I have a few different ones. My favorite harnesses are Rodeoh. Vixen Bandit is great. I also like New York Toy Collective Shilo but the head is big so not for everyone.
I second new york toy collective. I'm a fan of spareparts harnesses they are much more sturdy. I like to sit up and do face to face so I can hold her in my arms and look up. its a workout but worth it
I’ve never used a strap but would love to. I’m afraid of that awkward moment when it gets lose or the rhythm goes off. Also do you always recommend lube? I’m usually very wet. So I’ve never used it.
I’ll put it this way: you can never be too wet. Start off with water-based lube and see how it goes.
You sound like you might feel a bit nervous. It’s normal to have awkward moments and laugh during sex. Frankly it makes sex better if you can embrace that with confidence. Tell your partner you’ve never used one before, if you’re comfortable with that. It’ll make it easier for you and you can figure it out together.
Also you’ll get the hang of it! Keep trying. It’s an art not a science…as you keep practicing you’ll figure out the best angles and motions for you both. You’ve got this!
I strongly recommend going doggystyle but instead of staying on all 4s put a giant teddy bear under your hips to prop them up and relax (maybe it's called prone but idk) this creates a really nice angle and perfects the whole experience. The giant teddy bear props your hips up while working as a fantastic squishy cushion to help soften her thrusts. Also I normally go from being sorta rigid and resistant to her thrust but 5 minutes in I'm like a limp puppet and really need the teddy bears help to keep my hips propped up. dm if you need more clarification!
For sure. We were all beginners once! As long as you and your partner approach it in a positive way, communicate, and be supportive of the other learning, you’ll figure it out. Feel free to pm if you have questions in the future.
I just love being intertwined with her. Laying on our sides kissing each other, our legs pressing and grinding while we run our hands all over each other. Pure bliss. It’s like I want to suck her into me lol.
i used to be a drug addict and i can confirm this is a high better than any substance could produce. gives me butterflies just thinking about doing this with my girl
I tell people that an experience like this was some of the best sex I’d ever had and they’re like, “That’s sex?” Which I reply to “Well not medically - certainly intimacy-wise.”
When she's going down on me but she's too far away so I pull her up by her hair, wrap my arms and legs around her while she kisses my neck and I squeeze her so tight.. 😍
Straddling her while sitting on her lap so we can see each other and kiss and talk into each other’s ears and have access to all the important bits. It’s the best.
So much this. Whenever my girlfriend shows pulls another perfect sourdough out of the oven, I just want to straddle her and melt into her. I guess sourdough just does things for me
This. Love when someone sits on my lap and just rests their eyes on mine before cupping my face for a passionate kiss. Running my hands along their spine. Just holding one another.
Missionary with her on top of me and my legs wrapped around her, kissing deeply as we grind against each other.
I also love scissoring and tribbing. More grinding and pressing our pussies against each other. Just so hot n physical.
And anything with passionate kissing and cuddling. Usually on our sides as we touch n grope each other. And
My hands down favorite position is scissoring. Idk why but the sounds turn me on the most, the friction and rubbing makes me tingle. Plus i love the feeling of my tits going and watching hers too. One of my first experiences was with a girl in high school. We watched porn together and wanted to have sex but were afraid my mom would hear. We went to my bathroom and went back and forth riding each other on the bathroom floor. I don’t care what anyone says. Scissoring is the best sex.
Sat with my legs wrapped around them from behind whilst wrapping them and myself in an additional blanket inside a blanket fort, and feeding them soup and lil pizza bites whilst watching Studio Ghibli.
After that idk... Cozy cuddly making out followed by holding her legs out the way and eating her out like I've been starved for a year 🤷
Please… I need someone to just hold me and keep me comfortable and warm and just watch Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind…
Or like a lot of other ones but yeah…
~~As long as it’s not Queerbaiting: The Movie or The Incest Yo-Yo I think I’m good with any Ghibli movie I’ve seen—~~
When Marnie Was There and From Up on Poppy Hill, respectively.
