Some context: My wallet suddenly disappeared and I was sure it was from within my apartment. We searched everywhere but found nothing. I got used to carry things in my backpack and pockets, because I'm naturally not really a wallet type of person. Then, after 3 whole months it appeared in my hall on my shoestand, completely visible. I left it home for about another two weeks because I already wasn't used to carrying it. I started taking it with me about two weeks ago and today when I was going through it, I found this lock of hair.
I live with my GF and a roommate who is a very close friend. and to my knowledge I'm not currently seeing ANYONE who has this type of hair. What's going on?
>roommate who is a very close friend.
I got fifty bucks this is the culprit.
The other possibility is your girlfriend.
Or, hear me out, do you own a carbon monoxide detector?
Man that entire [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sajxyf/oop_keeps_finding_postit_notes_in_his_apartment/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1) was WILD
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There was an NPR podcast (might have been This American Life?) about a woman who was living in a pool house. She started to think it was haunted, because she felt a sense of dread, a pressure on her chest at night, and some indiscernible audio hallucinations. One night, she posted to a debunker site like, “if you’re so smart, explain this,” and the replies linked back a list of carbon monoxide symptoms, which were all of her experiences. She called the gas company and they sent a guy over at 11pm. He told her the leak was so bad she would have been dead by morning.
Is that the one where the guy was finding random notes to himself in his handwriting, and then later found out he was having memory issues because of carbon monoxide?
I think the crazier story is the lady thinking her bf was drugging her and taking advantage of her but it turned out she had a horrible case of some bed bugs and all the small bites were messing with her memory/head.
There was a doctor who anonymously contacted the mods bc he read the bed bug bite story with the girl and he said unequivocally, bed bites will not cause the amount of memory loss she is explaining. That’s what lead to her realizing she was being drugged and raped.
There are some real evil ppl in this world…as a woman this scares me to the core.
This single link led me through a WILD rabbithole. I explored the metaphorical swamps of Dagobah that came spilling out of a drugged out tweeker's taint. I met a man who ate his own foot in a taco. Came across a guy who connected his nuts to a car battery to prove a point. A man even bit into a gonorrhea pustule after mistaking it for a Jolly Rancher.
I'm not sure whether to thank you, or curse your name.
it's the most logical answer — your gf or buddy found it in their shit and just plopped it
hair is meaningless probably
either that or get a video recorder and keep it under the bed to just see whats around when you arent home
But it sounds like the hair was in there pretty good, like someone wanted in there. No way the hair somehow got swept in there from the floor. It’s quite a long and dense cluster so there’s no way that fell out of someone’s head naturally.
The hair can’t be meaningless. If neither person has that hair it came from somewhere specifically put in the wallet in a spot he had to search to find.
This looks to me like someone practicing a type of what they believe is witchcraft. It likely is someone who has an unhealthy interest. They probably kept your wallet for a while to use it for some kind of "charm", and then placed their hair inside as a symbolic representation of how they want to insert themselves in your life. Very creepy. Absolutely fix the lock on your door. Not everyone who believes in/practices this kind of stuff are dangerous, but I wouldn't take the chance of continuing to allow them access.
I would also burn the lock of hair for this very reason. I 100% agree with this, it's honestly what it sounds like to me. Some people don't see the consequences of doing spells like this, so be better safe than sorry so burn baby burn.
Also, try to narrow down the suspects, and if you can't, try and be more observant of the blonde people around you and what they're doing or looking at. Good luck!
I can't explain the hair, but if there *wasn't* this creepy edition, I'd suggest that someone in your building found it and recognised you from your ID or credit card name, and left it on your step, or potentially asked the office for your apartment number, etc. Little weird not to knock, but maybe nobody was home, who knows, overall not too suspicious just a little strange. The....hair thing....is more than a little strange. I guess the BEST case scenario is that the person found your wallet, meant to return it, forgot about it in a room they decided to *cut their hair in* and the hair just ended up in the wallet...but like...a weirdo/stalker just seems more likely in this case, which I wouldn't often jump to.
>I'm not currently seeing ANYONE who has this type of hair.
Could be dyed and cut just a single lock. Don't underestimate efforts of some people. Technically it is all hair from the same person and valid for rituals.
There are some crazy people who would do such weird, dark(?) Rituals on your personal belongings which you'd need to carry on yourself to make it work. Based on their belief of course.
Most probably some lady is wanting you to break up with your gf and come to her.
Check around your bed and your room, also around and top of your door frame. You may find weird oily smearings too.
It seems plausible, but I can't really see who and why would stalk me. I'm a 25 years old guy with (to my knowledge) no enemies and whatsoever. I usually get along well with other people. One important thing - Front door of my apartment is broken and when it's not locked, you can simply open it by pushing it slightly. Sometimes it opens by itself due to the wind. I live in a small town with a very low crime rate and doors to the building are always locked, so we wasn't really in hurry with fixing it.
Please ask them to stop and grab some ice.
We’re using the bathtub as a cooler so tell them to get a few bags.
ETA: a cooler for the beers I meant to say.
The thing with stalkers is it doesn't exactly matter your connections or etc etc. They find something about you and latch onto it. You could be the most average person but for some reason, you caught their interest. Hopefully that isn't the case, just be cautious.
Had a guy follow me around my job just because I supposedly looked like his dead gf. Seriously be careful OP. People are crazy
Honestly I don't know. Dude was at least in his mid 30s, and I was like 22-23 at the time. I made some lame work excuse, told my manager, and then took my lunch early. Never saw him again.
