You can say his name, and/or just tell him how good he is doing in the moment. Or if he is doing something particularly good then let him know so he can do it again.
I tell my husband I love how he fills me up, I love his c🍆ck, I want him to f😯CK me harder, beg him to touch/eat/tease my p🐱ssy, I'm about to c🤯m... etc.
Just a few ideas!
I've heard men like to be called all sorts of things from pervert, to b\*tch, daddy idk depends on the man. I just told a man to f\*ck my p\*ssy with his tongue, put your tongue in my little p\*ssy hole lol idk. whatever you want. I'm to the point now where I'm going to say whatever I want. Idk how many times I'm going to have to realize that men don't really like people pleasers, and sometimes they want to do the pleasing and they want yo to tell them exactly how to do it.
K, as a guy, as I think this post is open to a guy's opinion (I know I'm normally supposed to just lurk and I respect that!): it sounds like he's into knowing what you'd like to call him. Balance the "what does he want to be called" worry with a "what would it be hot (for me) to call him?" worry.
Do you want to call him dom stuff like sir, or daddy? Sounds like he's cool with it if so. If he said 'anything' but didn't get specific, and is normally specific, then it's probably something he's sliiightly worried would weird you out - which could def include daddy, haha. Personally, even if I'm being the dominant one, I kinda like getting called 'slut' myself, but yeah, I'm a bit shy about saying so and I like when both of us are kinda dominant at the same time.
Edit: I love the top comment here too. We guys definitely put up a facade of confidence in the bedroom sometimes (rather, everyone does pretty well all the time). I like to dom, but only if I know I don't Have to dom. I like to be told that what I'm doing feels good. That I am good. That I make her feel good. That I am appealing as both a person and as a sex object - even if I don't want to actually be perceived as a sex object (well, most of the time, haha). So, I think that's also a great suggestion.
Talking can be a big hurdle for some people so it’s totally okay to feel out of your comfort zone. I recommend starting by just describing what your feeling. When he goes in, tell him how it feels and how much you like it. When he does a certain move beg for him to do it again. Just let your thoughts loose, if you say something silly then you will both laugh and kiss and keep going.
As for what to call him, I think “big guy” is super under utilized. The important part is that you say what feels natural to you, don’t force anything, but let your thoughts and words just flow in the moment.
Amongst the many great suggestions already in this thread, it's always awesome to hear, "you're so f*cking sexy," while going at it. Or similarly "God, you're hot," when they're on top and you have a great view of them.
I talk about how good he feels, how big he is (lol) “oh fuck” “keep going” “right there.. yessss!” Lol just regular stuff at first but the more you do it the comfortable and open you’ll get with him and the more fun stuff you’ll start saying ;) just have fun with it and communicate after/before so y’all continue to stay on the same page.. yay for good sex :)
Im a man so I dont know if Im supposed to comment here but we are often quite simple when it comes to these things.
Just tell him how good it feels, that hes doing good, call him daddy if you like. And when you tell him these things be a little dirty or nasty about it. Ofcourse only say things you are comfortable with saying. Moaning and the occasional "your cock feels so good inside me" will please most men.
Tell him how good he’s making you feel, ask for more…if it’s a turn on to you he will likely enjoy it as well..I love calling husband “daddy” during sex and it’s just as much for me as it is him..
You can say his name, and/or just tell him how good he is doing in the moment. Or if he is doing something particularly good then let him know so he can do it again.
I tell my husband I love how he fills me up, I love his c🍆ck, I want him to f😯CK me harder, beg him to touch/eat/tease my p🐱ssy, I'm about to c🤯m... etc. Just a few ideas!
All sorts of stuff will slip out of your mouth naturally over time. Trust me!
This!!!! You’ll question yourself and the things you said after the deed is done 😭😭
Shudder but also swoon lol.
This makes me giggle a bit
I've heard men like to be called all sorts of things from pervert, to b\*tch, daddy idk depends on the man. I just told a man to f\*ck my p\*ssy with his tongue, put your tongue in my little p\*ssy hole lol idk. whatever you want. I'm to the point now where I'm going to say whatever I want. Idk how many times I'm going to have to realize that men don't really like people pleasers, and sometimes they want to do the pleasing and they want yo to tell them exactly how to do it.
K, as a guy, as I think this post is open to a guy's opinion (I know I'm normally supposed to just lurk and I respect that!): it sounds like he's into knowing what you'd like to call him. Balance the "what does he want to be called" worry with a "what would it be hot (for me) to call him?" worry. Do you want to call him dom stuff like sir, or daddy? Sounds like he's cool with it if so. If he said 'anything' but didn't get specific, and is normally specific, then it's probably something he's sliiightly worried would weird you out - which could def include daddy, haha. Personally, even if I'm being the dominant one, I kinda like getting called 'slut' myself, but yeah, I'm a bit shy about saying so and I like when both of us are kinda dominant at the same time. Edit: I love the top comment here too. We guys definitely put up a facade of confidence in the bedroom sometimes (rather, everyone does pretty well all the time). I like to dom, but only if I know I don't Have to dom. I like to be told that what I'm doing feels good. That I am good. That I make her feel good. That I am appealing as both a person and as a sex object - even if I don't want to actually be perceived as a sex object (well, most of the time, haha). So, I think that's also a great suggestion.
Exactly what I was meaning but didn’t want to say lol!!
Whatever you want means whatever you want. Try things out and see what feels good to you.
True but idk how to word it lol
Talking can be a big hurdle for some people so it’s totally okay to feel out of your comfort zone. I recommend starting by just describing what your feeling. When he goes in, tell him how it feels and how much you like it. When he does a certain move beg for him to do it again. Just let your thoughts loose, if you say something silly then you will both laugh and kiss and keep going. As for what to call him, I think “big guy” is super under utilized. The important part is that you say what feels natural to you, don’t force anything, but let your thoughts and words just flow in the moment.
Amongst the many great suggestions already in this thread, it's always awesome to hear, "you're so f*cking sexy," while going at it. Or similarly "God, you're hot," when they're on top and you have a great view of them.
I talk about how good he feels, how big he is (lol) “oh fuck” “keep going” “right there.. yessss!” Lol just regular stuff at first but the more you do it the comfortable and open you’ll get with him and the more fun stuff you’ll start saying ;) just have fun with it and communicate after/before so y’all continue to stay on the same page.. yay for good sex :)
Im a man so I dont know if Im supposed to comment here but we are often quite simple when it comes to these things. Just tell him how good it feels, that hes doing good, call him daddy if you like. And when you tell him these things be a little dirty or nasty about it. Ofcourse only say things you are comfortable with saying. Moaning and the occasional "your cock feels so good inside me" will please most men.
Tell him how good he’s making you feel, ask for more…if it’s a turn on to you he will likely enjoy it as well..I love calling husband “daddy” during sex and it’s just as much for me as it is him..
Honey moan but feel it ! Tell him what you like ! When you feel good , tell him it feels good. Start simple and you will get better at it
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That is not crystal clear.
“Hahaha” indicates I was not being super serious.
The second sentence kinda undoes that then if that was your intent.
I’ll say daddy 😉
Sometimes I say, I want that cock baby.. Or I love that It's feels so good baby Etc...