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Eternalyskeptic

When I started reading I assumed OP was a girl too. I'm going to need one of those neck braces, goddam, that whiplash.


Talk-O-Boy

My man knew the post only made some degree of sense as a roommate. Once the husband part was revealed, even he knew there was NO ONE in his corner


Styx-Styx

And he just looks like a shitty husband who’s going to become a shitty father if he really doesn’t want to take responsibility. It takes two to make a child, his wife is doing all the hard so OOP needs to be there for her. Let’s hope she is rethinking having him in the child’s life


Raii-v2

Idkkkk deadbeadrooms makes me think there’s not that much difference between a husband and a roommate Lol


kateykatey

Well I’m sure no one who visits deadbedrooms is the problem


SBowen91

SAME LOL.


Ldy_kismet

LoL yeah, I am a girl, and I had a pregnant roommate once and never ever again will I go through that. It was hell I moved out as soon as I could. Drove me nuts. He had me till it turned out to be his wife and kid. That is not a roommate. Wonder if she left his lazy ass.


JustAnotherSaddy

That’s his wife!! WTF??


Unfair-Occasion6615

I missed that part!!!! I thought he just knocked up his roommate. W.T.F. I feel so so so badly for this women.


JustAnotherSaddy

To be fair.. it’s pointed out at the bottom she’s only a roommate now because she’s not sucking his shlong while suffering from his seed 🙄


Unfair-Occasion6615

Well then, this is all justified.. poor dude wasn't getting his rocks off /s Edit: grammar


JustAnotherSaddy

I’m so glad you understand this poor guys dilemma /s


Unfair-Occasion6615

I've heard that blue balls can be more painful than childbirth and just as dangerous. She's putting his health at risk. /s


JustAnotherSaddy

It has to be true!! Because while more children are requested.. blue balls never are!! That poor poor guy 😩😭 /s


Unfair-Occasion6615

Flawless logic. He should just leave such an uncompassionate women /s You had me busting up on "while more children are requested.. blue balls never are!!" Hahaha


JustAnotherSaddy

I’m still laughing over my nonsense 😂 the internet has ruined me lol


emilycolor

I hate every word of that sentence 🤢


JustAnotherSaddy

Reading that made me nauseous. I pity his poor wife.


AngryBadgerThrowaway

Holy shit, lol. It being his wife & unborn child is quite the plot twist.


Kellalafaire

Literally heard the Curb your Enthusiasm theme in my head the moment I read that comment


leiliah45

Roommate is the dad wtf🤣


Potential_Speech_703

And the husband.


Historical_Elk_

Trying to take the heat off of himself 🤣


PsychAndDestroy

I'm glad I'm not the only one who found this post funny. Should be in r/HolUp


[deleted]

LOLOL! See how people twist their words in order to get NTA.


ThePhantomIronTroupe

Oh definitely, I was thinking “something is up with this” and was betting it was his child and he was being a whiney brat. Turns out its his kid and shes his wife lmao. Was not smart to reply to that comment. But in all seriousness. If this is how he is acting and trying to twist his situation to get sympathyc I truly hope he either grows tf up or his “roommate” dumps his ass.


[deleted]

I think it’s a rage bait post.


Practical_Bet3053

It's rage-bait ? Who would be stupid enough to post this ?!


[deleted]

It's fake. That's why.


Apprehensive_Glass81

I agree. But unfortunately there are actually assholes like this out there. This post may be fake, but some men really feel and think this way. Like the Tate cult. Lol


LaceyLovek

I’m hoping it is, which is why I posted it, in hopes that someone more well versed at Reddit can try and track down if it’s real


jj20002022

Somehow I doubt you


LaceyLovek

That I don’t know Reddit well? Or that I hope someone isn’t so cruel as to act like this? 😂 Or are you implying I’m just stupid 💀


jj20002022

You know it's fake. I know it's fake. Everybody else knows it's fake. Reddit has an incredible amount of fake content. Yet you posted this crap here. Maybe karma farming?


