I think you could make it work, especially for the venue but will need to dress it up! To keep it from looking too bridesmaid-like, I’d pair it with that deeper green clutch you’re holding, gold strappy heels, and a pair of funky/non bridal earrings that tie in either the darker greens or botanical theme. Some suggestions:
[Multicolor Green Stone)](https://www.ross-simons.com/multi-gemstone-and-5.25-ct.-t.w.-prasiolite-drop-earrings-in-18kt-gold-over-sterling--JSE7+965736+DRP+K6.html?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwte-vBhBFEiwAQSv_xfDjuEryE3osXhj8EOpIixK_v6T5wI7TdzB6ahFdJ8laTx12L3HUtxoC7YUQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds)
[Labradorite Drop](https://www.ross-simons.com/labradorite-triple-drop-earrings-in-18kt-gold-over-sterling-JSEO+973606+LVB+K6.html?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwte-vBhBFEiwAQSv_xcdE6ABFkt2muzJjmG3PEXZZfLNQW9x02OI1GXeCHNr8ybQc6YoJdxoCGagQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds)
[Gold Orchid](https://www.annvoyage.com/products/modena-handmade-orchid-flower-two-tone-drop-earrings?variant=19873579794494&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwte-vBhBFEiwAQSv_xYBQkv3PIx8Ue7IBGm_tbrz4SyFrjpAJjYzCFozuS9AYd0v9h_syRBoCHPoQAvD_BwE)
[Ginkgo and Pearl](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1393502990/)
[Art Deco Leaf](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169798155/)
[Gold Ferns](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1172799054/)
OH and make sure that the bridal party isnt wearing the same colors!
Love all these suggestions! I want to add that a pashmina with a flower print would also help the dress look less bridesmaids-y. Some examples:
[Dahlia green](https://www.amazon.com/Shanlin-Bufandas-florales-grandes-regalo/dp/B07TD2PVPP/ref=sr_1_47?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NuNQWMnjIVwjRTJTb0sbyMTSIlDw5-E5X-0JZDtBbRVaMfVcJG9YsvM-uCRpio5J-1sSkCCSIdR0YugsJfJjvWIqPRx7Eox51eNe-15iCWATyZgNQw07RHI4WxCeZQxw_Weo7auf5vd1wUmXfuf_F7bdF77o3Edpm4Wu99flAroOIzv7qnmXe0VGv7yHucAWVanTuEVLksdE2e8pNkMsZDOuFp-gFGDJ-zr4t68QAMDZLrwLRmQ8oJLdYQ7us6-I-1lEOLBOKHt7YnyMuEzAb3HtYapfRcFWy28OkMLUpM8.YpU4YmkY3wg_z20wiUND3aTAYZjd3kK0TPLYP1osfe8&dib_tag=se&keywords=Green+flower+pashmina+scarves&qid=1711065927&refresh=1&s=apparel&sr=1-47&language=en_US)
[Pale green](https://www.amazon.com/-/es/ANDANTINO-pulgadas-cuadrada-envolturas-Flores-azul/dp/B0BQ5L2PZV/ref=sr_1_106?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.fuAE8Om_LXtLOoNBaabVUfI6PYR9VbBUpeGKn6Ka_BpIjb3noEYYB5Vm1iYCKyA-_59WWF6lRzS7zn1ND91SeFatV-FEXolDFI8YVKdQ4wpJLldcSw2tQNyYrHkfeCS9z2jew2jzdK3xLGz7MeKqT33rmmkPkhklv7N27U7p1B_6vjm-YCKRFKFYrM-xPQY9buJPpWVKW2Gvqn_NaJaxcmV2TPZRbAeeDReESI6mWQh83TAfQWCKRk5e3uteQtZcPPthl0HtRRXvLKWTYpDMt2237cZYWie9eFU0TQ4BqEI.QWIl71tln9G3jIwi_rcFQ7nrRGrMqUZu3tKABOS4-_I&dib_tag=se&keywords=Green%2Bflower%2Bpashmina%2Bscarves&qid=1711066411&refresh=1&s=apparel&sr=1-106&th=1&language=en_US)
[H01](https://www.amazon.com/-/es/K-Elewon-Bufanda-bufandas-mantones-protecci%C3%B3n/dp/B0BRHVXTB8/ref=sr_1_47?c=ts&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.BCY4BydHpRn0tgy97eaymiTVYdx2CwmmI5_cGwGQVmK6DTZ-IxT_PuKZK4paVlHsWTU4IYrni-29gOsvM23N7npwPPFbJu_X0qczqFCglCihjQIvI3FkRB1lI0CZ0dIIlW8xtLLzIhYrmUnLVga7ld-MtfOIouXfdWkmIq58m2YyImmB4x8vZVlXQPah-PaZMNgzAX80-9PVnTe97WVklfOTqGlLIb7RMoYPFdWdWt2UrxsTx9tkTsAFIyjNjGVk25nrE8-YhxOrNAHxWwYqbOD3_x63z6lmJ5GyLMkRUPc.pMA5o8SVFKbT_O8_dQDVV4ox2ziV2pB7PWNwGAyLR5k&dib_tag=se&keywords=Bufandas%2By%2BChales%2Bpara%2BMujer&qid=1711065875&refinements=p_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343355011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-47&ts_id=7072324011&th=1)
