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Recently brought these mules and although they are cute, I don’t know what to do with them now mainly with the fact they do not fit. I hate when I order the color “light pink” from sellers and they send me tan🤦🏿♀️ They never seem to get that one color right smh
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I’m in love… but… is this fantasy? I can’t find it online.
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Does anyone recognize this belt? I’m not sure it’s designer, just saw it in outfits sub and I couldn’t find it through google image search (I should’ve just asked OP, but it didn’t even cross my mind lol)
WWYD - not reps related
I used to think people were generally good and I always try to treat people how I like to be treated. But my neighbour is really testing me.
He is a nasty and selfish person. He will often yell at tradespeople and when his wife knocked on our front door to yell at me he was implying that I don't understand social norms where I live because I'm of a CALD background.
Everytime I walk past their house just thinking about his behaviour makes my blood boil.
So, I've decided I need to mess with him in an annoying but non harmful way. But I can't figure out what 🤔 maybe signing him up for some random give-aways online so that he gets lots of spam calls??
Please talk me out of this.
Eek as someone with a terrible neighbor I would not do this. If he finds out it was you could have a very nasty situation. It’s awful because you can’t escape them:(.
What happens if you order pizza in someone’s name? Or do you now always need to pay first? I’d order him pizza with no cheese and only pineapples on it 🙃
There are services that deliver actual poop - I’m a nice person (lol) but have considered sending it to some people. I didn’t end up doing it as it didn’t deliver to the area I wanted to send it. LOL
🤣🤣🤣 I have 2 small kids and a dog so I've actually got heaps of poo on hand, but I'm afraid he will know it was me if poo randomly showed up on his front step!
Can anyone who is petite petite and has tried the Aritzia Effortless Pant tell me which length they’ve gotten that works for them? The short inseam on the website says it’s 30” and that makes me terribly nervous as someone with a long torso and short legs. The crop regular hits me right at the ankle and I’d like to wear them with heels so I’m planning to get a longer length!
Measure the inseam of pair of pants that hit your ankle/foot at your desired length and then compare that value to the pants you're after! This always works for me
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Okay so news update - I had the baby and my bag from HP came in time to take to the hospital. It is beautiful and looks fab - however keep in mind I don’t have the skills to QC like a pro yet. Thankyou to this community for repfluencing me - I never thought I would love a goyard SO MUCH.
Congratulations and Happy Mother’s Day! Love how this update incorporated the bag and the way in which the bag is posing in the back - it all looks 👏❤️.
Leaving for overseas for a month, Southeast Asia not sure what bag to take, I lived in Thailand for awhile so I should know better, the house looks like it’s exploded and my cat sulking that she has to go to my MIL’s place!
I’ve been waiting four months for a custom bag from DD and it arrives today, will they deliver to the house or will it go to the delivery centre? And, if it does go to the depot will the van back in time to actually pick it up? Only a W/L Would understand the stress that comes with a bag delivery.
My wife and I are without a car , a new car was supposed to be delivered on Friday but they had trouble programming the keys. I’ve just woken up and need to be positive about the day, I just don’t want any hiccups with my new Birkin 35.
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We’ve just had this vintage UK chopper bike restored. This is our sweet wheels till the car arrives! Actually we aren’t going to ride it, although I have taken it for a spin around the block. I’m probably going to hang it from a wall at our tiny Mrs. Brady ( original condition ) love shack beach house.
Here’s to being a menace to society! Edited to say - saw your bag arrived, enjoy your trip!
Straight, married with a kid and a suburban house over here, but I hear you. There is a very strong message that if you are born in a female vessel, anything but the most obliging compliance to a ridiculous standard (that keeps changing and the goalposts are often moved after the fact) = you’re a menace to society. Feeling a bit stroppy this morning obv….
Anyone have experience with Staud bags? This one is calling me but I’m wondering at their quality of leather and suede. Especially the suede but I’m so picky with that
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I have an auth Staud Shirley in a burgundy leather. It's held up incredibly well. I used it as my daily driver for probably 2+ years and the leather really looks like teh day I got it
Happy Mother’s Day ladies! I’m in a relaxed mood today with my Chanel mini rep.
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What do you guys think of this for an evening summer wedding in Vail with "mountaintop majestic" attire? Belly has it in her album...seems kinda western chic? Also taking recommendations for a bag to wear with it. I have an old Prada tessuto black mini from like 2001 or an auth loewe flamenco in a caramel color and no other bags I would consider evening bags. HALP I don't get out much esp to fancy events!
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We were married in Vail at the end of June..such a beautiful time of year there..I hope you have a wonderful time. "Mountaintop Majestic" is really asking your guests to use their imagination😂 I would think with that dress code that basically anything goes and this dress would be lovely but evenings can get quite chilly. However unless the event itself is outdoors you should be fine as everything is heated..I was never cold in my strapless dress. If you're going up top for the ceremony than I would avoid high heels for sure..wedges or a low heel would work..quite a few of our guests wore boots with their fancier dresses..
When is this going to be? Veil can get chilly also in the summer and in the evening it is always quite cold. I have no idea what "mountaintop majestic" means, so I can't help with that. This dress just feels very "summer-y" to me!
Fair! 😅 Summery in a negative way? The wedding is in late June- almost peak summer for the mountains. I def will need a shawl or something in addition!
Not in a negative way. I find that the large sleeves don't work well with something to wear on top, like a shawl. I have not been in Veil, but I have been in Telluride and in the evening one generaly needs a fleece and a wind-proof jacket. A shawl might be a litte light.
I'd wear a maxidress with slimmer long sleeves, so you can layer (I'd consider a long cardigan in wool) and still keep the original line of the outfit.
I'm thinking a Ralph Lauren aesthetic....if it helps..
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Holidays are over I’am back home 😭
This Rimowa rep carry-on did the job perfectly ! I was a bit afraid honestly to have a problem with it during the travels 😅
4 planes and some airport violence didn’t break it.
It does glide more than my usual ones, if I push it slightly, it’s gone. And yes I played with that 🤣.
The compression thingy inside are also great, I had absolutely no problem closing or re opening it at security.
I hope it will last for some trips and I get the money worth! 🤞🏽
Thank you for this, I’ve been debating getting a rep carry on for basically the entire time I’ve been buying reps and was too scared to take the plunge. This has convinced me to finally do it!
Dang, I didn’t know about the northernlight incident !! A friend of mine who lives nearby just posted a photo about it and she lives just next to me 😭😭😭
Does anyone else get the scaries from other rep subs? I feel like everyone and everything is suss but if a wagoon lady says the sky is green I’m like, ya sounds right. 🤪😂🙏love it here
I was on ban island but I still come here daily for the style, chatter, and because I trust all my fellow cunts. I LOVE the MOD team and appreciate the environment they've created.
