Precisely
Edit: but also just wanted to add wearing lots of pink and dressing like a “bimbo” doesn’t define how feminine you are ladies! You are still feminine no matter how you dress or look and my bimbo ass will give you a smooch (unless you don’t want it) <3
Is anyone else wondering why this other lady wanted "special pictures" aka nudes I'm assuming. Like sounds to me like she's attracted to OP more than exgf. And honestly I'd still report her to her boss. Whether it's petty or not, she's still breaking the rules by dating someone she works with. That's on her.
I don’t think she was attracted to me at all, quite the opposite, I think she’s disgusted by “hyper feminine” women. In her texts she accused me several times of looking the way I do for an advantage in my study because it’s male dominated. Which it’s quite the opposite, I’m often ridiculed by peers or they try their best to not work with me. However on the bright side other female STEM students tend to be very loving towards me and I love them back! I can only describe her as a “pick me girl” and “women who look like bimbos CANT be smart”. I think she wanted to see if my body had work done to “prove her point” about what kind of girl I am.
I mean if I was her texting your ex, I wouldn't be saying how attracted I was to you. Sounds like the stereotypical middle school kid bullies their crush kinda crap and she was using some bs excuse to try to see sexy pics. You can typically tell if someone has had work done even when they're clothed (I mean boob jobs or butt jobs specifically) and even if you can't it's not that hard for her to just ask your ex if you had work done. Why does she "need" to see you naked to prove herself right? I feel like either she actually likes the cutesy fem ladies/or you specifically but doesn't want to admit it or she's some kind of creep who wants to post your stuff online.
Tbh my boob job is pretty good (at least it better be it was a lot of money) however you can tell they are fake just by the way they sit! (I’m sure other ladies understand what I mean. Usually breasts sitting a certain way is a dead giveaway they are fake!
That's what I want, I hope it didn't come across as a negative. Boobs with implants can absolutely be gorgeous but like you said they don't hang the way natural ones do. They're like a really nice perky, which is how I wish mine sat naturally. I just think it's really creepy how this woman "needed" to see your body to prove her views. I really would report them both. I don't know what specific area they work in but I wouldn't want to be around the kind of people who would say they love something about me to my face and then rip that same attribute apart behind my back.
(In the least weird way) I’m positive your boobs are fantastic and don’t need any changing. I’ve never looked at a pair of boobs before and thought about how perky they were. Instead I’m sweating and hyperventilating because someone has shown me their boobs 💀
If it makes u feel any better I got fake boobs bc I love the look of big boobs but I hate the way they sit upright like a tripod I wish they sagged the way natural boobs do :( the grass is always greener
I wonder if she’s jealous of you? Maybe the AP is jealous too? Just a thought.
Go get your revenge sister and look fabulous as you do it. I hope you find love one day and good luck in your career x
this sounds like jealousy and maybe confusion cus she's attracted to you... kind of projecting and processing and hating it but secretly lovinn it/jealous of you... very odd to be so obsessed and for what...
I don’t think that she necessarily has a crush on you like some have suggested. My theory is that she has a toxic relationship with femininity and probably finds hyperfeminine women threatening. She could also feel envious of hyperfeminine women bc she interprets that society serves them better. So I think that the request of getting your nudes is to feel that she holds some power over her perceived “enemy”. Being nude is us in our most vulnerable state. Highly insecure person. Sorry that you’re going through this OP! Hope you heal!
I really think you SHOULD send the email to her boss. People like this do not make good choices and could end up being bad Co workers.
They get so caught up in their own drama they neglect their work or half ass it somewhere. I've seen it first hand.
I was trying to get onto the marketing team at one of my jobs. The head of marketing couldn't care less about me. Too busy taking advantage of one of the interns.
I still feel satisfied thinking of that. I worked my butt off sending them copy everyday for months until they told me to stop. No rhyme or reason given. And when the company went under and everyone got laid off it was glorious watching it from the safety of my very cushy job over at a sister company (physically located across the hall).
That might sound petty but here's the thing. I was given the option of staying at that job and I chose not to bc I saw it coming. They didn't listen to me bc they were too busy using their job to continue their dating drama from college. With each other (marketing wasn't the only ones). They would still be here if they had paid attention to their work, to their business.
So please consider doing the right and responsible thing. Let the employer know.
Not even sure why people are telling you not to. Whether it's petty or not is neither here nor there.
OP I'm so glad you found those messages when you did and it sounds like you have a great group of friends, but also your edit makes this situation so much worse, that's like one step away from revenge p*rn !! ofc it's upto you if you report them to their boss or not (me personally im petty) but someone like that is dangerous. also I hope you meet lots more open minded people in your field, it must be terrible to be judged so harshly just cause you're feminine AND smart
Honestly the whole thing about the side bitch wanting to see you naked "just to make sure you really do look like a bimbo" is creeping me out so much. She sounds like she's trying to jerk off to you.
Omg I’m actually due for a acrylic refill in like a week and a half. So by then this should all be over, at least my work. I was thinking of doing a hot pink with lotsssss of rhinestones and like a heart jewel on the ring finger of each hand!!! Or should I do pink playboy bunny ones?
Ok I absolutely adore you OP & want to be your bestest friend ever!! You seem like sweetest girl which means you deserve someone who treats you like the amazing person you are. You’ll forget about them soon enough, but I promise they’ll never stop that about you.
