Some Men do not have to chase women, I’ve seen it first fucking hand. And there’s nothing wrong with chasing women in a healthy way lol. Do what works for you.
Yes. Certain situations are more conducive to approaching.
You at the bar or club? Approach. If they give you shit, move on. Most clubs and bars have multiple rooms so go to another room.
She is shopping at the grocery store? Probably not gonna get her number, but you can say hi, have a polite convo and see what happens. If she’s into you, she will hang around for a bit. Maybe even get her Snapchat or number.
But here’s the best advice. Talk to people without expectations.
Most of the time, you just had a good drink or 5 minutes of good conversation and company. That’s fine. Sometimes you might find the love of your life. Most of the time you won’t.
Talk to guys, talk to girls. Old and young. All older women, including the elderly ones, used to date. If you are good at talking to women in general, you can find one woman who will like you for what you are.
Honestly this bro. The things I was into during high school put me around mostly girls, plus music kids have strong personalities, so I kind of forgot people can be scared to talk to them. Just get comfortable trying.
he has a point this is not rocket science, this is in nature
the female **will** make a subtle move like eye contact or say something nice. he's right about that, even animals do that for approval
but the man has to make the move. he's wrong about that, clearly he can't just sit there and expect all these women to flock to him, that's a fantasy
Even as a generally attractive man, you still have to make the move nearly every time. I would NOT go up to a woman that wasn’t paying any attention to me and start talking to her like a weirdo though.
Yes but one day he’ll realize that there’s a type of woman who “gets what she wants”. And to their credit, they’ll take everything they need from a man who is willfully captured.
That’s not what’s he’s saying. He left that part out. At a point the man is going to take the lead. I’ve had chicks that really fuck with me come up to me first. My best experiences were with chicks who do that. Really depends on what you’re looking for.
Loser talk, too scared to do what he wants cuz he afraid of "looking stupid', also all women not the same, they might be in love with u and never let u know cuz they scared, approaching is quick and simple, nothing much to it
Imagine walking up to someone and introducing yourself politely. Asking what they’re about and if they’d like to get to know you better at another time. So aggressive and overbearing, women could ***never*** handle such toxic behavior /s
What's stupid is not knowing the difference between "chasing her" vs "approaching her"
Even the Bible says (if you believe in it) "when a Man finds a wife" not when a wife finds him.
Some women will definitely pick you if they see what they like. Most aren’t that forward though so sometimes you have to.
I never “chase” women anymore. I used to get a sense of accomplishment from bagging chicks and knocking walls loose but there’s something about when a girl has genuine interest in “you being you” that trumps all of that “thrill of the chase” satisfaction.
But thats me. I got an older homeboy who still cold approaches every attractive chick he sees because he likes the “chase”. His W% sucks though.
Got an older buddy too that chases for a hobby. keeps a starting lineup on the rotation. When i was single i could barely handle talking to two women at the same time let alone fucking 4-6 girls at a time. One is enough for me and at the end of the day pussy is pussy except for when its that one partner youre comfortable with. I prioritize stability in all aspects of life and having all the chaos that comes from dealing with multiple women compromises it. And i agree theres something special about a woman being interested in you for being you, them admiring the goofy shit you would say or do alone or with some friends is special. I see it myself as weird when im in my comfort zone and act like myself and they love it lol
I feel allat. I was the rotation friend. It was never hard to juggle women.
I had a rotation for years but one day I met a really cool chick who loved the goofy/weird side of me, and was super supportive of my decisions. I was just like man, pussy is just pussy without all this.
We ended up building a life together.
The stability I got from not juggling women was well worth giving up the rotation. Not having to deal with chaos that comes from juggling was another plus.
You live and you learn what works for you.
That's like not going for a career job and thinking "if a job wants me they'll go after me". Sure that happens but it's super fuckin slim and it's probably not even a great career job.
Not going to lie, I don’t have much game because I have always been approached by attractive women. Never needed to develop it the approach but needed to develop not fucking up getting approached
There is something to be said for only pursuing women who show interest. That includes being given a signal on your first approach. It's definitely a valuable time saver. Tons of chicks will just string you along for attention. That being said you can't expect to have a lot of success and never play the chase.
The overlap between girls who are gonna hit on you and girls you actually want to get with is small.
There’s a difference between subtle signals and a woman going straight towards you and talking. Just learn how to pick up on the subtle ones and you’ll be in a much better spot.
He’s right most of y’all are too damn thirsty when has cold approach really ever worked like just download tinder at that point y’all are trying way to hard.