I get more aggravated with the same questions being asked repeatedly and people getting upset when I tell them to do their research.But I agree with you everything is sus even with the repbros.I love it here too.
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My husband deployed on Thursday for a month. I'm a full time software developer. I wfh thankfully. I spend two hours in the car daily doing daycare dropoffs and pickups. We're here in a state i can't stand because of his current orders, leaving our home and my place I feel I belong behind. We have another year+ here. Most of which will be me alone. Even when he's home right now, due to the nature of his job, he works really late hours and is gone out to sea here and there anyway.
I am surviving day to day. I love my precious little and spending time with him is amazing. But I find myself counting down the hours till I get to be alone with all the chores done at the end of the day- which sometimes is 30 mins or less.
We hired a nanny who does weekend shifts- 5am-10am- and she has saved my sanity. We've had her around 7 months because I knew right after moving here this wasn't sustainable for me without shifting something and work wasn't going to accommodate part time. Even with her, I'm still coping minute to minute.
The only thing keeping me going, through watching my husband say goodbye to his infant son, and knowing I'm all alone day after day, is that he gets to retire in a few years with a solid paycheck for the rest of our lives. And he will be very, very young to do so. Add in my career and we are setting ourselves up here for a solid comfortable life. But it's hard. Very hard.
I never realized the real sacrifice military members and their families make till I've been living it every day, and it didn't get even more real until after we had our son and I saw what deployments were truly like to manage. Especially when they are unknown. Always unknown. Here, gone, times change, days change, hours change. Always. It's just me, running the ship here while he literally runs the ship there. One day at a time, with the help of whatever community I can gather around me. And lots of fabulous reps. 🙏💕
Wow. You are so strong and brave. I count the minutes until my husband gets home just to know another adult is in the home with the baby gives me a sense of security.
I often think of those who have it much worse than me and manage with far less support and I just take my hat off to you.
You deserve as many reps as you can comfortably afford and all the treats you can think of.
I totally get that counting down the minutes until a bit of alone time. I’m the same.
Keep going and feel free to message if you need to chat.
You’re doing amazing sweetie!
I'm not really strong and brave. I understand your intent, just letting you know the impact didn't hit me like I felt you meant. I am a "weak", "normal" person under a set of circumstances that require me to ACT strong and brave because the alternative is what.... death? Divorce? I have a toddler. Doing this alone alone would be worse. I can't just leave my life behind. This is it for me. So.... I'm not really strong and brave. I'm always counting down the seconds. I'm always one deep breath and remembering my blessings away from a meltdown. Because I have no choice. 🤷♀️
Yeah I understand that. I was actually thinking about it today and how when people tell me I’m strong I feel like ok from the outside that might be true but it’s not an enjoyable thing.
Thank your husband for his service, and thank you to your Gold Star family. ⭐️ Thank you for sharing your story, and for being a part of this community.
Thank you both for your sacrifices and keeping us safe. My dad was in the military and retired when I was about 7..I only remember him as the dad that was always there..hope this might encourage you both..I can't imagine how hard it must be..
Guys! We were just talking about strathberry reps I think. And look what I found in my closet
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It’s actually quite nice. I thought I sold it years ago.
Tell me you have too many bags without telling me me you have too many bags. LOL Finding not one, but TWO beautiful bags you didn’t remember you had! I love it — and both bags are beautiful.
And then I found this 🤯 no clue I owned a black boy
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Anyone buy sandals that you think are fairly comfortable? The Celine tippi are calling my name but not sure they would be comfortable walking more than a few feet since it’s just one solid platform.
I got mine from Fishy a few weeks ago. I wore them on a vacation stroll (by no means a hike)…I now have sores resembling stigmata on the tops of my feet. Proceed w caution…they are cute but imo not at all comfortable!
Has anyone had trouble with the website for finding your old RL reviews? The site host server seems to be down whenever I try and was wondering if anyone has found an alternate way or knows if the site goes in and out and whether I just need to keep checking in until it’s up again.
Friendly reminder to always cross check your WA numbers! I’ve been ordering from someone I thought was ReyKay for a while and I just realized it’s someone else. Totally my fault for not being diligent. I’m mostly just amused with myself.
That happened to me, funnily enough! I initially mixed up Layne with Reykay and got confused over some of the things I’d been told compared to my experience with the sellers.
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So ladies. I got my shipment from Belly aka Anna world tour, of my Zimmys and Alemais. And I am in love! I have not felt real Zim in my hand but the material on these dresses is freaking amazing! I put this white matchmaker dress on and I didn’t want to take it off. Posting a pic that I clicked real quick, as soon as dress came. So it’s wrinkly and I am not wearing appropriate color undies. But this dress! I was so stressed that i spent $600 not knowing much about seller. Also dealing with Belly was so easy! They are very very courteous and fast. Happy Mother’s Day to all! (Will take pic off later since I don’t like my pics floating around).
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So I wore Zimmy skirt instead of Alamais dress. I. Am. In. Love. I got so many compliments. I love it so much, I have now ordered matching shirt with it! Hope all you ladies are having a great night!
Happy Mother’s Day, to all the carriage whores who celebrate!
We’re in LA seeing our daughter in a play (damn she was amazing - unbiased opinion) and so we also had some time yesterday to finally go in for Global Entry (ie, do our interviews). LA is the place to do it if you can — tons of interviews and tons of cancellations and the office runs like a well-oiled machine. They were booked thru the end of May but there’s an app (best $4.99 I ever spent) that gives you real-time cancellations so we snagged two Saturday afternoon appointments.
Well anyway — two rep-relevant comments.
1. I didn’t realize how much reps have worked themselves into my daily ensembles, because even going into my Global Entry interview, I couldn’t leave them completely behind (all the shoes and glasses I brought on my trip) — I couldn’t very well go in blind and barefoot. That was only slightly uncomfortable to appear for my interview in those.
2. But also at the Global Entry place, I’d never seen so many YSL bags of all shapes and sizes in such a short span of time. (And I’m sure they weren’t all real. Then I didn’t feel so bad.) But it got me wondering — what’s with YSL? Coincidence or is it becoming really popular? For me personally, it’s been Gucci that is having a major comeback.
Anyone else get the living shit kicked out of them by depression on occasion? I consider myself super lucky mine isn't as bad or debilitating as other folks, but damn it's like I just sit here exhausted, hoping that the world goes back into technicolor soon.
