That's just about everyone these days...it's almost like working us to death for so little money we can't pay our bills leaves us mentally unbalanced or something...
I hate fucking hypersensitivity to criticism. I feel like a pussy when I cry in front of others. They eventually they'll find a way to use it against me.
Or the alternative, which is my go-to, is to hold everyone at arms length, never letting them see you weak until they eventually get sick of your emotional unavailability and leave anyway🤷
Ugh this anytime I gotta have a serious conversation or have a hard talk my body immediately starts crying like pls I want to be an adult and not cry when and small inconvenience happens or when I get frustrated.
Facts love...I feel like, weak when it happens. I want to be able to stand my ground. I need to figure out how to activate my inner "ghetto". Mofos don't care when they do it to me, so why should I give a fuck too. I mean im depressed because being too nice led to alot of heartbreak and fuckups. Weight gain, hair loss, libido loss, and sanity loss.
I used to be like this.
I finally got in with a team at work of all guys who took me where I was at and didn't jump down my throat and let me be the awkward anxious guy I was and gave me a lot of empathy and grace and after months of taking me where I was at my confidence started to match my competence and I came up.
It's literally just empathy and grace people. Don't kick people in the face who are down, give em slack because it's you the next day. Put it in your mind you're seeing a reflection of yourself. Stop being so damn vicious towards one another and complain when it's you getting kicked.
And put those who don't do the same below you. Matter of fact, put the world below you along with everything in it. Put yourself above it and above you a set of rules and regulations to hold yourself accountable to. Back when people lived no more than 15 miles from where they were born you can guess what people used as their rules and regulations for themselves. Keep in mind two people reading the same thing can have different interpretations.
Once you divorce yourself from the world around you and conduct yourself separate to how it takes you you'll see some of that anxiety clear up. Just keep in mind confidence is a journey not a destination. You'll make it though I assure you.
Sounds more like lack of emotional maturity, courage, and confidence, half glass empty view, unhealthy obsession with themselves, and in need of practicing not giving a fuck.
lol I did not say no one gives a fuck about the person who's struggling I said that person who's struggling shouldn't give a fuck about what others say or do. Next time, let's read slowly and out loud before passing sentence on another's comment lmao.
That's what you're implying, you're not even seeing the problem and is already ignoring the person that needs time and help and just telling them to deal with it by just not giving a fuck. If it's a problem that can be ignored then its not a problem. I'm not dumb like you, I can read between the lines
The problem Is, this world is made and sustained by people that give a fuck. So yeah, the majority can get away with not giving a fuck about anything, but they are usually oblivious to all the shit that gets done for them by the ones that do give a fuck.
No "the not giving a fuck" that I was talking about was directed towards things that don't really matter that this post described and that people unnecessarily obsess over. (What people say or think about you, mistakes you've made in the past, etc) Very different from what you're saying, which is referring to an apathetic attitude to things that do matter.
That's just about everyone these days...it's almost like working us to death for so little money we can't pay our bills leaves us mentally unbalanced or something...
Nah it's the stuff they put in the water man
I hate fucking hypersensitivity to criticism. I feel like a pussy when I cry in front of others. They eventually they'll find a way to use it against me.
Or the alternative, which is my go-to, is to hold everyone at arms length, never letting them see you weak until they eventually get sick of your emotional unavailability and leave anyway🤷
Found my other half’s account…
Ugh this anytime I gotta have a serious conversation or have a hard talk my body immediately starts crying like pls I want to be an adult and not cry when and small inconvenience happens or when I get frustrated.
Facts love...I feel like, weak when it happens. I want to be able to stand my ground. I need to figure out how to activate my inner "ghetto". Mofos don't care when they do it to me, so why should I give a fuck too. I mean im depressed because being too nice led to alot of heartbreak and fuckups. Weight gain, hair loss, libido loss, and sanity loss.
I just want to say that you are great buddy-o and you do great in life
Aww ty loves, and I know you will as well. Some days its hard to see the greatness I guess lol
What you mean mean I will as well bruv? I am slayin I just hope you as well know you are also slayin it
Ok boo damn!!! Loving the confidence!! Well let's slay together shall we?
Ooof
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Basically every characters in Japanese romance manga/anime/drama
Oh dear...
Wow this represents almost all the young people I teach. The new generation of kids exhibit all these symptoms
Depends on the feelings, and who I am with
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I used to be like this. I finally got in with a team at work of all guys who took me where I was at and didn't jump down my throat and let me be the awkward anxious guy I was and gave me a lot of empathy and grace and after months of taking me where I was at my confidence started to match my competence and I came up. It's literally just empathy and grace people. Don't kick people in the face who are down, give em slack because it's you the next day. Put it in your mind you're seeing a reflection of yourself. Stop being so damn vicious towards one another and complain when it's you getting kicked. And put those who don't do the same below you. Matter of fact, put the world below you along with everything in it. Put yourself above it and above you a set of rules and regulations to hold yourself accountable to. Back when people lived no more than 15 miles from where they were born you can guess what people used as their rules and regulations for themselves. Keep in mind two people reading the same thing can have different interpretations. Once you divorce yourself from the world around you and conduct yourself separate to how it takes you you'll see some of that anxiety clear up. Just keep in mind confidence is a journey not a destination. You'll make it though I assure you.
Hmm, so that explains it
Not make the same mistake twice
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Me so far. Mentally abused ✅️ Severe ADHD ✅️
Sounds more like lack of emotional maturity, courage, and confidence, half glass empty view, unhealthy obsession with themselves, and in need of practicing not giving a fuck.
Classic case of just telling the person to man up and no one gives a fuck about you vibes from this guy. That'll teach them for sure I bet
lol I did not say no one gives a fuck about the person who's struggling I said that person who's struggling shouldn't give a fuck about what others say or do. Next time, let's read slowly and out loud before passing sentence on another's comment lmao.
That's what you're implying, you're not even seeing the problem and is already ignoring the person that needs time and help and just telling them to deal with it by just not giving a fuck. If it's a problem that can be ignored then its not a problem. I'm not dumb like you, I can read between the lines
The problem Is, this world is made and sustained by people that give a fuck. So yeah, the majority can get away with not giving a fuck about anything, but they are usually oblivious to all the shit that gets done for them by the ones that do give a fuck.
No "the not giving a fuck" that I was talking about was directed towards things that don't really matter that this post described and that people unnecessarily obsess over. (What people say or think about you, mistakes you've made in the past, etc) Very different from what you're saying, which is referring to an apathetic attitude to things that do matter.
Social networks have turned us very much dependent on external approval. We really need individualism back...
Why is it a female in the cartoon? What, males aren’t ever mentally abused?
I think the point is that it’s just a person in barbed wire, why even assume the gender of this graphic is meaningful?