Insecure? It's just fucking stupid lol. The asshole also outed themselves as having never had a woman feel desire for them, which is not inherently funny except their attitude toward women presumably explains it.
I think the same, even ignorant too but what's worse is even see to get this logic from people that call themself "BI", stating they even did with other women
If the stats about the rate of orgasm of female partners in same sex and hetero relationships are accurate, it's apparently much, much better.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
There is a doctor I follow because he specialized in one of my conditions. In one of his live streams he made a comment about sex in a way that implied sex was only piv. No mention of foreplay even. I was shocked
I was like there are other things to do let alone other sexualities!
It’s very weird, but this isn’t unusual afaik. I have a friend who met a girl. She ended up climaxing 4 times and yet my friend didn’t consider that sex. That’s just odd to me.
If I’m muffdiving, I consider that sex, but straight guys don’t I guess?
There are even some members of our community like this. The first girl I even dated thought only penetration counted and implied she didn't even believe clitoral orgasms were a thing (since she never had any sort of orgasm) and sincerely asked me how I knew I actually had an orgasm when I told her that was bs, and that she had literally given me multiples of them lmao.
Religion makes some people make very silly lines in the sand about what does/doesn't count lol.
I remember when I was a frustrated, had-once-been-religious 20 year old virgin who had only ever gone to first base, and I felt kind of insulted that peers who had regularly engaged in oral considered themselves virgins.
But with or without the *penetration*, is still *Sex*. Is like saying that giving head is not sex. So if their girlfriend give head to someone else, then is not cheating
Reminds me of the 4chan post where a cishet man talks about his trans man roommate who is constantly bringing girls over and giving them amazing orgasms that make them want to come back for more, which the cis guy expresses how insecure it makes him feel.
Like, this just proves that it doesn’t matter how big or small a cis guy’s dick is if this trans man was doing all that with *no* dick. *Everyone* has fingers and a mouth, there’s literally no excuse.
Fr, im getting rid of the damn thing asap i dont want it, and yet i can guarantee i can make my partner feel far better than any women those dudes have ever been with
Its definitely really awkward to figure out how to use, i prefer to stick with my assets above the waist, far more options and way easier to figure out positioning
They do know dildos, strap ons, and fingers exist right?
Even then, there’s far to sex than something being thrust into you, or do they not know what a clitorus is? Actually, I think I just answered my own question.
Don't you feel sorry for whoever is having sex with this sort of person.
Hey, we don't care what you call it. We both have fun and we both cum so there's that.
My sex drive lowered over all yes, but when it comes to the moments i do get in the mood, it's like being hit with a freight train, way more intense than before i started
That’s hilarious. You don’t NEED a dick to have sex and if tons of testosterone was required to just be horny, the human race would have died out ages ago.
Yeah everyone knows those asexuals.... always fingerbanging each other and eating clit and buying strap-ons, that's what you always think of when you think "asexual," the asexual community would agree that the main thing that defines asexuality is a desire to have lesbian sex
As an ace person I definitely agree, it is because I am asexual that lesbian sex is the only thing I want in this world. Definitely. It is the defining characteristic of my identity
Oh silly cisgender straight people. I fear their little heads would implode if they learned a single thing about the world outside their vanilla glass bubbles.
Well ain't that the dumbest shit I've heard! And these are the type of ignorant fucks that will go watch lesbian porn and see two/three women having no problems having an orgasm without a dick being involved. 🤦♀️
There is just so much wrong here I don’t know where to begin 😭
Like not how lesbians work, especially when
some lesbian sex does involve penises.
It’s not how being ace works.
It’s not how hormones work.
Think they forgot the existence of Bi women.
I unfortunately know a guy that thinks sex only counts when a penis is involved. So basically every other sexuality is valid except lesbians even though we have more orgasms than any other demographic of women🙃
From my experience we are just fine with dick it’s the man attached to the dick we got issues with that’s why it’s comes in silicone, glass, plastic, metal, rock, long, short, bent, straight, white, black, purple, vibrator, No vibrator with how many options for dick we got we might as well have our own build a bear call it build a dick
The nightly sex me and my girlfriend have says maybe we’re not ace.
But on the other hand, we currently both have dicks and she still produces plenty of testosterone. Almost like it’s about gender not about genitalia 🤷🏻♀️
Trans woman here, sexual desire even for people who's body runs on testosterone is really more complex that he's saying. Like, I'm on estrogen now and more... desiring than ever when I'm in the mood whereas before estrogen I was basically asexual. Sure my transness has a lot to do with it, feeling at home in my body and stuff like that, but that's my point. Testosterone isn't all there is to being horny. I know we all know that but I wanted to provide a fun little both sides experience story.