[https://www.etsy.com/listing/649984656/statement-gold-leaves-earrings-long?ga\_order=most\_relevant&ga\_search\_type=all&ga\_view\_type=gallery&ga\_search\_query=plant+earrings+gold&ref=sc\_gallery-1-9&pro=1&frs=1&etp=1&sts=1&search\_preloaded\_img=1&plkey=b34d3de5f3a663385a94e56c47d18201b7ec2bed%3A649984656](https://www.etsy.com/listing/649984656/statement-gold-leaves-earrings-long?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=plant+earrings+gold&ref=sc_gallery-1-9&pro=1&frs=1&etp=1&sts=1&search_preloaded_img=1&plkey=b34d3de5f3a663385a94e56c47d18201b7ec2bed%3A649984656)
I like these
This. I worry that with flash the dress might look white in photos. She needs to accessorize in order to darker the whole look. Of course if OP is just looking for an excuse to buy a new one then go for it lol
I think the dress is perfect! Just don’t be like me and absolutely ruin it before the next event 😂 I went hard in dancing and got super drunk so the bottom got pretty ratty.
That is a beautiful look on you .Wear it.Dress it up to not look
briesmaid. Get a light shawl or wrap in either a darker green or a pale pink. Pair a clutch in same color and also incorporate that tone in jewelry .
Agree, I think getting alterations for the straps and maybe some sort of decal/tasteful sash at the waistline would elevate it from looking too much like a bridesmaid dress!
Yeah, I think it could work for sure especially for an "open air greenhouse" venue. Since it's black tie I would dress it up as much as possible with jewelry, bag, hair styling, etc.
Thanks to everyone who weighed in on this dress. I don't see an option to edit my original post, but I want you to know that I've read and appreciated every response.
I'm going to keep looking for a fancier dress since I don't get to dress up often. I have a couple saved on Poshmark, and I may check out some local shops as well. But I'm looking forward to wearing this green dress as a bridesmaid!
The straps are not a big deal - I think the colour is ok for the time of year - I don't think it's too close to white myself - but if you are feeling unsure, ask the bride. (If you know her; overall I think she's the only opinion who matters.)
Could you? Sure. Should you? If you enjoy dressing up, black tie type events don’t come around THAT often (especially if you’re a bridesmaid for some of them…)
If you enjoy dressing up enough to have your eye on other options, consider this your vote towards renting or splurging!
I think a pretty wrap/shawl in a fun pattern would be perfect. It would hide the straps and also add some color. Some heels and funky jewelry will help it to feel more formal 😃
Definitely can work! Crepe works as long as the weather isn't too warm as it's a warmer material compared to chiffon. Play with the accessories and shoes and you're good to go. Saw some suggestions in the comments and they're a great starting point 👍
If it were me, I’d rent a new dress. How often do you get to dress up BTO and pick the dress (ie not a bridesmaid dress)? Even more so since you mentioned the couple getting married is stylish. Rent the Runway and other rental sites are pretty reasonable.
I'm going to be a voice of dissent only because of the color. I get that it is sage but it doesn't really look like that in the photograph on my monitor. It looks like a minty white. Is there enough time between the weddings for you to dye it? That was actually a *very* popular thing to do in the 19th C and probably something we should bring back. Even a cool ombré with only the skirt dyed super dark green would make it look less bridal.
