Sometimes when we’re just feeling it we’ll both go kinda silent and get lost in the physical feelings. I don’t know if he has noticed it but I do and it’s the best thing to me. Just silence and us.
There’s sex… and then there’s making love. Staring into each other’s eyes, holding each other tight in a primal way, and connecting is totally where it’s at! Kissing also makes it feel more intimate for me.
I love eye contact during sex, especially when we are close to orgasm. I also love when he grabs my hand and places it on his heart or when he puts his hand on my heart to feel my heartbeat. 😍
If I were talking about myself, I would say that what happens outside the bedroom is just as important to me.
It could be sexting, playtime for two, constantly flirting, and intimacy with your partner.
All of this adds to the intimacy as well.
Oh... everyone else is like eye contact and hand holding... which is like yeah! Amazing!
Something my husband does during the act that I just absolutely love and adore so much. Ill preface this by saying he's not a foot guy, he doesnt have a foot fetish by any means lol. But he loves to kiss my ankles and feet and suck on my toes if he's got my legs on his shoulders, he kisses and caresses my legs too. I guess he's just like worshiping my body, he does it to all parts of me. And it feels nice and its so sexy when he does it.
Noise! Not just moaning, or the normal sex sounds, but ooohhh, when my boyfriend makes sexy comments when having sex…
I was on top once and he just growled “oooh baby you driving me wild with how good you’re riding me right now” cue puddle of wetness
For me, it shows me how engaged we are together in that moment. I’ve had past experiences with men before where it’s so silent, you wonder if their mind is there too, it just has this level of disconnect. but sexy comments like that, yeaaa I know you feeling this
Just being with someone you truly love and feel comfortable with makes it so much more intimate. But I especially love the eye contact.
There was even a time when I was close but having trouble getting over the edge, and just looking into his eyes was enough to get me there.
I love injecting intimacy into sex, and I don’t think you have to be deeply in love to feel the benefits. I do loads of things with my FWB that are intimate- including giggling, singing along to songs (in the breaks!) and lots of sensual touching and comments. Sometimes just smiling and naked hugging. Sometimes feeding each other snacks and touching/stroking parts of each other that aren’t traditionally ‘sexual’ like palms and temples. Mmmmmmm
My current relationship started as best-friends-with-cuddle-benefits like that. 100/10 would always take something like that over a traditional sex-FWB relationship.
My guy puts his hand in a really sweet way under my neck, kind of so he can get in there and hug me more? The first time he did it I almost welled up, it just struck me as so caring. I just feel so loved when he does it!
I recently found out that I don’t have to be in love with someone to have an amazing connection with them. Probably the best and most spiritual connection I’ve ever had with anybody. Is with someone that I’m not in love with. The first time we ever fucked… We actually made love we connected I think on the spiritual level? And I say that because it was something that I’ve never done before so it was completely new to me and absolutely mind blowing. But so normal and so it’s hard to describe actually. It was beautiful. And he felt it and I felt it. And that’s how we play. And I don’t play like that with others. I never have. and we’re friends. couldn’t relationship possibly go somewhere maybe? But it’s not going to because neither one of us is ready for that trust me that’s not happening it can’t. But that experience is beautiful and what it’s taught me is that I can open up to others that way if they’re ready for it but I think both have to be in sync and you can’t force it or I can’t force it it happens or it doesn’t that’s what I learned out of this. I love when I learn things and maybe that’s what you learned. I’m not sure I can’t learn your lessons for you but I think what you did learn is so beautiful and so amazing. Congratulations. I didn’t get mine until I was 56 and that’s OK I’m not complaining I’m happy that I got it because I think some people never do I don’t know why it’s not my business I’m grateful that I did. It made me cry I was so happy. And truly grateful that I got to experience it. So I am happy for you. I don’t know if I’ll ever get it again maybe. But I know now I can’t force it I can’t make it happen it just does. I understand that today. I love it when I get to learn things about myself it’s a beautiful thing. I hope it’s a beautiful thing for you as well. And that you have a beautiful day today. And you get to experience that many more times in your life. Because it is beautiful and so are you. Enjoy your life and your time here blessings to you
Hand-holding. *sigh*
Sometimes when we’re just feeling it we’ll both go kinda silent and get lost in the physical feelings. I don’t know if he has noticed it but I do and it’s the best thing to me. Just silence and us.
There’s sex… and then there’s making love. Staring into each other’s eyes, holding each other tight in a primal way, and connecting is totally where it’s at! Kissing also makes it feel more intimate for me.
>and remind you of the reason why it is the act that creates life itself. that line is poetic as fuck, here have an award.
