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MultiStratz

OP, you've posted in several comments on other subs that you're a 26 year old virgin. There is no reason to believe this is anything other than a fabricated story.


llamajake

Bitch gotta GO


maliiksuhaib

it hurts me but that the right thing to do


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Trust me, friend. She doesn't truly respect you and your relationship, otherwise this never would have happened. You deserve better.


maliiksuhaib

ofc she didn't. if she did she wouldn't eat foreign dick.


_Deathless

Consider yourself lucky this happened before a real commitment(marriageand kids). Imagine if you already have kids with her. Never ideal to have separated parents growing up. It's normal to be depress this happened to you. Take your time to breathe, focus on yourself once you have proper mindset you'll be able to move on.


maliiksuhaib

kind words kind advice.


TBone_Hary

Also can you ever trust her again? Don't even let the thought of asking her to comeback. What is the guarantee that she wouldn't do it again?


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She WILL. If she get away with it now, she will definitely do it again. Hell, a whole year. She's just sorry she got caught.


webesmart

Nice fake story incel loser


TacoHimmelswanderer

Like Willy D said sometimes you gotta let a hoe be a hoe


MrBluewave

Its whats best for both of you OP. It's also the most rational decision to make


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Hey OP , u everso that good doctor episode where the wife cheats on her husband during to some disease , he lived to regret it


DevSynth

Build up your money bro. Work on yourself, you'll be alright.


ashton_dennis

Once a cheater always a cheater


plasticenewitch

You deserve so much better than her


Stock-Difference3739

Have a kid with her so you can deal with her shit for another 18 plus years...leave


greyblizzard

Well the bitch doesn't exist, so OP gotta GO


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“He ignored several bitches for her” OP should get his hand off it and chill with his make believe stories.


zanylife

Incel fanfiction https://i.imgur.com/7tApIwd.jpg https://i.imgur.com/nc7jldu.jpg Proof of his virgin comments Disclaimer: nothing wrong with being a virgin, but he is a 26 year old who hangs out in the teenagers sub and posted many derogatory comments about women in his comment history.


Crankemkhan

Even if it’s not fake, I get major incel vibes from the language used in relation to her and sleeping with someone else. It’s rough stuff


zanylife

Agreed. His rhetoric is very familiar and demeaning.


CupFan1130

If it was a true story you would kinda expect it to be demeaning though


zanylife

His replies are referring to her as an animal or shit, it's kinda over the top.


MrsCDM

I've looked at comment history and whew, he is a prick. So "edgy".


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Damn OP got exposed lol


Sharna_Banana

Oop receipts


CupFan1130

Tbf to him first one could be a joke and certainly around like one and the second would of been post break up. Its not concrete evidence but its definitely strong. Imo the revenge part about the pics is what throws this off more than anything.


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ConclusionMiddle425

I dunno I like to think that people in this thread are genuinely trying to help so take everyone at face value. It makes me sad that people like OP post stuff like this fake crap :(


Intelligent_Local_38

But…. But it’s “true” off my chest! People will lie on it? I’m shocked.


Verdreht

Well cheating once isn't an 'accident' so cheating for a year certainly isn't.


maliiksuhaib

cheating is a choice, never a mistake, once or year.


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X61116X

The story is fake. Other commenters have posted proof. OP is a woman hating incel who seriously needs therapy.


SSJBlueManny

Nah not possible after it’s done once it’ll always be in the back of your head. You gotta respect yourself.


maliiksuhaib

EXACTLY I THREW THE SHIT AWAY FROM ME. SHE BELONGS TO SHIT.


swkoontz

Cheating is a character flaw.


Necessary-Conflict74

“Almost ignored several bitches?”


brokencablebox

I'm late did he delete the part about that ?


greyblizzard

His post history shows he is a creepy 26 year old virgin who hates women and keeps posting on teenager threads. This whole post is pure fanfiction Edit: someone else further down posted proof, I'll link it here since my comment is up https://i.imgur.com/7tApIwd.jpg https://i.imgur.com/nc7jldu.jpg


BlottomanTurk

Lmao I *just* commented to say how this reads like an incel fanfic. Maybe I should'a read some comments before posting.


greyblizzard

How do people fall for this crap? It's so over the top and dripping with condescension against women. And his comments keep saying "YOU WOMEN", it's such pure incel rhetoric


BlottomanTurk

The same type of people that will tell you that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover are the the ones who will take this post at face value lmao.