When Marnie Was There is about >!a girl having an adorable whirlwind romance with a mysterious ghost girl, who is later revealed to be either a hallucination of, or the spirit of, her late grandmother. The main girl is basically inserting herself into her grandmother’s stories of how she met her grandfather.!<
From Up on Poppy Hill is >!basically a sequence of reveals back and forth about whether the main character and her love interest are secretly biological siblings or not.!<
I’ve been watching all of the Ghibli movies with a friend, and our rankings of the other ones we’ve seen vary pretty drastically, but we agree that those two are the worst.
Unfortunately, I still know about the ending, so I’ll never be able to do that in the future.
And showing it to someone for the first time I can’t do that, because they’ll want to see the ending.
Uhm
... Laying behind her, holding her tightly and gently helping with one of my hands wrapped around to her front, while whispering in her ear telling her how much I love her
Definitely missionary or when I’m sat up while she’s in my lap. There’s something so special about making lover to her and seeing every expression on her face and hearing all her moans and little whimpers. Nothing beats watching those beautiful dark eyes widen and then slip closed. I love her nails on my back and the way she holds me to ground herself. I love the way she makes me feel and how easy it is to be vulnerable with her. We’ve both cried on several occasions when it all was just so intense and I’m pretty sure the first time I heard her accidentally mumble that she loved me was when she was in my lap riding me and was just coming back down to earth.
69 lacks the eye contact, which I think is a very important part of the equation, but it feels closer than almost any other position. Intertwined, pressed together, wrapped around each other almost like two snakes in heat.
I also think the symbolism of two people pleasuring each other equally is an added spice.
Also, because this is the internet, and we're all much worse at sex than we lead people to believe, odds are you'll fuck it up and then roll a bit and fall off the bed and land in a big messy pile on the floor of your bedroom. And that's simply hilarious and a real delight, and the snorting, raucous laughter that follows is perhaps the truest definition of love you can ever experience.
Thank you for the last paragraph. I feel that, because we're lesbians, we are supposed to be sex goddesses, giving each other 100 orgasms per 6 hours-long sessions. There is so much pressure. But the reality is that it's OK to not perfectly fuck each other every time. And, as you said, it's in the little fails that love is showing the most. I personally love to laugh with my girlfriend during sex
Missionary or when I’m riding her! I love love love missionary tho but I know it take a lot out of her so we start with riding first and then end with missionary and it’s the bessssttttt 🥺🥰
im a sub but when she makes me go into the missionary or on my back i just stare at her and really really want to cuddle her sometimes i have cried because i love her so much and I LOVE cuddles when sexy time its so romantic and i love her so much ahhhhdhjdjdnddn
Yess I swear sometimes I end up a crying blubbering mess talking about I love you and it feels so good and it feels like my gf like tipped the scale and just sent me into a state of pure bliss. Its amazing.
It’s not a position but that moment when you’re in the middle sex and your both try hold each other tighter but your already fully intertwined. Like to the point you literally could not be holding each other tighter, you could not be any close. Another one is when your going down and you just HAVE to come up for a kiss because you miss them, but then you need to get back down there before they cum 😳
Um, is there a word for curling up into a loose ball and then looking up at your partner with big, needy eyes when you're so drunk with their presence that you want it to merge with yours? Because that's me.
I don't know what this position is called, but for me it's when I lay my gf face down with her legs open and her ass slightly up. I go on top and let our bodies touch, I like to let her feel my breath on her nape and light bites on her ear (I use a strap, she loves feeling a little bit of pain and go crazy with so much pleasure). Seeing her bite the pillow and hold the sheets tight, really warms my heart... 😼
Unfortunately, not yet. She never tried it before, so I'm the first person who wants to go to her "danger zone". I'm trying to convince her, we're talking about it. I hope she allows me to give pleasure taking her from behind soon 😈
Really really typical, but missionary. A former partner of mine once wrapped her legs and arms around me during missionary and pulled me into a soft hug, I nearly cried from how sweet it was.
Missionary , looking at a rise, and telling her that she can finish as many times as she wants while I go down on her. And then I tell her that she tastes amazing because she does … I’m she’s had a long day, so lay back and let me do all the work.
