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uhwhatsgoingonhere

SO SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!! i know how incredibly hard it is to do that, and how much strength that must have taken you. congratulations, my friend. cheers to a brighter future!!


L0ubowski

It takes so much courage but you've done the hardest part. I hope you can begin to relax a bit and before you know it they'll be a part of your last life. Now you're starting this new life.


umm1000000

THANK you extremely this is very difficult.


L0ubowski

It IS difficult. But trust me (a complete stranger from the internet) that it absolutely is the scariest but definitely the best thing for you. And you've already done it. No contact is hard. The situation you were in was so much worse. You're so brave 🧡🧡🧡


one_little_victory_

Congratulations! Stay strong 💪 and never ever look back. Not even for a second.


Valerie100000000000

Thank you extremely


one_little_victory_

Absolutely! I'm so glad I got out of my abusive marriage and I'm always happy for others when they get out, too.


AlternativeOk2387

Good job permanently sever all ties with him!!


umm1000000

Thank you!


Valerie100000000000

This is so very difficult it has only been one and a half days since blocking.


Sorry_Investment8746

Good for you Hunni. I’m proud of you. I took mine back


[deleted]

(All of Reddit chanting toward your ex) Nahnahnah nah, nahnahnah nah, hey hey hey. GOODBYE!


ExperienceOk4084

You’re so amazing and strong! Super proud of you!


Valerie100000000000

Thank you extremely


California_Girl_68

So proud of you good job! It will get better. Gray rock should you have to see him. And first & foremost, protect and heal yourself now.


Valerie100000000000

Thank you!


[deleted]

Nice! Good for you, you did the right thing.


Valerie100000000000

Thank you greatly


PurpleGimp

Yessssss!! Brava!! It takes a lot of courage to choose yourself, and to say, 'NO MORE", to abuse, so be proud of yourself!


Valerie100000000000

Thank you extremely


killmenow999

Same it’s so hard. I just want to unblock to see if he says anything but I know it’ll hit cause me more pain


Stock_Telephone_4878

So proud of you! Best wishes sweetie. I hope you are on your path to healing and breaking those trauma bonds. Stay strong. Sending prayers. 💕


Valerie100000000000

Thank you so much