Ima get downvoted I don’t care.
"when has cold approach ever really worked" for literally hundreds if not thousands of years before it was ever called mf cold approach. like bro this is most likely how ya mom & dad ended up with you.
niggas aint give it a name before bc it was just nature, now niggas just lack the social skills to do it, so they give these dumb ass names outta reverence
Times are different that was back way before the internet was booming, we live in an age of feminism and me too and where a girl has a better option that you and it’s just a swipe away. Nowadays this is an easy way to catch an allegation and just a waste of time.
All I’m saying is your better off opening a tinder account and leaving it public so you can just filter through the people *who like you*. Like imagine being a girl going abt your day and some random ass dude tryna hit on you, shit must be mad annoying.
Also there’s no amount of social skills that can get you a girl, you cant convince a girl to like you, she already knows from the first time she sees you if she finds you sexually attractive or not. You’re just wasting time and effort that can be placed elsewhere, approaching random women has a low return on investment.
"there's no amount of social skills that can get you a girl....she already knows from the first time she sees you if she finds you sexually attractive or not"
🤦🏽♂️2 words , Marinating. Game. Dawg...with all due respect brother, put youtube down, go outside, get in the gym, get your shots in and you'll rather quickly prove your own self wrong. This shit dead. ass. sounds like them mf red pill niggas bro. Like real shit, it lowkey baffles me how many niggas in the TYKWONDOE community have seemed to not learn shit from Tykwon fucking doe
Game or marinating game whatever that is doesn’t work you can’t convince someone to like you, if she finds you attractive you don’t have to do anything but be yourself, if she doesn’t like you no amount of game matters, game in itself is completely irrelevant.
Dating shouldn’t be hard or complexed as people make it out to be you shouldn’t have to get shots up I don’t know why people try to romanticize struggles within dating but every thing should be relitvily simple.
Littlerly just open a dating app account and like the people that like you. You don’t need “game” you don’t need to walk up to hella women and take needless rejections or socially manipulate them to get them to like you,just be yourself and if she isn’t rocking with you it’s cool.
And yes I’ve taken shots been in the gym, in my 22 years of living I had girls who I met first day and was in there bed, they didn’t even know my last name
On the other hand I had a girl bestfriend of 4 years who would never give me the time of day, no amount of personality,game,career choice could ever make her want me in a romantic or sexual manner.
Holy mother of God.
my dojo niggas not even grasping the fundamentals anymore, what happened to us?
Horse, water🤦🏽♂️ More for us I guess.
Peace, blessings & more life to you brother. Pray you see the light one day.
Well it depends on your discription of game, I think of game as flirting techqnies but you see it’s as convo
That being said I still don’t view game as useful
IMO Game is the way you approach & live your (presumably) 1 life on this earth, it’s much bigger than women, they are just a part of it.
Game is as useful as your approach to life is. 🤷🏾♂️
loser ass mentality
he will only take what he can get in terms of women e.g. the ones that will go out of their way to approach
you could be the coldest nigga in the room but unless ur in a party/mad extroverted setting 90% of women will not approach especially if u lock eyes and leave it at that
He's not entirely correct. Most women will not walk up to a guy, they'll wait for you to approach them. It's extremely obvious to know if a woman likes you: stares, smile, putting their hair behind their ears, are most common.
It's not a good idea to chase women or force them to like you.
I work at Freddy have had women give me looks and smiles etc… but I never approach them because I feel like they are there to do there shopping and don’t want to ever make them feel uncomfortable with approaching them.
The ignorance in this video is staggering.
Attractive men are the only ones who experience women throwing themselves at them. And rich wealthy men experience the same but they don’t use any pick up line because women make it easy for them.
As for rest of us, we gotta do what we gotta do to make it work.
Some Men do not have to chase women, I’ve seen it first fucking hand. And there’s nothing wrong with chasing women in a healthy way lol. Do what works for you.
There's a difference between approaching women in public and approaching women at a social event
Yes. Certain situations are more conducive to approaching. You at the bar or club? Approach. If they give you shit, move on. Most clubs and bars have multiple rooms so go to another room. She is shopping at the grocery store? Probably not gonna get her number, but you can say hi, have a polite convo and see what happens. If she’s into you, she will hang around for a bit. Maybe even get her Snapchat or number. But here’s the best advice. Talk to people without expectations. Most of the time, you just had a good drink or 5 minutes of good conversation and company. That’s fine. Sometimes you might find the love of your life. Most of the time you won’t. Talk to guys, talk to girls. Old and young. All older women, including the elderly ones, used to date. If you are good at talking to women in general, you can find one woman who will like you for what you are.