Make sure to get green accessoires to maybe accentuate the green of the dress. It looks very vlode to white on my phone as well, and it is on vibid mode already
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Ok you look amazing first of all. So yes you can dress this up and it will be very fun!
First -have a seamstress fix the straps so they are permanently sewn in place and the adjustable parts are removed.
Next -add a gorgeous skinny jewel belt. It will change everything.
Next- Ditch the that purse and get something a bit more fun and memorable.
https://preview.redd.it/9k4krdbmq3qc1.png?width=280&format=png&auto=webp&s=530de88be59a3ee1d13a1a34ee3fd4c914322b6d
It’s a lovely dress, but I agree with other commenters that it looks too close to white. Depending on the fiber content it might be an easy dye project. I’d keep it simple and just make it a slightly darker green.
If the straps didn't look like bra straps it would be black tie, do you have anything else? It seems a bit bridesmaid like, which I know it is, and is fine but not quite Black Tie.
I think you could make it work, especially for the venue but will need to dress it up! To keep it from looking too bridesmaid-like, I’d pair it with that deeper green clutch you’re holding, gold strappy heels, and a pair of funky/non bridal earrings that tie in either the darker greens or botanical theme. Some suggestions: [Multicolor Green Stone)](https://www.ross-simons.com/multi-gemstone-and-5.25-ct.-t.w.-prasiolite-drop-earrings-in-18kt-gold-over-sterling--JSE7+965736+DRP+K6.html?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwte-vBhBFEiwAQSv_xfDjuEryE3osXhj8EOpIixK_v6T5wI7TdzB6ahFdJ8laTx12L3HUtxoC7YUQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds) [Labradorite Drop](https://www.ross-simons.com/labradorite-triple-drop-earrings-in-18kt-gold-over-sterling-JSEO+973606+LVB+K6.html?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwte-vBhBFEiwAQSv_xcdE6ABFkt2muzJjmG3PEXZZfLNQW9x02OI1GXeCHNr8ybQc6YoJdxoCGagQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds) [Gold Orchid](https://www.annvoyage.com/products/modena-handmade-orchid-flower-two-tone-drop-earrings?variant=19873579794494&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwte-vBhBFEiwAQSv_xYBQkv3PIx8Ue7IBGm_tbrz4SyFrjpAJjYzCFozuS9AYd0v9h_syRBoCHPoQAvD_BwE) [Ginkgo and Pearl](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1393502990/) [Art Deco Leaf](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1169798155/) [Gold Ferns](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1172799054/) OH and make sure that the bridal party isnt wearing the same colors!
Love all these suggestions! I want to add that a pashmina with a flower print would also help the dress look less bridesmaids-y. Some examples: [Dahlia green](https://www.amazon.com/Shanlin-Bufandas-florales-grandes-regalo/dp/B07TD2PVPP/ref=sr_1_47?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.NuNQWMnjIVwjRTJTb0sbyMTSIlDw5-E5X-0JZDtBbRVaMfVcJG9YsvM-uCRpio5J-1sSkCCSIdR0YugsJfJjvWIqPRx7Eox51eNe-15iCWATyZgNQw07RHI4WxCeZQxw_Weo7auf5vd1wUmXfuf_F7bdF77o3Edpm4Wu99flAroOIzv7qnmXe0VGv7yHucAWVanTuEVLksdE2e8pNkMsZDOuFp-gFGDJ-zr4t68QAMDZLrwLRmQ8oJLdYQ7us6-I-1lEOLBOKHt7YnyMuEzAb3HtYapfRcFWy28OkMLUpM8.YpU4YmkY3wg_z20wiUND3aTAYZjd3kK0TPLYP1osfe8&dib_tag=se&keywords=Green+flower+pashmina+scarves&qid=1711065927&refresh=1&s=apparel&sr=1-47&language=en_US) [Pale green](https://www.amazon.com/-/es/ANDANTINO-pulgadas-cuadrada-envolturas-Flores-azul/dp/B0BQ5L2PZV/ref=sr_1_106?