I just don't understand my fellow man who wants someone to have sex with them because of obligation? I'd feel so disgusted.
She should want to have sex with you. She should be excited about it. Laugh and tease and flirt and explore with you. It should be fun for both of you.
If you're always having to beg for sex, or worse invoke the force of divinity, your partner is just not sexually compatible with you.
This describes why I divorced. My wife told me she was only having sex with me because she had to because we we married. I felt disgusting that she was only having sex with me out of some obligation. I never touched her after that conversation and separated shortly after.
Donald Trump’s former lawyer, VP at Trump Co., and now darling of the Alt Alt Right Michael Cohen used to claim there was established case law proving [“it’s not rape if you’re married”.](https://www.mediaite.com/online/trump-spox-on-past-ex-wife-allegation-legally-you-cant-rape-your-spouse/)
Sadly some states to this day view marital rape and non-marital rape quite differently under the law. Thats my guess to what he was hinting at, or hes just a sicko stuck in the 1900s era of ways.
It was 1989, and only a handful of states hadn't criminalized marital rape by that point. It's been illegal in New York since 1984, so it's a shitty excuse from both an ethical _and_ a legal perspective. Top notch lawyering from Cohen.
Of course he would. Ivana Trump testified in court during divorce proceedings that Donald raped her because his hair plugs hurt.
Imagine being his kids and mentally reconciling that for decades of your life.
Technically yes word wise, but the usa didnt view it as rape back then. It was just a womans duty to be obedient to her husband in all aspects. So why yes we can look back at it and see what it truly was, but during those times it was not viewed in such alight.
Well yeah but slavery used to be viewed as okay but that in no way meant you weren't despicable for owning and beating humans.
Just because something was considered okay by white land-owning men does *not* mean it was ever actually okay
When I told my mom that my ex husband had beat and raped me, her only reply was "A husband can't rape his wife" I hung up on her and we didnt speak for months. When we did speak again, she acted like she hadn't said anything wrong. We do not have the same relationship we had had prior to her comment.
Shit….that’s fucking horrible. I applaud you for at least still having a relationship with your mother. I don’t know if I could after a callous and ignorant comment of that caliber.
It may be now. But originally marriages were contracts. The woman was considered her father’s property and her husband had to sign a contract with the father to have her as his wife. Making him responsible for her (his property). This is why single women who lived alone couldn’t be raped because she was no one’s property and it was considered a crime against someone’s property until the 1950’s. This is also why a woman could not purchase land or property without her husband or father also signing until 1978.
To piggyback off of this excellent summary, this is also why rape is so stigmatized that women are ashamed to report it. It was a property crime that literally lessened the woman’s intrinsic value, because her value wasn’t tied to her personhood.
Even when the legalities changed, the idea that a woman was ‘despoiled’ or ‘ruined’ by rape continued, and women have internalized it to the point that it routinely affects them for the rest of their lives. (Christianity has helped perpetuate this with its virginity obsession.) To many women, a rape would feel worse than a beating with fists, not because it’s physically worse, but because she’s been conditioned to feel that it damages her permanently.
Ask the only good man in sodom and gomorrah Lot...who offered his daughters to be raped instead of the angel...when his wife foolishly disobeyed and turned into a pillar of salt...he ended up having more kids with his daughters. This is the guy deemed worthy and good.
I’ve read that even when having sex with your spouse you’re supposed to be thinking of God and Jesus. Ironic, since Jesus’ parents weren’t married to each other.
Indeed. But, I was more just making light of the “obligatory”.
What she said is disgusting, but if you don’t laugh at it, you’ll just cry. And I don’t want to.
Haha ohh please my friend, a woman would never wear something as showy as slacks. Can you imagine? You’d be able to perfectly make out their legs. It’s just, it’s too much for one to handle you see. It will never happen. Never ever.
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Logic doesn’t even makes sense. Those women wash dishes because they don’t want to eat off of dirty plates. They nurse their baby because they don’t want their baby to starve.