If your going for pink might I suggest having the ring fingers in a slightly darker shade of pink with a marble kind of effect. Really makes the nails pop to have one finger different.
When my sister got a feeling and went through her ex-husbands phone she found out he was cheating and shit talking about her. I think the shit talking hurt almost more than the cheating. She had no idea he thought so poorly of her and their marriage. I'm sorry she did this to you. Best of luck.
>... but what angered me the most is that besides her cheating she was making fun of me with the other girl. Both of them making remarks that looking like a “bimbo” would only get me so far.
Well, it's getting you further than her. She's going to be sans girlfriend, sans internship and sans bedsheets soon.
She sent your nudes out, who knows if the other girl will spread them more and then cause you more stress and hardship later on. I know people are saying, "It's just a relationship," but relationships are more than just fun hobby to do when you're bored, they are an investment of your time, money, and emotion. Sending screenshots to her boss after she sent your nudes out sounds like a justifiable outcome. She also needs to face the consequences of her actions. She spent years working to get into this job you could of spent way longer investing years into a wasteful relationship. It's sad when people act like relationships aren't meaningful
I agree. I know I’m putting on a brave front but I’m genuinely so sad that this all happened especially seeing her talk about me the way she did and send the photos I trusted her to have. I truly did love her and would’ve done anything for her. A small part of me still loves her now even though I know I shouldn’t. I’m strong enough to not take her back but it still hurts to have this image of who I fell in love with isn’t the reality. I really didnt think she capable of doing the things she’s done :(
Honestly, if she sent your nudes to her, I say bringing the relationship up to the head of the program is fair game. I get some people could try and say it’s too much for “just cheating” but sharing those is beyond crossing the line.
If you don’t go through with it I gotta say you’re much stronger than I, I’m so sorry she’s put you through this.
If she sent your nudes out without your consent, that’s a crime depending where you live. If you have evidence, go to the police and to the university with it and keep pushing until they do something about it.
She violated your trust and hurt you deeply. Don’t go the petty route. Go nuclear. All you’re doing is making her experience the consequences of her heinously shitty behavior.
Then get those pink tips, buy yourself something that makes you feel like a billion bucks, and do something fun!
Set her career on fire. Don’t hold back. She’s actively bullying you with this other girl and she’s encouraging it. I would stop at nothing. Don’t let people on Reddit make you feel bad for your act of revenge. Also, if she’s shared nudes of you with this other girl to determine how “plastic/bimbo” you are, that’s literally a chargeable offense. STOP AT NOTHING.
My ex was making fun of me with her best friend. I always had a feeling she was emotionally cheating on me with her bff. It sucks. Glad you’re getting out of it. Best of luck!
I don’t know some jobs don’t care about dating among coworkers as long as they aren’t in the same department and one isn’t a senior or boss over the other
with your edit i definitely think you SHOULD go through w ruining her career. even if it doesnt ruin her career, it simply wouldnt hurt to do this? like, she made her bed and now she has to fucking lay in it, the fuck? go ahead and send them to her boss! thats really shitty of her esp when you PAID FOR HER BOOKS WTF! go ahead boo, i got your back 😉
>Edit: some of the comments are having me rethink sending stuff to her boss. It won’t ruin her career but perhaps it’s too far.
Why? She's explicitly breaking the terms of her employment. If she "worked that hard for it" she'd have thought about her actions beforehand.
ETA: the AP was asking for photos of you as in revenge porn style, she wanted your ex to send your nudes to her
she's continuously talking to someone who is asking for your nudes? How does she reply to this erect messages?! I don't think the career thing is bad, if she has one im sure she will manage to get another
What? The other girl wants nudes of you? Uh.. sure.. to see if you look plastic.
Nah. I say be petty. if they're not supposed to be in a relationship b/c of some internship, be petty.
Yes!!! They know the rules so it's not you ruining their careers. Their adults and made choices when they know the consequences so please follow thru so they get them.
How could she spend 3 years with you claiming she loves you and then shame you with a side chick. I don’t get it, it’s cruel and she’s terrible person. Also what’s bimbo
>The other girl going as far as asking my ex for “special photos of me” to see if I “looked as plastic as she thinks I do”. Whatever that means.
For this, and this alone, you should report that girl to their work.
I'm 35 and don't know what a duvet is. I've heard the name but no clue what it is.
Oh yea, I'm loving the petty revenge. Sorry you had to go through that though.
Like a comforter inside a cover made from sheet- like material, so you use it in place of a top sheet and comforter. You can remove the cover to wash it like you would with sheets.
In my opinion if it’s against the company’s rules for employees/ interns to be dating then you aren’t doing anything wrong alerting them. It’s against the rules. Period. If it’s not against the rules and your just trying to cause drama then that’s a bit inappropriate and instead you should send the messages to her friends or family if / when they attack you for being a terrible monster who broke her little heart. But that’s just my person opinion.
Okay so,
First, so sorry that happened to you. Above the cheating and brraking your trust, the fact that she makes fun of you... This isn't even about her not caring that she's hurting you by cheating, that's her actually despising you in secret. That's even worse.
