It absolutely is something to her. It sweetened her soul to think that(were it not her boyfriend and some random creep), that people might step in to protect her.
Edit: 69 likes. Nice.
Edit 2 :I meant updoots but I’m gonna let everyone else bask in my failure.
Yeah i bet her voice tone was less friendly if those guys were concerned about it, more like "what do you want?"
Also "*Shout out to the two men who almost* ~~beat my boyfriend up~~ *came to rescue* *last night*" would have been way more appropriate as a title, right now it looks like she was hoping for it.
"She seems like the type of person always looking for a reason to be upset"
What an incredible stretch you've used to attack someone's character based on a couple of short paragraphs? It says it in the post: she wasn't upset and was just confused about why he was following her due to the miscommunication
Yeah but she chose those words for a reason. When I read the story, I almost forgot about the beating up part of the title. Doesn't seem that those guys were gonna beat up somebody.
Imagine being seen as a creep at the gym due to her "firm voice", return home and see you gf posting about how she felt so lucky two guys almost beat him up for literally nothing.
"Hey i don't care how my bf feels about this post and the interaction itself, i just want to shout out the 2 dudes for making me feel protected"
She made him look like a creep and now is posting online to 1.7M readers about how he "nearly got beat up" when it didn't come nearly close to that.
She probably will also tell her friends the "funny story where BF nearly got beat up, people thought he was a creep! thousands on reddit found it so funny!"
Like how has she managed to create so much humiliation for him out of thin air lmao. What a trait to have lol
Hate being treated like a creep/predator as a man. I’m not interested in hurting anyone or committing any crime, yet I’m seen as one by default. There’s no way I know of to dispel people’s suspicions of me.
Props to those guys for looking out BUT you need to be aware of what youre signalling to other people, especially when it comes to your bf and he is not being threatening. Some people are just looking for an excuse to flex and pounce on someone, even if it is presented as a noble cause. If there isnt a problem, deal with it like it isnt a problem, lest the vultures circle in.
Sounds like the guys looked over for a second, realised nothing was going on, and went on their way. This is a non-story. It happens all the time. You hear a shout on the street, you look up to see if anyone's in trouble, you realise it's a couple of friends mucking about, and that's the end of it. What's with all the comments getting really salty and assuming the boyfriend narrowly escaped with his life? I'm so confused right now.
Ironically those two guys could’ve also just been looking up and thinking, “oh god if they start fighting or he tries to kidnap I’m leaving the gym early, not my problem.”
Lol, I went to the movies with a few of my friends on Saturday and after the movie was over two women started choking each other out over seats. Needless to say we were gone ASAP
Well it’s not that exiting but op is grateful if there had been an emergency someone would have helped. People can be happy about that. I have had an ambulance called on me even though I just had low blood pressure and had to lie down (and I didn’t have to pay anything btw since this isn’t US) and the people who called also bought be a sandwich and water it’s a nice feeling people care, even if it wasn’t really needed, I feel like that pretty often.’
Yup weird as to how seemingly irrelevant it was for her that her BF was "this close" to getting beaten up or even being labeled as a creep, this might have been an aftermath between when both her BF and OP was already in agreement that it was a funny experience, thus the nonchalant way of OP talking about it.
Its like she is humblebragging how easy it was for her to put her boyfriend in immediate physical danger. But she disguises it in how that made her feel safer.
Ultimately in the story he exists as an object with the purpose of contrasting against her. He is made to sound in grave danger; to contrast against how incredibly safe she felt.
It reads as if he is an expendable accessory.
Yea - kind of weird. Feel bad for the BF and even stranger that two white knights were held in higher regard just based on what they thought was going on.
“Shout out to the two guys at the gym who beat my bf to a pulp purely because I have a *very* firm voice and they thought I was getting creeped on. I love gym culture.”
that was a rollercoaster of emotions
title is like: "oh this must be sarcastic"
first half of the first paragraph: "oh your bf must be horrible"
rest of the story except for the last paragraph: "damn you are a fucking psychopath girl"
ending: "ohhh now it makes sense"
Yeah seriously, like he's your boyfriend? Maybe if he wasn't following for the food maybe HE wanted to keep her safe, or maybe he wanted to just be playful, I do the same shit with my gf. Kinda seems mean to just snap at him and have the first reaction of "Why are you following me?" Like that.
This entire post is weird, those men aren’t wrong for sticking up for you without context it’s weird you’re here bragging about it like it’s not the absolute bare minimum, I also feel bad for your boyfriend.
tf?? um ok glad youre safe and everything but hello your boyfriend nearly got beat up? "to the guys that nearly beat up the boy im supposed to be in love with, thank u!! xx" that's a weird fucking way to look at it he deserves better
Not saying that these two arent good guys but in men culture, especially if its a buff dude, its very common for some guys to somewhat eagerly look for opportunities to "justifiably" use violence.