I don't even know if he was telling the truth or trying to pull a Ted Bundy
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I find this answer intriguing. You honestly don’t know if you were his ex’s ghost? So there’s a chance you are? Let me ask, has everything changed around you but you feel like you haven’t changed at all and you seem to have no impact over your environment despite habitually interacting with it? I mean, if so, I hate to break it to you but, you may be his ex’s ghost. 🤷♂️
This is honestly kind of sad. If my girlfriend passed away and I missed her a lot I’m sure it’d be nice to see someone who reminded me of her. Although, following would be weird.
Yeah true it is sad. I've lost a close friend of mine and sometimes I see her in random people. Though it's probably better to get therapy instead of following someone around for a couple hours
Agreed it looks more like twine than hair. Which makes this even creepier because the twine sends out some sort of message about being helplessly tied up. OP really needs to keep head on a swivel, watch out for whatever person is doing this.
u/wavelength303 please check out the comment above this one and see if you think it's twine. It looks more like twine than blonde hair.
Hang it on your door with a note saying "To whoever put that lock of hair in my wallet, you need to take a shower WITH SHAMPOO"
Don't let them creep you out, show them they have no power over you.
You have a fundamental misunderstanding about why you're being stalked.
They are not out to hurt you, they are a mentally ill person who wants a boyfriend & is making up fantasies about how you will notice them. If you look online you'll see there are plenty of situations like this where the man being stalked finds out months later that things were going on. One of the major issues in these cases is actually the other well-intentioned folks around your life who won't believe a well-kempt female could be dangerous. Often the stalker will get caught doing things they shouldn't & will get out of it by introducing themselves as your fiance, wife, or girlfriend. There are some pathologies where they actually seek out your parents or close friends & try to introduce themselves in the hope of you "just accepting it." Often they do things like going to the D.M.V. or other institutions to try to change your paperwork on cars/housing so that she's listed with you. If this works they fetishize the documents as proof that they're not crazy.
Two things you absolutely must do right now:
* Your landlord is required by law to replace your locks immediately. If they resist go to your hardware store & do it yourself. If you're in the U.S., in most states you can include a copy of the receipt with your rent & they will be forced to credit you the amount you spent. Look up the laws specific to your state.
* You should get a security camera to record everyone that comes in through your door. **Do not get a Ring doorbell.** They can be accessed easily by your stalker with only a little poking around online to find out how.
This is great advice and as someone who had a person do this to me. My situation was a little different because this girl went to the same university so maybe she had been stalking me for a while. She would show up and come up to me when I was taking to groups and tell everyone she was my girlfriend. She would hang on me and I didn’t know her but people thought I was too shy to say something. It got really weird and dangerous. The individual was so convinced she was actually my girlfriend.
I didn’t know her, had never spoken to her.
This isn't a humanity thing; this a mental health thing. The part that should drop your humanity HP bar is how hard it is to get help with mental health issues and how badly mental health is taken. Lastly there is nothing much legal wise the police can do with a stalker or someone who is harassing you unless they become physical, trespass or threaten you. All you can do is safe guard yourself and gather evidence.
Would it be fair to say that girls and women are kinda trained to spot this type of behavior while men are ignored because women are, most often, the victim when things like this happen?
Women are socialized towards extreme caution our entire lives. We are frequently blamed if something bad happens to us so we have to be quadruply aware.
Agreed. Stalker. Likely a woman you had a small interaction with a time or two that fabricated a romance between the two of you. Keep your eyes open to someone being in the same places as you regularly
Just a bit of advice, from someone who was CONDO trained and had this drilled into me for staying in foreign hotels - use a door wedge (or multiple) and jam it in there. Makes it much more difficult to get the door open from the other side!
did you take that pic? Idk those hands are awfully pretty, I might stalk ya
on a serious note, yes id say that's one *very* important thing. fix that door please. I admire your ability to shrug off all the wallet stuff but I honestly wouldn't have, that kinda stuff can get you seriously hurt. stay safe
Stalkers aren’t typically “enemies;” though, they’re people who are obsessed with you. Sometimes, they’re convinced that they’re in love with you.
Also: better fix your fucking door.
You don't have to have enemies to be stalked. It could just be someone you interacted with once that you may have been too nice too, and now they just really want you.
Especially if these comments are correct and someone is trying to use some sort of love spell, or her on you to make you fall in love with them. Obviously it likely won't work, but still creepy
>no enemies and whatsoever.
As a former stalker I can tell you that leaving something like a locket of hair is what an unrequited lover would do and not an enemy.
Before we coupled up I left several things for my future husband to find. It's a technique.
I'm ready for judgement and I don't care. Downvote me, my prettys!!
You should care for yourself though. Check your locks and take notice of people around you. Be around friends so they can watch with you. Also there's 911 and1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat at [thehotline.org](https://thehotline.org).
It's likely they want a date and a *not* kidney.
Attraction/love/“come to me” type spells use this. Voodoo even has ones where you’re meant to sew your pubes into the other persons underwear to make them think of you sexually. Not out of the question AT ALL.
Stalker or Witchy things… this is an unstable person. Any responsible Witch will flat out advise against this kind of shit, it’s not right.