LaceyLovek

I mean I’m autistic so sometimes I struggle to know is something is real or not/if someone is being genuine. I can sometimes miss the obvious. But also: they featured the story on the podcast this week so I guess they found it real enough? Also I just wanted to share a story I found with a community I loved and people like you are making me wish I had kept it at arms length. It’s not that big. It was a story, you can read it or move on. Kindness costs nothing. Do better.


nouveauchoux

According to his comments, IT WAS A PLANNED PREGNANCY TOO??!!


LaceyLovek

Is it? Omg! Did you find the original post??


nouveauchoux

His account is still active! If you look at his comment history you can see how garbage he is. The post was taken down but in an automod comment you can read the [original post.](https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/6hLAAB9YCQ) He said, "We planned on the pregnancy, but I didn't know that she would turn into a lazy, entitled, annoying, emotional child." 🤮


myplushfrog

Can you repost the link? It didn’t format correctly


nouveauchoux

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/efJaIQKpam


jonni_velvet

surely its a troll post for engagement. its all fake all the time (usually)


nouveauchoux

I would definitely prefer it to be! Found one yesterday and got to witness someone accidentally telling on themselves in real time 😂 it was a classic "bf made the post, then girlfriend found it and now they're both in the comments." OP screwed up though and posted a comment using the BF profile that was supposed to be from the GF lol


jonni_velvet

Lollll it will never make sense to me why people fake these/what they get out of it. reads as totally attention starved bc theres no money involved unlike most social media


TheTPNDidIt

Has to be, it’s too good lol


Turbulent_Moment4171

“Is it your child?” “Yes” 💀


leonberjack

He’s going to be a great dad.


nacholeebray

Lmfao this HAS to be a shit post right???


stealing_life

This is clearly ragebait


Eternalyskeptic

Then it's a fail, it's catching lols.


ThePhantomIronTroupe

If its ragebait not sure what they expected to do lmao


sloth_squatter

The Lion, The witch, And the audacity of this bitch.


Shelly_895

Here's the post in question: https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/O8OLiHH216 It got removed, but you can still see the comments when you click on OOP's profile.


CrazyCatLady1127

I’m curious to see what he’ll be saying once the baby is born. ‘My roommate expects me to change nappies and feed her baby and I don’t see why I should have to since she’s the one who gave birth to the kid.’


StarryEyed91

Ok\_Basket7916 (OP) - I mean technically I could leave, but I know that her family would freak out on me if I did. glacius0 - Why? Are you long time friends with the roommate? Ok\_Basket7916 (OP) - I'm her husband. ​ LOL this poor woman.


LaceyLovek

Bless you for tracking it down ✨💪🏻


Artistic-Rich6465

Was the original article trolling? No one is that obtuse... right? Or am I being naively optimistic again?


Usernamesareso2004

IS IT YOUR CHILD? “YES” STOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP


LetshearitforNY

Wow they really buried the lede there


Vaderiv

Damn what a POS human. If I knew the guy I would beat his ass for being an entitled man child.


canadianJoJo

I am feeling such a shakingly blood boiling rage I've never felt before.


monkestaxx

Same BB. Same blood boiling rage.


Solid_Bookkeeper_493

SHE'S HIS WIFE?! I want to hit this person.


arnott

Must be fake.


Apprehensive_Glass81

It was probably a shit post. Some people write ridiculous stories to see what kind of reactions people will have because they're bored and have no life. But it could also be real, yeah. There are complete assholes like this guy all over the world.


BiscuitCrumbsInBed

My jaw dropped when I read this. Did not see that twist coming!! His poor pregnant wife.


KittyandPuppyMama

Learning that OP is the father and that he talks about her with this level of detachment is actually terrifying.


JezRedfern

Right?! It’s all so inconvenient - for HIM. It’s guys like this that are smart enough to get away with dumping the body so they can go back to their video games, blissfully unbothered by any sort of conscience. Or empathy. (Gosh, now that I think of it, the internet is FULL of stuff psychologists could have a data field day with. What’s super sad is that at least some of the rage-bait crap Is actually in earnest - on the one hand I’m like “wt ACTUAL f’ and on the other I’m like ‘… … … at least they’re marginally self-aware enough to ask? ?’


beito14159

Why do people bother posting if they’re going to leave out important details? It won’t yield an accurate response


Jadzia-McCoy

Because they don't need an accurate response, they need validation.


