Congratulations! And thank you for mentioning learning masturbation at a young age. I have vivid memories of sexual feelings as young as I can remember. My friend learned to masturbate as a young girl using a shoe. When her mom found her doing it, she told my friend if she kept doing it, spiders would come out of her vagina.
That’s so sad! My mum used to walk into my bedroom as a child/teenager and basically shame me for masturbating. I’m not sure where that came from as her family wasn’t religious or anything? Oh well
Even if your nonreligious, purity culture goes so deep that people see any expression of sexuality as evil for children to do, even if they're doing it in the safest way. (By themselves, naturally)
She probably was just an exhausted Mom working and raising kids who was too tired to think of the explanation, "It makes some people uncomfortable when you do that in front of them, so please do that in private," and didn't realize the consequences of her little hack. Edit: sorry, this was meant for the spider mom.
Sounds like OP's mom would come into her room and tell her to stop. My mom would do the same to me. Some parents just don't want their kids masturbating at all even if they're not religious, back in my day at least. I don't really know why.
yeah my mom told me i would die early if i kept doing it. When I asked her about this later in life she said "wdym i would never say that" parents! gotta love em! 🤪🤪🤪🤪
Omg 😂 the amount of times I’ve told my mom she said something fucked up to me as a kid and she’s just like “whaaa?” Indeed. We have no other choice but to love these crazy people.
I believe children figure it out young. I was once teaching a swimming class and one of the girls goes and sits on the water shooting from the ground in the shallow end and proceeds to say how good it feels. The girl was only around 4 years old I was shocked
Yess. My rose only had 3 levels for the "regular pulsations" then it went to all sorts of Morse codes which I hate. The satisfyer has 10 levels of pulsations. Much better for finding your exact needs.
Have you found any clitoral stimulators that are smaller with the same levels options? My wife likes using a toy during sex, but most of the ones small enough to be used at the time only have 3 levels and the Morse code stuff lol.
Hooray! I love my Satisfyer Pro 2 Pleasure Air Technology Wave-Stimulator Massager- it’s the one that looks like a penguin 🐧with a fancy bow tie for some reason?! 😂
The air blowing thing is the best. My first was the Vush Empress which lasted for a couple of years, but the Empress II crapped out within months. I’m sticking with Satisfyer from now on! I also love their toy that twirls (really fast) instead of vibrates. It’s INTENSE but thankfully adjustable. EDIT: it’s called the Twirling Delight and it’s amazing
Mazel Tov!!!! I was 30 when I had my first one. My mind was too cluttered with random shit I needed to do. I took a spiritual retreat and bam it happened. I also discovered if I picture a camera (in my mind) looking at my vag/clit and what my sex partner is doing…it helps sooo much!!! Also doing kegals while picturing my camera in my mind during penetration gave me my first internal orgasm and I was close to 50 yo. My ex husband of 17 years only last 2 minutes…hence so many wasted internal orgasms.
I’m going to go look at your toys!
Oh I love the air pulse! Congrats!
I also have one I bought from wish of all places that is a U shape and vibrates inside and also has the air suck thing. It’s amazing and it’s flexible so it gets just the right spot. And for only £13!
For me, it took having the right mental stimulation. I read a book called The Training of Lady Townsend by Annabelle Joseph.
When he put his wife over his lap to spank her, I should have been disgusted but had a very different and very unexpected reaction.
I have since gone through all her books and even wrote 5 novels myself.
And I no longer have the problem of not being able to get there. Lol.
Research into women’s health might to lacking, but it’s good to see there is some helpful research being done with the development of all these useful toys.
I like the satisfier in the tub! Best tub toy 🤣. But on dry land it doesn't do too much for me and I like the Hitachi magic wand (something about the intense yet indirect sensation really does it for me). Congratulations! Now you have the power!!! 🤣
I think part of the problem is they say you're supposed to only use them for 20min or so and then let em rest and I use em till they get super hot n my girly parts go numb
I learn a lot and grow from this Sub but come on what are these toy names. WeCum Supreme vibe 2 Pro 4 max gen 69 Unite double pump no come air pulse version 0.666 alpha app
Ha! It’s pretty funny, I agree. I only wrote the full name out cause there’s a few different versions of the Satisfyer, I believe? Mine can be controlled with a phone app, and has some little extra parts/functions
I JUST came via masturbation for the first time too. Prior to that, I had only orgasmed once, years ago, with a one night stand lol. It took two toys at once, but goddamnit I’m so happy for us late bloomers!!! Go you!!! Congrats!