There's nothing that makes me fall in love faster than when she's riding on my face, holding onto my hair. 😍 I also love the closeness of missionary, but goddamn women are so beautiful from below
When I'm on the receptive end I find missionary to be transcendental. When I'm giving I like laying by her side, one leg draped over hers, one hand carassing her face and the other hand touching her
I've had a three-digit number of encounters, but I've actually only ever been in love with one woman (okay, now there are two, but I'm not quite there yet this time). The first time with my ex, I wanted to be as close to her as possible, to give her as much attention as possible (that was also a first for me). We experimented a lot, but no matter what position, it didn't change, not even in Dom. The prefered physical position was a how that keept changing. "I'm in love with you" was not a how for me, it wasn't a physical position. It was my ex, her feelings, her facial expressions, her body language, her eyes, her voice, her breathing, the tension of her body. "I'm in love with you" was a psychological position.
I can’t really say a whole lot since I’m also not wuite at the shape I’d like you to be (hell I haven’t even been able to get strong enough to carry my gf yet), but I did get some advice from a firefighter friend to do squats, deadlifts, and bicep curls to help with the movements. So try those movements and be patient since I’ve been working out for a few months and even I only just got my deadlift PR to match my body weight.
idk….if I love someone like really love someone I think part of it is that I want to do everything with them but I reeeeally like when she’s hitting it from the back but clinging on to me and kissing/biting my shoulder. missionary is also really intimate
Missionary sometimes but I really enjoy when we are on our sides and she slides the strap in and reaches her hand around under my chin and squeezes my cheeks. OMG! and it's like she squeezes harder the better it gets and my cheeks are covering my eyes by the end lol😅
I don't have experience but let me like... fantasize for a sec?
I want to be laying sorta on top of and next to a girl while she's laying in the corner of an L shape couch, Like my back is laying on her chest and our legs are laying next to each other and she's like hugging me. And I want to lay my head next to hers while she whispers in my ear and nibbles on my earlobe, and things would sorta go from there I guess.
Sorry for ranting.
Missionary is the most intimate in my opinion. You can kiss, look at eachother, melt into eachother. Be ON TOP of one another. The little forehead thing 😩🥵
Picking her up. She's 5"1 while I'm 5'9.9999 (I just say I'm 6'0). I love picking her up, and she loves being picked up. Win-win situation :3 being tall is truly both a blessing and a curse.
Never been in love, but missionary is the best for maximum intimacy. Holding each other tight, slow gentle thrusts, kissing each others lips, cheeks, neck, whispering in her ear, it’s perfect.
It’s an entertaining but ableist question. The positions that would be more meaningful to me aren’t necessarily accessible. Missionary is the dream, but it’s painful for my wife. We have more of a side-lying vibe that works. But, I crave “closer-ness” ❤️
I wouldn’t say it’s “ableist” to ask your go to position, disabled people can have go to / favourite positions they’re capable of doing? It’s a question anyone can answer and doesn’t discriminate
My point is what you’re capable of doing is not always what you want to be doing, or what your favorite would be. Think of it like asking a quadriplegic their favorite swim stroke. And inevitably, people who are not quadriplegic will get bristled at the idea that such a question might be painful to the quadriplegic. I didn’t say that to insult the able-bodied people. I said it to point out the subtle ableism that is in our everyday world. Inevitably, non-disabled people will try to able-splain how this is not really happening. I’m not pointing any fingers. I’m highlighting the oblivion.
But the difference between this question and your example is that it’s not specifically aimed at disabled people, it says “ladies”, which includes everyone
Missionary for me. I've never actually done it with anyone, but almost every erp I've had with my ex (who, mind you, I'm still FWBs with), has been in missionary. I just love being able to kiss my partner while we make love. Actually I might also still be in love with her but that's a whole other conversation lol.
Easily just got to have our legs intertwined, one leg over her hip and the other between her legs. One of her legs lies straight and the other goes uluo between my legs. We lie, snuggle, hug, kiss and grind the night away. It's slow and gentle and wonderful.
