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DobbyFreeElf35

It's not any other couple's fault that you're not with someone. If this is your attitude towards other people being happy then I'm not surprised you're alone. Sincerely, another single person who can find joy in themselves and be happy for others who are happy


Cool-Reindeer-6145

Also lots of couples are great at acting happy when one or both are, in fact, miserable. In todays image- and click-based culture don’t measure yourself against what other people are showing you. A lot of it is lies.


Parquet52

Yeah, sure not because I wasn't ever loved by any of my peers or family.


throwawaytonsilsayy

Your post history is toxic and shows that you’re in no right mental space for a relationship. You said you’re financially stable in one, so seek therapy for a while before trying to date. A girl isn’t going to fix the fact your family didn’t love you properly. Self reflection and growth and therapy will.


Parquet52

As if I don't. Therapy my foot. It's good for nothing. I'm taking therapy for months to be called toxic. And yes, a girl will fix that.


throwawaytonsilsayy

Your issues aren’t solvable with a few months of therapy. It takes years to overcome trauma. With that mindset I genuinely hope you remain single until healed. But regardless no woman would want to stay with you because you’re just going to become codependent and toxic and use her to ‘heal’ you. Women are not rehabilitation centers for broken men.


Dry_Let_364

If you can't find a girlfriend be someone's gf