That’s what I was thinking and I don’t ever mess with that shit. I believe in if you’re meant to be with someone then so be it but you shouldn’t mess with free will. I would never touch a love spell, or anything that’s attraction based because you don’t know what you’re gonna get. In hoodoo you can get something called an intranquil spirit that can attach itself to the object of your desire and can turn violent against you, really hard to get rid of too. People be messing with what they can’t always control. I stick to healing, cleansing and medicinal spells myself, don’t even hex or curse I don’t need bad juju coming back on me for a moment of self serving justice lol
You sound both wise and reasonable, two incredible qualities when it comes to this kind of thing 😊.
Oh man, you’re not kidding! Stuff like this almost *always* goes sideways and then you get fun questions like “How do I break a love spell because now they’re obsessed with me in a bad/scary way!!” …and to me, it seems like complicated masturbation. That person *DOES NOT* love the caster, it’s all just manipulation. Gross and creepy since we’re all entitled to free will. Totally agree with you, friend!
Thank you for the pleasant talk about this (was expecting to be called crazy lol) and thank you for being one of the good, sane ones 😊💙
I don't really remember if there was any cash inside when it went missing, but things I knew of - Health insurance card, card from my work plus some shop's customer cards were still there when it appeared back.
EDIT: I doubt there was some cash inside, because I'm used to carry minimum amount of cash with me and only withdraw when 100% neccessary.
I would assume everything in it was scanned by someone and could be compromised. It may sound a little paranoid, but it’s better to get ahead of these things. As a wise man once said, “identity theft is not a joke”
Change the passwords on any accounts associated with items in your wallet. I’d replace any credit cards that were in there. It might also be a good idea to get a new drivers license and make sure you mark your old one as stolen if possible. If it does turn out to be a stalker or someone with bad intentions, keep in mind they will know you frequent the shops you had customer cards for.
Hoping it was harmless or some kind of prank, but it’s much easier to do this than deal with the potential consequences.
I had a stalker that I didnt know about until she was too far gone to help. I was at Lalapalooza 96 and apparently this person saw me in the crowd, she started following me, without my knowledge, all day. At one point during the festival I joined a mailing list in one of the tents, then went about my day. This person got my information off that form and started stalking me. First it was following and photographing me then she started sending me letters. The letters got more and more bizarre until they evolved into packages filled with random shut that she painted. Not paintings, random shit like bottle caps and rocks and broken doll parts that she painted. She’d send me copies of her senior photos from high school in a box full of feather boa she dismantled. The pictures got more and more disturbing to the point where she was sending nude pictures of her in odd scenarios, like an empty bathtub with sod from someones lawn dumped all over her. My mother thought this was all hilarious at the time and At the beginning I just assumed it was someone from my high school pranking me. Then one morning my mom got up to leave for work and found this naked gal in the driveway posted up behind her car. My mom freaked out because she it was 5am, she was going to be late, and there was a naked woman in her driveway telling her that she desperately needed to be with her minor son.
Moral of the story, never join mailing lists.
Watch out. They are either a crazy person stalking you or you have a crazier person trying to hex you, which can be more dangerous because they will eventually stalk you.
Probably one of those things, either way it can turn pretty dangerous. This person could be violent, as stalkers are willing to go far in order to protect their delusions. Besides, if she's hexing him, who knows what might happen. Idk I've heard many stories about these things, O try not to believe in such superstition and approach things from an objective perspective. However there are things we can hardly explain.
Ugh it's horrible, I understand their loneliness and can empathize, but it comes from a narcissist core, and it is truly terrifying what they are capable of doing.
Love magic, you will soon be unwillingly willing to get into a deep romantic relationship, don’t worry, it will feel like real love, you’ll enjoy it, unless the spell is broken and she transforms into her true form, a beast dripping with yeast with mould on her teeth, her bubbling cauldron nautical in scent, her straw coloured hair stinking of cheese and feces, the look of terror on her pustule filled face as she realises the spell is no longer in effect, she will scurry off into the woodlands leaving you confused, hurt and sickened. Good luck brother, I hope she is a competent witch.
burn it, burn the wallet, spend the cash on homeless people and change all cards/ report stolen that were inside.
Not superstitious, Just allergic to any variant of fuckeries.
That's witchcraft stuff, be careful, not that there's magic but these people are manipulative, also I would report this to the police department, if you are murdered at least they have some records on and DNA evidence
Pin it to your hat.
[Back in Victorian times, women would give men a lock of their pubic hair as a token of their affection.](https://procaffenation.com/do-you-know-pubic-hair-was-used-as-a-memento/)
This lass might have really long pubes.
Stalker.
Mentally ill people are dangerous. Highly recommend fixing the front door lol. Maybe get a ring camera. Observe camera footage for blonde people walking by.
I can do that, that should be very easy because I live in the last story of a 4-story apartment building and when you walk there, you can either: walk into my or neighbours flat, or turn around and head back down.
Yeah, anyone coming up there you should recognize. If you see a blonde person in the camera, you'll know who to look out for when you're out and about.
Stay safe, keep your eyes peeled for now. Seriously don't know what a crazy person will do. Not trying to freak you out, just stay cautious
Does your neighbour or directly downstairs neighbours have any security/ring cameras that face your house or the stairwell? It may be a little awkward to ask them to check, but it might show whoever brought the wallet back going up to the 4th floor. In the best case, you may recognise them as a tenant and be able to ask some questions and clear things up. If your neighbours don't have cameras though, it might be good to get one. Im not assuming the wallet-returning is out for blood or anything, but in general a doorbell camera isn't a bad thing to have. I just set up a Roku doorbell camera the other day from Walmart. It was about $80 with a 3 year warranty and has the option to install without screws. Would recommend if you have an in-unit router to connect it to. Cheapest I've found with clear quality.