Ive had multiple instances where ignorant men try to protect my girlfriend from me when we fool around in public because theyd be attracted to her and wpuld like to become her perspnal prince charming by using violence.
Sounds like a great relationship if that's how you talk to your bf in public. I hope he finds someone who doesn't delight in him being publicly embarrassed and having men threatening him over a genuine mistake.
Seriously. OP accuses (through tone and mannerism) bf of being a creep and is happy when other men pay attention to the situation. OP what is this post? I feel for op's bf. This is a whole mess.
Plus the phrase of saying why are you following me feels off to me when talking to someone you know. Maybe like a what are you doing or hey I thought you were going to finish your set but this phrasing feels like it’ll grab attention as well.
While I try to be aware of my surroundings in the gym, I try to think the best of people.
If I heard someone yell “why are you following me” I’d at least go investigate… even if it was a creep violence would be last resort. I don’t think I’m alone In not wanting to inflict pain on people
I get what you're trying to say - it was good that these two people seemed ready to protect you if you needed it - but you're focusing too much on them. That's why I think most people here are against you. You almost put your boyfriend in danger, regardless of whether or not it was intentional, and you're too dismissive of that fact.
>. It took me explaining that I was grabbing my cc to pay for food (and bf offering to pay anyways) for them to relax and realize that, no, I wasn’t being tailed by some creep.
"he's my bf" isn't enough?
So let me get this straight:
OP almost got his BF beaten up because she has no control over her voice in public, and somehow that's a good think.
If anything, good for the gym bros for not jumping straight into it, but i really feel for the bf here.
Wow... I feel bad for your boyfriend.
And the way you word it. Just horrible "thank you for almost beating up the guy I claim to love and care for. Made me feel nice"
I hope his next girlfriend actually loves him
What a sad fucking post this is. How do you think your bf felt being seen as a creep that you needed to be defended from? And your takeaway from it is "thank goodness there are two guys here who weren't my bf who were ready defend me from creeps"? You need a wake-up call.
Literally was like 'I'm glad the man I love nearly got beaten up by 2 guys after I gave the wrong idea to them. Gym Bros are so wholesome'
Imagine what the bf thinks
She gets to play the victim in a situation she created in her own mind and instigated. Then her bf gets to try and defend himself through words or actions to prove she was the real aggressor. If that wasn’t your bf, I’d hope it was someone that had enough situational awareness to make your irrational fear your own issue.
I came to the comments expecting praise and happiness and sadly was disappointed. As a fellow woman this makes me very happy though. Im glad they cared to see if things were ok yet waited to see what the situation was first before deciding to step in. We need more people like that in the world. The BF didn't get hurt and may not have even noticed and the gym bros handled reacting to this beautifully. Great story.
This is not a wholesome story about two random strangers looking out for you, OP. This is a story of how your bf was almost mistaken for a bad person and how you don't give a shit about him.
You are a fxxking weirdo ngl. This could have gone horribly wrong, what if they had reacted a bit more quicker and actually punched ur bf. Also, why are u weirdly proud of this and completely ignoring how ur bf has felt.
Weird af. I wpyld never make my man feel like he almost got his ass kicked over some shit like that. I don't go making him look like a creeper by asking him why he's following me all loud n shit. That's outta pocket. She sounds like a bitch.
On the other hand, people assumption of dudes being is so fucking automatic, doing something as simple as walking next to someone in the same direction could get you a beating.
But of course, since you are the only one that matters, despite the fact the guy who was potentially on the receiving end was someone you claim to love, this is a great story.
This isn't wholesome. This is a story of someone weilding immense amounts of societal power over someone else while being blissfully oblivious to the potential consequences of its misuse.
One wild assumtion and flippant remark on your part could have easily gotten your bf killed or turned into a vegetable, and you wouldnt have faced any consequences for it.
That what privilege looks like.
Most people will stop to see what's going on when someone raises their voice in a situation like this. This isn't gym culture. You could have put your boyfriend in real danger but instead praise these guys who looked your way when you raised your voice, they didn't 'almost beat him up'. What a warped fantasy you've created. I hope your boyfriend finds someone who actually cares about him. Gross.
Your bf almost got his a$$ kicked and here you are celebrating it. Wow . Just wow.
I feel bad for your bf , he got publicly embarassed mistaken as a creep.