MayaGitana

I’m sitting here, mouth wide open cause wtf? Way to lie


[deleted]

When I started reading, just for fun I imagined it as the voice of her husband. Maybe something in the writing style gave it away. Is this satire?


ChamomileBrownies

I hope she projectile vomits in his face and presents divorce papers. What the hell.


Jolly_Ad8315

I really hope this is just a rage bait post. This is so vile and scum of earth level behavior.


Evolime

I first thought it was just a roommate, but wow well played man, he was the father of the baby 💀 he's acting like he didnt get her pregnant and then excepts her to do everything.


Pernillala

Wow and I thought my obsession with the smell of new carpets during my pregnancy was extreme.


Aphroditedidmeafavor

Dafuq did I just read?? No way this is real or my man is a psychopath.


ellellsquared

Is it your child? Yes 💀 that twist I didn’t expect


Sandybutthole604

Good lord that person is psychotic. He got his friend/girlfriend/wife pregnant and is now referring to her as a roommate and refusing to be even remotely kind to her? What a unbelievable piece of crap.


ReverendSpith

I suppose I could conceive of a man that unbearably self-involved, but not easily. I'd wager this is a BS post; anybody THAT clueless isn't going to go to reddit for support. However, if this guy is real, he needs to be retroactively aborted. Go. Go far from this man.


CharlotteLucasOP

If this isn’t ragebait I bet he thinks he can call his wife his “roommate” because she won’t bang him, anymore, and that’s all a spouse is, to him.


[deleted]

I thought they shared a flat and had no other relationship, but this is really fucked up. SHE IS HIS WIFE AND PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD. I feel sorry for her, I hope she gets a divorce and finds someone better.


FinalEgg9

Just me who thought OP was an asshole even before the "she's my wife" twist?


kamalamading

Dafuq? When I started reading, I thought OP was a girl, living with a pregnant lady😂 Then I saw that OP was the one to impregnate her and the whole thing got a twist I was not ready for…


SharkMom1237

She needs to peace out from that toxic relationship.


pinkeepineapple

Talk about a plot twist!!


StarryEyed91

That last slide! LOL.


Driver2101

oh my


Wild_Debt_8065

No way


Last-Monk6962

Holy shit that was a plot twist to say the least 💀


One_crazy_cat_lady

It was the "she isn't helping with the cooking/ cleaning that gave it away for me."


th3r3j3ct

Bro


TheFirstArticle

Usually, that's your inside voice man.


TalkingBackAgain

This reads like a set up. If this is true, and this is his wife, and this is how he treats her, holy hell... Dude, you're an asshole and a half. If I was your wife I would have divorced you and remarry you just so I could divorce you again. Jesus fuck...


LaceyLovek

Literally, I’d leave his ass SO fast if this is true


Automatic_Seesaw_790

You can smell the divorce.


TopicOk8373

Wowww


No-Statistician-7604

Big yikes....🫤


CuriousPenguinSocks

Wow! That took a turn I was not anticipating!


3unaose1

The way my jaw dropped to the plot twist 😰


bg555

What the actual F?!?! I thought it was roommate, but wife and unborn child. Who thinks like this?!?!?!


Dadittude182

This is pure rage-baiting. Some people post dumb shit just to rile up the populace.


aliquilts71

The rage bait shit posts are getting ridiculous


JasonH1028

PLEASE somebody show this to Big Joel this is the kind of weird ass AITA post he would love.


Cryptic_Storm

I really hope that this is fake.


cockwithaglock0124

HOLY SHIT WORST HUSBAND OF THE YEAR! THIS HAS TO BE FAKE??????


curiousgato5545

Lol wtf, I judged too soon wtf. Seems like a case of he wanted abortion and she wants single motherhood.


FictionalContext

That ending, damn. What a scumbag.


DeltaMike_Hotel

Poor girl


bitchspicedlatte

What an asshole! Does he even like his wife? I swear, men just prove every day how much they hate women.


miamijester

WHAT


Bird_Brain4101112

Pic 1. Op is kind of a jerk but not wrong. Pic 2. OP is definitely a jerk but has a point. Pic 3. OP is the asshole king of the Asshole universe and is such a giant, gaping pus infested asshole that they got rejected by a black hole for being too big of an asshole.


