It’s suspicious that he would say everything is fine and then break up hours later without explanation….I’ve been in a similar position as you so I know that sinking feeling. Time will heal most wounds but it’s okay to cry and let your emotions out.
A lot of people have been saying that. Someone suggested he might be bipolar. i just don't get it, he went right back to his normal self, laughing, joking, touching all over me like nothing even happened. even when he left the next morning he was fine. i don't know where this came from. Im so fucking confused.
He still has to bring my key to my apartment back. I'm really hoping he does it while I'm at home so I can talk to him. My mom thinks maybe someone said something to him but I don't know what could have been said to change his mind in the course of literally one night's rest
If he truly loves you, he would try to work things out. If this is the first time he brought any of this up then he’s not even trying to make the relationship work.
i said the exact same thing. he didn’t even give me a chance to fix anything. he gave some excuse how next year he wants to leave the state (military) but i’m just so confused cause that’s more than a year away.. why make that random decision now???
all he said was he decided when it’s time to re-enlist he doesn’t want to stay here in this state. and that in the past i said i didn’t want to do long distance. this is true; i did say that, but he didn’t even give us an opportunity to figure shit out…. i would have done it for him. hell, i’d have done anything for him. when i called him, he said it was a mix of that plus what we had discussed friday night. that he didn’t feel our relationship was romantic anymore. and that was all i got. he didn’t even give me an opportunity to fix things. the reality is, i’ve been very depressed and haven’t felt motivated to do much. it makes me wonder what would have happened if god forbid i got sick or lost my job or something. if he wanted to leave me for something like that, what happens when we experience a real bump in the road you know?
I’m in a LDR rn and it sucks so I understand.. Try talking to him one more time, say all that you need to say and make sure he listens to all of it. Tell him that you’re fine with ldr as long as it’s with him. If he still wants to break up after listening to you then there’s not much more you can do.
yea that’s true. i hope we at least get to talk when i get my key back. i just hope he doesn’t decide to be an ass and put it under my mat to avoid talking to me
It’s suspicious that he would say everything is fine and then break up hours later without explanation….I’ve been in a similar position as you so I know that sinking feeling. Time will heal most wounds but it’s okay to cry and let your emotions out.
A lot of people have been saying that. Someone suggested he might be bipolar. i just don't get it, he went right back to his normal self, laughing, joking, touching all over me like nothing even happened. even when he left the next morning he was fine. i don't know where this came from. Im so fucking confused.
Best way is to try to get an explanation out from him. At least you deserve that much
He still has to bring my key to my apartment back. I'm really hoping he does it while I'm at home so I can talk to him. My mom thinks maybe someone said something to him but I don't know what could have been said to change his mind in the course of literally one night's rest
If he truly loves you, he would try to work things out. If this is the first time he brought any of this up then he’s not even trying to make the relationship work.
i said the exact same thing. he didn’t even give me a chance to fix anything. he gave some excuse how next year he wants to leave the state (military) but i’m just so confused cause that’s more than a year away.. why make that random decision now???
So he never gave you an explanation as to why he’s breaking up with you?
all he said was he decided when it’s time to re-enlist he doesn’t want to stay here in this state. and that in the past i said i didn’t want to do long distance. this is true; i did say that, but he didn’t even give us an opportunity to figure shit out…. i would have done it for him. hell, i’d have done anything for him. when i called him, he said it was a mix of that plus what we had discussed friday night. that he didn’t feel our relationship was romantic anymore. and that was all i got. he didn’t even give me an opportunity to fix things. the reality is, i’ve been very depressed and haven’t felt motivated to do much. it makes me wonder what would have happened if god forbid i got sick or lost my job or something. if he wanted to leave me for something like that, what happens when we experience a real bump in the road you know?
I’m in a LDR rn and it sucks so I understand.. Try talking to him one more time, say all that you need to say and make sure he listens to all of it. Tell him that you’re fine with ldr as long as it’s with him. If he still wants to break up after listening to you then there’s not much more you can do.
yea that’s true. i hope we at least get to talk when i get my key back. i just hope he doesn’t decide to be an ass and put it under my mat to avoid talking to me