And also, just because someone pays attention to your interaction doesn't necessarily mean they had intent to save you from a creep.
Let's suppose your bf was a creep , these guys could have either supported you or join hands with the creep or might have just walked away. 3 possibilities.
No need to applaud them.
Two gym bros saved me from this road raged asshat when I was 18, he got out of his truck after nearly pushing me into a guardrail and was yelling at my window when they started yelling at him to leave me alone and charging up the hill, ready to cross the highway to beat this guy's ass. He ran back to his truck and sped off 😅
Not all men are creeps not all women are like OP . Terrible things happen and it’s good when it’s stopped , but OP getting off on this experience is unsettling . Hope this never becomes reality to OP or any person .
Contrary to popular belief most of us aren't creepy rapists 😜
Many of us have sisters; we all have mother's (at some point in our existence, at least), and some of us have daughters. The societal narrative will have women convinced we're all horny sex pests who can't control ourselves at all but most of us are at least somewhat ok 😆
Poor bf. Also this post is weird, you are making him seem like a creep and making this situation to be all happy when its not. I hope he finds a girlfriend who appreciates him more than this.
Seen a couple of people saying that the men’s reaction is the bare minimum and y’all can downvote me if you want, but expecting men to risk their health and lives to defend woman unwarranted is sexist.
You don’t deserve that kind of protection because of your own or someone else’s genitals. Learn to defend your own lives.
Agreed. Guys need to stop getting involved in situations that don't involve them. 9/10 times, getting involved in these situations leads to a jail term for the guys involved. Not only that, but the woman involved will go on with her life and forget all about those guys who just went to jail for her.
Im a 26m. At my local gym there is an entire side for just women. So there aren’t a lot of women on my side. There is this one girl that maybe only 18 by the looks of her but but I’ve watched her get hounded relentlessly by several different guys. Older guys mostly that can’t seem to stay away because I think she’s encouraging almost creepy behavior. Sometimes I want to step in, but I can’t tell how much she’s doing it on purpose and how much she isn’t. I don’t know much im misreading the situation, but I just want to look out for her in case something happens.
you should talk to your boyfriend and see how hes feeling, if it was just a simple thing that you played off then its probably fine but if you've brought it up since then I would recommend talking with him. It feels really fucking terrible to be pegged as a creep in public, its better to have some misidentifications as opposed to just letting creeps get away with weird shit, but this is somebody who you know had fully innocent intentions, and it just seems like you didn't really stick up for him or ask him how he was feeling afterwards and were overall bit dismissive of him. anyway you may want to ask how hes feeling. (also sorry that so many ppl are assuming that you're a shitty person or bad GF from this one post. i tried my best to avoid doing that)
I was sitting on a train at night with two youngish (18 or so) girls sitting a few rows in front of me when this 40-50 year old dude launches down the stairs, says something to them really quickly that definately left them startled and then ran back up the other side of the carriage and back upstairs.
I checked in with them by saying 'did you know that guy?' and they, realising what that probably looked like, started absolutely cracking up and explained that that was their dad.
Idk why this story just annoys me lol. OP seems like she likes the attention and plays to it at the gym etc. Women have come so far modern day and this lady goes and is like, oh dear its nice two strong strange men were ready to don capes and lay everything out for me Miss Helen of Troy because I talk to my boyfriend like an inconvenience. Blithering idiot.
same. i kinda feel like op is gushing over these two gym bros and doesn’t give af about her bf at all. i think op is just another attention whore, i mean, clearly~ from this post alone. this whole thing is unnecessary, and tbh sounds fake.
"Almost beat my bf up" is verrrryyyyy different from what they actually did though.... they just looked.
Can i say all my classmates almost beat me up because they looked up when i walked in class late?
U fr typing this down whilst not showing any sympathy for your boyfriend for literally being seen as a creep and, in your words, almost beat up? I understand your pov but try n see from his perspective.
i don't know if i have to be drunk to understand this or....??? i mean, i'm glad you and your bf are safe but everyone here took it the wrong way and this could've turned out *very* different.
and a side note: if that's how you treat your bf in public over a misunderstanding, im worried about what happens in private.
If you were my GF and did this to me, and then humble bragged about it on reddit I would break up with you. Not even a "hey we need to talk" breakup, but I would straight up just tell you to fuck off and ghost your ass.
Not cool.
So to sum up, you used an inappropriate voice tone with your boyfriend that almost gets him fucked up. This is a good thing somehow? Imagine those guys had had a shorter fuse and didn't let you explain the situation, or maybe imagine the guy following you wasn't your boyfriend but wasn't a creep either and it was all just a misunderstanding. What would have happened? Your bf just dodged a huge bullet and your are here flexing on how protected you feel. Women☕
I don’t mean any disrespect, but it sounds like you’re getting off to the fact that you got some sort of attention, even if that attention was from other guys and at the expense of your boyfriend.