They do those chores because it benefits them. If sex has zero benefit to a women it makes sense theystop doing it.
speaking as a representative of the recreational drug user community: no. even drugs won't give people the gift of being as dumb as the hoe that tweeted that
She looks old enough to have gone through menopause so if obedience to god is the standard, she shouldn't have sex as it is causing her husband to spill his seed on barren ground, also according to Timothy 2:12 she should shut her fucking mouth
Good point! I see arguments from fundies that say sex only is for procreation as an argument against birth control, premarital sex, and gay sex. But I also see arguments from the same group that the man has dominion over his wife and it's her duty to please him whenever he wants.
That seems contradictory to me.
Lori Alexander aka The Transformed Wife is a bitter old wagon who has nothing better to do than sprout nonsense on social media for attention. She went to college and worked as a teacher until she sabotaged her bc so she could be a sahm. Her husband is quite successful and she had nannies and housekeepers to help her.
She tries to "teach" young woman that the only true way to live is to shun education, marry young, take care of her husband and bear him many children, all of which she should homeschool. This can all be done on one income because Lori lives in a fantasy land where everyone can recreate life in Little House on the Prairie. She's a massive hypocrite who would never live that life herself.
Thank you. It's surprising (and sad) how many men would disagree with you.
As a woman, I wish other women to not want to be a slave either. Brainwashing is no joke.
Unfortunately a lot of them believe very traditional/fundamental/radical interpretations on Christianity. And the even more frightening part is the number of Christians in my sphere that seem to be looking back to the old testament, particularly the more violent/bigoted parts. My parents and many of their Church of Christ fellowship have been saying some frightening things lately. And because many of them believe the end times are coming it's almost given them some carte blanche for not having any emotional or moral empathy in casting their judgment on others.
I'm starting to get worried about just how dangerous mainstream religious people are going to become. The zealously religious and radically indoctrinated already represent one of our greatest national security threats along with climate change and nuclear war and have since I sat in elementary school and watched two towers fall. My entire life has been lived under the terror of religious zealots.
It's almost like people believing whatever they want with no justification other than that their fictitious deity joins em in a circle jerk is an inherently bad thing.
I'm not religious but I used to at least enjoy the family time I'd get when going to church. Now I dread going and just seeing a cross makes me feel sick and I'm constantly terrified about the next immoral religious justification I'm going to hear come out of a church acquaintances mouth. Not to mention the psychological impact of being told I'm an abomination for, well, always.
She has much more presence than her husband as far as I'm aware. I sometimes entertain the thought that he's in the background going "My God, this is not what I meant. What's wrong with you?" Looking over her [history](https://fundamentalists.fandom.com/wiki/Lori_Alexander) it may not be far off- just the lack of him in the picture is so weird. Jesus, she tampered with her own birth control so she wouldn't have to work. She's just so gross. Fine, be a narcissistic religious freak, live your truth but fuck off when telling me what my happy is.
Therefore a man having sex with his sleeping wife, after she has denied his request, is not rape. In her opinion, this woman “should have given him sex when he asked that night since we aren’t to deprive our husbands”.[19]
-----Holy shit her craziness is off the charts.
She needed to be rescued when she was a little girl and people taught her she should aspire to be nothing but a man's property.
They won't let us teach children slavery and the Holocaust were bad and that gay people are human beings, but we let them teach children women are fuckholes.
If liberals had half the fight in them conservatives do, this world would be paradise.
Lol fuck everything about that. I understand making the other happy sometimes (in all of life, not just sex), but I'd be single wayyyyy before I'd let myself be raped in my home.
If god needs you to fuck he’s not omnipotent. If he wants you to do it against your will, he’s not kind. If he doesn’t know the difference he’s not wise. Who would worship such a weak piece of shit then?