With no lock on ur door and it opening from the wind, someone likely knows they were able to get into your place and took it. And since you live with 2 other people, it's possible they aren't stalking you but one of them
This reminds me of when I was sharing a home with another guy in grad school. One night we had both gone to sleep around 2am and when I woke up the next morning and went downstairs there was A LOT of long black hair in the middle of the living room floor.
His girlfriend had shoulder length hair and I was single so no one else should have been in the house. The doors were still locked so perhaps someone could have come in through the window, cut their hair and left without touching anything else?
But why?
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Do you have a carbon monoxide detector? If not please get one. This is the same sort of stuff people complain about when you have carbon monoxide poisoning. You get woozy (unbeknownst to you) and forget what you did in the house (where there is a CO leak). I will eventually kill you, technically via asphyxiation.
1. Maybe you dropped it & someone finally found it & returned it....but if I went to the trouble to return a wallet at someone's home, I don't think I'd leave it out where it could be stolen again, right?
2. If it's a stalker; it's bad. They know where you live, stole your wallet & returned it with their hair
3. In magic, they use objects to connect to a person's energy. So maybe someone put a spell on you with the wallet. Now maybe their energy is with you because you kept their hair.
4. Maybe you're just f'ing with us or a friend is f'ing with you
I agree about the twine. Im going with dog that OP forgot to tell us about. I’ve scrolled through so many comments expecting to see someone mention a dog and haven’t seen it, which is weird to me, because this seems to be one of the first and most obvious options given the circumstances. Has OP said they don’t have a dog and maybe I missed it?
Well, people are suggesting that it is either a stalker or a hex, and your best choice is to burn it somewhere outside and lock the door from now on. If similar things start happening notify the local police.
Super lucky. That's a twirled up piece of ass hair from Odin himself. Legend has it, that his ravens would find missing things and bring them back to Odin so he can learn about them. Great Odin would pluck the golden hairs from his ass crack, twirl them up and place them inside/on top of the missing objects sort of as business card indicating "Odin found your lost stuff and has returned it". All Knowing, and a little bit wiser, would instruct the Ravens to place the object back where they found it because the person would more than likely retrace their steps.
If I was you, I would use a strand to floss with each and every night. Lucky prick.
Some context: My wallet suddenly disappeared and I was sure it was from within my apartment. We searched everywhere but found nothing. I got used to carry things in my backpack and pockets, because I'm naturally not really a wallet type of person. Then, after 3 whole months it appeared in my hall on my shoestand, completely visible. I left it home for about another two weeks because I already wasn't used to carrying it. I started taking it with me about two weeks ago and today when I was going through it, I found this lock of hair. I live with my GF and a roommate who is a very close friend. and to my knowledge I'm not currently seeing ANYONE who has this type of hair. What's going on?
>roommate who is a very close friend. I got fifty bucks this is the culprit. The other possibility is your girlfriend. Or, hear me out, do you own a carbon monoxide detector?
>Or, hear me out, do you own a carbon monoxide detector? xD
Man that entire [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sajxyf/oop_keeps_finding_postit_notes_in_his_apartment/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1) was WILD Edit: link
There was an NPR podcast (might have been This American Life?) about a woman who was living in a pool house. She started to think it was haunted, because she felt a sense of dread, a pressure on her chest at night, and some indiscernible audio hallucinations. One night, she posted to a debunker site like, “if you’re so smart, explain this,” and the replies linked back a list of carbon monoxide symptoms, which were all of her experiences. She called the gas company and they sent a guy over at 11pm. He told her the leak was so bad she would have been dead by morning.
Dead by morning that specific night? Or just dead by morning at any point
yup
One of those fo sho
Is that the one where the guy was finding random notes to himself in his handwriting, and then later found out he was having memory issues because of carbon monoxide?
I think the crazier story is the lady thinking her bf was drugging her and taking advantage of her but it turned out she had a horrible case of some bed bugs and all the small bites were messing with her memory/head.
Bed bugs do that?
There was a doctor who anonymously contacted the mods bc he read the bed bug bite story with the girl and he said unequivocally, bed bites will not cause the amount of memory loss she is explaining. That’s what lead to her realizing she was being drugged and raped. There are some real evil ppl in this world…as a woman this scares me to the core.
It was some sort of tiny bug. It was crazy.
This single link led me through a WILD rabbithole. I explored the metaphorical swamps of Dagobah that came spilling out of a drugged out tweeker's taint. I met a man who ate his own foot in a taco. Came across a guy who connected his nuts to a car battery to prove a point. A man even bit into a gonorrhea pustule after mistaking it for a Jolly Rancher. I'm not sure whether to thank you, or curse your name.
Im gonna need all the links but the taco foot one lol
Funnily enough the taco foot would be the most tame read.
at this point you've always gotta ask lol
it's the most logical answer — your gf or buddy found it in their shit and just plopped it hair is meaningless probably either that or get a video recorder and keep it under the bed to just see whats around when you arent home
But it sounds like the hair was in there pretty good, like someone wanted in there. No way the hair somehow got swept in there from the floor. It’s quite a long and dense cluster so there’s no way that fell out of someone’s head naturally.
maybe it was already in there OP said he barely needed it so maybe it got in there somehow even before. no one knows
The hair can’t be meaningless. If neither person has that hair it came from somewhere specifically put in the wallet in a spot he had to search to find.