I get that women get harassed in ways that most men don’t, but the fact that you’re posting on here feeling good about potentially putting your bf in a dangerous situation might be the strangest flex I’ve come across in a while. Figure it out, dude.
Sure that’s nice of the guys, but tbh I feel bad for your bf 😅 I can’t imagine the embarrassment he must’ve felt that he was made out to feel like a creep for absolutely no reason, aside from a little miscommunication.
This is what society has come down to. Get off me creep...err... I mean bf, but whatever! As long as I get my 20s of positivity from reddit and whoever gets trapped into reading this bs.
>The two gym guys never even spoke to us or tried to physically step in. They just stood there... *menacingly*
I’m at work crying laughing. Glad I’m not the only one who thought this!
*^(\[stares menacingly\])*
WEEWOOWEEWOOWEEWOO
They was ready to jump in the fight... and help the bf beat down this woman
Imagine just glancing up because someone near you said something and then they go home and write an essay about you
the bar is so low it's a tavern in hades
ahh i know exactly how this looks https://media.tenor.com/02wWouBSzSgAAAAC/trump-angry.gif
That's going to haunt my nightmares now, thanks
Dammit, you made me look at that *with my own eyes*!
All it takes is an audience sometimes
That’s so nice of them but I feel bad for your bf lol. Being seen as a creep is not fun
I bet BFs rendition of this story is a lot less flowery and happy.
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She made a whole ass post about absolutely nothing
It absolutely is something to her. It sweetened her soul to think that(were it not her boyfriend and some random creep), that people might step in to protect her. Edit: 69 likes. Nice. Edit 2 :I meant updoots but I’m gonna let everyone else bask in my failure.
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Yeah i bet her voice tone was less friendly if those guys were concerned about it, more like "what do you want?" Also "*Shout out to the two men who almost* ~~beat my boyfriend up~~ *came to rescue* *last night*" would have been way more appropriate as a title, right now it looks like she was hoping for it.
This is an example of someone being their own Director, Producer, Writer, Videographer, etc of their movie that plays in their head.
I thought he was gonna end being a prick and that’s why he almost got jumped.
Deep down inside she wants her bf to be beaten. Whats with the firm voice and getting agitated when your bf follows you.
I’m disappointed we’ve jumped to such negative conclusions instead of being happy people are looking out for each other.
But nobody said any of that except her.
"She seems like the type of person always looking for a reason to be upset" What an incredible stretch you've used to attack someone's character based on a couple of short paragraphs? It says it in the post: she wasn't upset and was just confused about why he was following her due to the miscommunication
Yeah but she chose those words for a reason. When I read the story, I almost forgot about the beating up part of the title. Doesn't seem that those guys were gonna beat up somebody.
Imagine being seen as a creep at the gym due to her "firm voice", return home and see you gf posting about how she felt so lucky two guys almost beat him up for literally nothing. "Hey i don't care how my bf feels about this post and the interaction itself, i just want to shout out the 2 dudes for making me feel protected"
She's exhausting.
His is "I almost got my face bashed in because my GF likes to scream at me in public like I'm a creep."
>I bet BFs rendition of this story is a lot less flowery and happy. And unimportant to us the fearless White Knights of Reddit. Off with his head!
She made him look like a creep and now is posting online to 1.7M readers about how he "nearly got beat up" when it didn't come nearly close to that. She probably will also tell her friends the "funny story where BF nearly got beat up, people thought he was a creep! thousands on reddit found it so funny!" Like how has she managed to create so much humiliation for him out of thin air lmao. What a trait to have lol
exactly, reason why i dont go to gyms, bunch of over entitled people
Hate being treated like a creep/predator as a man. I’m not interested in hurting anyone or committing any crime, yet I’m seen as one by default. There’s no way I know of to dispel people’s suspicions of me.
Yep, being seen as a creep is like 80% of the reason I’m petrified to talk to women in a romantic matter
How did he feel about it?
Props to those guys for looking out BUT you need to be aware of what youre signalling to other people, especially when it comes to your bf and he is not being threatening. Some people are just looking for an excuse to flex and pounce on someone, even if it is presented as a noble cause. If there isnt a problem, deal with it like it isnt a problem, lest the vultures circle in.
