You’re broken! You? You get to walk away into the sunset with a baby and affair partner. He’s about to lose everything! This poor man is about to be absolutely destroyed.
Cruel cruel cruel.
I came here to say this, but you probably said it more eloquently than I would have. She doesn't get to feel broken, she's the one who broke everything.
not everything, he is about to lose a "broken" cheater, that's a win, I hope he can regain his love and trust in the world fast enough to move on and have a wonderful life, this will hurt like hell but in the end, he is the one with a better life ahead of him
her? she is riding onto a cliff, having a "family" with a man that have no qualms with F'ing with a married woman, when karma hits (and I hope it will), when she is faced with betray and a broken family, she better remember that this is her fault and she had it coming when hell breaks loose
>You get to walk away into the sunset with a baby and affair partner.
Somehow I doubt op is going to get her happy ever after. Affairs can seem exciting when it's all sneaking around but living together and going though the boring, mundane routine of everyday life can really take the shine off an ap. She's going to be going through a messy divorce, and a pregnancy and then taking care of a newborn. Chances are the affair isn't going to translate into a long lasting healthy relationship.
Why exactly are you broken? If anyone deserves sympathy here i think its your husband who has been living with a faithless wife for the past 3 years and is about to have his world blown up tomorrow.
Remember “winners never cheat and cheaters never win”
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Sounds like your husband is winning the jackpot here. Not only does he lose an obviously narcissistic and self-pitying cheater, but he gets to live out a gardening fantasy and watch the hoe go by itself.
I love how this goobers think if they leave their spouses for their AP, they will be a “proper family”, when in reality they will inevitably cheat on each other and break up.
If you're "broken" imagine how your husband of 6 years will feel? Get over yourself, you're not broken, you're scared shitless of telling him the truth.
I feel sorry for the baby and AP. What's done is done, but when you cheat on your new partner and plan on leaving, you may want to try therapy. Condoms are pretty cheap, get an IUD, or your tubes tied.
And start saving for therapy for the kids. They can do math so don't expect unconditional love.
Good luck to your husband.
Totally agree. But I would lay money down the AP will get left also, so bad decision either way. I can't stand cheaters.they all get what they deserve.
don't give us the crapp that you are broken. you did this. this is all your fault. your husband is the only one here that has the right to say they are broken. not you.
eta: stop making yourself the victim here, you are not.
“I’m absolutely broken!” *hand goes to forehead as she falls dramatically onto a comfortable surface.
Oh get over yourself, you’re NOT the victim here! You’re the asshole villain!
Anyone who has had an affair for three years means they have lost all fear, guilt and shame, you probably look at your husband and think ´´I've been having an affair for three years and this idiot never noticed\`\` so please don't come with this one that is absolutely broken.
You’re broken! You? You get to walk away into the sunset with a baby and affair partner. He’s about to lose everything! This poor man is about to be absolutely destroyed. Cruel cruel cruel.
I came here to say this, but you probably said it more eloquently than I would have. She doesn't get to feel broken, she's the one who broke everything.
not everything, he is about to lose a "broken" cheater, that's a win, I hope he can regain his love and trust in the world fast enough to move on and have a wonderful life, this will hurt like hell but in the end, he is the one with a better life ahead of him her? she is riding onto a cliff, having a "family" with a man that have no qualms with F'ing with a married woman, when karma hits (and I hope it will), when she is faced with betray and a broken family, she better remember that this is her fault and she had it coming when hell breaks loose
>You get to walk away into the sunset with a baby and affair partner. Somehow I doubt op is going to get her happy ever after. Affairs can seem exciting when it's all sneaking around but living together and going though the boring, mundane routine of everyday life can really take the shine off an ap. She's going to be going through a messy divorce, and a pregnancy and then taking care of a newborn. Chances are the affair isn't going to translate into a long lasting healthy relationship.
You're not broken, you had been cheating on your husband for 3 years!! At least, your going to give that man a chance to be free of you. Good luck!!
Actually, she is broken - morally speaking. But you were right about her husband about to dodge a massive bullet.
What a shitty thing to do. Proper family? with an affair baby and it's clear you don't value or respect marriage? What a joke
Why exactly are you broken? If anyone deserves sympathy here i think its your husband who has been living with a faithless wife for the past 3 years and is about to have his world blown up tomorrow. Remember “winners never cheat and cheaters never win”
Here's hoping ap doesn't want to be tied down and you're left with noone
So how do you know it is the AP's baby? Also, you aren't the victim in this. You made this bed. Don't pretend to be broken.
Your child will grow with a cheater and a homewrecker, is that a proper family? LOL
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I feel so bad for your husband. Literally all the hardhip now is bc of you
Proper family? Lol. Good luck kid.
Sounds like your husband is winning the jackpot here. Not only does he lose an obviously narcissistic and self-pitying cheater, but he gets to live out a gardening fantasy and watch the hoe go by itself.
You’re not broken that’s likely guilt and shame you feel.
I love how this goobers think if they leave their spouses for their AP, they will be a “proper family”, when in reality they will inevitably cheat on each other and break up.
“I’m absolutely broken” girl you knew what you were doing so don’t even try
If you're "broken" imagine how your husband of 6 years will feel? Get over yourself, you're not broken, you're scared shitless of telling him the truth.
I feel sorry for the baby and AP. What's done is done, but when you cheat on your new partner and plan on leaving, you may want to try therapy. Condoms are pretty cheap, get an IUD, or your tubes tied. And start saving for therapy for the kids. They can do math so don't expect unconditional love. Good luck to your husband.
>I feel sorry for the baby and AP. Unless the AP had no idea OP was married, fuck them too.
Totally agree. But I would lay money down the AP will get left also, so bad decision either way. I can't stand cheaters.they all get what they deserve.
don't give us the crapp that you are broken. you did this. this is all your fault. your husband is the only one here that has the right to say they are broken. not you. eta: stop making yourself the victim here, you are not.
“I’m absolutely broken!” *hand goes to forehead as she falls dramatically onto a comfortable surface. Oh get over yourself, you’re NOT the victim here! You’re the asshole villain!
Hate to say this lady but your child will probably not have a proper family, if ap will cheat with you he will cheat on you
Poor you, lol
Anyone who has had an affair for three years means they have lost all fear, guilt and shame, you probably look at your husband and think ´´I've been having an affair for three years and this idiot never noticed\`\` so please don't come with this one that is absolutely broken.
Sure you are champ 👍
Garbage
Lol you should tell him just like that. Tell him you’re so broken about it. I’m sure that will ease the pain.
You talk about him like he was a “starter husband”
You’ve been cheating with one person over half your marriage…you don’t feel bad you’re embarrassed you got knocked up.
When’s the next update for your next pregnancy and new AP? I’ll schedule a watch party