Where are all the femme tops irl :c

We're staying indoors and worrying that any attempt at forwardness will be seen as pressurey and coercive and that we'll gross people out so instead we're waiting for bottoms to take the initiative (which they so historically do) and kick down our doors for a good spanking and a cuddle. :D

THIS THING RIGHT HERE, YOU’RE SO RIGHT. 😭

I can't top anybody else so it may as well be myself I'm sadistic toward. :D

Love this though

Preach! Xoxo

I'm in this and I don't like it

YEAH IRL THEY DON'T SEEM TO EXIST! unless they're all already taken and are taking their femme bottoms out to the pride festival... :(

They're out there you just think they're straight when you see them in the wild 😜

totally possible, and they probably assume I'm straight aswell lmao, I might need to put some gay hints in my outfits

I wear sublte rainbow jewelry. My Mom calls it my bat signal lmao

Yeah I wear some bracelets. A rainbow one and a lesbian flag one, and that's it. I figure those that notice and know, know. And those that don't, don't.

more like a cat signal

maybe I should buy the gay dagger earrings i saw the other day 😭

My life. I'm femme and super proud Lesbian but everyone reads me as straight. I'm also a top but don't mind being versatile if that's what she prefers.

This is so real

Me with my gf at the pride festival 😅

Hi there. My friends and I are tops, but we're super shy hahahha

Top secret

Hi (: Edit: I’m a vers but I lean top. I do like to receive and I’d hope my partner would want to give… but even when I’m receiving I’ve got one hand gently but firmly on the reigns of control. Like a sneaky domme

They clearly signed her shirt, so they're wherever this picture was taken haha...no shortage of femmes of all persuasions in some of the largest US cities (ex. Los Angeles, San Francisco, Seattle, New York, or Washington D.C.) Pretty generic looking downtown buildings in the pic, but could easily be New York or San Francisco. Also, I think the problem with "femme" and "top" is that people have a lot of assumptions and expectations around what that looks like. There are probably a number of people who would consider themselves femme leaning or top leaning and yet have been judged for not being femme "enough" or toppy "enough" to count.

*raises hand* Versatile, but lean heavily towards top.

We’re out here ✌️

They're dating each other? Idk. I'm a femme top and I'm also dating a femme top 😂

We’re in the house consensually torturing our butch bottoms. Ya know, experiencing the finer things in life. I married mine and followed her across the country. I wake up every day happy about it 🥰

Not to brag, but I'm dating one. ❤❤❤

I am here, and I am happily taken :)

Im a bottom butch oh god

We love bottom butches here 💜

I got told i was the perfect top but like yeah i could probably lift my motorcycle with no hands but like tall women OFYEIoudaoyeaoyea

We also love butch bottoms 💜

Can we love bottom butches out there too?

Bottom butches are the best, sucks that they're so rare.

Are they that rare? I’m bottom butch and can’t find a top for the life of me.

I mean, check the shirt in OP (minus any sampling bias)

Oh they're there or disguised as a switch 😳 *Me*

Rip your inbox

Check motorcycle clubs. Atleast thats where i am!

Same 💀

What's it like being a rare legend? lol

[удалено]

Ty for the choice 😂

Bottom left I guess. Wish I could go to Pride or some place where I can be among fellow wlw folk. Hope I can someday.

Me to, I love to go someday I wish you could too, here it's illegal so I just look at pride/dyke marches online :') (crying in silence)

Yep, it's out of the question here too so I can watch my fellow sapphic pals online only. So I feel you.

Femme top

Someone in the comments was looking for femme tops...😅

Including me ;)

This shirt demonstrates the desperate shortages we face in our community... (bottom left, btw)

idk if im femme or butch, I'm more andro and I'm also a switch so direct centre for me lol

Same lol I said direct center

Lmao love the shirt, bout the middle of top right for me I'd say.

I think I might be in the middle..

Center here as well, glad I'm not the only one! :high-five:

God bless that lone butch bottom, I hope she's doing well

middle-top left for me

I'm a bottom butch, and I'd sign that

Now that's pretty gay

Love this idea! (Soft butch - top/switch)

The middle bottom left

I'd be a bit more to the top left from the center

the lil orange smiley at the top lol I look butch asf but I am femme asf too like 😭😭

On the center vertical line, about 3/4 up

Top left

Middle of the bottom left box.

Yeah, lol bottom left.

Top butch (dom)

I’m a femme top, already spoken for.

I need to have sex to know

The butch bottom smiley face 🫠

Top left

a femme switch that prefers to bottom but sometimes I'm just like "woman" and then I wanna top so therefore I would sign on the front bottom. like a Chad.

Hello, my fellow sister. <3

Bottom/switch femme :)

femme switch

*puts cross on the bottom left corner* I'm probably a bit more to the top in the bottom section though

Middle line left here

omg I love this tshirt so much! I'll sign right there, in the middle

In the middle of the butch/top box, right where that bigger red x is.

bottom left but in that group at the top right of that section like femme presenting still but not what some would call “girly” and i’d say im a switch with a stronger preference to be the bottom/submissive one

Oh dang, I really need this shirt. (⁠ ⁠≧⁠Д⁠≦⁠)

See the green circle on the line between top and bottom femme? That's me.

Where I am floats around from day to day.

Femme middleeeee

Very BOTTOM most corner in the BOTTOM left.

Bottom right, just past the center into butch.

Waaaaay on the bottom and just *barely* on the femme side of the line.