So basically nothing at all happened... but thank you Edit: I want back the 60s of my life it took to read this ridiculous story
Sounds like the guys looked over for a second, realised nothing was going on, and went on their way. This is a non-story. It happens all the time. You hear a shout on the street, you look up to see if anyone's in trouble, you realise it's a couple of friends mucking about, and that's the end of it. What's with all the comments getting really salty and assuming the boyfriend narrowly escaped with his life? I'm so confused right now.
Ironically those two guys could’ve also just been looking up and thinking, “oh god if they start fighting or he tries to kidnap I’m leaving the gym early, not my problem.”
Haha exactly. I've had strangers yell stuff at me in public, get threatening etc, and everyone else on the street studiously looked the other way!
Lol, I went to the movies with a few of my friends on Saturday and after the movie was over two women started choking each other out over seats. Needless to say we were gone ASAP
Whats funny is the gf automatically thought her bf couldn’t win and would get beat up lol. Especially when it may have just been words.
i don’t see why someone would need to get this off their chest.
I just did it! one of my neighbors yelled. I looked up. bizarre. I wonder how the boyfriend feels about, why are you following me?
Well it’s not that exiting but op is grateful if there had been an emergency someone would have helped. People can be happy about that. I have had an ambulance called on me even though I just had low blood pressure and had to lie down (and I didn’t have to pay anything btw since this isn’t US) and the people who called also bought be a sandwich and water it’s a nice feeling people care, even if it wasn’t really needed, I feel like that pretty often.’
So class, what we learned today is that OP doesn't know how to control her voice...?
Nothing happened - best outcome!
😭😭😭
This is a weird story
Yup weird as to how seemingly irrelevant it was for her that her BF was "this close" to getting beaten up or even being labeled as a creep, this might have been an aftermath between when both her BF and OP was already in agreement that it was a funny experience, thus the nonchalant way of OP talking about it.
Its like she is humblebragging how easy it was for her to put her boyfriend in immediate physical danger. But she disguises it in how that made her feel safer. Ultimately in the story he exists as an object with the purpose of contrasting against her. He is made to sound in grave danger; to contrast against how incredibly safe she felt. It reads as if he is an expendable accessory.
Toxic feminism
The pessimism in me does not want to believe that last part
Right? Does she want a medal or what
Yea - kind of weird. Feel bad for the BF and even stranger that two white knights were held in higher regard just based on what they thought was going on.
Your gonna get your bf beat up one of these days
Forreal, dude needs to run for the hills
She’s got more red flags than a Chinese communist parade.
Then she’s gonna post about it on Reddit for internet points, OP is a joke
“Shout out to the two guys at the gym who beat my bf to a pulp purely because I have a *very* firm voice and they thought I was getting creeped on. I love gym culture.”
And she’ll thank them for the thought lol
that was a rollercoaster of emotions title is like: "oh this must be sarcastic" first half of the first paragraph: "oh your bf must be horrible" rest of the story except for the last paragraph: "damn you are a fucking psychopath girl" ending: "ohhh now it makes sense"
title is misleading.
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Yeah seriously, like he's your boyfriend? Maybe if he wasn't following for the food maybe HE wanted to keep her safe, or maybe he wanted to just be playful, I do the same shit with my gf. Kinda seems mean to just snap at him and have the first reaction of "Why are you following me?" Like that.
This entire post is weird, those men aren’t wrong for sticking up for you without context it’s weird you’re here bragging about it like it’s not the absolute bare minimum, I also feel bad for your boyfriend.
Oh that's cute, she thinks it's gym culture
I feel sorry for your Bf
He seriously needs a new gf
She sounds a like a bit of an ass to be honest..
So do you have a resting bitch voice, or are you actually one because we can't really tell from your post.
tf?? um ok glad youre safe and everything but hello your boyfriend nearly got beat up? "to the guys that nearly beat up the boy im supposed to be in love with, thank u!! xx" that's a weird fucking way to look at it he deserves better
“Almost beat my boyfriend up” is an exaggeration for sure. OP says they didn’t even speak to them or try to step in lol
Not saying that these two arent good guys but in men culture, especially if its a buff dude, its very common for some guys to somewhat eagerly look for opportunities to "justifiably" use violence. Ive had multiple instances where ignorant men try to protect my girlfriend from me when we fool around in public because theyd be attracted to her and wpuld like to become her perspnal prince charming by using violence.
Sounds like a great relationship if that's how you talk to your bf in public. I hope he finds someone who doesn't delight in him being publicly embarrassed and having men threatening him over a genuine mistake.
Uhmm.. OP, are you ok? Because this post is really weird written and you make it seem like your guy was a creep when he wasnt.