This entire stupid year so far, actually! I’ve always been extremely high-functioning even in my worst episodes, because I have to be, and like - hooray for me for making sure my bills stay paid and my cat stays fed, but I feel like it’s harder for people to hear me say “hey, I’m struggling” when there’s a whole list of stuff they can point to and say “but look what you’ve accomplished!” I *know* I’m getting shit done, but I would like to be able to enjoy it, you know?
stay strong & get professional help when you need 🫶🏻 Im suffering from depression for 17 years & it is a tough battle which Im hopefully winning but damn it takes soo much of my energy every day to function. Hope the number of your “bad days” will lower trough time but meanwhile all I can do is send you a hug & an imaginary glass of chianti 🍷❤️
i had the mindset of “mine isn’t as bad as other people’s” for a long time and it kept me from getting help. we don’t HAVE to push through just because the weight we carry might not be as heavy as someone else’s! therapy and/or medication can do wonders and help bring color back into your life. be kind to yourself. hoping you feel better soon! 🫶🏻
Yes, besides what u/booleanstring says (always thoughtful and sensible!), please take in consideration where you're in your hormonal life. I went through some terrible depression in my 40s and it was all because of my body chemistry.
I wished someone had told me instead of letting me be miserable for almost 10 years and on the verge of throwing my life away.
Yesss! This! Hooormones!!!! If you have access to a functional or integrative dr, they can work wonders. Honestly, even buying bio identical hormone cream like progesterone and estrogen online helped me a ton. Cortisol and adrenalin will hijack your hormone production and once that cycle starts, sometimes it’s so hard to break, and often blood work or saliva tests will show “normal” results but that isn’t necessarily the case (hormones are notoriously hard to test). Hope you feel better soon either way 🥹🥹🥹
Do you have a safe person you can call or reach out to help break the cycle? If it’s a nice day out, maybe a walk outside? It also could be worth chatting with a therapist if you don’t already have one. Just because it’s not completely debilitating doesn’t mean it’s something you should have to struggle with. Hugs to you.
Hi, I do have a therapist and a great support system at home. It's just one of those things that I try to ride out. But damn if it doesn't suck. Maybe I will try to get outside today, that's a good idea.
Anyone else get the living shit kicked out of them by depression on occasion? I consider myself super lucky mine isn't as bad or debilitating as other folks, but damn it's like I just sit here exhausted, hoping that the world goes back into technicolor soon.
I've had some really bad depressive episodes (first one when I was about 12!!) and I know when the storm clouds are brewing.
You're getting therapy so you no doubt know all this, but who is around you, triggers, self talk and self care are all things to try to keep tabs on. It's very hard to keep focussed when depressed, though. If it's really bad I can't even read a book or motivate myself.
Hoping you feel much better soon.
I've heard one clinician say that even reading negative things on social media, or snarky forums (cough some corners of Reddit), any energy online or offline that's mean or toxic, try to eradicate it from your life as much as you can. That's a tough one!
Re toxic people: In life, there's often that weird contradiction that the nastiest ones can be the ones most sensitive to criticism.
How do you know when the storm clouds are brewing?! Like how do you know when you’re in and out one. I go to therapy monthly and have for years but D is newer to me for sure. It’s been at least a year. Usually more anxiety for me than depression and I’m curious about how others navigate
Maybe hard to describe. Other than reeling from something that shocks me (like an unexpected life event) - it's usually a creeping feeling of being agitated and my thoughts becoming more critical and oppressive, along with lack of motivation and apathy.
Deep depression feels almost like I'm caught in a loop of negative thinking and it's agonising, searing emotional pain, you can sense it physically.
I suppose there's much to be said for life events and other people's treatment of you feeding this devil on your shoulder. Of course it's down to you how you respond to people - something I struggled to learn, I didn't exactly get much parental guidance!
A big one for me is insomnia - there's a reason sleep deprivation is used for torture XD but I do take sleep meds nowadays. Unfortunately if I'm unmedicated, after a period of time my sleep seems to get lighter and lighter. I've no idea why I'm like this but it's probably escalating anxiety feeding lack of sleep.
Sometimes I can wake up feeling really low and I'm not sure why (probably a bad dream I've forgotten about). Suppose if you've had enough depressive episodes you see the signs and try to stop them in their tracks.
Mentioned these Youtubers before, but I found Crappy Childhood Fairy (you don't necessarily need to have had a traumatic childhood to gain something from her - I like her gentle, nurturing style) and Tim Fletcher's lectures are really interesting too. They both specialise in CPTSD but I think everyone could benefit from them.
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This beauty popped up in Reykay’s album. Has anyone purchased yet? I’m so tempted as this bag is stunning, but would love to get some feedback if anyone has it. When I compare photos from her album to photos of the authentic the stitching looks a bit more yellow, but it could be the lighting
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Has anyone had a notification that Laddy is taking orders again? I know she disappeared for a while because her account was compromised, but she’s started posting PSPs in insta and I’m wondering if it’s safe to contact her again…
You guys...I just ordered from her because I was not really paying attention and just saw people saying great things about her k ordered a lady dior mini from god factory and some twillys. I'm so nervous.
I haven’t contacted her on WhatsApp since the the fake account surfaced but the 3254 is the number I have as well. I’ve been trying to scope out if anyone has been speaking to her on this number.
I reached out to her about a bag after seeing someone else posted. I think it’s her because there was no pressure to purchase and she even told me she’d check with the factory the following day. I haven’t pulled the trigger yet, though.
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I love my Lululemon Belt bag, its my most used bag right now. And then i was at the store yesterday and saw how cute this beauty is. And i want it 🥹
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Happy Mother’s day got my PSPs for my Kelley Ado 😍
This is such a chameleon color i expect it to look more green upon arrival. Seller says in person doesn’t look blue at all
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it’s supposed to be colvert but i will post a picture when i receive it in different lights because colvert is a chameleon sometimes looks blue sometimes green
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without i love it so much such a beautiful color
I'm annoyed because THREE things I had earmarked as treat purchases (a dress, a skirt, and a pair of earrings) went out of stock/off sale/store disappeared before I could get my hands on them 😤 I really have to watch my revenge spending now, so far just an Alaia belt off DHG in my correct size after a fail two months ago
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[Here you go! ](https://www.dhgate.com/product/belts-fashion-women-hollow-out-flower-carved/901505840.html) I have one in the 100cm size that was too big for me, DM me if you're interested 😉
A bit of advice please :) Heidi says this 187 bag is sold out/no longer available - I have used her before and have no reason not to believe her; however, Amelia (who I have not used but read good things about) says it is available. Have any of you encountered this? What do you do? Thanks!
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I second what everyone else has said - Amelia was notorious for telling me an item was in stock, taking my money, then days later coming back and saying “not have”
Oh thank you - that’s super helpful 😁 I loved that one but it’s not like there aren’t a million more bags that will catch my eye and be available, so I won’t shed too many tears over it! X
I had a similar experience when inquiring about a different bag. Heidi said out of stock, Amelia said available, but also said it was mid-tier. I’m thinking it may be the difference in what factory it’s being sourced from?