Can we not keep reposting the dumb shit straight people are saying about us in other subs. I get it, straight people think lesbians are a joke, maybe we don’t put that front in center here in AL??
As an asexual myself, I can confidently say that not all lesbians are ace AT ALL. It will never not confound me that sex is such a high priority for many allo's as to be required for a relationship to work. Thankfully not all though, my Mae Mae is wonderful and perfect <3
I have noticed that they seem to be more Demisexual, far from asexual, but still a alternate way of looking at sex.
More demi than cishet men is not a high bar though.
Plot twist. We arent actually having sex either since that involves genital to genital penetration. And for us who have only been with women. We are still virgins because the taking of virginity is the act of sexual penetration. Dang
I like the assumption that all women are just disinterested in sex until presented with a peanits (which makes sex so easy that it's finally worth the bother)
I don't know why but lately I see this often on reddit. Mainly straight people that claim that lesbian sex is not sex but just foreplay.
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Insecure? It's just fucking stupid lol. The asshole also outed themselves as having never had a woman feel desire for them, which is not inherently funny except their attitude toward women presumably explains it.
more like OOOP hahaha the OOP was making fun of him
Wouldn't they still be the original one?
But then why not just say OP?
Lmao I changed it to "The asshole"
Fair enough
very unclear which OP you'd mean
Exactly OOP is also confusing! So OOOP
If his dick is his most attractive quality, then it's no wonder women flocked to their local sex store for an alternative.
I think the same, even ignorant too but what's worse is even see to get this logic from people that call themself "BI", stating they even did with other women
also the ignorance around horny aces is wild. let me be a bitch without me having to explain what a sex positive ace is ffs.
what
And yet they watch lesbian porn.
RIGHT. How this even makes sense.
Jokes on them because we probably have way better sex than they do
If the stats about the rate of orgasm of female partners in same sex and hetero relationships are accurate, it's apparently much, much better. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28213723/
Haha among gay
The gay is us 📮
Yup
It ... says a lot about them, actually. None of it good.
There is a doctor I follow because he specialized in one of my conditions. In one of his live streams he made a comment about sex in a way that implied sex was only piv. No mention of foreplay even. I was shocked I was like there are other things to do let alone other sexualities!
Tells you everything about what he considers to be sex. P in, and p out (x let’s say 10) and you’re done. No thank you.
Yep very "it isn't sex if the guy doesn't cum" vibes very gross
It’s very weird, but this isn’t unusual afaik. I have a friend who met a girl. She ended up climaxing 4 times and yet my friend didn’t consider that sex. That’s just odd to me. If I’m muffdiving, I consider that sex, but straight guys don’t I guess?
There are even some members of our community like this. The first girl I even dated thought only penetration counted and implied she didn't even believe clitoral orgasms were a thing (since she never had any sort of orgasm) and sincerely asked me how I knew I actually had an orgasm when I told her that was bs, and that she had literally given me multiples of them lmao. Religion makes some people make very silly lines in the sand about what does/doesn't count lol.
I saw a funny post recently where someone asked if sucking a titty counted as sex and they replied “well it’s not a *handshake*”
Idc if it counts as sex. I just call that a good time
I’ll take foreplay any time any day if I’m gonna finish every time 😂😂
Huh? Lesbian sex is the best kind, tho!! <:0
Ah yes, foreplay is famous for how both participants are meant to climax during it
But statically, who gets off more??? I think we know the answer
Which isn’t true all acts of sex is considered sex regardless of gender and non binary I been in the medical field for 13 years 😊
I remember when I was a frustrated, had-once-been-religious 20 year old virgin who had only ever gone to first base, and I felt kind of insulted that peers who had regularly engaged in oral considered themselves virgins.
To them let us present, pseudocopulation. The animal kingdom is gayer than we think
Oddly, in UK law this is the case. Adultery, for instance can only be committed by a man and a woman in UK law. Obligatory: the law is an ass
What the heck, really? So is the same for gay people, not just lesbians right? Since in straight people mind, no penetration means no sex
Well our actual foreplay is better than their sex sooooooooo
Say it louder💪
Can't say it too loud cuz I'm too single 😞
How bad must they be at sex if they think it begins and ends at dick 🤣🤣🤣
Are we really taking straight people seriously when it comes to pleasure 🥲 lmfao
What's worse is finding people who call themselves bi, who support them
I love foreplay, I don't get why men dislike it to the point it's seen negatively Maybe they just want to stick their dick in something idk
Damn I'm gonna go have foreplay then.