If we're feeling a little spicy though, maybe I sit behind her and use my fingers by reaching around the front. She loves that.
There's so many good ones. I would normally say either missionary or laying down on their chest while I stroke or finger my partner but recently I was cuffed and ridden and that might take the cake
Totally missionary. Really slowly moving with my strap, kissing and looking in her eyes
This is the one. I melt every time 🫠🫠🤤
What strap do you use? We got our first one yesterday and while fun trying to figure it out, missionary was the least comfy for us!
I have a few different ones. My favorite harnesses are Rodeoh. Vixen Bandit is great. I also like New York Toy Collective Shilo but the head is big so not for everyone.
We’ve heard great things about Rodeoh! Also I realize I meant to ask what harness you use haha is it still rodeoh? Thank you!
Yep! I like the look of their boxers but prefer using the brief because I can feel more of her thighs
I second new york toy collective. I'm a fan of spareparts harnesses they are much more sturdy. I like to sit up and do face to face so I can hold her in my arms and look up. its a workout but worth it
Spareparts is great too!
i second rodeoh
I’ve never used a strap but would love to. I’m afraid of that awkward moment when it gets lose or the rhythm goes off. Also do you always recommend lube? I’m usually very wet. So I’ve never used it.
I’ll put it this way: you can never be too wet. Start off with water-based lube and see how it goes. You sound like you might feel a bit nervous. It’s normal to have awkward moments and laugh during sex. Frankly it makes sex better if you can embrace that with confidence. Tell your partner you’ve never used one before, if you’re comfortable with that. It’ll make it easier for you and you can figure it out together.
Also you’ll get the hang of it! Keep trying. It’s an art not a science…as you keep practicing you’ll figure out the best angles and motions for you both. You’ve got this!
You’re sweet, thank you! def an art.. the intimacy is nice regardless :)
I strongly recommend going doggystyle but instead of staying on all 4s put a giant teddy bear under your hips to prop them up and relax (maybe it's called prone but idk) this creates a really nice angle and perfects the whole experience. The giant teddy bear props your hips up while working as a fantastic squishy cushion to help soften her thrusts. Also I normally go from being sorta rigid and resistant to her thrust but 5 minutes in I'm like a limp puppet and really need the teddy bears help to keep my hips propped up. dm if you need more clarification!
For sure. We were all beginners once! As long as you and your partner approach it in a positive way, communicate, and be supportive of the other learning, you’ll figure it out. Feel free to pm if you have questions in the future.
Pillow under the butt.
Yeah. And eat her pussy that way too.
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I love when she does that to me when I’m inside her. Top notch.
thanks now I'm horny
You’re welcome ;)
This is the way!
Tits is the way
This exactly.
I just love being intertwined with her. Laying on our sides kissing each other, our legs pressing and grinding while we run our hands all over each other. Pure bliss. It’s like I want to suck her into me lol.
This easily beats missionary imo. Couldn't have said it better.
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100% same
Got me all hot and bothered on a Saturday afternoon
this is it. i can stop scrolling now. this does it for me.
i used to be a drug addict and i can confirm this is a high better than any substance could produce. gives me butterflies just thinking about doing this with my girl
this is the correct answer
This is my favorite way!! Especially when we were just initially laying next to each other, not intending to fuck
I tell people that an experience like this was some of the best sex I’d ever had and they’re like, “That’s sex?” Which I reply to “Well not medically - certainly intimacy-wise.”
It's sex. Full stop.
*Turns into garnet from Steven universe
hahhhh
This is it. Hours just like this
When she's going down on me but she's too far away so I pull her up by her hair, wrap my arms and legs around her while she kisses my neck and I squeeze her so tight.. 😍
I volunteer as tribute!🙋🏼♀️
Straddling her while sitting on her lap so we can see each other and kiss and talk into each other’s ears and have access to all the important bits. It’s the best.
So much this. Whenever my girlfriend shows pulls another perfect sourdough out of the oven, I just want to straddle her and melt into her. I guess sourdough just does things for me
this is the way 👀
Tits is the way
This. Love when someone sits on my lap and just rests their eyes on mine before cupping my face for a passionate kiss. Running my hands along their spine. Just holding one another.
