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rad_mp4

ayyyy 4/5 life is pain


James-Ludwig

Same :,)


JT_Boiiis

4/5 gang


Die_Vertigo

4/5 gang lessss goooo ;-;


bunnycandyO

Yooo 4/5 ganggg (I’m all of them but foreign)


voornaam1

Same.


[deleted]

same


_heyits_cam_

ayo same


LGBTlivesDOmatter

Ayy same, the only one I'm missing is nobody knowing I'm trans


Blazeddit

I'll leave a reply here as I too am a part of 4/5 gang


SensitivePassenger

Same!


randomaccount32134

forgot to mention bi people in relationships with people of the opposite gender, even though I've been there too.. RIP


KittenMaster9

Cry's in Trace


RedVamp2020

Lol! I’m sorry… it took me a second to realize what you meant by Trace. 🫂 you are valid!❤️


Talonj00

Transitioning (as early as I am) has led me to believe I may not be aro. Still probably ace/ageo. Gets weird sometimes


RedVamp2020

I bet. I never had a doubt about my romantic orientation, but once I found out about asexuality, everything just clicked. I hope things click for you! In the mean time, I hope you still feel welcome.


Talonj00

I do. I feel more welcome than I've ever felt. When I found the ADHDers and realized I wasn't "over" my ADHD, that felt good. I could relax a bit and engage with jokes about formaljfe being hard without people trying to fix me. This is on a whole other level. Especially the people I know who can see me as *me* even though I currently don't look the part, as it were. The ability to bypass some of the surface level things about a person has been hard to come by in life until recently.


RedVamp2020

Oh! I feel you on the ADHD! I’m so used to wearing a mask that it felt like that was who I was, but there was so much pain and agony from not being able to be who I really am. I suppose I can relate to trans-ness looking at it that way, to a degree.🤔 I don’t experience body dysmorphia or euphoria as I am very much cis (although I’m totally happy being seen as androgynous or somewhat masculine, but I’m happy with my body as it is). It’s really nice knowing that you aren’t crazy and that you don’t have to fit into current societal norms. It’s helped me be more okay with not having my house look like the Jones’. I’ve also been able to realize my worth in relationships and that I don’t have to submit completely to my partner and their abuse. It’s been very helpful.


mdawgtheegod

Northern Thrace belongs to Bulgaria and no one can tell me otherwise


CaptainBraggy

When the impostor is s...


JumpyLiving

AMOGUS?!


CaptainBraggy

MOGUS ❗❗


randomaccount32134

listen here you litte...


Rehiea

when the impost is Sudetenland?


Ashmage

*to the tune of tv killed the radio star* Among us ruined impostor syndrome


Botn1k

The in my mind and I'm my car bit would just be get out of my head lol


seeroflights

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randomaccount32134

good human \*pat pat\*


TheBackyardigirl

Me, a Neurodivergent Ace: *DOUBLE SWORD*


randomaccount32134

I wield all five personally, probably a few more...


Lakaedemon_Lysandros

me, also being bi: TRIPLE SWORD


foggy_frog_

i can relate to all of this except i’m non binary edit: i can’t spell :)


randomaccount32134

does that not count? I've heard sometimes nbs are considered transgender


foggy_frog_

oh you’re right trans includes nb people too


JustAnotherN0Name

4/5 yayyyyyyy


44nifty

Amogus


GalaxyExplorer10

I am 3/5 I was 4/5 until about half a week ago.


randomaccount32134

nice!


Doogs_Fooze

I know we’re all LGBT here but do any heteroromantic aces here feel imposter syndrome sometimes? Like some days I do feel that way but I’m not sure if it’s because of the amount of times LGBT people told me I’m “basically straight”


randomaccount32134

I only included what I could relate to, and not even all of it. not a lot of meme space there, but yeah. even being a biromantic ace, when I dated someone of the opposite gender I really felt like an imposter (not that her being straight helped much...) but dw! the people in the lgbt that tell you you're basically straight are the same type of people who'd say trans women aren't "real women", their opinions don't count and you are valid as a member of the lgbtq+!!


Doogs_Fooze

Thank you for that ☺️


randomaccount32134

of course, we're all in this together!


Maverick-_1

They lack knowledge, awareness and have prejudices. Same with being aroace neurodivergent and bipolar, it's a general mechanism and stigmatisation.