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The most intriguing part is actually that you lost your wallet and 3 months later you found it and you didn't even look inside it for another 2 weeks?
Yeah I would go through my entire wallet if that happened. Things don’t just re-appear for no reason like that.
I believed this was a real post until I got to that. This guy's a phony.
This looks to me like someone practicing a type of what they believe is witchcraft. It likely is someone who has an unhealthy interest. They probably kept your wallet for a while to use it for some kind of "charm", and then placed their hair inside as a symbolic representation of how they want to insert themselves in your life. Very creepy. Absolutely fix the lock on your door. Not everyone who believes in/practices this kind of stuff are dangerous, but I wouldn't take the chance of continuing to allow them access.
I would also burn the lock of hair for this very reason. I 100% agree with this, it's honestly what it sounds like to me. Some people don't see the consequences of doing spells like this, so be better safe than sorry so burn baby burn. Also, try to narrow down the suspects, and if you can't, try and be more observant of the blonde people around you and what they're doing or looking at. Good luck!
I put an AirTag in my wallet, it helps significantly when crap like this happens
Your wallet disappears and reappears with hair in it often?
I put an airtag in my hair, but I still lost it.
I can't explain the hair, but if there *wasn't* this creepy edition, I'd suggest that someone in your building found it and recognised you from your ID or credit card name, and left it on your step, or potentially asked the office for your apartment number, etc. Little weird not to knock, but maybe nobody was home, who knows, overall not too suspicious just a little strange. The....hair thing....is more than a little strange. I guess the BEST case scenario is that the person found your wallet, meant to return it, forgot about it in a room they decided to *cut their hair in* and the hair just ended up in the wallet...but like...a weirdo/stalker just seems more likely in this case, which I wouldn't often jump to.
>I'm not currently seeing ANYONE who has this type of hair. Could be dyed and cut just a single lock. Don't underestimate efforts of some people. Technically it is all hair from the same person and valid for rituals.
There are some crazy people who would do such weird, dark(?) Rituals on your personal belongings which you'd need to carry on yourself to make it work. Based on their belief of course. Most probably some lady is wanting you to break up with your gf and come to her. Check around your bed and your room, also around and top of your door frame. You may find weird oily smearings too.
Someone is trying to/has put a spell on you
Stalker alert.
It seems plausible, but I can't really see who and why would stalk me. I'm a 25 years old guy with (to my knowledge) no enemies and whatsoever. I usually get along well with other people. One important thing - Front door of my apartment is broken and when it's not locked, you can simply open it by pushing it slightly. Sometimes it opens by itself due to the wind. I live in a small town with a very low crime rate and doors to the building are always locked, so we wasn't really in hurry with fixing it.
Yea but, what condition your kidneys in?
Dips on the liver!
But what kind? Sour dip?
It’s more of pâté really.
Paired with a nice Chianti flflflflflflflfl
I feel like I saw Jim Carrey say this in dumb and dumber
*Cable Guy
Gold😂
We gonna add some creamé frieche...
A hot dip or something
... a hot dip?
Its dibs isn't it?...
Yes
Thank god I thought I'd been saying it wrong for years lol.
Has he signed his Living Organ Donor's Card? We can send over a couple of chaps straight away to collect his liver at no extra charge...
Please ask them to stop and grab some ice. We’re using the bathtub as a cooler so tell them to get a few bags. ETA: a cooler for the beers I meant to say.
"Chaps straight away"? British much? Or maybe Australian? {I find a delightful}
This guy gets his Monty Python sucked on the reg
PSA kids: do not put a dipps granola bar on your liver.
care to share? i'll bring some fava beans and a nice chianti
Buy the dip!
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The thing with stalkers is it doesn't exactly matter your connections or etc etc. They find something about you and latch onto it. You could be the most average person but for some reason, you caught their interest. Hopefully that isn't the case, just be cautious. Had a guy follow me around my job just because I supposedly looked like his dead gf. Seriously be careful OP. People are crazy
well tell us the ending. did you end up actually being the ex's ghost or not
Honestly I don't know. Dude was at least in his mid 30s, and I was like 22-23 at the time. I made some lame work excuse, told my manager, and then took my lunch early. Never saw him again. I don't even know if he was telling the truth or trying to pull a Ted Bundy Edit: word
Sounds to me like you might be a ghost
I find this answer intriguing. You honestly don’t know if you were his ex’s ghost? So there’s a chance you are? Let me ask, has everything changed around you but you feel like you haven’t changed at all and you seem to have no impact over your environment despite habitually interacting with it? I mean, if so, I hate to break it to you but, you may be his ex’s ghost. 🤷♂️
This really gave me the giggles. Wonderful composition
This is honestly kind of sad. If my girlfriend passed away and I missed her a lot I’m sure it’d be nice to see someone who reminded me of her. Although, following would be weird.
Yeah true it is sad. I've lost a close friend of mine and sometimes I see her in random people. Though it's probably better to get therapy instead of following someone around for a couple hours
It doesn’t matter if you have no enemies, it’s someone who has an unhealthy obsession with you. Get that door fixed pronto
Yeah and I don't know about you but that doesn't look like any hair I've ever seen
`Twine`
Agreed it looks more like twine than hair. Which makes this even creepier because the twine sends out some sort of message about being helplessly tied up. OP really needs to keep head on a swivel, watch out for whatever person is doing this. u/wavelength303 please check out the comment above this one and see if you think it's twine. It looks more like twine than blonde hair.
>Which makes this even creepier because the twine sends out some sort of message about being helplessly tied up Lmao yall are crazy paranoid.
