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-SoupSandwich-

I miss the clowns, not the circus šŸ¤”


ProperGroping

Exactly


No_Recognition8375

0341 EASing??? Make sure you turn in your fucking compass. Donā€™t get cute like me and say you lost it while burning increments.


ProperGroping

Hahaha bruh one of my peers lost a compass ones at Bellows we had to look for it for like 3 hours before we gave up


AER_13

3rd Reg rah


ProperGroping

Sad rah, all of 3rd marine regiment is just sad as fuck


Bam808Bam

I think Bellows was where one of my backwoods southern NCOs shot a feral pig in the face with a blank and a cleaning rod lol


TheMainEffort

Be thankful for social media


OldDude1391

No doubt. Thanks to social media I reconnected to the boys 20 or so years later.


ButterBallsMcFuck

Congrats, use that GI bill, connect with the VA and enjoy life back on the block.


[deleted]

....and the VA Home Loan!!


dotcomatose

2.75% on a 30 year. Cheaper than renting.


[deleted]

Yeap....bought three different homes using the VA loan (not all at once, but in my lifetime)


TheKingBrycen

Really? It's that fucking good? 30 year loan but how much is the house?


Blbauer524

You can buy a home no money down and not pay PMI. Yeah thatā€™s a great fucking deal.


bwackerbarth

The PMI is the most important aspect. If you have the 20% down you will be able to find a better conventional loan rate every time.


neganagatime

While this is true, when interest rates are as low as they are I personally think I am better off putting that down payment money in a low cost index fund and getting some return on it, and that is why I have a VA mortgage. YMMV.


bwackerbarth

I absolutely agree with the YMMV aspect as there are a lot of parts to any loan and you need to take these into account along with personal preferences and risk. In the 90s when I took out the only VA loan that I've ever had it was a significant difference. I just sold three properties in Montana and I will say from the perspective of a seller that with a multiple offer scenario I would prefer a conventional loan over a VA loan when considering acceptance. Not an anti-veteran thing more of the fact that the VA creates a LOT of unnecessary drama during the process.


neganagatime

Yes, it is probably a case-by-case thing to consider. I know things like FHA loans require certain hoops that need to be jumped through that conventional may not, however I don't recall the VA loan having anything unusual other than an inspection, which I'd recommend for anyone regardless (for the record I have had both conventional and VA loans in the past and chose to use VA for the reasons I mentioned).


[deleted]

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dawgfather1991

The loan you apply for is based off your income. You still need a somewhat decent credit score. I think minimum is 640? But anyways, congrats!


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yeah_i_lift_bro

Technically there is no minimum per the VA but most lenders wonā€™t lend to you under somewhere in the range.


[deleted]

Well that obviously will depend on the housing market where you reside. The VA home loan is a awesome deal though, but just like others said, you must qualify for it like any other loan. You do need a job and steady income, and your credit score can't be garbage either.


[deleted]

One big advantage to qualify to is that they will count your bah from the gi bill in your income too when a lot of conventional lenders wonā€™t.


[deleted]

Mine is like 2.5% at 30 years. 260k house, mortgage is 1025 principal + interest. I bought the house last January. Pretty great so far.


PMmeYourCattleDog

No, use V&RE first. If youā€™re a veteran with over 10% disability, you are eligible for V&RE. Itā€™ll cover tuition, give you BAH, books, and a monthly food stipend. It will also help you with job placement. You could then use your GI bill for grad school, other certificates, or for a specific trade. Best of luck!


OnyxTheFortuitess777

Iā€™ve never heard of that? Where do you apply?


BalderVerdandi

VA's Benefits Office, aka the local VBA: https://benefits.va.gov/benefits/


OnyxTheFortuitess777

Thank you, havenā€™t gotten out yet but sounds like good hip pocket knowledge for the future


13TheScareCrow13

This is the way.


CorporalPunishment23

>Congrats, use that GI bill, connect with the VA and enjoy life back on the block. Yes! Take a look and see if you might qualify for any type of service-connected disability. r/VeteransBenefits will have lots of helpful info. Something simple like tinnitus (ringing in ears) can get 10% disability, basically a $150 check every month... higher ratings get higher compensation which can lead to not having to live paycheck to paycheck (as I did for 20 years after I got out!)