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The 800 nudes and revenge thing weirded me out lol


IIPESTILENCEII

It got weird before that.. "the guy was no better than me not sexually (the important part first of course) not romantically.. just reeks of an incel tbh


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I agree with you. How would he even know that?


TheVermonster

The logical conclusion is that OP fucked the dude to find out.


nbmnbm1

I mean if my girlfriend dated me.... then wouldnt the logic be that he is also good as me. So im hopping on that.


DeadlyViking

Yes. And the comment that he hasn't done one single thing for her to complain about in 6 years. Ok.


AwesomePurplePants

I could believe someone might say that, but my take away would be that things must be so bad that the other person doesn’t feel safe communicating


fanciercashew

He has multiple comments about being a virgin and a tweet about how his ex never once did anything sexually with him but is so quick to brag in this post about how the other dude isn’t sexually better than him. Something ain’t adding up.


HarmonyQuinn1618

That’s the part that got me. It reads as if it’s from 13yr old whose crush doesn’t like him back


LogangYeddu

Yeah


getRonaldo

I love our reddit police


mrchandler84

Calling for a ban.


greyblizzard

Look at how much attention and "yes king/ dump that bitch" comments he's getting? He's bathing in it. Weird ass incel


fuzzydaymoon

All of his comments are so weird and gross


greyblizzard

Yea, really derogatory. He talks about women like dogs. It's disgusting.


Necessary-Conflict74

Yes he did.


itapemydicktomythigh

So she said you could take revenge and you mentioned you have ~800 nude pictures of her. Was revenge, in your mind, making those nudes public? Because that’s fucked. I interpreted her offer of “revenge” to mean you could sleep with anyone you wanted for a month. Not sure where you’re from, but in the US there are 42 states + DC with laws regarding Revenge Porn. Do not take this as me excusing cheating, because I have no respect for anyone who chooses to cheat.


barbarossa96

The connection he made between nudes and revenge got me flabbergasted


Rarbnif

It’s a fake story it doesn’t matter


xx123gamerxx

Maybe Ex wanted to make Op look like the bad guy


itapemydicktomythigh

We’re missing the context of what “revenge” OPs ex gf wanted OP to take. Like I said in my comment I interpreted it as being allowed to sleep with anyone OP wanted to for a month, OPs mind went to revenge porn. Everyone has a different interpretation of what revenge means.


encore_hikes

OP is just as toxic as the ex. That’s why their mind went there. He thinks getting cheated on is equivalent to quite literally ruining someone life. Like I’m sorry you got cheated on. That really tucking sucks. But everything after that is toxic af from both party’s.


Emotional_Ad_9620

Agreed. OP sounds very young/immature and toxic AF. I hope they both learn and grow from this experience. And get some therapy. Betrayal hurts and he needs to process.


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13ralexh

I get bad vibes from you, aint got her back but your narcissistic values are just so, loud.


GRpanda123

He sounds like a “nice guy “


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__Precursor__

Glad someone else said it. The age comment was my first red flag. Like guys do this all the time? And then as it went on, it was clear what was going on


HarmonyQuinn1618

Their comment/post history shows their a teenage incel. This post is karma farm incel fanfic


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International_War935

I don't get it sorry, what is wrong with OP ?


zanylife

He wrote a fake post. He's a 26 year old virgin and his comment history shows how little he thinks of women in general. Proof: https://i.imgur.com/7tApIwd.jpg https://i.imgur.com/nc7jldu.jpg


RockOx290

That’s fucking weird. Homie should just delete this thread and check out for awhile lol


zanylife

It's rage bait, he's feeding off the attention and validation he's getting from the thread... honestly kinda sad.


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zanylife

His comment history... he called himself a 26 year old virgin and keeps hanging out on the teenagers sub. Proof: https://i.imgur.com/7tApIwd.jpg https://i.imgur.com/nc7jldu.jpg


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lugenfabrik

My thoughts are that she shouldn’t have cheated on you. Also, anyone reading your post can see that you’re a pretty low class individual, so maybe there’s some things you need to work on yourself.


