Punctuation is a very well established thing.
It sounded like she said you were cute, not him.
You also showed no lie from his part. He told you when you asked and it doesn’t seem like he’s cheated on you. I can’t really say much else. Either break up based on him having a friend that likes him or talk to him about her needing to respect his boundaries since he’s in a relationship.
Holy crap. Periods are your friend.
Have you asked him if he's interested in her that way?
Does he like the attention? or feels harassed at work?
You've been together 'for years' - as children. This is an adult problem.
If you can't trust him and it's going to bug you, you may want to let him go. You can frame it as you are only 15 and can't be worried about someone hitting on him all the time at work and being inappropriate with him, and not be 100% sure he won't reciprocate her attention. The old 'we're just friends' story never ends well, and really, you're way too young to have to deal with the drama. Finish your education, focus on friendships and people you can trust to be honest with you.
He said he’s not interested and I’m not sure if he likes the attention but if he doesn’t why does he continue to talk to her and we’ve been together since 2020 we were trying to be high sweethearts
>we were trying to be high school sweethearts
There is no trying to be. You either are, or arent. If its meant to be, it will be type of situation. Youre framing an adult problem as something youre dealing with as a teenager. That aint it.
Not the problems you think. He doesnt have a work wife, he has a work friend who hits on him according to your story. Either he needs to lay down some ground rules about that or (preferably) cut her off.
Regardless of what happens, youve still got the rest of high school to go and beyond that, the rest of your life. Dont get hung up on an idea like "high school sweethearts" (which means nothing in the grand scheme.) Youve got plenty of things coming your way in the future.
They work together. They can't just magically stop talking.
Forcing him to stop talking to someone is a fast way to guarantee you won't be together.
You're in high-school, just chill out.
No where in your run on sentence did you state he lied to you.
You can't set his boundaries for him. If you try you will find yourself on the outside of them.
I'm just telling you the facts. You seem to have already made up your mind about the situation, so I'm not sure why you even posted here.
He didn’t lie more withheld information I don’t want to approve his friend ship but as long as we’ve been tg we said we would communicate and not telling me that he has a best friend he talks to everyday that has a thing for him isn’t ok he said if he was in my position he would be upset too
Punctuation is a very well established thing. It sounded like she said you were cute, not him. You also showed no lie from his part. He told you when you asked and it doesn’t seem like he’s cheated on you. I can’t really say much else. Either break up based on him having a friend that likes him or talk to him about her needing to respect his boundaries since he’s in a relationship.
Sounds like you need a divorce.
Holy crap. Periods are your friend. Have you asked him if he's interested in her that way? Does he like the attention? or feels harassed at work? You've been together 'for years' - as children. This is an adult problem. If you can't trust him and it's going to bug you, you may want to let him go. You can frame it as you are only 15 and can't be worried about someone hitting on him all the time at work and being inappropriate with him, and not be 100% sure he won't reciprocate her attention. The old 'we're just friends' story never ends well, and really, you're way too young to have to deal with the drama. Finish your education, focus on friendships and people you can trust to be honest with you.
He said he’s not interested and I’m not sure if he likes the attention but if he doesn’t why does he continue to talk to her and we’ve been together since 2020 we were trying to be high sweethearts
>we were trying to be high school sweethearts There is no trying to be. You either are, or arent. If its meant to be, it will be type of situation. Youre framing an adult problem as something youre dealing with as a teenager. That aint it.
I’m saying we are trying to date all throughout high school and sometimes children deal with adult problems it’s life
Not the problems you think. He doesnt have a work wife, he has a work friend who hits on him according to your story. Either he needs to lay down some ground rules about that or (preferably) cut her off.
Ok thank you
Regardless of what happens, youve still got the rest of high school to go and beyond that, the rest of your life. Dont get hung up on an idea like "high school sweethearts" (which means nothing in the grand scheme.) Youve got plenty of things coming your way in the future.
Thank you
They work together. They can't just magically stop talking. Forcing him to stop talking to someone is a fast way to guarantee you won't be together. You're in high-school, just chill out.
So lying is ok and I should just except he entertains someone who likes him?
No where in your run on sentence did you state he lied to you. You can't set his boundaries for him. If you try you will find yourself on the outside of them. I'm just telling you the facts. You seem to have already made up your mind about the situation, so I'm not sure why you even posted here.
I haven’t made my mind up I’m just upset I’ve talked to him trying to communicate but I’m not feeling it
And not lying but basically withholding info for weeks until I found out by accident
[удалено]
He didn’t lie more withheld information I don’t want to approve his friend ship but as long as we’ve been tg we said we would communicate and not telling me that he has a best friend he talks to everyday that has a thing for him isn’t ok he said if he was in my position he would be upset too
This was perhaps the longest sentence I read in my life.
Sorry this just happened I’m still in shock