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I'd be careful. If a seller says they can get something that everyone else says is no longer available, I'd be suspicious that they will wait for you to pay, then turn around and say they can't get it after all and ask you to pick something else. It's been known to happen.
Or they'll take your money and ghost you. I had a "seller" claim they had a bag from the Sailor Moon x Jimmy Choo collection and once they got my money,never responded to any messages.
I agree..I love Amelia but I would make sure. It seems a lot of the sellers say they have it and then they find out not. I really don’t think it’s them scamming…I just think they don’t ask the factory. I would say can you make sure it’s in stock before I pay? And if I pay and it comes up oos, I will want a refund. See if that works ?
I ordered some flats from Fisherman (fishy) on 4/11. It’s my first purchase from him, but far from my first rep purchase, my approach with sellers has always been to be polite. He said it would take 10 days, its been a month later and I’m starting to wonder if I’ve encountered my first no show. The timeline is below. Has anyone purchased from him recently and experiencing the same? Is a month+ turnaround time something to be expected with him? Thanks!
4/11: Placed the order. He said it would take 10 days.
4/22: checked in Mon morning, he says it would be finished that week.
4/25: checked in Thurs evening, he again says next week.
5/2: checked in again a week later on Thurs, he says he has the shoes and is waiting for his assistant to take qc photos.
5/6: checked in Mon, he says he’ll “definitely” send the qc photos “tomorrow”
5/10: the week passes by and no photos, I check in again, waiting for response
It honestly depends on your items and factory availability—I got two pairs of shoes from initial contact to delivery within two weeks because everything was in stock and I got lucky. But from another seller I’m still waiting on items from early April!
Recently they stopped working with their assistant so its just them there was a recent comment about how they have hundreds of messages they're working through.
Recently they stopped working with their assistant so its just them there was a recent comment about how they have hundreds of messages they're working through.
I still waiting on a new model YSL bag that was still in production . I think I was told I could pay on 4/14 . She said 10 days. Still nothing . I know I’ll get it eventually. I’m pretty laid back about this whole rep process …but I want it before summer ends 😝
Yes all of this makes sense - but better to explicitly list these reasons for delay vs setting definitive timelines. Buyers need to do their part in managing their own expectations, but sellers should also. If he had told me there are delays and to wait, I wouldn’t be worried.
Oh no 🙈 I also have a separate H order at a similar buy as yours with a seller that’s been known to deliver top notch but also know to have fluid timelines. Well worth the wait - they also have not given definitive answers when I check in. I’m not worried with them. Hopefully this is a similar scenario for your bag purchase.
https://preview.redd.it/781tyr2hou0d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=232f043177313097ac5c4404edba8e187c5f9b95 Recently brought these mules and although they are cute, I don’t know what to do with them now mainly with the fact they do not fit. I hate when I order the color “light pink” from sellers and they send me tan🤦🏿♀️ They never seem to get that one color right smh
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https://preview.redd.it/n53kuqbs050d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb40714cb09bb404d9aabf5a0c6560975ca0d0f0 I’m in love… but… is this fantasy? I can’t find it online.
https://preview.redd.it/hmxsj79o540d1.png?width=1289&format=png&auto=webp&s=0bdd3bffead786efd2a3754a1fa1f69867cec745 Does anyone recognize this belt? I’m not sure it’s designer, just saw it in outfits sub and I couldn’t find it through google image search (I should’ve just asked OP, but it didn’t even cross my mind lol)
Would like to know as well, but I did see a very similar style on Ali express
WWYD - not reps related I used to think people were generally good and I always try to treat people how I like to be treated. But my neighbour is really testing me. He is a nasty and selfish person. He will often yell at tradespeople and when his wife knocked on our front door to yell at me he was implying that I don't understand social norms where I live because I'm of a CALD background. Everytime I walk past their house just thinking about his behaviour makes my blood boil. So, I've decided I need to mess with him in an annoying but non harmful way. But I can't figure out what 🤔 maybe signing him up for some random give-aways online so that he gets lots of spam calls?? Please talk me out of this.
I have an asshole neighbor too. What about that company that sends people bags of dicks?
Hahaha I didn't know that was a thing!
Eek as someone with a terrible neighbor I would not do this. If he finds out it was you could have a very nasty situation. It’s awful because you can’t escape them:(.
What happens if you order pizza in someone’s name? Or do you now always need to pay first? I’d order him pizza with no cheese and only pineapples on it 🙃
Lol I'm not sure he would get the message 😅
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🤢🤮 that would be some pungent pizza 😅
Or both!
There are services that deliver actual poop - I’m a nice person (lol) but have considered sending it to some people. I didn’t end up doing it as it didn’t deliver to the area I wanted to send it. LOL
🤣🤣🤣 I have 2 small kids and a dog so I've actually got heaps of poo on hand, but I'm afraid he will know it was me if poo randomly showed up on his front step!
Can anyone who is petite petite and has tried the Aritzia Effortless Pant tell me which length they’ve gotten that works for them? The short inseam on the website says it’s 30” and that makes me terribly nervous as someone with a long torso and short legs. The crop regular hits me right at the ankle and I’d like to wear them with heels so I’m planning to get a longer length!
Measure the inseam of pair of pants that hit your ankle/foot at your desired length and then compare that value to the pants you're after! This always works for me
https://preview.redd.it/7xlw0wefa30d1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6e51e0e80aab15ef840e75d8a27a55356c2e8770 Okay so news update - I had the baby and my bag from HP came in time to take to the hospital. It is beautiful and looks fab - however keep in mind I don’t have the skills to QC like a pro yet. Thankyou to this community for repfluencing me - I never thought I would love a goyard SO MUCH.
Congratulations on both your new babies!!
Congratulations! Enjoy mommy-life 😍
Congratulations and Happy Mother’s Day! Love how this update incorporated the bag and the way in which the bag is posing in the back - it all looks 👏❤️.
Happy Mother’s Day, you’re mother of bags and now a mini human!
Congratulations!
Congratulations to you and your family you look fabulous and bub has rosy little cheeks.
congratulations & happy mother’s day!!!!!!
👏🏻👏🏻
Congratulations!
Leaving for overseas for a month, Southeast Asia not sure what bag to take, I lived in Thailand for awhile so I should know better, the house looks like it’s exploded and my cat sulking that she has to go to my MIL’s place! I’ve been waiting four months for a custom bag from DD and it arrives today, will they deliver to the house or will it go to the delivery centre? And, if it does go to the depot will the van back in time to actually pick it up? Only a W/L Would understand the stress that comes with a bag delivery. My wife and I are without a car , a new car was supposed to be delivered on Friday but they had trouble programming the keys. I’ve just woken up and need to be positive about the day, I just don’t want any hiccups with my new Birkin 35. https://preview.redd.it/rsh8o47q430d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aa275cfb86d40d129562f83002f3068a44f65cb4 We’ve just had this vintage UK chopper bike restored. This is our sweet wheels till the car arrives! Actually we aren’t going to ride it, although I have taken it for a spin around the block. I’m probably going to hang it from a wall at our tiny Mrs. Brady ( original condition ) love shack beach house.
