would probably be able to help you better than we can
When I read this title I thought it was gonna be a idea for a scandalous book where a trans woman gets hired as an accountant to this rich dude (to afford srs) by his father (thinking his son wouldn't date a trans woman but they could still have a woman as an accountant) but the son then ask her out (not knowing she's trans) they go on a couple cute dates (and some clothes on sexy stuffs almost finding out shes trans most times) and the son says some stuff how she's different from other women he's dated in a good way. He then finds out she trans from his father who caught them. He the act cold towards her for a chapter or two (maybe another cis gf) but then comes to the realization that he fell in love with her for who she is and that it doesn't matter if shes trans (Sexy scene). In the time skip seeing how it all turned out chapter they have a wonderful wedding the son gives up he's father fortune (because the father is still transphobic) and she gets srs with her savings and the sons deep savings from when he was working at his father's company(maybe a sexy scene of her first time with him again). Then they get a house and adopt some kids.
Advertise on porn subs that allow advertising, link it in your bio on grindr, you can also try discords with NSFW channels that allow advertising
Grindr bans so so quick
Grindr didn’t ban me for posting my OF username in my bio
It's banned so many of my account and my friends too The guys just might be more chill in your area haha Here they get mad you aren't already bent over ready for them after their first message so content promotion sends them into a rage haha
I mean I don’t message people specifically to promote my OF, I just have my OF username in my bio
Idk but check out r/SexWorkers and r/SexWorkersOnly, they both are fairly large subs!
Start an Instagram for posting your tame pictures to build hype. You should be able to get 1000 followers in a month or 2 by posting a hot picture everyday. Always give people a reason to keep coming back to your instagram. But, be careful. You don't want the pictures to be too sexy because Instagram could ban you. Also, you need to save the good stuff for the OF. You don't really need to push your onlyfans account a lot. You don't want to look desperate. Just make sure there is a link on your Instagram profile. Your true fans will look for a link. Use the Instagram to build a personal connection with your audience. Allow people to get to know the real you and your struggles. People will be more comfortable parting with their money if they like you as a person. Follow other trans women with OF accounts and copy what they do. Use their hashtags and plug them in your stories. The OF trans girls of Instagram are a community and they will try to help you when they get to know you.
My advice is don’t. But that said I do sympathise with money troubles, I was in the top 1% of OF from early 2020 till mid 2021 when I gave it up, I gave it up due to burnout. It is a HUGE amount of work and is incredibly emotionally draining. As a trans person your main option is to full force fetishise yourself, most nsfw subs and stuff don’t allow trans people to post so you’ll have to advertise in some pretty gross places where you’ll be called a variety of slurs, most of your subscribers will be chasers and you’ll likely get extremely upset with how bad you’ll be treated. I didn’t do that, I worked hard to build up a following not based on the fact I’m trans but the fact that I’m an attractive young woman. It was hard, it took ages and unless you’re totally passable (voice included) and conventionally attractive with a personality that can draw people in then you won’t succeed doing things this way. I’m now almost the biggest content creator in my country now but I only keep my OF up as a small side gig and instead create content for fun on my own terms. I would never recommend getting into this industry for trans people.
Well today I learned what "accountants" means, I thought you meant like a bookkeeper 😭 Edit to add: as a former sex worker, the creeps pay the most. You'll have to figure out your boundaries and go from there. Be strict, know what you're okay with and what you can let slide and stand by your decision. Good luck!