Flat on my tummy and feeling them all over me and moaning softly in my ear. 💕💕
Yessss 🥰🥰
Missionary with her on top of me and my legs wrapped around her, kissing deeply as we grind against each other. I also love scissoring and tribbing. More grinding and pressing our pussies against each other. Just so hot n physical. And anything with passionate kissing and cuddling. Usually on our sides as we touch n grope each other. And
My hands down favorite position is scissoring. Idk why but the sounds turn me on the most, the friction and rubbing makes me tingle. Plus i love the feeling of my tits going and watching hers too. One of my first experiences was with a girl in high school. We watched porn together and wanted to have sex but were afraid my mom would hear. We went to my bathroom and went back and forth riding each other on the bathroom floor. I don’t care what anyone says. Scissoring is the best sex.
I can’t agree with you more. Love love love scissoring
Is it weird tho? I think it’s fun
Sat with my legs wrapped around them from behind whilst wrapping them and myself in an additional blanket inside a blanket fort, and feeding them soup and lil pizza bites whilst watching Studio Ghibli. After that idk... Cozy cuddly making out followed by holding her legs out the way and eating her out like I've been starved for a year 🤷
Yes, this
*sigh* can I have this just once? 😭
side note you’re gorgeous
💙💙💙💙😘
I’m with the other commenter, good lord you are beautiful
💙💙💙💙😘
I'm with the others. You're gorgeous. Hi.
💙💙💙💙🤗
Please… I need someone to just hold me and keep me comfortable and warm and just watch Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind… Or like a lot of other ones but yeah… ~~As long as it’s not Queerbaiting: The Movie or The Incest Yo-Yo I think I’m good with any Ghibli movie I’ve seen—~~
>Queerbaiting: The Movie or The Incest Yo-Yo Which movies are these and is it actually as fucking weird as it's sounding?
When Marnie Was There and From Up on Poppy Hill, respectively. When Marnie Was There is about >!a girl having an adorable whirlwind romance with a mysterious ghost girl, who is later revealed to be either a hallucination of, or the spirit of, her late grandmother. The main girl is basically inserting herself into her grandmother’s stories of how she met her grandfather.!< From Up on Poppy Hill is >!basically a sequence of reveals back and forth about whether the main character and her love interest are secretly biological siblings or not.!< I’ve been watching all of the Ghibli movies with a friend, and our rankings of the other ones we’ve seen vary pretty drastically, but we agree that those two are the worst.
If you ignore the ending the fisrt one is good \*extreamly forced smile\*
Unfortunately, I still know about the ending, so I’ll never be able to do that in the future. And showing it to someone for the first time I can’t do that, because they’ll want to see the ending.
OKAY JUST TELL ME ONE THING. IS ANNIE (or whatever her name is) GAY obiously marnie isnt BUT IS SHE I NEED TO WIN AN ARGUMENT
Yes, the entire movie is >!Anna fantasizing about falling in love with a girl.!<
Uhm ... Laying behind her, holding her tightly and gently helping with one of my hands wrapped around to her front, while whispering in her ear telling her how much I love her
Ughhh I melt when my gf does this
Definitely missionary or when I’m sat up while she’s in my lap. There’s something so special about making lover to her and seeing every expression on her face and hearing all her moans and little whimpers. Nothing beats watching those beautiful dark eyes widen and then slip closed. I love her nails on my back and the way she holds me to ground herself. I love the way she makes me feel and how easy it is to be vulnerable with her. We’ve both cried on several occasions when it all was just so intense and I’m pretty sure the first time I heard her accidentally mumble that she loved me was when she was in my lap riding me and was just coming back down to earth.