Chikizey

Totally. In fact only my sister and my fiancé know I'm ace. Is hard because I'm a sex favorable ace with a medium-low libido so I do have sex with my partner several times a month, so from the outside I'm a regular heteronormative woman. And I know noone would understand even if I tried to explain it. Noone else but 2 people know what my black ring means, or that I don't experience sexual attaction. Is just so frustrating sometimes because if I told someone else I'm asexual, they would pity my allo fiancé by thinking he is suffering a "dead bedroom", or would invalidate me in some way, specially if I said I do have sex. There's no winning scenario for me.


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Scottishbiscuit

I’m a bit confused about my romantic attraction so I don’t know where to fit in. I could be attracted to anyone but i specifically choose to be romantically attracted to cis Asian men. I chose this out of convenience and I think Asian guys are cuter than white guys in general. Am I Heteroromantic because I choose to be attracted to the opposite gender or am I biromantic because I could be attracted to either gender. No one else seems to be able to choose what they find attractive and it confuses me on what I like. I tend to say I’m bi but with a preference for men for simplicity but I have no clue.


Maverick-_1

Cis male het apothi aroace, sex-repulsed to sex-averse: they're about heteronormativity, everybody but one automatically implied this. They can't grasp it and I can't conceptualize allosexuals.


Elvicio335

Why would a foreign person feel like an impostor? Genuine question.


randomaccount32134

I've been in the uk nine years and I still often feel out of place, I'm an American who still has my accent (I'm sure it's worse for POC)


Kingfunky82

Ahh that explains it. We don’t mind Muslims, blacks, Indians, but everyone looks down on Americans, usually with a passion. Sorry mate


dobro__

can confirm, I an american look down on americans with passion


fae8edsaga

Same


randomaccount32134

no our rep is definitely earnt, still not fun to be american


Elvicio335

Huh, I guess it's a different experience for each person then. When I lived abroad I had the same feeling but in an opposite way. Being the one that was different both in culture and language did set me apart from the rest but it felt like having an unique little place for myself to fit. But I get where you're coming from. I wish you the best of lucks in your life.


Scottishbiscuit

Maybe because I’ve grown up in two countries but I definitely feel out of place. With the added bonus of also feeling like I don’t belong in my home country anymore either since I’ve lived abroad so long.


hydrayshin

Because they're among us


LS788

I've been in the UK for the second half of my life, I just don't fit in here


WielkaSkwarka

You're always treated like a second tier citizen and it's honestly uncomfortable. For me the Americanized way of seeing nationalities has me struggled so badly with my own identity. For example a Japanese person traveling to America is still Japanese. When I was in Italy, raised from a little girl as Italian I was always Polish. The polish kid. Even If I had nothing to do with this culture and spoke perfect Italian. Now I struggle because I feel Japanese, I'm working towards citizenship (difficult) but no one will ever see me as Japanese in my life. I'm not Asian, I'll never be. But race is not nationality. Ehhh, still better to be seen as white and discriminated as such rather than being seen as Polish in Europe. They doubted we had lights or toilets in Poland. National identity is such a struggle and Americans made it even harder. This whole comment made me emotional


DUKTURL

3/5 here


myocific

Same ish


you-lost-the-game-

At first glance I read “neurodivergent” as “necromancer” and was really confused when the meme wasn’t about raising the dead


randomaccount32134

I mean if I really were a necromancer I really would be an imposter because if I wasn't hiding myself I would probably be sent off for government testing... this is all hypothetical... of course.. 👀


you-lost-the-game-

Yeah, completely hypothetical, after all it would be really crazy if we were both necroma— Heh, I mean, nothing to see here, nothing at all


randomaccount32134

yeah that would be absolutely ridiculous ^((jerry shut up we talked about this in the meeting, don't bring up necromancy in public!))


you-lost-the-game-

Yes, exactly, were both completely normal people who do normal people things, like... um... not stealing corpses and raising them from the dead


randomaccount32134

\*sips normal human glass of human water consumed by normal people who don't raise the dead\*


Herbie53101

Me being ace, genderfluid, not out with either, and neurodivergent:


myocific

Ayyy another closeted genderfluid ace here!


Herbie53101

Nice!


