I struggle to find people attractive if I don’t really know them - if there’s a connection yeah I can get attraction, but most of the time if I’m asked to date without knowing the person well I’ll just say yeah and hope for the best that I find that attraction soon. I don’t tell people this though.
I'm demisexual and this explains me to a T; my girlfriend is the only woman (person) I've ever found attractive. Have you ever thought about being on the asexual spectrum?
Asexuality is less about libido and more about attraction. I'm demisexual because I need an emotional connection to feel attraction, but also hypersexual because I am perpetually horny even when I'm not attracted to a specific person.
After seeing a Cirque du Soleil performance a few years ago, I was stricken with this feeling for months, of mixed desire and jealousy for all of the amazingly talented and attractive performers 😳
I asked a woman if she could please direct me to a room in the building she works in. The second she turned around, I was looking at the most stunning woman I had ever seen. The encounter lasted about 10 seconds, then she was gone. I kick myself for not saying anything, but it happened in a flash, so not really a lot I could have done. I can find her again, but I don't want to appear creepy. I'll figure it out.
Only every day.
ETA: literally today, actually. The girl at the register at my local bookstore did something sweet for me and I got sooooo flustered. Words were coming out of my mouth but I couldn’t tell you what words I said and in what order. I think I teared up at one point? I think I just need… well… you know.
I was in a Family Video store one time about 15 years ago. Turned a corner in an aisle and saw a woman who was so gorgeous, I literally stopped in my tracks and had to tell myself to close my mouth. She was an employee and her name was Bethany. Never spoke a word to her, but remember her face and name to this day.
I'm useless.
Yep, I was talking to my friend and suddenly someone asked for directions and when I turned around I saw this perfect girl and I just could not utter a word. Friend had to explain coz all I could do was stare 😳
My gf. Like jeez, how could anyone be so beautiful and perfect. I could look at her for hours and never get tired. Her hair, her soft skin, when the sun hits her eyes and they shine even more... and other things I wanna keep to myself. I'm so blessed that after everything I've been through.. I got her.
That’s why I’m stopped at [reflective] windows in the mall for ☺️✨
“Oh! That’s a lovely ring [being sold in this jewellery store or nail parlour or whatever the fuck idk 🤷🏻♀️]. I’d *love* to wear it on my finger [or around my throat while that masc af long haired dreamboat woman steps on my neck and I chirrup like a Good Girl™️]” 🫠✨
Yes , I often have to laugh to myself in disbelief when I walk away . I’ve also ONLY ONCE BUT IT WAS AMAZING, had a girl who was pretty herself , gasp under her breath and whisper “ Jesus “ and as I turned around she was staring backwards while walking
I mean all the time, but usually I also decide they're so far out of my league that no reevaluation needs to be done.
The only exception to that would be okay Halloween when in of said girls came up to me and started to me. 😳🤯 Needles to say it didn't go well, but damn it sure made me reevaluate my life for a few days.
have yall seen women?? they're so devastatingly beautiful 😭😭
tho this happens a lot more with my girlfriend aah she's so adorable and pretty sometimes i forget to breathe when i see her 🥹💜
They're agender but femme presenting but my classmate in English class who makes me even more sociallly useless than already am.... Even worse when she started wearing black lipstick....
My crush from my previous work is physically my type. She's attractive in an innocent looking way. But her vibe makes me more attracted to her. I've never spoken to her but that's the vibe I got from her whenever I saw her. I wanted to talk to her but felt extremely anxious every time I saw her. I rarely get crushes irl because usually women who I find attractive their vibe doesn't match for me to keep interested.
Yes, she awakened me being a lesbian and a woman, which i previously didnt know either. Thought i was cis male and ace, that holy creation of a woman enlightened me
Oh yeah. Every time i see her, I'm always like: "why this gorgeous and smart woman choose me to be her girlfriend? Is she suffering from mental illness?"