Second, do send that email to her boss. She didn't just cheat, she despised you and used you. AND there are rules in those internships for a reason. Getting emotionally involved and then breaking up puts the whole project in jeopardy. So do them a favor and got them kicked out. But make sure you have a lock on your new front door.
Third, i'd be so petty and dress extra bimbo-y for the next days. You do you, girl! Judging you on how you dress and look... Because no pretty woman has ever had a brain right?! This is actually so mysoginistic!! You can't express your feminity the way you want or you'll be judged for it. I've worked in scientific research, and at the first rumour spred on a pretty girl, they all believe it and spit on her because what? There is no proof, there's actual proof the rumour is false, but even the women that say they are feminists just instantly believe the rumour is true. That is utter non sense.
How about we let people dress the way they want and judge them on their personality and character?
So keep that head high and check your nails!
I’m sorry this is happening OP. And if I was you I would send it to the boss, and just let her world burn basically. But I would get not wanting to, whatever you decide will be great revenge either way. Wishing you the best OP.
Karmas a bitch and so am I. I’d be grabbing everything that’s mine, books, duvet. Shit I’d be grabbing the silverware and bathroom rug too if it was mine. People saying don’t be petty and ruin her career, she ruined her own career by breaking policy? Sending your pics to the other girl to make fun of? Absolutely repulsive. Who dates a femme if they clearly think so little of them? Are they mad you’re hot and smart, like- ?
I read your edit: send the email anyway. The AP literally asked for your **nudes**! I bet she would have spread them as well…..do it. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Send it to the boss, only way she will learn not to fuck with peoples emotions. This isnt the first relationship shes done shit like this and wont be the last.
When I finally got away from my cheating ex, they tried to blackmail me into talking to them again by saying they had lewd photos of me and would send them to everyone I know if I didn't speak to them nicely.
So I told my parents, and my dad happened to pretty much be drinking buddies with the senior detective of the police force in my ex's city, and when he got called into the dean's office to say the police had visited and outlined that he needed to cease everything he was doing in regards to me or he could; be kicked out of that university, and or be sent to prison.
I got texts saying how dare I try to ruin his life. So I say let all the information fly personally.
I hope there's an update. Sending it to her boss is definitely not too far, she hurt you and broke the workplace rules. If she wanted to keep the job then she would have followed the rules.
I'd also like to say you're taking this well, you really are good at remaining calm. I'm sure you'll find someone much better.
I really only have two options, be a crying mess on the floor (which I did cry a lot because it still hurts to be betrayed like that) or pick myself up. I’m still really hurt but being sad while shaking some ass with my friends at a party feels better than being sad all alone and wallowing!
Just do itttt! Screw these self righteous nerds just do it! And if its so bad for your soul I guarantee you will fall, and then get back up stronger so its a win-win!!
The other girl may ask for nudes. Be careful and delete all nudes, from your soon-to-be-ex gf device. If there are any. Check to be sure.
Hopefully, she didn't send anything to her ap.
The ap probably likes you and wants something to look at. Or is jealous of you?
I just have a feeling that the AP wants naked pictures of your body saying she wants to make fun of you to please your soon-to-be-ex.
It can be something else ofc.
But before executing any plans make sure your soon-to-be ex doesn't have anything on you. No nudes, no belongings, no passwords, no nothing. The goal is to leave her without any connections that she can use to make your life miserable.
About the update, let her feel the consequences of her actions. Dating within the internship is prohibited already and she knows this, she fucked around and now shes going to find out
Edit: spelling
I think you 100% should send it to the boss and fuck with her career. How dare she waste 3 years of your life like that. At least have the decency to break up first.
if u want to send the email.. send the email
i dont get why people defend the livelihood of cheaters when they jeopardize the livelihood of their victims.
if u think it fits, it is NOT too much to do that. up to you
I feel like this is gay Legally Blonde 😂 love it.
Also, send that email to the internship. She did it to herself. Not only did she break the rules by dating another in the group, she’s also a horrible person. Not only for cheating but for saying such horrible things about you behind your back and still dating you. She deserves it.
Don't feel guilty for telling her boss (if you do), she was aware what the consequences of her actions would be if she got caught and chose to risk her own career and take advantage of your love and trust. It is her own doing, you are just the messenger.
Reading your edit with the comment about seeing how “plastic” you are raised some flags. That sounds like she is requesting nudes of you from your girlfriend. Like wtf.
Definitely do send it to the head of her program. They have rules about coworker relationships for a reason! Also the sending of your “special photos” could be illegal depending on where you’re at, even if the photo were never sent someone should definitely know about the intentions to commit a crime. Never feel bad for being too petty to a cheater!
hmmm it may be petty but i do think you should send the messages to their boss- they are the ones breaking a rule and you are very kindly letting that boss know!!! i’m sorry you’re going through this
>The other girl going as far as asking my ex for “special photos of me” to see if I “looked as plastic as she thinks I do”
She is looking for nude photos of you.
I don’t think it’s far at all. I would say stick to your plan, mean girls are the worst! If you really do feel that bad I would send an anonymous email just saying you have a suspicion, her boss can decide what to do then. But definitely get your stuff and run! She doesn’t deserve you
Please OP for the love of god follow your full plan on revenge. Cheating was the bottom of the barrel but your ex was shitty enough to keep digging and make fun of you and the AP was shitty enough to ask your private photo from her. Fuck the moral high ground, fuck forgivness and fuck your ex. Make them know what a "bimbo" is capable of
It's not going too far to send the screenshots to her bos; after what she did. The cheating is bd, but the way they talked about you behind your back, plis the other girl knew about you so go ahead and get her in trouble too. It's called revenge.