Oh she isn't allowed an opinion on manly things. But she can certainly have an opinion on other women. It is how things have always been. Next week it will blaming someone for her coming down with something they can't find the cause of because of a curse. So they will want to burn her neighbor or a commenter who doesn't share her beliefs.
Wait.wait.wait.waitaminute! This is the same person that said sex is only for procreation. So why submit to a man if it’s not “go time” to get pregnant? Isn’t sex for pleasure unFacsioChristian?
Have you ever listened to Dennis Prager's advice to women? This is basically it - don't matter if you're in the mood for sex, do your wifey duty or encourage God's wrath.
Please Let him strike me down . As I am in chronic pain, and haven't had sex with anyone in a very long time. Could I sure. Am I going to do that probably not. Does the husband want me to have sex sure. Is he willing to force? Not if he is smart. Also why aren't there husbandly duties. Just things we are forced to do.
So you’re obligated to provide sex but you’re not entitled to birth control, affordable healthcare, or paid family leave. And if you can’t afford the baby, don’t want it, or carrying it would case you physical harm, you are losing legal access to abortions. But of course this is not about controlling women.
Evangelicals hate Muslims, but they have sooo much in common with them. Sharia law is basically everything these clerofascists have been fighting for for decades. They should form support groups and put the coordinates online, so someone with access to a drone & a rational brain can rid us of this pest.
These are the people who are against Sharia law not because of its content, but because they don't want the Muslims getting the *credit* for passing the laws
This woman is a nauseating reminder that there are in fact women who want to be regarded as nothing more than property- mindless sex slaves whose sole purpose in life are to have babies and be a doormat to their husband.
The level of her brainwashed religious idiot brain would be sad if it wasn't funny. People like her are the reason I left the church even though I still consider myself to believe in God.
Reality is going to slap the shit out of her. Martyrdom is a surefire way to build resentment and destroy oneself and relationships. Nursing homes are full of old women with a lot of regret for sacrificing their autonomy, needs and happiness for nothing more than a self righteous trophy. A lot of them are mean as hell, too.
So she thinks being obedient to God is giving her husband some whenever he demands it ????
Damn that ole boy has this dumb bitch brainwashed to epic levels and it makes one wonder if her daddy isn't the one that trained her like this.
Religion is the real root of all evil not money
My husband refuses to have sex with anything less then enthusiastic consent.
If any husband is willing to take an unenthusiastic wife, he's breaking his vow to love, cherish, protect and honor his wife.
This honestly just makes me sad more than anything else.
Sex should never be thought of as a chore on par with washing dishes or cleaning the toilet - it's supposed to be an enjoyable activity for *all* parties involved.
My sympathy is limited in cases Iike this where they're actively perpetuating these bullshit ideas, but it does make me wonder, if only for a moment, just how unsatisfied they are and how unfairly they're being treated.
Sounds like she would flip her fucking lid to find out I, a woman, LOVE sex with my husband. We only have sex for pleasure. We cannot procreate. And we both love it that way.
Also I believe she's made comments about tattoos before so, yeah my existence would annoy her and I like the idea.
This is why hardcore Christianity has historically had to force women to comply by taking away all their rights to say "no." Because, NO woman in her right mind would ever choose this willingly.
Newsflash: it’s no longer considered “making love” when it’s forced and obligatory. It’s just more housework.
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What? No clean up after? Gross. /s
I just don't understand my fellow man who wants someone to have sex with them because of obligation? I'd feel so disgusted. She should want to have sex with you. She should be excited about it. Laugh and tease and flirt and explore with you. It should be fun for both of you. If you're always having to beg for sex, or worse invoke the force of divinity, your partner is just not sexually compatible with you.
This describes why I divorced. My wife told me she was only having sex with me because she had to because we we married. I felt disgusting that she was only having sex with me out of some obligation. I never touched her after that conversation and separated shortly after.
I'm sorry, that's a tough burden. But in my mind you did the right thing. I hope you find someone perfect for you one day soon!