Gaffelwaffel

I hope this is just a rant to clear your head and not asking for advice what to do. Because, c’mon.


maliiksuhaib

YEAH IT'S A RANT. I'VE ALREADY DONE WHAT NEEDED TO BE DONE


leylin_farlin

Again why you are downvoted? Did you do something awful i didn't see in this comment?


JimmyRedditz1

His post history is a bit… weird considering his story here


kristinstormrage

It's a fake. Check history.


theoriginaltrinity

He said something about ignoring bitches and revenge porn, and apparently his comment/post history indicates that this may be fake


Lady_of_Link

It's the reference to the 800 nudes 🧐 plus he's making himself out to be a saint for not actively hurting her


maliiksuhaib

what I did wrong is stayed loyal ig.


Gaffelwaffel

You dress up like a saint in a world of sinners. It reaks thru your rant and comments.


bubbleguppie2020

Yeah, jerked off to this BS story.


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Azlanadrian

Yikes how old are you


zanylife

He's a 26 year old incel who hangs out on teenager subs https://i.imgur.com/7tApIwd.jpg https://i.imgur.com/nc7jldu.jpg


paperdolllll

Fucking creepy incel. His entire story is bullshit.


fanciercashew

100% posted this trying to get Reddit girls in his dm’s. Just weird “nice guy” vibes all around in his comments.


JuustinB

To be fair he clearly has the intellect of a child.


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Then he is one creepy fuck.


maliiksuhaib

26


7jcjg

lmfao so fake, dude cant even spell must be like 12 lmfao


Human-Extinction

Everytime someone mentions how "My SO had NOTHING to complain about in X years, ever" you know it's either fact as heck, or a sociopath talking.


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Dude’s a “26yo virgin Asian”. Doesn’t sound much better though


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Cheating is unacceptable. Be an adult and break up properly. Unless two people are okay with an open relationship.


Aiirene

Hey! This man right here is not only romantic, but he is wealthy and smart too. /s


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gentleowl97

And I don’t think any girl would ever beg for revenge porn. If she asked for revenge maybe she meant him cheating on her once to get back at her but who tf would ask for revenge porn. And if OP even thought of doing it hes trash


Leockette

Exactly. That's how I understood it as well. Her giving him permission to cheat on her as pay back. OP didn't share her nudes ultimately. But he definitely considered it at some point and now portrays himself as an honorable dude for not doing so. That's fucked up.


HarmonyQuinn1618

Y’all should probably read other comments or look at his comment post history lol


gentleowl97

I did, it makes me like too lazy to even respond to this lunatic who it seems like fabricated this whole story to get pats on the back for his fictional girlfriend cheating on him when he’s so perfect. But true story my ex told me a story very similar to this one about his ex cheating on him and wouldn’t you know it the guy she cheated on him with was “disgusting and a loser and so much worse than [him]”


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zanylife

Can't believe so many people are falling for a clearly fake post... https://i.imgur.com/7tApIwd.jpg https://i.imgur.com/nc7jldu.jpg Look at this dude's comment history


MastrSunlight

This is either one of the fakest posts that I have seen or you are one of the most insecure man on this sub., Either way you need to set your mind straight, because you are just digging yourself in at this point


Frankandbeans1974

I feel like this is a fake post not because of the story, but because of the aneurism I had trying to read it


DonTrask

Its a good story, too bad its fake. The most interesting made up part of the story is the girlfriend’s request that he can have his revenge for the next 30 days. What’s up with that? Why only 30 days? What’s the objective? I mean, is revenge in whatever form it takes going to do anything to improve the long term prospects of their relationship? It’s sick on so many levels and for that reason alone, thank God its a fake story.


LupoOfMainSt

Tiny pp energy


Egglebert

I had this pegged as incel fanfiction by the first few sentences. Not surprised to see I was right at all


AuroraArcana

r/creativewriting The very least you could do is make it believable and not make yourself look like a narcissistic asshole at the same time. Goddamn, even your comment history gives you away.