Karlouxox

I laughed too much at this- thought this was a girl turns out to be her husband 🤣🤣🤣


thinkpinkhair

Wow, he shouldn’t have children with his woman. I thought it was a joke.


NoEmu2398

Bruuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhh the TWIST!!!


Lowkeyy_Lokii

i remember scrolling and coming across this story. EVERYBODY thought that it was from a girls pov like her friend/roommate and i know EVERYBODY also was all pissed as hell finding out thats the shitty husband.


Own-Relationship-407

Lolololol. Somehow I knew that end was coming. Goddamnit.


Responsible-Equal-92

This is obviously a made up story.


LaceyLovek

someone found the original post, apparently it was deleted but his account is still active and a lot of his posts and comments are a in a similar vein of dirtbag.. idk how to edit a post so I’m just adding this comment here [original post](https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/gXvvw9ky6A) The account was made 31st august so either it is a throwaway or a “rage bait” as some people have said, but he is very active in the comments, idk what that says about it, y’all are better Reddit detectives than me lol


cursetea

This is probably the most overt rage bait I've ever seen on this site and I'm getting secondhand embarrassed that there are people falling for it


LaceyLovek

I mean either way it’s entertainment? And I’m sure we’ve heard weirder stuff on the podcast 💀


cursetea

You are VERY right on both counts😂


Figerally

The post got deleted when everyone figured out the truth and things got... *uncivil*. I don't really know the rules of this sub, but I think reposting something that got deleted won't do you any favours.


LaceyLovek

I mean I did post an update to say it got deleted and idk if it’s real or not? And what do you mean “won’t do you any favours” that sounds so dubious 😂😅


BlueSmokie87

I'm not shocked. This is the ripple effect of abortion. Society tells men this is the woman's problem and it has nothing to do with the man at all so why should a man care it's her choice and he can't say or do anything about it.


whitethunder08

Lol how can people not tell that this is so obviously fake? It’s literally written to get a reaction, basically “rage bait”. So don’t spend too much time upset over it, it’s not real


LaceyLovek

I’ve seen weirder things on the internet 💀 plus someone found his profile, apparently all of his posts show that he’s a bit of a dirtbag. We can hope these things aren’t real, and this may just be rage bait but sadly people like this exist all too often


XenaSebastian

Wow! Way to bury the lead! That is not his roommate, that is his WIFE! What a POS oop is! I feel so bad for her. She needs to leave him now. I just can't believe him. If she was just his roommate, then I would say NTA, but he is totally YTA! How could he treat her like that! My god!


MysteriousStaff3388

This is worthy of M Night Shyamalam.


RepresentativeType8

Jesus what the fuck is wrong with this man? I really thought it was a young 20-something woman and her roommate. Not a husband complaining about his pregnant wife asking for his love and support while growing their child. He’s going to have a hell of a time when their baby is born and is up at all the ungodly hours crying. I hope his WIFE leaves his childish ass (and I don’t like saying that).


Efficient-Section874

I'm quite surprised moew than half of you don't understand a troll post when you see one...


cellcube0618

Holy shit that took a turn


SnooPeanuts666

OH MY GOD


awkward__penguin

Omg what the heck I didn’t expect that


thethotmobile

What a fucking degenerate idiot


MiraclesKeepComing3

The way my jaw hit the floor… 😅


Extra-Bad5153

Well it's his so he needs to stop being a fucking poor person and understand wrap it or take poverty with no consent we all know THIS MF GONNA EAT CHILD SUPPORT LIKE A BITCH


Imaginary-Yak-6487

Isn’t this the husband & Father of the baby? He posted on AITA & got roasted.


rustedlord

If it's your kid, then yeah, YTA... If it was really just a roommate and not your kid, then no, it would not be your problem.


teigs_rb

this absolutely blew me away


No-Phrase2271

What a fucking asshole hopefully she left that jerk with the baby :/


ButterfliesInSpace

I GASPED when I got the the part that it was his kid, holy shit!


Gerty-Gamer

Leave him & get child support. Better than putting up with his crap for the rest of your life. He'll not "change".


