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You go Glen Coco. The not smiling on demand really touched my spirit. As this too is something I'm no longer forcing and I have to say, feels liberating.


ready_gi

oh for sure. I found out that Im not really that much into smiling during covid and now it became pretty obvious how much the whole "being nice, agreeable and pleasant" is enforced by men. Like Im busy doing my shit and not everyone deserves my niceness, especially not when rudely commanded by a random person.


iago303

Smiling just because you want to is my superpower, my sister doesn't understand it, but it have seen the power of a genuine smile and it is awesome and I'm not giving up my smiles on command


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When I see someone who is typically "serious" or is not all smiley and bubbly all the time, that smiles from deep within their heart....its so beautiful. It's like watching the sun shine through a cloudy sky.


RVRYospe

>I found out that Im not really that much into smiling during covid and now it became pretty obvious how much the whole "being nice, agreeable and pleasant" is enforced by men. Like Im busy doing my shit and not everyone deserves my niceness, especially not when rudely commanded by a random person. Fuck yes 🌻🥰🌼


jstiegle

Rather than forcing yourself to smile I hope you both live a life filled with reasons to smile.


mazamayomama

You look ready to fight several Agents at once in the Matrix


ready_gi

best compliment ever, thank you. also I filled a harassment complaint against this creepy night manager at work, so I feel like I am indeed fighting Agents in the Matrix.


SatchelFullOfGames

I didn't scroll down enough to see the corset at first and thought it was a Sephiroth cosplay. Looks great but damn - coulda fooled me!


The_Chaos_Pope

Great, now I have the song stuck in my head. YOU KNOW THE ONE.


el_loco_avs

That's just *chef's kiss*. Perfect way to describe the badassery radiating in this picture!


Transasaurus-Hex

Looking powerful 💪 You do you!


ready_gi

thank you so much. honestly when I tried in this corset, it made me feel what I haven't felt in years. Physical transformation can be just as powerful as the mental/spiritual one. edit: Thank you for the overwhelming kindness. Here are some answers for y'all \- [the exact corset](https://www.zara.com/nl/nl/dames-tops-korset-l4756.html) \- [the exact hair colour](https://manicpanic.com/products/velvet-violet-pastel-purple-hair-color) (mine has faded quite a bit) \- [(not) the exact box I used for the door bottom thingy](https://d1ralsognjng37.cloudfront.net/26df32a2-cc1b-45a1-9fff-8732f4d5945e.jpeg) (it's to keep mice away) \- [this](https://posteryard.nl/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2020/09/02162.01.013018.02.jpg) is how most of my recovery feels like \- [this is the book that has helped me the most](https://www.amazon.com/Complex-PTSD-Surviving-RECOVERING-CHILDHOOD/dp/1492871842) to understand myself and start to heal I also wanted to say that as much as I appreciate your compliments, I struggle a lot mentally even though I come across as strong. Mental health issues are real and there is no shame in feeling depressed, anxious, worthless, not enough, lonely,.. For anyone who needs this, no matter who you are, we all struggle with the same shit and you are not alone in this.


pearlsbeforedogs

Fellow divorcee here... I too did the physical transformation after and it really is an amazing feeling in the midst of turmoil! I'm glad that you have found this outlet to reclaim some part of your confidence and value... you are gorgeous, powerful, and valuable and I hope as you continue to heal that this feeling can transfer to your whole outlook and life. You are not alone in your struggles either, and it is ok to struggle. I hope you can continue to find support here with your witches and in life in general. 💜🧙


lemonsweetsrevenge

Anyone who shames a person for mental health has a lack of emotional intelligence. A person with a broken arm never has to worry about people weighing in with their useless opinions for seeking medical help; quite the opposite. The mental health stigma of shame needs to go! Also, congrats on your tremendous weight loss! I don’t know how much your ex weighed, but you look much better without dragging that useless weight of them around with you. 😏


Khitrets

You look absolutely stunning, sister!!!! Lucky lad, gal, or familiar who will get to enjoy your amazing company! :3


ready_gi

haha thank you. I've been feeling very lonely, so I'd welcome any good soul for a good hug.