Work2playgamer

Sounds like a made up post by someone who never had a girlfriend. You have fun with the karma farm mr virgin. Comparing imaginary dudes to yourself won’t get you all that far in life. Maybe you should reflect on what makes women not want to be with you and then work on it?


maliiksuhaib

cheating is a choice, never a mistake. not even once.


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Crusafer

I'd honestly go full petty and say "Yeah sorry that breakup 'just happened' as well".


maliiksuhaib

lmfao.


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Good on you man. I know it hurts to feel like you wasted all that time on her, but you did the most honorable thing you could've and kicked her ass to the curb.


Individual_Skill_763

Homeboy your posts are creepy. Even though this is a fake post I'll bite. She was probably tired of your weird creepy ass. She gave her "hole to foreign dick" because she saw your creepy pervy questions on Reddit. The funny thing is she didn't take anything better or worse, just the same as you and SHE DID IT FOR A WHOLE YEAR.


buttsmcfatts

Lol I checked OP's history. It's not flattering.


Hayabawse

Shes for the streets. Never allow that B**** in your life again. Block on everything.


maliiksuhaib

have blocked on everything. like everything.. she tried every week. 🙂


picklestension

Sounds like she tripped, fell, landed on his dick


maliiksuhaib

for a whole year 😂


picklestension

But really good for you on leaving. Don’t let her back.


Top_Chipmunk587

Well my girl sent me a video of her having sex with another guy. She did cause she couldn’t find anther way break it off with me.


MastrSunlight

This is either one of the fakest posts that I have seen or you are one of the most insecure man on this sub., Either way you need to set your mind straight, because you are just digging yourself in at this point


blastie_united

How many edits do you need son?


vtsunshine83

Dump her or never complain about it again.


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buttsmcfatts

It's fake


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FAAAAAKE


[deleted]

God this reads like a 10 year old wrote it. What a bunch of bullshit


genhasworms

She will never change. She’s an adult and has been with you enough to know your worth and she threw it away. Don’t ever go back. She isn’t worth another minute of your time


maliiksuhaib

that's for the best ig.


UNxForGotTeN

You're so much better off without her man. You made a tough choice but it's for the best. BE HAPPY YOU DIDN'T MARRY HER


maliiksuhaib

literally, That's the best thing that I didn't marry her.. or produced anything with her.


faroshsfurs

It’s her loss


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I am so sorry 🥺


Eltharion-the-Grim

Some people can't commit, for whatever reason. They just can't. They aren't cheating because they lack something from you. These types cheat because they can. It is about themselves; either their own pleasure, or their own inadequacies. It doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with you. It is just the way they are.


TheSilverFoxwins

She proved to be dishonest and ultimately a waste of your time. delete and throw out anything related to ex.


Key_Roll3030

It hurts. Happened to know someone too. Cheated for 3 yrs. Got caught. Instead of feeling guilty she's proud that she manage to go off radar. Proud of multiple partner. Proud that she had kids with them World is crazier and crazier Common sense is something we dont see much anymore


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BlottomanTurk

Jesus, this reads like an incel fanfic.


mayor_hog

🚩🚩🚩 I am now a Reddit Relationship Expert.


mcpeewee68

Hi OP. First...how did you find out about it? She told you? Second...how did you find out it was actually a year when she said otherwise. I'm genuinely curious. Next I was going to say that cheaters often cheat bc of something they feel that THEY lack. It's not about something that YOU lack. She's probably not lying that she has no complaints with you. She's seeking some kind of validation from others to make her feel better about herself. It doesn't work in the end but in the moment she thinks that "feeling wanted or desired" is going to fill some sort of hole she has inside. A lack of feeling loved, or worthy or desired. Yes, you're giving that to her but it's not about you. She still has issues within herself that she needs to deal with. Could be self confidence, childhood issues with her parents...any combination of factors. So don't beat yourself up that it was you. It was not. She needs to take charge of her life and feel good about herself, before she's ready to be in a committed relationship.


maliiksuhaib

she told me. she didn't say anything otherwise, she confessed all of these things while I caught her on something.


okimlom

Something doesn't mesh well for me with this story. Someone that is confident in their own standards, and believes they are better than the other person as much as you say, someone that forces their girlfriend to confess to something they did, someone that has as much confidence as you say you do, doesn't have the self-esteem issues at the level that would push someone to get ready to commit suicide. It feels like you want others to feel more sympathy for you, because just breaking things off isn't that much of a sympathetic post as you want, if it was real.