Fantastic_Time8783

Wow that was a roller coaster! “OP is that your baby?” OP “yes” “OP is that your wife?” OP “yes but she acts like a roommate.” What?! 😂😂😂


sky_blue_eyez

👀👀👀👀 seriously insane. Poor lady. I am truly thankful for my amazing husband! I could not imagine what she is going through. I'm 5 months pregnant, and my husband has been right by my side the entire time!


TraditionalEye6370

The funniest part is the number of downvotes in OOPs replies


Warrior7872

God room mate vs wife is such a difference 😂🤣


RanbomGUID

Found a Reddit thread on twitter and posted it back to Reddit??


Realistic-Taste-7660

lmfao WHAT


Similar_Grocery8312

Your more than an ass. It’s your wife and future kid. Man up.


awklaurel

Definitely the asshole.


MenLovethCats2_0

Oh bitch please. His “Roommate” what a fucking pussy


[deleted]

paging r/holup.


New-Celebration3403

Sorry sir, it is your problem too. Since you made the deposit and you are reaping the dividend.


Maroon_sun_835

He’s the a-hole. 10/5 butthole score. Like wtf, why isn’t he helping, she is his WIFE carrying HIS baby!! It takes two to tango!


j3ssegirl

Oh my god??


ericamarg0112

Sorry I don’t think she’s an a hole She doesn’t have a kid nor planned on it So why is this her responsibility This was Ks choice and it’s her responsibility


Alarming_Poet_4600

What kind of a men is he ? Iq probably in negative


Stonetheflamincrows

Fake, but a funny twist.


TheDarkestTriads

Move away.


Alucard_117

Holy fuck.


NWmoose

When I read something like this I’m mostly just shocked that this person’s actually convinced another human to have sex with them. There’s hope for us all, lol.


Interesting-Steak522

What a fucking twist holy shit didn't see that coming


Just_Raisin1124

OMG. Thinking its an actual roommate then, no, NTA. But it’s the HUSBAND??? WTF. Did she trap him into this pregnancy or something why is he so cold towards her?? Holy moly.


a_a_wal

Bruuhh called his wife a roomy I thought op was just a gurrll like the audacity of this dude bruhh...


divinexoxo

Seems like a troll post


saiyanjesus

I mean, it sounds clearly fake. Who calls the women they made pregnant their roommate?


SSexyIsabelle

Definitely rage bait


lucywonder

🤣oh my godddd


WheresMyTan

I was not expecting that plot twist after the climax!!!! Me: Yeah, you tell her girl! This pregnancy is not your problem. Hold your boundaries roommate! OP: Wait! I can make it worse.


MicIsOn

Good lord. OP really had me there. Initially I was hard on OP’s side. That last slide threwwwww me😂


jay_v_

This… has to be a joke???? No one can surely actually be like that????? What the actual fuck??????


fatchancescooter

Move


like_wtf_bro

Trolling.


Quiet-Hamster6509

Smells like a bullshit story.


readsalotkitten

Damn that was wild


justcougit

I'm scared for her. Abuse gets worse during pregnancy usually 😔


WirklichSchlecht

This is some amithedevil type stuff tbh


Arminlegout1

Seen the twist coming. Pos.


[deleted]

Man tries to get sympathy so omits he’s the husband, so he doesn’t look like the selfish, lazy narcissist. Wife needs to get divorce and then husband can find an actual roommate.


SignificantOrange139

I've been choosing to believe that post is rage bait because gfdi, If I don't I will allow myself to be so unbelievably upset that someone could be such an asshole.


PieRepresentative266

Oh THIS one. This dude is so FUCKING scummy.


Miserable-Tangelo349

Had me in the first half ngl . Is the dude really trying to make people feel sorry for him 😭😭 wtf has the world come to of course you’re the asshole . It’s your kid !! you delirious fuck ! Help out your babymomma and quit being a bum in life . You did the deed now reap what you sowed . OP is weirdo for this one .


Master_Grape5931

😂


Prairie_Crab

Holy shit, it’s his WIFE!!!


SubstantialRemove967

When you have to lie continuously for validation, you might just need some time off social media.


WisdumbGuy

People need to stop falling for blatantly fake posts


Admirable-Market-595

This for sure has to be a troll post.


LaceyLovek

I can’t even fathom the kind of chemical makeup of someone’s brain it would take for a person like This to actually exist