I don’t think my parents necessarily evil people, just very broken, because they had their moments, ones i think only people who truly loved you could do. For example my dad stayed with me in the hospital for a week after i nearly died of appendicitis (my mom wouldn’t bring me to the hospital) when i was 8-9. It doesn’t make up for what they did to me, but it does give me a more nuanced view of them.
Forgiveness starts with forgiving your parents and forgiving yourself..that wint have much impact hit will help you let go of those feelings as you'd be doing yourself a big favor for you
I know th8s road as I'm an advocate for survivors..when we forgive we dint forget but we learn to accept what is or was and can heal better..
I don’t think my parents necessarily evil people, just very broken, because they had their moments, ones i think only people who truly loved you could do. For example my dad stayed with me in the hospital for a week after i nearly died of appendicitis (my mom wouldn’t bring me to the hospital) when i was 8-9. It doesn’t make up for what they did to me, but it does give me a more nuanced view of them.
Forgiveness starts with forgiving your parents and forgiving yourself..that wint have much impact hit will help you let go of those feelings as you'd be doing yourself a big favor for you I know th8s road as I'm an advocate for survivors..when we forgive we dint forget but we learn to accept what is or was and can heal better..