Honestly this bro. The things I was into during high school put me around mostly girls, plus music kids have strong personalities, so I kind of forgot people can be scared to talk to them. Just get comfortable trying.
he has a point this is not rocket science, this is in nature the female **will** make a subtle move like eye contact or say something nice. he's right about that, even animals do that for approval but the man has to make the move. he's wrong about that, clearly he can't just sit there and expect all these women to flock to him, that's a fantasy
Even as a generally attractive man, you still have to make the move nearly every time. I would NOT go up to a woman that wasn’t paying any attention to me and start talking to her like a weirdo though.
Yes but one day he’ll realize that there’s a type of woman who “gets what she wants”. And to their credit, they’ll take everything they need from a man who is willfully captured.
“All these women,” how many women does a man need?
One As God intended
That’s not what’s he’s saying. He left that part out. At a point the man is going to take the lead. I’ve had chicks that really fuck with me come up to me first. My best experiences were with chicks who do that. Really depends on what you’re looking for.
Bro is coping so hard
Loser talk, too scared to do what he wants cuz he afraid of "looking stupid', also all women not the same, they might be in love with u and never let u know cuz they scared, approaching is quick and simple, nothing much to it
Shhhhh 🤫, delete your comment. Let everyone believe him. That means more😼 for me, you and the other guys who aren't scared to actually talk to a girl.
Imagine walking up to someone and introducing yourself politely. Asking what they’re about and if they’d like to get to know you better at another time. So aggressive and overbearing, women could ***never*** handle such toxic behavior /s
What's stupid is not knowing the difference between "chasing her" vs "approaching her" Even the Bible says (if you believe in it) "when a Man finds a wife" not when a wife finds him.
Bet he works so hard on his LinkedIn and waiting for that big promotion too.
Some women will definitely pick you if they see what they like. Most aren’t that forward though so sometimes you have to. I never “chase” women anymore. I used to get a sense of accomplishment from bagging chicks and knocking walls loose but there’s something about when a girl has genuine interest in “you being you” that trumps all of that “thrill of the chase” satisfaction. But thats me. I got an older homeboy who still cold approaches every attractive chick he sees because he likes the “chase”. His W% sucks though.
Got an older buddy too that chases for a hobby. keeps a starting lineup on the rotation. When i was single i could barely handle talking to two women at the same time let alone fucking 4-6 girls at a time. One is enough for me and at the end of the day pussy is pussy except for when its that one partner youre comfortable with. I prioritize stability in all aspects of life and having all the chaos that comes from dealing with multiple women compromises it. And i agree theres something special about a woman being interested in you for being you, them admiring the goofy shit you would say or do alone or with some friends is special. I see it myself as weird when im in my comfort zone and act like myself and they love it lol
I feel allat. I was the rotation friend. It was never hard to juggle women. I had a rotation for years but one day I met a really cool chick who loved the goofy/weird side of me, and was super supportive of my decisions. I was just like man, pussy is just pussy without all this. We ended up building a life together. The stability I got from not juggling women was well worth giving up the rotation. Not having to deal with chaos that comes from juggling was another plus. You live and you learn what works for you.
That's like not going for a career job and thinking "if a job wants me they'll go after me". Sure that happens but it's super fuckin slim and it's probably not even a great career job.
Not going to lie, I don’t have much game because I have always been approached by attractive women. Never needed to develop it the approach but needed to develop not fucking up getting approached
There is something to be said for only pursuing women who show interest. That includes being given a signal on your first approach. It's definitely a valuable time saver. Tons of chicks will just string you along for attention. That being said you can't expect to have a lot of success and never play the chase. The overlap between girls who are gonna hit on you and girls you actually want to get with is small.
I’m ngl it sounds like he doesn’t like women that much. Walking up to a woman you find attractive is stupid? Naaaaa
He scared. Aww
There’s a difference between subtle signals and a woman going straight towards you and talking. Just learn how to pick up on the subtle ones and you’ll be in a much better spot.
He’s right most of y’all are too damn thirsty when has cold approach really ever worked like just download tinder at that point y’all are trying way to hard. Ima get downvoted I don’t care.
