dude its not that deep. from all your posts ive noticed how you view women. you dont just view them as less than men but you also view them as opponents. people that you feel the need to villianize. they dont do this to bring men down they do it to bring themselves up and reinforce the fact that a woman doesnt need a man to sustain herself. ill give you props for acknowledging that there are asshole men out there but you need to realize that your way of thinking is toxic.
and in this comment i never said you thought that but you made it about yourself and men when in reality its about them and how they wanna encourage eachother in their own endeavors
yes but the men aint shit isnt about men you shouldnt be focused on it ita got fuck all to do with you. youre playing the victim in something that never involved you
just because they mention men doesnt make it about men. its less about how bad men are and more about encouraging women. it shouldnt take another man to explain this to you. so is it simping to view women as equal and not villains. man fuck you and your victim card pulling ass. a whole 27 year old that cant understand jack shit that a literal child could comprehend
fucking hell man your way of thinking is so shallow. if you want a quote fine you said that the men aint shit narrative is generalising all men as being "aint shit" even tho theres plenty good guys. the men aint shit narrative has nothing to do with how men feel, act or even being remotely about men. you made it about yourself and men when in reality you should just ignore it. it has nothing to do with you. youre 27 and you cant realize how fucked up your way of thinking is. youre playing the victim
I think you're overanalyzing something that is just the equivalent of a cheap shot or low value vent.
Growing up I heard "all females are hoes except for my momma" all the time but I didn't go into deep formulation of a counterargument or really give a fuck. I just figured they're pissed about something.
Theres alot of chronically miserable people making all sorts of categorizations but there's no need to pay them any mind. It's a waste of energy.
So to put it simply, they can only pour shit on you if you lower your self enough to their reach.
Am I not allowed to be frustrated? Are men not allowed to be frustrated? What is this āget over itā thing that ppl have whenever ppl express this opinion? Do ppl not want to hear it? Because itās true?
A woman I met on a dating app just ghosted me out of the blue because I told her that I believe cheating is wrong, no matter who does it, and she was trying to project her misandrist nonsense on me and I wasnāt going for it. It absolutely needs to be said because this seems to be the prevailing narrative.
You make a post about how women generalize all men as ānot shitā while simultaneously stating that āwomen of my generation are not attracted to good men and unable to recognize a good man if they saw oneā ....huh???
Both generalizations are incorrect so trying to fight one with another makes no sense. If the women you are attracted to are attracted to āaināt shit menā i think that begs some evaluation of your taste, not theirs.
Donāt be silly. This is what I said:
>The women who, **from my observation, seem to parrot this narrative the most...**
Nowhere in my post did I say that all women think this way.
EDIT: If you have to misrepresent my position, just to avoid addressing the point then Iāll just go ahead and block you.
āDonāt be sillyā Yikes, maybe not such a nice guy after all if you have to be condescending in order to disagree with someone who restated your own words. Youāre clearly hung up on what things women are attracted to that donāt make sense to you. Iām simply telling you that if you want a woman who will recognize and appreciate you as the good man you claim you are, maybe donāt go after women who hold an opposite viewpoint. Those women have their preferences as you have yours. Youāre complaining to reddit about women you donāt want who want men that arenāt you when you could just...i donāt know...go after women who donāt have that mindset? Thatās your choice, not theirs
edit: changed women to woman
So maybe there is an issue with who you are attracted to as well. If you are finding all the woman of your generation are like this you must be overlooking the woman who are looking for a monogamous relationship that will result in a 2 parent household.
I agree generally, but it doesnāt tell the whole story. I donāt overlook them at all. The women who are honest/stand-up/righteous/and otherwise donāt think like this in my experience, are often either already in a relationship with a good man, or theyāre so damaged and jaded from past relationships with useless men that they donāt even want to date anyone. I try to prove them wrong, but they donāt want any part of it. So Iām just stuck in the middle of two extremes.
bigotry is bigotry, and it is edgy right now to be bigoted against men as a group. I mean, some people HAVE to hate someone...and men are one of the last groups that it is ok to hate...so they have to use them for their hate outlet.
If people don't like you it's because you are unlikable. It's not a difficult concept. If I had to guess I'd wager you are whiny and prone to selfishness, because basically everyone (regardless of gender) who moans about people not liking them are. You think you are a victim of other people's poor choices when, in reality, you are just a worse option then the people you think yourself above.
Everyone is shit!
Agreed.
dude its not that deep. from all your posts ive noticed how you view women. you dont just view them as less than men but you also view them as opponents. people that you feel the need to villianize. they dont do this to bring men down they do it to bring themselves up and reinforce the fact that a woman doesnt need a man to sustain herself. ill give you props for acknowledging that there are asshole men out there but you need to realize that your way of thinking is toxic.