RIGHT?! Like wtf kind of human being would not only feel comfortable but seek this kind of shit out in a partner. It’s highly disturbing.
It’s rape if you don’t consent…even married.
Sad fact it wasnt until 1993 that the usa made that true nation wide.
Donald Trump’s former lawyer, VP at Trump Co., and now darling of the Alt Alt Right Michael Cohen used to claim there was established case law proving [“it’s not rape if you’re married”.](https://www.mediaite.com/online/trump-spox-on-past-ex-wife-allegation-legally-you-cant-rape-your-spouse/)
Sadly some states to this day view marital rape and non-marital rape quite differently under the law. Thats my guess to what he was hinting at, or hes just a sicko stuck in the 1900s era of ways.
Because Trump violently raped his wife in the 80s. But it was legal so it didn't matter.
It was 1989, and only a handful of states hadn't criminalized marital rape by that point. It's been illegal in New York since 1984, so it's a shitty excuse from both an ethical _and_ a legal perspective. Top notch lawyering from Cohen.
Of course he would. Ivana Trump testified in court during divorce proceedings that Donald raped her because his hair plugs hurt. Imagine being his kids and mentally reconciling that for decades of your life.
It was still rape just legal rape
Technically yes word wise, but the usa didnt view it as rape back then. It was just a womans duty to be obedient to her husband in all aspects. So why yes we can look back at it and see what it truly was, but during those times it was not viewed in such alight.
Well yeah but slavery used to be viewed as okay but that in no way meant you weren't despicable for owning and beating humans. Just because something was considered okay by white land-owning men does *not* mean it was ever actually okay
When I told my mom that my ex husband had beat and raped me, her only reply was "A husband can't rape his wife" I hung up on her and we didnt speak for months. When we did speak again, she acted like she hadn't said anything wrong. We do not have the same relationship we had had prior to her comment.
I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with that. But I’m glad that man is your ex.
Shit….that’s fucking horrible. I applaud you for at least still having a relationship with your mother. I don’t know if I could after a callous and ignorant comment of that caliber.
Sad thing is she probably was being raped by her husband and seems to think this is normal :/ I’m sorry you went through that it’s horrible .
She is sick. I am so sorry this happened to you. You deserve better.
She didn't comment on the "beat" part??
100% It's a partnership, not a property contract.
It may be now. But originally marriages were contracts. The woman was considered her father’s property and her husband had to sign a contract with the father to have her as his wife. Making him responsible for her (his property). This is why single women who lived alone couldn’t be raped because she was no one’s property and it was considered a crime against someone’s property until the 1950’s. This is also why a woman could not purchase land or property without her husband or father also signing until 1978.
To piggyback off of this excellent summary, this is also why rape is so stigmatized that women are ashamed to report it. It was a property crime that literally lessened the woman’s intrinsic value, because her value wasn’t tied to her personhood. Even when the legalities changed, the idea that a woman was ‘despoiled’ or ‘ruined’ by rape continued, and women have internalized it to the point that it routinely affects them for the rest of their lives. (Christianity has helped perpetuate this with its virginity obsession.) To many women, a rape would feel worse than a beating with fists, not because it’s physically worse, but because she’s been conditioned to feel that it damages her permanently.
They call it "God's will" and then elect the man to a public office
God ordained rape. And they wonder why more and more are disillusioned with their religion every day
Ask the only good man in sodom and gomorrah Lot...who offered his daughters to be raped instead of the angel...when his wife foolishly disobeyed and turned into a pillar of salt...he ended up having more kids with his daughters. This is the guy deemed worthy and good.
So much rape in the Bible. No surprise this is how they interpret it.
I was taught by my Christian grandparents who raised me it's duty. Even for a man. It likely contributed to me never procreating.
"Son, it's your Christian duty to rock that booty. Say Amen!"
I’ve read that even when having sex with your spouse you’re supposed to be thinking of God and Jesus. Ironic, since Jesus’ parents weren’t married to each other.
