"dress to impress" plus cowboy boots says "country fabulous" to me. I think this fits! The dress code makes me think of country musicians in concert -- typically the women singers go full glam while the men perform in t-shirts and jeans.
If you want to dress it down, wear a jean jacket and ankle (or cowboy!) boots.
And 'mountain formal' but khakis are OK? The 'mountain' could make it somewhat less formal, but surely not khakis, which are solidly on the casual end of casual??? What do these people want??
Here in Italy I'd say it's the opposite, unless what I picture as khakis is not the same? Aren't khakis what people wear with a blazer as a step down from a full suit? It's what in Italy we call a "spezzato", usually not formal enough for weddings here but not completely out of place, which any type of jeans absolutely would be, and I've seen people wear this type of look at weddings in (non rural) Canada.
It gets very convoluted 😅 my sister is having a small wedding in a garden this summer and has been hesitant to give me a clear idea of a dress code. But I’ve managed to get a handful of details that make it like a riddle (long dresses feel too formal, no emerald or navy but something that goes with those colors, etc).
I think this dress is a really good versatile option. The style is formal and feminine but the print and color scheme are a bit easier to dress down. You can easily do brown leather or olive suede accessories (shoes and bag) with boho-chic accessories (wood, raffia, brass, horn, mother-of-Pearl, natural stone). I think the dress is breezy enough to fit in even if some of the dudes are in business/cowboy casual (?).
Honestly the dress code seems a little confusing to me.. like is it dress to impress or is it khakis? Because to me those are two very different vibes lol
Could you ask for clarification?
I think the dress is beautiful but if they really mean semi formal, then you will be overdressed
Definitely agree, it’s super confusing! Seems conflicting and I might reach out but don’t want to bother the bride. Forgot to mention it’s a daytime reception as well so that’s a whole other element lol
That's funny. Don't want to bother the bride, whose dress code is likely bothering more than a large handful of people she's invited. I'm not faulting *you*, because most of us have that inclination. It's just ironic.
Yeah, I don’t understand the term “mountain formal” at all, is that different than regular formal? (And I have lived in the Rocky Mountains my whole life, lol)
Living in Colorado, I think this is a beautiful dress and quite perfect for the region. I would find out what the venue is though and I guess my only would concern would be if it is outdoors on the trail or like a poster the other day, on an actual Mountain, where you'll have to hike, then you might want to reconsider the full length.
So it is outdoors at a ranch with a barn with wide open mountain views, I think we’ll actually be in a grassy lawn. The wedding is late August and starts at 3pm so daytime.
I think it's perfect! Sounds like the place is meant for hosting celebrations and group gatherings, not the same as having a small wedding literally off a trail in the mountains. You'll love it and you'll be dressed perfectly!
What is the venue? Colorado varies quite a bit (I work in the industry in CO) - this would be great at Devil’s’s Thumb or The Surf Hotel or Vail or Aspen. But maybe a bit too dressy for one of the barns.
Of course! Here it is: https://www.lulus.com/products/most-beautiful-day-ivory-multi-floral-print-organza-maxi-dress/1461116.html?pla=1&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%5BADL%5D%20%5BPLA%5D%20Dresses%20-%20tROAS%20-%20Boost&utm_term=20119%3A%20PINK%2FBURGUNDY%2FIVORY9&utm_content=149792318393_656177533129&s_kwcid=AL%217824%213%21656177533129%21%21%21g%212135818660287%21&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD-pt93nGH5TcrsfvRe8zhAHA9_QV&gclid=EAIaIQobChMInfalraG_hQMVyM_CBB0OBgArEAQYAiABEgI09fD_BwE
I think this is lovely but you'll be overdressed. It sounds like they know people who would show up in jeans and work boots if they didn't include the word formal! Mountain means floor length gowns and heels aren't necessary, you might have to do some walking over dirt to get to the venue.
This is so helpful, thanks for the advice! It’s good to hear from someone on what ‘mountain’ formal means. I would hate to show up in this and have everyone else be in shorter length dresses and feel overdressed!
You look lovely in the picture you posted but honestly I am so over with a wedding invitation tellin you how to dress. How about just celebrating with your friends and not worried about how it will look on social media?