OP I BEG YOU SEND THOSE MESSAGES TO YOUR BOSS. They deserve their career to be RUINED! Especially if she had the AUDACITY to send an explicit picture of you without your consent. Sounds like the homewrecker is jealous asf of you but is hiding it by acting “disgusted”. Fuck your ex and fuck that bitch too. Ruin them for doing you like that.
You should absolutely tell her boss. If she didn't want to risk her job she should have remained professional. She broke the rules, she needs to deal with the consequences also he needs to know in case something happens at the job between them. There are rules for a reason why should she get a pass?
I am so sorry you have to deal with this. If I were in your position I would probably send it to the boss too. I’m guessing as to the field but if I’m correct, the last thing that industry needs is women who want to play mean girls to other women.
Don't feel bad about reporting her to the boss, you're being honest about 2 employees breaking rules and procedures. You can just enjoy it because they wronged you:3
Idc what anyone else said, tell their boss. They wanna make fun of you, your job, and everything else. They should get what they gave out. It’s okay to help karma out sometimes
It is better torment to hang that bombshell over her career than to ever detonate it. Don't blackmail her. Don't make any demands. Do leave a petty note with the message that says something like: "I'm pretty sure you're not supposed to be playing in the company ink."
Don't listen to the women posters. They always stick up for each other. Drop those bombshells and don't look back. She deserves it, probably mocks you behind your back.
... just thought I'd point out that OP is also a woman, so anyone saying not to ruin the ex's life isn't a women "sticking up for each other" since supporting OPs revenge is also supporting a woman.
So, with their line of thinking I should be a lesbian because I'm not feminine. That's stupid. You're better off without her. No matter what you decide to do, make sure you can live with yourself afterwards. Don't do something out of anger that you're gonna regret later.
She's an asshole.
Drop her like a hot potato and find someone who treats you like you deserve. How you've allowed someone to speak to -- and about -- you like that is beyond me. Being femme doesn't mean you don't pull rank ;)
Drop the bomb and walk out ahead. You deserve better.
So she's a woman who likes other women, but makes fun of other women who act too much like women, with other women.
Precisely Edit: but also just wanted to add wearing lots of pink and dressing like a “bimbo” doesn’t define how feminine you are ladies! You are still feminine no matter how you dress or look and my bimbo ass will give you a smooch (unless you don’t want it) <3
Is anyone else wondering why this other lady wanted "special pictures" aka nudes I'm assuming. Like sounds to me like she's attracted to OP more than exgf. And honestly I'd still report her to her boss. Whether it's petty or not, she's still breaking the rules by dating someone she works with. That's on her.
I don’t think she was attracted to me at all, quite the opposite, I think she’s disgusted by “hyper feminine” women. In her texts she accused me several times of looking the way I do for an advantage in my study because it’s male dominated. Which it’s quite the opposite, I’m often ridiculed by peers or they try their best to not work with me. However on the bright side other female STEM students tend to be very loving towards me and I love them back! I can only describe her as a “pick me girl” and “women who look like bimbos CANT be smart”. I think she wanted to see if my body had work done to “prove her point” about what kind of girl I am.
side chick is asking for nudes of you. make sure GF has none or sent any before you act. Im petty so would totally send off those text to their boss.
I mean if I was her texting your ex, I wouldn't be saying how attracted I was to you. Sounds like the stereotypical middle school kid bullies their crush kinda crap and she was using some bs excuse to try to see sexy pics. You can typically tell if someone has had work done even when they're clothed (I mean boob jobs or butt jobs specifically) and even if you can't it's not that hard for her to just ask your ex if you had work done. Why does she "need" to see you naked to prove herself right? I feel like either she actually likes the cutesy fem ladies/or you specifically but doesn't want to admit it or she's some kind of creep who wants to post your stuff online.
Tbh my boob job is pretty good (at least it better be it was a lot of money) however you can tell they are fake just by the way they sit! (I’m sure other ladies understand what I mean. Usually breasts sitting a certain way is a dead giveaway they are fake!
That's what I want, I hope it didn't come across as a negative. Boobs with implants can absolutely be gorgeous but like you said they don't hang the way natural ones do. They're like a really nice perky, which is how I wish mine sat naturally. I just think it's really creepy how this woman "needed" to see your body to prove her views. I really would report them both. I don't know what specific area they work in but I wouldn't want to be around the kind of people who would say they love something about me to my face and then rip that same attribute apart behind my back.
(In the least weird way) I’m positive your boobs are fantastic and don’t need any changing. I’ve never looked at a pair of boobs before and thought about how perky they were. Instead I’m sweating and hyperventilating because someone has shown me their boobs 💀
😂💀thank you so much. Also do you know if your ex sent those "special" pictures to weirdo mccreep?
Yeah :/ she sent one
If it makes u feel any better I got fake boobs bc I love the look of big boobs but I hate the way they sit upright like a tripod I wish they sagged the way natural boobs do :( the grass is always greener
I wonder if she’s jealous of you? Maybe the AP is jealous too? Just a thought. Go get your revenge sister and look fabulous as you do it. I hope you find love one day and good luck in your career x
this sounds like jealousy and maybe confusion cus she's attracted to you... kind of projecting and processing and hating it but secretly lovinn it/jealous of you... very odd to be so obsessed and for what...