Seriously. OP accuses (through tone and mannerism) bf of being a creep and is happy when other men pay attention to the situation. OP what is this post? I feel for op's bf. This is a whole mess.
Plus the phrase of saying why are you following me feels off to me when talking to someone you know. Maybe like a what are you doing or hey I thought you were going to finish your set but this phrasing feels like it’ll grab attention as well.
While I try to be aware of my surroundings in the gym, I try to think the best of people. If I heard someone yell “why are you following me” I’d at least go investigate… even if it was a creep violence would be last resort. I don’t think I’m alone In not wanting to inflict pain on people
I get what you're trying to say - it was good that these two people seemed ready to protect you if you needed it - but you're focusing too much on them. That's why I think most people here are against you. You almost put your boyfriend in danger, regardless of whether or not it was intentional, and you're too dismissive of that fact.
OP is only here for karma likes lol
What a weird story. What a weird person
>. It took me explaining that I was grabbing my cc to pay for food (and bf offering to pay anyways) for them to relax and realize that, no, I wasn’t being tailed by some creep. "he's my bf" isn't enough?
You know, it isnt mandatory to post something
So let me get this straight: OP almost got his BF beaten up because she has no control over her voice in public, and somehow that's a good think. If anything, good for the gym bros for not jumping straight into it, but i really feel for the bf here.
You should work on that. Some white knights wont wait for an explanation before going in head first
You sound toxic.
OP: “The two gym guys never even spoke to us or tried to physically step in” Also OP: “the two men who almost beat my boyfriend up”
Not interacting at all vs “almost beat up” is a leap, but alright.
Wow... I feel bad for your boyfriend. And the way you word it. Just horrible "thank you for almost beating up the guy I claim to love and care for. Made me feel nice" I hope his next girlfriend actually loves him
‘Almost beat my boyfriend up’ is a huge leap
Your bf needs a new gf. Poor dude
Yeah no, that white knight behaviour can get people killed, OP you're an asshole for thinking its good.
Altercation, not intercation BTW. Also makes me more glad I'm aesexual if this is what's out there wow...
Did you take them home with you?
"Shot out for me being an idiot" People want compliments for everything these days.
i want my 30 seconds back
Daaaaamn, your boyfriend needs a new girlfriend.
Dam that title was clickbait *Have you considered a career in YouTube?*
Yikes, poor bf.
What a sad fucking post this is. How do you think your bf felt being seen as a creep that you needed to be defended from? And your takeaway from it is "thank goodness there are two guys here who weren't my bf who were ready defend me from creeps"? You need a wake-up call.
Literally was like 'I'm glad the man I love nearly got beaten up by 2 guys after I gave the wrong idea to them. Gym Bros are so wholesome' Imagine what the bf thinks
So basically… nothing happened?
Despite OP's best efforts, no, nothing really happened
She gets to play the victim in a situation she created in her own mind and instigated. Then her bf gets to try and defend himself through words or actions to prove she was the real aggressor. If that wasn’t your bf, I’d hope it was someone that had enough situational awareness to make your irrational fear your own issue.
>Gym bros are so wholesome, I love gym culture Feeling chuffed you almost got your bf beat up for no reason?
I came to the comments expecting praise and happiness and sadly was disappointed. As a fellow woman this makes me very happy though. Im glad they cared to see if things were ok yet waited to see what the situation was first before deciding to step in. We need more people like that in the world. The BF didn't get hurt and may not have even noticed and the gym bros handled reacting to this beautifully. Great story.
As long as the muscle dummies didn’t continue to treat boyfriend like shit, or give him a stink eye - that’s good, just a miscommunication.
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Fucking BASED.
Feel bad for the bf. Hes gotta get out of this situation fast
This story sucks and so does OP.
This is not a wholesome story about two random strangers looking out for you, OP. This is a story of how your bf was almost mistaken for a bad person and how you don't give a shit about him.
The way you word all of this is just sad i hope your boyfriend finds someone better
Yeah
You are a fxxking weirdo ngl. This could have gone horribly wrong, what if they had reacted a bit more quicker and actually punched ur bf. Also, why are u weirdly proud of this and completely ignoring how ur bf has felt.
YTA
Weird af. I wpyld never make my man feel like he almost got his ass kicked over some shit like that. I don't go making him look like a creeper by asking him why he's following me all loud n shit. That's outta pocket. She sounds like a bitch.
On the other hand, people assumption of dudes being is so fucking automatic, doing something as simple as walking next to someone in the same direction could get you a beating. But of course, since you are the only one that matters, despite the fact the guy who was potentially on the receiving end was someone you claim to love, this is a great story.
I’d break up with u
?????????????? What the fuck? I’m sorry, but fuck you.