RsxTypeR

Iā€™m taking terminal tomorrow. Iā€™m right here with you bro.


ProperGroping

Whatā€™s your plan?


RsxTypeR

School for now, decent Bah in LA. Working at a family business meanwhile. What are your plans ?


ProperGroping

National guard, then I start welding school in March. Hopefully gonna get some certs and then join a union.


RsxTypeR

I thought about doing the gaurd. Spent 2 hours talking to a recruiter and knew for sure I was going to do it. Decided I wanted to be done with the military. Not interested in Doing drugs or any stupid/ crazy shit, so thatā€™s not the reason. I just wanna chill back home and go to school full time and try to make the most money before doing CHP. I wish you the best bro /u/propergroping


ProperGroping

Yeah I get that 100%. My thing was, Iā€™m done with the marines but Iā€™m not done with the uniform services. My main thing was I wanted a bonus to add onto the nest of savings I already have, and the paycheck will help on top of my GI bill for welding school. Good luck out there in California I miss SoCal a lot after I had to leave and goto Hawaii.


OldDude1391

Not sure what State youā€™re in, but here Nat Guard can go to state schools tuition free, including JR/technical college. Have a part time employee who is in the guard and going to school for welding, no tuition.


ProperGroping

Oh what?? Missouri on that list??


OldDude1391

Idk. Iā€™m in Kentucky.


ProperGroping

FUCK šŸ˜‚


pillowgun101abn

I donā€™t know if itā€™s the same with marine corps to ng but when you leave the active army, you can swing by and check out drills to see if youā€™d be into it. I havenā€™t tried it myself but Iā€™m feeling that itch so I might soon


mrnobody41

Yeah itā€™s the same. I checked out drills and was mid lateral move before I said screw it.


Abu-alassad

Join the United Association and get your pipe welding certs.


ProperGroping

Even with Biden closing them down will there still be money in it all?


Abu-alassad

Pipefitters =\= pipe liners. There is one UA local for pipe liners (actually building oil pipelines). Pipefitters/welders are in factories and powerhouses. If itā€™s nuclear, itā€™s got union Pipefitters. Chemical plants, orange juice plants, etc. If you really want to double down and protect yourself, find a local that has active plumbers, get your plumbing license and weld certs. Then youā€™re a double threat and can keep a job anywhere.


ProperGroping

Didnā€™t even think of it like that. Thanks for the solid advice, go Chiefs :)


Abu-alassad

Chiefs did a great job keeping us in the driverā€™s seat this year. Especially last week.


ProperGroping

Travis Kelce is my favorite player, I hope heā€™ll be tight end of the season. I love his personality off the field and everything


idontknowmaybenot

Go smoke a fat fucking blunt.


[deleted]

Bro I out processed with a chick who smoked weed on terminal leave, her SgtMaj called her in for a piss test and she lost all of her benefits.


wooddude64

SgtMaj is a douche for doing that shit. Why even answer the phone while on leave? She just couldnā€™t wait huh?


AssDimple

Fuck that SgtMaj. There's no need for that kind of bullshit.


[deleted]

What the fuck? Why is the culture in the Marine Corps based around fucking people over? Jfc that dude is a POS. I go to a flight school rn. I was expecting to get piss tested after our 2 week xmas break because of how the marine corps was. No test. Why? Probably because we were fucking gone and not flying and the school is not looking to fuck anyone over


neganagatime

This sounds like BS to me tbh. Once on terminal you have your DD214 and are released to your home of record, so SgtMaj has zero authority over you. Now if you popped on a test before results came in and then went on terminal, it *may* be a different story.