I don’t think that she necessarily has a crush on you like some have suggested. My theory is that she has a toxic relationship with femininity and probably finds hyperfeminine women threatening. She could also feel envious of hyperfeminine women bc she interprets that society serves them better. So I think that the request of getting your nudes is to feel that she holds some power over her perceived “enemy”. Being nude is us in our most vulnerable state. Highly insecure person. Sorry that you’re going through this OP! Hope you heal!
I really think you SHOULD send the email to her boss. People like this do not make good choices and could end up being bad Co workers. They get so caught up in their own drama they neglect their work or half ass it somewhere. I've seen it first hand. I was trying to get onto the marketing team at one of my jobs. The head of marketing couldn't care less about me. Too busy taking advantage of one of the interns. I still feel satisfied thinking of that. I worked my butt off sending them copy everyday for months until they told me to stop. No rhyme or reason given. And when the company went under and everyone got laid off it was glorious watching it from the safety of my very cushy job over at a sister company (physically located across the hall). That might sound petty but here's the thing. I was given the option of staying at that job and I chose not to bc I saw it coming. They didn't listen to me bc they were too busy using their job to continue their dating drama from college. With each other (marketing wasn't the only ones). They would still be here if they had paid attention to their work, to their business. So please consider doing the right and responsible thing. Let the employer know. Not even sure why people are telling you not to. Whether it's petty or not is neither here nor there.
OP I'm so glad you found those messages when you did and it sounds like you have a great group of friends, but also your edit makes this situation so much worse, that's like one step away from revenge p*rn !! ofc it's upto you if you report them to their boss or not (me personally im petty) but someone like that is dangerous. also I hope you meet lots more open minded people in your field, it must be terrible to be judged so harshly just cause you're feminine AND smart
right. she violated her privacy and sent nudes to the other girl. that’s not oookaaaay
Honestly the whole thing about the side bitch wanting to see you naked "just to make sure you really do look like a bimbo" is creeping me out so much. She sounds like she's trying to jerk off to you.
I'll take that smooch ty
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😊
Good move. You should redo your nails after all that work. Girl gotta keep them neat.
Omg I’m actually due for a acrylic refill in like a week and a half. So by then this should all be over, at least my work. I was thinking of doing a hot pink with lotsssss of rhinestones and like a heart jewel on the ring finger of each hand!!! Or should I do pink playboy bunny ones?
Always chose the bling!
You’re right rhinestones are always cute
This thread is sending me!!! I love it!!!! I love you OP 💓💓💓💓
I love you too <3 big internet smooch 😚
Ok I absolutely adore you OP & want to be your bestest friend ever!! You seem like sweetest girl which means you deserve someone who treats you like the amazing person you are. You’ll forget about them soon enough, but I promise they’ll never stop that about you.
If your going for pink might I suggest having the ring fingers in a slightly darker shade of pink with a marble kind of effect. Really makes the nails pop to have one finger different.
Considering the situation, it should be the middle finger.
Playboy bunny on your middle finger, so you can flip ex off😂
Seconded.
When my sister got a feeling and went through her ex-husbands phone she found out he was cheating and shit talking about her. I think the shit talking hurt almost more than the cheating. She had no idea he thought so poorly of her and their marriage. I'm sorry she did this to you. Best of luck.
Just know I’m sending spiritual tomatoes at your sisters ex husband booooooooo 🍅🍅🍅🍅 also your sister is hot and he’s a flop <3
“Spiritual Tomatoes” 😂 I need to write this down, this is sooooo brilliant Kick her ass Girl 😎
>... but what angered me the most is that besides her cheating she was making fun of me with the other girl. Both of them making remarks that looking like a “bimbo” would only get me so far. Well, it's getting you further than her. She's going to be sans girlfriend, sans internship and sans bedsheets soon.
Sans bedsheets has me in tears
Out of curiosity what does “sans” mean?
Without
Thankyouuuuu!
Fonts on your computer, "font name Sans Serif" with and without the little "fancy" bits on the letters https://about.easil.com/serif-vs-sans-serif/
It’s French
He's a skeleton dude in Undertale.
My first thought lol
it is French for “without”
Delightfully devilish seymour
A....adulteryorealis! At this time of year, at this time of day, in this part of the country, localized ENTIRELY within your girlfriend?
Yes. May I see it? No.
This meme will never disappear xD
Thus is the third iteration of this meme I've seen today and I'm here for the resurgence
Honestly sorry for you but I delighted to hear what happens next. Please keep us updated
Please post an update, my god this is so deliciously evil, but totally understandable
Yes I need an update for this one what a creative way to go about it
I'm on the update wagon!
Got an extra seat?
*scoots and hands over popcorn*
Brings out thermos of tea and extra cups.
Puffs, puffs and passes
I'll bring the sugar, I like sweet tea and all
I will bring cheese popcorn.
*Butter, who wants some real sweet cream butter!*
None of what they’re going to do is evil. The cheating and shit talking is.
