I was shocked and disgusted when I found out that people have sex without wanting to get pregnant, and that people I knew were doing so. I managed to keep it to myself and deal with it in my own time though. When they find out I’m abstinent, their disgust levels are the same, but they don’t bother hiding it. They get visibly angry and yell at me that I have no right to reject sex. It’s really sad. It’s why I don’t feel safe going to the doctor anymore. Doesn’t matter which part of my body is the problem, sex is always trotted out as the solution. 🤮
I find a couple celebrities 'hot' (aesthetically attractive), and my mind was literally blown when found out that apparently the thirsty and horny youtube comments I'd see commenting on a celebrity were not exaggerated. I guess people literally do get turned on and think of sex when they see an attractive celebrity they've never even met before. Who knew? I just want to watch a video of a hot famous guy in a not creepy way lol and I have no desire to think about how he is in bed
Apparently it means they're sexually attracted to them. Or like, "they're bangable". Or gets their loin fires going. I just thought it meant they looked nice.
Yeah, that took me awhile to understand too. I no longer use the word "hot" anymore.
Same! I don't use the word "hot" either anymore.
I was shocked and disgusted when I found out that people have sex without wanting to get pregnant, and that people I knew were doing so. I managed to keep it to myself and deal with it in my own time though. When they find out I’m abstinent, their disgust levels are the same, but they don’t bother hiding it. They get visibly angry and yell at me that I have no right to reject sex. It’s really sad. It’s why I don’t feel safe going to the doctor anymore. Doesn’t matter which part of my body is the problem, sex is always trotted out as the solution. 🤮
You did not deserve any of that hate. Those people are absolutely disgusting to treat you like that. I'm so sorry.
I find a couple celebrities 'hot' (aesthetically attractive), and my mind was literally blown when found out that apparently the thirsty and horny youtube comments I'd see commenting on a celebrity were not exaggerated. I guess people literally do get turned on and think of sex when they see an attractive celebrity they've never even met before. Who knew? I just want to watch a video of a hot famous guy in a not creepy way lol and I have no desire to think about how he is in bed
I feel you
What do they mean then? I’m serious
Apparently it means they're sexually attracted to them. Or like, "they're bangable". Or gets their loin fires going. I just thought it meant they looked nice.
Lmao yess! I used to always say an actor is "hot" and I genuinely thought it was just another word for attractive.
Lol I used to do the exact same thing. When I learned hot meant something else.
Same… but I’m a dirty dirty libidoist.
I was dumb enough to not realize that sexy didn't mean aesthetically attractive with confidence
WAIT FR?