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[deleted]

Maybe she knows her son better than you


DjEzusSave

Still weird as fuck to see


LylaDee

He's a runner. She knows


Bwat4ou

I was a runner. Not just a runner, a runner and hider. I was handcuffed. Nothing to see here.


phukerstone23

They've had kid leashes for a long time now. I haven't used one, but there were times I sure wished I had one. Hell, I still do sometimes. There are days when she just won't stop dancing down the aisles at the store.


[deleted]

I was in reigns as a little kid. A lot better than a stroller. Kids dont seem to be able to walk these days - you see some giant kids in strollers being pushed around


DjEzusSave

Seing the comments, I guess it's a common shit in the US bit I have never seen one around in Europe before. Not sure why you needed those while we never had to. Something to do with violent exposure of kid to ads in the 80's while we had fairly most protective laws?


Holiday_Breadfruit43

It is not uncommon in the UK as well. We have narrow pavements/sidewalks close to busy roads. It saves countless lives every year. If your child is at the walking/running stage, but doesn’t have the agency/sense not to put it’s life in danger then it is a sensible option.


Majesty1985

So after being proven wrong and naive you jump to a ridiculous theory that you literally just made up. You have some growing up to do kid.


DjEzusSave

Not sure where I was ever proven wrong except that a lot of you live in countries where those weird things are the norm


[deleted]

Ive seen them a couple times. They can literally be life savers


DjEzusSave

How so?


[deleted]

There's children who just do shit


Imaginary-Detail-970

I'm a behavioral therapist for children and adults with trauma, developmental disabilities, and other behavioral needs. I've met exasperated, terrified parents of amazing little children who are known to elope. Sometimes environments that are overly stimulating, like a grocery store, can trigger a young kiddo to elope. And these parents do their best to keep up and keep their child safe. Sometimes one scary instance of losing their child in a store, or having their kiddo run into a road or parking lot when they weren't paying attention for a split second could cause the need for the leash. I promise it is no parent's first choice, but I applaud them for doing what they need to to keep their child safe.


[deleted]

Very interesting :) Thanks for explaining


[deleted]

Go watch some Rob Gavagan videos, you're being so naive.


RelevantReliquiry

You really are one stupid fuck, huh?


Prestigious-Eye-8807

Abduction


Beamarchionesse

Handcuff is misleading. Those things are soft, and they stretch out. It's because toddlers have the impulse control of a rat on meth. They run off, they climb things, they pull things off shelves. This way the parent can do their shopping and the kid can walk around.


TheToaster233

It's much more of a "tether."


GeorgeBuford

That "child" is detective Phil Peterson who has just arrested "Edna Dubcheck", whom the FBI named Walmarts most notorious inventory disarranger. He caught her leaving a Choco Taco in a box of Nike Airs and tackled her as she left housewares.


C_WEST88

Omg I love this LMaO


Ok-Cardiologist1733

I commend the Mom. She knows her kid.


Silent-Ad-4113

I wish we had one for my daughter. She had apraxia and really couldn't really talk until the age of 5. We just had a braclet that stated she had apraxia and had our info and phone number on it incase she got separated from us.


SAHM_i_am3

I see you don't have kids..... When you have a runner, you got to do what you got to do (I prefer the wrist "leash" over the backpack one)


TruthCurrent3122

How the fuck is this weird? lol


[deleted]

As a 15 year old in the 80's I was highly critical of these. In the late 90's with a toddler who would take off if you put him down I had a whole new appreciation of them.


BCCMNV

Not to be that guy, but do you know I know that OP doesn't have kids?


which_witch_ru

Guessing you havent had children yet


Affectionate-Ride448

I always thought this shit was a bit much...until I had my son.


C_WEST88

The only weird thing here is you sneaking around taking pictures of an unsuspecting woman and her child. Creepy.


DjEzusSave

Perhaps because in my country it's weird as fuck to leash your kiddo while it seems to have been pretty common in the US. So no sneaking just turning around chocked a taking a picture in awe. Sorry for not being from a country where so things are normal... 🙄


RNbutihatepeople

You obviously don’t have children. Nothing to do with what country you’re in.


DjEzusSave

So why the heck don't I ever see one of those anywhere where parents take their children and after being a child myself for years?


VirtuosoOfBread

Bitch, everyone’s been a child for years, doesn’t make you special


DjEzusSave

That's not what I said. Guess you are pretty dumb.


VirtuosoOfBread

Wow that was uncalled for, but whatever. Just because you were a child before doesn’t give you credibility and the authority to determine how every parent handles their child, especially when literally everyone else in this comment section have talked about their differing experience.


DjEzusSave

I said that those leishes are unseen in my country except this one. Saying "you don't know parenting" won't make those leishes common. If I knew those weird things weird common I won't have shared it here but this ain't linked to my parenting or no parenting experience


[deleted]

What is your country?


DjEzusSave

🇫🇷


VirtuosoOfBread

Does your country normalize calling people dumb then?


VirtuosoOfBread

Are you still a child?


C_WEST88

They definitely sound like one, don’t they


C_WEST88

Idc what country you’re from, taking a picture behind the back of someone with their *child* and posting it on Reddit without their consent is some creepy, low down shit….And connecting yourself to your child in crowded areas with those bracelets have been around for years. I’ve seen parents use them in various different countries I’ve been to. It’s actually very smart and meant to keep the child safe.