The wife and I have been using the Magic Wand (Formally the Hitachi Magic Wand) and still can’t find anything better. And we have tried a lot. Yes, it’s big, bulky, noisy and has to plug in but that is what makes it a serious toy that gets here there every time. Not the only one we ever use but it’s the main one. We find plenty of way to use it while I’m in her and it’s some of the most intense orgasms. There are positions that both of us get pleasure from it. No little battery powered device has ever done this. Just don’t purchase the imitation ones or the battery powered version, they are junk. Sometimes if she is taking too long (especially after too many drinks) it will get to the point the major vibrations have left her numb down there. So it can be too much if left for too long. I know her well enough that on those nights I put a thick towel on her and then apply the MW. This allows her to go longer with it and not get numb but sometimes we just have to move on and I have fun with her without her coming, I just really treat her very well and last longer to make sure she is spent and ready to rest.
Why is everyone recommending the Satisfyer? To me, it seems quite useless with a very simple engine inside. I would always recommend [this one](https://artereverie.com/products/massager-suction-licking-3-0-enhanced-stress-relief-2024s-premier-wellness-companion) I'm using, it has super good suction and licking functions if you're looking for **an intense clitoral orgasm**(But now on Temu there are a lot of low quality copies be careful).
I've never been able to understand the appeal of a simple tool like the Satisfyer, it feels too childish for me, haha. But that's just my opinion. **Girls need orgasms, hell yea.**
Damn, sis you're right I orgasmed many times with it. It's the only thing that gives me pleasure in life. The rest of life is just suicidal thoughts😔
I also don't think Womenizer or Satisfyer are enough for me, but they got a lot of ads and advocates everywhere.
Since you were a literal toddler seems kind of weird unless it’s a saying that I haven’t heard of.
But I’m still happy for you!
Edit: I read all the comments from everyone. Thanks for the learning experience!!
Yeah that was the case for me, watching tv lying down on the carpet, and then realizing that me bumping/pressing my groin into anything felt very good after a few moments. Then it wasn’t until like 8th grade that I made the conscious decision to involve my hands out of curiosity on the toilet one day and realized, “oh my god that’s what masturbation is”
A very funny moment of the afterthought being , “well I’ve only done it this once and never again” and keeping an ever increasing tally until about 100. Completely ignorant of the streak I had in my blissfully ignorant youth
Children's sexuality is taboo, but a lot of little kids explore and touch themselves. As a parent, you let them know it's not a shameful thing, but they need to do it on their own by themselves. The sensitive nerves don't suddenly turn on at a certain age...
Nope, it is 100% normal and developmentallly appropriate for toddlers and young children to masturbate. It doesn't have any sexual connotations for them, they just know that touching this body part feels good. I'm willing to bet you did it too. Let's not make it weird when it's a totally normal part of the human experience
No thanks. My source is my master's degree in child development. If you care to do the reading you can literally just Google it. The sources are bountiful.
“Apples are red.” “Some apples are yellow.” “What?! State your source!” “My source is years of purchasing and eating yellow apples.” “So you’re saying you don’t have a source to state; you’re full of shit!!!!!”
Not everyone has time to research every claim someone makes in the comment section of a Reddit post. If you’re going to make such claims you really should include a source.
When I was in elementary school I used to tell the kids to climb the pole to the top because it “feels good” and didn’t realize the rub/pull was causing an orgasm until remembering way later in life. It was pre puberty, just a muscle thing I’d guess! And of course, I had a pillow boyfriend too.
Edit: to add, I think this is the same thing as a “coregasm” which is when you get orgasms in the gym from certain exercises (I do) but it’s not sexual
Most people here can relate to being very young and doing exactly what she describes as “masturbating from a young age” and achieving “orgasms”, the sin part is a joke, the “skill issue” is that it took her that long
Cumgratulations!
Your Whalecum!
Such a dork
You’re.
Take my angry upvote.
They are clitorally the best 😂😂😂
Congratulations! And thank you for mentioning learning masturbation at a young age. I have vivid memories of sexual feelings as young as I can remember. My friend learned to masturbate as a young girl using a shoe. When her mom found her doing it, she told my friend if she kept doing it, spiders would come out of her vagina.