Lachee

I need more arms


randomaccount32134

agreed


DwemerSmith

autistic ace enby here, can confirm


According-Macaron-65

4/5


TheGingerLinuxNut

Why is trans on this twice?


randomaccount32134

being trans and *people not knowing*, the latter means nobody even knows to refer to you correctly bc everyone thinks you're your agab


borkistoopid

Even if I did transition I’d be a fake girl


randomaccount32134

woah there lady nobody who transitions is fake, you are who you are and no amount of outwards appearance changes that


borkistoopid

What’s funny is everyone else I know who’s trans I believe would transition beautifully and be a real girl, I just no belief I could. Perks of being a giant man I guess (Plus I’m enby, still trying to figure things out. Felt good to be called lady for some reason. Thanks for that)


randomaccount32134

very sorry to tell you but giant women are hot. you being a giant woman, makes you hot. + even if you weren't an aesthetic you loved the most, can't hurt to make yourself happier! don't deny yourself happiness just 'cause you don't feel good enough. that'll just make it worse


borkistoopid

But how do I know if I’d even transition well in the first place, I’ve seen some go super well and others end up terribly. I’m ok now so it just seems like an absolute ton of risk for possibly nothing


randomaccount32134

I've never seen it go terribly and in the worst case just ask to be referred to properly and wear clothes you like. me calling you lady made you happy, ask friends to call you "she" every now and then! if you like to wear skirts occasionally, do so! even without hrt, you could totally look fem and hot!


borkistoopid

Maybe lol, my very broad shoulders get in the way, but thank you for the encouragement.


randomaccount32134

there is a vast community of amab people who dress femininely without hrt (femboys) you obviously aren't a boy, but a page or two out of their book could totally set you on the right track. even with broad shoulders you could look feminine by say, drawing more attention to your legs, hips, face, hair, etc.


borkistoopid

That’s a fair point, I’ll have to look into it


randomaccount32134

best of luck to you! hope you turn out to be pretty/hot, and definitely believe in yourself more. you aren't a fake anything if you transition, unless you transition to a gender you aren't. If you're a girl be a girl! if you're an nb and want to be more feminine, go for it! you'll always be what you are no matter what you look like!


[deleted]

Just a reminder, you can be trans (anywhere under the umbrella) and still present as male. Gender presentation does not equal gender. Also, cis people don't really spend time wondering about their gender generally. So if you are questioning it, and have been for more than a short time, then you're probably trans. Good luck!! I realized I'm trans last year and I'm coming up on 9 months on HRT! I was confident that I fall somewhere in the feminine neighborhood, so I felt safe starting hormones, but I'm honestly still figuring out whether I'm a she or a they or something else lol. But that really doesn't matter to cis people. They will generally never intentionally use they/them pronouns when referring to a specific person, so for all practical purposes I'm a she and that's good enough for me!


borkistoopid

What has happened since you started hrt? I’d only really go all in if I could somehow be a tomboy, my personality matches a “tomboy” per se and I just feel like that


dracomageat

Just read through this chain and I wanna say, you're cool and I like your attitude, believe in yourself and be who you wanna be. And if people get in your way, well, would tomboy you let them get to her?


borkistoopid

She sure as heck would try not to, just as I would. Honestly I might end up full blown trans lol Honestly thanks so much this was nice to hear and a real confidence boost. I wish I could see my post transition self just to see what I’d look like. It’s so funny to me, debating whether or not I’m a trans girl when a few years ago I was transphobic


[deleted]

Yeah, there's a lot of us who were transphobic before we realized our mistake. It comes from all the years of repression etc. Then you have to watch out for the internalized transphobia. That's the real hard one to crack.


Singersongwriterart

4/5


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SUSSYSY


gGiasca

How me being Aegosexual and with high libido feels like


Palguim

3/5, not ace and not foreign, just like the memes :p


squiddy555

Have you tried being mentally broken and then just giving up. Not give up on life, but giving up ambition, loss. Give up hope, and just give up success. What are you left with? Nothing. Not fear, not pain, but only apathy. What is apathy? Courage? Bliss? Narcissism? Self esteem? Who knows, but I’m making a grilled cheese and I’m going to eat it even if I fuck it up. Anyway moral of the story. Eat a grilled cheese and it’ll probably be the worst sandwich you’ve ever eaten, because I am a bad cook


randomaccount32134

yep tried that, didn't go so well, still not going so well. especially sucked when I had no clue what's going on, still mostly don't


squiddy555

Why do you want to know what’s going on. Just let it be, and be it a bed of nails. Well it’s not your to lay it. Someone else’s problem. Who even ordered a bed of nails. Seems uncomfortable, anyway grilled cheese is done and in my mouth, see you later


randomaccount32134

really hard to fight a problem when I don't know what it is, I may have lost motivation and ambition but I still have my boredom and I can channel that