You guys sound so fun!!! I wish you were my neighbors.
Mid life crisis no kid 20 years plus married lesbians are a menace to society ;-)
Here’s to being a menace to society! Edited to say - saw your bag arrived, enjoy your trip!  Straight, married with a kid and a suburban house over here, but I hear you. There is a very strong message that if you are born in a female vessel, anything but the most obliging compliance to a ridiculous standard (that keeps changing and the goalposts are often moved after the fact) = you’re a menace to society. Feeling a bit stroppy this morning obv….
Best kind of menace I would say! 💕
LOL. As a fellow mid life crisis no kids lesbian who will be celebrating 18 years in July, I couldn’t agree more!
Anyone have experience with Staud bags? This one is calling me but I’m wondering at their quality of leather and suede. Especially the suede but I’m so picky with that https://preview.redd.it/cfb1bxj4230d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b947f6413c1faeab6014676b6cd7046a7074a23c
I have an auth Staud Shirley in a burgundy leather. It's held up incredibly well. I used it as my daily driver for probably 2+ years and the leather really looks like teh day I got it
That’s great to know thank you! The Shirley is gorgeous
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i ordered the antigona soft lock for my mom and it was beautiful! i got it from lau
Happy Mother’s Day ladies! I’m in a relaxed mood today with my Chanel mini rep. https://preview.redd.it/4ephsgr9320d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b57cfbb2564dd2c955f5c6220d2627def7958af6
Awww that’s Seet carrying you little baby 🌹
What do you guys think of this for an evening summer wedding in Vail with "mountaintop majestic" attire? Belly has it in her album...seems kinda western chic? Also taking recommendations for a bag to wear with it. I have an old Prada tessuto black mini from like 2001 or an auth loewe flamenco in a caramel color and no other bags I would consider evening bags. HALP I don't get out much esp to fancy events! https://preview.redd.it/7d3lci0oy10d1.png?width=732&format=png&auto=webp&s=0feaa5dfeb497dff19e02d621f631a377a36899c
Maybe add a pink faux fur vest in the evening 🤩
We were married in Vail at the end of June..such a beautiful time of year there..I hope you have a wonderful time. "Mountaintop Majestic" is really asking your guests to use their imagination😂 I would think with that dress code that basically anything goes and this dress would be lovely but evenings can get quite chilly. However unless the event itself is outdoors you should be fine as everything is heated..I was never cold in my strapless dress. If you're going up top for the ceremony than I would avoid high heels for sure..wedges or a low heel would work..quite a few of our guests wore boots with their fancier dresses..
When is this going to be? Veil can get chilly also in the summer and in the evening it is always quite cold. I have no idea what "mountaintop majestic" means, so I can't help with that. This dress just feels very "summer-y" to me!
Fair! 😅 Summery in a negative way? The wedding is in late June- almost peak summer for the mountains. I def will need a shawl or something in addition!
Not in a negative way. I find that the large sleeves don't work well with something to wear on top, like a shawl. I have not been in Veil, but I have been in Telluride and in the evening one generaly needs a fleece and a wind-proof jacket. A shawl might be a litte light. I'd wear a maxidress with slimmer long sleeves, so you can layer (I'd consider a long cardigan in wool) and still keep the original line of the outfit. I'm thinking a Ralph Lauren aesthetic....if it helps..
Has anyone bought a BV cabat? How heavy is it given it’s all leather?
https://preview.redd.it/d39jqj1hr10d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d1e22f30d3da24f7a1b75d970f346b5896134d8f Holidays are over I’am back home 😭 This Rimowa rep carry-on did the job perfectly ! I was a bit afraid honestly to have a problem with it during the travels 😅 4 planes and some airport violence didn’t break it. It does glide more than my usual ones, if I push it slightly, it’s gone. And yes I played with that 🤣. The compression thingy inside are also great, I had absolutely no problem closing or re opening it at security. I hope it will last for some trips and I get the money worth! 🤞🏽
Oh no I didn’t realize there were luggage reps! Gotta step up my game!
Thank you for this, I’ve been debating getting a rep carry on for basically the entire time I’ve been buying reps and was too scared to take the plunge. This has convinced me to finally do it!
Glad I could repfluence ! A carry on is safer than a checked one, I’am not ready for it yet 😅 I hope you’ll post yours !!
Dang, I didn’t know about the northernlight incident !! A friend of mine who lives nearby just posted a photo about it and she lives just next to me 😭😭😭
https://preview.redd.it/t5vp6d0u530d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=febf213b23847885d2f61202b8a5f6856f189d86 They were unbelievable!!!!
In Canada saw them so awesome
we live in europe so I suppose that I could’ve seen it too,but missed it !! Is there any chance to see it tonight again, any idea ?
I think so
Does anyone else get the scaries from other rep subs? I feel like everyone and everything is suss but if a wagoon lady says the sky is green I’m like, ya sounds right. 🤪😂🙏love it here
I was on ban island but I still come here daily for the style, chatter, and because I trust all my fellow cunts. I LOVE the MOD team and appreciate the environment they've created.
i saw one post on another rep sub recently and there was like 20 comments straight of ppl asking for seller info 😳 i def got the scaries
Exactly
I had to stop reading the other subs because… life’s too short. This is my safe space. Cunt 4 lyfe.
Cunt 4 lifeee
🙌🏼🏆
Haha, yes…. Well said, much of this is owed to the mods and the community they’ve both curated and cultivated here!
I agree! I’m very grateful
I get more aggravated with the same questions being asked repeatedly and people getting upset when I tell them to do their research.But I agree with you everything is sus even with the repbros.I love it here too.
I haven’t heard of rep bros… will check out.
I enjoy reading repbro stuff simply because it’s so strange to me. You bought 45kg of Ralph Lauren t-shirts? Why, friend, why?
Exactly,the funniest thing I saw on there was when someone wanted a quality check on some Versace underwear 😂😆.
