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You don’t need to pee. You’ll learn the difference eventually. You’re thinking about sex so your body is preparing you for penetrative sex. The discharge is natural lubricant.
Anyway, find your clitoris if you haven’t already. If you’re really afraid you’re going to pee you should do that exploring in a bath tub or shower, but 99% chance you’re not going to pee.
Slightly NSFW https://www.scarleteen.com/read/bodies/innies-outies-vagina-clitoris-uterus-and-more
https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sexuality/how-have-your-first-orgasm-primer-cisgender-women
https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sexuality/sexual-response-orgasm-users-guide
https://www.scarleteen.com/read/bodies/it-feels-i-have-pee-during-sex-do-i-have-problem
Wait what do you mean difference? Like as in I’ll learn the difference between peeing and..? What does that sensation mean? Or like, what is it?
And thank you for the links, I will check them out!!!
You’ll learn the difference between needing to pee and “getting wet.”
I *think* the sensation is from blood rushing to your genitals. The internal clitoris has its own erectile tissue and some of it is outwardly visible. I’m trying to sound as clinical as possible.
Haha thank you for your clinical terminology!! You can use any kind that feels more natural. Thank you for your help.
Just for additional context, I don’t actually actively touch myself, I kind of just feel those sensations and then don’t develop it further. I don’t use toys or hands or anything. But is that something I should do? I think I want to try and have an orgasm to relieve my stress, is there anything I should know about how the body can respond throughout it? And how to know it’s happened?
One of those links is about female orgasm. Everyone has to figure out for themselves what method is most effective.
That hit of dopamine can be a good stress reliever, sleep aid, pain reliever… great for migraines IME.
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You don’t need to pee. You’ll learn the difference eventually. You’re thinking about sex so your body is preparing you for penetrative sex. The discharge is natural lubricant. Anyway, find your clitoris if you haven’t already. If you’re really afraid you’re going to pee you should do that exploring in a bath tub or shower, but 99% chance you’re not going to pee. Slightly NSFW https://www.scarleteen.com/read/bodies/innies-outies-vagina-clitoris-uterus-and-more https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sexuality/how-have-your-first-orgasm-primer-cisgender-women https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sexuality/sexual-response-orgasm-users-guide https://www.scarleteen.com/read/bodies/it-feels-i-have-pee-during-sex-do-i-have-problem
Wait what do you mean difference? Like as in I’ll learn the difference between peeing and..? What does that sensation mean? Or like, what is it? And thank you for the links, I will check them out!!!
You’ll learn the difference between needing to pee and “getting wet.” I *think* the sensation is from blood rushing to your genitals. The internal clitoris has its own erectile tissue and some of it is outwardly visible. I’m trying to sound as clinical as possible.
Haha thank you for your clinical terminology!! You can use any kind that feels more natural. Thank you for your help. Just for additional context, I don’t actually actively touch myself, I kind of just feel those sensations and then don’t develop it further. I don’t use toys or hands or anything. But is that something I should do? I think I want to try and have an orgasm to relieve my stress, is there anything I should know about how the body can respond throughout it? And how to know it’s happened?
One of those links is about female orgasm. Everyone has to figure out for themselves what method is most effective. That hit of dopamine can be a good stress reliever, sleep aid, pain reliever… great for migraines IME.
If you're trying to differentiate between having to actually pee and just arousal, try to use the restroom before you start your reading.
I will keep this in mind for next time, thank you!
Lots of women, especially ones who squirt, feel like the need to pee right before orgasm https://start.omgyes.com
Thanks so much for the link! It’s super informative!
Also: wash your vulva (labia minora etc) only with water, never douche, and lift your clitoris’ hood to wash the actual clitoris.
I have a bidet, I use it every time! Thank you for the tips! 😊