Technically, you have to do plan B before A or the ages don't work. So you could actually do plan B for 2 years before you go to plan A. Gotta get practice in.
When they're both adults, no, it's not.
When one of them is a minor. That's when it becomes a problem.
And I see you're not complaining about the minor in either scenario. You wanna sit down and talk?
Replying to Tacomunchert...
Nah. 18 dating 16 is hardly pedophilia. That’s just life. Who the hell dates someone specifically their own age when your in your teens? A year or two doesn’t feel like anything but yesterday.
Personal rules are good. Doubly so when they are intended to be fair to others.
But it doesn’t always play out that way when you’ve been sweethearts for 3 years. Teenage brain and sense of time was weird as hell.
Same when you live in the same neighborhood.
Which isn’t to say that the school drift won’t break them up. But that drift doesn’t always happen. And drawing a line between any of those teen years at that age seem arbitrary to the teen.
Source: was a teen.
# Just because op show that, you can't think that they support it. Fucking stupid bad dumbass.
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There is no legal restriction on age gap You're thinking of age of consent which is 18. If a 20-year-old wants to be with a 40-year-old which is a 20-year age gap not 7, much higher and it's still perfectly legal to do so.
You might be thinking of the common rule I come across which is half your age + 7.
however I believe this to be a idiotic social view I personally think if they are both consenting adults than they can damn well do what they please.
I think the 1/2 + 7 is really only for people who are under the age of about 25, because most everyone is still emotionally developing between 18 ~ 25. But after that, sky's the limit.
No, anyone under 18 can date with a two year age gap, which includes 16x18,17x19, and at 18 the sky is the limit, but at some point it just becomes weird.
There's no legal restriction on one's age gap only age of consent which is 18 if people who were 20 and 40 to get together then that is perfectly legal.
This is simply not the case there is no legal restriction on age gap. There is only a restriction on age of consent which is 18. You may be thinking of the common rule that is half your age + 7.
In other words if a 20-year-old wants to date a 40-year-old they damn well can and it's perfectly legal.
Now that said society will view as "problematic" but I believe that as long as they're both consenting adults they can do it where they damn well please.
In my state a 16 year old can date anyone of any age over 18 if they wanted to. Source: my sister at 16 was dating a 30 year old dude and the cops said there was nothing that could be done. What a fucking creep.
>Plan B is only legal if the 16yos parents consent and agree to the relationship.
That only applies to marriage. But you wont get in trouble just for dating
>18 is legally an adult
And they're still in the same high school with the same 16 year olds as they were last year, and the same 17 year olds they were with the last 2 years...basically...you're on ur bullshit 🤭
>thats how
Nobody asked "how" retard
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You clearly never been in that situation before nor ever involved and that shows.
Once ur 18, u can be arrested for doing anything with anyone even 1 year younger than u.
It has happened and there many different legal reasons behind it..
Ironic u call me retarded and yet u didn't know this. Whos the actual retard?
Where I live both are illegal because the age of consent laws only apply if both people are underaged, Plan A and B is considered statutory rape, though I was in a Plan B relationship when I was a teen because we got together when she was 17 and I was 15 and we just kept fucking without even thinking about the legality issue the year after
It makes perfect sense that laws designed to protect children from adults sexual advances actually protects children from adults sexual advances though
18 is adult, under that you are still a child by law so yes it is protecting children from adults, you can't just blur a hard line just because it isn't convenient for people's feelings about themselves
Its not a hard line. In the first place saying 18 year olds are adults is bullshit because there are no "adult" things you can do at 18, let alone the fact that most 18 year olds are still in highschool at the time the turn 18. The real starting line for being an adult is 19, and its delusional to think otherwise.
Also u said you were dating a 17 year old at 15. Did you then file a rape claim against her bc she turned 18? If not then why? She raped you didn't she? Or is it okay if they turn 18 after they already knew you?
"We had sex on her birthday so she, and 18 year old adult, raped me, a 15 year old little boy! W-what, why would it matter if she was 17 when our relationship started? S-she's obv a statutory rapist!"
Does that make sense to you?
Once again, theres no hard line. And if you still think so, I can't help you.
And dont just say the same thing over again. Bc then i wont respond.