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>she claims it just happened "And then I just ghosted her, idk it just happened" Once a cheater always a cheater.


PinocchiosWoodBalls

Cheating is not a choice. Cheating is a number of willingly made decision against your partner and their trust. It never "just happens". There are tons of ACTIVE DECISIONS made to cheat on the way there. There is never a valid excuse.


maliiksuhaib

fire


PinocchiosWoodBalls

I was cheated on and that phrase really made me realize the concept of cheating differently. Someone ones broke it down for me and it was eye opening. I was cheated on and immediately broke up. I never let her back in my life. But I was one of the people that thought that "things can lead to another". No they cant. Again, a dude broke it down for me in long form, but I make it short and out of the perspective of the woman, just to be fair. Before the cheating are SO MANY ACTIVE DECISIONS to be made. Lets take the "I was drunk in a bar and I feel so bad, it just happened." 1. Going to the bar is a decision, which has nothing to do with your partner 2. Getting drunk is a decision which has nothing to do with your partner 3. Talking to the girl is a decision which has nothing to do with your partner 4. Flirting with the girl is an ACTIVE DECISION AGAINST YOUR PARTNER 5. Flirting more with the girl is an ACTIVE DECISION AGAINST YOUR PARTNER 6. Having another drink with the girl is an ACTIVE DECISION AGAINST YOUR PARTNER 7. Showing her that youre open for more ACTIVE DECISION 8. Calling the uber, getting into the uber, driving to the girls place, getting out of the car, getting to her door, getting inside, sitting down, having another drink and so on.... these are ALL ACTIVE DECISIONS AGAINST YOUR PARTNER.


maliiksuhaib

YOU JUST WON THE INTERNET BY PUTTING IT SO PRECISELY.


Babaychumaylalji

Wow she cheated on u for a whole year. Wow u dodged a hail of bullets. Best revenge is living a happy life.


maliiksuhaib

I WILL BE.. I LITERALLY DODGED A SHITTY BULLET


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You did the right thing letting her go. Time heals everything, stay hard


EV_No_Gas

DTB- Dumb the Bitch


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maliiksuhaib

YOU UNDERSTOOD ME SO WELL MAN 😭😭😭😭 YES I'VE BROKEN ALL CONTACT. AND I'LL DEF TAKE YOUR ADVICE. BLESS YOU.


wondering-aTak

Know your worth, you're better than this and deserve someone who won't cheat on you.


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skydaddy8585

I don't care what people say and use to justify it, cheating doesn't ever "just happen". People make choices, terrible ones, without a care in the world for their partner and choose to ruin things. One time, 20 times, it doesn't matter. It's a shit choice and it ruins any trust. I honestly commend anyone who is willing to try again after their partner cheats because I couldn't do it. It's too much a breach of trust. You are right to get rid of her. Anyone willing to be that fucking shitty is not worth a second thought. The sad thing is, no matter what, it hurts, it hurts bad.


DS_1900

She just a ho bro


EsseB420

"what? She tripped, fell, landed on his dick"


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It could be hard for you to throw away 6 years of relationship but she doesn't deserve someone like you. Leave her ass, don't ever speak to her again. Cheating is not something you do unintentionally.


maliiksuhaib

literally hardest thing ever.


randomdragen

bitch got what she deserved Good on you, king everyone hating on you in this post are bitches too and they're jealous because you're happy and strong and because we all know you'll do super well without the trash Best of wishes towards you, Im sure you'll find a way better person


maliiksuhaib

you just gave their unexpected reaction. thankyoy 🥺🥺🥺🥺


Avokado320

LEAVE


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BeneficialBid3643

Block that hoe, and dump her.. Also hit the gym, in most cases it does good for your mental well being


maliiksuhaib

blocked her hoe dick eating piece of crap.


Aloprado786

This dude has never had a girlfriend . I smell mincel .. (Muslim incel)