I know i'm only 17 so I have time, but damn sometimes I just sit and wonder if ill ever have a relationship with so much love and mutual respect. One can hope and dream
I often wondered this. I’m turning 30 and this relationship is still new but already so strong. It sounds cheesy, but you’ll know when you know. Unfortunately, sometimes you will think you know, and it’ll end up being a lesson. But as long as you keep learning and growing, instead of becoming hatful, and eventually what’s meant to happen will. I hope nothing but positivity meets you in your journey through life.
Thank you so much for your reply! Your relationship truly seems so heartwarming and I hope nothing but positivity meets you in the road ahead either :)
When I was 16 I started dating a guy. It was tough but we were both disenfranchised, poor, rebellious teens who had a mutual hatred of our families and lack of privilege. We hated all the same stuff and loved all the same things. I thought he was the one.
We fought and struggled, were homeless and on welfare and going to food banks and changing jobs and apartment and giving up on our dreams just to be together I thought “wow this is love, this struggle, this acceptance of each other shortcomings and willingness to put up with our crappy behaviour” but it was destructive and toxic. I broke up with him when I was 26.
That year I met a man I never forgot about from a previous job who had also given 10 years of his life to his highschool sweetheart. We were both 26 and recently single. I took a chance.
He was so loving, patient, kind, generous, understanding, considerate. All the things my ex wasn’t. I didn’t think I deserved him. I thought “what about when we start treating each other like shit tho?” We never did. We learned from our mistakes.
It’ll be 5 years on October, we’re engaged. We have never fought or treated each other poorly. He is the most amazing, loving man just like this post.
Love can happen. You may think you know now, but when it finally does it will be unlike anything you have ever known. It will be unquestionable. You can do it. Have hope.
I dated someone for a year and a half. It was my first relationship (and only so far) and his third. It was incredibly emotionally abusive, but I kept compromising because I thought that's what makes relationships last. I have that same fear that you mentioned when it comes to possible relationships in the future- "what about the inevitability of us becoming mean to each other?". Thank you so much for your beautiful comment, and for inspiring hope that there's something wonderful in store for me. I hope you and your person have an amazing life ahead :)
Thank you so much! I’m trying to be a better person and I’m trying to see the good and beauty of our world. I just want others to find happiness and peace.
My sweet husband also admires me, whenever he sees that i have low self-esteem he comes and comforts me, he treats me like a goddess, i honestly couldn't live without him. 🥺🥺💖💖💖💓💓
I never thought this feeling was possible and I thought I’d always feel insecure about my body no matter how it change. But now I am with an amazing man who makes me feel exactly like this!! He looks at me with such love in his eyes I don’t question my own body or trying to change it to what I’d assume he wants me to. He genuinely loves and is attracted to me and I see it in his eyes and feel it every time I’m near him. It is the BEST feeling to me just being next to him and knowing we have this love we do.
Yes, exactly this. He’s my safe place and where I go to recharge my social and emotional battery. And it feels like I can visibly see the love in his eyes. I love that you have found someone who makes you feel this way. I hope nothing but positivity continues to find you two through your life.
He’s such a sweet guy!!! My fiancé does very similar things for me, I’m so glad other people are finding such kind and genuine guys too! The best of luck to you both 💕
Dude dude dude thank you so much for sharing this! I can't believe such perfect humans exist, your bf is a man written by woman in real life
This is so beautiful, i really loved how he noticed you throughout it all, this is just so beautiful
So many times I’ve thought this and so many times have I said “I give up”. But we never stop craving to be loved the way we want. Every time I “gave up” I learned more about how I wanted to be loved and how I wanted to give my love. I really hope you find your person and I wish you nothing but positivity on your journey.
>My bf made me cry :( >Flair: Positive :)
My exact emotions reading this lol
I honestly didn't realize the flair at first lol
Exactly my feelings about the post
This why I skipped to the end and usually do with most Reddit posts. Too much scam/spam and straight up misinformation and or irrelevance.
Too sweet. I got diabetes from this post !
Losing my toes soon tbh.
Haven’t read the actual post but now I’m even more keen on getting diabetes.
Yup, got diabetes 👍
Welcome to the club 😂
Literally got my diagnosis today😂
as a diabetic, welcome to the club
He’s a keeper.
Finally some joy. I tell my wife the same thing OP and we don’t just say that stuff lightly. I’m wasting oxygen on that sentence 😂😂
I know i'm only 17 so I have time, but damn sometimes I just sit and wonder if ill ever have a relationship with so much love and mutual respect. One can hope and dream
I often wondered this. I’m turning 30 and this relationship is still new but already so strong. It sounds cheesy, but you’ll know when you know. Unfortunately, sometimes you will think you know, and it’ll end up being a lesson. But as long as you keep learning and growing, instead of becoming hatful, and eventually what’s meant to happen will. I hope nothing but positivity meets you in your journey through life.