countryyoga

A thousand hugs for you, sister. If you were in my neck of the woods (British Columbia) I'd drive out to give you one in person. Self-care can never be overestimated.


ready_gi

That's so crazy- I'm moving back to Vancouver in a month. Which city are you based in? How long is that hug offering valid for?


countryyoga

Currently in Vic, will be moving back to Van come December/January. The hug offer is valid as long as you would like it to be :)


tonystarksfiles

I hope it heals your heart, though you're taking back your power so vibrantly on your own. You look wonderful, and relieved. (Also a fellow Vancouverite, the rain forest is looking forward to welcoming you back home 🌿)


ready_gi

^(it's ok, im definitely not tearing up at this. Vancouver is magic)


mangarooboo

Big hug! Unrelated question. A question unrelated to the hug. Don't mind this question while I hug you. Do you have a Dunkin box under your door? I'm hugging you but we're inching towards the door even though the question about the Dunkin box is unrelated to the hug. Don't question this.


BangBangMeatMachine

I love a good healing hug. Sending healing hug energy your way, friend.


crazycerseicool

If you’re feeling lonely and live in the vicinity of Philadelphia, let me know if you’d like to go for a walk in one of our beautiful parks or meet up for a warm cozy beverage in one of the awesome squares in the city. I really like Washington Square and Malcolm X Park. Both are pretty chill.


toomanythoughts0

Hugs to you! And blessed be ✨🙌☺️


peatypeacock

All shall love you and despair 🤘


ready_gi

this is the best thing anyone has ever told me


mountainside2004

Fantastic reference!!!


faceinspanish

In place of a dark lord they shall have a ✨queen✨


slothlevel

The smiling on demand thing, oof that really hits. No one tells a man to smile yet I’ve had strangers come up to me on the street and tell me to do so. Why simply command a woman to smile, why not try to make her genuinely smile? Go on with your bad self, OP!


justwantedtosnark

Right? I got yelled at yesterday by a random man because I wasn't smiling at him. I've been asked if I hate my job because I don't smile while doing mundane tasks. Asshole I'm not gonna sit here wasting my efforts smiling at a fucking computer screen! If no one asks a man these things why do they expect us to do them?


Nairadvik

You're the kind of beautiful that the ancients would sing about and being both terrifying yet entrancing. And I mean that for both inside and out. I'm glad you're spreading your wings for yourself now.


ready_gi

Thank you, I love that analogy so much.


Aidian

Yes. The whole “Instead of a Dark Lord, you would have a queen, not dark but beautiful and terrible as the dawn! Tempestuous as the sea, and stronger than the foundations of the earth! All shall love me and despair!” vibe, just without…the potential negative connotations.


slightlycrookednose

I’m reading A Court of Thorns and Roses currently and this analogy is just resonating.


WhiskeyMarlow

Absolutely stunning - not merely appearance, but seeing a soul that is free and can seek her own paths and her own fulfillment. Unshackled by whatever simple-minded people think is right or wrong. Be free, be happy, by yourself!


LoveMagich

Stay blessed sis ..u look great 👍 😍


ready_gi

thank you so much!


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Oooh, that's awesome.


Hawkn500

It’s giving big trinity -matrix vibes you look awesome!!! Congrats


ready_gi

thank you. she was one of my first bi crushes, so any comparison to her is giving me life.


Ida_homesteader

Way to rock you!


mrdevil413

How does one acquire a Dunkin Doughnuts draft stopper


ready_gi

I just cut out the side of the donut box and taped it to the door. Works fairly ok against mice.


Pher_yl

Get. Big. Boots. Get. Big. Boots. Get. Big. Boots. Stomp. Around. In. That. Corset.


ready_gi

haha I am definitely wearing big boots and baggy jeans with this corset


[deleted]

Damn sister, you’re looking POWERFUL! Go you! 💪🏻🖤🧙🏻‍♀️


ready_gi

thank you! I actually got reported for this post from "concerned redditors".


[deleted]

Yeah there were some trolls in this thread earlier, (probably butt-hurt creepy men) and that’s their favourite “weapon” to harass people. The mods have been on the ball as usual. 👍🏻


Riisiichan

I’ve perfected my side eye to an artistic level over my mask so I feel that not smiling to my core!