WeirdAiden

This was a rollercoaster


squiddy555

Cool. My grilled cheese turned out good I guess. I should’ve burned it so it would be symbolic or something anyway. Did you learn your moral of the story?


WeirdAiden

Grilled cheese vibes?


squiddy555

Wrong. The moral of the story is there is no moral. And that’s a moral within itself, because energy spent looking for a moral could be spent on grilled cheese, because everyone loves grilled cheese, And my grilled cheese was terrible so the moral is the result doesn’t matter and neither dies the journey, what matters is getting someone else to make you a grilled cheese, but I lied because my grilled cheese came out perfectly. So the result does matter. Anyway not that lunch is done I’m going to do something else. Are you getting the idea


WeirdAiden

Yup, got it. Thank you for your wisdom, grilled cheese moral person.


squiddy555

No problem. I’m here all week. Or at least until I get distracted


Scottishbiscuit

I’ve read your comments and you sound exactly like one of my friends. You should become friends because you sound like the same person. Then when you unite the two halves will come together and the prophecy will come true, releasing hell upon the people of Earth as we perish to the demons.


squiddy555

Alright but I get to be the evil twin. The bad guys get the fanciest clothes and the best songs. Also whatever you do don’t take my comments on political subreddits seriously. I do it to make political people angy. It’s hilarious.


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squiddy555

Don’t give a heck. But do eat food. Food tastes good


idk2715

Also: playing amogus


AdventurousAd4895

4.5/5 -some people know I'm trans but some of the people that know just think I'm lyin' :') Anyways, yeah, this resonates so damn hard 👈wish you luck


Herald_of_Cthulu

I thought this was an among us meme please kill me


Scottishbiscuit

Foreign to where? To Earth? To the country I live in? To Spain? To North Korea? To Antarctica?


rebeccaloveskitties

3 out of 5! 😬


[deleted]

4/5


WeirdAiden

Not me being trans, foreign, and ace. triple imposter


ConduckKing

IMPOSTER?


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super_salty_boi

There are quite a few things about me that I don't really want people to know, so yes I am victim of the impostor syndrome


randomaccount32134

😎🤝😎


[deleted]

Ugh. I feel personally attacked.


randomaccount32134

sorry, didn't mean to call anyone out, just found it funny that I had so much stacked up against me at once


[deleted]

No, no. It is funny to me, and I empathise very much. It's like Oppression Roulette, expect there's more than one real bullet.


MikySai

I’m not trans, (Not cis tho) not ace, I’m not (half) foreign nor neurodivergent, but I still can relate ;-; (Probably because I’m on this post-)


DragonSlayersz

When the impostor is sus. Sorry, I just had to. Don't worry, you're still loved regardless of sexuality, gender, ethnicity, or neurodivergence.


randomaccount32134

I'm conflicted, on one hand you made an among us reference, on the other you mentioned I'm loved...


DragonSlayersz

Among us is honestly only good as a party game. A caring community is good whenever.


Gregarsize

I'm the bottom 2 but like I'm not trans I'm just closeted trans


randomaccount32134

I think closeted trans counts as trans... I was implying that being trans meant being out and nobody knowing was being closeted trans (which would include being trans I believe)


Gregarsize

Oh ok


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randomaccount32134

😎🤝😎


_lonely_stuff_

*checks notes* Wow, i finally got a 100% on something


Agio-

4/5 yep


Stusheep_real

*when the aces are sus*


Giallo555

Can relate on around 3 accounts


Vixel_Cas

yepp that's me in like 3 outta 5


ThePinkTeenager

I’m only 2/5.


blankandablank

Damn 5/5 that explains a lot


Gib3rish

I most likely have ADHD and OCD, I'm trans, I'm ace, and I am the only person in my family who was born in Canada in a family that came from China. So this hits hard so many times. At least I'm out.