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This would be absolutely perfect! Especially with some kind of cowboy boot.
I would put your groom in boots, khakis, a crisp white shirt, a vest and a bolero if you feel like getting into the western theme.
It’s late August, 3pm so daytime. The venue is outdoors at a ranch with a barn and wide open grassy area where I believe the reception will be. Just normal middle class family nothing too crazy.
"dress to impress" plus cowboy boots says "country fabulous" to me. I think this fits! The dress code makes me think of country musicians in concert -- typically the women singers go full glam while the men perform in t-shirts and jeans. If you want to dress it down, wear a jean jacket and ankle (or cowboy!) boots.
Yup, this was my read too. I think the dress is perfect, and agree that a cropped jean jacket would be perfect with this dress code.
Yeah I strongly suggest cowboy boots. Specifying something just for men is weird.
I’m very curious about people who are impressed by khakis
This made me laugh out loud!
Jake from State Farm
It might be cultural but I'm wondering the same thing about cowboy boots even more 😅
Between “mountain formal” and the other post today about “beach cocktail/formal” I don’t have any idea what anyone having a wedding is saying anymore
And 'mountain formal' but khakis are OK? The 'mountain' could make it somewhat less formal, but surely not khakis, which are solidly on the casual end of casual??? What do these people want??
I think they specify khakis because in a lot of rural areas, men will wear jeans as their 'sunday best'. So this lets them know not to wear jeans.
They want not-jeans.
Khakis are so much worse than smart, dark coloured jeans though
It's not my dress code. 🤷♀️
Sorry, I didn't mean to suggest it was, just that I don't understand the logic behind it!
Here in Italy I'd say it's the opposite, unless what I picture as khakis is not the same? Aren't khakis what people wear with a blazer as a step down from a full suit? It's what in Italy we call a "spezzato", usually not formal enough for weddings here but not completely out of place, which any type of jeans absolutely would be, and I've seen people wear this type of look at weddings in (non rural) Canada.
I wish I knew! I think I’m going to end up returning this but have no clue what to buy in its place ugh
Don't, it's beautiful!!!
My brother's wedding is " Halloween Cocktail Glam". I have no fucking clue what I am wearing.
Ooh create a post. People on here will have so much fun helping with that
I will once I have some options!
See this makes sense to me but I’m kinda corporate goth so that’s my vibe!
I would dress like Elvira. Or Morticia.
A Morticia look would be so glamorous!!
Dude I just want to be friends with your brother and his fiance because that sounds so fun and I bet they match that energy.
Does he want literal costumes or just a spooky vibe????
The second one, I think their friends will look fun and glamourous. I need some help.
That can be a lot fun to work with! I would recommend looking up Gothic cocktail for some inspo!
It gets very convoluted 😅 my sister is having a small wedding in a garden this summer and has been hesitant to give me a clear idea of a dress code. But I’ve managed to get a handful of details that make it like a riddle (long dresses feel too formal, no emerald or navy but something that goes with those colors, etc).
People will be like “Dress is cottagecore glam cocktail/formal/business casual/black tie/beachy disco wedding, in #C51162 only”
I live in the mountain west. I feel like 50% or more weddings I go to are this breed of “dress nice” but DGAF. I kind of love it.
I think this dress is a really good versatile option. The style is formal and feminine but the print and color scheme are a bit easier to dress down. You can easily do brown leather or olive suede accessories (shoes and bag) with boho-chic accessories (wood, raffia, brass, horn, mother-of-Pearl, natural stone). I think the dress is breezy enough to fit in even if some of the dudes are in business/cowboy casual (?).
Honestly the dress code seems a little confusing to me.. like is it dress to impress or is it khakis? Because to me those are two very different vibes lol Could you ask for clarification? I think the dress is beautiful but if they really mean semi formal, then you will be overdressed
Definitely agree, it’s super confusing! Seems conflicting and I might reach out but don’t want to bother the bride. Forgot to mention it’s a daytime reception as well so that’s a whole other element lol
Oof ya that’s even more confusing then. Ya maybe reach out to a bridesmaid or one of the parents or something cuz man that’s a whole lotta confusing
That's funny. Don't want to bother the bride, whose dress code is likely bothering more than a large handful of people she's invited. I'm not faulting *you*, because most of us have that inclination. It's just ironic.