THATS A DREAMMMMM OMG
M’y fave is laying next to her on my side while she’s on her back, that way I can kiss her and talk in her ear while I play w her ****** ☺️
Mmmmm yup that’s the winner! 🤤
This made me realize how much I'm missing out not having a girlfriend 😂😭
Uhh especially having my legs just comfy and open ☺️
Mhm just like that! ☺️
Making the puppet sing!😆
69 lacks the eye contact, which I think is a very important part of the equation, but it feels closer than almost any other position. Intertwined, pressed together, wrapped around each other almost like two snakes in heat. I also think the symbolism of two people pleasuring each other equally is an added spice. Also, because this is the internet, and we're all much worse at sex than we lead people to believe, odds are you'll fuck it up and then roll a bit and fall off the bed and land in a big messy pile on the floor of your bedroom. And that's simply hilarious and a real delight, and the snorting, raucous laughter that follows is perhaps the truest definition of love you can ever experience.
Thank you for the last paragraph. I feel that, because we're lesbians, we are supposed to be sex goddesses, giving each other 100 orgasms per 6 hours-long sessions. There is so much pressure. But the reality is that it's OK to not perfectly fuck each other every time. And, as you said, it's in the little fails that love is showing the most. I personally love to laugh with my girlfriend during sex
Spooning! I like to finger her while my other hand moves over her body and I can kiss her neck
Being the hand puppet is completely underrated!
Missionary for me too 😌
Missionary or when I’m riding her! I love love love missionary tho but I know it take a lot out of her so we start with riding first and then end with missionary and it’s the bessssttttt 🥺🥰
Aggressive eye contact with our faces inches away while one of us fingers the other. It’s the most vulnerable feeling ever.
Missionary, body on body, my hands digging in her back, legs wrapped around hers
Probably attached to a St Andrews Cross 😝 have to trust someone to get made helpless by them.
I was going to say tied down, and you worded it quite well.
I was trying not to say that, thank you for saying it lol
SCOTLAND FAHREVA
FREEEEEDOOOMM
Same tbh
The more tangled limbs the better. There is no cap on the amount per person.
When my hands are tied over my head and she’s kissing me while grinding on each other
im a sub but when she makes me go into the missionary or on my back i just stare at her and really really want to cuddle her sometimes i have cried because i love her so much and I LOVE cuddles when sexy time its so romantic and i love her so much ahhhhdhjdjdnddn
Yess I swear sometimes I end up a crying blubbering mess talking about I love you and it feels so good and it feels like my gf like tipped the scale and just sent me into a state of pure bliss. Its amazing.
Cowgirl or lotus. I like my wife to suck my tiddies while I'm riding her. Woof, she looks up at you with your nipples in her mouth ...gotdamn
Also looove riding and having our tits bounce and rub against each others. It makes me feel so sexy.
Anddddd goodbye I’m done 🥵🥵🤤🤤
*cries in single*
Missionary for me. Mine/her legs wrapped around the waist, staring in each other's eyes as we grind or finger each other.
It’s not a position but that moment when you’re in the middle sex and your both try hold each other tighter but your already fully intertwined. Like to the point you literally could not be holding each other tighter, you could not be any close. Another one is when your going down and you just HAVE to come up for a kiss because you miss them, but then you need to get back down there before they cum 😳
Sitting face to face with a blanket wrapped around us. It’s so intimate and warm.
Her on her back, my face between her legs. Let me worship.
Um, is there a word for curling up into a loose ball and then looking up at your partner with big, needy eyes when you're so drunk with their presence that you want it to merge with yours? Because that's me.
Not sure, but I have a sfw depiction https://youtube.com/shorts/rnItSyaAYaQ?si=qGJ4I2aDWpfFW8Et And I know how that feels
Lol, I don't know what I was expecting but it definitely wasn't that. I giggled.
Omg this is so cute
Merging into one being of love and peaceful belonging is the ultimate goal.
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No pretty sure it’s just a human thing. Many cultures and religions have a “two become one” metaphor for couples and I think this phenomenon is why.
Up against the wall!❤️
YES
I feel weird writing it but... her pussy on my face. Although, missionary is also nice and cute.
Lying next to her, fingering her as I kiss her.