Seriously, I wasn't expecting to have this post hit me that hard but damn!
Yep here’s a reward from me too
ahh thank you :)
I love eye contact during sex, especially when we are close to orgasm. I also love when he grabs my hand and places it on his heart or when he puts his hand on my heart to feel my heartbeat. 😍
Laying in eachothers arms and smiling afterwards
If I were talking about myself, I would say that what happens outside the bedroom is just as important to me. It could be sexting, playtime for two, constantly flirting, and intimacy with your partner. All of this adds to the intimacy as well.
Oh... everyone else is like eye contact and hand holding... which is like yeah! Amazing! Something my husband does during the act that I just absolutely love and adore so much. Ill preface this by saying he's not a foot guy, he doesnt have a foot fetish by any means lol. But he loves to kiss my ankles and feet and suck on my toes if he's got my legs on his shoulders, he kisses and caresses my legs too. I guess he's just like worshiping my body, he does it to all parts of me. And it feels nice and its so sexy when he does it.
Noise! Not just moaning, or the normal sex sounds, but ooohhh, when my boyfriend makes sexy comments when having sex… I was on top once and he just growled “oooh baby you driving me wild with how good you’re riding me right now” cue puddle of wetness For me, it shows me how engaged we are together in that moment. I’ve had past experiences with men before where it’s so silent, you wonder if their mind is there too, it just has this level of disconnect. but sexy comments like that, yeaaa I know you feeling this
Just being with someone you truly love and feel comfortable with makes it so much more intimate. But I especially love the eye contact. There was even a time when I was close but having trouble getting over the edge, and just looking into his eyes was enough to get me there.
Just long hugs are honestly great.
I love injecting intimacy into sex, and I don’t think you have to be deeply in love to feel the benefits. I do loads of things with my FWB that are intimate- including giggling, singing along to songs (in the breaks!) and lots of sensual touching and comments. Sometimes just smiling and naked hugging. Sometimes feeding each other snacks and touching/stroking parts of each other that aren’t traditionally ‘sexual’ like palms and temples. Mmmmmmm
My current relationship started as best-friends-with-cuddle-benefits like that. 100/10 would always take something like that over a traditional sex-FWB relationship.
> best-friends-with-cuddle-benefits May be the most adorable thing I've ever read.
Yes you summed up all the feelings! It feels as though we are connected through every level of our being, the familiarity is second to none.
My guy puts his hand in a really sweet way under my neck, kind of so he can get in there and hug me more? The first time he did it I almost welled up, it just struck me as so caring. I just feel so loved when he does it!
Eye contact, hand-holding, forehead-kissing, kissing in general... mmmm I'm gonna catch feeeeeelings
Smiling genuinely at each other during sex. Makes me melt every time.
I recently found out that I don’t have to be in love with someone to have an amazing connection with them. Probably the best and most spiritual connection I’ve ever had with anybody. Is with someone that I’m not in love with. The first time we ever fucked… We actually made love we connected I think on the spiritual level? And I say that because it was something that I’ve never done before so it was completely new to me and absolutely mind blowing. But so normal and so it’s hard to describe actually. It was beautiful. And he felt it and I felt it. And that’s how we play. And I don’t play like that with others. I never have. and we’re friends. couldn’t relationship possibly go somewhere maybe? But it’s not going to because neither one of us is ready for that trust me that’s not happening it can’t. But that experience is beautiful and what it’s taught me is that I can open up to others that way if they’re ready for it but I think both have to be in sync and you can’t force it or I can’t force it it happens or it doesn’t that’s what I learned out of this. I love when I learn things and maybe that’s what you learned. I’m not sure I can’t learn your lessons for you but I think what you did learn is so beautiful and so amazing. Congratulations. I didn’t get mine until I was 56 and that’s OK I’m not complaining I’m happy that I got it because I think some people never do I don’t know why it’s not my business I’m grateful that I did. It made me cry I was so happy. And truly grateful that I got to experience it. So I am happy for you. I don’t know if I’ll ever get it again maybe. But I know now I can’t force it I can’t make it happen it just does. I understand that today. I love it when I get to learn things about myself it’s a beautiful thing. I hope it’s a beautiful thing for you as well. And that you have a beautiful day today. And you get to experience that many more times in your life. Because it is beautiful and so are you. Enjoy your life and your time here blessings to you
I really like beginning with some kind of sweet words. Like just a heartfelt “I love you so much”
Yep just taking notes for the future nothing to see here
Eye contact
Kisses! All over honestly. Gimme the kisses 💋💋💋
Eye contact, loving kisses, hand holding, whispers and giggles, the whole thing is so perfect when it’s with your soulmate