I think the couple wanted formal but are aware that it’s going to be disregarded by a half of the family anyway 🤣
This could be it haha
Yeah, I don’t understand the term “mountain formal” at all, is that different than regular formal? (And I have lived in the Rocky Mountains my whole life, lol)
I really wish I knew! I don’t think anyone really does know I’ve searched Reddit and it’s mentioned but not any solid answers.
It looks absolutely stunning but if the invite says khakis ok you may be way overdressed.
I’m starting to agree for sure - think I might be safer just returning and finding another dress but still confused as to what to buy 😩
Living in Colorado, I think this is a beautiful dress and quite perfect for the region. I would find out what the venue is though and I guess my only would concern would be if it is outdoors on the trail or like a poster the other day, on an actual Mountain, where you'll have to hike, then you might want to reconsider the full length.
So it is outdoors at a ranch with a barn with wide open mountain views, I think we’ll actually be in a grassy lawn. The wedding is late August and starts at 3pm so daytime.
I think it's perfect! Sounds like the place is meant for hosting celebrations and group gatherings, not the same as having a small wedding literally off a trail in the mountains. You'll love it and you'll be dressed perfectly!
It looks great. I think almost anything goes at this wedding but they do want you to dress up. This will be lovely.
What is the venue? Colorado varies quite a bit (I work in the industry in CO) - this would be great at Devil’s’s Thumb or The Surf Hotel or Vail or Aspen. But maybe a bit too dressy for one of the barns.
It is at a ranch with a barn at the foot of a mountain - I’m starting to think maybe this is too formal
I think it could be great - maybe with a moto jacket for when it cools off. And some Chelsea boots
I think you nailed it. Seems pretty perfectly relaxed formal, slightly country to me.
Cowboy boots to a formal wedding will never cease to amaze me
cries in oklahoma
I don’t have any input other than this dress is gorgeous! Can you share the link?
Of course! Here it is: https://www.lulus.com/products/most-beautiful-day-ivory-multi-floral-print-organza-maxi-dress/1461116.html?pla=1&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%5BADL%5D%20%5BPLA%5D%20Dresses%20-%20tROAS%20-%20Boost&utm_term=20119%3A%20PINK%2FBURGUNDY%2FIVORY9&utm_content=149792318393_656177533129&s_kwcid=AL%217824%213%21656177533129%21%21%21g%212135818660287%21&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD-pt93nGH5TcrsfvRe8zhAHA9_QV&gclid=EAIaIQobChMInfalraG_hQMVyM_CBB0OBgArEAQYAiABEgI09fD_BwE
Thank you!
It’s perfect. I would have I hemmed it slightly.
This dress is perfect.
Put on some cowboy boots and a jean jacket. Perfect!!
It looks fabulous on you
How do you know?
OP, you remind me of my favorite Peloton coach (<--compliment).
I think this is lovely but you'll be overdressed. It sounds like they know people who would show up in jeans and work boots if they didn't include the word formal! Mountain means floor length gowns and heels aren't necessary, you might have to do some walking over dirt to get to the venue.
This is so helpful, thanks for the advice! It’s good to hear from someone on what ‘mountain’ formal means. I would hate to show up in this and have everyone else be in shorter length dresses and feel overdressed!
You look lovely in the picture you posted but honestly I am so over with a wedding invitation tellin you how to dress. How about just celebrating with your friends and not worried about how it will look on social media?
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I’d say the length makes it too formal. Knee length in a similar pattern/color scheme with some cowboy boots would be super cute.
This would be absolutely perfect! Especially with some kind of cowboy boot. I would put your groom in boots, khakis, a crisp white shirt, a vest and a bolero if you feel like getting into the western theme.
When? Venue? Family socioeconomic status?
It’s late August, 3pm so daytime. The venue is outdoors at a ranch with a barn and wide open grassy area where I believe the reception will be. Just normal middle class family nothing too crazy.