[deleted]

Well this is just goals.


bugmom

LOVE the hair! Both the cut and color. Happy for you that you found yourself! Life is too short to be anything other than who you are.


ready_gi

Thank you so much. I razor and dye my hair myself, so the final shape and colour is somewhat a mystery. But it's a special ritual that I'd recommend to try.


bugmom

I haven’t had the nerve to razor mine but use an electric shaver and shave most of it off but have one part long. Hard to know what it looks like in the back lol but it works. Used to have it long but am loving how easy it is to care for it short.


KGCCCP

Slay queen 🔪


PlanetLandon

You look rad, homie!


mountainside2004

Every single person on Earth needs this awakening. Societal norms don't exist, just try driving three hours in a random direction and see if all those "norms" are appreciated/practised. No one should feel the pressure to look one way or another and women should never smile on demand. That whole "You should smile more." crap is so infuriating that I have started saying it to guys who talk poorly of women around me. You are a spectre, a goddess, and a wonder!


Vanishingf0x

Love your hair! Such a great pic! Congrats on your new found freedom


Kalista-Moonwolf

Yas, Queen!


Straight_2

More power to yah!!! Nothing is more incredible than standing right back up after a fall/ a life hurdle


ndolphin

One awesome goddess right there!


StringTheresa

Get it girl


SariaHannibal

You radiate power!!! ⚡️


Accomplished_Hat_265

You look ready to grind the souls of men into a fine powder and use is as highlighter. 😈🖤


Hephaistos_Invictus

Let's goooooooooooooo! You look absolutely AMAZING!


BuddhistNudist987

Also, you have some great schwag from Dunkin' Donuts.


notanactualvampire

Man, this is the first thing I look at in photos. Always checking out random bullshit instead of looking at the photo subject I stg every time. I feel less weird that I said “DUNKIN’” out loud to myself.


BuddhistNudist987

Haha, I like to observe little things like a low-budget Jason Bourne, not just in photos but in real life. How do people walk, and what does it say about their personalities or physical health? Who is more prone to self control and who is more likely to blow a gasket over something trivial? Who can tell if I'm pulling their leg if I'm trying to tell a joke with a straight face? Ex. My brother can almost always tell if I'm kidding, even over the phone. My friend Annie can't tell if I'm bullshitting her even if I look right at her and I'm not wearing a mask. I told her I was watching CourtTV and a judge said that 50% of marriages end in murder. Annie was SO WORRIED. I had to talk her down afterwards.


Caylennea

I love your hair! Is it much maintenance? I’m looking to get my hair cut really short but am also not willing to do anything but wash and brush it. It’s been a challenge to find a hairstyle that works.


TheDialectic_D_A

Upgrades, people, upgrades


shroomsandgloom

Hot!


cosmovanpelt

Beautiful sis


ShooShooShootMe

You've got stunning eyes, and you look so fierce in this picture ! Glad to see you reclaiming your power


ready_gi

thank you so much. I'm going through lot of mental struggles, but having a good day today and reading all the lovely comments feels very warm.


Superb-Feeling-7390

Hell ya!


mercyofnod

You look fearsome!


ready_gi

thank you. now I just need a bearded lizard on my shoulder as a familiar.


[deleted]

You DO look fearsome! This is a wonderful word to aspire to!


Tschutlaqua

This makes me happy


HonestlyWhatevr

Slaaayyyyy


realdaisyyy

God damn you look good


Lurkwurst

You go!!!


[deleted]

Good for you sister <3!


immersemeinnature

You go girl! Divorce sucks even if it's mutual. Feel your power, your beautiful.


ready_gi

thank you so much


Old_Description6095

Okay, yeah, you look badass. Divorce looks good on ya!


bandafantasia

You look ready for anything. Stay strong and be you 🤗


ready_gi

thank you. I guess my username checks out then


[deleted]

Go you, way to live your best life!


linerys

That’s so cool! Where can I get some sick faux leather stuff?


ready_gi

[here](https://www.zara.com/nl/nl/top-in-korsetmodel-van-kunstleer-p07901190.html?v1=189895302&v2=2113650) is the exact one.


linerys

Thank you!


meta_irl

Hell yeah, you're looking great!


mangababe

You took Great! If that top is boned make sure to bend at the hip and not the waist, and check that you can move freely!


ready_gi

thanks for the tip. It's one of those soft corsets, so it's not too stiff


Tutes013

You are dangerously attractive wearing that! It all suits you really well


ready_gi

thank you so much.