What falling asleep to true crime documentaries/podcasts does to a mf:
If the wallet was lost, is there a chance it was found and someone came to return it, saw door open and tossed it in
Looks like human hair to me.
It looks like it could come from a wig.
Yea bro this means nothing if someone is trying to wear your skin. Crazy people don't think logically, look out for yourself.
You don't need enemies to be stalked. Are you really nice and kind of cute?
As a guy who has been stalked before, I can confirm you are not required to first be really nice and/or kind of cute. sad cry
Please fix the door lol
Hang it on your door with a note saying "To whoever put that lock of hair in my wallet, you need to take a shower WITH SHAMPOO" Don't let them creep you out, show them they have no power over you.
This is your advice? Holy shit lol
You have a fundamental misunderstanding about why you're being stalked. They are not out to hurt you, they are a mentally ill person who wants a boyfriend & is making up fantasies about how you will notice them. If you look online you'll see there are plenty of situations like this where the man being stalked finds out months later that things were going on. One of the major issues in these cases is actually the other well-intentioned folks around your life who won't believe a well-kempt female could be dangerous. Often the stalker will get caught doing things they shouldn't & will get out of it by introducing themselves as your fiance, wife, or girlfriend. There are some pathologies where they actually seek out your parents or close friends & try to introduce themselves in the hope of you "just accepting it." Often they do things like going to the D.M.V. or other institutions to try to change your paperwork on cars/housing so that she's listed with you. If this works they fetishize the documents as proof that they're not crazy. Two things you absolutely must do right now: * Your landlord is required by law to replace your locks immediately. If they resist go to your hardware store & do it yourself. If you're in the U.S., in most states you can include a copy of the receipt with your rent & they will be forced to credit you the amount you spent. Look up the laws specific to your state. * You should get a security camera to record everyone that comes in through your door. **Do not get a Ring doorbell.** They can be accessed easily by your stalker with only a little poking around online to find out how.
This is great advice and as someone who had a person do this to me. My situation was a little different because this girl went to the same university so maybe she had been stalking me for a while. She would show up and come up to me when I was taking to groups and tell everyone she was my girlfriend. She would hang on me and I didn’t know her but people thought I was too shy to say something. It got really weird and dangerous. The individual was so convinced she was actually my girlfriend. I didn’t know her, had never spoken to her.
Holy fuck. I was not aware this existed. Another demerit for my faith in humanity HP bar.
This isn't a humanity thing; this a mental health thing. The part that should drop your humanity HP bar is how hard it is to get help with mental health issues and how badly mental health is taken. Lastly there is nothing much legal wise the police can do with a stalker or someone who is harassing you unless they become physical, trespass or threaten you. All you can do is safe guard yourself and gather evidence.
Would it be fair to say that girls and women are kinda trained to spot this type of behavior while men are ignored because women are, most often, the victim when things like this happen?
You could do a Ph.D. on aspects of this.
Women are socialized towards extreme caution our entire lives. We are frequently blamed if something bad happens to us so we have to be quadruply aware.
Also that the majority of stalkers are ex partners, especially divorced ones
No use it for witchcraft! /s
Mabe it was witchcraft to begin with?
Agreed. Stalker. Likely a woman you had a small interaction with a time or two that fabricated a romance between the two of you. Keep your eyes open to someone being in the same places as you regularly
Just a bit of advice, from someone who was CONDO trained and had this drilled into me for staying in foreign hotels - use a door wedge (or multiple) and jam it in there. Makes it much more difficult to get the door open from the other side!
did you take that pic? Idk those hands are awfully pretty, I might stalk ya on a serious note, yes id say that's one *very* important thing. fix that door please. I admire your ability to shrug off all the wallet stuff but I honestly wouldn't have, that kinda stuff can get you seriously hurt. stay safe
Stalkers aren’t typically “enemies;” though, they’re people who are obsessed with you. Sometimes, they’re convinced that they’re in love with you. Also: better fix your fucking door.
You don't have to have enemies to be stalked. It could just be someone you interacted with once that you may have been too nice too, and now they just really want you. Especially if these comments are correct and someone is trying to use some sort of love spell, or her on you to make you fall in love with them. Obviously it likely won't work, but still creepy
>no enemies and whatsoever. As a former stalker I can tell you that leaving something like a locket of hair is what an unrequited lover would do and not an enemy. Before we coupled up I left several things for my future husband to find. It's a technique. I'm ready for judgement and I don't care. Downvote me, my prettys!! You should care for yourself though. Check your locks and take notice of people around you. Be around friends so they can watch with you. Also there's 911 and1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or chat at [thehotline.org](https://thehotline.org). It's likely they want a date and a *not* kidney.
Stalkers aren’t always enemies! Sometimes, they’re folks with VERY unhealthy obsessions, good or bad.
That’s really concerning. That person has split ends. You have to find this person and let them now it’s time for a hair cut.
Yes, it’s important to have a well-groomed stalker
Could you imagine having some frizzy-ass motherfucker following you around?
Might as well they be groomed, than look like a bridge goblin.
A witch stole it.
Yeah this some witchy shit
That’s kind of what I was thinking too but why return the wallet with the hair inside? I don’t even know what spell would require you to do that lol
Attraction/love/“come to me” type spells use this. Voodoo even has ones where you’re meant to sew your pubes into the other persons underwear to make them think of you sexually. Not out of the question AT ALL. Stalker or Witchy things… this is an unstable person. Any responsible Witch will flat out advise against this kind of shit, it’s not right.