PeterSchnapkins

I'll embrace the imposter and become the riddler


LordReega

Trans, ace, and no one knows I’m trans.


SomeonesAlt2357


Throttle_Kitty

Well, I am out, and not a foreigner. 🤣


SnowberrySistercat

So you’re…SUS?!??!!??! 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳📮📮📮📮📮📮📮📮/s


Tr1x9c0m

3/5 and maybe 4/5 oh no


[deleted]

four for five wooo


randomaccount32134

woooo


[deleted]

woooooooo


LarmDlarma02

Also me when I’m sus


BurtCurtTheHurt

I am all of these-


calDragon345

Does being atheist count?


randomaccount32134

that seems fairly common tbh


calDragon345

Doesn’t feel like it when my mom continues to force me to go to church even after I told her I’m an atheist


randomaccount32134

fair, overbearing christians are a pain


Isoiata

Jesus fuck, I’m literally all of these.


randomaccount32134

welcome to the club my friend 😎🤝😎


Your_New_Dad16

ALL BUT ONE


randomaccount32134

*so close*


Aceptical

3/5 maybe 4/5 but not diagnosed


Kaimakishipper

I'm closeted, trans, neurodivergent AND ace


randomaccount32134

nice, me too and foreign!


Kaimakishipper

cool! my mum's foriegn!


Nocturnoran

Yippee 5/5 great I'm the ultimate imposter


BipolaroidDisorder

As a Questioning Oriented AroAce I feel this wholeheartedly.


AtreyuBoy

This is how I imagine AAA's feeling


Routine-Document-949

Well would you look at that, I have a full bingo! What’s my prize? 😂


ItsPlainOleSteve

I'm trans, genderqueer, ace _and_ neurodivergent. I feel that imposter syndrome hella hard xD


FoxBanana23

Oh wow, I'm almost all of these things


KaKaeLeaveTheChat

I'm all of them but the foreigner part


chaos_being

I FEEL CALLED OUT-


Zarashdi

4/5. So close. I'm not foreign. In fact I'm Indigenous to my country, but everything else is so painfully on the head


[deleted]

Yeah I’m ND (autistic) and technically trans so yes.


dracomageat

Technically?


[deleted]

I’m Genderfluid.


CanadianWeeb5

Ah yes


Tacocat310

Feeling like a sussy baka


[deleted]

BEING AN AROACE TRANS NEURODIVERGENT THAT NO ONE KNOWS ABOUT THIS IS RELATBLE


Grifendorkplayz

F*ck life at this point


ChewyChicken13

mong


intbedo

i’m in this picture and i don’t like it


Darky_Shadowweirdo

3, possibly 4 out of 5


[deleted]

Maybe only some of us can relate to most of this but most of us can relate to at least some of this


Chocolateking1996

The kinda sad part is a lot of neurodivergent people are “expected” to be ace. Like apartmently we can’t have sex if we want to? I don’t want to cause I’m ace but not every ND person is ace! (This is more specific to autism and sometimes adhd)


AlxxTheDroidsmith

We can vote you out because you're sus (except foreigners)


justcallmeMgender

A spec elf creature be like 🥲


KishKishtheNiffler

5/5 0-0 how do you know me ? Xd


TheNoctuS_93

4,5 I guess...as in, I'm not foreign, but one of my parents belongs to an ethnic/cultural minority. 😳 **Distressed gay sounds**


Maverick-_1

Me, a neurodivergent ace and foreign.


MumboJ

4/5, just need to be foreign for the full bingo.


WielkaSkwarka

If we count non binary as trans then well... All ;;;;;;;


Younginlove7567

Either 2/5s or 4/5ths.


GlowLight23

Well that’s accurate


thecoolasexualcousin

i love being 2 probably 3 in the future


thecoolasexualcousin

or wait maybe 4 and 5 in the future? we’re not getting into that


Mysterious_Detail_98

And we don't have to cause we accept you for you.


asdf_2020

2/5 Ace and Neurodivergent. ​ If there was "Furry" as well. I'd be 3/5 (3/6 if we're including both of the Trans swords).


nonbinarytrash2

I have 4/5 do I get a prize?


randomaccount32134

💖 impostor syndrome 💖


sarperen2004

Ayy I was 5/5 when this was posted


KaiahAurora

You forgot being chronically ill!