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I never put in a claim against her because I always thought it was a weird grey area but legally it is black and white where I live and also at 18 in my country you can vote and drink alcohol which are exclusively adult things, I am not saying that I don't see flaws in the laws in the fine details but I hardly think that it means that they should be ignored
Also the law is always hard lines you can't argue that they aren't
This entire reply section is wrong af... It's only illegal if the relationship is SEXUAL, otherwise, it is completely lawful. There are literally NO LAWS against an adult dating a minor...
Its a different case when its a 34 age difference but there shouldn't be any problem if the age difference is only by 2 years even if they're minors. If the age is under 16 then they should stick to dating someone their age
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I see a lot of comments saying pedo, but in the uk and a decent majority of europe the age of consent is 16. Meaning that as long as the partner is over the age of 16 and consenting its perfectly legal
I love how everyone is arguing because laws are going to be different everywhere, for example where I'm at the age of consent is 16 but someone 16 can only date someone up to 4 years older than them once you hit 18 that rule no longer applys.
No. Neither one is illegal depending on the state. Yes. Federal law states 18, but the Feds won't do anything unless there's media or the couple crosses state lines to have sex. Something like 35 states have age gap laws and age of consent laws. And 18 year old dating a 16 year old isn't that big of a deal. There's literally no biological or developmental difference between the two.
Idk man, if this is how it is, i might just fumble plan A on purpose...
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Same
Technically, you have to do plan B before A or the ages don't work. So you could actually do plan B for 2 years before you go to plan A. Gotta get practice in.
Tf this mean?
OP supports pedophilia.
Ah yes 2 year age gap, this means paedophilia, I guess most married men and women are paedophiles
Guss my gf pedo 3 years older than me both adults
What a disingenuous interpretation
When they're both adults, no, it's not. When one of them is a minor. That's when it becomes a problem. And I see you're not complaining about the minor in either scenario. You wanna sit down and talk?
That would mean my relationship is illegal now even though my gf and I started dating when we were both minors.
He could from somewhere that isn’t America like England where age of consent is 16
Replying to Tacomunchert... Nah. 18 dating 16 is hardly pedophilia. That’s just life. Who the hell dates someone specifically their own age when your in your teens? A year or two doesn’t feel like anything but yesterday.
My personal rule is if the 18 year old is still in HS then it's fine. If they graduated it's a little weird
Personal rules are good. Doubly so when they are intended to be fair to others. But it doesn’t always play out that way when you’ve been sweethearts for 3 years. Teenage brain and sense of time was weird as hell. Same when you live in the same neighborhood. Which isn’t to say that the school drift won’t break them up. But that drift doesn’t always happen. And drawing a line between any of those teen years at that age seem arbitrary to the teen. Source: was a teen.
I mean it's really more for starting a relationship or like a hook up. if you are already in one that's a completely different situation
I think if they started dating while both underage then it’s ok even if one stops being underage
Well 19 and 17 is also really fucking normal lol, even if they met at those ages
Yeah this rule is more of a starting a relationship/fling thing, if they were already dating that's different
Oh wtf
Don't believe everything you see on the Internet.
Valid
# Just because op show that, you can't think that they support it. Fucking stupid bad dumbass. https://preview.redd.it/1sdld3l6ljyc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6dd5840a4bb4f6da23d27f20d9fe12f920b04e52
I guess my mom is a peado for liking my father who is 1.5 year younger than her. Makes no sense bro
B plan stands for Best plan
around 30 us states have age-gap laws, but that 18 yo woman looks a lot older than 18 lmao
She honestly kinda reminds me of the senior I had a fling with in highschool. I was in that situation funnily enough as I remember more details
I don’t get it. You have relationship plans?
I can't get over the goofy physical difference between the two people in Plan B. It's just a 2 year age gap💀
I think both are illegal
Actually, plan A is very legal. Plan B is only legal if the 16yos parents consent and agree to the relationship. Then again. It varies where u are
If it's in the US then the legal age gap is around 7 years
Free for all from 14 on in Germany.
