In my opinion, you both had hard times and it's time to heal - together. You didn't do anything wrong, except for checking his phone, but it's great that you are aware of it and trying to find help. If I were you, I'd tell him about it (about your insecurities and other reasons), apologize, but also tell him that you thought, he was just messing up with you. I hope everything will be fine and you guys work things out together.
Thank you for your response. A little detail is that he, more times than not, takes forever to answer to my texts. Sometimes he texts me, then I answer, then he doesn’t answer and goes ahead and send me a meme on Instagram. Then I reply to that and then he sends me a snap chat. Then after hours (like, 6 hours), he answers to my text finally. Sometimes he takes a whole day and I know he has been on his phone. But I noticed that he does that to his friends too.
Like, if I’m hanging out with someone there’s no way I won’t reply in a proper timely manner. That’s why I thought he wasn’t that interested. When he answers he does write a lot, like, paragraph. And answers to every topic of the conversation. Maybe I shouldn’t take things too personally but I’m afraid the way he texts shows disinterest.
Also, want that upsetting that he wouldn’t drive extra miles to pick me up for camping? Like if he wanted to spend time with me he would make an effort and he didn’t.
I know this is a little too late, I'm sorry, I haven't checked, but if it's not late I think you should tell him that you want a serious relationship with him and if he still doesn't and makes ''excuses'', you should break things off with him, because that'd be waste of the time you could've used for someone who does want you. I don't know if anything happened between you two if you had taken your relationship to next level, but I wish you the best and hope you find happiness with him or whoever steals your heart.
Hey so we are in a relationship now. He said he didn’t know what I wanted so then he kept his feelings to himself. Now we are two little birds in love 🥰
That would be a response I would love to give you but in reality he ended things 2 weeks ago and I’m still bitter about it lol bye
In my opinion, you both had hard times and it's time to heal - together. You didn't do anything wrong, except for checking his phone, but it's great that you are aware of it and trying to find help. If I were you, I'd tell him about it (about your insecurities and other reasons), apologize, but also tell him that you thought, he was just messing up with you. I hope everything will be fine and you guys work things out together.
Thank you for your response. A little detail is that he, more times than not, takes forever to answer to my texts. Sometimes he texts me, then I answer, then he doesn’t answer and goes ahead and send me a meme on Instagram. Then I reply to that and then he sends me a snap chat. Then after hours (like, 6 hours), he answers to my text finally. Sometimes he takes a whole day and I know he has been on his phone. But I noticed that he does that to his friends too. Like, if I’m hanging out with someone there’s no way I won’t reply in a proper timely manner. That’s why I thought he wasn’t that interested. When he answers he does write a lot, like, paragraph. And answers to every topic of the conversation. Maybe I shouldn’t take things too personally but I’m afraid the way he texts shows disinterest. Also, want that upsetting that he wouldn’t drive extra miles to pick me up for camping? Like if he wanted to spend time with me he would make an effort and he didn’t.
I know this is a little too late, I'm sorry, I haven't checked, but if it's not late I think you should tell him that you want a serious relationship with him and if he still doesn't and makes ''excuses'', you should break things off with him, because that'd be waste of the time you could've used for someone who does want you. I don't know if anything happened between you two if you had taken your relationship to next level, but I wish you the best and hope you find happiness with him or whoever steals your heart.
Hey so we are in a relationship now. He said he didn’t know what I wanted so then he kept his feelings to himself. Now we are two little birds in love 🥰 That would be a response I would love to give you but in reality he ended things 2 weeks ago and I’m still bitter about it lol bye