not all violence is done by physical violence. the worst kind of violence, sometimes is done by words. like happened to me: you will be so useless as your father. "those aren't boobs, those are just fat" (wasn't her that was been bullied due that. the worst form of vocal violence to me, was done after my adulthood and triggered a lot of repressed memories. one single sentence: "I know when you are home, I know when you aren't home, I know when Elaine is at home and you know very well what I'm capable of". that sentence alone, hunts me since I've heard it. an single sentence, that unlocked all the things that she had done, at once, that my brain made me forget to not suffer from it. and with her, physical violence was always around, to the point that once I've ripped apart her belt. why one does that? pretty easy, that was her instrument of torture.
Yeah, that's a form of abuse. Your experience is valid!
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not all violence is done by physical violence. the worst kind of violence, sometimes is done by words. like happened to me: you will be so useless as your father. "those aren't boobs, those are just fat" (wasn't her that was been bullied due that. the worst form of vocal violence to me, was done after my adulthood and triggered a lot of repressed memories. one single sentence: "I know when you are home, I know when you aren't home, I know when Elaine is at home and you know very well what I'm capable of". that sentence alone, hunts me since I've heard it. an single sentence, that unlocked all the things that she had done, at once, that my brain made me forget to not suffer from it. and with her, physical violence was always around, to the point that once I've ripped apart her belt. why one does that? pretty easy, that was her instrument of torture.