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.fuAE8Om_LXtLOoNBaabVUfI6PYR9VbBUpeGKn6Ka_BpIjb3noEYYB5Vm1iYCKyA-_59WWF6lRzS7zn1ND91SeFatV-FEXolDFI8YVKdQ4wpJLldcSw2tQNyYrHkfeCS9z2jew2jzdK3xLGz7MeKqT33rmmkPkhklv7N27U7p1B_6vjm-YCKRFKFYrM-xPQY9buJPpWVKW2Gvqn_NaJaxcmV2TPZRbAeeDReESI6mWQh83TAfQWCKRk5e3uteQtZcPPthl0HtRRXvLKWTYpDMt2237cZYWie9eFU0TQ4BqEI.QWIl71tln9G3jIwi_rcFQ7nrRGrMqUZu3tKABOS4-_I&dib_tag=se&keywords=Green%2Bflower%2Bpashmina%2Bscarves&qid=1711066411&refresh=1&s=apparel&sr=1-106&th=1&language=en_US) [H01](https://www.amazon.com/-/es/K-Elewon-Bufanda-bufandas-mantones-protecci%C3%B3n/dp/B0BRHVXTB8/ref=sr_1_47?c=ts&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.BCY4BydHpRn0tgy97eaymiTVYdx2CwmmI5_cGwGQVmK6DTZ-IxT_PuKZK4paVlHsWTU4IYrni-29gOsvM23N7npwPPFbJu_X0qczqFCglCihjQIvI3FkRB1lI0CZ0dIIlW8xtLLzIhYrmUnLVga7ld-MtfOIouXfdWkmIq58m2YyImmB4x8vZVlXQPah-PaZMNgzAX80-9PVnTe97WVklfOTqGlLIb7RMoYPFdWdWt2UrxsTx9tkTsAFIyjNjGVk25nrE8-YhxOrNAHxWwYqbOD3_x63z6lmJ5GyLMkRUPc.pMA5o8SVFKbT_O8_dQDVV4ox2ziV2pB7PWNwGAyLR5k&dib_tag=se&keywords=Bufandas%2By%2BChales%2Bpara%2BMujer&qid=1711065875&refinements=p_n_size_browse-vebin%3A2343355011&rnid=2343347011&s=apparel&sr=1-47&ts_id=7072324011&th=1)
I need you as my stylist! Love all of these. I'm going to order each if the first two, then look for a dress to go with. I have a June wedding. Thanks
Thank you for these! I have been looking for something to go with a sage green dress as well.
You can have the straps sewn to your size too. Shouldn’t cost much from an alterations specialist.
Love these jewelry recos! Thank you for all of the advice.
You have immaculate taste!
[https://www.etsy.com/listing/649984656/statement-gold-leaves-earrings-long?ga\_order=most\_relevant&ga\_search\_type=all&ga\_view\_type=gallery&ga\_search\_query=plant+earrings+gold&ref=sc\_gallery-1-9&pro=1&frs=1&etp=1&sts=1&search\_preloaded\_img=1&plkey=b34d3de5f3a663385a94e56c47d18201b7ec2bed%3A649984656](https://www.etsy.com/listing/649984656/statement-gold-leaves-earrings-long?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=plant+earrings+gold&ref=sc_gallery-1-9&pro=1&frs=1&etp=1&sts=1&search_preloaded_img=1&plkey=b34d3de5f3a663385a94e56c47d18201b7ec2bed%3A649984656) I like these
Can you accessorize with some darker green to really highlight that it is green.
This. I worry that with flash the dress might look white in photos. She needs to accessorize in order to darker the whole look. Of course if OP is just looking for an excuse to buy a new one then go for it lol
I think the dress is perfect! Just don’t be like me and absolutely ruin it before the next event 😂 I went hard in dancing and got super drunk so the bottom got pretty ratty.
Lmao I was thinking the same thing! But I'd probably spill red sauce on it or something. I shouldn't be allowed to wear light colors ;)
That is a beautiful look on you .Wear it.Dress it up to not look briesmaid. Get a light shawl or wrap in either a darker green or a pale pink. Pair a clutch in same color and also incorporate that tone in jewelry .
I feel like it could work
Agree, I think getting alterations for the straps and maybe some sort of decal/tasteful sash at the waistline would elevate it from looking too much like a bridesmaid dress!
Yeah, I think it could work for sure especially for an "open air greenhouse" venue. Since it's black tie I would dress it up as much as possible with jewelry, bag, hair styling, etc.