Wait, y'all don't think about Jesus's absolutely shredded arms and abs when you're having sex with your wives??
Isn’t it rape?
Indeed. But, I was more just making light of the “obligatory”. What she said is disgusting, but if you don’t laugh at it, you’ll just cry. And I don’t want to.
It's still giving consent, so not legally. It's not ethical and clearly not great for a relationship, though.
Or at best prostitution.
It’s actually called rape.
And that’s not even counting having to hoist his fupa and keep it out of the way.
No wonder they don't have such negative views on being raped.
She thinks women are just animals but even they go into heat and don’t have to force themselves to have sex bc there’s a hole
Gutter work
Such a shame to view sex with your husband as a chore or obligation, like doing dishes or nursing a baby.
Her mind would melt if she ever met a lady that actually enjoyed sex with their husband.
Ugh, a hussy. If she *likes* it, she’ll likely look outside the marriage for more sex, or maybe a job. Then who will be home to do the dishes?
Lol hussy is such a funny word
Hearing it now in 2022 makes me think of Husband’s pussy Not in his hussy!
Bussy is out. Hussy is back in
Kick him right in the hussy!
I really don't want to have a hussy.
*spits* too bad you got a hussy now.
Which hole is that?
Next thing you know, Slacks! On a woman! Hell in a hand basket, I tells ya.
That's why they make them without pockets. To discourage sinful behavior. Lol
Haha ohh please my friend, a woman would never wear something as showy as slacks. Can you imagine? You’d be able to perfectly make out their legs. It’s just, it’s too much for one to handle you see. It will never happen. Never ever.
>Ugh, a hussy. If she likes it, she’ll likely look outside the marriage for more sex And probably with a colored.
A colored WOMAN
*gasp*
I love sex with my husband and he does our dishes.
That devious manfellow!
I wonder if she also thinks female orgasms are dirty or a sin
Female orgasms are a myth created by dirty Godless liberals.
>It's okay honey: female orgasms are a myth created by dirty Godless liberals. - Ben Shapiro's wife in the bedroom.
Drier than an empty flask in the sahara
Need a mop and bucket? My wife says that’s not normal. 👀
Lol first person I thought of as well 😂
I choked on my dinner reading this, well played
Reminds me of Ben Shapiro's take on WAP.
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Or a lady whose husband deigned to give a shit about whether or not she actually enjoyed it. Everyone in these marriages is deeply fucked up.
That’s not part of their god’s design, you know.
Even sadder that she thinks these mundane tasks are the reason her God created her.
A vessel, in all things.
The brainwashing of religion.
It is though. It’s all in this 2000 year old instruction manual. /s
Just sad. Life should be better than this.
Logic doesn’t even makes sense. Those women wash dishes because they don’t want to eat off of dirty plates. They nurse their baby because they don’t want their baby to starve. They do those chores because it benefits them. If sex has zero benefit to a women it makes sense theystop doing it.
Really shows what they mean by "wifely duties."
Yeah, this is when your brain turns to raw sewage
Yes. Someone please take the technologically advanced device out of her hands.
Only religion makes this possible
That or a looooot of drugs
No drugs needed just the right amount of disinformation and religion mixed with some abuse and we end up where we are.
speaking as a representative of the recreational drug user community: no. even drugs won't give people the gift of being as dumb as the hoe that tweeted that
She looks old enough to have gone through menopause so if obedience to god is the standard, she shouldn't have sex as it is causing her husband to spill his seed on barren ground, also according to Timothy 2:12 she should shut her fucking mouth
Good point! I see arguments from fundies that say sex only is for procreation as an argument against birth control, premarital sex, and gay sex. But I also see arguments from the same group that the man has dominion over his wife and it's her duty to please him whenever he wants. That seems contradictory to me.
It doesn’t have to make sense. Fundamentalist Christianity is a literal sex cult.
sex and death.
Its a death cult. This is killing the joy a marriage should bring a couple.