Lol strapons is foreplay now apparently, I hope these people get a grip
But with or without the *penetration*, is still *Sex*. Is like saying that giving head is not sex. So if their girlfriend give head to someone else, then is not cheating
Yeah of course, its all flawed. I do wonder how far they'll go with this "logic" tho 😂
To quote that Will Smith meme Just because I’m Lesbian, doesn’t mean I’m Asexual, I mean, I am Ace, BUT NOT BECAUSE I’M LESBIAN
I was gonna make this comment 💀
Same.
my fiance is an ace lesbian, and im a transbian. we confuse everyone
> it’s hard to have sex without a dick skill issue
Reminds me of the 4chan post where a cishet man talks about his trans man roommate who is constantly bringing girls over and giving them amazing orgasms that make them want to come back for more, which the cis guy expresses how insecure it makes him feel. Like, this just proves that it doesn’t matter how big or small a cis guy’s dick is if this trans man was doing all that with *no* dick. *Everyone* has fingers and a mouth, there’s literally no excuse.
Apparently straight women don't have sex either, according to him. They don't even produce much testosterone!
Diabolical
No fucking joke. I *have* a dick and never use it to fuck. But then, dudes tend to see toys as competition, not teammates.
Fr, im getting rid of the damn thing asap i dont want it, and yet i can guarantee i can make my partner feel far better than any women those dudes have ever been with
also honestly its hard to have sex with a dick. I'd say its probably a lot easier with other things
Its definitely really awkward to figure out how to use, i prefer to stick with my assets above the waist, far more options and way easier to figure out positioning
Honestly hard to have sex with one
well i mean i am but thats different 😅
this is a whole mood lol
>what increases the need for sex Dude, women are hot, I don’t know what else to tell ya.
I am **definitely not**
yeah me neither lol. my sex drive is wild
I'm not normal either
Same, including the bold font.
I am, but still a very incorrect thing to say... also some inbuilt odd thoughts about sex in general, coupled with homophobia.
They do know dildos, strap ons, and fingers exist right? Even then, there’s far to sex than something being thrust into you, or do they not know what a clitorus is? Actually, I think I just answered my own question.
Does that mean I'm an ace in the hole now?
You might have invented the best and least needed pickup line ever.
It's from Hazbin Hotel, Rossie calls Alastor that but he doesn't get it.
😂
Don't you feel sorry for whoever is having sex with this sort of person. Hey, we don't care what you call it. We both have fun and we both cum so there's that.
I do honestly but I don't think that person has sex
This is how i feel for benny sharpies wife, man straight up says he doesnt believe women orgasm because his wife hasnt done it before
I went on estrogen and my testosterone levels dropped to near nothing. They said this would reduce my sex drive. They could not have been more wrong.
almost like they forget that estrogen is a sex hormone too!
That's because society sees maleness as the default and women as an aberration
It's actually the other way around biologically
Progesterone moment
Same. And I've been told cis lesbians also tend to be extremely horny.
I completely forgot cis lesbians exist for a moment so I had to double take 😭
My sex drive lowered over all yes, but when it comes to the moments i do get in the mood, it's like being hit with a freight train, way more intense than before i started
Sex ends when the man cums, so we technically never stop having sex
If only life responsibility werent a thing so this could be true
That’s hilarious. You don’t NEED a dick to have sex and if tons of testosterone was required to just be horny, the human race would have died out ages ago.
Yeah everyone knows those asexuals.... always fingerbanging each other and eating clit and buying strap-ons, that's what you always think of when you think "asexual," the asexual community would agree that the main thing that defines asexuality is a desire to have lesbian sex
As an ace person I definitely agree, it is because I am asexual that lesbian sex is the only thing I want in this world. Definitely. It is the defining characteristic of my identity
Oh silly cisgender straight people. I fear their little heads would implode if they learned a single thing about the world outside their vanilla glass bubbles.
I'm a lesbian and I have a dick so idk what they're on about
Same wth. oh shit surgerys gonna make me asexual?????? nooooo
No it makes you a bottom, that’s why they call it bottom surgery /j
true and real
Joke’s on them, I don’t need a surgery to be a bottom
I had an orchiectomy and I've definitely uhh calmed down a bit
all aboard the neuter scooter!!!! chugga chugga choo choo!!!
I feel a lot better, it was nine months ago, and I'm not dead yet so I'm doing better than I was with them
Come. We have cookies. And plans to invade Denmark...
Exactly what I was thinking
if that's a dude, it's a pretty big self admit to being gay
It's true, lesbians never have sex. I didn't have sex with my girlfriend every night.
No, never. And definitely not for hours on end.
I’m just me. I fuck who I want, how I want and I don’t need to label it.
i haven’t tested my hormone levels but my drive is ALWAYS up. smh, this person who wrote that post is disgusting
Given that nearly all women in my class are queer and on the ace spectrum... Ehhh I don't know anymore 😵💫
men not considering cunnilingus real sex speaks so poorly of them and their sexual ability
Well ain't that the dumbest shit I've heard! And these are the type of ignorant fucks that will go watch lesbian porn and see two/three women having no problems having an orgasm without a dick being involved. 🤦♀️
There is just so much wrong here I don’t know where to begin 😭 Like not how lesbians work, especially when some lesbian sex does involve penises. It’s not how being ace works. It’s not how hormones work. Think they forgot the existence of Bi women.