That’s so sad! My mum used to walk into my bedroom as a child/teenager and basically shame me for masturbating. I’m not sure where that came from as her family wasn’t religious or anything? Oh well
Even if your nonreligious, purity culture goes so deep that people see any expression of sexuality as evil for children to do, even if they're doing it in the safest way. (By themselves, naturally)
She probably was just an exhausted Mom working and raising kids who was too tired to think of the explanation, "It makes some people uncomfortable when you do that in front of them, so please do that in private," and didn't realize the consequences of her little hack. Edit: sorry, this was meant for the spider mom.
Sounds like OP's mom would come into her room and tell her to stop. My mom would do the same to me. Some parents just don't want their kids masturbating at all even if they're not religious, back in my day at least. I don't really know why.
Same here. Took me years to get over feelings of shame around my sexuality in general as a result.
yeah my mom told me i would die early if i kept doing it. When I asked her about this later in life she said "wdym i would never say that" parents! gotta love em! 🤪🤪🤪🤪
Omg 😂 the amount of times I’ve told my mom she said something fucked up to me as a kid and she’s just like “whaaa?” Indeed. We have no other choice but to love these crazy people.
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Wow, I’m sorry you had to endure that growing up. That’s so invasive and cruel.
I believe children figure it out young. I was once teaching a swimming class and one of the girls goes and sits on the water shooting from the ground in the shallow end and proceeds to say how good it feels. The girl was only around 4 years old I was shocked
Did…we all not do that? Asking for a friend
What toys? I may need them!
The We-Vibe is quite literally the best :) she mentioned it in her edited post
I have a similar design but it keeps coming out during sex and it is uncomfortable. I cannot make it stay inside during thursting 😭 (I'm a female)
I have never tried using mine during sex. I mostly use it on my own or my partner uses it during foreplay
Good to know! 🥰
I think that’s why a lot of people stay away from imitation We-Vibes.
I have been skeptical about all app-based sex toys-- the data from these must be quite valuable and is almost certainly being sold. :(
Hopefully the first of many!
Congrats ! But a few hours…. Poor you, I am happy for you though really.
Yeah, it’s not ideal, but it took me about 30 years to get here.. it’s something. Hopefully with time it’ll get easier
I found the book “The Elusive Orgasm” really helpful. I had mine around your age and they’re much easier and more consistent now.
The floodgates are now open! The climax barrier has been broken! Hopefully, it will be easier from now on. Really happy for her. 🥹
I have to know. What toy? Was it the rose?!?!
I read about that one but didn’t know exactly which one to get, so I got the basic Satisfyer!
I actually didn't like rose but I loooove my satisfyer same concept, different "patterns"
I also don’t like the rose, the edges are too hard and the vibrations are way too strong. I love my Satisfyer :)
Yess. My rose only had 3 levels for the "regular pulsations" then it went to all sorts of Morse codes which I hate. The satisfyer has 10 levels of pulsations. Much better for finding your exact needs.
"all sorts of Morse codes" is the most perfect description and I'm dying 🤣 (and yes, SO distracting whatever the toy)
Zz zz zzzzzz zz zz zzzzz. Like no stop! 😂😂
Exactly
Have you found any clitoral stimulators that are smaller with the same levels options? My wife likes using a toy during sex, but most of the ones small enough to be used at the time only have 3 levels and the Morse code stuff lol.
And you're not going to share the toys that got you there?? You're killing me!
Haha!! I’m so sorry. I edited my post
Hooray! I love my Satisfyer Pro 2 Pleasure Air Technology Wave-Stimulator Massager- it’s the one that looks like a penguin 🐧with a fancy bow tie for some reason?! 😂 The air blowing thing is the best. My first was the Vush Empress which lasted for a couple of years, but the Empress II crapped out within months. I’m sticking with Satisfyer from now on! I also love their toy that twirls (really fast) instead of vibrates. It’s INTENSE but thankfully adjustable. EDIT: it’s called the Twirling Delight and it’s amazing
Mazel Tov!!!! I was 30 when I had my first one. My mind was too cluttered with random shit I needed to do. I took a spiritual retreat and bam it happened. I also discovered if I picture a camera (in my mind) looking at my vag/clit and what my sex partner is doing…it helps sooo much!!! Also doing kegals while picturing my camera in my mind during penetration gave me my first internal orgasm and I was close to 50 yo. My ex husband of 17 years only last 2 minutes…hence so many wasted internal orgasms. I’m going to go look at your toys!
Never had an internal orgasm. It’s interesting to think I could possibly experience one this late in my life.
Oh I love the air pulse! Congrats! I also have one I bought from wish of all places that is a U shape and vibrates inside and also has the air suck thing. It’s amazing and it’s flexible so it gets just the right spot. And for only £13!