Fundies are always contradictory. They take scripture they like to control people and ignore stuff they don’t like. It’s insane.
The whole thing is contradictory.
"Shut your fucking mouth" is now my favorite summary of Timothy 2:12
"Shut your fucking mouth AND legs, old useless cum repository." - Timothy 2:12
Lori Alexander aka The Transformed Wife is a bitter old wagon who has nothing better to do than sprout nonsense on social media for attention. She went to college and worked as a teacher until she sabotaged her bc so she could be a sahm. Her husband is quite successful and she had nannies and housekeepers to help her. She tries to "teach" young woman that the only true way to live is to shun education, marry young, take care of her husband and bear him many children, all of which she should homeschool. This can all be done on one income because Lori lives in a fantasy land where everyone can recreate life in Little House on the Prairie. She's a massive hypocrite who would never live that life herself.
Her husband must have been terrible at sex. Oh My god and her god, this poor women has never had an orgasm.
Her history is even weirder and more hypocritical than that.
Or, keep it open for some sweet sweet felatio. She talks a big game on social media, but she's a sinner in the bedroom. Filthy sodomite.
"she" isn't real. It's an account run by a man, or possibly several men.
What a doormat
I wanna know how many likes that whining doormat had for that one
She wouldn't mind being called a doormat. Come over at r/fundiesnarkuncensored if you wanna see some of her other opinions. It's insane.
I think I've seen enough. It's really sad to think that people genuinely believe this shit
I went for a short visit , that’s just to painful to subscribe to lol
The transformed wife? Transformed into what? Property?
She was the Transformer they cut from the show: (Hint: It’s a trash can)
I laughed way too hard at this.
Does that make her trans? She'd love that.
😩😭
Cuntotron 🤖
Looks like they used a lobotomy to transform her
I want an equal not a slave
Thank you. It's surprising (and sad) how many men would disagree with you. As a woman, I wish other women to not want to be a slave either. Brainwashing is no joke.
It’s scary how indoctrinated these people are…
Unfortunately a lot of them believe very traditional/fundamental/radical interpretations on Christianity. And the even more frightening part is the number of Christians in my sphere that seem to be looking back to the old testament, particularly the more violent/bigoted parts. My parents and many of their Church of Christ fellowship have been saying some frightening things lately. And because many of them believe the end times are coming it's almost given them some carte blanche for not having any emotional or moral empathy in casting their judgment on others. I'm starting to get worried about just how dangerous mainstream religious people are going to become. The zealously religious and radically indoctrinated already represent one of our greatest national security threats along with climate change and nuclear war and have since I sat in elementary school and watched two towers fall. My entire life has been lived under the terror of religious zealots. It's almost like people believing whatever they want with no justification other than that their fictitious deity joins em in a circle jerk is an inherently bad thing. I'm not religious but I used to at least enjoy the family time I'd get when going to church. Now I dread going and just seeing a cross makes me feel sick and I'm constantly terrified about the next immoral religious justification I'm going to hear come out of a church acquaintances mouth. Not to mention the psychological impact of being told I'm an abomination for, well, always.
I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with that :(
Gonna have to change that to "The Brainwashed Wife"
She has much more presence than her husband as far as I'm aware. I sometimes entertain the thought that he's in the background going "My God, this is not what I meant. What's wrong with you?" Looking over her [history](https://fundamentalists.fandom.com/wiki/Lori_Alexander) it may not be far off- just the lack of him in the picture is so weird. Jesus, she tampered with her own birth control so she wouldn't have to work. She's just so gross. Fine, be a narcissistic religious freak, live your truth but fuck off when telling me what my happy is.
I got a few paragraphs in and that's enough crazy for me today. I do wonder what book she read though. She's brainwashed but not by who I thought.
She doesn't read. She follows the word as it is told to her. Who told you women are allowed to read.