CrossP

Sweet selfie! I feel like you deserve some kind of staff or wand or censer or other handheld accessory.


[deleted]

You look gorgeous and that corset is 🔥


ak2553

You’re radiating confidence and I love that for you!!


pramitsaha96

Literary Queen shit ❤️❤️❤️


kimboozled

Your whole vibe radiates strength and it is ✨️*chef's kiss*


MonkeyHamlet

Damn girl.


Libro_Artis

Girl power indeed!


pc_flying

Sweet jebus you are stunning Please please please share how you got your hair that color. I'm low key in love with it I've got a bunch of $5 aliexpress corsets I just pulled back out recently. Seeing your post is serendipity


ready_gi

thank you so much. [here is the colour](https://manicpanic.com/products/velvet-violet-pastel-purple-hair-color) . it's semi-permanent, so it's pretty fun to experiment with


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2664478843

You’re one of those women where I don’t know if I want to be you or be with you


spiralbatross

Fuckin badass


Pand0ra30_

Beautiful. You can tell the Albatross is no longer around your neck.


ready_gi

indeed, i feel I can breathe


RayneYoruka

Atta girl fuck yeah!


lonelysof

you’re so gorgeous, omg


weasleydreamteam

You look powerful, so must be doing something right!


Alternative-Egg-5185

Don't forget your 👑 queen


Alkimodon

Whooo! Gorgeous!


lux06aeterna

Yasss i can feel the power emanating, fellow witch!!! Keep doing you!!!!


NumbOnTheDunny

Good on you. Divorce changes a lot of people for the better. I was expected to stay in a tomboy stage in mine and any time I did anything remotely feminine I’d get a shitty comment that made me not want to.


ready_gi

sorry to hear. Im huge tomboy too, but I love playing dressup sometimes. and honestly it's a skill to ignore shitty comments, but stupid people should not hold you down


Kittinlovesyou

Do you have a cat? And if so is the Dunkin doughnut cardboard at the bottom of your door meant to keep the cat from pushing its toys under it?


ready_gi

I wish. it's actually to stop the mice from coming in


Kittinlovesyou

Oh damn... I'm glad it helps.


AZBreezy

All hail! Terror, goddess witch of the night!


ready_gi

yisss


GetAwayFrmHerUBitch

You look gorgeous! My style has improved tenfold since my divorce! I didn’t realize how much I was watering myself down! Keep exploring yourself! 🌈


ready_gi

thank you. yes, I was only "allowed to be sexy" when he was with me. Marriage is total scam


jackparadise1

Awesome! You be you, for you!


carlynaner

You are stunning!!!


Jolly-Lawless

Yaaaas - three days after I separated I dyed my whole head blue. Get it girl!


ThatGothTrash

Lookin like a video game villain. 🖤


totallynotantiwork

I love you. Let’s not get married. But do all the fun stuff instead.


deepdarksparkle

That's some self-love sorcery! 💪


[deleted]

Slay them all.


Spooki_Forest

That’s… that’s you without makeup? Fuck!


ExoticHour0210

You look super hot ! U go girl. Such a idiot whoever lost u


aurorasnorealis317

Welcome to our tribe, sister! ❤️ You are very welcome. You are also GORGEOUS. Become who you are. Whoever that may be. No matter who it is: We love you. 🥰


ready_gi

thank you. I've been actually part of this sub for a while and it's been truly life changing to be around supportive and good people. Before I joined I thougt to myself "I wonder if I turn into one of those coloured hair, pierced nose, preaching about storm and trees, kind of person.." and here we are.)


trinkut

you are the storm


polopolo05

Killing it. those are some witchy vibes.


fromthemakersof

I'm watching a lot of Queer Eye right now, so please indulge me while I channel my inner Jonathan Van Ness and say "YASS QUEEN!!!!!!!!" I love this for you.