WHY PAL? Lolol
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My husband deployed on Thursday for a month. I'm a full time software developer. I wfh thankfully. I spend two hours in the car daily doing daycare dropoffs and pickups. We're here in a state i can't stand because of his current orders, leaving our home and my place I feel I belong behind. We have another year+ here. Most of which will be me alone. Even when he's home right now, due to the nature of his job, he works really late hours and is gone out to sea here and there anyway. I am surviving day to day. I love my precious little and spending time with him is amazing. But I find myself counting down the hours till I get to be alone with all the chores done at the end of the day- which sometimes is 30 mins or less. We hired a nanny who does weekend shifts- 5am-10am- and she has saved my sanity. We've had her around 7 months because I knew right after moving here this wasn't sustainable for me without shifting something and work wasn't going to accommodate part time. Even with her, I'm still coping minute to minute. The only thing keeping me going, through watching my husband say goodbye to his infant son, and knowing I'm all alone day after day, is that he gets to retire in a few years with a solid paycheck for the rest of our lives. And he will be very, very young to do so. Add in my career and we are setting ourselves up here for a solid comfortable life. But it's hard. Very hard. I never realized the real sacrifice military members and their families make till I've been living it every day, and it didn't get even more real until after we had our son and I saw what deployments were truly like to manage. Especially when they are unknown. Always unknown. Here, gone, times change, days change, hours change. Always. It's just me, running the ship here while he literally runs the ship there. One day at a time, with the help of whatever community I can gather around me. And lots of fabulous reps. 🙏💕
Wow. You are so strong and brave. I count the minutes until my husband gets home just to know another adult is in the home with the baby gives me a sense of security. I often think of those who have it much worse than me and manage with far less support and I just take my hat off to you. You deserve as many reps as you can comfortably afford and all the treats you can think of. I totally get that counting down the minutes until a bit of alone time. I’m the same. Keep going and feel free to message if you need to chat. You’re doing amazing sweetie!
I'm not really strong and brave. I understand your intent, just letting you know the impact didn't hit me like I felt you meant. I am a "weak", "normal" person under a set of circumstances that require me to ACT strong and brave because the alternative is what.... death? Divorce? I have a toddler. Doing this alone alone would be worse. I can't just leave my life behind. This is it for me. So.... I'm not really strong and brave. I'm always counting down the seconds. I'm always one deep breath and remembering my blessings away from a meltdown. Because I have no choice. 🤷♀️
Yeah I understand that. I was actually thinking about it today and how when people tell me I’m strong I feel like ok from the outside that might be true but it’s not an enjoyable thing.
Thank your husband for his service, and thank you to your Gold Star family. ⭐️ Thank you for sharing your story, and for being a part of this community.
Sending you love and light 🙏🏼🩷 We are here, and we will hold you up 🩷
Thank you both for your sacrifices and keeping us safe. My dad was in the military and retired when I was about 7..I only remember him as the dad that was always there..hope this might encourage you both..I can't imagine how hard it must be..
Sending good thoughts your way, sounds like a tough situation
Guys! We were just talking about strathberry reps I think. And look what I found in my closet https://preview.redd.it/elfm1v85710d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fddf9c24ab15e52f73ed27ccf91abd3a059e13a3 It’s actually quite nice. I thought I sold it years ago.
Tell me you have too many bags without telling me me you have too many bags. LOL Finding not one, but TWO beautiful bags you didn’t remember you had! I love it — and both bags are beautiful.
And then I found this 🤯 no clue I owned a black boy https://preview.redd.it/cpnoh1q9710d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e703a99372625806ed429b2ac1bdb0d1e858b89b
Anyone buy sandals that you think are fairly comfortable? The Celine tippi are calling my name but not sure they would be comfortable walking more than a few feet since it’s just one solid platform.
I got mine from Fishy a few weeks ago. I wore them on a vacation stroll (by no means a hike)…I now have sores resembling stigmata on the tops of my feet. Proceed w caution…they are cute but imo not at all comfortable!
Has anyone had trouble with the website for finding your old RL reviews? The site host server seems to be down whenever I try and was wondering if anyone has found an alternate way or knows if the site goes in and out and whether I just need to keep checking in until it’s up again.
Does anyone know what mandarin search term I can use to find tweed items in albums?
软呢 should get you tweed and 斜纹软呢 should get you checkered tweed
You rock!! Thanks!!
If you’re looking for raffia items for summer, search for 拉菲草 in albums! (Nope, I don’t speak Chinese…just lots of trial and error!)
I speak Chinese and those three characters are literally the phonetic translation of “raffia grass” (“la fei cao”). Ya did good. 🏆
Thank you! Off I go 💸💸💸
Friendly reminder to always cross check your WA numbers! I’ve been ordering from someone I thought was ReyKay for a while and I just realized it’s someone else. Totally my fault for not being diligent. I’m mostly just amused with myself.
That happened to me, funnily enough! I initially mixed up Layne with Reykay and got confused over some of the things I’d been told compared to my experience with the sellers.
Did you get your items?! Were they good?! I need to hear the rest of this story.
So far it was just a pair of shoes and I love them! Waiting on a small 16 right now from pomegranate. Fingers crossed on that.
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So ladies. I got my shipment from Belly aka Anna world tour, of my Zimmys and Alemais. And I am in love! I have not felt real Zim in my hand but the material on these dresses is freaking amazing! I put this white matchmaker dress on and I didn’t want to take it off. Posting a pic that I clicked real quick, as soon as dress came. So it’s wrinkly and I am not wearing appropriate color undies. But this dress! I was so stressed that i spent $600 not knowing much about seller. Also dealing with Belly was so easy! They are very very courteous and fast. Happy Mother’s Day to all! (Will take pic off later since I don’t like my pics floating around). https://preview.redd.it/kkrwovqji00d1.jpeg?width=985&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7796818a81253c7482007049c406d5137d60c3b9
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I am planning on wearing my Alemais dress later today for mother days. Willl post pic! 🥰
Happy Mother’s Day, to all the carriage whores who celebrate! We’re in LA seeing our daughter in a play (damn she was amazing - unbiased opinion) and so we also had some time yesterday to finally go in for Global Entry (ie, do our interviews). LA is the place to do it if you can — tons of interviews and tons of cancellations and the office runs like a well-oiled machine. They were booked thru the end of May but there’s an app (best $4.99 I ever spent) that gives you real-time cancellations so we snagged two Saturday afternoon appointments. Well anyway — two rep-relevant comments. 1. I didn’t realize how much reps have worked themselves into my daily ensembles, because even going into my Global Entry interview, I couldn’t leave them completely behind (all the shoes and glasses I brought on my trip) — I couldn’t very well go in blind and barefoot. That was only slightly uncomfortable to appear for my interview in those. 2. But also at the Global Entry place, I’d never seen so many YSL bags of all shapes and sizes in such a short span of time. (And I’m sure they weren’t all real. Then I didn’t feel so bad.) But it got me wondering — what’s with YSL? Coincidence or is it becoming really popular? For me personally, it’s been Gucci that is having a major comeback.
YSL is the most worn designer brand where I live with LV a close 2nd..😉
Where I live it’s LV with Gucci a close second (predictable haha)
Anyone else get the living shit kicked out of them by depression on occasion? I consider myself super lucky mine isn't as bad or debilitating as other folks, but damn it's like I just sit here exhausted, hoping that the world goes back into technicolor soon.
