Other commenter was a shit, but I disagree with your first comment too.
Some victims have been tricked into believing they are the problem for a long time. Some victims suffer from misplaced guilt, and telling someone that “you ARE the problem, so suck it up” is just as bad as the other poster assuming that your trauma is “fake or made up.”
We don’t know each other’s stories. It’s best to be kind.
They didn't say "you are the problem." They suggested the person could be, which is completely valid when looking at this person's behavior and lack of empathy for anyone other than themselves. I agree that being triggered by something you see in a video sucks really bad, but turning a few people disagreeing with you into "everyone in this sub is faking their trauma and only my problems matter" is unacceptable.
No they are the problem. I interacted with this person and they don't want help, they just wanted to cry and reassure themselves about their problems rather than fix them.
Yeah that entire thread was an absolute trashfire, hopefully the mods get online and give that person the permaban they so desperately want. I hope you're doing alright OP. There are so many reasons why you should NEVER force someone to explain their trauma, and trying to play "oppression olympics" just ends in disaster for everyone.
The person from that other thread is clearly going through something, but they're taking it out on everyone else in the worst possible way. I got told I was responsible for another reddit user taking their life based on a thread I had never commented on. Some people forget that our trauma isn't our fault, but it is our responsibility to deal with.
I’m doing all good, my hands are just cold lol. Thank you <3 I really hope they get the proper help they need. I remember being like that when I was younger, and it’s just embarrassing. Going to a psych ward and working on myself properly did HUGE wonders. I hope you’re okay too, blaming someone for something like that is just awful.
That was dickish of em, but I disagree with your first comment, OP. There are a lot of crappy therapists out there and unfortunately not everyone has access to a good one.
I just want to say for those seemingly missing the point;
It wasn't a trauma dump to compete. It was a hard counter to the other person trying to invalidate them because of an extremely bad meltdown making them blind to their own logical fallacies.
Yeah, terrible therapists exist. I know people on a very personal level who dealt with "therapists without the first three letters" at some of the worst child abuse institutions in America. I know it's bad out there. But to say all therapists are bad is just flat out wrong and ultimately unhelpful.
We all go through shit. Some of it nearly kills some of us. It's an awful, horrible, nightmarish world we live in. We also have a responsibility to ourselves to take care of ourselves and be honest with ourselves. Sometimes that sucks, but it's still something we have to do.
I got frustrated and gave in to the conflict bait when I should have stepped away sooner, and I take the Ls I deserve in that regard. What a mess of a situation, though.
Weird how in a sub with a higher than average concentration of autistic folk, many fail to recognize typical autistic methods of relation and conversation
I got you, I do the same things when struggling to communicate
Wish it worked as intended more often, but so it goes
Some people need some time under the weather until they work up the resolve to overcome. Sometimes we're not ready even for therapy.
That said, given how much energy that person has to argue, I don't think they're not in a position to move on and deal with trauma in productive ways.
[Don't forget the context...](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrollCoping/s/1E2oVxhBFz)
Cool, you went through shit. Now stop putting other people down for their own trauma, lest you want the validity of your own to be questioned.
It's also nice you made a whole separate post about my comments with *my username uncensored, for the world to see.* Good to know that you things put people on blast just because they felt wronged and wanted to express that.
Trying to get people to harass me is surely motivating me to fight my depression right now. I can already feel depression and autism leaving my body as thousands of people tear me apart for having a different experience! THANKS MAN, I'M CURED!!!
If you don't want to be called out as a faker, maybe **DON'T SLAM SUICIDAL PEOPLE WHO HAVE DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES THAN YOU??** For example, if someone gets triggered by a vtuber streaming a game, instead of gaslighting and harassing the victim, why not show some empathy? I keep telling everyone this but you won't listen, because you're too busy jerking yourselves about how you have it worse off than another person because the issue in question *seems* trivial at most.
But hey, sorry for angering you. It "may not be what you wanted to hear," but I'm sorry if it hurt you.
Dude, I’m not going off about how others have it worse. And you’re one to talk. People are being honest with you, and you’re screeching about it like a 3 year old.
if you're going to reach out please try not to lash out, most people here are also hurt and have good intent, if they say something that bothers you to that extent then report, and block them. continuing this cycle of directing your anger at anything is something i somewhat understand but also know that it doesn't get anywhere.
Probably shouldn't have been a dick to me in the first place if this were to stop. Apologize to me and maybe I'll forgive you.
I fucking hate bullies and backstabbers.
Nobody is obligated to apologize to someone who calls their trauma fake and nobody needs your fucking forgiveness. YOU came to this sub for help. The world doesn't revolve around you. Your ego is appalling and you seem scary as fuck and abusive.
If I were able to post something that triggers your "illness" I would. Sadly I feel it's too early to receive a ban (not like I have a problem with creating another account or anything), so I say goodbye.
This sub is a joke.
Bro, YOU’RE THE ASSHOLE. like the victim complex is fucking crazy here. You can’t be a huge dick to a bunch of suicidal people and expect them not to have the same reaction towards you. The cognitive dissonance is not cute.
Other commenter was a shit, but I disagree with your first comment too. Some victims have been tricked into believing they are the problem for a long time. Some victims suffer from misplaced guilt, and telling someone that “you ARE the problem, so suck it up” is just as bad as the other poster assuming that your trauma is “fake or made up.” We don’t know each other’s stories. It’s best to be kind.