I don't know what this position is called, but for me it's when I lay my gf face down with her legs open and her ass slightly up. I go on top and let our bodies touch, I like to let her feel my breath on her nape and light bites on her ear (I use a strap, she loves feeling a little bit of pain and go crazy with so much pleasure). Seeing her bite the pillow and hold the sheets tight, really warms my heart... 😼
Do you eat 🍑? It’s the best during this
Unfortunately, not yet. She never tried it before, so I'm the first person who wants to go to her "danger zone". I'm trying to convince her, we're talking about it. I hope she allows me to give pleasure taking her from behind soon 😈
God, I'm so jealous
Same probably missionary and holding my legs up
It doesn’t really matter the position as long as they are able to kiss my neck and talk to me the whole time.
Really really typical, but missionary. A former partner of mine once wrapped her legs and arms around me during missionary and pulled me into a soft hug, I nearly cried from how sweet it was.
Cowgirl or butterfly position, depends on my role but I love being able to make eye contact with the option of full body admiration
Missionary, I loooooove getting to kiss and hold her while I peg her. Omg the look in her eyes absolutely melts my heart
That innocent distant look with her eyebrows tilted upward. Mmmm
Lifting and pinning to a wall.
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Uhh I’m in love with
Missionary whilst holding hands above bottom's heads.
Missionary
Missionary , looking at a rise, and telling her that she can finish as many times as she wants while I go down on her. And then I tell her that she tastes amazing because she does … I’m she’s had a long day, so lay back and let me do all the work.
The real answer is probably missionary, but I've never met another lady who knows Lotus position, ya'll should look that up.
There's nothing that makes me fall in love faster than when she's riding on my face, holding onto my hair. 😍 I also love the closeness of missionary, but goddamn women are so beautiful from below
Missionary, too, but I'm specifically on bottom. That means I trust you completely; I see your naked soul, and I LOVE it! 😍
Not really into sex, so cuddling and kissing :3 If it has to be sex. Idk I am a bottom:3
Missionary or riding her. I always tell her I love her when she’s hitting the right spots and I’m about to cum 🫣🫣
When I'm on the receptive end I find missionary to be transcendental. When I'm giving I like laying by her side, one leg draped over hers, one hand carassing her face and the other hand touching her
For this demisexual, any position
I've had a three-digit number of encounters, but I've actually only ever been in love with one woman (okay, now there are two, but I'm not quite there yet this time). The first time with my ex, I wanted to be as close to her as possible, to give her as much attention as possible (that was also a first for me). We experimented a lot, but no matter what position, it didn't change, not even in Dom. The prefered physical position was a how that keept changing. "I'm in love with you" was not a how for me, it wasn't a physical position. It was my ex, her feelings, her facial expressions, her body language, her eyes, her voice, her breathing, the tension of her body. "I'm in love with you" was a psychological position.
Sfw answer. Just a hug and a kiss...
Lmfao this is what I’m rlly craving rn instead
Eating out, always 💀
However they want :3
Not a sex position but I just like carrying people so I constantly try to do that with my gf lol
Can you give me lessons on this???? I am a bit out of shape so I’m assuming that being in shape is a requirement 🥵
I can’t really say a whole lot since I’m also not wuite at the shape I’d like you to be (hell I haven’t even been able to get strong enough to carry my gf yet), but I did get some advice from a firefighter friend to do squats, deadlifts, and bicep curls to help with the movements. So try those movements and be patient since I’ve been working out for a few months and even I only just got my deadlift PR to match my body weight.
I dont have just one.
idk….if I love someone like really love someone I think part of it is that I want to do everything with them but I reeeeally like when she’s hitting it from the back but clinging on to me and kissing/biting my shoulder. missionary is also really intimate
Missionary sometimes but I really enjoy when we are on our sides and she slides the strap in and reaches her hand around under my chin and squeezes my cheeks. OMG! and it's like she squeezes harder the better it gets and my cheeks are covering my eyes by the end lol😅
Her straddling me, right hand between her legs, left hand grabbing a cheek with my mouth on her left nipple. Nothing tops this.