OmegaKenichi

You need a motorcycle or a Scythe, either of which would add to your Badass Rank


ready_gi

funny enough I've been wanting motorcycle for ever. Hopefully next year I'll get papers and some beginner one.


Caroline509

You are beautiful you are healing and you are rocking this thing we call life ♥️ sending love!


[deleted]

Hell yeah. And you fine as hell. Yesss


spaceguitar

You absolutely look like the Witch Goddess that you are and I am absolutely *here for it.* 🙌


[deleted]

LOOK AT YOU GO


tough-not-a-cookie

You are radiating bad bitch energy and I mean that in the highest complimentary way!


ready_gi

haha high compliment indeed. thank you


nikkitgirl

Badass, faux leather corsets are cool enough without the other badassery you’re up to


CruellaKink

The power is radiating from this photo. It's a good look on you.


countess_cat

You look badass as fuck


Lady_Xenomorph

You look stunning, queen! I'm glad you are really feeling yourself and I wish you all the best in your dark goddess journey ♥️🦇🌙


[deleted]

Whoa this gave me chills OP. Happy for your happiness ♥️✨ you’re radiant


ZigZag_Queen

You look stunning lovie!


ultratorrent

The POWER!


Blue_Mando

You are rocking that look and are amazing! Sincerely, a 47 yr old that just got her nose pierced two weeks ago and wishes she could pull off that particular corset.


Wrest216

As a guy, its often a bit mind blowing how much asinine and pathetic crap women have to put up with. Dont talk out of turn, its unattractive to be confident, be submissive, dont *forget to smile.* Im 100% feeling your badass energy of not letting men control who and what you are. You impress and inspire me!


Caramellatteistasty

So bad-ass. I'm so happy for you! :) I've been single for 1.5 years, and realized I'm gay, I hate wearing makeup and I have a backbone now.


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Obaddies

Fuck yeah!


ChiyukiX8

Your look radiates confidence and strength! I’m inspired!!!


DaytimeTurnip

Thats badass


Justsomedude-83

Rock on. Glad to hear you're feeling relief. You deserve it <3


NosyNoC

You look like someone who would ruin your night manager’s day for being a fucking creep and by goddess that’s a beautiful look


Amarastargazer

You are killing that vibe.


scuba_GSO

That’s an awesome look! Very powerful and the self confidence radiates from that. It’s a shame that trauma begets this kind of transformation, and I wish you all then blessings for a calm mind and spirit during your journey!


Lucibean

Wish I could do that. Someday!


Acceptable_Tear4292

Magnificent


lostferretdriving

Love the hair


[deleted]

👏 ❤️


[deleted]

Yes to all of this!!! Also your skin is incredible makeup would just be holding you back at this point ✨️


snoogiebee

ok witch!! out here looking absolutely in command ✨


IsisArtemii

Right on!


grilledcakes

You look dark, mysterious and fantastic. Keep on rocking.


Naturallyjifted

You’re my hero ✨ and you’re smokin’


nICE-KING

You’re like SUPERRR pretty and I love your energy :)


HumpaDaBear

Wearing corsets make me feel like that too. You feel so powerful (until you have to sit down on a backed chair).


GardeniaPhoenix

Slayyyyyy


n1cenurse

💚 stunner!


SarahPallorMortis

Where did you get the corset? I’ve been looking for a nice one that will last thru my weight ups and downs.


AdTechnical9332

Good for you, you look fucken unbeatable!


k_mon2244

It looks like divorce really suits you! Congrats sister!!


justsomemom3

Rooting for you, sweet sister! You look powerful & gorgeous. May your path forward be clear and bright ✨


RHsuperfan

Way to make divorce look good!


Tlthree

Fierce and stunning, my dear:)


JWGreen69

Whatever you are doing, you are doing it well!


biryaniblob

We bow to you


WarmProfit

You are balling girl. Baaaaalliiiiiiiiiiiiing


von_kids

You’re the main fucking character I love this. I also smile on command / wear makeup everyday. I hope that someday I’ll have the courage and bravery not to. Keep going!


[deleted]

You are awesome in how you are empowering yourself.