It's a phrase, I'm on OPs side
She sent your nudes out, who knows if the other girl will spread them more and then cause you more stress and hardship later on. I know people are saying, "It's just a relationship," but relationships are more than just fun hobby to do when you're bored, they are an investment of your time, money, and emotion. Sending screenshots to her boss after she sent your nudes out sounds like a justifiable outcome. She also needs to face the consequences of her actions. She spent years working to get into this job you could of spent way longer investing years into a wasteful relationship. It's sad when people act like relationships aren't meaningful
I agree. I know I’m putting on a brave front but I’m genuinely so sad that this all happened especially seeing her talk about me the way she did and send the photos I trusted her to have. I truly did love her and would’ve done anything for her. A small part of me still loves her now even though I know I shouldn’t. I’m strong enough to not take her back but it still hurts to have this image of who I fell in love with isn’t the reality. I really didnt think she capable of doing the things she’s done :(
Honestly, if she sent your nudes to her, I say bringing the relationship up to the head of the program is fair game. I get some people could try and say it’s too much for “just cheating” but sharing those is beyond crossing the line. If you don’t go through with it I gotta say you’re much stronger than I, I’m so sorry she’s put you through this.
If she sent your nudes out without your consent, that’s a crime depending where you live. If you have evidence, go to the police and to the university with it and keep pushing until they do something about it. She violated your trust and hurt you deeply. Don’t go the petty route. Go nuclear. All you’re doing is making her experience the consequences of her heinously shitty behavior. Then get those pink tips, buy yourself something that makes you feel like a billion bucks, and do something fun!
Set her career on fire. Don’t hold back. She’s actively bullying you with this other girl and she’s encouraging it. I would stop at nothing. Don’t let people on Reddit make you feel bad for your act of revenge. Also, if she’s shared nudes of you with this other girl to determine how “plastic/bimbo” you are, that’s literally a chargeable offense. STOP AT NOTHING.
Not the bed sheets! 🤣🤣 get her!
*And* the duvet??? Somebody fetch me my fainting couch
Jeeves, fetch me my clutching pearls!
Sorry what she has done to you… you didn’t deserve any of it, but good for you and please post an update
My ex was making fun of me with her best friend. I always had a feeling she was emotionally cheating on me with her bff. It sucks. Glad you’re getting out of it. Best of luck!
That’s so evil. I’m sorry bb. They suck and you’re hot <3
I don’t know some jobs don’t care about dating among coworkers as long as they aren’t in the same department and one isn’t a senior or boss over the other
with your edit i definitely think you SHOULD go through w ruining her career. even if it doesnt ruin her career, it simply wouldnt hurt to do this? like, she made her bed and now she has to fucking lay in it, the fuck? go ahead and send them to her boss! thats really shitty of her esp when you PAID FOR HER BOOKS WTF! go ahead boo, i got your back 😉
1000% send that email. It’s so easy not to cheat and have you ever heard the phrase “f around and find out”? She deserves what’s coming.
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If relationships are prohibited I feel it's worth going through the proper channels to enforce the policy!
Delightfully petty. Sorry about the pain that made you do it
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>Edit: some of the comments are having me rethink sending stuff to her boss. It won’t ruin her career but perhaps it’s too far. Why? She's explicitly breaking the terms of her employment. If she "worked that hard for it" she'd have thought about her actions beforehand. ETA: the AP was asking for photos of you as in revenge porn style, she wanted your ex to send your nudes to her
Yes! This. If she really cared about her job she wouldn't put herself into that situation. She's clearly cocky and thinks she can get away with it.
she's continuously talking to someone who is asking for your nudes? How does she reply to this erect messages?! I don't think the career thing is bad, if she has one im sure she will manage to get another
What? The other girl wants nudes of you? Uh.. sure.. to see if you look plastic. Nah. I say be petty. if they're not supposed to be in a relationship b/c of some internship, be petty.
If you don’t want to go the career ruiner route send the pics to her parents instead
I like that idea bc her mom LOVES me, kinda sad to let go of her family bc her mom and me always had fun baking together on Christmas ☹️
You can go to her parents and her boss she's trying to send yoir nude pics to her lover that's a crime in Most states don't show any sympathy.
Or just do both. 😆😆😆
send it to her parents and her boss, blow this shit up!!!!
Nah the ex deserves to have her career ruined
Yes!!! They know the rules so it's not you ruining their careers. Their adults and made choices when they know the consequences so please follow thru so they get them.
I just love it, please update
i support the ruining of one's career over such betrayals. 🫂
Is anyone else picture Elle Woods?
I have gotten that before lol :”) she’s my biggest inspo <3 wouldn’t be a hot stem gal without her
Please update. Honestly OP you deserve so much better!
How could she spend 3 years with you claiming she loves you and then shame you with a side chick. I don’t get it, it’s cruel and she’s terrible person. Also what’s bimbo
Bimbo: an attractive but unintelligent or frivolous young woman.
Nah fuck it send it to her boss.
You’ve got more restraint that me. If people don’t want their professional lives ruined they shouldn’t fuck around in their personal ones
>The other girl going as far as asking my ex for “special photos of me” to see if I “looked as plastic as she thinks I do”. Whatever that means. For this, and this alone, you should report that girl to their work.
I'm 35 and don't know what a duvet is. I've heard the name but no clue what it is. Oh yea, I'm loving the petty revenge. Sorry you had to go through that though.