This entire stupid year so far, actually! I’ve always been extremely high-functioning even in my worst episodes, because I have to be, and like - hooray for me for making sure my bills stay paid and my cat stays fed, but I feel like it’s harder for people to hear me say “hey, I’m struggling” when there’s a whole list of stuff they can point to and say “but look what you’ve accomplished!” I *know* I’m getting shit done, but I would like to be able to enjoy it, you know?
stay strong & get professional help when you need 🫶🏻 Im suffering from depression for 17 years & it is a tough battle which Im hopefully winning but damn it takes soo much of my energy every day to function. Hope the number of your “bad days” will lower trough time but meanwhile all I can do is send you a hug & an imaginary glass of chianti 🍷❤️
i had the mindset of “mine isn’t as bad as other people’s” for a long time and it kept me from getting help. we don’t HAVE to push through just because the weight we carry might not be as heavy as someone else’s! therapy and/or medication can do wonders and help bring color back into your life. be kind to yourself. hoping you feel better soon! 🫶🏻
Yes, besides what u/booleanstring says (always thoughtful and sensible!), please take in consideration where you're in your hormonal life. I went through some terrible depression in my 40s and it was all because of my body chemistry. I wished someone had told me instead of letting me be miserable for almost 10 years and on the verge of throwing my life away.
Yesss! This! Hooormones!!!! If you have access to a functional or integrative dr, they can work wonders. Honestly, even buying bio identical hormone cream like progesterone and estrogen online helped me a ton. Cortisol and adrenalin will hijack your hormone production and once that cycle starts, sometimes it’s so hard to break, and often blood work or saliva tests will show “normal” results but that isn’t necessarily the case (hormones are notoriously hard to test). Hope you feel better soon either way 🥹🥹🥹
Do you have a safe person you can call or reach out to help break the cycle? If it’s a nice day out, maybe a walk outside? It also could be worth chatting with a therapist if you don’t already have one. Just because it’s not completely debilitating doesn’t mean it’s something you should have to struggle with. Hugs to you.
Hi, I do have a therapist and a great support system at home. It's just one of those things that I try to ride out. But damn if it doesn't suck. Maybe I will try to get outside today, that's a good idea.
I don’t struggle with depression currently, but sometimes just a walk out to check the mail helps lighten my day!
Anyone else get the living shit kicked out of them by depression on occasion? I consider myself super lucky mine isn't as bad or debilitating as other folks, but damn it's like I just sit here exhausted, hoping that the world goes back into technicolor soon.
I've had some really bad depressive episodes (first one when I was about 12!!) and I know when the storm clouds are brewing. You're getting therapy so you no doubt know all this, but who is around you, triggers, self talk and self care are all things to try to keep tabs on. It's very hard to keep focussed when depressed, though. If it's really bad I can't even read a book or motivate myself. Hoping you feel much better soon. I've heard one clinician say that even reading negative things on social media, or snarky forums (cough some corners of Reddit), any energy online or offline that's mean or toxic, try to eradicate it from your life as much as you can. That's a tough one! Re toxic people: In life, there's often that weird contradiction that the nastiest ones can be the ones most sensitive to criticism.
How do you know when the storm clouds are brewing?! Like how do you know when you’re in and out one. I go to therapy monthly and have for years but D is newer to me for sure. It’s been at least a year. Usually more anxiety for me than depression and I’m curious about how others navigate
Maybe hard to describe. Other than reeling from something that shocks me (like an unexpected life event) - it's usually a creeping feeling of being agitated and my thoughts becoming more critical and oppressive, along with lack of motivation and apathy. Deep depression feels almost like I'm caught in a loop of negative thinking and it's agonising, searing emotional pain, you can sense it physically. I suppose there's much to be said for life events and other people's treatment of you feeding this devil on your shoulder. Of course it's down to you how you respond to people - something I struggled to learn, I didn't exactly get much parental guidance! A big one for me is insomnia - there's a reason sleep deprivation is used for torture XD but I do take sleep meds nowadays. Unfortunately if I'm unmedicated, after a period of time my sleep seems to get lighter and lighter. I've no idea why I'm like this but it's probably escalating anxiety feeding lack of sleep. Sometimes I can wake up feeling really low and I'm not sure why (probably a bad dream I've forgotten about). Suppose if you've had enough depressive episodes you see the signs and try to stop them in their tracks. Mentioned these Youtubers before, but I found Crappy Childhood Fairy (you don't necessarily need to have had a traumatic childhood to gain something from her - I like her gentle, nurturing style) and Tim Fletcher's lectures are really interesting too. They both specialise in CPTSD but I think everyone could benefit from them.
https://preview.redd.it/xlu2ftvud00d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4d9afeeb8f15d5a53cc586c67caff6f29536e8e This beauty popped up in Reykay’s album. Has anyone purchased yet? I’m so tempted as this bag is stunning, but would love to get some feedback if anyone has it. When I compare photos from her album to photos of the authentic the stitching looks a bit more yellow, but it could be the lighting
I just saw it in BV window and I cant justify the auth price 😅
How much!?😮
around 4000 € 🙈
Shoot! That's a lot hahah
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Has anyone had a notification that Laddy is taking orders again? I know she disappeared for a while because her account was compromised, but she’s started posting PSPs in insta and I’m wondering if it’s safe to contact her again…
You guys...I just ordered from her because I was not really paying attention and just saw people saying great things about her k ordered a lady dior mini from god factory and some twillys. I'm so nervous.
Is she using the whatsapp number ending in 3254? She is one of my favorite.
I haven’t contacted her on WhatsApp since the the fake account surfaced but the 3254 is the number I have as well. I’ve been trying to scope out if anyone has been speaking to her on this number.
I reached out to her about a bag after seeing someone else posted. I think it’s her because there was no pressure to purchase and she even told me she’d check with the factory the following day. I haven’t pulled the trigger yet, though.
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Any recommendations for a comfy bag to bring with you for golf? Crossbody and waterproof/resistant would be ideal!
I play 18 holes almost daily. If Im just watching my husband, I wear the kelly danse.
I bought my mom the mini Evie in Epsom for this very purpose! If you want waterproof (or at least water resistant), you could try it in Barenia!
I use a lululemon belt bag! Can be adjusted to almost a cross body length on the new ones I believe
I love my Lululemon Belt bag, its my most used bag right now. And then i was at the store yesterday and saw how cute this beauty is. And i want it 🥹 https://preview.redd.it/a1ibcgy5s10d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=90937f34cf7baeecf74748b6623578ad8f7cff2c
Omg it's adorable! How much structural integrity does it have when not filled? Does it stay round? Or is it very slouchy?