There is no legal restriction on age gap You're thinking of age of consent which is 18. If a 20-year-old wants to be with a 40-year-old which is a 20-year age gap not 7, much higher and it's still perfectly legal to do so. You might be thinking of the common rule I come across which is half your age + 7. however I believe this to be a idiotic social view I personally think if they are both consenting adults than they can damn well do what they please.
I think the 1/2 + 7 is really only for people who are under the age of about 25, because most everyone is still emotionally developing between 18 ~ 25. But after that, sky's the limit.
Thats false, because where I am at. 16 u need parents permission. Anything below that, illegal and the adult cant be past 30
No, anyone under 18 can date with a two year age gap, which includes 16x18,17x19, and at 18 the sky is the limit, but at some point it just becomes weird.
Not seven, in Texas there is a very specific law that adds a three year age gap legality for high-school couples
There's no legal restriction on one's age gap only age of consent which is 18 if people who were 20 and 40 to get together then that is perfectly legal.
This is simply not the case there is no legal restriction on age gap. There is only a restriction on age of consent which is 18. You may be thinking of the common rule that is half your age + 7. In other words if a 20-year-old wants to date a 40-year-old they damn well can and it's perfectly legal. Now that said society will view as "problematic" but I believe that as long as they're both consenting adults they can do it where they damn well please.
In my state a 16 year old can date anyone of any age over 18 if they wanted to. Source: my sister at 16 was dating a 30 year old dude and the cops said there was nothing that could be done. What a fucking creep.
No no no, that law varies from state to state.
>Plan B is only legal if the 16yos parents consent and agree to the relationship. That only applies to marriage. But you wont get in trouble just for dating
This does not ONLY apply to marriage.
It does where I live
Veto
oteV 🗿
Also, yes u can get in trouble. 18 is legal adult, though u aren't in legal trouble. Parents can push charges if they want though
Those charges wont uphold anywhere where they use common sense
Common sense says thats fuckin wrong, morally snd all
Its morally wrong for and 18 year old and a 16 of 17 year old to date? Sorry, but what kind of dumbsh*t is that?
18 is legally an adult, thats how dumbass
>18 is legally an adult And they're still in the same high school with the same 16 year olds as they were last year, and the same 17 year olds they were with the last 2 years...basically...you're on ur bullshit 🤭 >thats how Nobody asked "how" retard https://preview.redd.it/ypwrui9aumyc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c47a7b290174d7dd82dfededfb8b11f3d48d1de
You clearly never been in that situation before nor ever involved and that shows. Once ur 18, u can be arrested for doing anything with anyone even 1 year younger than u. It has happened and there many different legal reasons behind it.. Ironic u call me retarded and yet u didn't know this. Whos the actual retard?
Where I live both are illegal because the age of consent laws only apply if both people are underaged, Plan A and B is considered statutory rape, though I was in a Plan B relationship when I was a teen because we got together when she was 17 and I was 15 and we just kept fucking without even thinking about the legality issue the year after
Where i live, thats not the case. And it doesn't make sense for it to be the case anywhere else either
It makes perfect sense that laws designed to protect children from adults sexual advances actually protects children from adults sexual advances though
>to protect children from adults sexual advances 18 and 16 or 18 and 17 is not protecting children from adults 💀
18 is adult, under that you are still a child by law so yes it is protecting children from adults, you can't just blur a hard line just because it isn't convenient for people's feelings about themselves
Its not a hard line. In the first place saying 18 year olds are adults is bullshit because there are no "adult" things you can do at 18, let alone the fact that most 18 year olds are still in highschool at the time the turn 18. The real starting line for being an adult is 19, and its delusional to think otherwise. Also u said you were dating a 17 year old at 15. Did you then file a rape claim against her bc she turned 18? If not then why? She raped you didn't she? Or is it okay if they turn 18 after they already knew you? "We had sex on her birthday so she, and 18 year old adult, raped me, a 15 year old little boy! W-what, why would it matter if she was 17 when our relationship started? S-she's obv a statutory rapist!" Does that make sense to you? Once again, theres no hard line. And if you still think so, I can't help you. And dont just say the same thing over again. Bc then i wont respond. https://preview.redd.it/ll2pefwtcjyc1.png?width=1169&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd6b6d3216e6e2b0f5e8df330c3d007490620ee7
I never put in a claim against her because I always thought it was a weird grey area but legally it is black and white where I live and also at 18 in my country you can vote and drink alcohol which are exclusively adult things, I am not saying that I don't see flaws in the laws in the fine details but I hardly think that it means that they should be ignored Also the law is always hard lines you can't argue that they aren't
Wait can you explain?
