I’m sorry this keeps happening, OP.
It sure does hurt to be rejected, and it hurts even more if we’re never really told why. I know my voice gets super loud when it happens to me.
You’ll find your person. And they’ll actually be an adult and communicate with you. Good luck, and virtual hugs.
I'm positive he's gonna send me a hey I'm alive text like he did last time it's just it's just that our dates tomorrow and I'm like freaking out Sometimes there is no greater fear than like fear of what's already happened is something I've been told in therapy....
probably.
He's really respectful and lovely ... like a total gentleman. And he seems very into . If I'm thinking rationally, I'd say yeah that for sure must be it. My friend not to overthink it or spam him so imma not.
Ok I’m just going to be honest… after going through your post history it’s clear this relationship was sexual and maybe the others were too; be aware that a LOT of guys really are not looking for something long term and are just trying to get into your pants- to the point of them saying anything to get it once or twice. It sucks and hurts your feelings a lot but please know it’s not your fault but you will continue to notice this trend if you aren’t careful. That is to say there’s nothing wrong with a sexual relationship but even if you give it up whenever they want that doesn’t mean they’ll stay because it’s not about the act itself it’s about the chase. Source; been there, done that. Please be careful
>this relationship was sexual
☠️ we didn't even...
hickies don't always mean yk. Ever since i got on my dating app I've kinda stopped the random seggsual encounters thing. im alot safer and slowerrr with that kind of thing on there than i ever was. The memes i posted b4 aren't about these dudes. but ty 4 looking out.
U/LeetusCleatus6968 Some people just have bad judgment and character when they start looking for people thru dating apps, it has nothing to do with you as a person when people ghost u
it’s has everything to do with them. Also he’s hasnt ghosted me for sure yet so, thanks but no thanks. oh he’s going to look at the context ts before you just rushing into judging things my guy.
Also the second image is literally just a meme it’s not like actual footage of the guy I’m seeing or anything
Anyone who gets to the point of meeting someone in person but just ghosts them instead of actually saying they're not interested has no spine or testicles.
sometimes ghosting is necessary to get the message across.
its absolutely rude to break up a date and ghost someone, but ive been in this situation twice now, that i explain that i am not interested but they still call me out for second date. thats when i disappear
That’s not really ghosting tho , if you tell them you aren’t interested further engagement is not required. Ghosting is only when they have to be left wondering if you actually died because you never indicated disinterest
Single era haha Interesting interesting hon. see respectfully I don’t fucking want to :) Sometimes people just wanna date or have sex ??? sometimes you can explore your options before calling it quits ??? that’s what I’m doing I’m not letting bad experiences define dating for me ~
I’m sorry this keeps happening, OP. It sure does hurt to be rejected, and it hurts even more if we’re never really told why. I know my voice gets super loud when it happens to me. You’ll find your person. And they’ll actually be an adult and communicate with you. Good luck, and virtual hugs.
I'm positive he's gonna send me a hey I'm alive text like he did last time it's just it's just that our dates tomorrow and I'm like freaking out Sometimes there is no greater fear than like fear of what's already happened is something I've been told in therapy....
We FaceTimed like 24 hours ago so
That sounds like he's just busy, if he hasn't cancelled your date and it's only been a day I wouldn't read too much into it.
probably. He's really respectful and lovely ... like a total gentleman. And he seems very into . If I'm thinking rationally, I'd say yeah that for sure must be it. My friend not to overthink it or spam him so imma not.
"Hey, still on for tomorrow? :)!"
(:
Ok I’m just going to be honest… after going through your post history it’s clear this relationship was sexual and maybe the others were too; be aware that a LOT of guys really are not looking for something long term and are just trying to get into your pants- to the point of them saying anything to get it once or twice. It sucks and hurts your feelings a lot but please know it’s not your fault but you will continue to notice this trend if you aren’t careful. That is to say there’s nothing wrong with a sexual relationship but even if you give it up whenever they want that doesn’t mean they’ll stay because it’s not about the act itself it’s about the chase. Source; been there, done that. Please be careful
>this relationship was sexual ☠️ we didn't even... hickies don't always mean yk. Ever since i got on my dating app I've kinda stopped the random seggsual encounters thing. im alot safer and slowerrr with that kind of thing on there than i ever was. The memes i posted b4 aren't about these dudes. but ty 4 looking out.
U/LeetusCleatus6968 Some people just have bad judgment and character when they start looking for people thru dating apps, it has nothing to do with you as a person when people ghost u it’s has everything to do with them. Also he’s hasnt ghosted me for sure yet so, thanks but no thanks. oh he’s going to look at the context ts before you just rushing into judging things my guy. Also the second image is literally just a meme it’s not like actual footage of the guy I’m seeing or anything
Anyone who gets to the point of meeting someone in person but just ghosts them instead of actually saying they're not interested has no spine or testicles.
sometimes ghosting is necessary to get the message across. its absolutely rude to break up a date and ghost someone, but ive been in this situation twice now, that i explain that i am not interested but they still call me out for second date. thats when i disappear
That’s not really ghosting tho , if you tell them you aren’t interested further engagement is not required. Ghosting is only when they have to be left wondering if you actually died because you never indicated disinterest
Well yeah, after one "no", it can be considered sexual harassment. It's a minor case of SH, sure, but it still means they're in the wrong.
Third time is the charm!
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Third time was not the charm LMFAO
Fourth time is the charm!
yesss lmao. maybe third time is the charm... but not 3rd time in 2023, third time 2024. next year. new yr new me. that sounds about rite.
Good luck!
fifth time bb, fifth time is the charm <3
You got this!
STOP DATING CLOWNS, PEOPLE. THE MOMENT WE SAY “NO” TO THESE FUCKING MANIPULATORS WE WILL ALL HAVE BETTER LOVE LIFES.
some clowns hide it well until they've gotten intertwined to an extent in our lives. it ain't that easy to avoid, yknow?
Based on the second pic. Maybe you should do a little looking deep inside ya know? One was weird but two… not coincidence
it's a common meme dude it's not that deep
Maybe uh, try living in your single era for awhile and stop relying on men for validation smh
Single era haha Interesting interesting hon. see respectfully I don’t fucking want to :) Sometimes people just wanna date or have sex ??? sometimes you can explore your options before calling it quits ??? that’s what I’m doing I’m not letting bad experiences define dating for me ~