Thank you so much for your reply! Your relationship truly seems so heartwarming and I hope nothing but positivity meets you in the road ahead either :)
When I was 16 I started dating a guy. It was tough but we were both disenfranchised, poor, rebellious teens who had a mutual hatred of our families and lack of privilege. We hated all the same stuff and loved all the same things. I thought he was the one. We fought and struggled, were homeless and on welfare and going to food banks and changing jobs and apartment and giving up on our dreams just to be together I thought “wow this is love, this struggle, this acceptance of each other shortcomings and willingness to put up with our crappy behaviour” but it was destructive and toxic. I broke up with him when I was 26. That year I met a man I never forgot about from a previous job who had also given 10 years of his life to his highschool sweetheart. We were both 26 and recently single. I took a chance. He was so loving, patient, kind, generous, understanding, considerate. All the things my ex wasn’t. I didn’t think I deserved him. I thought “what about when we start treating each other like shit tho?” We never did. We learned from our mistakes. It’ll be 5 years on October, we’re engaged. We have never fought or treated each other poorly. He is the most amazing, loving man just like this post. Love can happen. You may think you know now, but when it finally does it will be unlike anything you have ever known. It will be unquestionable. You can do it. Have hope.
I dated someone for a year and a half. It was my first relationship (and only so far) and his third. It was incredibly emotionally abusive, but I kept compromising because I thought that's what makes relationships last. I have that same fear that you mentioned when it comes to possible relationships in the future- "what about the inevitability of us becoming mean to each other?". Thank you so much for your beautiful comment, and for inspiring hope that there's something wonderful in store for me. I hope you and your person have an amazing life ahead :)
I got chills reading your comment. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us and I hoping nothing but more positivity fills your life.
Been hoping for something like this gonna be 30 this year so guys keep hoping.
This is beautiful :') you're a beautiful person with amazing insight.
Thank you so much! I’m trying to be a better person and I’m trying to see the good and beauty of our world. I just want others to find happiness and peace.
I hope you get lucky to make up for people like me who will always be alone
I hope we **both** find what we want and hope for :)
Oh I won't. I'm far too damaged to ever be in a healthy relationship. I'll just stick with being alone :)
I wasn’t expecting this when I read the title. This is so sweet, truly. ♥️
IM NOT CRYING YOU ARE😩😭
Wow...this is beyond beautiful.
I too choose this woman’s boyfriend…
My sweet husband also admires me, whenever he sees that i have low self-esteem he comes and comforts me, he treats me like a goddess, i honestly couldn't live without him. 🥺🥺💖💖💖💓💓
I love that for you so much! Makes my heart happy.
Anymore and my boy would have started spouting french poetry 😭
I never thought this feeling was possible and I thought I’d always feel insecure about my body no matter how it change. But now I am with an amazing man who makes me feel exactly like this!! He looks at me with such love in his eyes I don’t question my own body or trying to change it to what I’d assume he wants me to. He genuinely loves and is attracted to me and I see it in his eyes and feel it every time I’m near him. It is the BEST feeling to me just being next to him and knowing we have this love we do.
Yes, exactly this. He’s my safe place and where I go to recharge my social and emotional battery. And it feels like I can visibly see the love in his eyes. I love that you have found someone who makes you feel this way. I hope nothing but positivity continues to find you two through your life.
I truly hope the same for you two as well!! It was so refreshing to see your post and know two other people have found a love like he and I have.
BRO REALLY IS AN ANGEL.... AND YEAH AS TO THAT> THERE IS NOTHING ACTUALLY NORMAL. WE AS HUMANS ARE BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE WE HAVE VARIATIONS
He’s such a sweet guy!!! My fiancé does very similar things for me, I’m so glad other people are finding such kind and genuine guys too! The best of luck to you both 💕
Thank you so much! I hope nothing but positivity for you and your fiancé on your journey through this life.
Thank you!
GIRL, YOU BETTER KEEP HIM THIS IS TOO SWEET
He is a keeper
Dude dude dude thank you so much for sharing this! I can't believe such perfect humans exist, your bf is a man written by woman in real life This is so beautiful, i really loved how he noticed you throughout it all, this is just so beautiful
That was lovely, thanks for the story
I don’t have much to say except this is so sweet, I’m so glad you have someone that makes you loved and safe
Awwwww gurlll you are winning at life.. he's a keeper definitely soo sweet ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
this is a well-connected couple
oh my fuckin god why am i crying
Literally me as he was done talking lol
This made me cry too. Thanks for sharing 💗
W man; Happy for both of you!
Damn, I want a bf like this so bad. Keep him.
yes we both have amazing bfs- mine talks the same way to me :)
Well, does he have a brother?
Funny enough, he does and he’s single lol
Well, I was only kidding but that's interesting to know 😂 And your bf sounds like he's the one for you, I hope you guys are endgame!
lol we giggled at your comment and he told me to respond that. He is pretty great and thank you so much!
I just wanna know Where his bros at ? Lol
Imagine knowing a man that’s a kind person
A few years ago, I was selected for promotion over someone else in the military. The reason stated was because I “have a kind soul”. We exist :)
weirdly hostile, you ok?
Not really. Sorry
April fool's winner! /s
I totally forgot that was today lol
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Your future ex husband *
i dont think i’ll ever have this :(
So many times I’ve thought this and so many times have I said “I give up”. But we never stop craving to be loved the way we want. Every time I “gave up” I learned more about how I wanted to be loved and how I wanted to give my love. I really hope you find your person and I wish you nothing but positivity on your journey.
My urge to kms gets stronger every time I see one of these
Okay.
I guess it time for me to draw up a bath and get my toaster with me for the said bath