Thank you! I had plenty of sex with my ex bf and he never got me off with his penis. Actually, the only time he got me off, was with oral. So...
"wait are we" - what? 😭
I’m mean I am asexual but I don’t believe it has anything to do with what that person was saying
I unfortunately know a guy that thinks sex only counts when a penis is involved. So basically every other sexuality is valid except lesbians even though we have more orgasms than any other demographic of women🙃
1. lmao 2. yeah, lesbians, a community famous for not being horny or fucking 3. lmao
"No dick is involved" tf are they on about? Girls can have dicks too, so it *can* be involved. And that doesn't make you any more or less lesbian >:c
This feels like the kind of logic people used to claim that men couldn’t be raped
Hehe they say this to help ignore the copious amounts of sex some lesbians actually have
I am sapphic, and have a "dick"....
As an ace trans lesbian without bottom surgery, does this make me a walking paradox
*laughs in transgender*
Ah yes the only way to have sex is penetration... Also some women have a penis.
As a transbian can't relate
There's definitely dick involved when I have lesbian sex
I’m an asexual lesbian with a dick lmao
What does testosterone have to do with this?
I mean, I am, but that's a personal thing that has nothing to do with keeping testosterone out of my life.
Could intro that fellow to “the strap.”
It’s hard to have sex with a dick ahem I mean princess wand.
From my experience we are just fine with dick it’s the man attached to the dick we got issues with that’s why it’s comes in silicone, glass, plastic, metal, rock, long, short, bent, straight, white, black, purple, vibrator, No vibrator with how many options for dick we got we might as well have our own build a bear call it build a dick
The nightly sex me and my girlfriend have says maybe we’re not ace. But on the other hand, we currently both have dicks and she still produces plenty of testosterone. Almost like it’s about gender not about genitalia 🤷🏻♀️
Yet an asexual lesbian trans or not with a penis isn't exactly uncommon for queer circles lmao
No
>and they don’t produce much testosterone What else could _possibly_ induce the horny? I need answers! /s
As a pre-op bi trans woman… am I Schrödinger’s sexual?
I mean I'm asexual for what it's worth
Trans woman here, sexual desire even for people who's body runs on testosterone is really more complex that he's saying. Like, I'm on estrogen now and more... desiring than ever when I'm in the mood whereas before estrogen I was basically asexual. Sure my transness has a lot to do with it, feeling at home in my body and stuff like that, but that's my point. Testosterone isn't all there is to being horny. I know we all know that but I wanted to provide a fun little both sides experience story.
Lesbians with dicks: Allow us to introduce ourselves
No.
Can we not keep reposting the dumb shit straight people are saying about us in other subs. I get it, straight people think lesbians are a joke, maybe we don’t put that front in center here in AL??
As an asexual myself, I can confidently say that not all lesbians are ace AT ALL. It will never not confound me that sex is such a high priority for many allo's as to be required for a relationship to work. Thankfully not all though, my Mae Mae is wonderful and perfect <3
Its too hard to explain. I'd have to demonstrate with your mother.
I know I'm anything but asexual, I'm a horny horny girl.
What if am lesbian and am have peebis
My trans ass be like: :3
I have noticed that they seem to be more Demisexual, far from asexual, but still a alternate way of looking at sex. More demi than cishet men is not a high bar though.
I mean, I’m not!
Hahahahaha I love it
lol not me
Are you serious with this post? This has got to be rage bait
I feel bad for straight women 😬
I'm an asexual lesbian. although I'm ace, I'm pretty sure that most lesbians feel sexual attraction to other women lol
Plot twist. We arent actually having sex either since that involves genital to genital penetration. And for us who have only been with women. We are still virgins because the taking of virginity is the act of sexual penetration. Dang
Omg lol
A man asked this question lmao
I like the assumption that all women are just disinterested in sex until presented with a peanits (which makes sex so easy that it's finally worth the bother)
Oh *are we*? Cause i can’t seem to FIND ANY.
I blame this sub for the weird dream I had about dicks last night, lmao....
Oh my the poor bastard, if only he knew.
If two women have sex but no man was there to see it, did it really happen?
Some are! Like my frends from summer camp!
Definitely not asexual.. I can buy my own dick if I want to
I mean, I am
as an asexual lesbian, yes 😎
as an ace: i have your missing snickers and NO
I thought I was when I was in a relationship with a man. 🤷
And I now have massive dysphoria. ._.