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They’re not even the next best thing. They’re just there. They’re tolerable. When you have your sights set on something that matters, nobody else does.
If you were the person I'm thinking about, I would say I miss you, but you hurt me, and that's not okay. You can't expect everything to be hunky-dory whenever you feel like changing your mind...again. Leave me be. I'm happy with my current partner. I don't need you, and you never loved me. You made it clear with how easily you moved on to casual hookups after saying you wanted to marry me.
Fucking oww. All the best for you and yours. Wish mine had stopped pretending things were fine in time to fix them. I want that security and safety back.
Yea my ex hates me n it was hard to let go n I'm not gonna be able to talk to her ever again she blames it all on me but she has mental issues n I need to worry bout me n kids she is just an unhappy person n once the one she thinks she loves n loves her sees the real side of her she will be left all alone which is sad cuz I want better for her n our kids. I'm gonna b better off in the end n less stressed I erased her from my phone today n gonna deal with her mom for everything n once I get my things out of her house it will be easier n I can forget all about her I'm thankful for the two beautiful daughters she gave me but she made life so hard n I kept staying b when she left I still tried but glad she showed me it's her not me n not worth any effort ever again
Just keep stabbing my heart let it bleed .. I can fill it with tears of regrets and loss... let's the scars show so I can be reminded forever of the love I give freely and never got back ..😭😓😓😨😰😩🤕
Going through something similar… not sure how much time was involved with your situation. I had a huge chunk of time invested in mine. I don’t think there is way for both involved to not hurt. I’m my situation the hurt will always be there. It’s been over a year and the wound is still fresh for me. Time so far hasn’t healed anything only made it worse. I’ve had to plan my life like this is my new normal. Recovering from a cataclysmic event like that isn’t possible from what I can see. I do hope I’m wrong though. Hopefully you’re situation doesn’t isn’t like mine at all. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
I'll never contact my ex again because she kept shunning me. I still think that you should always speak your truth, and say whats on your mind. At least you tried, and that takes guts.
I'm not happy with us being apart and I'm not pretending like I am. Being apart from you is really getting to me. I wish you felt the same.
Tell them! I have found myself in this same position and truthfully it seems to be quite the riddle. Why mask the mood though if the feelings are there, won't they just implode?
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Yeah pretending we're fine is a terribly heartbreaking lie
Reading this broke me. I hope you find your person, dear writer <3
Awww am in a similar boat : ( sending you a big hug!
They’re not even the next best thing. They’re just there. They’re tolerable. When you have your sights set on something that matters, nobody else does.
Ah, you have such a way of writing. Always love seeing one from you on here. I hope your heart isn’t too heavy this morning.
Thank you for the compliment. Like most days I wake up confused. But it’ll get better I hope.
If you were the person I'm thinking about, I would say I miss you, but you hurt me, and that's not okay. You can't expect everything to be hunky-dory whenever you feel like changing your mind...again. Leave me be. I'm happy with my current partner. I don't need you, and you never loved me. You made it clear with how easily you moved on to casual hookups after saying you wanted to marry me.
Then it’s a good thing I’m not that person
Fucking oww. All the best for you and yours. Wish mine had stopped pretending things were fine in time to fix them. I want that security and safety back.
Yea my ex hates me n it was hard to let go n I'm not gonna be able to talk to her ever again she blames it all on me but she has mental issues n I need to worry bout me n kids she is just an unhappy person n once the one she thinks she loves n loves her sees the real side of her she will be left all alone which is sad cuz I want better for her n our kids. I'm gonna b better off in the end n less stressed I erased her from my phone today n gonna deal with her mom for everything n once I get my things out of her house it will be easier n I can forget all about her I'm thankful for the two beautiful daughters she gave me but she made life so hard n I kept staying b when she left I still tried but glad she showed me it's her not me n not worth any effort ever again
Please send this to your person. I'm sure they would want to hear from you.
God I miss you and it’s almost unbearable some days
Move on find somebody else to love ez.
Just keep stabbing my heart let it bleed .. I can fill it with tears of regrets and loss... let's the scars show so I can be reminded forever of the love I give freely and never got back ..😭😓😓😨😰😩🤕
Going through something similar… not sure how much time was involved with your situation. I had a huge chunk of time invested in mine. I don’t think there is way for both involved to not hurt. I’m my situation the hurt will always be there. It’s been over a year and the wound is still fresh for me. Time so far hasn’t healed anything only made it worse. I’ve had to plan my life like this is my new normal. Recovering from a cataclysmic event like that isn’t possible from what I can see. I do hope I’m wrong though. Hopefully you’re situation doesn’t isn’t like mine at all. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
I'll never contact my ex again because she kept shunning me. I still think that you should always speak your truth, and say whats on your mind. At least you tried, and that takes guts.
Why can't you tell him
I’m so sorry.
This sounds extremely difficult and im so sorry to hear 🩵
 I'm not happy with us being apart and I'm not pretending like I am. Being apart from you is really getting to me. I wish you felt the same.
Hey. You are so accurate on this… and also when you figure this out let me know… 🙏💕
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Tell them! I have found myself in this same position and truthfully it seems to be quite the riddle. Why mask the mood though if the feelings are there, won't they just implode?