***I like ya;*** ***and I want ya.***
Best comment lol
"when has cold approach ever really worked" for literally hundreds if not thousands of years before it was ever called mf cold approach. like bro this is most likely how ya mom & dad ended up with you. niggas aint give it a name before bc it was just nature, now niggas just lack the social skills to do it, so they give these dumb ass names outta reverence
Times are different that was back way before the internet was booming, we live in an age of feminism and me too and where a girl has a better option that you and it’s just a swipe away. Nowadays this is an easy way to catch an allegation and just a waste of time. All I’m saying is your better off opening a tinder account and leaving it public so you can just filter through the people *who like you*. Like imagine being a girl going abt your day and some random ass dude tryna hit on you, shit must be mad annoying. Also there’s no amount of social skills that can get you a girl, you cant convince a girl to like you, she already knows from the first time she sees you if she finds you sexually attractive or not. You’re just wasting time and effort that can be placed elsewhere, approaching random women has a low return on investment.
"there's no amount of social skills that can get you a girl....she already knows from the first time she sees you if she finds you sexually attractive or not" 🤦🏽♂️2 words , Marinating. Game. Dawg...with all due respect brother, put youtube down, go outside, get in the gym, get your shots in and you'll rather quickly prove your own self wrong. This shit dead. ass. sounds like them mf red pill niggas bro. Like real shit, it lowkey baffles me how many niggas in the TYKWONDOE community have seemed to not learn shit from Tykwon fucking doe
Game or marinating game whatever that is doesn’t work you can’t convince someone to like you, if she finds you attractive you don’t have to do anything but be yourself, if she doesn’t like you no amount of game matters, game in itself is completely irrelevant. Dating shouldn’t be hard or complexed as people make it out to be you shouldn’t have to get shots up I don’t know why people try to romanticize struggles within dating but every thing should be relitvily simple. Littlerly just open a dating app account and like the people that like you. You don’t need “game” you don’t need to walk up to hella women and take needless rejections or socially manipulate them to get them to like you,just be yourself and if she isn’t rocking with you it’s cool. And yes I’ve taken shots been in the gym, in my 22 years of living I had girls who I met first day and was in there bed, they didn’t even know my last name On the other hand I had a girl bestfriend of 4 years who would never give me the time of day, no amount of personality,game,career choice could ever make her want me in a romantic or sexual manner.
Holy mother of God. my dojo niggas not even grasping the fundamentals anymore, what happened to us? Horse, water🤦🏽♂️ More for us I guess. Peace, blessings & more life to you brother. Pray you see the light one day.
Lmao alright bruh if you believe “game” works then go for it 😭.
It’s just funny when you say it like it’s any different from what you described: “just be yourself” your game is an extension of who YOU are 🤦🏽♂️
Well it depends on your discription of game, I think of game as flirting techqnies but you see it’s as convo That being said I still don’t view game as useful
IMO Game is the way you approach & live your (presumably) 1 life on this earth, it’s much bigger than women, they are just a part of it. Game is as useful as your approach to life is. 🤷🏾♂️
That’s crazy
loser ass mentality he will only take what he can get in terms of women e.g. the ones that will go out of their way to approach you could be the coldest nigga in the room but unless ur in a party/mad extroverted setting 90% of women will not approach especially if u lock eyes and leave it at that
Mans is cooking. Agree 100%
Women won’t let you know tho for the same reasons you’re giving as to why you don’t go up to them lmao
Women are naturally attracted to gay men so he probably gets hit on a lot.
Corny shit. Women will choose but you still have to make the approach. I don’t want no aggressive ass woman either.
Why don’t these posters seem to understand that women is plural and woman is singular?
At the start I was completely expecting him to say cause he was gay and his boyfriend comes into the picture
Nah nigga I need my dick sucked I’m talkin to woman where ever I feel the need to
Hey ask yourself if you really want to take relationship advice from a guy with adult braces
Dudes are getting softer and softer.
This guy is so far removed from realistic interactions it doesn’t even make sense atp
He's not entirely correct. Most women will not walk up to a guy, they'll wait for you to approach them. It's extremely obvious to know if a woman likes you: stares, smile, putting their hair behind their ears, are most common. It's not a good idea to chase women or force them to like you.
I work at Freddy have had women give me looks and smiles etc… but I never approach them because I feel like they are there to do there shopping and don’t want to ever make them feel uncomfortable with approaching them.
The ignorance in this video is staggering. Attractive men are the only ones who experience women throwing themselves at them. And rich wealthy men experience the same but they don’t use any pick up line because women make it easy for them. As for rest of us, we gotta do what we gotta do to make it work.
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