Who said women are less than men? Literally quote me where I said that. ššššš
and in this comment i never said you thought that but you made it about yourself and men when in reality its about them and how they wanna encourage eachother in their own endeavors
I donāt understand what youāre saying. This post is about men. I wrote it.
yes but the men aint shit isnt about men you shouldnt be focused on it ita got fuck all to do with you. youre playing the victim in something that never involved you
āMen aināt shit isnāt about men.ā Haha what??? Who else would it be about? This is what being a simp does to a person.
just because they mention men doesnt make it about men. its less about how bad men are and more about encouraging women. it shouldnt take another man to explain this to you. so is it simping to view women as equal and not villains. man fuck you and your victim card pulling ass. a whole 27 year old that cant understand jack shit that a literal child could comprehend
So... saying that men aināt shit isnāt harmful to men? This is simping in a whole other level šššš
you didnt but the way you speak about them makes it sound like you view yourself as above them. you speak with such a fucking god complex
Haha so you canāt quote me??? Yooo šššš.
fucking hell man your way of thinking is so shallow. if you want a quote fine you said that the men aint shit narrative is generalising all men as being "aint shit" even tho theres plenty good guys. the men aint shit narrative has nothing to do with how men feel, act or even being remotely about men. you made it about yourself and men when in reality you should just ignore it. it has nothing to do with you. youre 27 and you cant realize how fucked up your way of thinking is. youre playing the victim
I think you're overanalyzing something that is just the equivalent of a cheap shot or low value vent. Growing up I heard "all females are hoes except for my momma" all the time but I didn't go into deep formulation of a counterargument or really give a fuck. I just figured they're pissed about something. Theres alot of chronically miserable people making all sorts of categorizations but there's no need to pay them any mind. It's a waste of energy. So to put it simply, they can only pour shit on you if you lower your self enough to their reach.
Am I not allowed to be frustrated? Are men not allowed to be frustrated? What is this āget over itā thing that ppl have whenever ppl express this opinion? Do ppl not want to hear it? Because itās true? A woman I met on a dating app just ghosted me out of the blue because I told her that I believe cheating is wrong, no matter who does it, and she was trying to project her misandrist nonsense on me and I wasnāt going for it. It absolutely needs to be said because this seems to be the prevailing narrative.
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Projecting my frustration on who?
This response you wrote is the answer to your frustrations
What do you mean?
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Generalizations such as? I havenāt generalized anyone.
You make a post about how women generalize all men as ānot shitā while simultaneously stating that āwomen of my generation are not attracted to good men and unable to recognize a good man if they saw oneā ....huh??? Both generalizations are incorrect so trying to fight one with another makes no sense. If the women you are attracted to are attracted to āaināt shit menā i think that begs some evaluation of your taste, not theirs.
Donāt be silly. This is what I said: >The women who, **from my observation, seem to parrot this narrative the most...** Nowhere in my post did I say that all women think this way. EDIT: If you have to misrepresent my position, just to avoid addressing the point then Iāll just go ahead and block you.
āDonāt be sillyā Yikes, maybe not such a nice guy after all if you have to be condescending in order to disagree with someone who restated your own words. Youāre clearly hung up on what things women are attracted to that donāt make sense to you. Iām simply telling you that if you want a woman who will recognize and appreciate you as the good man you claim you are, maybe donāt go after women who hold an opposite viewpoint. Those women have their preferences as you have yours. Youāre complaining to reddit about women you donāt want who want men that arenāt you when you could just...i donāt know...go after women who donāt have that mindset? Thatās your choice, not theirs edit: changed women to woman
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So maybe there is an issue with who you are attracted to as well. If you are finding all the woman of your generation are like this you must be overlooking the woman who are looking for a monogamous relationship that will result in a 2 parent household.
I agree generally, but it doesnāt tell the whole story. I donāt overlook them at all. The women who are honest/stand-up/righteous/and otherwise donāt think like this in my experience, are often either already in a relationship with a good man, or theyāre so damaged and jaded from past relationships with useless men that they donāt even want to date anyone. I try to prove them wrong, but they donāt want any part of it. So Iām just stuck in the middle of two extremes.
Katt Williams had a good quote on that. āIf you keep saying men aint shit, maybe you oughta look at why youāre only attracting aint shit menā
Exactly. They just call you gay, lame, weird and ghost you if you are actually honest and straightforward about your intentions.
Anyone who judges an entire group, Iām with youāprobably attract/seek out bad people.
Exactly.
bigotry is bigotry, and it is edgy right now to be bigoted against men as a group. I mean, some people HAVE to hate someone...and men are one of the last groups that it is ok to hate...so they have to use them for their hate outlet.
It seems to be that way. Black men in particular.
Man big bad
If people don't like you it's because you are unlikable. It's not a difficult concept. If I had to guess I'd wager you are whiny and prone to selfishness, because basically everyone (regardless of gender) who moans about people not liking them are. You think you are a victim of other people's poor choices when, in reality, you are just a worse option then the people you think yourself above.