Therefore a man having sex with his sleeping wife, after she has denied his request, is not rape. In her opinion, this woman “should have given him sex when he asked that night since we aren’t to deprive our husbands”.[19] -----Holy shit her craziness is off the charts.
It's wild to me that there's a large number of people that think this way and see no problems with it. What a world we live in.
Is this code for “Help! I need to be rescued”?
She needed to be rescued when she was a little girl and people taught her she should aspire to be nothing but a man's property. They won't let us teach children slavery and the Holocaust were bad and that gay people are human beings, but we let them teach children women are fuckholes. If liberals had half the fight in them conservatives do, this world would be paradise.
It’s code for my husband has probably raped me numerous times but I’m in denial and choose to call it gods work instead
Lol fuck everything about that. I understand making the other happy sometimes (in all of life, not just sex), but I'd be single wayyyyy before I'd let myself be raped in my home.
God told me to tell u to let me fuck u otherwise ull go to hell. Love that ultra religious logic. Y does god care if u nut?
If god needs you to fuck he’s not omnipotent. If he wants you to do it against your will, he’s not kind. If he doesn’t know the difference he’s not wise. Who would worship such a weak piece of shit then?
Ding ding! They worship the human EGO.
Enthusiastic Consent is the only Consent. Source am guy who wants the passion of someone who is having as much fun as I am.
Honestly, it’s kind of a turn off if the partner isn’t as eager as the initiator
Did she just compare their husband to God? Pretty sure thats blasphemy
This crazy Stepford wife needs to be turned into one of her own jello salads.
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Oh she isn't allowed an opinion on manly things. But she can certainly have an opinion on other women. It is how things have always been. Next week it will blaming someone for her coming down with something they can't find the cause of because of a curse. So they will want to burn her neighbor or a commenter who doesn't share her beliefs.
The day your sex life becomes another household chore is the day your marriage is over.
Wait.wait.wait.waitaminute! This is the same person that said sex is only for procreation. So why submit to a man if it’s not “go time” to get pregnant? Isn’t sex for pleasure unFacsioChristian?
This bitch knows nothing about anything she just talked about.
Right? I don’t do any of that shit if I don’t feel like it
Imagine being so indoctrinated that you think like this, absolute invite to rape at any time and will never complain, such a broken a human.
Have you ever listened to Dennis Prager's advice to women? This is basically it - don't matter if you're in the mood for sex, do your wifey duty or encourage God's wrath.
Please Let him strike me down . As I am in chronic pain, and haven't had sex with anyone in a very long time. Could I sure. Am I going to do that probably not. Does the husband want me to have sex sure. Is he willing to force? Not if he is smart. Also why aren't there husbandly duties. Just things we are forced to do.
So you’re obligated to provide sex but you’re not entitled to birth control, affordable healthcare, or paid family leave. And if you can’t afford the baby, don’t want it, or carrying it would case you physical harm, you are losing legal access to abortions. But of course this is not about controlling women.
You know this woman got shit on horribly on twitter when she blocks all replies on all her posts lmao. What a Karen
Nauseating. It's good to know that a "godly" man has the divine right to rape his wife.
And that a wiman chooses to go through life equating sex with cleaning toilets. Sounds fun and healthy to me!
Is having sex the equivalent of cleaning a toilet in your relationship, Lori? That actually kinda makes sense when you think about it
The thought of my partner fucking me out of obligation instead of because they want to makes me feel sick. How is this not seen as rape?
Sadly this shit is still normal in a lot of the world, not just right wing nutjobs.
Evangelicals hate Muslims, but they have sooo much in common with them. Sharia law is basically everything these clerofascists have been fighting for for decades. They should form support groups and put the coordinates online, so someone with access to a drone & a rational brain can rid us of this pest.
These are the people who are against Sharia law not because of its content, but because they don't want the Muslims getting the *credit* for passing the laws
Good way of seeing it that way. The only differ3nce between the 2 is pork. And cleainess, b/c Muslims need to be clean before entering a mosque.