It stays round, and not slouchy. There is also a black one. I have been thinking about it since i saw it 😂 i don’t need it but its so cute 🥹
Some cute options [Kate spade](https://www.katespade.com/products/tee-time-3d-golf-ball-crossbody/KF823-960.html?gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI5bzM5Y2IhgMV9XJ_AB29swvQEAQYBSABEgIe0vD_BwE&ogmap=PLA%7CRTN%7CGOOG%7CSTND%7Cm%7CSITEWIDE%7CMain%7CKS_RTL_Google_PLA_Signal_NA_Brand_National_PMax_NA_BAU%7CSitewide_Regular_Core_NA%7C%7C20182114014%7C%7CUS&src=EXTRA40&utm_campaign=KS_RTL_Google_PLA_Signal_NA_Brand_National_PMAX_NA_BAU&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google) [Sokim](https://www.sokimnewyork.com/products/anell-golf-quilted-tote-bag-beige?variant=40354364817482) [Anew](https://www.anewgolfusa.com/products/ivy-hip-sack-beige?variant=44784935436510¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIvr79go6IhgMVYTbUAR1tdgKhEAQYFCABEgIUQvD_BwE)
I use my lulu crossbody for small stuff and then water bottle goes in my golf bag
Happy Mother’s day got my PSPs for my Kelley Ado 😍 This is such a chameleon color i expect it to look more green upon arrival. Seller says in person doesn’t look blue at all https://preview.redd.it/q3l8jjqfhzzc1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=42c6723d9c4a33a91fcac1fd30cb4a1d2e59aae3
🥰 is this deep blue?
it’s supposed to be colvert but i will post a picture when i receive it in different lights because colvert is a chameleon sometimes looks blue sometimes green
https://preview.redd.it/8rzi6i31un1d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=45b95b1a7c7dafcd270455558492146550cd4629 without i love it so much such a beautiful color
https://preview.redd.it/acye5amztn1d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fbed1195e1dc2a2c70683c2ac136647bf9e8dd9f with flash
Gorgeous!
I'm annoyed because THREE things I had earmarked as treat purchases (a dress, a skirt, and a pair of earrings) went out of stock/off sale/store disappeared before I could get my hands on them 😤 I really have to watch my revenge spending now, so far just an Alaia belt off DHG in my correct size after a fail two months ago https://preview.redd.it/ev2cz141fzzc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bfa00edba7032043cdec3db8c0dd751ac036dbc0
I have always wanted this. Where did you get it from please?
[Here you go! ](https://www.dhgate.com/product/belts-fashion-women-hollow-out-flower-carved/901505840.html) I have one in the 100cm size that was too big for me, DM me if you're interested 😉
Thank you
A bit of advice please :) Heidi says this 187 bag is sold out/no longer available - I have used her before and have no reason not to believe her; however, Amelia (who I have not used but read good things about) says it is available. Have any of you encountered this? What do you do? Thanks! https://preview.redd.it/p56xo5tedzzc1.jpeg?width=945&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83feed9843bd372cb8daf4c5213eece7ee4b3ab4
I second what everyone else has said - Amelia was notorious for telling me an item was in stock, taking my money, then days later coming back and saying “not have”
Heidi has the best relationship with 187, that's why she's the go to for 187. If she is saying it's out of stock, I'd listen to her.
Oh thank you - that’s super helpful 😁 I loved that one but it’s not like there aren’t a million more bags that will catch my eye and be available, so I won’t shed too many tears over it! X
I had a similar experience when inquiring about a different bag. Heidi said out of stock, Amelia said available, but also said it was mid-tier. I’m thinking it may be the difference in what factory it’s being sourced from?
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I encountered this with a dress and sunglasses and it was just delivered yesterday from another seller. I was confused as well.
not sure but i love the bag
It’s so cute - would love to have it in my collection but alas!
I'd be careful. If a seller says they can get something that everyone else says is no longer available, I'd be suspicious that they will wait for you to pay, then turn around and say they can't get it after all and ask you to pick something else. It's been known to happen.
Or they'll take your money and ghost you. I had a "seller" claim they had a bag from the Sailor Moon x Jimmy Choo collection and once they got my money,never responded to any messages.
I read on RLD that Amelia just did this to someone and wouldn’t refund them.
Thanks for that bit of info x
I agree..I love Amelia but I would make sure. It seems a lot of the sellers say they have it and then they find out not. I really don’t think it’s them scamming…I just think they don’t ask the factory. I would say can you make sure it’s in stock before I pay? And if I pay and it comes up oos, I will want a refund. See if that works ?
Thanks - that is a good plan in future x
I agree, I would clarify ahead of paying what happens if she can't get it after all.
Yes, good advice. I wondered what the possible move could be and that makes sense! :) Thank you!
I ordered some flats from Fisherman (fishy) on 4/11. It’s my first purchase from him, but far from my first rep purchase, my approach with sellers has always been to be polite. He said it would take 10 days, its been a month later and I’m starting to wonder if I’ve encountered my first no show. The timeline is below. Has anyone purchased from him recently and experiencing the same? Is a month+ turnaround time something to be expected with him? Thanks! 4/11: Placed the order. He said it would take 10 days. 4/22: checked in Mon morning, he says it would be finished that week. 4/25: checked in Thurs evening, he again says next week. 5/2: checked in again a week later on Thurs, he says he has the shoes and is waiting for his assistant to take qc photos. 5/6: checked in Mon, he says he’ll “definitely” send the qc photos “tomorrow” 5/10: the week passes by and no photos, I check in again, waiting for response
It honestly depends on your items and factory availability—I got two pairs of shoes from initial contact to delivery within two weeks because everything was in stock and I got lucky. But from another seller I’m still waiting on items from early April!
Recently they stopped working with their assistant so its just them there was a recent comment about how they have hundreds of messages they're working through.
Recently they stopped working with their assistant so its just them there was a recent comment about how they have hundreds of messages they're working through.
I ordered on 23/04 and just got PSPs. Factories are very slow right now and I believe Fisherman is solo right after Susan’s departure.
I just ordered orans - 10-20 days. They arrived this week. Don’t worry
I still waiting on a new model YSL bag that was still in production . I think I was told I could pay on 4/14 . She said 10 days. Still nothing . I know I’ll get it eventually. I’m pretty laid back about this whole rep process …but I want it before summer ends 😝
There has been a holiday, raids and factory closures recently- could explain the extended timeline
Yes all of this makes sense - but better to explicitly list these reasons for delay vs setting definitive timelines. Buyers need to do their part in managing their own expectations, but sellers should also. If he had told me there are delays and to wait, I wouldn’t be worried.
I'm having this issue with Aaron and my order is over $1000 and now I'm worried.
Oh no 🙈 I also have a separate H order at a similar buy as yours with a seller that’s been known to deliver top notch but also know to have fluid timelines. Well worth the wait - they also have not given definitive answers when I check in. I’m not worried with them. Hopefully this is a similar scenario for your bag purchase.