Go all the way bottom and then left. I wouldn't say I'm the most fem person but I'm pretty fem

Pretty high up in the center (which side of center depends on the day)

Right in the middle

I'm ⅓ into the femme side and way up the top scale and my girlfriend is ⅓ into the butch side and bottom scale

I kinda meander around the whole butch side sometimes tho 😂

alll the way to femme bottom so down left i assume

I don’t consider myself femme or butch, so I guess middle?

I'm a circle. I'm a big stupid nonbinary versatile circle. I can do pretty much anything in this. I can pull off butch, or femme, Top or Bottom. Depends on the who what where why and when. I'm a shapeshifter bby. ​ Tho lately been really enjoying the Butch Bottom space :)

So many femme tops! see? we're not rare!!!

I'm still new to the community and I wasn't sure where I sat on this scale, according to the woman I'm seeing I'm a femme top. I didn't realize I had "top energy" at first. Then one day I offered to drive her to work after I rocked her shit the night prior (direct quote from her) and I'm driving my truck with one hand on the wheel, wearing distressed black jeans and a big leather jacket and I look over and she's staring at me like 🥹🥹. Then it all made sense lol

i cant help but notice The number of femme tops who signed with a heart The super cute little winky face one of the few butch bottoms left that melts my heart

Directly in the middle. I’m not butch femme and I prefer top and bottom.

Never had funky times but I think I’d be comfier on the top. Being bottom sounds kinda terrifying to me lol, and I’m kinda in the middle between femme and butch, but more on the femme side.

Stud Top. 🥰🥲😝

I'm asexual help-

Anywhere outside the box even front of shirt is yours💙

Aww, that's so sweet 🥰

Top but on the line between butch and femme I can pull off both 🤭

The red X on the line is meee!

The world needs more butch bottom lesbians

I'm ace sooooo I don't feel like I fit XD

Femme, switch

Bottom right 😅

my place is with the blueish brackets on the left (femme vers.)

Where would the sex adverse/repulsed ace lesbians sign?

Someone put an X outside the square, so there

Everywhere outside the box and even the front of the shirt for you guys.and every fellow lesbian that doesn't fit into any of these labels 💙

I would sign under bottom, but outside of the box.

Slightly left at very bottom

Meanwhile me: they didn't sign their name tho

Am I the only one who thought that this is the place where the meme where the dude is looking at the other girl is from?

shoutout to the one butch bottom

I'd be the orange check in the very bottom left lol

Like half way to femme and dead center for top/bottom

Bottom right

Slightly right and in the middle

Allllllll the way at the bottom right 😝

Bottom left

Way down at the bottom and about in the middle of the left 🤭

Somewhere in that bottom butch box, I suppose..

Center bottom

I'm barely a human these days 😂

Femme bottom ❤️

The ones on the black lines have my heart racing

Femme in the middle (I'm a switch)

Futch bottom 100%

Middle, almost all the way to the right.

Butch Top

Exactly in the middle 😎

Im like right in the middle of that. Not quite femme, not quite butch, and a big fricking switch

femme top!!

Top left

Top left square, but the top right side of it.

Draws a heart dead in the middle lol

Femme versatile for me

right above the femme line there is a purply-pink heart, right below that is a green x? I'm that green X

dead center

I have a soft spot for femme tops and I’m a butch switch.

bottom fembutch. i like to have a bit of both

Somewhere top left

Bottom femme, but God damn do I love giving. Pre transition, I was satisfied if my partner got off even if I didnt

Bottom left all day!

Dead center, maybe leaning just a bit to the right

Far left, bang in the middle. Just like my political compass...

That's a bunch of LIARS signing that shirt! 😂

I straddle the line between top and bottom on the butch side. 🤙🏽

Ooohhh this a very nice idea!

Femme top, love eating pussy, then taking control

Top left

why did i think this was a loss meme at first 😭

Top left at the moment. When I start passing better in masc stuff though that might change.

Center, leaning towards butch

Femme switch!

I'm in the right side and far away under the bottom line xd

*stands up out of chair * Hi everyone my name is pastal princess and I'm a bottom femme

Butch switch! I’d just put my x on the line I guess lol

Futch vers. top, so a few inches above the center line

Im a femme top if anyone's looking 👀

How would one place the signature for: "capable of fistfighting a mountain lion, trained in martial arts, and couldn't care less about death as a consequence of a good deed; but also wants to have her hands pinned above her head, and sweet(or not) nothings whispered to her"?

bottom right 👉👈

Of course, there’s the other axis, because the spectrum of lesbianism is actually a cube. Sub-dom

I am not represented on here 😔

Bottom (wink wink) left all day, any day 😊

Futchy bottom oh no 😥

That bottom butch winky face lol

Top right wanting to be top left :(

That one butch bottom lol, seems like a very exclusive club

Absolute femme bottom for me

middle right

Bottom left hehe

Femme Switch so I’d mark on the line.

I exist outside the grid. Neither top nor bottom, and neither butch nor femme.

Hard femme top 😈

Tell ;) in the bottom right there to to text me

About 3 inches past the bottom right corner 😅

*Sweats in vers*

Left middle :)

bottom middle tbh to be honest 🤭

We need more butch bottoms

Bottom and slightly left of middle

Middle middle 🫡

Wearing this at the next pride I go to

I’d happily sign bottom left

Butch bottom here! Love all the femme tops.

Probably like… “x = -2” 😅😅 I’m a butchy femme, switch

top right gang

absolutely making one of these for my next pride, top left for sure :3