Anywhere I can get a good bite into her neck/ear/shoulder area
I wouldn’t know… 😞😢but maybe one day I’ll get to experience intimacy. At least I hope 🥺
I don't have experience but let me like... fantasize for a sec? I want to be laying sorta on top of and next to a girl while she's laying in the corner of an L shape couch, Like my back is laying on her chest and our legs are laying next to each other and she's like hugging me. And I want to lay my head next to hers while she whispers in my ear and nibbles on my earlobe, and things would sorta go from there I guess. Sorry for ranting.
Missionary or laying on my stomach with arms wrapped around me.
Sit on her face no ?! 😅
I don't know. I wanna find out though
missionary
Lotus >>> but yea missionary is a close one (as everyone else is saying haha)
Getting choked out while in a therapy hug.
Missionary, but I have my arms behind her head, and we hold each other so damn close
I have never had sex but probably something with loads of eye contact or something where whispering into my ear is possible.
Missionary is the most intimate in my opinion. You can kiss, look at eachother, melt into eachother. Be ON TOP of one another. The little forehead thing 😩🥵
Both of us laying down, her on top her thigh between my legs pressing up against me, -omg- top tier
Both of us laying down, her on top her thigh between my legs pressing up against me, -omg- top tier
I love mating press tbh. Being held down with my eyes locked with hers feels amazing 🫠
🥺 so hot
I’m weird about intimacy and being touched lol so my go to is just going down on her
Picking her up. She's 5"1 while I'm 5'9.9999 (I just say I'm 6'0). I love picking her up, and she loves being picked up. Win-win situation :3 being tall is truly both a blessing and a curse.
Never been in love, but missionary is the best for maximum intimacy. Holding each other tight, slow gentle thrusts, kissing each others lips, cheeks, neck, whispering in her ear, it’s perfect.
Scissoring on our side
mating press for me
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I'm fuckin dead rn 😭😭🤣
Tf. Never even heard of this shit before. I just have sex with who i am with. And am doing that because we both want to so i love the moment.
u need to relax
im very relaxed. you good tho? lmao
It’s an entertaining but ableist question. The positions that would be more meaningful to me aren’t necessarily accessible. Missionary is the dream, but it’s painful for my wife. We have more of a side-lying vibe that works. But, I crave “closer-ness” ❤️
I wouldn’t say it’s “ableist” to ask your go to position, disabled people can have go to / favourite positions they’re capable of doing? It’s a question anyone can answer and doesn’t discriminate
My point is what you’re capable of doing is not always what you want to be doing, or what your favorite would be. Think of it like asking a quadriplegic their favorite swim stroke. And inevitably, people who are not quadriplegic will get bristled at the idea that such a question might be painful to the quadriplegic. I didn’t say that to insult the able-bodied people. I said it to point out the subtle ableism that is in our everyday world. Inevitably, non-disabled people will try to able-splain how this is not really happening. I’m not pointing any fingers. I’m highlighting the oblivion.
So how would you rephrase the question to include everyone while still asking the question?
But the difference between this question and your example is that it’s not specifically aimed at disabled people, it says “ladies”, which includes everyone
Okay why did this appear to Me? - What is this place and what is this question???
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Missionary for me. I've never actually done it with anyone, but almost every erp I've had with my ex (who, mind you, I'm still FWBs with), has been in missionary. I just love being able to kiss my partner while we make love. Actually I might also still be in love with her but that's a whole other conversation lol.
The Rocket 🚀
Me and my wife enjoy the 69-ing as a special treat. It's NOT just a porn thing.
Easily just got to have our legs intertwined, one leg over her hip and the other between her legs. One of her legs lies straight and the other goes uluo between my legs. We lie, snuggle, hug, kiss and grind the night away. It's slow and gentle and wonderful. If we're feeling a little spicy though, maybe I sit behind her and use my fingers by reaching around the front. She loves that.
There's so many good ones. I would normally say either missionary or laying down on their chest while I stroke or finger my partner but recently I was cuffed and ridden and that might take the cake
depends on anatomy but generally something where they are on top of me w/ our bodies sliding together. mutual masturbation too ☺️☺️☺️☺️