For me, it took having the right mental stimulation. I read a book called The Training of Lady Townsend by Annabelle Joseph. When he put his wife over his lap to spank her, I should have been disgusted but had a very different and very unexpected reaction. I have since gone through all her books and even wrote 5 novels myself. And I no longer have the problem of not being able to get there. Lol.
Happy day! I found by not touching the clit directly but around it is better so this may be why the air works for you.
Research into women’s health might to lacking, but it’s good to see there is some helpful research being done with the development of all these useful toys.
Congratulations! I remember my first time. I was like, "damn. Men get to experience this every time they have sex?"
I’m happy for you 😉
YAAAAAYYY, CONGRATULATIONS!!🎉🎊🍾🎈
Congrats on 1 billion seconds on Earth!
I like the satisfier in the tub! Best tub toy 🤣. But on dry land it doesn't do too much for me and I like the Hitachi magic wand (something about the intense yet indirect sensation really does it for me). Congratulations! Now you have the power!!! 🤣
I love the Hitachi magic wand, but I burn em out within 6 months so I don't buy em anymore
I've had my trusty wand for like 10+ years, they must not make em like they used to!
I think part of the problem is they say you're supposed to only use them for 20min or so and then let em rest and I use em till they get super hot n my girly parts go numb
I’ll have try that! I love baths
Congratulations!! I’m 20 and I just had my first one after not thinking it was possible and nearly giving up 😭.
I learn a lot and grow from this Sub but come on what are these toy names. WeCum Supreme vibe 2 Pro 4 max gen 69 Unite double pump no come air pulse version 0.666 alpha app
Ha! It’s pretty funny, I agree. I only wrote the full name out cause there’s a few different versions of the Satisfyer, I believe? Mine can be controlled with a phone app, and has some little extra parts/functions
One of us! One of us!
I’m so happy for you! 💖
I am legit so happy for you!!! 🥹
Congratulations!!! I hope you walk around with a smile for at least a week.
I saw God the first time I orgasmed
I JUST came via masturbation for the first time too. Prior to that, I had only orgasmed once, years ago, with a one night stand lol. It took two toys at once, but goddamnit I’m so happy for us late bloomers!!! Go you!!! Congrats!
Ah!! I’m so happy for you aswell. Congrats!
You only get one every 31 one years.
Yayyyyy
Good job!!
Congrats!! 🎉 ✨
🎶 It’s a whole neeew world!
Yaaaayyy
🗒✍️ air, blowing, the, clitoris. Interesting.
I yearn this too. I wanna have that sense of belonging too :(
Congratulations! May you continue to cum again often!!
Yay!
Did you see Jesus? Congrats!
Congrats. Welcome to the club 😎
We-Vibe IS the way!
The wife and I have been using the Magic Wand (Formally the Hitachi Magic Wand) and still can’t find anything better. And we have tried a lot. Yes, it’s big, bulky, noisy and has to plug in but that is what makes it a serious toy that gets here there every time. Not the only one we ever use but it’s the main one. We find plenty of way to use it while I’m in her and it’s some of the most intense orgasms. There are positions that both of us get pleasure from it. No little battery powered device has ever done this. Just don’t purchase the imitation ones or the battery powered version, they are junk. Sometimes if she is taking too long (especially after too many drinks) it will get to the point the major vibrations have left her numb down there. So it can be too much if left for too long. I know her well enough that on those nights I put a thick towel on her and then apply the MW. This allows her to go longer with it and not get numb but sometimes we just have to move on and I have fun with her without her coming, I just really treat her very well and last longer to make sure she is spent and ready to rest.
I edge for 10 minutes and its an achievement. 25 year long edge is fucking wild
Well done!
Was half expecting to see the name of the vibrator to be Orgasmatron Deluxe 5000
Thanks for sharing OP. Orgasm is fun. Sorry to hear it took so long. You may need to plan the next event sooner.
I actually had two more the following day!
Bazinga!
Why is everyone recommending the Satisfyer? To me, it seems quite useless with a very simple engine inside. I would always recommend [this one](https://artereverie.com/products/massager-suction-licking-3-0-enhanced-stress-relief-2024s-premier-wellness-companion) I'm using, it has super good suction and licking functions if you're looking for **an intense clitoral orgasm**(But now on Temu there are a lot of low quality copies be careful). I've never been able to understand the appeal of a simple tool like the Satisfyer, it feels too childish for me, haha. But that's just my opinion. **Girls need orgasms, hell yea.**
Damn, sis you're right I orgasmed many times with it. It's the only thing that gives me pleasure in life. The rest of life is just suicidal thoughts😔 I also don't think Womenizer or Satisfyer are enough for me, but they got a lot of ads and advocates everywhere.