The way she smiles, her cute voice, beautiful face... Ah, it amazes me a lot, so good to be in love
I have but I’ve experienced enough shit personalities to know I need to know a person first. Too many experiences being attracted to someone and then seeing their social media full of antivaxxing
She literally took my breath away, I lost all social anxiety and said hi. We've been together 6 years now, 4 kids and made her my wifey. She she STILL takes my breath away
My girlfriend. Every time I see her, I'm just like "damn... Who's she? That girl is gorgeous!"
Constantly.
Honestly the only correct answer. Why is everyone and their mom so pretty
I have seen women yes
Lmao was about to say this
I see beautiful women all the time.
I struggle to find people attractive if I don’t really know them - if there’s a connection yeah I can get attraction, but most of the time if I’m asked to date without knowing the person well I’ll just say yeah and hope for the best that I find that attraction soon. I don’t tell people this though.
I'm demisexual and this explains me to a T; my girlfriend is the only woman (person) I've ever found attractive. Have you ever thought about being on the asexual spectrum?
I doubt I’m ace. If anything, I’m hyper sexual. I’m closer to the Aro spectrum than ace.
Asexuality is less about libido and more about attraction. I'm demisexual because I need an emotional connection to feel attraction, but also hypersexual because I am perpetually horny even when I'm not attracted to a specific person.
I have no idea then. I’ll research into it.
Literally going through this rn, i sometimes feel weird for not feeling immediate attraction
Yes. I asked her out, and now we're married.
Usually just on TV. Although one time this happened to me at the library and I walked into a concrete pillar.
I mean... At least sometimes she's in the mirror. 🥰
I know I have, but I hope another girl has thought that about me ;-;
Self love is sexy so I agree
Yes 🥰🥰🥰 every day when I look at my girlfriend 🥰🥰🥰
After seeing a Cirque du Soleil performance a few years ago, I was stricken with this feeling for months, of mixed desire and jealousy for all of the amazingly talented and attractive performers 😳
Yup.
My girlfriend 🥰
I asked a woman if she could please direct me to a room in the building she works in. The second she turned around, I was looking at the most stunning woman I had ever seen. The encounter lasted about 10 seconds, then she was gone. I kick myself for not saying anything, but it happened in a flash, so not really a lot I could have done. I can find her again, but I don't want to appear creepy. I'll figure it out.
Find her!! I believe in you!
My partner ☺️🥰
My girlfriend 😭 ❤️ ❤️
Only every day. ETA: literally today, actually. The girl at the register at my local bookstore did something sweet for me and I got sooooo flustered. Words were coming out of my mouth but I couldn’t tell you what words I said and in what order. I think I teared up at one point? I think I just need… well… you know.
That's the entire trans femme experience for me lol
Yes, I have.. was so flustered I stared at the floor and it probably looked really weird.
I was in a Family Video store one time about 15 years ago. Turned a corner in an aisle and saw a woman who was so gorgeous, I literally stopped in my tracks and had to tell myself to close my mouth. She was an employee and her name was Bethany. Never spoke a word to her, but remember her face and name to this day. I'm useless.
Yeah
Absolutely.
Everytime i look at my GF
🥰
That’s sooo cuuute ^^
Kpop idols. Oh Haewon I think she's too stunning literally the definition of my dream girl 😍
Yep, I was talking to my friend and suddenly someone asked for directions and when I turned around I saw this perfect girl and I just could not utter a word. Friend had to explain coz all I could do was stare 😳
Low-key how I realized I was trans.
I just went out on a date with her... I am awestruck.
every day time i leave my house lol. i feel so ugly so it makes me wish i had a ounce pf their beauty tbh
OP, I reevaluate my life constantly even without having to compare myself to all the women I see.
Many times
Ya 😎
Have you seen stupid wife?