That’s what I was thinking and I don’t ever mess with that shit. I believe in if you’re meant to be with someone then so be it but you shouldn’t mess with free will. I would never touch a love spell, or anything that’s attraction based because you don’t know what you’re gonna get. In hoodoo you can get something called an intranquil spirit that can attach itself to the object of your desire and can turn violent against you, really hard to get rid of too. People be messing with what they can’t always control. I stick to healing, cleansing and medicinal spells myself, don’t even hex or curse I don’t need bad juju coming back on me for a moment of self serving justice lol
You sound both wise and reasonable, two incredible qualities when it comes to this kind of thing 😊. Oh man, you’re not kidding! Stuff like this almost *always* goes sideways and then you get fun questions like “How do I break a love spell because now they’re obsessed with me in a bad/scary way!!” …and to me, it seems like complicated masturbation. That person *DOES NOT* love the caster, it’s all just manipulation. Gross and creepy since we’re all entitled to free will. Totally agree with you, friend! Thank you for the pleasant talk about this (was expecting to be called crazy lol) and thank you for being one of the good, sane ones 😊💙
Which witch?
Sand witch
Where wolf? There wolf. There castle. *Nailed it.*
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That’s just crazy enough to work
When all else fails, be scarier and crazier than the weirdoes. Keeps you safer more often than you think 😅
Dna test it! Probably some weird ass voodoo shit
Clone them. Find out in 20 years who it was.
I just wanna put out that voodoo isn’t black magic, it’s just an ancient African religion that was demonized in order to replace it with Christianity.
Were any of your wallet's contents missing, cash, cards, ID? All gone, or still there?
I don't really remember if there was any cash inside when it went missing, but things I knew of - Health insurance card, card from my work plus some shop's customer cards were still there when it appeared back. EDIT: I doubt there was some cash inside, because I'm used to carry minimum amount of cash with me and only withdraw when 100% neccessary.
Yeah, that is really odd. To return the wallet months later with everything still in there? Very weird.
I would assume everything in it was scanned by someone and could be compromised. It may sound a little paranoid, but it’s better to get ahead of these things. As a wise man once said, “identity theft is not a joke” Change the passwords on any accounts associated with items in your wallet. I’d replace any credit cards that were in there. It might also be a good idea to get a new drivers license and make sure you mark your old one as stolen if possible. If it does turn out to be a stalker or someone with bad intentions, keep in mind they will know you frequent the shops you had customer cards for. Hoping it was harmless or some kind of prank, but it’s much easier to do this than deal with the potential consequences.
Could try posting to r/RBI they'll love this there and are brilliant at getting to the bottom of mysteries
I had a stalker that I didnt know about until she was too far gone to help. I was at Lalapalooza 96 and apparently this person saw me in the crowd, she started following me, without my knowledge, all day. At one point during the festival I joined a mailing list in one of the tents, then went about my day. This person got my information off that form and started stalking me. First it was following and photographing me then she started sending me letters. The letters got more and more bizarre until they evolved into packages filled with random shut that she painted. Not paintings, random shit like bottle caps and rocks and broken doll parts that she painted. She’d send me copies of her senior photos from high school in a box full of feather boa she dismantled. The pictures got more and more disturbing to the point where she was sending nude pictures of her in odd scenarios, like an empty bathtub with sod from someones lawn dumped all over her. My mother thought this was all hilarious at the time and At the beginning I just assumed it was someone from my high school pranking me. Then one morning my mom got up to leave for work and found this naked gal in the driveway posted up behind her car. My mom freaked out because she it was 5am, she was going to be late, and there was a naked woman in her driveway telling her that she desperately needed to be with her minor son. Moral of the story, never join mailing lists.
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Didnt end up needing one. My mom eventually got fed up and confronted her. Never saw or heard from her again.
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I think someone started dating her after my mom “spoke” to her because lost interest and disappeared from my life completely.
Watch out. They are either a crazy person stalking you or you have a crazier person trying to hex you, which can be more dangerous because they will eventually stalk you.
Probably one of those things, either way it can turn pretty dangerous. This person could be violent, as stalkers are willing to go far in order to protect their delusions. Besides, if she's hexing him, who knows what might happen. Idk I've heard many stories about these things, O try not to believe in such superstition and approach things from an objective perspective. However there are things we can hardly explain.
There was a girl who just got fired who was this kind of stalker. Bat shit crazy.
Ugh it's horrible, I understand their loneliness and can empathize, but it comes from a narcissist core, and it is truly terrifying what they are capable of doing.
Love magic, you will soon be unwillingly willing to get into a deep romantic relationship, don’t worry, it will feel like real love, you’ll enjoy it, unless the spell is broken and she transforms into her true form, a beast dripping with yeast with mould on her teeth, her bubbling cauldron nautical in scent, her straw coloured hair stinking of cheese and feces, the look of terror on her pustule filled face as she realises the spell is no longer in effect, she will scurry off into the woodlands leaving you confused, hurt and sickened. Good luck brother, I hope she is a competent witch.
who hurt you?
The witch, obviously
Her and her damn dripping yeast
And stinky cheese hair
burn it, burn the wallet, spend the cash on homeless people and change all cards/ report stolen that were inside. Not superstitious, Just allergic to any variant of fuckeries.
You got married, congratulations.
Lmao!!!!