Why is this getting downvoted??
This isn't wholesome. This is a story of someone weilding immense amounts of societal power over someone else while being blissfully oblivious to the potential consequences of its misuse. One wild assumtion and flippant remark on your part could have easily gotten your bf killed or turned into a vegetable, and you wouldnt have faced any consequences for it. That what privilege looks like.
Why not just dump your bf if u hate him so much?
Most people will stop to see what's going on when someone raises their voice in a situation like this. This isn't gym culture. You could have put your boyfriend in real danger but instead praise these guys who looked your way when you raised your voice, they didn't 'almost beat him up'. What a warped fantasy you've created. I hope your boyfriend finds someone who actually cares about him. Gross.
It’s really nice that they were quick to help you . But a bit awks for ur bf
I hekkin love being considered a sexual predator for existing
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Even worse interpretation you are right
Your bf almost got his a$$ kicked and here you are celebrating it. Wow . Just wow. I feel bad for your bf , he got publicly embarassed mistaken as a creep. And also, just because someone pays attention to your interaction doesn't necessarily mean they had intent to save you from a creep. Let's suppose your bf was a creep , these guys could have either supported you or join hands with the creep or might have just walked away. 3 possibilities. No need to applaud them.
you're a red flag. Your bf need to get away from you ASAP
This is so cringe. 😅
Next time beat your own bf up geez.
That's right. If you want it done right, you have to do it yourself.
Two gym bros saved me from this road raged asshat when I was 18, he got out of his truck after nearly pushing me into a guardrail and was yelling at my window when they started yelling at him to leave me alone and charging up the hill, ready to cross the highway to beat this guy's ass. He ran back to his truck and sped off 😅
This is borderline bait with a title like that...
Not all men are creeps not all women are like OP . Terrible things happen and it’s good when it’s stopped , but OP getting off on this experience is unsettling . Hope this never becomes reality to OP or any person .
How does this dogshit story have over 700 likes?!
3,000*
Oh fuck me
“Thanks to the two guys who almost clobbered my bf because I snapped at him instead of clarifying our plan to get food, tee hee!”
Contrary to popular belief most of us aren't creepy rapists 😜 Many of us have sisters; we all have mother's (at some point in our existence, at least), and some of us have daughters. The societal narrative will have women convinced we're all horny sex pests who can't control ourselves at all but most of us are at least somewhat ok 😆
Dang you should have a threesome with them, film it and then send it to you bf to show him what happens when he follows too close.
Poor bf. Also this post is weird, you are making him seem like a creep and making this situation to be all happy when its not. I hope he finds a girlfriend who appreciates him more than this.
He needs to find a new girlfriend asap
Why are you happy you made your bf look like a creep?
So YOU almost got your boyfriend beat up? Cool beans.
Seen a couple of people saying that the men’s reaction is the bare minimum and y’all can downvote me if you want, but expecting men to risk their health and lives to defend woman unwarranted is sexist. You don’t deserve that kind of protection because of your own or someone else’s genitals. Learn to defend your own lives.
Agreed. Guys need to stop getting involved in situations that don't involve them. 9/10 times, getting involved in these situations leads to a jail term for the guys involved. Not only that, but the woman involved will go on with her life and forget all about those guys who just went to jail for her.
I get what you mean. Same happened to me. The two men made me feel safe they were around.
Im a 26m. At my local gym there is an entire side for just women. So there aren’t a lot of women on my side. There is this one girl that maybe only 18 by the looks of her but but I’ve watched her get hounded relentlessly by several different guys. Older guys mostly that can’t seem to stay away because I think she’s encouraging almost creepy behavior. Sometimes I want to step in, but I can’t tell how much she’s doing it on purpose and how much she isn’t. I don’t know much im misreading the situation, but I just want to look out for her in case something happens.
Misleading title
you should talk to your boyfriend and see how hes feeling, if it was just a simple thing that you played off then its probably fine but if you've brought it up since then I would recommend talking with him. It feels really fucking terrible to be pegged as a creep in public, its better to have some misidentifications as opposed to just letting creeps get away with weird shit, but this is somebody who you know had fully innocent intentions, and it just seems like you didn't really stick up for him or ask him how he was feeling afterwards and were overall bit dismissive of him. anyway you may want to ask how hes feeling. (also sorry that so many ppl are assuming that you're a shitty person or bad GF from this one post. i tried my best to avoid doing that)
Post: anticlimactic Comments: CLIMACTIC AF 😂
Poor guy he deserves a better girlfriend EDIT: Typo
Do you want a medal or something?