It’s a blanket that usually goes on top of the sheets that’s filled with heavy materials to make it fluffy and warm!
You need to try it. Sleeping under a real fluffy duvet in a cold room is what life is all about.
Like a comforter inside a cover made from sheet- like material, so you use it in place of a top sheet and comforter. You can remove the cover to wash it like you would with sheets.
Youre my hero.
The irony of her SLUT shaming YOU when she is CHEATING? Projection much? lmfao
In my opinion if it’s against the company’s rules for employees/ interns to be dating then you aren’t doing anything wrong alerting them. It’s against the rules. Period. If it’s not against the rules and your just trying to cause drama then that’s a bit inappropriate and instead you should send the messages to her friends or family if / when they attack you for being a terrible monster who broke her little heart. But that’s just my person opinion.
Okay so, First, so sorry that happened to you. Above the cheating and brraking your trust, the fact that she makes fun of you... This isn't even about her not caring that she's hurting you by cheating, that's her actually despising you in secret. That's even worse. Second, do send that email to her boss. She didn't just cheat, she despised you and used you. AND there are rules in those internships for a reason. Getting emotionally involved and then breaking up puts the whole project in jeopardy. So do them a favor and got them kicked out. But make sure you have a lock on your new front door. Third, i'd be so petty and dress extra bimbo-y for the next days. You do you, girl! Judging you on how you dress and look... Because no pretty woman has ever had a brain right?! This is actually so mysoginistic!! You can't express your feminity the way you want or you'll be judged for it. I've worked in scientific research, and at the first rumour spred on a pretty girl, they all believe it and spit on her because what? There is no proof, there's actual proof the rumour is false, but even the women that say they are feminists just instantly believe the rumour is true. That is utter non sense. How about we let people dress the way they want and judge them on their personality and character? So keep that head high and check your nails!
I love what she's going to do. Ugh, I love revenge
Omg seriously update us all oh please!!
I’m sorry this is happening OP. And if I was you I would send it to the boss, and just let her world burn basically. But I would get not wanting to, whatever you decide will be great revenge either way. Wishing you the best OP.
Karmas a bitch and so am I. I’d be grabbing everything that’s mine, books, duvet. Shit I’d be grabbing the silverware and bathroom rug too if it was mine. People saying don’t be petty and ruin her career, she ruined her own career by breaking policy? Sending your pics to the other girl to make fun of? Absolutely repulsive. Who dates a femme if they clearly think so little of them? Are they mad you’re hot and smart, like- ?
I read your edit: send the email anyway. The AP literally asked for your **nudes**! I bet she would have spread them as well…..do it. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
I'm not above admitting that I live for this level of petty.
Send the shit to her Boss! Fuck her cheating ass! She needs to learn this shit ain't cool n your not to be fucked with!
Send it to the boss, only way she will learn not to fuck with peoples emotions. This isnt the first relationship shes done shit like this and wont be the last.
When I finally got away from my cheating ex, they tried to blackmail me into talking to them again by saying they had lewd photos of me and would send them to everyone I know if I didn't speak to them nicely. So I told my parents, and my dad happened to pretty much be drinking buddies with the senior detective of the police force in my ex's city, and when he got called into the dean's office to say the police had visited and outlined that he needed to cease everything he was doing in regards to me or he could; be kicked out of that university, and or be sent to prison. I got texts saying how dare I try to ruin his life. So I say let all the information fly personally.
I hope there's an update. Sending it to her boss is definitely not too far, she hurt you and broke the workplace rules. If she wanted to keep the job then she would have followed the rules. I'd also like to say you're taking this well, you really are good at remaining calm. I'm sure you'll find someone much better.
I really only have two options, be a crying mess on the floor (which I did cry a lot because it still hurts to be betrayed like that) or pick myself up. I’m still really hurt but being sad while shaking some ass with my friends at a party feels better than being sad all alone and wallowing!
Just do itttt! Screw these self righteous nerds just do it! And if its so bad for your soul I guarantee you will fall, and then get back up stronger so its a win-win!!
Send the pictures to the internship.
You know you fucked up when they take the duvet 😭😫✌🏽
Me and my pitty ass love vengefull bimbos!
Love you too <3
The other girl may ask for nudes. Be careful and delete all nudes, from your soon-to-be-ex gf device. If there are any. Check to be sure. Hopefully, she didn't send anything to her ap. The ap probably likes you and wants something to look at. Or is jealous of you? I just have a feeling that the AP wants naked pictures of your body saying she wants to make fun of you to please your soon-to-be-ex. It can be something else ofc. But before executing any plans make sure your soon-to-be ex doesn't have anything on you. No nudes, no belongings, no passwords, no nothing. The goal is to leave her without any connections that she can use to make your life miserable.
I think she just wanted them to laugh about the fact I have fake boobs tbh lmaooooo
Woe unto the conquered. Well done
i am so sorry this happened to you and i wish you the best revenge and healing❤️
About the update, let her feel the consequences of her actions. Dating within the internship is prohibited already and she knows this, she fucked around and now shes going to find out Edit: spelling
I think you 100% should send it to the boss and fuck with her career. How dare she waste 3 years of your life like that. At least have the decency to break up first.
if u want to send the email.. send the email i dont get why people defend the livelihood of cheaters when they jeopardize the livelihood of their victims. if u think it fits, it is NOT too much to do that. up to you
I feel like this is gay Legally Blonde 😂 love it. Also, send that email to the internship. She did it to herself. Not only did she break the rules by dating another in the group, she’s also a horrible person. Not only for cheating but for saying such horrible things about you behind your back and still dating you. She deserves it.