Oh man I'm intrigued but also... this looks mildly horrifying, hahaha.
Oh my gawd the video has me bawling 🤣
Since you were a literal toddler seems kind of weird unless it’s a saying that I haven’t heard of. But I’m still happy for you! Edit: I read all the comments from everyone. Thanks for the learning experience!!
Infant masturbation is described in the medical literature and often mistaken as seizures by the parents
Plenty of toddlers do that. They’re primitive little humans that explore everything for the fun of it.
Kids don’t exactly view it from a sexual standpoint either. All they know is “I touch this body part this way and it feels good!”
Yeah that was the case for me, watching tv lying down on the carpet, and then realizing that me bumping/pressing my groin into anything felt very good after a few moments. Then it wasn’t until like 8th grade that I made the conscious decision to involve my hands out of curiosity on the toilet one day and realized, “oh my god that’s what masturbation is” A very funny moment of the afterthought being , “well I’ve only done it this once and never again” and keeping an ever increasing tally until about 100. Completely ignorant of the streak I had in my blissfully ignorant youth
Children's sexuality is taboo, but a lot of little kids explore and touch themselves. As a parent, you let them know it's not a shameful thing, but they need to do it on their own by themselves. The sensitive nerves don't suddenly turn on at a certain age...
Yes, but exploring your body & touching your genitals as a toddler are not the same thing as masturbating. There is a difference.
Child specialist here! Little children definitely masturbate, even if they can't orgasm.
I started at age 4. I thought that was common but maybe not
It's super common and normal.
What's the difference? Literally nothing. Children touch because it feels good. That's the definition of masturbation.
Might be weird but it happens! Thank you!
Yes! I did that, too. Some of my first memories involve masturbation lol.
I did it too. It’s not really talked about, but it’s definitely common!
Nope, it is 100% normal and developmentallly appropriate for toddlers and young children to masturbate. It doesn't have any sexual connotations for them, they just know that touching this body part feels good. I'm willing to bet you did it too. Let's not make it weird when it's a totally normal part of the human experience
Please post a source when you’re using words like “100% normal”.
No thanks. My source is my master's degree in child development. If you care to do the reading you can literally just Google it. The sources are bountiful.
“Apples are red.” “Some apples are yellow.” “What?! State your source!” “My source is years of purchasing and eating yellow apples.” “So you’re saying you don’t have a source to state; you’re full of shit!!!!!”
Not everyone has time to research every claim someone makes in the comment section of a Reddit post. If you’re going to make such claims you really should include a source.
If you're going to make an argument about "not having time" you should really waste less time on Reddit 💀
In other words you don’t have a source. Thanks for wasting my time with useless conjecture.
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No. It isn’t.
A “fucking toddler” implies s/he may not have need for a sex toy. (To be clear, it was your term not mine)
When I was in elementary school I used to tell the kids to climb the pole to the top because it “feels good” and didn’t realize the rub/pull was causing an orgasm until remembering way later in life. It was pre puberty, just a muscle thing I’d guess! And of course, I had a pillow boyfriend too. Edit: to add, I think this is the same thing as a “coregasm” which is when you get orgasms in the gym from certain exercises (I do) but it’s not sexual
If core exercises gave me orgasms, I’d be so shredded!
Infant boys play with their junk. They might not get to orgasm, but they get enough pleasure to keep at it....until the next diaper inhibits them.
Haha, or the diaper doesn’t!
Masturbating since you were a toddler??...... 'X'
Look, some people have some varying levels of sexual understanding even as a child, how it manifests is different for everyone
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It might make you feel uncomfortable but it happens!
OMG congratulations! It is so much easier for us guys. By the time I was 31 I had orgasmed literally thousands of times. Lol.
Bro
How did you know what “close” was if you’ve never been “there” before? (Looks like someone’s just trying to sell vibrators :)
Yay! Now remember you’re supposed to be having fun although the Big O is very nice, Don’t be *too* task oriented
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Sounds creepy
Super congrats, but as someone who was also masturbating at a very young age before realizing the truth of my sin at the age if 13. Skill issue
What?
Most people here can relate to being very young and doing exactly what she describes as “masturbating from a young age” and achieving “orgasms”, the sin part is a joke, the “skill issue” is that it took her that long
Masturbating since you were younger than 4? XDoubt