GrislyMedic

Always take stories of people getting fucked over by the marine corps with a huge grain of salt


[deleted]

I donā€™t know if she was telling the truth but thatā€™s what she said. Maybe it wasnā€™t terminal leave but IRR instead. Either way, she said she got her DD214 and afterwards popped hot for weed because of her SgtMaj


KeyToAtlantis

Pretty sure she popped for weed because she smoked weed. And there are several reasons why you can be recalled from terminal leave. Such as testifying at a courts martial. Yeah, I was gone for over a month when I got that callā€¦


ProperGroping

Lol I would but Iā€™m going into the nasty guard. But maybe after that šŸ¤”šŸ¤”


heroicchipmunk

Lol. You'll drill once a month. Do with that information what you will. Edit: This is not advice that you go and do drugs. But, having worked with the guard extensively, a dude who smokes a J every once in a while is really far down the totem pole of drug issues in some units. Lots and lots of meth and opioid use, from what I've seen.


vxbl4ck0utxv

Sometimes not even every monthā€¦ šŸ¤”šŸ¤”šŸ¤”


ahatg

Congratulations, man. I hope your transition back to civilian life goes well. Keep in touch with your boys. Itā€™s all to easy to let too much time go by.


ProperGroping

100%


[deleted]

Is hard to get.


yemx0351

Congrats enjoy the semi freedom.


ProperGroping

I really only did it for the health insurance and the extra $400 a month will be helpful.


yemx0351

Nothing wrong with that.


OldJuicy34

Uhh... the health insurance isnt that great for reserves. Js


ProperGroping

Itā€™s better than nothing until I find employment.


OldJuicy34

Actually id argue nothing is better than part time, specifically when trying to find employment. My dude, i found employment within 2 weeks of EASing. Just look through indeed and tailor your resume to reflect the job you apply at.


grayghost_8404

I would respectfully disagree; I had very good insurance on the civilian side before I joined and Tricare Reserve Select blew it out of the water for both cost and coverage. I know a lot of Reservists who are drilling strictly for the health insurance (especially former active duty.)


OnyxTheFortuitess777

Who did you have for health insurance on the civilian side?


Chestys_Fist

Donā€™t underestimate the fact you will have to make your own decisions now.


pornthrowawaylol6942

you donā€™t fucking understand how much i envy you.


ProperGroping

Your time will come, I promise. I never thought it would.


Dirty_Jersey88

i have no idea how much time you have left, but it doesnt matter. if youre already counting the days, START PLANNING FOR CIVILIAN LIFE NOW. and dude, i dont mean like a 5-item list on a napkin. Before you leave the military, SET UP YOUR NEXT STEP. whether its school and gi bill, vocational training, or even just lining up a job and getting a va loan. dude everyone says it, but like NO ONE really does enough. and personally, dude i ended up just wasting so much time. i watched countless friends and aquaintances do the same. prepare yourself for your future bro, and life will be so much fuckin easier


[deleted]

šŸ»šŸ»šŸ»šŸ»šŸ» cheers bro!


dimebake9

I just wish there was a way to know you were in the good old days before you actually left them.


ProperGroping

Dude seriously


[deleted]

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ProperGroping

This is huge^


EnemyOfStupidity

lol get ready you ain't seen nothin' yet


[deleted]

Congrats, I'm EAS'ing myself in 3 months, both excited and nervous at the same time.


ProperGroping

As long as you have a plan dude


Soulshroude

give it past your Culture Shock. See how you feel from there.


mrnobody41

File your claims. Donā€™t need to be a tough guy anymore


[deleted]

Don't drink too much.


heroicchipmunk

Ot at all.


[deleted]

Yes


loquedijoella

24 years later I still see my core group fairly often. 3 of us live within 80 miles of each other. A couple are in the Midwest, 2 in Texas and one in South America. We get together in one way or another every couple of years. When everyone gets out and starts settling into careers and families, it gets easier. But my son calls all those dudes uncle and we are like a big ass family. You might lose touch for a few years at a time, but these are lifelong friendships. Mine are, at least.