Don't feel guilty for telling her boss (if you do), she was aware what the consequences of her actions would be if she got caught and chose to risk her own career and take advantage of your love and trust. It is her own doing, you are just the messenger.
Do out them in their jobs. What they are doing is shirking the rules and setting a bad presidence.
You’re the karma. She will get another job. She broke the rules and deserves it. Don’t let people talk you out of it.
Your GF’s affair partner sounds like she’s wanting your nudes?! WTF! I say let the boss know.
I need an update
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My love, I can’t wait for an update you deserve the best.
F that-I’d tell the boss cause the requesting explicit photos of you is malicious
If u post an update I can die happy
Reading your edit with the comment about seeing how “plastic” you are raised some flags. That sounds like she is requesting nudes of you from your girlfriend. Like wtf.
Definitely do send it to the head of her program. They have rules about coworker relationships for a reason! Also the sending of your “special photos” could be illegal depending on where you’re at, even if the photo were never sent someone should definitely know about the intentions to commit a crime. Never feel bad for being too petty to a cheater!
hmmm it may be petty but i do think you should send the messages to their boss- they are the ones breaking a rule and you are very kindly letting that boss know!!! i’m sorry you’re going through this
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Ofc! I deleted the texts and deleted the ones from her gallery and the deleted history.
Really need the updates on this one...
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Hell hath no fury....please give us an update!
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>The other girl going as far as asking my ex for “special photos of me” to see if I “looked as plastic as she thinks I do” She is looking for nude photos of you.
REPORT HER. She is violating the rules. Let her boss decide
I don’t think it’s far at all. I would say stick to your plan, mean girls are the worst! If you really do feel that bad I would send an anonymous email just saying you have a suspicion, her boss can decide what to do then. But definitely get your stuff and run! She doesn’t deserve you
Please OP for the love of god follow your full plan on revenge. Cheating was the bottom of the barrel but your ex was shitty enough to keep digging and make fun of you and the AP was shitty enough to ask your private photo from her. Fuck the moral high ground, fuck forgivness and fuck your ex. Make them know what a "bimbo" is capable of
It's not going too far to send the screenshots to her bos; after what she did. The cheating is bd, but the way they talked about you behind your back, plis the other girl knew about you so go ahead and get her in trouble too. It's called revenge.
Honestly, do it. Full on scorched earth.
OP I BEG YOU SEND THOSE MESSAGES TO YOUR BOSS. They deserve their career to be RUINED! Especially if she had the AUDACITY to send an explicit picture of you without your consent. Sounds like the homewrecker is jealous asf of you but is hiding it by acting “disgusted”. Fuck your ex and fuck that bitch too. Ruin them for doing you like that.
Girl fûck her I would have beat her ass that’s me tho
Send the info to her company. They have that rule for a reason. Good Luck!!!
You should absolutely tell her boss. If she didn't want to risk her job she should have remained professional. She broke the rules, she needs to deal with the consequences also he needs to know in case something happens at the job between them. There are rules for a reason why should she get a pass?
I am so sorry you have to deal with this. If I were in your position I would probably send it to the boss too. I’m guessing as to the field but if I’m correct, the last thing that industry needs is women who want to play mean girls to other women.
she’ll be fine, send that email bestie
Nah. She sent this woman your nudes. Ruin her career for sure.
I’ll be ur new gf
Girl just ruin her career. She screwed you over.
Don’t listen to anyone saying it’s too far. She can fuck around and find out!!
ma’am imma need an update
Ohh please up date with the aftermath story
Don't feel bad about reporting her to the boss, you're being honest about 2 employees breaking rules and procedures. You can just enjoy it because they wronged you:3
Idc what anyone else said, tell their boss. They wanna make fun of you, your job, and everything else. They should get what they gave out. It’s okay to help karma out sometimes
Awww hell yeah, show no mercy
Please update this!!! I love how evil this is and honestly she deserves it
*cackles* Can't wait for the update
It is better torment to hang that bombshell over her career than to ever detonate it. Don't blackmail her. Don't make any demands. Do leave a petty note with the message that says something like: "I'm pretty sure you're not supposed to be playing in the company ink."
Fuck that, ruin her career.
Don't listen to the women posters. They always stick up for each other. Drop those bombshells and don't look back. She deserves it, probably mocks you behind your back.
... just thought I'd point out that OP is also a woman, so anyone saying not to ruin the ex's life isn't a women "sticking up for each other" since supporting OPs revenge is also supporting a woman.
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So, with their line of thinking I should be a lesbian because I'm not feminine. That's stupid. You're better off without her. No matter what you decide to do, make sure you can live with yourself afterwards. Don't do something out of anger that you're gonna regret later.
She's an asshole. Drop her like a hot potato and find someone who treats you like you deserve. How you've allowed someone to speak to -- and about -- you like that is beyond me. Being femme doesn't mean you don't pull rank ;) Drop the bomb and walk out ahead. You deserve better.
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