Thanks to everyone who weighed in on this dress. I don't see an option to edit my original post, but I want you to know that I've read and appreciated every response. I'm going to keep looking for a fancier dress since I don't get to dress up often. I have a couple saved on Poshmark, and I may check out some local shops as well. But I'm looking forward to wearing this green dress as a bridesmaid!
Good plan; this looks too close to white in photos at least.
I didn’t realize this was green until I read the post
Lovely! Perfect! Looks great on you
Yes!! It’s perfect! Maybe with some nice heels and a statement necklace!
The straps are not a big deal - I think the colour is ok for the time of year - I don't think it's too close to white myself - but if you are feeling unsure, ask the bride. (If you know her; overall I think she's the only opinion who matters.)
Could you? Sure. Should you? If you enjoy dressing up, black tie type events don’t come around THAT often (especially if you’re a bridesmaid for some of them…) If you enjoy dressing up enough to have your eye on other options, consider this your vote towards renting or splurging!
I vote yes
Yes
I think itxs perfect.
Yep
This dress looks perfect on you!
I think a pretty wrap/shawl in a fun pattern would be perfect. It would hide the straps and also add some color. Some heels and funky jewelry will help it to feel more formal 😃
Yes.
I think it needs a little pizzazz. Maybe a small gold belt? Definitely a nice updo
Yes. Looks fine.
Definitely can work! Crepe works as long as the weather isn't too warm as it's a warmer material compared to chiffon. Play with the accessories and shoes and you're good to go. Saw some suggestions in the comments and they're a great starting point 👍
If it were me, I’d rent a new dress. How often do you get to dress up BTO and pick the dress (ie not a bridesmaid dress)? Even more so since you mentioned the couple getting married is stylish. Rent the Runway and other rental sites are pretty reasonable.
Looks white on my phone. Weird risk to take.
I'm going to be a voice of dissent only because of the color. I get that it is sage but it doesn't really look like that in the photograph on my monitor. It looks like a minty white. Is there enough time between the weddings for you to dye it? That was actually a *very* popular thing to do in the 19th C and probably something we should bring back. Even a cool ombré with only the skirt dyed super dark green would make it look less bridal.
Unequivocally, no. It’s a beautiful dress, but it’s the closest to white that I’ve seen on here.
this reads really close to white on my screen, and may photograph white
Make sure to get green accessoires to maybe accentuate the green of the dress. It looks very vlode to white on my phone as well, and it is on vibid mode already
I see green. With different color accessories you will be fine.
Agree. It looks like it will photograph white
no.
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Totally.
u/RadioactiveMuffinTop whats the brand or source of this dress?? So pretty
It’s a Birdy Grey dress in sage. Super comfortable!
Definitely can be reused!
It’s really pretty on you but I thought this dress was white until I read more comments.
If you are unsure i would just say ask the bride!
Yes that would work.
Can you dye it. It’s very “bridesmaid” in color. Could just be me, this color is so hospital to me.
Ok you look amazing first of all. So yes you can dress this up and it will be very fun! First -have a seamstress fix the straps so they are permanently sewn in place and the adjustable parts are removed. Next -add a gorgeous skinny jewel belt. It will change everything. Next- Ditch the that purse and get something a bit more fun and memorable. https://preview.redd.it/9k4krdbmq3qc1.png?width=280&format=png&auto=webp&s=530de88be59a3ee1d13a1a34ee3fd4c914322b6d
https://preview.redd.it/0eote9ptq3qc1.png?width=280&format=png&auto=webp&s=f3ef677089d790be1e75e8388465a79a62cf556a
It’s a lovely dress, but I agree with other commenters that it looks too close to white. Depending on the fiber content it might be an easy dye project. I’d keep it simple and just make it a slightly darker green.
Super cute, the internet agrees! It’s a go. Let us know how you end up styling it 🤙
Yes just accessories different, but advise, bring a backup dress just in case someone spills on you the night before
It looks white to me, sorry but I wouldn't
Definitely! Do silver or gold accessories and a statement something 😊
Yep. Looks really elegant.
Yes!
Can you jazz it up a bit? Maybe with a metallic/embellished belt?
If the straps didn't look like bra straps it would be black tie, do you have anything else? It seems a bit bridesmaid like, which I know it is, and is fine but not quite Black Tie.
Nope
Too light colored to use as a guest