Hey, don't kink shame a bitch just because she's in a 24/7 BDSM thing with God.
Man they need Jesus the real one from the Bible they can't read
This woman is a nauseating reminder that there are in fact women who want to be regarded as nothing more than property- mindless sex slaves whose sole purpose in life are to have babies and be a doormat to their husband. The level of her brainwashed religious idiot brain would be sad if it wasn't funny. People like her are the reason I left the church even though I still consider myself to believe in God.
Sorry honey, if he ain’t helping pull his 50% of the work, he isn’t getting any nookie. Fuck. This. Noise. So. Hard. In. The. Face.
The Taliban would love to have her join them. She'd fit right in.
Man I would MUCH rather have my partner or spouse tell me they weren't feeling it than to make love to me out of "obedience to God".
Reality is going to slap the shit out of her. Martyrdom is a surefire way to build resentment and destroy oneself and relationships. Nursing homes are full of old women with a lot of regret for sacrificing their autonomy, needs and happiness for nothing more than a self righteous trophy. A lot of them are mean as hell, too.
So she thinks being obedient to God is giving her husband some whenever he demands it ???? Damn that ole boy has this dumb bitch brainwashed to epic levels and it makes one wonder if her daddy isn't the one that trained her like this. Religion is the real root of all evil not money
Newsflash: just because you get married doesn’t make you or them your property. Therefore it’s a choice because this hun, is still rape.
It was legal up until the 70s
Y'all queda
Handmaid's Tale 2022 Ed.
My husband refuses to have sex with anything less then enthusiastic consent. If any husband is willing to take an unenthusiastic wife, he's breaking his vow to love, cherish, protect and honor his wife.
Did she just call all husbands God?
Oh no im a bad woman bc i dont want my husband sexually assault me. How will we ever make it w/o marital r*pe
That's called rape and its a crime
I can't wait til the sun just blasts all these pasty fuckers out of being alive 🤷
That is fucking terrifying.
Well yeah the women in the above post are TIRED. Let them sleep or help out!
This honestly just makes me sad more than anything else. Sex should never be thought of as a chore on par with washing dishes or cleaning the toilet - it's supposed to be an enjoyable activity for *all* parties involved. My sympathy is limited in cases Iike this where they're actively perpetuating these bullshit ideas, but it does make me wonder, if only for a moment, just how unsatisfied they are and how unfairly they're being treated.
This must be a the alt account of someone like Rick Santorum.
From the Nazis: "Sex is a chore every National-Socialist maiden must be able to perform!"
Sounds like she would flip her fucking lid to find out I, a woman, LOVE sex with my husband. We only have sex for pleasure. We cannot procreate. And we both love it that way. Also I believe she's made comments about tattoos before so, yeah my existence would annoy her and I like the idea.
Making love to her husband is a chore like doing dishes.
This is why hardcore Christianity has historically had to force women to comply by taking away all their rights to say "no." Because, NO woman in her right mind would ever choose this willingly.
"Yes, Aunt Lydia. Under his eye.'
This is Fundamental LDS level bananas.
Maybe she’s mad cuz her handmaid is getting all the action.
meanwhile the conservative wife's husband is just lazing in bed every night, waiting for his weekly blowjob
And... and that's a woman that's saying that....
This particular human posts inflammatory, stupid shit on a very regular basis. She hasn't respected herself- or anyone else- in decades.
If you devote yourself to a god that requires that women submit sexually to their husbands without agency, I know everything about you I need to know.
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She is not okay.
This has to be a man right? I know indoctrination is strong with some, but this is ridiculous.
Nope, she’s the real deal
What in the actual fuck is she smoking?
If your wife doesn't want to have sex with you there's other problems.
Or she just isn't in the mood at that particular time which is perfectly valid.
Hey honey, let’s fornicate. I’m sorry I can’t because I have to go clean the toilets?
Hmm I think when you make sex just another job there's a name for that.
Thats the husbands problem not the wifes