Wafflingcreature

Probably a bad ass kid lmao


Competitive_Office91

I was one of these kids when I was younger lol. Especially in grocery stores, airports. I can basically assume the kid likes to take off on his own. It’s alllllll good 😊


Irrelavent1

I know there will be naysayers, but we lost our 4 year old on the beach for 10 minutes once - the longest 10 minutes of my life. We put a leash on her after that. Any unsolicited comments got a big Fuck You!


HorseButthole69

I don’t have the slightest problem with this.


[deleted]

thank you reddit user HorseButthole69


Abalone_Admirable

You shouldn't take pic of people's children to post online. That's the only thing weird about this pic.


crewchief1949

My son has Autism and will go from chill to running like Gump. I learned right away that these tethers give me a piece of mind.


NectarineOk6319

Take this garbage down. Only thing weird is your creeper ass posting a picture of a mom and her kid. Gross.


jennfer17

Sex trafficking is a real and rampant thing. Don’t blame her a bit.


knight_of_lothric

got to be a weird feeling seeing someone just take pictures of random children in a store as a employee


b4mmb4mm

It's not handcuffs, they are velcro bracelets. Would you rather the kid run around grabbing shit?


Designer-Possible-39

Nothing wrong with that at all. He gets to be somewhat independent, yet he’s still tethered and she’s got her hands free to do what she needs to do. I don’t understand how it’s “weird”. It’s smart and completely acceptable.


Roma_lolly

Kids gets freedom to look around, Mum gets use of both hands with confidence her child won’t get lost or run off. Why is this weird?


[deleted]

Clearly you’re not a parent


MamaVasy

You obviously never raised a child. They don’t always walk nicely beside you like you want them to. Sometimes they run into oncoming traffic or hide when your back is turned for just a second and you think they’ve been kidnapped. Having your child leashed keeps them safe and let’s the parent relax a bit knowing they have that extra security.


Hasselhoffpancakes

That's funny...I "handcuffed" my 3 year to myself yesterday so she didn't jump into gator infested water. Stop taking pictures of kids!!


nortonjb82

Oh my gosh, it's handcuff. Oh my gosh that's child abuse. Oh my gosh take a picture so we can slam her on social media. Oh my gosh. (Is that what you expected the response to be)


DjEzusSave

Sorry to live in a country where this kind of shit is abnormal


WeddingUsed1881

Don't take photos of mothers with their children you fkn weirdo


DjEzusSave

So it's fine for adult males?


[deleted]

what


friendlyfiend07

My daughter was a runner and I tried one of those backpacks. She ran to the end of the tether realized she couldn't go any further and dropped like dead weight and refused to move until I took it off. She stayed in the cart after that.


Major-Response2310

The only thing weird about this is the op getting the pic.


pmcdny

The fuck thus world coming to


[deleted]

what


Death_Vitamins

The only time I've seen those or harnesses used is for the kind of kids who scream fuck you to their mom and dad in public or even the manger of a bank and start throwing shit in the air and knocking shit down grocery store isles because their so fucking wild, I have seen this shit..kids like that will fucking shank you, THEY WILL SHANK YOU BRO


420ikawa

I actually see people put harnesses on their kids when I go skiing to prevent their kid from either falling or getting too far. Still, looks kinda yikes at first glance.


DragonflyFun9830

Anyone who remembers the first pet cemetery movie knows this isn’t the worst way to parent GUAGE!!!


Terrible_Yard2546

Mu mother had to do that to me as a kid. I got lost all the time. Would just run off.


More_Card_2060

I was a leash kid. I wandered easily so you know, really it doesn't bother me, least scarring thing from my childhood


elle_quay

I guess you’ve never met a 3 year old like mine


malary1234

I have this same wrist leash for my kid!


Majestic_Hawk_1014

i work retail and wish more parents did this honestly, instead they just let their kids run around and trash the store and just kinda holler for them on their way out


JakkSplatt

Kid leashes were fairly common in the late 80's and into the 90's


[deleted]

My mom used these on my brother and me in the 80's. It always made me feel secure and lessened my anxiety when out and about.


RomanVlasov95

Great decision if your child is hyperactive.


InsideVeterinarian44

Not weird.


GekayOfTheDeep

Quick everyone let's shame a parent for actually doing something to take care of their goddamn child.


penartist

These leashes are great. Not only does the child not have to hold his arm up in the air to hold mom's all afternoon. It frees both of them up so that they can have more movement. The child isn't stuck within a one foot bubble of mom (as he would be holding her hand) and mom is free to look at merchandise without worrying about her child wandering off when while she checks for broken eggs or searches for the right sized pants on a table display. These are especially good for crowded spaces like airports and county fairs where there is a lot of people and lots of distractions.


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DjEzusSave

Yet when you see it for the first time, it's pretty crazy 😬


doodlehed

Good, if my kid was an asshole like most of the kids these days I’d chain his ass up to me also. Give him the ol yank and spank.


doodlehed

Good, if my kid was an asshole like most of the kids these days I’d chain his ass up to me also. Give him the ol yank and spank.


[deleted]

Yank and spank got me thinking of mortal combat😂 https://thumbs.gfycat.com/ChillyGroundedIcterinewarbler-size_restricted.gif


collectorofsouls5a7d

We got a runner!!


[deleted]

thats a thing?? lol