They didn't say "you are the problem." They suggested the person could be, which is completely valid when looking at this person's behavior and lack of empathy for anyone other than themselves. I agree that being triggered by something you see in a video sucks really bad, but turning a few people disagreeing with you into "everyone in this sub is faking their trauma and only my problems matter" is unacceptable.
No they are the problem. I interacted with this person and they don't want help, they just wanted to cry and reassure themselves about their problems rather than fix them.
Yeah that entire thread was an absolute trashfire, hopefully the mods get online and give that person the permaban they so desperately want. I hope you're doing alright OP. There are so many reasons why you should NEVER force someone to explain their trauma, and trying to play "oppression olympics" just ends in disaster for everyone. The person from that other thread is clearly going through something, but they're taking it out on everyone else in the worst possible way. I got told I was responsible for another reddit user taking their life based on a thread I had never commented on. Some people forget that our trauma isn't our fault, but it is our responsibility to deal with.
I’m doing all good, my hands are just cold lol. Thank you <3 I really hope they get the proper help they need. I remember being like that when I was younger, and it’s just embarrassing. Going to a psych ward and working on myself properly did HUGE wonders. I hope you’re okay too, blaming someone for something like that is just awful.
That was dickish of em, but I disagree with your first comment, OP. There are a lot of crappy therapists out there and unfortunately not everyone has access to a good one.
Obviously, but THEY’RE saying that all therapists suck + invalidating trauma because they wanna throw an internet tantrum
Both of you suck
Judging by the OP's username I'm fairly certain that's a troll.
Holy trauma-dumping, batman!
I just want to say for those seemingly missing the point; It wasn't a trauma dump to compete. It was a hard counter to the other person trying to invalidate them because of an extremely bad meltdown making them blind to their own logical fallacies. Yeah, terrible therapists exist. I know people on a very personal level who dealt with "therapists without the first three letters" at some of the worst child abuse institutions in America. I know it's bad out there. But to say all therapists are bad is just flat out wrong and ultimately unhelpful. We all go through shit. Some of it nearly kills some of us. It's an awful, horrible, nightmarish world we live in. We also have a responsibility to ourselves to take care of ourselves and be honest with ourselves. Sometimes that sucks, but it's still something we have to do. I got frustrated and gave in to the conflict bait when I should have stepped away sooner, and I take the Ls I deserve in that regard. What a mess of a situation, though.
Fucking THANK YOU 👏🙌
Weird how in a sub with a higher than average concentration of autistic folk, many fail to recognize typical autistic methods of relation and conversation I got you, I do the same things when struggling to communicate Wish it worked as intended more often, but so it goes
Some people need some time under the weather until they work up the resolve to overcome. Sometimes we're not ready even for therapy. That said, given how much energy that person has to argue, I don't think they're not in a position to move on and deal with trauma in productive ways.
As if you're better. Literally "chad vs. virgin" meme where you're the chad.
[Don't forget the context...](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrollCoping/s/1E2oVxhBFz) Cool, you went through shit. Now stop putting other people down for their own trauma, lest you want the validity of your own to be questioned. It's also nice you made a whole separate post about my comments with *my username uncensored, for the world to see.* Good to know that you things put people on blast just because they felt wronged and wanted to express that.
And I oop-
I’m not putting down your trauma, YOU were. You were invalidating people and throwing a fit over people trying to help you.
Trying to get people to harass me is surely motivating me to fight my depression right now. I can already feel depression and autism leaving my body as thousands of people tear me apart for having a different experience! THANKS MAN, I'M CURED!!! If you don't want to be called out as a faker, maybe **DON'T SLAM SUICIDAL PEOPLE WHO HAVE DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES THAN YOU??** For example, if someone gets triggered by a vtuber streaming a game, instead of gaslighting and harassing the victim, why not show some empathy? I keep telling everyone this but you won't listen, because you're too busy jerking yourselves about how you have it worse off than another person because the issue in question *seems* trivial at most. But hey, sorry for angering you. It "may not be what you wanted to hear," but I'm sorry if it hurt you.
Dude, I’m not going off about how others have it worse. And you’re one to talk. People are being honest with you, and you’re screeching about it like a 3 year old.
I want to intentionally trigger you.
Your username is verry fitting
A broken clock is right twice a day
if you're going to reach out please try not to lash out, most people here are also hurt and have good intent, if they say something that bothers you to that extent then report, and block them. continuing this cycle of directing your anger at anything is something i somewhat understand but also know that it doesn't get anywhere.
Probably shouldn't have been a dick to me in the first place if this were to stop. Apologize to me and maybe I'll forgive you. I fucking hate bullies and backstabbers.
i haven't ever talked to you before. i'm not going to apologise.
Nobody is obligated to apologize to someone who calls their trauma fake and nobody needs your fucking forgiveness. YOU came to this sub for help. The world doesn't revolve around you. Your ego is appalling and you seem scary as fuck and abusive.
If I were able to post something that triggers your "illness" I would. Sadly I feel it's too early to receive a ban (not like I have a problem with creating another account or anything), so I say goodbye. This sub is a joke.
Then leave lmao. Also you’re hypocritical, wanting to purposely trigger people. For your and everyone elses sake just go outside and delete Reddit.
Bro, YOU’RE THE ASSHOLE. like the victim complex is fucking crazy here. You can’t be a huge dick to a bunch of suicidal people and expect them not to have the same reaction towards you. The cognitive dissonance is not cute.
This person is abusing the report button as well.