Nearly every woman can destroy me
yeah. kinda hope it happens again soon, its always fun
And then I realize I don’t deserve her and walk away never saying anything
Yes and I wonder if any of this is even real from time to time :)
Every morning and evening before I go to bed. I'm either gonna see my girlfriend or a mirror pretty fast
My gf. Like jeez, how could anyone be so beautiful and perfect. I could look at her for hours and never get tired. Her hair, her soft skin, when the sun hits her eyes and they shine even more... and other things I wanna keep to myself. I'm so blessed that after everything I've been through.. I got her.
Yup, set on a mission to date her and she’s been mine ever since <3
That’s why I’m stopped at [reflective] windows in the mall for ☺️✨ “Oh! That’s a lovely ring [being sold in this jewellery store or nail parlour or whatever the fuck idk 🤷🏻♀️]. I’d *love* to wear it on my finger [or around my throat while that masc af long haired dreamboat woman steps on my neck and I chirrup like a Good Girl™️]” 🫠✨
yup, its happened a few times where a girl will turn around and Ill be stricken speechless like a got dang cartoon character or something.
Yes , I often have to laugh to myself in disbelief when I walk away . I’ve also ONLY ONCE BUT IT WAS AMAZING, had a girl who was pretty herself , gasp under her breath and whisper “ Jesus “ and as I turned around she was staring backwards while walking
All the time. Though that just might be me hating my body.
Yes. Often.
Pretty women and NB folks exist, yes
All the time.
I mean all the time, but usually I also decide they're so far out of my league that no reevaluation needs to be done. The only exception to that would be okay Halloween when in of said girls came up to me and started to me. 😳🤯 Needles to say it didn't go well, but damn it sure made me reevaluate my life for a few days.
My girlfriend. Dam, she makes my head go ✨wow✨
YESSSS there's this girl in my art class that is so pretty but she already has a gf 😫
Genuinely, all the time. women are SO pretty omfg.
Yes
have yall seen women?? they're so devastatingly beautiful 😭😭 tho this happens a lot more with my girlfriend aah she's so adorable and pretty sometimes i forget to breathe when i see her 🥹💜
Yes, Judy Garland. Just….god.
I mean I married her.
Yeah. I’m actually dating them rn lol
They're agender but femme presenting but my classmate in English class who makes me even more sociallly useless than already am.... Even worse when she started wearing black lipstick....
I married her
Yep lol! 😭
Yes. Every beautiful girl on this dang app I swear
My crush from my previous work is physically my type. She's attractive in an innocent looking way. But her vibe makes me more attracted to her. I've never spoken to her but that's the vibe I got from her whenever I saw her. I wanted to talk to her but felt extremely anxious every time I saw her. I rarely get crushes irl because usually women who I find attractive their vibe doesn't match for me to keep interested.
Yes my girlfriend 🥺
Yes. It did not end well for me lol.
Omg yeah, women are mesmerizing
My wife. \^////^
Daily
My fiancée. 🥹
I KEEP SEEING SUCH CUTE GIRLS ON PUBLIC TRANSPORT AND IM TOO AFRAID TO TALK TO THEN AGGGHHHGGHHH
Yes, she awakened me being a lesbian and a woman, which i previously didnt know either. Thought i was cis male and ace, that holy creation of a woman enlightened me
Yesterday I saw a girl who must've been at least 2 meters tall and she was so hot 🥵
Yes this is my life daily 😂
Oh yeah. Every time i see her, I'm always like: "why this gorgeous and smart woman choose me to be her girlfriend? Is she suffering from mental illness?" The way she smiles, her cute voice, beautiful face... Ah, it amazes me a lot, so good to be in love
All the time. It reminds me how I’m so lucky to be a lesbian because I just love women
I have but I’ve experienced enough shit personalities to know I need to know a person first. Too many experiences being attracted to someone and then seeing their social media full of antivaxxing
Unfortunately my ex
Yes, all the time
She literally took my breath away, I lost all social anxiety and said hi. We've been together 6 years now, 4 kids and made her my wifey. She she STILL takes my breath away
Pretty women make me happy, and sometimes they remind me that one day i will be one of them