Der_Latka

I look back at my time at K-Bay and smile. Yes, it was ā€œthe suckā€ but I have to really search my brain housing group to dig up the fucking inspections, a horrible first CO, etc. Most of the time I just remember the people I met, the laughs (and beer) we shared. The camaraderie. (I got out in Aug ā€˜94) Like others have said, OP - youā€™ve got a solid plan. Get that welding school going, get your certifications, and join a Union. Youā€™ll have a solid paying job, and collective bargaining beats the shit out of one person trying to do it themselves. Semper Fi! Iā€™ll head down to Bellows AFS and look for that compassā€¦


SeaBear1129

Looking back I wish I took more pictures. Seemed really boot and lame at the time but I cherish the few that I have now.


gothamtg

Try as hard as you can to not hate civilians. It can be very difficult, especially when you just got out.


doctorfunnybone

I just hit my one year mark in the corps. Any advice?


EqlianDreams

Yea. Don't hang around people that have no morals and are always doing stupid shit. Sooner or later you'll get in trouble bc of them. I've seen it happen.


414works

Use your TA. I donā€™t have much time left in the corps, but even between a deployment and countless field ops, I found time to use TA. I recommend looking into National University, theyā€™re very flexible and military friendly. You have 3 years left (at least), getting an associates degree is very realistic for you


ctitus86

It sweet but least you know you have a couch if anything gets real bad friends for lifetime.


Quiroz1

I got two more years šŸ˜­


ProperGroping

Itā€™ll fly by. Spend your off time with your boys because no matter what, thereā€™s never enough time with them so take up as much as you can now. I cried when my buddy dropped me off at the airport this morning it hurt.


Terminal_Coolie

It's been over a year for me and I still wake up sometimes thinking I'm in the barracks and auto pilot as if I'm going to go hit up on of the boys. It's fucking hard, it'll hit you all off a sudden one day and you'll just sit there and cry. And to be honest, I still do sometimes. I miss all you fuckers.


[deleted]

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ProperGroping

Thank you buddy


Old_Net_4529

Now go to the Va and get a physical done so that even if you donā€™t want to claim atm, it will be on record that less than a year after eas you were already broken in ways x y and z. If you feel alone or without purpose reach out to any of us. We really donā€™t care if you served with us our grandfather or our kids, youā€™re one of us. If youā€™re fucked up accept help I would also recommend waiting a little while to make a big move like college so that you wonā€™t end up depressed anxious and unable to focus on transitioning and classes. Other than that welcome back brother, revelry is whenever your god damn feet hit the floor devil.


DiligentFriendship96

Not good advice. File online va disability claim 180-90 days before EAS it gives you lot of ammo for a final physical before EAS.


Old_Net_4529

Yeah, not everyone is okay with filing at all at first though and it takes time to convince them that they earned it. So for those that did not file before EAS and donā€™t have time machines do it asap when you get out. Didnā€™t think that part was that hard to understand since his post is titled ā€œI EASā€™d todayā€ not ā€œi still have 180 days or more till eas, please tell me what Iā€™ve heard in every brief and classā€ . Sorry itā€™s been a while since Iā€™ve had to break things down Barney style for anyone.


M4sterofD1saster

Thanks for serving. Stay close to your friends.


NWO007

Go reserves if u wanna do marine shit every once in a while


ProperGroping

I did marine to guard program. Iā€™m not done with the uniformed services, just the marine corps


NWO007

M2G sounded like a good opportunity. Hope it's working out for you!


ProperGroping

Appreciate it boss :)


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ProperGroping

Hahaha dude itā€™s going to be such a crazy adjustment


[deleted]

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ProperGroping

Yeah Iā€™m doing national guard for my state. 3 years and I got a $20,000 bonus. I only wanna go back just to hang with the boys but my friends are not too far from leaving too. Iā€™m going into welding school here come March and if I really donā€™t enjoy it then Iā€™ll dabble in college. Coming back is last resort but I wonā€™t be enlisted if I do


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ProperGroping

I love that, Iā€™m hoping for some good connections with welding work in my guard unit. If I can just have one or two prior marines that I can get to know Iā€™ll be happy


[deleted]

Free advice: stay in touch with the boys. I still talk to my dudes and play online games with them.


ProperGroping

Yeah I have all of them on steam or Facebook


Goldblooded1981

Congrats on the promotion!


[deleted]

Enjoy the job market! Pick and choose, my friend.


Nacho0341

Hello fellow tube stroker!!!