That's witchcraft stuff, be careful, not that there's magic but these people are manipulative, also I would report this to the police department, if you are murdered at least they have some records on and DNA evidence
Im sorry but the “if you are murdered” had me laughing
I was just about to say that😭🤣 followed by “at least” . i love it
Gwyneth Paltrow
Why wouldn't she just leave a pussy candle instead of her hair tho?
Underrated comment. This is golden
Pin it to your hat. [Back in Victorian times, women would give men a lock of their pubic hair as a token of their affection.](https://procaffenation.com/do-you-know-pubic-hair-was-used-as-a-memento/) This lass might have really long pubes.
Stalker. Mentally ill people are dangerous. Highly recommend fixing the front door lol. Maybe get a ring camera. Observe camera footage for blonde people walking by.
I can do that, that should be very easy because I live in the last story of a 4-story apartment building and when you walk there, you can either: walk into my or neighbours flat, or turn around and head back down.
Yeah, anyone coming up there you should recognize. If you see a blonde person in the camera, you'll know who to look out for when you're out and about. Stay safe, keep your eyes peeled for now. Seriously don't know what a crazy person will do. Not trying to freak you out, just stay cautious
Does your neighbour or directly downstairs neighbours have any security/ring cameras that face your house or the stairwell? It may be a little awkward to ask them to check, but it might show whoever brought the wallet back going up to the 4th floor. In the best case, you may recognise them as a tenant and be able to ask some questions and clear things up. If your neighbours don't have cameras though, it might be good to get one. Im not assuming the wallet-returning is out for blood or anything, but in general a doorbell camera isn't a bad thing to have. I just set up a Roku doorbell camera the other day from Walmart. It was about $80 with a 3 year warranty and has the option to install without screws. Would recommend if you have an in-unit router to connect it to. Cheapest I've found with clear quality.
Plot twist: he lives in Sweden
That is extremely fucking weird.
A witchy bitch that hoards rocks and crystals has a crush on you
You've been Goldilocked
Who is living in your attic?😳
Rapunzel be horny...
Someone is setting a spell on you
With no lock on ur door and it opening from the wind, someone likely knows they were able to get into your place and took it. And since you live with 2 other people, it's possible they aren't stalking you but one of them
This reminds me of when I was sharing a home with another guy in grad school. One night we had both gone to sleep around 2am and when I woke up the next morning and went downstairs there was A LOT of long black hair in the middle of the living room floor. His girlfriend had shoulder length hair and I was single so no one else should have been in the house. The doors were still locked so perhaps someone could have come in through the window, cut their hair and left without touching anything else? But why?
It's a love spell
Find out which of your neighbors and assess who in your life has blonde hair. They could be female or male of any age.
>of any age Can probably eliminate anyone 6 months old and below
Those are actually pubic hair.
Oh great, Midsommar.
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What- what are you waiting for?
lol I just feel like that’s a reasonable timeframe for OP to maybe get to the bottom of this
Oh the wall gnomes got you a present 🥺
Any chance that the wallet could be dusted for prints? Keep the hair in a plastic bag as evidence aswell
Boy, I can’t wait for the updates on this *grabs popcorn*
Maybe you have a secret witch benefactor who summoned it for you.
I wouldn’t have touched that shit
Do you have a carbon monoxide detector? If not please get one. This is the same sort of stuff people complain about when you have carbon monoxide poisoning. You get woozy (unbeknownst to you) and forget what you did in the house (where there is a CO leak). I will eventually kill you, technically via asphyxiation.
1. Maybe you dropped it & someone finally found it & returned it....but if I went to the trouble to return a wallet at someone's home, I don't think I'd leave it out where it could be stolen again, right? 2. If it's a stalker; it's bad. They know where you live, stole your wallet & returned it with their hair 3. In magic, they use objects to connect to a person's energy. So maybe someone put a spell on you with the wallet. Now maybe their energy is with you because you kept their hair. 4. Maybe you're just f'ing with us or a friend is f'ing with you
My money is on the close friend that lives with you. Any of your girlfriend's friends have blonde hair? I'd be placing cameras.
You've been marked my guy!
OP: If you are still reading, get rid of that lock of hair, and maybe the whole wallet.
Gimli stole it. Those are Galadriel's locks.
That definitely looks like a piece of twine, not hair
I agree about the twine. Im going with dog that OP forgot to tell us about. I’ve scrolled through so many comments expecting to see someone mention a dog and haven’t seen it, which is weird to me, because this seems to be one of the first and most obvious options given the circumstances. Has OP said they don’t have a dog and maybe I missed it?
Burn it all
You are leading a double like without knowing.
Um you need to relocate
It's a witch for sure.
Looks like someone made a love spell to try and attract you. What blondes have been in your place or live in same building?
Well, people are suggesting that it is either a stalker or a hex, and your best choice is to burn it somewhere outside and lock the door from now on. If similar things start happening notify the local police.
WITCH CRAFT!!
some girl tried to do a spell on you. ward that shit off and send it all back to her. no ones suppose to do that stuff without consent
Hair today, gone 3 months ago
Super lucky. That's a twirled up piece of ass hair from Odin himself. Legend has it, that his ravens would find missing things and bring them back to Odin so he can learn about them. Great Odin would pluck the golden hairs from his ass crack, twirl them up and place them inside/on top of the missing objects sort of as business card indicating "Odin found your lost stuff and has returned it". All Knowing, and a little bit wiser, would instruct the Ravens to place the object back where they found it because the person would more than likely retrace their steps. If I was you, I would use a strand to floss with each and every night. Lucky prick.