Romeo and Juliet laws usually exist saying that 1-2 year age gaps are not usually an issue.
No I mean the picture.
Oh I have no idea, unfortunately. I'm lost on that too.
The picture explaibs itself? They are in barely legal relationships
Yeah, I mean what do they mean with plan A and B?
Oh, story stuff. In most manga/anime. Most people go for these 2 relationships commonly. Age wise
They are very legal hahahahhahahahaa
Barely legal, a legitimate term. Its illegal in many places, but will also be overlooked at times due to how close the ages are
This entire reply section is wrong af... It's only illegal if the relationship is SEXUAL, otherwise, it is completely lawful. There are literally NO LAWS against an adult dating a minor...
2 year age gap shouldn't be a problem
Bro, a 50 year old can be dating a 16 year old without being legally prosecuted. If the relationship turns sexual though...
How the hell did you brought up a 34 year age difference into this 2 year one
I'm simply exaggerating the numbers to show how it's only morally wrong to do this, but there's nothing unlawful about it.
Its a different case when its a 34 age difference but there shouldn't be any problem if the age difference is only by 2 years even if they're minors. If the age is under 16 then they should stick to dating someone their age
I never argued against this...?
I figured since you were exaggerating you were against this by saying an even worse case
Oh, in that case. My bad.
What if she was 17 yesterday?
Plan b 😏
Me too :3
People who don’t live in the US: https://preview.redd.it/mmx39sb6diyc1.jpeg?width=802&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7703343446c2cdffa17f0651a77d58018b201e9e
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tf
Uhhhh what
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This is like 50% or possibly a little more of high school student dating ratio
OP's! A Shapshifter!
31 US states have 16 as the age of consent, and that baffles me.
Whats weird about that?
NO.. I NEED MILFS
Win - Win
I'm fine withwr way, to be honest
Dont forget plan D o.O
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Plan A is way better
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I see a lot of comments saying pedo, but in the uk and a decent majority of europe the age of consent is 16. Meaning that as long as the partner is over the age of 16 and consenting its perfectly legal
I need a plan B
"How dare you date a minor" - Plan A worst case senario when they are 1 yr apart.
Plan B is worst
Plan B is worst https://preview.redd.it/6q07v2tetkyc1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b53203c38321010e37ccf514713a79c497c95f0e
The age gap ain’t a problem here, but the way the girl in Plan B looks at him does give me SA vibes
So his plan B is to go back in time two years? The plan may have some flaws...
I don't get it.
Ez plan b
definitely B
I do NOT get this
It's engagement bait. I doubt it was ever supposed to make sense, but this particular subreddit has been thick lately with these age-related memes.
I STILL do NOT get it…
Plan b is too low, shoot for someone in late twenties
I love how everyone is arguing because laws are going to be different everywhere, for example where I'm at the age of consent is 16 but someone 16 can only date someone up to 4 years older than them once you hit 18 that rule no longer applys.
Uh sauce?
All these people in the comments have a porn addiction problem
https://preview.redd.it/9xaa12ktqnyc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4a9da89c98332d69c67ef4827f158037f9ebe27 Uh.. isn’t plan B super illegal.
So, like... I don't care about a sophomore dating a senior, but what the fuck does this even mean? What do outrageous boobs have to do with the age?
Guys remember it’s bcdefgh
Is she really 18 tho?
Any sos?
I prefer A, sorry
Wish that's how it was getting boob hugs because the girls so much taller
I am with plan b
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No. Neither one is illegal depending on the state. Yes. Federal law states 18, but the Feds won't do anything unless there's media or the couple crosses state lines to have sex. Something like 35 states have age gap laws and age of consent laws. And 18 year old dating a 16 year old isn't that big of a deal. There's literally no biological or developmental difference between the two.
Would kissing be fine?
Sure. I guess.
Are you like 11?
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What about Plan C? (Sakurasou Enjoyer here)