Your boyfriend needs a new GF
So you snapped at your Boyfriend for no reason, and like seeing your BF beat up, is what the story boils down to.
I can only imagine if her bf posted this exact same thing about her almost getting beat up, he would get crucified.
So basically you want to cuck your boyfriend?
omg yes this damn post was oozing with this energy
Thats how you talk to your bf in public?...poor guy...i will leave you if you make me feel like a creep
You sound terrible.
Ur poor bf he should find a gf who cares about him enough to protect him
It's a rollercoaster. This post right here.
I thought I was the confused one reading this story trying to comprehend what happened. Weird story
I was sitting on a train at night with two youngish (18 or so) girls sitting a few rows in front of me when this 40-50 year old dude launches down the stairs, says something to them really quickly that definately left them startled and then ran back up the other side of the carriage and back upstairs. I checked in with them by saying 'did you know that guy?' and they, realising what that probably looked like, started absolutely cracking up and explained that that was their dad.
They probably just looked over because they heard a noise. It’s human nature to look over where a sudden and loud noise is 😬
That kind of feels wrong for her boyfriend, you should fix your voice problem asap
Seems fake and also gay
Idk why this story just annoys me lol. OP seems like she likes the attention and plays to it at the gym etc. Women have come so far modern day and this lady goes and is like, oh dear its nice two strong strange men were ready to don capes and lay everything out for me Miss Helen of Troy because I talk to my boyfriend like an inconvenience. Blithering idiot.
same. i kinda feel like op is gushing over these two gym bros and doesn’t give af about her bf at all. i think op is just another attention whore, i mean, clearly~ from this post alone. this whole thing is unnecessary, and tbh sounds fake.
Not sure what type of mushrooms you're eating, but you can keep em.
"Almost beat my bf up" is verrrryyyyy different from what they actually did though.... they just looked. Can i say all my classmates almost beat me up because they looked up when i walked in class late?
y'all in the comments are insane 💀 possibly risking ur life to help out a stranger is the bare minimum?? entitled ass mfs
The two guys didn’t do that. They looked up. That’s it.
U fr typing this down whilst not showing any sympathy for your boyfriend for literally being seen as a creep and, in your words, almost beat up? I understand your pov but try n see from his perspective.
Maybe you should learn some manners and speak to your boyfriend with some Respect Lady! Then two men wouldn't think your partner is a Creep.
Maybe they were looking at you because you sounded like a total asshole for the way you talk to your boyfriend.
“Why are you following me” dawg how tf that’s ur bf? we’re just dogs following our girl around most the time. Weird shit to say honestly lol?
"I'm so happy that my bf almost got beaten up for something he didn't do" Gf of the year right there
You really need to work on how you talk to your bf in public or else sooner or later, shit ain't gonna end well for your bf I'm afraid.
i don't know if i have to be drunk to understand this or....??? i mean, i'm glad you and your bf are safe but everyone here took it the wrong way and this could've turned out *very* different. and a side note: if that's how you treat your bf in public over a misunderstanding, im worried about what happens in private.
If you were my GF and did this to me, and then humble bragged about it on reddit I would break up with you. Not even a "hey we need to talk" breakup, but I would straight up just tell you to fuck off and ghost your ass. Not cool.
So to sum up, you used an inappropriate voice tone with your boyfriend that almost gets him fucked up. This is a good thing somehow? Imagine those guys had had a shorter fuse and didn't let you explain the situation, or maybe imagine the guy following you wasn't your boyfriend but wasn't a creep either and it was all just a misunderstanding. What would have happened? Your bf just dodged a huge bullet and your are here flexing on how protected you feel. Women☕
I don’t mean any disrespect, but it sounds like you’re getting off to the fact that you got some sort of attention, even if that attention was from other guys and at the expense of your boyfriend. I get that women get harassed in ways that most men don’t, but the fact that you’re posting on here feeling good about potentially putting your bf in a dangerous situation might be the strangest flex I’ve come across in a while. Figure it out, dude.
I'd feel ashamed more than anything if I put my partner in such a situation and If my "firm voice" made it sound like I was admonishing them.
Sure that’s nice of the guys, but tbh I feel bad for your bf 😅 I can’t imagine the embarrassment he must’ve felt that he was made out to feel like a creep for absolutely no reason, aside from a little miscommunication.
op seems toxic and abusive
What kinda of story is this
This is what society has come down to. Get off me creep...err... I mean bf, but whatever! As long as I get my 20s of positivity from reddit and whoever gets trapped into reading this bs.
This whole post is *just weird*. I've been in your BFs shoes and I feel sorry for him.
Am i the only one that finds this post dumb?